40 year old men in good shape with slight status can still pull 20 year olds

Thank God I decided to date in my 30s. I know age and maturity are not related, but a 30 year old mature person is better than a 20 year old mature person in the sense that the 30 year old has more life experience and knowledge. They also tend to know themselves better and know what they want out of life better than other younger people.

I believe with advancements in anti aging studies and skin care you can maintain your physical appearance into your 40’s with little change if you implement a strict diet and excerise routine.

I'm 33 and I can tell you I become more attractive every day. Key is fitness, lifting weights regularly, having your macros in line, drink water, don't eat processed food, don't drink alcohol (very important), and of course, keep your money and lifestyle on point.

If the conclusion wasn't clear I am saying, yes, men CAN age like wine. But you have to keep putting in effort to level yourself up. You will be much more attractive overall than you were in your 20's. In my own life I have had little issue dating women younger than me and the women who used to turn me down when I was younger are very attracted to me now. I, however, are less interested in them.

I'm 35 and have noticed a significant improvement in various aspects of my life over the past few years. I receive attention, looks, and compliments from women of all ages. However, I find myself less drawn to women in their 20s due to differences in maturity, especially among educated individuals. If you maintain yourself as I do, you may find it easy to attract women in their physical prime for casual encounters. However, if you value intellect, like myself or Lloyd, you might realize that such connections lack depth for long-term relationships. Younger women, particularly in today's dating landscape influenced by social media and apps, may not tolerate shortcomings in looks, money, or status as readily as in the past. Merely achieving financial success won't necessarily compensate for being out of shape, lacking style, or struggling socially. It's unwise to emulate men from certain "circles" who pursue much younger partners. Plenty of women within your age range take care of themselves just as you do. By doing the same, you can age gracefully. However, it's crucial to adjust your expectations as your options naturally evolve with time.

If anything, my goal is to age like fine wine like Chris Hemsworth. Not a superstar, but great and stable career while keeping my fitness and taking care of myself. So far, it’s been going well.

Brotha Lloyd can you drop a vid on your skin care routine ? I don’t ever do that stuff but i see the value in it

Neither men nor women age like wine. We can't just lay around doing nothing and expect to improve automatic.

They CAN, but you have to take care of yourself.

I think we can all agree no one wants an older woman

You look good with a shorter haircut.

yes

benefits about getting older is you can put more time into your physique, which is something you don't really have when you are younger unless you take steroids. Gwily mcpugh is a great example of someone who took care of themselves and DID peak when they was older.

I’m 38 now I will say this women tell me I look more sexier and handsome now than I did in my 20s and I feel more confident in myself and I take care of myself. I especially moisturizing follow a skin routine. And I’ve been sober for the last three years. Younger women or women much older than me tell me I look good for my age.

Any advice for young guys who aren't in college? I'm conflicted because I feel like I should be going due to many people my age (20) are in college but I'm not quite sure If going gets a person paid better in proportion to effort let alone being more hire-able besides in medical How should I go about developing a social circle without school? (bonus points if their my same age). I'm developing skills outside academia but I still don't feel great about not going to school even though it seems like the right choice for me because I feel like I'm slacking off

This video is spot on, i think most men are delusional if they think they just automatically have higher value as you get older. In my opinion if you work hard in your 20s, 30-35 should be your prime because you still look young and you should have money by then. This doesnt mean if you work out you still cant pull 20 year olds well unto your 40s, but it just gets harder and I think you have to be more finanically successful.

Hey Lloyd, I’m 23 yrs old turning 24 this November and I want to maximize dating young girls as much as possible (girls from the ages 18- 20s). As soon as I’m done this engineering degree I’m planning on getting my own place and going out very aggressively. However, I have the thought that when I get older (aka 30s, 40s, etc) what if I’m not interested in dating women that are in that range like you said: late 20s and early 30s? What if I want to continue dating younger girls who are from the age 18 to early 20s? When you mention getting in shape, I have no problems with that: I’ve been hitting the gym since I was 14 and I never plan on stopping. Also in terms of money and status I’m working on that. Any suggestions? Forgot to add: in terms of the status part I wouldn’t exactly know how to work on that because I’m not a famous celebrity like Justin beiber for instance lol

I’ll be 39 soon. The attention I get when I meet women when I go out is easier than when I was 28-29. I don’t have the baby face anymore, and I have more confidence and it becomes easier. Having access to sex is wayyyy easier. I’m currently dating a 28 yr old. Keep in mind I’m still attracted to 30 plus yr old chicks. At 37-45 why would any man be interested in girls in early 20s anyway? They’re too young anyway, they like boys, not men! Don’t chase the super models and you’ll be fine

Isn’t a woman being attracted to you for your resources not the same as a woman desiring you for your looks? It won’t inspire the same lust, no?

Depends. Most men are average or worse, so it's on a case by case basis.

One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel. Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male. Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating. I feel like I can relate to him because I didn't really have a breakthrough or a long-term relationship until my early 30s, I'll forever be sad and depressed and bitter and resentful that I didn't have a long-term relationship in my 20s. Yet people still think men have it better than women do when in fact women have always been and always will be less at risk than men do at being chronically alone or single later than normal like I described. It won't surprise me if you are the type of guy or the type of person who has the mindset that it's better to be a man than it is to be a woman at the end of the day. Overall, I will forever be angry and bitter, resentful, that I didn't have a girlfriend until later than normal. I remember when one person told me that I should just be glad that I was able to get a girlfriend or have a girlfriend now and enjoy the fruits of my labor and that just made me more angry and pissed me off even more it sounds like that person has the mindset or mentality that a guy or a man should still be happy that even if he finally managed to get a girlfriend even in his 50s or 60s or as a senior citizen. Yeah I have the mindset that women are the only gender that are owed a relationship but men are not. It naturally feels like women are owed a relationship but men are not, because when you're on the receiving end of sexual attention it means that you always have options and choices or it just means that you are in abundance by default for simply just existing.

I fumbled the bag and was so close to ever having a girlfriend and now i feel like shit what do i do now?

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I can say with certainty that they do. I turn 40 in a few months and still look like a 24 year old lol It all depends on how you take care of yourself during your 20s, which sadly most guys tend to squander with alcohol or with synthetic protein shakes and steroids. That's why gym freaks in good shape look like shit by the time they hit 30. I've never drunk excessive alcohol, ate clean all my life and kept everything in moderation. If you do this and stay disciplined, you will continue to look great as you age.

You do;)

Not sure I believe this shit , I am more attractive at 29 than I was back at 23.. I look more manly (better muscle size , better beard , better style , yes there is very little wrinkles showing but it makes me look better oddly) if you look worse you are not hitting the gym , you are not doing cardio , you are not on your purpose , you ain't a man.

Also additional information of being broke. Yes we men need tk have stable jobs or being financial stable because these days a lot lf women earn more than men who for example work in construction. I mean really beautiful women who studied and getting good jobs now. You need to match at least match that.

He doesn't understand the saying. It isn't about physical attractiveness.

Your girlfriend seems to think so.......

I'm 42, The older I get the more wisdom I get. Also attracting women is much easier.

That so called expert is wrong. Listen to David Buss for a real expert.

Excuse me sir, something tells me that when it comes to people who are about to die or pass away very soon, meaning when it comes to people who are gonna be in their deathbed very soon, having unbearable regrets while having freedom is a more painful life to live than life in prison, can you please do a video about it?

This video was depressing

It’s all situational

First

I disagree, To some extent wrinkles and grey hair make men look physically better...

I’m 24 and I found myself a gorgeous 28 year old woman. I’ve got my shit all dialed down and she sees that, so do other people 😉 the sooner you get your shit together, the sooner you’ll get to enjoy the fruits of your labor. Like he said: yes you’ll age like fine wine IF you put in the work along the way.

Also additional information of being broke. Yes we men need tk have stable jobs or being financial stable because these days a lot lf women earn more than men who for example work in construction. I mean really beautiful women who studied and getting good jobs now. You need to match at least match that.

Also additional information of being broke. Yes we men need tk have stable jobs or being financial stable because these days a lot lf women earn more than men who for example work in construction. I mean really beautiful women who studied and getting good jobs now. You need to match at least match that.

Also additional information of being broke. Yes we men need tk have stable jobs or being financial stable because these days a lot lf women earn more than men who for example work in construction. I mean really beautiful women who studied and getting good jobs now. You need to match at least match that.