Nick Viall and Natalie Joy: The Value of Therapy

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TW: suicidal ideation, PTSD, sexual assault
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In this episode, the Lautners are joined by #1 podcaster Nick Viall and his fiancée Natalie Joy for an incredibly vulnerable conversation about their relationship and their experience with therapy. First, they discuss their recent visit to NYC, where they recreated their first date, as well as their first impressions of one another and any “red flags" they were cautious of. Natalie, like Tay, works in healthcare (as a surgical technician) and wasn't in the spotlight prior to her relationship with Nick. They discuss the scrutiny that comes from dating someone in the public eye and supporting someone struggling with their mental health. Nick and Natalie also share the value they’ve found in couples therapy to help them stay connected, and Natalie opens up about past traumas resurfacing and her experience with EMDR therapy. Lastly, your hosts ask Nick what it is about his podcast that explains its remarkable success. The Squeeze team would like to sincerely thank Nick and Natalie for being so vulnerable, and we hope Natalie’s story inspires someone out there to reach out for help.
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0:00 Intro
5:44 Trigger Warning: suicidal ideation, PTSD, sexual assault
9:40 Welcome Nick and Natalie
10:05 Citrus Got Real
14:30 Trip to New York to recreate their first date
18:40 Natalie working as a surgical technician: ocular facial plastic surgeon
21:05 First impressions of each other
29:08 Red flags?
32:35 Dating someone in the public eye
36:30 Starting therapy, EMDR, and past traumas
TW: 38 : 30 - 38 : 40 suicidal ideation
TW: 41 : 30 - 42 : 45 PTSD
TW: 43 : 39 - 44 : 55 sexual assault
48:00 Being there for your partner when they’re struggling & couples therapy
53:52 The Viall Viles success
01:02:20 Lemon 11
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@madisonlolololol1082 Жыл бұрын

Natalie was brave enough to tell her story. She is a queen. Helps me feel better about mine. Thanks for this amazing episode.

@bh7904 Жыл бұрын

Heartbroken and filled with rage for all the girls/women that have experienced sexual abuse - I'm so glad Natalie was able to survive and get to this point to share her story of healing 💕

@bfrgjufr Жыл бұрын

It is beyond fucked up what the therapist said to her. My mouth dropped open. Such victim blaming. She did nothing wrong. She was a sweet tiny human and someone took advantage of her

@AllyMack23 11 ай бұрын

I can see a possibility of the therapist maybe trying to gauge if Natalie was blaming herself. But if so, that was not a good way to go about it.

@mistyross1135 Жыл бұрын

So thankful for this podcast! I was having a really rough day with my mental health. Listening to this was encouraging. We are not alone!

@exxymusic Жыл бұрын

So thankful to Natalie for sharing her story! I admire her courage, strength and perseverance. She is unstoppable! Sending her love

@gittyrosenberg8470 Жыл бұрын

I have So much respect for Natalie for sharing her story. She is so incredibly strong and brave. Thank you!! Appreciate this episode so much❤

@hello0040 Жыл бұрын

Natalie, you are fearless. I love that this was your safe place to share a bit of your story. Experiencing trauma can make one feel worthless, and I often find myself still feeling this way. I hope I found better ways to heal.

@Urmomlovesyoutube Жыл бұрын

So heartbreaking. Sending my love to Natalie ❤️

@devanmoran Жыл бұрын

Great interview thank you for this video (:

@Jordan-dq5ee Жыл бұрын

So much respect for Natalie. That little girl in the hearts of so many thank you ❤

@mattjohnson5489 Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry that happened to you Natalie.

@sandramillette2506 8 ай бұрын

Lots of blessings to all of you🙏🏻

@Frogman_237 11 ай бұрын

I’m loving these videos, thank you! So inspirational. Doing vlogs would be awesome. 😊

@LoveLaw Жыл бұрын

I don't really like Nick, but I love this podcast enough to listen. And I respect Natalie being brave enough to share xxx

@jennyelsie Жыл бұрын

I just love Natalie. I want her to be my BFF.

@LifeWithLaurenZ Жыл бұрын

Nick finding it strange she didn’t know he was on the bachelor yet the season he was on she would have only been 14 probably watching Disney channel🥴🥴

@TSCardoz Жыл бұрын

So brave to share her story! I love shows that champion therapy and I absolutely loved this episode! I think if I could teleport anywhere, I'd want to go to the most serenest place ever to just detox for a bit 🥰 I kinda need it rn

@Shayne_T Жыл бұрын

Wow, I just heard Natalie share something so traumatic and sad - that therapist is disgusting! Natalie, you are a Gem of a human.

@megfussell Жыл бұрын

First time listener. Loved this interview!

@erictrombley9088 11 ай бұрын

Watch y’all grow and seeing these people’s stories helps

@SamanthaCorrie18 Жыл бұрын

I've been seeing a trauma counselor, for a year now, that specializes EMDR has changed and saves my life, in a way it helped healed a lot of my past trauma. It is very intensive, but so worth it ❤️

@Lakers121 Жыл бұрын

I wish they would speak up just a little as host I feel like they almost are whispering and talking very slow

@Hannah17711 Жыл бұрын

It’s crazy to witness the stark difference between where his career went and where robert pattinsons went

@LUCKY124584 Жыл бұрын

Lol literally

@christinermtandreikigirl7498 Жыл бұрын

He is happy and fulfilled, that's all that matters.

@redbarnhomestead7384 Жыл бұрын

The Lautners have some of the best podcaster chemistry. It’s like they are actually friends with one another (not just a couple).

@roxymoore5161 Жыл бұрын

So Natalie was DMing with Nick for weeks but didn't know who he was? Edited to be a little more sensitive after listening to more of the episode.

@caitlin_jademay8684 Жыл бұрын

Natalie ❤ Love you girl, you’re amazing

@daisyr6637 Жыл бұрын

Natalie you are brave!

@jakegaming248 Жыл бұрын

I did EMDR…made me worse… but that can happen with complex PTSD…

@aphen3648 Жыл бұрын

I have never been a huge fan of Nick, but this interview shows a softer side of him and I'm here for it. I know he's said some harsh things about people in the past, but this interview seems very 'grown upish' of him. Great interview!!!

@md8388 2 ай бұрын

What harsh things has he said about people?

@aphen3648 2 ай бұрын

@@md8388 hmm maybe you haven't been listening to him long, but he says A LOTTT of harsh things about A LOTTT of people. I think he's been a little better lately though

@BeautyXXBrittany 7 ай бұрын

I LOVE NICK AND NATALIE!!!! I STARTED LISTENING TO NICKS PODCAST FOR AWHILE NOW AND OMG HES SO SMART AND INTELLIGENT WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS AND ALL THAT!!!!! LOGE THIS COUPLE TOGETHER!!!!!!!

@linisin2it Ай бұрын

Have you heard the Dear Shandy podcast. Check out their story. He's not good at it. She is.

@smallyoutuber3420 Жыл бұрын

Tay Lau big fan from india punjab

@kristenbarron1379 Жыл бұрын

I love Natalie so much. But I really wish she would stop going with the “I didn’t know he was on the bachelor” narrative. Us girls do our research, especially with a past like hers and the rest of us, we especially do our research on men we are interested in. It’s no biggy if you find out he’s a public figure or well known, more power to ya!

@endyahhlat4811 Жыл бұрын

I never watched not one episode of the bachelor so I wouldn’t have known either 🫣

@kristenbarron1379 Жыл бұрын

@@endyahhlat4811 same. But you research the guy you’re interested in. Google and Instagram will tell her he was on the bachelor. You don’t have to watch the show to know that lol

@endyahhlat4811 Жыл бұрын

@@kristenbarron1379 that’s true. I definitely would have looked up his social media accounts

@bfrgjufr Жыл бұрын

At what minute does she tell her story

@jessicabianchini7585 Жыл бұрын

@@bfrgjufr minute 42!

@69BethB69 Жыл бұрын

If you know there are people with different stories and different emotions.

@dani2358 Жыл бұрын

Gross Point Blank is a great movie!

@gabrielladasilva6237 Жыл бұрын

Teleport and I was like moon. And Natalie said our first date. Such a sweet soul

@Kim-pk2su Жыл бұрын

I feel so old because they didn’t know Gross Point Blank 😂

@claudiapawlak6894 Жыл бұрын

😊Perfect Joy & Beauty in this everlasting light. The Joy to see you come ! Life that brings you more Joy than pain. A love we share with Joy untold. Hold your babies in your arms and feel their sweet charms. Live each day with Love & Happiness , and to the fullest. The Pocohonis village, appreciate Life! We embraced our Lives to Live.

@isaruiz6173 8 ай бұрын

43:37 wow

@AllyMack23 11 ай бұрын

Wonderful episode but as an EMDR therapist, hearing Natalie misrepresent it was killing me 😩 Could've been worse though

@sabs7824 Жыл бұрын

Unbelievable how did connected nick was to this big 😮first time natalie shared her trama with the world. Nick you need to rewatch this episode and support natalie in ways you clearly were absent from. You thought your guest spot was wonderful??? And look at what was disclosed and topic. Even the hosts were more empathetic...you clearly think everything is all about you. Learn and see how you can be better😮

@sabs7824 Жыл бұрын

Disconnected

@sabs7824 Жыл бұрын

Thank you to hosting and really providing a "safe" space for Natalie. Words are only words without the action. Body language says alot, two people with different body language sure didn't look connected

@kdz6858 Жыл бұрын

OMG...Tay girl..identical symptoms for 3 years..

@runnerX007 Жыл бұрын

so ironic to hear Nick pretend to be an advocate for mental health after totally slamming issues others may have just because he can't relate to their experience

@svenja5596 Жыл бұрын

yeah.. why does this interview feel like a PR move by Nick 😖 I hope he never dismisses his fiancé's mental health like he did the LIB cast's..

@jakestroll6518 Жыл бұрын

The divorced couple who are not even on speaking terms are distorting events because they married for fame and got none. The fact that members of that season are not backing them is telling. They’re building a grifter career as fake activists to get that fame they always wanted.

@svenja5596 Жыл бұрын

@@jakestroll6518 Unless you were in that hotel room in Mexico with them you had a different experience than them even if you were on the same cast 🤷🏼‍♀️there's been multiple reality people who said they won't let you pee whenever you need to, sleep deprive you and encourage you to get drunk every day.. so Nick and Danielle's claims don't seem far fetched unfortunately.

@runnerX007 Жыл бұрын

@@svenja5596 exactly: it’s not about whether we believe various claims or what their motives might have been, it’s the way Nick always casts judgement based on his own experience and refuses to even listen to someone who may have had a different experience-to the point he even judged whether their mental health is important or not! Horrifying coming from someone trying to brand himself in the mental health field.

@sarahkelly3234 Жыл бұрын

This was a lot and i wasn't ready. Why?? 😢