Happy New Year y'all! What would you like to see more of on the channel?

Choose wisely when dating. The wrong choice in women can ruin your life.

I've learned that even if you treat a girl perfectly, she'll still decide to leave you.

This is tough on guys who are just naturally nice.

Dating just feels like a game at this point and honestly I’m tired of playing...

Love is born out of respect, not the other way around.

Because they get bored, lack of excitement, just want a change, she has been hurt in the past, from a broken home. Could really be anything.

Aways said the only person you should fall in love with is YOURSELF!

Anyone who says it’s just your turn is beta , remember it’s just HER turn with you . You are the prize 👍

This man speaks facts but unfortunately with the socially conditioning these days every man need to get dumped at least once to learn this.

Fixing people is the worst thing to fall into. Good advice, be with someone that isn't a mess if they act up, stand up for it.

Doesn't matter she'll still eventually leave regardless of what you do!

I've only loved 2 women in my life so far. And I can confidently say I did my best to make them happy in our relationship. Both lasted for more than 2 years. Both left me. My friends will also say that I'm a good person and that they are lucky to have me. They are just making a mistake and not being contented. So I kept asking myself what is wrong then. And now I know why. This vid almost made me cry. Thank you.

This video is 100% true. Tried to live my life as honest down the straight and narrow as possible. Dated for 8 years. Model boyfriend, everybody told her she's a lucky girl. Left me standing at the altar. Lesson learnt. Respect is the only thing I desire from a woman. I don't expect or need her to love me. I know she's not capable of that.

Go to some of these videos where people surprise their father, husband, wife, grandparent, etc... with a gift they've ALWAYS wanted. What do you usually hear the person say once they see the surprise??? They say, "You didn't have to do this for me!" Or they say, "Why did you do this??" Honestly, when it comes to having something good, many people don't feel they are worthy. This comes from a place of insecurities. People leave good people because they feel they are unworthy. Your goodness to them is a mirror, and it reflects back to them how awful they feel about themselves. So when you love them... They say within themselves, "Why do you treat me this good? I don't deserve you!" When you treat them bad... THEN you are treating them based on how they view themselves. This is why they remain in toxic relationships. It's because they don't feel worthy of Love.

Yepp currently happening to me. Newly divorced. Good points to keep in mind as I move forward in life. Starting with me #1. Building myself up.

I think 'like vs respected' sums it up really well.

This guy's right on point. My 28 year marriage just ended specificly due to me making these mistakes. It all comes down to taking care of yourself,and the rest will take care of itself.

You’re the one channel thats not trying to force their paid course down our throats and actually gives advice the whole video

they find good men boring, easily walkover them

This guy is one of the best dating coatch I've ever seen

Guy here, but I've listened to this with the genders flipped. I was the difficult one in my last relationship. I was never happy. I was always causing trouble because I didn't know how else to be. It's all I knew. And you're right - she lost respect for me. After I did all the great ground work in our early days (eg. not being clingy, desperate, needy, demanding etc), only two years later of her listening to me constantly putting myself down, thinking I wasn't good enough, worrying, hating day-to-day life, allowing social media to poison my mind (and make ridiculous comparisons with people's highlight reels), not investing more in my house and really sticking a stake in the ground, being indecisive of where I wanted to live, getting angry with her when I was drunk (that must have been horrible for her, I was like a ticking time bomb), and other insecurities like "I hadn't slept with enough women" or "I wasted my 20s" and all that garbage (when in fact I lived an enviable life in many ways) the sex stopped. Once a month at best. In no time at all resentment from my side blew up and I was so fed up with her. But I've since learned, and this video has punctuated things, that yes, it's fine to be a bit difficult in the initial chase of a relationship to maintain mystery and increase desire, but once all that's locked in (you're a proper couple, rapport is good, sex is good, you do fun things together and can chill together etc) then TREAT HER WELL. Because that's what she wants. You were her prize but if that prize makes her miserable then she's not going to want to stick around. At 33 and three failed relationships I have finally learned all this. So, while I'm going to dabble with dating apps in this horribly dry spell (sheesh), I am going to work on my career, home and body and make myself the best I can be. And if no one wants me after that? Well, that would be a disaster for me but it would be someone out there's loss. I AM GOING TO SUCCEED AND I AM GOING TO GET WHAT I WANT. *breathes out* That helped to write that out. Today has been tough so far. Edit: And thank you for your advice, Lloyd! Your channel isn't toxic like so many 'male dating advice' channels. Never change that tone.

The simple rule I follow is this: Men want women to be loving and loyal. Women want men to be strong and leaders.

You're right. It's desire. Never let anyone disrespect you no matter what.

Such a powerful and genuine message. THANK YOU!

This is one of the most important videos on this subject out there. Respect vs Love I know better now, but this is how I lost my wife.

So true that you’re not anyone’s ‘fixer’. She has to do that shit herself. If not, WALK! NEVER put the key to your happiness in anyone else’s hands. If she respects you, she will love you. They both go hand in hand. If I had a £1 for every time I heard a girl say ‘I want a man who puts me in my place’, I’d be a very rich man, indeed. Don’t be the nice guy fellas, be the authentic guy.

One of the Most honest video ever !

Just got out of a crazy story that confirms this 100% great advises dude

My friend your words in this video have made my day, its like i just got an epiphany shot right in the arm, i cant tell you how much your words mean, simply "transformative" kind thanks and may god bless you. Keep up the good work. Your new fan. Dan from the UK

That's what I like about this channel. You're not like the red pill guys who openly teach hate on women, but you're still able to teach how to stand your ground. Big respect man, keep those videos up!

Shes never yours, its only your turn 💯

A nice woman is an addition to your life, not a necessity. True happiness & contentment comes internally, no outside source whether it be woman, money, etc can change that. Get to a place mentally where you enjoy your life being alone and you’ll have a much easier time.

"You can be Liked or You can be Respected" Powerful statement bro! #facts

This video is gonna change my life. I'll update you when im all good bro. Thanks for the video.

"I live for myself and I answer to nobody" Steve McQueen

Man I needed to hear that thank you 🐐

Tremendous video my brother!

All this jumping through hoops just to keep a woman’s affection. Logically speaking, why would any man who wants a peace of mind waste his time and sanity dealing with such nonsense?

Been binging these videos, this guy is the man

I understand this was for men, but thank you for saying this. I spent 5 years of my life trying my hardest to help “fix” my ex. All the times I’ve tried to help him find work, to be respectful to his parents, to seek help for his anger rather than destroying everything in the room around him, to settle disagreements with me in a calm manner rather than screaming or cursing me out, I had to realize I couldn’t fix that or keep doing everything for him. We split but talked still, he found a woman and would tell me that he would leave her for me in a heart beat if I would have him back. That pretty much solidified the type of man he was to me and cut off all communication. My mental health is back and I’m now with a man who does not need fixing. So thank you for this peace of mind and advice. My sympathies to all the men in here who went through a relationship having to “fix” anyone.

Wow...I was about to crush your video, I was waiting to hear the same generic moist advice. But you spoke the truth, Thank you for being truthful and helping men..Love it

Thanks man for restoring broken men

Bro...spot on. thank you. needed this.

EXCELLENT ADVICE BROTHER...THANK YOU

Holy cow!! I'm a woman and this just made some things clear to me! 😮 I didn't even know I was doing this 😯😳

This is probably one of the most important videos in this channel

I’m experiencing this right now. This man is speaking facts💯

Here's my interpretation that I've been trying to study lately. You can be a good person but don't be a pushover or a simp, as people call 'em. Like, if you're not happy with anybody (gf, wife, family member, friend, etc.) with something, do something about it and fight for your happiness. Sure, you can be happy making her happy, but keep your happiness in mind and if there's a clash that doesn't make you happy, deal with it in a manner that you can compromise so everybody's happy or if you don't wanna do something, stand up for yourself. Am I right? Any input is appreciated and thank you in advance.

Make yourself happy first great advice

Brilliant! I felt like his mother in the last relationship... I needed him to MAN UP. If I wanted to be with a woman, I'd be gay. I'm not gay. I want a man. I LOVE THIS VIDEO, AND YOUR ADVICE. When I saw his weak side too often, and then he couldn't pull himself out of his own funk, more and more often, and he depended on me to do it for him... for months, I just couldn't sleep with him anymore. It was like that was what he needed to feel good about himself. That didn't work for me. He needed too much from me. It also felt like, if I wasn't enough for him to be happy for, and to want to be a strong person for me, and by that I mean be a strong autonomous person, that he was bringing to the table, then it made me feel unimportant to him. I was ready and willing to live our life. Embrace the good times, and go through the bad ones together, but he just wanted to be mothered. He didn't try to get through the bad times. He used them as a crutch for ME to become the man of our family. That is NOT SEXY. THANK YOU for putting this into words. i needed to understand why my last relationship went wrong.

He’s right, we can’t fix other people. We can only fix ourselves. Stop trying to fix everyone and everything. That part when he said, put your friends, family and your career first then her.

Great video bruh, wish you and all your subs a very happy new year 🎉

Thanks Lloyd. This video is in harmony with what Dr Robert Glover and Dr Aziz Gazipura say in their books about being "too nice".

Real talk - truth bombs!

You never lose when you lead with self respect 👍🏾

I stand my ground and don't let anyone walk all over me!

This happens to good woman too. I just find it sad that being with someone is has become like mind games. I rather be honest and say, "This and that is bothering me". So it can be worked out. Mind games bother me. I never wanna guess what my significant other is feeling or thinking and I myself don't want him to be guessing either. I feel a lot of relationships are lost because of dialog. People always say Respect should be earned, I think Respect should be given until you lose it yourself. A guy who is a nice person should be admired not taken advantage of or taken for granted. However I do believe you shouldn't just be a "YES man to her wants".

This was such a awesome content to cover This totally make Sense passiveness is not what's a girl wants to see how a guy behaves in a relationship.I see this every time where a husband jumps at their wives command or boyfriends

@9:50 wtf was that creepy sound. Almost got scared 😁 Amazing video bro . Keep it up ☮️

Only a fool would sign a contract on a women's crazy emotions

0:25 "They did everything seemingly right in the relationship" People who think they are doing things right, but getting left are clearly doing things wrong... over and over!

So true. Better to be respected than liked. But with your buddies it's better to be liked.

This is aa great person #RESPECT FOR U SIR

We don't need LOVE. We need to been RESPECTED

1000% this. Put yourself first and the rest falls into place. Harsh as that sounds

Dropping some of that Patrice O Neal Black Phillip knowledge 🔥🔥

Bro u nailed it, good video

Great points dude

She thought the grass was greener. Simple

Great vid, thx.

This video id so true thank you, it really helped

well said, great insight hope men learn self love, God Bless

*A1 video bro* 💯💯💯💯🎯 #HappyNewYear fam 💯💯💯💯

Women don't want guys to "do everything right".... You had me worried at the beginning of this video, but yes, this is accurate! We don't want you to 'make us happy'....just be you!

Spitting fire 🔥👌🏽💯

Loved it!

This is one your best videos bro! However a few neurotic or anxious women will still leave despite a successful guy despite him working on his purpose and not being a wimp.

Absolutely spot on 👍

Your are 💯 right. I want to add one more point with my experience when girl get what she want and she done with him everything and there is no such excitement in relationship, she start looking some another place and her desire become increase what she have currently.

sadly i don't have much experience with girls and relationships, but i've seen this stuff a lot of times with my friends. one of them in particular, was always the gentleman with his ex girlfriends. always paying when they went out, always nice, always willing to do what she wanted in order to not piss her off, always giving her priority over everything, the usual stuff. guess what happend with every single one of them. now he always treats his current girlfriend like crap (not in a playful way, he teases her and doesn't openly insult her of course, but he teases her very heavily, something that might look like total disrespect) and she's all over him (although his smv is way higher than hers). another one was similar. always chill, very positive guy that gets everyone in a good mood, but always spending time with her and prioritizing her even when he had other plans with us. she left him, after being together for 12 years and 7 or 8 months after buying a house, for a guy that was reported for stabbing someone. i don't know, maybe i need to internalize female nature more, but i can't not think that women work backwards sometime

This is so true. My husband was more invested in being a nice guy and to be liked so much by everyone that it pissed me off because he "gave" his likeability to everyone......it was a confidence problem. Because I wasn't investing in the nice guy act/lack of confidence any longer things got bad. He also had ridiculous expectations of me. I stopped the whole thing........for myself. We're doing better after 24 years because I won't let him drag me into his stuff.......

amazing video my boyy

liked OR respected, thats good!

Great audio, good points. Once you know a jab is coming, it's easier to dodge it and keep moving forward. Unless she knows that you know, switches to an uppercut and catches you clean on the way down. lol Stay safe, stay single.

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida, best book on this.

You are 100% right!

Fellas just get it, women want what they want when they want it. So if they get Mr. Perfect then they'll need someone who gives them challenge. They will never be happy, it will always be "what you're not doing" ok.

Thanks man you like an elder bro i never had

This is golden advice

Thanks you sir ! My years of confusion

I'm 28 years old and I've never had a serious relationship with a woman. I like being single most of the time because I choose to chase excellence, not women. The truth is that women can not make me happy. I can not feel happy around women; that's the way I am and nothing can change me. I don't understand why men seem enchanted by women.

You are right, I am going through the same situation but not divorced yet now i have taken total 180 degrees, first i implemented no contact and separated my living, Now i have been focused on my Self instead of my freaky Wife. Let's see who get's victory but being as a good man is like a hoar every crossing by makes kick in ass. SHitty life

Simply put: Be a leader, if she starts disrespecting you, keep her in check(non-violently of course), make the majority of decisions, be masculine.

Very well said I spent15 years with my girlfriend. Who has a 28 year old live in Son with Autism Asperger's . I ways tried to please her way way way to much. Very Big Mistake. I had to walk away from her. Never happy hates her job, Failed marriage, Her Son. Her mess of a life. The more you do the less you get. until they force you to leave them. Then you realize you have been dating a Narcissist. Guys need to take care you. Stack your Cash have some FUN Life is very Short. Good Video Good Topic.

What can you do to prevent this from happening in your life? That's easy... STAY SINGLE AND TRUST NO ONE!!!

This was a fantastic video - A good read on this topic, which many by now have heard of, but for those who haven't: "No More Mr. Nice Guy. by Robert Glover". It's a necessary read.

I say I always put myself first... The real problem is the lack of game and being a 40 year old virgin. It's tearing me up inside... Ans "just be a man" is not cutting it.

Dude forget game, you can be a good motivational speaker !

Thank you!