"See that's very mature... I'm not that mature yet." 😂😂😂 aaaah Adrienne!!

My ex gave me a dog as a birthday gift. I won't be giving my dog away. 😆

I dont care if your an Ex or not, If you give me something; IT'S MINE! Not going to give it back Lol.

who ever is adrienne's stylist they do a really good job on her because she always looks nice !

An old "gift" from an ex, I do not mind. An old love letter, I very much mind. Why keep it? To re-read it? Re-feel that love? Nuh-uh.

I just remembered that I have a photo of an ex that I need to tear up to pieces...Thanks for giving me that push Tamar lol

I'm glad Tamar pointed out how hypocritical it is.

In Loni's case, I think that's really sweet. She respects their friendship and is secure in her own relationship to entertain the idea of that photo being on display

I think keeping a gift from an ex is okay as long as it’s still beneficial to you like a phone, clothes, shoes or even a car. Keeping a teddy bear or something intimate is just weird because while you’re holding on to memories, your ex is married and has a family.

I love how Tamar is not being unfair to men. She believes men feels the same as women. She doesn't believe in that double standard. I love her!!!

I think the gift symbolizes the memories that you shared with someone and not necessarliy you still having feelings. I'm a sentimental person so I like to keep things and reflect on good times but I guess everyone sees things differently.

Jeanie looks good

Ohh Jeannie looking all types of HAWT in that red leather jacket and lace floral top! Mmhmm yas Mrs Mai werk!

I’m so happy Adrienne found her perfect mate! Someone who she doesn’t have to suffer over ❤️

okay this time *Loni's* story sounds real !!

I thought Adrienne would bring up the time her ex kept the car she bought for him. Remember that?

Adrienne looking like a gorgeous, classy mom lol. Tamar also looks really good today

Once the relationship is over, it's over! I don't want any memories of you. You will be dead to me!

i think women are naturally more sentimental than men... so, to that end, i think a woman would keep old love letters for sentimental reasons, nice memories being nice, but for a man to keep something like that would seem, to me, more of a love lost situation, like he's still pining for that girl...

" I have never hated a man enough to give him his diamonds back "

hahahaha "That's very mature, im not that mature yet" Jeannie's jacket! yessss

binge watching...

I'm split with this situation. IMO I don't think it is right to keep pictures and letters from your ex. The relationship is over and it is time to move on into bigger and better things. I know if I were to be in a relationship with a guy and I wouldn't feel comfortable if he kept letters and pictures from his ex. To me if you keep pictures and letters from your ex it tells me that you still have feelings for them. If the relationship is over there is no need to keep letters and pictures around that is going to remind you about your pass relationship. If you are in a new relationship you have to focus on that and it should be your priority and not the old relationships. However, if the gifts was something like shoes and clothes than I don't mind if he kept that. But the letters and pictures has got to go.

I dont think theres anything wrong with it, except if it were letters but anything materialistic, i don't mind keeping & i dont mind my man/husband keeping. Especially if it was expensive. You have to be secure in your relationship like Loni said. Because at a point that ex meant a lot to you. Especially if ya'll ended on good terms, its ok!

I have to say Jeanie is Gorgeous!!!

Loni looks really nice today. I had to point that out.

One thing that really shocks my friends (and I'm a female) is my ability to completely move on when a relationship ends. And I found this to be as a result of getting rid of ANYTHING associated with that person. It doesn't mean you hate that person or you guys ended on a bad note. My Exs are actually all good people. But keeping something has a meaning. It would absolutely be unfair to the next person you'll be with to see all the things you've kept from the people you've been with in the past. Tamar is right. You have to think about what you would do if you were in that person's situation and they have memories saved from the past. It's hypocrisy if you want to keep things but you don't want the other person to keep things.

I don't think Tamar is as insecure as she seems. I think in her mind she has to make herself believe that other women would want Vince so she could feel secure.

I agree with Tamar cause keeping gifts from yo ex means that you still have feelings for that person

Don't do what you don't want other's to do to you, in other words if you know for a fact that you would have a problem with your spouse keeping gift's from an EX than you should not keep the gift's either. simple as that !

i miss tamar! the real is not the same without her

The way we saw Adrienne change so much. From Lenny to Isiaah 💖 shes grown alot.

If it's cute little sentimental things like the ones Jeannie mentioned, dance pictures, love letters from your youth or mixtapes, and those relationships ended on a good note, that's fine. I think that's cute and doesn't mean you haven't moved on, but certain stans will most likely make it seem that way in the comments, just because it's Jeannie. However, if it's like an expensive piece of jewellery... nah, not keeping that. That I will give away or sell.

Adrienne's idea wasn't shady it was smart and funny as hell, lol. She gave the necklace to his mom? I think it depends on what you get, if you get something brand new and you know it was just for you then SORRY BOO, THIS IS MY PROPERTY NOW! If he gives you his mother's jewelry or you borrowed something from him, just be respectful and give it back. Or sell it.

i love the orange shirt & beautiful brown hair Ts got goin on. she never gets it wrong! whether shes rockin her beautiful crazy fro or da light blonde/brown hair she always looks classy yet effortless glam. keep it up T 😊

Jeannie looks so pretty.

I think it all depends: keeping love letters and things with strong sentimental value attached to them is one thing; keeping a fly necklace or pair of sneakers or something is entirely different. You can like something that someone gave you without still having feelings for them, but keeping an item that makes you remember how much you loved them Is an issue!

I'd only keep the expensive stuff my ex bought me and Loni's story was really sweet

A few years ago, one of my exes did a portrait painting of me himself for Valentine's Day and I still have it. It's beautiful, I can't get rid of it. It says Happy Vals Day so people keep commenting and asking me who did it. I just say I ordered it myself. I keep gifts, it's no big deal.

Towards the end of my relationship with my ex, my heart just wasn't into it anymore my feelings changed. So when my ex and I broke up I threw away everything he gave me because I didn't want to have anything that reminded me of him. I also cut off all contact from him to make it easier to get over him and our relationship. Side note: Everything Adrienne wears is on point and Tamar looks really nice today! :)

Jeannie: "But what about a really good fly mixtape...?"Tamar : " A WHO??--girl, no. BYE." I am deadddd x_X

Jeanie is the most mature. Its part of her life experience to keep stuff. It doesn't mean there is still a feeling of romance linked to the item. Maturity is key here.

This situation can have 1,000 different scenarios. There's no set rule or standard. But if you should happen to get married. I believe, transparency should be displayed. Honesty is key. Material things diminish. True love never fades.

This one is simple for me.. No and no.. I don't want nothing from you, you shouldn't keep nothing I gave you. And my new man (especially my husband), shouldn't be fighting to keep anything from any of his ex girls. Something about that feels weird to me too.. Men trying to keep gifts?? I feel like, if you are still able to tolerate something that someone you were once with gave to you, you still have a piece of them attached to your heart/soul.. If you want the relationship to truly die, so that you can heal and really let it go, you have to part with anything that had to do with that person-sometimes even music.. Even if you do not move on to someone new, I find as you are growing as a person, some things naturally fade overtime and fall into the background until you just don't want to keep them anymore. When you have truly let that person go (Bitter feelings and all) the item they gave you, expensive or not, just doesn't seem to fit anymore in your life.. I don't care what he wants to do with anything I gave him but, I think that's weird as hell to still keep anything you got from me and try to be moving on with some next girl like you are really over me, because no you are not! I don't care what you say, its true.. That's why its important never to fall in love with material things, because they mean something, even if you want to try to deny it to yourself.. They still mean something..

I'm keeping every gift I got from my ex, I earned all those hunnnney. My husband is free to keep his gifts too, I don't cherish any memory but I deserve the gifts.

I share the same sentiments with Tamar on a lot of things

Aww, Loni's story was really nice!

Jeanie and Adrienne today look flawless!! love their looks

Wait there is a damn double Standard here

A new necklace for Kriss Jenner.

When Adrienne said I’m not that mature yet I felt that 😂

"Im not that mature yet" Lmfaooo😂

I agree with Adrienne on somewhat being aware and wanting to be better than the girlfriend !

Jeannie was killing it with that outfit. YASS Bish Slay!🙌🏽💅🏽

It takes a really secure person to be at peace with your partner keeping things that remind him/her of a past relationship.

bangs on fleek across the board hunty!!!!

Adrienne was like I'm not the mature 😂😂❤

I still had my ex boyfriend valentine's gift I forgot to give it to him, ( it was some Nautica Cologne) so after we broke up, I didn't want to have other girls fall in love with the stuff I gave him, so I decided to make him mad and give it to my friend(she likes men cologne) she said I'm wearing your valentines day gift and he looked so angry 😂😂

Having an ex's love letter to me is literally equivalent to cheating. Like no if's and's or but's about it.

“Im not that mature yet” lmfao 😂😂💀

"I'm not that mature yet" LOLOL!

When Loni said “that’s his favorite picture of you and him” her voice did that rare thing where it was honest

i enjoyed this segment :) nice to hear all kinds of opinions

I'm wayyyy to sentimental to throw away any of that type of stuff. I love looking back at old photos.

That is very mature, I am not that mature yet! I love Adrienne!

Why throw away memories and gifts? It's never that serious people.

Adrienne: ".. to not compete with that ex, but to be aware." Yup. that made sence.

I destroyed everything from all my ex boyfriends. Everything.

Loni now you know ain’t nobody want!!!.......Nevermind😂😂😂

I love Jeannie's outfit here. Werk it girl.

Jeanie looks beautiful today!

I guess it's fine to keep things that were given by your ex, unless he asked those things back. Whether you want to keep or throw those stuff away, it's your own decision. You don't need to make it complicated.

It depends if it is sentimental - I’m not going to keep teddy bears, letters, or photos. But I will 100% keep jewelry or nice clothes.

adrienne such a scorpio woman....she has all the traits

Genie Is Black under all that Asianess lol "A really really fly Mixtape" even Tamar was like Bishhh Wheeet! lol i love them.... -Yes i know i spelled her name wrong

When you r secure in your rship & know u have a good man/woman/partner ur secure enough to know that objects arent or shouldn't b a threat let alone an issue. but if ur goin 2 expect or ask someone 2 rid themselves of any gifts/memories then its only fair u do the same! ppl need 2 stop thinkin dat their partner thinks or feels otherwise. if ur da 1 askin da other 2 get rid of things u shldnt even have 2 b askd 2 do da same, u shld have already been dat u askd in da 1st place.

When Jeannie talked about keeping items from boyfriends in middle or high school, I never had one!

Keep the good gifts and toss the mementos. Lol!

I'm keeping my gifts..to each his own. I can't get my most precious gift back that he has received over and over!!!!!

I love Adriene's look !

Damn so Adrienne always been trying to take the spot light since four years ago

ABSOLUTELY...keep those gifts, especially the good ones and sell the crappy ones.

My Sapphire blue MK watch isn't getting returned. You're Buggin!! Lmao

Anyone notice that since yesterday's episode about them opening up about bullying, Tamar and Jeannie seem to be getting along better? Like at <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="122">2:02</a> Tamar's reassurance, "That's not being shady!" I wouldn't have expected that

I have to say I really like the way Loni wear her colored weave. Because she still looks professional. There is a way to do it.

I Love Jeanie's Jacket and Loni's story!

Yeeeaahh, I'm not that mature either. My husband is NOT going to be having a picture of him and his ex posted up in OUR living room. Uh no.

rotflmbaoooo at Adrienne & Tamar " I'm not that mature yet"..LOLOL!!

Tamera looks so good with bangs!

Hell ya it's okay!!!!! I ain't throwing nothing away.

Really good topic! Personally if it was a nice relationship and it ended in good terms, I don't see why keeping the gifts is a bad thing. But if the relationship ended terribly (example: cheating), and forgetting the person is needed, throwing all the gifts away (or regifting them) is therapeutic. Dissapearing anything that would remind you of the person and cutting communication for good are essential parts of the “moving on" process.

I can't even dare imagine that i will make a serious move to get rid of my ex's pics!!

I believe it’s perfectly okay depending on what it may be

I sort of devalue the memory, like if it was a nice/expensive gift, and say you ask me who it was from or how I got it, I say, "I've long since forgotten." means it was from an ex and I blocked out the memory. I think it's important to keep things, and make History, because as a grandchild, I'm finding out so much about my Grandparents, more and more now that they're long gone. and I like seeing the path they've walked. I want my grand kids to know the path I walked. and teach them to mark their path and even hundreds of years from now they can trace all of this.

I think it really just depends on the person and the situation. For me it's not really a big deal, at one point in your life you shared special times with someone and it's okay to keep things from experiences you've had in your life. Take the good from every experience.

This is my favorite wig on Tamar! Cute.

Haha, Adrien..Said At The End, Thats Mature. Kmsl I'm Not That Mature Yet😂...Bahaha😩😂😂

Tamar's skirt is everything! She looks so cute

I still have love letters from people that I've was getting to know. For me it's a reminder of how they think of me because at times I can be hard in myself. for example; if a love letter says that I am loving, it's a great reminder that a man saw thought of me. but also, when I go back to that box of memories, emotions come in, mainly because they were good times...

I keep everything from when I was younger. Old love letters, pictures, event tickets. I never go through the box tho. I've always gone back and forth on whether to throw them away. The romantic in me... 😛😆