Why No One Is Getting Married Anymore?

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The Young Turks

The Young Turks

9 жыл бұрын

"Marriage rates have fallen dramatically in most major European countries over the past decade, as austerity, generational crisis and apathy towards the institution deter record numbers of young people from tying the knot.
The number of weddings has fallen to historical lows in France and Spain and has tumbled in other Catholic countries such as Italy, Ireland, Poland and Portugal, according to national and European data. But people have also fallen out of love with marriage in countries as varied as Greece, Denmark, Hungary, the Netherlands and Britain. Only in parts of Scandinavia, the Baltic republics and Germany is the institution retaining its allure."
Read more here: www.alternet.org/economy/why-n...
Jimmy Dore, Ana Kasparian, Gina Grad and Cenk Uygur break down this trend. Why do you think marriage rates are dropping? Is the end of religion to blame? Tell us what you think in the comment section below.

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@getrealtv3625
@getrealtv3625 8 жыл бұрын
20 years old and a devout mgtow!! Got a scholarship to and gonna be a doctor. No women's taking half my shit!
@adammalarczyk3737
@adammalarczyk3737 8 жыл бұрын
Make that paper, awww yeah!!!
@dextev
@dextev 8 жыл бұрын
+yusuf farah yes bro ur on the right track
@boygoingmyownway535
@boygoingmyownway535 8 жыл бұрын
Are you in med school now or you're still an undergrad? Also, (if you're an undergrad) what are you majoring in?
@goosequillian
@goosequillian 8 жыл бұрын
+yusuf farah You are only being a loudmouth and will get a plushy wife for yourself. That is what doctors do.
@urbangirlparis
@urbangirlparis 8 жыл бұрын
+yusuf farah but why not get a prenup ?? that's what I don't get , why don't most men make their wife sign a prenup ?
@killacamron93
@killacamron93 8 жыл бұрын
High risk and low reward...
@bostonaccentradio742
@bostonaccentradio742 8 жыл бұрын
+Cameron Bell Amen
@hortn123
@hortn123 8 жыл бұрын
ding ding ding...we have a winner!!!
@killacamron93
@killacamron93 8 жыл бұрын
Its the painful truth that no one is really willing to accept. Everyone rather have flings and then feel like they are entitled to complain about their fbw not wanting a relationship. Heck even with the "Nice guys finish last saying" what self respecting person wants to commit to anybody with a sexually irresponsible past, I'm not saying be a virgin and wait until marriage, I'm saying if you screwed as many people as an NFL roster don't expect this nice sweet person to want to commit because you didn't value anyone out of your sexual pleasure so what's the chances of them being special.
@xyzxxxc5365
@xyzxxxc5365 8 жыл бұрын
+Cameron Bell BULLSHIT ! Im from Poland Don't Want To Marry Sluts...SHOCKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@elenaduran5174
@elenaduran5174 7 жыл бұрын
@ Cameron Bell: the secure kind of guy who doesn't place a value on how many men the woman he is interested in has had a fling with. It takes a strong, secure guy to do that. You are not it.
@jordantiller
@jordantiller 9 жыл бұрын
No one is getting married because of feminism.
@ThePennyPincher
@ThePennyPincher 9 жыл бұрын
***** Don't get married at all, and don't live with a woman. Trust on that! Even living with a woman now is just a goddamn nightmare!
@BlacKXxXHawK1
@BlacKXxXHawK1 9 жыл бұрын
***** and also of the increase divorce rates
@menoftomorrowchannel
@menoftomorrowchannel 9 жыл бұрын
***** No, you get rid of God, and replace it with things like feminist, this is what you get. People didnt want to be controlled by God (Christ), so they rather be controlled by men (women)
@User5973
@User5973 9 жыл бұрын
***** It's a shame I can only give this one thumbs up.
@menoftomorrowchannel
@menoftomorrowchannel 9 жыл бұрын
Nagaserpent Killer You are correct, temples will fall, and churches will no longer exist...God mentioned this in Scriptures. All there will be left is unbelievers, the ungodly...people without love, forgiveness, hate, fear...etc. That must be the world you are looking forward to.
@OrgilB
@OrgilB 8 жыл бұрын
If you have a 60% chance of losing half of what you own, who in the right mind would want to get married? And who knows how many of the remaining 40% are in miserable marriages...
@Mitjitsu
@Mitjitsu 8 жыл бұрын
In a sense being in a "cheaper with her than without her" marriage is worst situation of all to be in.
@boshwaglegit
@boshwaglegit 6 жыл бұрын
Orgil Batzorig bruh its higher then 60 I'd say 90
@solomongrundy1467
@solomongrundy1467 6 жыл бұрын
Orgil Batzorig An additional 15 percent are not happy in their marriages but stay together for financial reasons, children, and peer pressure.
@Lorkisen
@Lorkisen 5 жыл бұрын
Not foolproof. There are restrictions to what you can put in a prenuptial agreement and women can still leverage the children to get concessions.
@toadguy9501
@toadguy9501 5 жыл бұрын
Cheese Cubed a prenup isnt worth the paper its written on, a judge my decide to over ride one just as simply as they please
@joncavanaugh9980
@joncavanaugh9980 7 жыл бұрын
If the airline you booked had a 50% failure rate would you get on that plane?
@JTT1010
@JTT1010 5 жыл бұрын
Jon Cavanaugh so true
@briancalifornia1
@briancalifornia1 4 жыл бұрын
Problem is a lot of men don’t take marriage seriously they don’t see it like that until it hits them
@markevans869
@markevans869 3 жыл бұрын
@Vishwa Vijay Exactly
@pierreseaton2795
@pierreseaton2795 2 жыл бұрын
@Jon Cavanaugh Wow, good point!😐
@The_Ballo
@The_Ballo 8 жыл бұрын
What a bunch of clueless chuckleheads. No mention of the divorce rate. No mention of family courts. No mention of alimony. "I'm in my own little bubble" only nugget of truth spoken.
@petermoygannon698
@petermoygannon698 5 жыл бұрын
yes no mention i wrote read the comments thats where your answer is
@TimBitts649
@TimBitts649 8 жыл бұрын
A better question is, why the hell is anyone getting married any more???
@TimBitts649
@TimBitts649 8 жыл бұрын
Suzy H "Marry in Haste, repent at your leisure"
@rahulpadhi3164
@rahulpadhi3164 9 жыл бұрын
No one said anything about divorce rate and alimony.. IRONIC
@TakashiNippon
@TakashiNippon 4 жыл бұрын
they are liberals and feminist
@BitsofRealPanther
@BitsofRealPanther 3 жыл бұрын
@RAHUL I wasn't surprised at all.
@sumeersamarat706
@sumeersamarat706 2 жыл бұрын
Liberal Feminist
@rakeshgaddala
@rakeshgaddala 2 жыл бұрын
They are already divorced wives
@wiseye61
@wiseye61 9 жыл бұрын
LOL, they think marriage is becoming less popular because weddings are expensive... haha, how delusional can they be?
@candyazz28
@candyazz28 9 жыл бұрын
Yeah because most people in the United States can shell up the average $25,200.00 that weddings cost here in the U.S. at beck and call lol.
@JamesCartermusic
@JamesCartermusic 9 жыл бұрын
Azitock The Gold Hoarder That's one of many reasons, but that is a very common one. It's not delusional at all. That shit isn't cheap unless you just rig something up in your back yard.
@slimjim77M
@slimjim77M 9 жыл бұрын
Ya, I heard Ana say that, and I'm like WTF? Only a woman would say some shit like that. Hasn't she heard of Vegas?
@templar19
@templar19 9 жыл бұрын
"It's estimated the average wedding costs between $25,000 and $30,000." Got that after 10 seconds on Google. Maybe that isn't a lot to you, but for a lot of people in their 20s and 30s, they're gonna be paying that off for years.
@priscillabaden9739
@priscillabaden9739 9 жыл бұрын
Floyd Palmer I'm not sure if this is true but I've heard that those numbers are often misleading because those statistics come from wedding planners. So it's not the cost of an average wedding, it's the cost of an average wedding among people who are wealthy enough to have wedding planners.
@mettalx1
@mettalx1 9 жыл бұрын
What's the incentive to get married at ALL as a man? What the hell are the benefits for us in this mess?
@Skateandcreate9
@Skateandcreate9 9 жыл бұрын
not a DAMN thing! only more problems
@KaiserMattTygore927
@KaiserMattTygore927 9 жыл бұрын
None. it's pointless and should be done away with.
@1norville
@1norville 9 жыл бұрын
I find the marital laws to be disgusting. In today's world no man should be paying alimony! Divorce to a woman should not be like getting a part time income, and furthermore, like hitting the damn lottery!
@UmmHeyish
@UmmHeyish 9 жыл бұрын
Love?
@WhiteBuddha
@WhiteBuddha 9 жыл бұрын
***** MY GOD you sound like a crybaby
@zzodr
@zzodr 8 жыл бұрын
Marriage. Cut out the middle man, just buy a house for someone you hate.
@theultimatereductionist7592
@theultimatereductionist7592 7 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@TheNightmareTroll
@TheNightmareTroll 6 жыл бұрын
Noice
@joeschmoe139
@joeschmoe139 9 жыл бұрын
Every one of the speakers on this show has missed the point. It's not religion, free milk, or living at home. It's because marriage is a shitty deal for men. Most of a whole generation of men have figured this out. They have said "TO HELL WITH MARRIAGE".
@hotice8885
@hotice8885 8 жыл бұрын
Joe Schmoe Every one of the speakers on this show has carefully DODGED and MASKED the point--as so many, have done for so long--and will do so, for as long as they can find a hiding place.
@Zappina
@Zappina 8 жыл бұрын
Isnt women are strong, independant and dont need men for anything? Then why are the whinings about marriage?
@livercat8817
@livercat8817 7 жыл бұрын
Singles used to be the losers but now the married ones are...people have become enlightened
@Thirtiesguy
@Thirtiesguy 8 жыл бұрын
"Wow, he's going to man up and get married" - wouldn't be surprised if she is single with that kind of attitude. MGTOW!
@Thirtiesguy
@Thirtiesguy 8 жыл бұрын
hidden75 True, there are plenty of weak manginas who would feel privileged to marry her.
@hidden75
@hidden75 8 жыл бұрын
Thirtiesguy Absolutely my friend.
@thuggajackson1512
@thuggajackson1512 8 жыл бұрын
+hidden75 Why didn't they announce the truth about divorce being 50/50. plus 70 percent of women file for them. sheesh
@hidden75
@hidden75 8 жыл бұрын
Thirtiesguy Lol. That group took down some of the best MGTOW folks though. Bill Burr? Joe Rogan?
@Thirtiesguy
@Thirtiesguy 8 жыл бұрын
hidden75 Once they get betrayed and take the red pill again they'll be back in the right mindset. I hope.
@im1who84u
@im1who84u 9 жыл бұрын
Once upon a time, a Prince asked a beautiful Princess, "Will you marry me?" The Princess said, "No!!!" And the Prince lived happily ever after and rode motorcycles and dated skinny long-legged full-breasted women and hunted and fished and raced cars and went to naked bars and dated ladies half his age and drank whiskey, beer and Captain Morgan and never heard bitching and never paid child support or alimony and dated cheerleaders and kept his house and ate spam and potato chips and beans and blew enormous farts and never got cheated on while he was at work and all his friends and family thought he was cool as hell and he had tons of money in the bank and left the toilet seat up. The End
@jasondownsnet
@jasondownsnet 9 жыл бұрын
Awesome comment!
@lrzazder
@lrzazder 9 жыл бұрын
From +DanBilzerian 's Facebook 😂
@MrUndersolo
@MrUndersolo 9 жыл бұрын
I had read this before, but I am glad to see this again...!
@im1who84u
@im1who84u 9 жыл бұрын
Kendall Defoe Yea, when I first read it, I liked it so much I saved it and when ever I see a place I want to put it I just copy and paste it now rather then try to remember it and type it all over again. Please feel free to do the same if you like.
@Puzzoozoo
@Puzzoozoo 8 жыл бұрын
im1who84u Epic.
@FluffRecordings
@FluffRecordings 9 жыл бұрын
Reading TYT comments = facepalm. KZfaq's comment system gives a platform to trolling and blatantly offensive points of view as those are the ones that get a rise. TyT top comments: * Reasonable Comment * Troll * Troll * Anti-women feminist bashing * Reasonable response to video * Anti-women fat shaming * Misandrist (possible troll) * Troll
@latricoteuse6282
@latricoteuse6282 9 жыл бұрын
I was with you until you mentioned the misandrist/possible trolls. Please point them out, I'd like to know where they are. Often what you read is defensive comments/replies to *ALL* the other anti-feminists, women bashing comments and trolls. Still, _nowhere_ near in intensity, intent or numbers.
@Plusimurfriend
@Plusimurfriend 9 жыл бұрын
you choose to read to these comments out of your own free will. and if someones point of view is "offensive" to you then that is your problem.
@nwsc948
@nwsc948 9 жыл бұрын
AnAverageMusician Thank google plus. It works that way because the first person to comment (usually a no life racist or sexist idiot) on a video gets the top spot.
@someperson5162
@someperson5162 9 жыл бұрын
doesn't TYT read their own comments!!!
@FluffRecordings
@FluffRecordings 9 жыл бұрын
***** I think I was referring to "Maybe because women are getting smarter & have stopped falling for mens marriage traps. It is all a trap designed by men for men." But my comment was more general. It's across most TYT videos.
@mertz313
@mertz313 9 жыл бұрын
Marriage just doesn't seem to benefit us males. I know I can be loyal to a girl, but since I'm in college, I want to enjoy my life while I can. Maybe in the future I'll marry, but it seems unlikely because I can think of a few ways I'll benefit and a LOT of ways I'll get fucked over.
@frankihatch
@frankihatch 9 жыл бұрын
don't get married its overrated
@yuhboi_ratmann
@yuhboi_ratmann 9 жыл бұрын
If she feels like your other half and you feel like hers, then think twice anyway because you don't wanna get re-married. But on the flip-side, do you want to live alone forever because you're afraid of your decisions? Happy marriages do exist
@RevDooDatt
@RevDooDatt 9 жыл бұрын
David Gardner Not everyone needs an emotional crutch called a wife to get through life ya know.
@kwackfish
@kwackfish 9 жыл бұрын
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@kwackfish
@kwackfish 9 жыл бұрын
John Anderson Overrated and expensive.
@TheACG22
@TheACG22 8 жыл бұрын
3:36 - How is getting married "manning up"?
@roberteugene7295
@roberteugene7295 6 жыл бұрын
Johnny Bravo Sadly, from observing modern couples, this seems to be the case. I honestly feel sorry for young men these days. If I were a young, single man these days, I'd definitely look at all my options (including MGTOW).
@BitsofRealPanther
@BitsofRealPanther 3 жыл бұрын
Austin, it's just another example of their shaming tactics.
@Elbownian
@Elbownian 8 жыл бұрын
Marriage is punishment for shoplifting in some countries.
@DyNomi7e
@DyNomi7e 9 жыл бұрын
Multiple reasons really, i tend to look at from the male perspective. Getting married is pretty much stacked against men unfair child custody laws, only men are paying for support. The bigger reason imo, is feminism, Feminism made it difficult for both men and women to form relationships and with that you got a generation of men and women that are unhappy.
@GutsTheBeast
@GutsTheBeast 9 жыл бұрын
Well it could be that too but where i live it seems like people are just after girls to bang them and that's it . It's insane just how many teenagers think of girls / women like that in my school .
@DyNomi7e
@DyNomi7e 9 жыл бұрын
VenomAwakens!! LOL their teenagers man what do expect, but regardless id perfer to form a long lasting relationship with women because i always loved the idea of having a family.
@GutsTheBeast
@GutsTheBeast 9 жыл бұрын
***** Same here . The funny thing is that my best friend was in a relationship with this girl for some time and then he went to her home where the girl tried to seduce him into "doing it" with her but he refused and the next day the girl broke up with him . Sadly it's all about "fucking" in this generation while long relationships are rare .
@DyNomi7e
@DyNomi7e 9 жыл бұрын
VenomAwakens!! Cant be helped, marriage is a financial liability or way too many risks involved.
@MichaelMurd
@MichaelMurd 9 жыл бұрын
Boom, finally someone got it correct. You have to be crazy to marry a woman and have kids these days, unless you like the idea of being financially fucked and never being able to see your kids if you have any. If you're earning massive amounts of money, have no criminal record and divorce your wife who's an unemployed crack addict with 20 assault charges, they will take everything you own and you'll never see your kids, that's just how it works, thanks to feminists. Then they have the guts to say they're hard done by because they get called a slut and earn slightly less than men, lol. The whole idea of marriage is ridiculous anyway, really, you sign a piece of paper which means NOTHING other than the fact that she/he will take half of everything you own. Marriage is an insecurity, locking someone in because you're too worried or know that you will separate without it.
@KingCamo90
@KingCamo90 9 жыл бұрын
As a young man why would I get married, so I can take care of a grown child called a "Wife" because that's what a "Real Man" would do and lose everything I own, uhhhhhh No I'll pass and I recommend you other men do the same
@auroraionaa
@auroraionaa 9 жыл бұрын
Fuck yea man, no point to get married!
@DireGrave11
@DireGrave11 9 жыл бұрын
Gold diggers the lot of them
@RevDooDatt
@RevDooDatt 9 жыл бұрын
"Bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks." - Dr Dre - Hip Hops First Billionaire.
@camhelmjr6321
@camhelmjr6321 9 жыл бұрын
LOL I like how you put that
@rubylee4704
@rubylee4704 3 жыл бұрын
Lol I’m a girl and I agree, ain’t never gettin’ married
@snailwzwz
@snailwzwz 7 жыл бұрын
60% of young people in Greece are unemployed,that's amazing! WHAT?that's not amazing at all!
@KevinBurciaga
@KevinBurciaga 8 жыл бұрын
Please quit saying "man up." Men aren't getting married because marriage is for suckers and it's a bad deal. Cf. Helen Smith.
@johnfriedgen357
@johnfriedgen357 9 жыл бұрын
I don't really see the point of marriage. You can do everything and live together and have kids and it's literally not a big mess if shit goes bad. Simple as that, it's easier to move in as a couple then get married.
@hallabalooza
@hallabalooza 9 жыл бұрын
The point? How about less taxes?
@Avatarfan10000
@Avatarfan10000 9 жыл бұрын
hallabalooza filling taxes it easier when you have kids. also when your significant other is hurt you can visit them in the hospital and know right away what is wrong. OH and if your in the military you and your spouse can be buried together in the military graveyard.
@hallabalooza
@hallabalooza 9 жыл бұрын
Avatarfan10000 Exactly, I am military myself and the advantages when you're married are through the roof
@trentgein8005
@trentgein8005 9 жыл бұрын
Avatarfan10000 How do you own the word in?
@gla300
@gla300 9 жыл бұрын
But all of your kids will be bastards with their names ending with "Snow" :S ?
@damascusb9835
@damascusb9835 9 жыл бұрын
I'm a millennial.Tried it. She cheated. Got a divorce. Not marrying again. Still paying for it.
@waltermantler370
@waltermantler370 9 жыл бұрын
:(
@ParodyAccount_
@ParodyAccount_ 9 жыл бұрын
If you're serious, then I'm sorry you met that tramp.
@JLAShazam
@JLAShazam 9 жыл бұрын
Fuck dat bitch dawg!
@joyceg7859
@joyceg7859 9 жыл бұрын
That just hurt my stomach I'm so sorry to hear that ! Smh
@frankihatch
@frankihatch 9 жыл бұрын
that sucks
@MrUndersolo
@MrUndersolo 8 жыл бұрын
They should watch that Bill Burr clip on KZfaq (Why do people still get married?): "3 out of 4 marriages fail. If you found out that 3 out of 4 parachutes were going to fail, would you go skydiving?"
@samuelfey4924
@samuelfey4924 8 жыл бұрын
wise words man
@coppersky
@coppersky 7 жыл бұрын
That's old news dude. He ended up getting married
@trayday2720
@trayday2720 4 жыл бұрын
"Man up and get married". She has life twisted.
@MrBumbo90
@MrBumbo90 9 жыл бұрын
It is not because weddings are expensive, it's because divorces are expensive.
@AlohaSnackbar
@AlohaSnackbar 9 жыл бұрын
getting married as a man is like giving a loaded gun to a woman and thinking that she will never use it when things go bad, it is insane.
@ojgoudeau
@ojgoudeau 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks feminists for being so sexually available. No need to get married for that anymore. 😀
@timothygwong3151
@timothygwong3151 6 жыл бұрын
MGTOW
@geraldos9094
@geraldos9094 9 жыл бұрын
Her points: Having a wedding is expensive....I've never met a MAN that wished/dreamed for an elaborate expensive wedding. The institution of marriage is a scam and divorce court should be on the stock exchange....profits galore.
@5bagsofpopcorn
@5bagsofpopcorn 9 жыл бұрын
thats a stupid idea.... the divorce court should be inside a betting office.... that way, divorces actually are fun for other people!
@blacknblue6246
@blacknblue6246 9 жыл бұрын
What did you expect from a Jew?
@cloudcity2012
@cloudcity2012 9 жыл бұрын
BlacknBlue yea
@charlesharris513
@charlesharris513 9 жыл бұрын
I don't care to get married! I got to have my own space!
@__SincerelySandra
@__SincerelySandra 9 жыл бұрын
I concur.
@tmcmurra63
@tmcmurra63 8 жыл бұрын
Marriage heavily favors women. Why in the hell would you work your whole life only to give 1/2 of it to either of these women? Not hardly.
@lokilaevatein9884
@lokilaevatein9884 9 жыл бұрын
Reasons for no Marriage 1. Too much time and money is invested for a one day event 2. Women fear that overbearing and bitchy mother-in law 3. No one, man or woman, wants to be tide down 4. You lose the freedom you've gotten so used to 5. It's another way for the government to control your lives since you apparently need their permission to get married 6. Most marriages end in failure 7. Going through marriage counseling even though it almost always proves pointless 8. Marriage is just a business arrangement 9. The process of divorce is too time consuming so why get married in the first place? 10. No one gives a rat's ass about what society wants anymore
@SUGAR_XYLER
@SUGAR_XYLER 9 жыл бұрын
~ You're the voice of wisdom !! Nothing turns love into hate like marriage !!! //////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////
@suprhomre
@suprhomre 8 жыл бұрын
Why buy the cow when you got the milk, and why invite the pig when you just want a bacon snack for the evening.
@pingpongwigwom4790
@pingpongwigwom4790 8 жыл бұрын
+suprhomre that analogy doesnt work because you have to kill the pig to get bacon.
@suprhomre
@suprhomre 8 жыл бұрын
pingpong wigwom LMFAO.......love your comment.
@SmartK8
@SmartK8 9 жыл бұрын
Because monogamy is unnatural. Only small percentage of people are truly monogamous. Guess who made the unnatural thing a norm. Yep, religion. While they now have the balls to scream that gay marriage is unnatural. There's not end to lies and hypocrisy. Granted most of them just born to this and are ignorant about most of the facts. We just need better laws covering people who have a child and are not living together. Also laws covering polygamous/polyandrous like relationships. If you don't like it. Tough, it's coming in the future near to you.
@xBigForkx
@xBigForkx 9 жыл бұрын
***** No, it's not.
@Rams3040
@Rams3040 9 жыл бұрын
***** There are anti-contraceptives readily available now so,no,it isn't.You can have a polyamorous relationship and still not breed,the number of sexual partners are not a factor
@moben2554
@moben2554 9 жыл бұрын
Monogamy is unnatural? Are you kidding? It may not be needed for civilization but its defiantly natural.
@scienceismyopium
@scienceismyopium 9 жыл бұрын
You're actually both right. SmartK8 Humans are not naturally monogamous but as ***** said, marriage did make civilization what it is (for better or worst). Humans are what we call *socially monogamous*. Historically marriage has always been a contract, an investment between two parties; the women's family 'offered' her servitude, and men provided security both financially and physically. The end game was about raising children; in humans, the paternal investment in raising a child is very important for both the child and the mother. This little arrangement however does not prevent the basic animalistic need of men and women to seek out higher quality mates. When there is no children, men and women are as likely to seek elsewhere, but when children come to the equation, women tend to be more 'faithful' because promiscuity will affect her ability to raise competitive offsprings by loosing the 'daddy' resource. People are actually quite surprised to know that historically, marriage wasn't about monogamy or even love, it was about securing resources. If the female strays elsewhere whilst married, she is assured that her 'daddy' resource is still intact, the same goes for males, they know their offsprings will have a competitive shot at life and reproduce themselves, therefor making his genes 'immortal'. Obviously, things change and evolve but this was pretty much the logic behind social monogamy that we still practice today.
@SmartK8
@SmartK8 9 жыл бұрын
Drake Targaryen Unnatural in a sense of not being evolutionary and historically a default kind of relationship. The most common was living in a structured tribe. Kids were raised by mother first years then by whole tribe (relatives). There were monogamous relations except in few percentages that two people were faithful to each other. Institutionalized monogamy is an artificial construct (but only in some cultures).
@Sam-xg3mr
@Sam-xg3mr 9 жыл бұрын
for me, my parents (and their entire generation) made marriage look so fucking god awful that I want nothing to do with the institution.
@cheese8987
@cheese8987 7 жыл бұрын
Marriage costs a lot of money, and all of our parents got divorced which also costs a lot of money. Not to mention, cheating is in for some reason, everyones cheating on each other. What's wrong with being single and supporting yourself?
@blackfeathermgtow9430
@blackfeathermgtow9430 7 жыл бұрын
By the time you're 30 you're going to be looking to be married.
@cheese8987
@cheese8987 7 жыл бұрын
BLACK FEATHER MGTOW I'm glad you went to the future, met me, and my 30 year old self told you I was looking to get married.
@akalinerfesen8515
@akalinerfesen8515 7 жыл бұрын
you want to live possibly 80 years alone on this earth? not sharing any moments with a person you deeply care about? thats depressing.
@blueho2483
@blueho2483 7 жыл бұрын
friendship with benefits is the best way.
@pierluigiadreani2159
@pierluigiadreani2159 7 жыл бұрын
No children, no replacement for society and then death.
@learnzz9255
@learnzz9255 8 жыл бұрын
Alimony, half your assets , child support, your heart , stress just to name a few
@TheRaulleal76
@TheRaulleal76 9 жыл бұрын
Divorce court has ruined marriage. Men don't want the risk. To many horror stories from friends.
@Mikerulez101
@Mikerulez101 9 жыл бұрын
"Why No One Is Getting Married Anymore?" is not a question..
@nickthebastard4125
@nickthebastard4125 8 жыл бұрын
Kept waiting for the point to be made that, in this day and age, it would be the stupidest thing in the world for a man to get married considering how sexist and unfair the legal system is towards us, unfortunately that point never came... pathetic.
@edwerner1
@edwerner1 9 жыл бұрын
Ana, your misandry is showing. You implied there are no men at the age of 28 with "their shit together". Maybe men in that age group today do not live for women the way men of previous generations did. Also, "Man up" and get married is insulting. Some men want to be married and some choose to refrain from getting married, neither is inherently more of a man than the other. Its simply a life choice.
@alsoknownas875
@alsoknownas875 9 жыл бұрын
Ana is insufferable when it comes to gender issues--it's impossible for her to be objective. And I understand, TYT lives and dies by its opinionated panel, but Ana's problem is that she's a narrow-minded twit on matters like this.
@greyman6353
@greyman6353 3 жыл бұрын
Some of us got married. Then our wives left taking the house, the kids and a chunk of our future income. Getting married is not about man-up, but pay-up
@JohnDoe-ht1de
@JohnDoe-ht1de 8 жыл бұрын
Why is the issue of men getting screwed in divorce never brought up as a deterrent for men getting married? I know several men who won't get married because the repercussions of getting caught up in a divorce will end up in a man being financially screwed. The laws surrounding divorce are out dated and have been set in place by hypocritical feminist. Why is this issue never brought up in these discussions? Fucking media!
@TCENTARUS
@TCENTARUS 8 жыл бұрын
Simple. They consider Men to Be less Human than women.
@benj1236
@benj1236 8 жыл бұрын
*MGTOW.*
@jasondownsnet
@jasondownsnet 9 жыл бұрын
The Western women's movement is why marriage is dying. It's scared all the men away. Western women get divorced at the drop of a hat, have zero domestic skills, clean you out financially, have little family values and want to be dominant in the relationship. That's why I married a beautiful South American woman. She has extremely strong family values, after 19 years together sex and her looks are a priority, she has no problem being treated like a lady and treating me like a man, no problem sharing chores with me, insists and enjoys cooking, doesn't take it as an insult and all the while working and having a successful career. My best friend married a girl from the same area and he's happily married as well. Mean while all my friends who married American hedgehog looking women are miserable in sexless, loveless marriages.
@haruspex1-50
@haruspex1-50 8 жыл бұрын
Jason Downs To find such a woman is a dream come true. I'm happy for you..I'm 23 and my parents are already pressuring the whole marriage thing. I'm from a Christian home and I love my faith but at the same time I look at the women in around in the UK and I'm like F*ck that. Why would I put myself through the stress of the brattish women around me. Also I come from a household with money and I don't want some manipulative chick divorcing me, taking half my stuff, my kids, alimony and child support. Prenups in England can easily be thrown out so they don't guarantee much. I'm like why bother with it all. The risk is too high. I don't want to be some bitter middle aged man who is estranged from his teenage kids who I have to pay for, but still hates my guts because of being poisoned by an evil witch of a mum. Maybe latin and south america may be where I have to go, depends on whether the airborne virus of feminism has spread there to. All I know is the UK is doomed, our women have gone awol
@goondocksaints9597
@goondocksaints9597 8 жыл бұрын
porkchops91 I hear you, man. As far as going to another country to find women, you have to be careful in your approach. My first bit of advice is to find one that works hard when you meet her. In my experience, girls from the rural areas know what hard work is and that is an excellent head start. My second bit of advice is critical. If you take a woman from a foreign country and want her to stay the same as she is when you meet her, don't bring her back to your country. The 'virus' you mentioned will overtake her like whooping cough on the Aztec empire. It's possible for a woman to keep her good qualities, but I have seen many women become full-on 'westernized' in under five years. The highest success rate I have witnessed is when men find a wife in a foreign country and stay with them in that foreign country. But Jason, you do have a good thing going, but it's not only due to her culture, there's still something wonderful inside her that you don't find in every woman from her country. But I think Jason hit the bullseye when he mentioned 'she has no problem being treated like a lady and treating me like a man'. That is really key for success in marriage, especially in western cultures, too many western women have no clue at all how to let a man be a man, and even less of how to behave like a lady that men would deem 'marriageable'. Western culture has made it fashionable to drag men down and unfashionable to celebrate men for being men. No need to worry about either of you guys, you 'get it' and that sets you ahead of so many men in this new world.
@goondocksaints9597
@goondocksaints9597 8 жыл бұрын
***** I grew up with a lot of laos, thai, cambodia refugees that came to my area in the early 80s. I picked up a bit of the language, (it's much easier when you are still young). And later in life, I dated a lot of women that had come to the US after marrying a G.I. and were divorced. I got along great with these women, but they were open with me about having more than one boyfriend at a time. i know many people will judge for that but for me, I considered them 'my girl' only for the time that we were together and never grew too emotionally tight with them. The other guys would all dump money on them and then drive themselves crazy trying to maintain control over them. I vacationed with one of them to Thailand and then two more times with another one that introduced me to girls in the country and watched my back when we were in the bigger cities. I have a half dozen friends all over the country that I HAVE to visit every time I go to Thailand now. But I have seen many situations, I know ones that came to the US and went buck-wild, I know ones that are quite slick at getting men to spend money on them, and I know ones that have come to America and done very well, others not so much. And the ones that I would consider most desirable are country girls, but my plan is to retire there in a few years and I think, for me, my best bet is to find one and keep her where I found her. I never did go in for the mail order bride thing for myself, but I did translate at a few events where western men meet the girls that go to the bride service. Interesting things I noted. There are a LOT of men that can't understand a word of Thai, meet with a woman that doesn't know more than 50 words of English over a weekend, and are absolutely ready to commit. From that, I see a bad experience in their future. Both sides are interested in the wrong things and it's doomed to start. But I don't need any service to introduce me to women, and I''m not condemning those agencies. A good portion of the women I saw go full on westernized in a few years were ones that people would call 'mail order' brides, so take care. But I see a lot of people hooking up through them for all the wrong reasons. Women that are motivated to leave their home country are not looking for beautiful scenery in another country, they are looking for economic opportunity, whether that means living off the man or getting good job in America, for instance. So in a sense, they are motivated by money, and many of the men I translated for seemed to be in it for sex and a domestic worker, and I can't tell you how many of these relationships are doomed because one or both parties is not searching in the right place or for the right reasons, or both. Sorry this was so long, cheers on your good fortune, and I know how the homesickness can affect asian women.
@goondocksaints9597
@goondocksaints9597 8 жыл бұрын
***** I agree with the need for concern in Bangkok, but I don't even fly into BK anymore. And the least likely place you would find me is in the southern half of the country. I fly into Chiang Mai now. But I'm always on a raised state of awareness because of the crazy things that happen when I'm there. I was a little outside of Chantaburi just after Christmas in 2004 when the tsunami rocked the shoreline. I was close to the coast, but on the gulf side of the peninsula. I was also near Chiang Rai in the north just days after they had that earthquake last year. But no hints of violence so far, (knock on wood). I concur on the virtues of country girls, I noticed that they are a little more interested in marriage than in leaving the country. In fact, in the rural areas, I rarely found anyone that showed much interest in even visiting the US. I used to tease the local kids that I was negotiating with their parents to adopt them and bring them home with me. In any case, after re-reading my earlier post, I want to mention that I don't want to scare people away from dating services. None of the one's I've had experience with or heard about were scams. I only wanted to raise people's awareness that they should not expect to find a good match on one of those week-long tour packages. And also wanted to encourage the men interested to understand that if they are only thinking about finding a housekeeper that they can have sex with, the relationship will not last long at all. It's a tired old stereotype that Americans tend to believe that Asian woman are submissive and easy to control. I know that you know better, davey, so don't feel that I'm lecturing you about this. I just would feel better if I help people find a better fit for them if they are going to the trouble to travel that far to find a bride.
@wolfgang548
@wolfgang548 7 жыл бұрын
That's what I suggested a few people to do. Find a South American woman. I've heard their much better down there.
@kondathefirst1111
@kondathefirst1111 8 жыл бұрын
MGTOW!!! To the future.
@MrDarksword123
@MrDarksword123 8 жыл бұрын
"!KONDA!" (The First) yup, unmarriage rate is gonna shoot through the roof
@bostonaccentradio742
@bostonaccentradio742 8 жыл бұрын
+"!KONDA!" (The First) hahahah
@timothygwong3151
@timothygwong3151 6 жыл бұрын
MGTOW is the only Way
@Nerobyrne
@Nerobyrne 9 жыл бұрын
If people want marriage to become a thing again, we need to remove the finance part from it. Here in Germany, alimony is voluntary. This way, women have no motivation to marry men solely for their money, and men have less reason to not get married when they fall in love. If you don't have to be afraid for your livelihood, then you are free to follow your heart's desire. And really, in a society where men and women have equal opportunity to seek employment and are paid about equal wages, why should we force one partner to pay for the other one? This isn't the dark ages people. Time to wake up to modernity.
@ghostgate82
@ghostgate82 9 жыл бұрын
Feminism is on the rise. Marriage is on the decline. So mysterious. Call Sherlock Holmes...
@baronobeefdip2
@baronobeefdip2 9 жыл бұрын
Marriage is a man made prison.
@VersionBest
@VersionBest 8 жыл бұрын
Bad economy? Not ready? Cohabitation? How about one major reason as to why marriage is on the decline? Feminism. Back in the old days (20 to 30 years ago) teens were getting married at 16 to 18 years old regardless if they are rich, poor, or have "their shit together." People back then were getting married left and right regardless of how bad the economy were. Stop making pathetic excuses as to why marriage is failing.
@TDMFAN
@TDMFAN 9 жыл бұрын
If you are confused about why people aren't getting married young in Spain then do some research to find out how the men there are treated. All a woman has to do is claim he hit her and he'll be in jail. Get a divorce and she could take all of his wealth. Even in the west marriage is a financial prison for men and we will continue avoiding it like crazy. In fact I have never known a man who was excited to get married - it was ALWAYS the women, ALWAYS. But then that's just based upon my personal experience.
@thunderbird1921
@thunderbird1921 2 жыл бұрын
It's a generational thing. Men AND women used to love their marriage and becoming such was what they longed for. If you look at say the World War II generation, many of them had marriages over 50-60 years. The love was mutual, giving and selfless. It's none of that today.
@cameronlittle7667
@cameronlittle7667 8 жыл бұрын
They have missed men actively choosing not to get married because it simply is not worth the risk. They should read Dr Helen Smith's 'Men on Strike'.
@Boobalopbop
@Boobalopbop 9 жыл бұрын
I've lived in Germany for nearly 3 years and its amazing... I've never met a single mother or even heard about one. Family seems to be really important here. Now I've never took a survey to see whose actually married but when you see a pregnant woman, you see her with her man, you see as many men pushing strollers or with their kids as you see women. That is just not the case in America and I think that's sad. I wonder why that is considering Americans are significantly more religious than Germans.
@doc7000
@doc7000 9 жыл бұрын
The problem here is that you like many Americans were brain washed into thinking that ethics and morals are the domain of religion. Thinking that people being religion makes them better people is a common mistake that many Americans that I know (I am an American myself BTW) also make. Also you do not have to be married to be a good mom/dad and do a good job raising kids (another lie told to Americans).
@1nopoint
@1nopoint 9 жыл бұрын
I'm assuming Germans have easy access to birth control which is encouraged by the government, so couples can easily decide and plan thoroughly about raising a family. Which in essence, is just great.
@Loathomar
@Loathomar 9 жыл бұрын
This does not match with statics. The US census has data on both the US and Germany for single parent households. The US has 29.5% and Germany has 21.7%. Clearly the US has more then Germany, but it is not that huge of a difference. www.census.gov/compendia/statab/2012/tables/12s1337.pdf
@nobodykratos3872
@nobodykratos3872 9 жыл бұрын
*packs bags*.....let's go to Germany!!!
@nosimpin
@nosimpin 9 жыл бұрын
And they have a great economy and good work ethic
@Mamadghodsiable
@Mamadghodsiable 8 жыл бұрын
dude, answer is feminism happened. men just got smarter, that's it.
@AnthonyBrianLogan
@AnthonyBrianLogan 9 жыл бұрын
People aren't getting married because no one takes marriage seriously and it's not necessary. A woman has no incentive to be married even when she has children, because she can be paid to remain single and raise the kids on her own via the welfare state including child support. If she marries him, she has the divorce card in her back pocket that she can play and get paid again via alimony and child support. If she becomes a career woman, she has no need for a man or kids because she'll have money and can take care of herself. Even into old age. Men know all of these things and avoid marriage altogether. In the United States, the individual comes first and foremost over the collective. Even if you want to be a family guy or a family woman ... will the other person feel the same way you do?
@timothygwong3151
@timothygwong3151 6 жыл бұрын
MGTOW is the only Way
@chucke.cheese2212
@chucke.cheese2212 5 жыл бұрын
Marriage has nothing to do with responsibility. It has more to do with finance.
@dillanreed2389
@dillanreed2389 9 жыл бұрын
I'd say it's because more and more people are growing up in broken(divorced) households and after witnessing the pain their mothers and/or fathers went through, they've no intention or desire to risk having to cope with the emotional and/or financial troubles their parent/s did.
@sudmuck
@sudmuck 9 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly.
@termsofserice5785
@termsofserice5785 8 жыл бұрын
many women do not pass a cost/benefit test. MGTOW !
@vanhalenman60
@vanhalenman60 9 жыл бұрын
when divorce can make you lose everything you own to a woman its just not worth it.
@mikesteelheart
@mikesteelheart 6 жыл бұрын
Think how much society has rapidly declined in the past 50 years... I look at the two most important women in my life; my mother and grandmother. Both classy, intelligent, and lovely women who respect the men in their life. I go to bars trying to meet women and encounter a bunch of whiny, entitled brats that have nothing to offer me. I want an intelligent beautiful woman who respects and appreciates me, not just throw me under the bus and expects special privileges.
@HAXXORAUDIO
@HAXXORAUDIO 9 жыл бұрын
"Why No One Is Getting Married Anymore?" - Have you ever read a marriage contract? Talk about a shameless scam.......
@alsoknownas875
@alsoknownas875 9 жыл бұрын
Another question is why do people get married but do not STAY married...and then you find out that American women make up for 2/3rds of divorce filings. Yet all the panel can wonder at is how MEN are choosing to defer marriage or avoid it altogether. So out of touch.
@timothygwong3151
@timothygwong3151 7 жыл бұрын
MGTOW (Men going their own way)
@xavier32421
@xavier32421 9 жыл бұрын
Why the fuck is marriage the gov business. If people don't want to get married, just leave them alone.
@Goregasm913
@Goregasm913 9 жыл бұрын
Why get married when you can just be independent and not having a girl leach off you would be nice.
@blackfeathermgtow9430
@blackfeathermgtow9430 7 жыл бұрын
Admiral Akbar described marriage the best when he said.."It's a trap!"
@Maniac742
@Maniac742 9 жыл бұрын
Why is no one getting married, because men don't want to give half their net worth to a woman just because she married him once. If modern women are supposed to be so strong and independent, why are they still taking alimony? Why are they getting paid a portion of man's salary if they can work themselves? Why do they collect child support from fathers who aren't even allowed to see their own children? So you tell me, WHY IS NO ONE GETTING MARRIED? Think long and hard! Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...
@Idiodyssey87
@Idiodyssey87 9 жыл бұрын
Really? You can't figure it out? Few things are more horrifying for a man than the prospect of working 60 hours per week trying to scrape together a life with a woman from scratch, only for a court to award her half your stuff, alimony, child support, and your children for no wrongdoing on your part other than "not being there for her emotionally." Fuck. That.
@Trancymind
@Trancymind 8 жыл бұрын
I am almost 36 years old male, no kids and never got close of getting married. With the exception of my female relatives, I have been treated bad by women quite often. This includes at the workplace, a hostess judging me for not asking her permission if i could get her daughters number which in fact she was already 18 years old which to me is an adult. Some women try to manipulate me and use me. I haven't had a gf for about 8 years and counting and don't want one anymore. Women labeling me creepy is not going to make me interested in women anymore and so I rather be single and have no kids and die with no family.
@jorgebrito2
@jorgebrito2 7 жыл бұрын
If they're going to take advantage of you, just let them go. Better loneliness than bad company.
@coolchapraghu
@coolchapraghu 5 жыл бұрын
You can travel the world !! The world is your family.. Go and Adopt a kid if you really need a family
@sopratutti8893
@sopratutti8893 9 жыл бұрын
What happened in 1965? Feminism took off... so men said: "fuck this shit!". Without them proposing, marriages don't take place.
@ljessel6612
@ljessel6612 9 жыл бұрын
to be fair - it is not equal pay for equal work, equal rights, or equal opportunities - it is the beat down and villianization of all things male - government socialist state and radfems causing adjustments to destroy men while make out that all women are angels and can do no wrong.
@MichaelSmith-jw8qw
@MichaelSmith-jw8qw 9 жыл бұрын
AT 59 I can only say you get one maybe two shots to find a great partner. Don't delay making a selection, it is a fatal mistake. There is no security folks. If you find the right person, go for it. You most likely won't get a second chance. Do I regret staying single? It wasn't my choice, I never had what women wanted so they ignored me totally. In retrospect I never had to deal with divorce. Maybe I came out ahead.
@MichaelSmith-jw8qw
@MichaelSmith-jw8qw 9 жыл бұрын
Thanks Londo--great advice--problem is I have colon cancer stage 3, I can rarely leave the house today. I'm too weak for the gym now. Am. women have no interest in men over 55.
@MichaelSmith-jw8qw
@MichaelSmith-jw8qw 8 жыл бұрын
At 59 I'm really concerned with what women want. We have a declining culture and both sexes are suffering a lot as a result.
@TCENTARUS
@TCENTARUS 8 жыл бұрын
Consider Yourself Very lucky To Be MGTOW. 59 Years a Free man and Not a Slave on The Marriage Plantation.
@MichaelSmith-jw8qw
@MichaelSmith-jw8qw 8 жыл бұрын
I hear that a lot, marriage is not what it used to be for either sex. How very sad for us all.
@nightowl1659
@nightowl1659 8 жыл бұрын
MGTOW for 6 years now & luvin it :D
@floral-smoke
@floral-smoke 9 жыл бұрын
I'm getting married in September and couldn't be happier. If you don't want it, don't get married. If you do, do it!
@oswaldm
@oswaldm 9 жыл бұрын
You sir, need more up votes !
@ljessel6612
@ljessel6612 9 жыл бұрын
maybe 10 % have good marriage - I wish you well but with those odds I hope that you do not mind that many others are not willing to risk it.
@ethanecarvalho7519
@ethanecarvalho7519 9 жыл бұрын
krisscouture you will devorce him in future ..if not already with some shitty reason...and enjoy half his money ...
@gwangvatar
@gwangvatar 8 жыл бұрын
vote 1 for president
@wlessfanable
@wlessfanable 8 жыл бұрын
Here is something I have not heard about at all: Why does anybody really care about the decline in marriage rates? I mean, really care. Can someone logically explain this panic? And to the woman in the vid who asks about finding a man in LA who has his shit together? That statement alone speaks volumes on why people arent getting married. Just an observation.
@ctosctou1
@ctosctou1 6 жыл бұрын
They absolutely have no idea what they're talking about.
@shubhamsingh-gl1fh
@shubhamsingh-gl1fh 2 жыл бұрын
No marriage No divorce No Alimony No child support Result happy life....😎😁😁
@Itiswhatitis90
@Itiswhatitis90 9 жыл бұрын
Mgtow is winning!
@BitsofRealPanther
@BitsofRealPanther 3 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@RoySchl
@RoySchl 9 жыл бұрын
this is a problem why? what is marriage good for again? it is an outdated concept... if marriage did not exist, would you invent it? (some comedian has a bit about this). it's a religious relic.
@nahasch0
@nahasch0 9 жыл бұрын
Tax breaks is the only advantage I see
@RoySchl
@RoySchl 9 жыл бұрын
***** yeah but then it is only a problem to the people deciding against marriage, and hey they seem to be fine. and yeah, i see those tax breaks more as a discrimination against ugly unlovable unsocial etc. people, everybody that would like to get married but cannot for whatever reason find a person to do it with cannot get those financial benefits. those should not exist, its more or less an incentive to marry and therefore make babys so population grows so that the economy grows and so on, because it's rooted in ever growing everything. another thing would be visitation rights in the hospital, but that could easily changed to a legally binding list of people you would grant those rights in case of emergency.
@priscillabaden9739
@priscillabaden9739 9 жыл бұрын
***** Also being able to see your partner in the hospital and have your partner be the one to make medical decisions on your behalf. Immigrating together. Sharing benefits.
@RoySchl
@RoySchl 9 жыл бұрын
like i said above somewhere you would not have to bind that to some 1 person emotional/sexual relationship status... you could just as easily make a legal document containing a list with ALL the persons (not just your 1 partner) that you would grant those rights. still no need for marriage, and the alternative would be more practical.
@priscillabaden9739
@priscillabaden9739 9 жыл бұрын
RoySchl "creating a legal document" outside of marriage isn't going to help you with immigration, nor will it force your company to extend your benefits to a non-married partner if they don't want to do it. I don't believe hospitals have to allow anyone who isn't family to see a patient.
@landonlanderos4179
@landonlanderos4179 7 жыл бұрын
Feminism is killing the tradition. Great job ladies. Forever alone.
@BitsofRealPanther
@BitsofRealPanther 3 жыл бұрын
And of course it's "man's fault."
@DefinedByGod
@DefinedByGod 9 жыл бұрын
Hello Anna, do you have a couple of minutes to talk about our lord and savior Jesus Christ?
@Prox1015
@Prox1015 9 жыл бұрын
hello family guy
@Tristen95gi
@Tristen95gi 9 жыл бұрын
deenman23 HERETIC. The Spagheti monster sent his only son meatball to die for your sins. BURN WITCH. BBBBBBBUUUUUUUUUUUURRRRRRRRRRNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
@DefinedByGod
@DefinedByGod 9 жыл бұрын
He said banana
@Greyskymorning395
@Greyskymorning395 9 жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ The Musical?
@Wastingsometimehere
@Wastingsometimehere 9 жыл бұрын
This is America, even the people living under rocks know about Jesus here.
@helmsfere123
@helmsfere123 9 жыл бұрын
Someone find me a woman under 28 who isn't a crazy wreck, am I right?
@JayLookie
@JayLookie 9 жыл бұрын
I'm 42 years old and I never got married nor do I have kids. That life is not for me.
@gwangvatar
@gwangvatar 8 жыл бұрын
do you still living with your parents???
@JayLookie
@JayLookie 8 жыл бұрын
Nabil Tohoin No, I live by myself. My parents passed away. My father of a heart attack in 2003 and my mother of colon cancer in 2011. It's very sad knowing that my parents are not around anymore.
@gwangvatar
@gwangvatar 8 жыл бұрын
how many siblings do you have sir,do they married???do you live with your parents before???
@JayLookie
@JayLookie 8 жыл бұрын
1 sister 39 years old single. I used to live with my parents until they both died. I used to take care of my parents, always driving them to doctor appointments and stuff like that.
@gwangvatar
@gwangvatar 8 жыл бұрын
now you only meet your younger sister often more
@ld4407
@ld4407 3 жыл бұрын
I've never been married. But at my job I feel pressured. Why does my job tries interfere with my personal life? I'm also being stalked and forced into situations that interfere with my will.
@Sweetp000433
@Sweetp000433 9 жыл бұрын
When I think about getting married, I feel like my throat is constricting. *shudders*
@DarkReapersGrim1
@DarkReapersGrim1 9 жыл бұрын
I can't marry. I have ADHD. People with ADHD are twice as likely to get divorced. We're difficult to live with for a variety of reasons, especially if you pester us. I live with three other people with this defect, and living with them is fucking hell. I have a sister who is Satan. Can't stop complaining and bitching. I swear, 90% of what comes out of her mouth is negative/pessimistic shit. It's like walking on egg shells with the bitch. A brother who has a quick temper like he has roid rage from taking steroids, a father who talks excessively, hates when people criticizes him or opposes his actions, doesn't want to take responsibility for anything at +60 years of age, hordes a lot of shit and rummages through the trash if you throw shit away, etc. All of them, like me, have anger and mental problems and yet I'm the only one who's seen a mental health professional. On top of this, I can't even financially support myself. The job market sucks, people are working more hours for less pay, job security is not certain, especially for people with ADHD, etc. "Adults with ADHD changed jobs more often, were more likely to have been fired, quit jobs impulsively, and had more chronic employment problems" (taken from a website). The last thing I need is to bring another bitch in my life.
@fmartin59
@fmartin59 9 жыл бұрын
The only real jobs that you can depend on in the future are going to be medicine- or computer-based. Practically everything else is going to be shit.
@MrJJMEDIA
@MrJJMEDIA 9 жыл бұрын
k678kk Pretty soon machines will probably fix people and perform surgeries we never can, It will be a utopia like Wall-E.
@gwangvatar
@gwangvatar 8 жыл бұрын
batman dont care about marriage he's hero he only cares about civilians in gotham city go batman go!!!
@onegaisti
@onegaisti 8 жыл бұрын
Why buy the cow when the cow is just going to refuse to give you any milk period?
@jonathanfarley2023
@jonathanfarley2023 6 жыл бұрын
And no milk the rest of the month, either.
@testertaster
@testertaster 9 жыл бұрын
Its also clearly a reaction to feminist bullying and legalised theft from men, which we euphamistically call 'marriage'. Fewer marriages = men getting wise!
@hiriajuu_suffering
@hiriajuu_suffering 9 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be a 28 year old in America that will have shit together...I hope I will be rewarded with a woman I was never entitled to even though I've worked hard and genuinely tried to make every romantic opportunity I had work. Even if I'm in shape and make more than 70 grand a year, I'm not attractive enough for any "woman" to want to sacrifice a goddamn thing to make an adult relationship work. People forgot how to compromise to facilitate a long-term relationship and thereby marriage.
@Bluedragon094
@Bluedragon094 9 жыл бұрын
ACC7386 Absolute bullshit, don't you try to pass the buck. There are plenty of willing women out there this very instant and the only reason you're not with one right now has fuck all to do with them and everything to do with you. You should be asking yourself what you're doing to repel them away and here's a hint: you're _entitled_ to jack shit. Even if you disagree, such language is going to repel practically every woman you meet with few exceptions.
@hiriajuu_suffering
@hiriajuu_suffering 9 жыл бұрын
"I was never entitled to" ... I think you misunderstood what I said.
@Bluedragon094
@Bluedragon094 9 жыл бұрын
ACC7386 No I really didn't. You were never _entitled_ to a woman just like no one else was _entitled_ to one. Similarly how no woman is _entitled_ to any man.
@hiriajuu_suffering
@hiriajuu_suffering 9 жыл бұрын
I never said I was, let alone anyone was...what.
@hiriajuu_suffering
@hiriajuu_suffering 9 жыл бұрын
Why does feminism entail using an argument against a person they embedded a statement to explicitly say that's not what they're saying? Like, I really don't understand how associating the word "reward" with "long-term relationship" makes me a bad person and not simply vulnerable to human psychology. Seriously, I'm not a misogynistic asshole; I've just stated I failed and there's an extrinsic reason contributing to my failure. My individual responsibility and psychological health, which albeit is most of why I probably am not married, is entirely separate from that. Saying that shouldn't take that much elaboration in a youtube comments section.
@robertholloway4989
@robertholloway4989 9 жыл бұрын
"Screw it, lets just live together." best wedding proposal ever....
@sinistavoicez
@sinistavoicez 9 жыл бұрын
MGTOW
@WanderingSoleTV
@WanderingSoleTV 9 жыл бұрын
I don't need the government to licence, acknowledge, or condone my relationships.
@dancgreen2
@dancgreen2 9 жыл бұрын
Yes jugz is back!
@HiImJoeShields
@HiImJoeShields 9 жыл бұрын
hahaha this shouldnt have made me laugh as much as it did
@KiiDSarajevo
@KiiDSarajevo 9 жыл бұрын
God, those things are... I got nothing. Bouncy!
@Sho81
@Sho81 9 жыл бұрын
BoomBriggs Yeah my wife has commented on that before.
@d77543020
@d77543020 9 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up
@Xeranx
@Xeranx 9 жыл бұрын
trier4952 While his remark is a bit crude, can you please explain how it's in any way misogynistic?
@Worldgonemad
@Worldgonemad 9 жыл бұрын
Why is no one getting married? Because our generation is getting worse when it comes to morals in terms of relationships. People are are being more unfaithful and selfish. People think a relationship is only supposed to please them. It seems like things are changing for the worse when in comes to this idea of a relationship. Whatever has worked it the past it now seen as old, bigotry and stupid even. What does that tell you about our generation?
@SargeRho
@SargeRho 9 жыл бұрын
Actually, no. You are wrong on every single point you brought up.
@captainmatt94
@captainmatt94 9 жыл бұрын
Yeah, we're really fucked up... Not wanting to enter into outdated illogical legal contracts and all. Yeah, we should all die. We're all so depraved... Mwahahaha
@THCvsLIFE
@THCvsLIFE 9 жыл бұрын
I agree , the thing we listen to and watch got using wrong , now we do love we lust all you hear and see is sex this , sex that . Porn is What makes a lot of the Internet . It's sad . TYT doesn't really even seem like they care because they they know they are also promoting porn and sex . Money is not the problem because if you really love someone city hall sounds pretty good .
@sethcoma
@sethcoma 9 жыл бұрын
you are a moron if you truly believe this. 1, you don't need to be married to have a committed relationship. 2, people cheat when they are married and stay in relationships that are broken to save face. not to mention that many marriages are based on complete selfishness. in the past men have controlled almost all of what goes on in a marriage. lack of marriage has nothing to do with morality.
@BadBoo22
@BadBoo22 9 жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself. Not on my behalf. Thanks.
@MightyMessenger777
@MightyMessenger777 8 жыл бұрын
the young turks never have men on the show.. this panel of 4 women wondering about marriage bores me.
@danielross4780
@danielross4780 6 жыл бұрын
MightyMessenger777 haha yep, the young jerks are embarrassing.
@rjdiggs738
@rjdiggs738 6 жыл бұрын
MightyMessenger777 There was 2 men and 2 women. You either are blind or just plain stupid. Than again, most right wingers are.
@nahasch0
@nahasch0 9 жыл бұрын
This probably is because nowadays people wait longer to get married and want to experience life before settling down, the thing is, the older you get the more you realize you don't want to be married. Besides it is easier to leave a bad partner if there is no divorce papers involved.
@MrJJMEDIA
@MrJJMEDIA 9 жыл бұрын
Very true, just how quick a relationship can start, it can all drop just as fast.
@poestasis7
@poestasis7 9 жыл бұрын
So why would people get married now? Peer-Pressure from families/religion? Maybe. Starting a family? You don't need to get married for that. For Love? Please. Marriage is a dying institution. Good Riddance.
@naterickard4836
@naterickard4836 3 жыл бұрын
3rd wave feminism. I've saved you 5 mins of your life.
@robbenvanpersie1562
@robbenvanpersie1562 3 жыл бұрын
Will it end in our lifetime?
@donnie7693
@donnie7693 8 жыл бұрын
The idea that people are not getting married because a wedding is to expensive is stupid. You can have a cheap wedding that is still super nice. I know because I have been to them. Its really because of religion getting less and less popular, women are starting to focus on their careers more, and probably the biggest reason is because divorce rates are so high men don't wanna pop the question since they will lose pretty much all their shit in the divorce.
@dolamitic
@dolamitic 9 жыл бұрын
The only difference between being an unmarried couple and a married couple is tax breaks. Well and it is harder to break up. Marriage does not guarantee you will be together forever. There is nothing wrong with being with a partner you love and being unmarried.
@dolamitic
@dolamitic 9 жыл бұрын
Marriage and the wedding is a big show you put on for your families. It does not really signify anything special. Though that is what you are sold as you grow up.
@ValerieRaya
@ValerieRaya 9 жыл бұрын
Unless you are in the Catholic church. Then you go to hell when you break up(at least that was in the community of one of my friends) so it kinda is forever.
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