This is a fun channel. Perhaps an episode can expound on why men and/or women are choosing more often not to get married and simply live together. Is it a misunderstanding of the value of commitment and marriage I wonder?

I may try the Factor as I'm looking for meal alternates. As far as the list goes, there may be other topics or levels. "the way you dress" is sort of a subset of overall presence: posture, being clean, taking care or yourself. Also, not getting upset easily and looking stable has value. Having interests and goals, being able to talk about them, and other traits may be of interest. So too are not having bad elements like not being a drug/booze abuser, not being a physical abuser, no road rage. Being kind, decent, but not a pushover have some value.

A) Carlton Banks from The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air B) Samuel "Screech" Powers from Saved by the Bell C) Steve Urkel from Family Matters Question: If you had to choose, which of these characters would you date?

Perhaps a video on how race/ethnicity and culture can play a big part of who we date like people don’t get chosen because of this all the time on all levels ppl will swipe left before they even read or look at your pics because of your race ask females to go into depth about that one

@@CaptTambo Why would one need a piece of paper to remain committed?

All lies Women select men who will provide and protect

I got 2-6 in spades. Too bad I'm poor and bald so my chances of finding anyone are very slim.

Only if they already find you attractive. You do any of these while being short and not rich then none of these matter

@@aqmohra4 True. You can be the kindest person in the world, but if you don't have the top 3 factors which are 1)Be attractive 2)Be tall 3)Be rich, then nothing else you do will matter.

One thing the fellas love is a brief summary like this ☝

You don't ask a fish how to catch fish. There other channels that bring girls on and ask them what they find attractive in a guy and what makes them want to commit long term to them. Besides naming the obvious looks and money, they have no clue as to what else they would want in a guy and its mind blowing and astounding how clueless they are

Well... me being on the spectrum wouldn't help in this case.

if you've ever spent anytime around or known any "Chads" you'd realize that none of this matters. If women are strongly physically attracted to you then you can live in a cardboard box and have zero social skills and you will be swimming in top tier pussy. Women throw themselves at men they are physically into

Its also hard to demonstrate competence in a valid way outside of the workplace, but workplace dating is never a good idea especially nowadays.

I have had women tell me this.

Absolutely!

? That’s what she said? 😊

Dont forget when a woman find a man with these qualities, she only wants to destroy you. so be carefull. Dont trust them

If only that was true! There is an antithesis: If a man makes himself too well, women will avoid that man due to their own insecurities.

I've never mer a woman that cared about any of that when she was under 45 years old

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He is risen!

@@canadianeh4792 always reaching for the top 😎

​@@canadianeh4792 He is risen indeed!!

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Agreed. Now if a guy is less than attractive, but he also happened to have a good variety of stylish outfits, do you think women would still be swooning over him in the comments on a Tik Tok video?

@@ApocalypticShock I don't think so. I appreciate the pointers provided by Courtney but if the girl isn't at the very least attracted to you in the first place, these traits won't matter at all. This is because it takes time to understand a person and to see their good and bad side, for example, you work with them or both of you are in a setting where you interact with each other almost every day. When girls already rejected you before even getting to know you, it won't matter if you possess the qualities of a good man.

It doesn't help that studies have shown that the majority of women find 80% of men "unattractive". Factor out the married, gay, too young, too old, too short and women are competing for about the top 5% of guys.

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I started tie dye as a hobbie and tend to wear it every where. I do good work so I tend to make sales by wearing it when I go out. I didn't however, realize that apparently tie dye is a chick magnet. I've never had so much attention from women in my life.

Are we talking about dressing for a date or daily? Because I live and work on a ranch. Clothes get dirty easy and often.

@@alaunaenpunto3690ok when you go out to the city and shit, you notice how all the women are super cleaned up and shit, so what your going to want to do hey is to do the same but not as crazy as women do it but show some effort hey!

@@natthaphonnoble7946 except you can use their own bullshit logic against them "if you didn't like me at my beast you dont deserve me at my beauty" so which is it ? accept people for how they are or play the stupid fucking game thats rigged against you look awful lot like the latter, if its a date though different story if its just a ride into town nah fuck that overalls are comfier long as you dont smell like the barn your good to go and odds you'll be dirty again anyway so might as well keep them on and some chicks get turned on by grungy lookin guys..you'd be surprised. Also if a person classifies me based on what a wear and thinks they know my story just off that lol thanks for telling me you are a materialistic drone. Ive done a test i dressed nice clean shave whole 9 yards drove the VW golf i got 0 lookers 3 days later haven't showered wearing same sweater and same sweats you know not looking the freshest,but im driving the Audi and well guess what waaaaaaaaay more lookers and few women even approached me when i went to fill up i dont thinks it clothing that matters i think its the brand that matters also both cars were clean the golf has a little rust below wheel well, but its only noticeable if your looking for it. Not that matters but,If your thinking im a VW guy im not thats just how things worked out lol

"some" is an understatment. More like 99%. A handy man that is willing to help is super attractive:)

@@sally.g. I wanted to be careful with making too broad of a generalization! 😅

True! We love a man of action.

I'm similar to you man, mid 30s, anti social, but I wouldn't classify my self as an 8 though..maybe a 6.5 haha. I think if we're really looking for growth and genuine healing, i think we need to speak to professionals in therapy. It may help us uncover unhealed trauma from our childhoods, we might have anxious, avoidant, or anxious-avoidant attachment styles..whatever it is, I think if we seriously do the work it takes, we can progress. I've been seeing alot of "betterhelp" therapy ads online, I'm seriously considering it due to its privacy and convenience online. Best of luck to you man!

Antisocial or just introverted? I too have been told I am handsome my whole life but I was painfully shy and an introvert when I was young. When I turned 25 I found my voice, I consider myself an extrovert introvert. I personally like to be myself but I can also handle myself in a group. There are more than parties, bars and social events that can you do with a date. I took my girlfriend to iFly on our second date. We gone to Painting With a Twist, cooking classes, we enjoy bike riding together, dining out, vacationing and other activities that only involve us, still introverted but with plus 1. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 years now and going strong, so it can be done.

@@rolandveloz2512 I'm really in a weird situation myself. I don't really want to go to social gatherings and situations, but when I do I kinda love it and shine in those situations. It really sucks lol.

Proper parallel parking would not require looking behind your car. Your mirrors tell you everything.

Do it for her though;)

Yesss!! And especially when a guy calms you down when something bad happens

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Great idea

I see where you're going, but being on film could corrupt the results.

That date wouldn’t be authentic it would be staged for viewers.

As far as dating is concerned… it’s really simple. It’s going to sound like a lot, but it isn’t If you’re on a date with someone you just met, here are the “don’t do’s” - never talk about religion or politics -never speak poorly of exes. You really should avoid talking about exes all together, but if it comes up… no negativity. Just keep it simple. You weren’t right for each other etc -avoid complaining and avoid negative subject matter. Nobody wants to hear your sob story 8 minutes after formally meeting you in person -careful with the complements. She isn’t an idiot. She knows you think she’s pretty. She doesn’t need you to tell her. If she is pretty, she hears it constantly anyways. Usually complements just come off as disingenuous. If you are going to compliment… be deliberate and specific. Maybe you say something nice about her outfit or hairstyle, but you can avoid it all together really unless you know that you can confidently deliver a genuine compliment - don’t try to plan your next date during the course of the current date. It comes off as needy. Do that a couple days later when you’re talking. Unless she herself brings it up on the date. If she’s telling you that she wants to see you again already… then work with her to figure out when you can do that. The things you should do - take charge when setting the date. Tell her the time and place to meet. If she’s comfortable enough with you to let you pick her up… definitely do that. You don’t even have to tell her where you are taking her, and I usually won’t if I’m driving. If they ask, I tell them “your job is to look pretty and be ready at 7. I’ll handle the rest”. That usually works well. Some push back more than others -don’t talk too much, but rather try to get her talking more. If you ask questions…ask questions that she would enjoy answering. Not interview style questions. Don’t be asking favorite color or “what do you do for fun”. Some of that stuff will naturally come up, and when it does… you can ask her what she likes about whatever activity she mentions. She’ll like answering that more. - when you are talking… be funny. Be playful. Don’t be afraid to lightly roast her every once in a while (not constantly). Positive and fun subject matter only -It’s not that serious. Have the attitude that you’re going to be fine whether she likes you or not. Just don’t actually say that out loud. It’s how you carry yourself. And it comes across in the fact that you didn’t gush over her all night and try to prove yourself to her by talking constantly about all the great stuff you do. - pay for the date. It’s nice if she offers. But just pay for it - plan more than one thing for the night. Maybe you grab dinner first, and if things are going well… invite her somewhere else to grab a drink and play a game of darts the same night. -be careful with the amount of phone contact in the early stages. You don’t want to be blowing her up all day and telling her everything about yourself. If you’re texting for example… keep it light and funny and also have a reason for reaching out, like for example… setting up another date. You don’t want to be asking “how’s your day going” every damn day of the week when you just had a first date. And if you do message… wait for her to get back to you. Don’t send another message an hour later because she hasn’t responded yet. Wait for her to get back. And if/when she does… you respond when you have the time. Maybe that’s 20 minutes later. Maybe it’s an hour later. Don’t you dare immediately respond to her first message in seconds. It just looks like you were staring at the phone waiting -never bring up a relationship. Let her do that. If she likes you… she will continue to see you, and it’s only a matter of time before she starts asking “what are we” or something like that. When she starts asking… you can have that talk. You will become the creepy stalker guy if you start trying to lock her down before she knows what she wants Lastly… here is a really easy way to summarize all of this. How would you treat a guy friend or a girl that you’re not interested in? Kinda do that. Treat her like a regular person. Because she actually is a regular person. You don’t text your buddy for 6 hours a day. When you hang out with your buddy… you don’t spend all night telling your buddy how great you are or how great they look. Just have a good time. If there is an attraction there… it’ll be easy

One big problem, they still want you to act and verbally be a simp. Act and front you got all the skills and look with the beard and abd but verbally submit to her. It’s a ruse. I got it all, but I was raised by four highly educated and successful capable women and so I not only demand 6 figures form these women and to be funny themselves, but I also know all the back room convos and tricks and power plays and attention traps women do and I learned from the best. So real and lame pathetic childish women both don’t want anyone challenging them. They still don’t want any accountability. I know first hand, because I only date winners, chicks with money their earned or didn’t, doesn’t matter to me, but it’s a requirement to make the relationship better and nicer and more comfortable. Can’t have any of us struggling, but I don’t let any of them get away with any of the typical bullshit or games. I call it out, confront it, expose it verbally outright then and there and openly, not passive or dancing around the subject, and most women can not handle that. No matter the intelligence or success, if they are that type of still manipulative women even successful the. Even more importantly you need to establish boundaries even verbal one’s. It’s sad watching so many good women just keep fronting the attitude ruining good relationships and not giving good men a chance just because these men don’t let themselves get walked on even verbally and emotionally. They stand up for billshit and stop and confront it, which tells the women she’s not going to get away with a lot of the typical shit that she has in past boyfriends. But that’s her misery, she keeps the cycle of guys she can manipulate but also doesn’t respect. She looses event time with that logic. May think she sun heaven for a while sucking up his time or attention or god forbid his money but even she gets disgusted and can’t even hang around the guy for the money! Women just refuse to be accountable and act right and be cool and not mentally manipulate, always looking for some angle Orr power play, attention trap…😉🫣🤣 Sorry ladies! I’m the one guy that was taught right by my mother and sisters and they ruined all you low frequency low vibe women, my bar is way too high for y’all🤣

This isn't what women find attractive, but what one woman finds attractive.

Check out mens warehouse or the gap. Gap has some really decent khakis in various colors. Men's warehouse I chose for shirts in the clearance section. Can never go wrong with colored khakis and button up shirt/polo with any design on it

@@sterlinghinton6776 Ty for the reply, I’ll check them out

And the hoops are on fire and have a diameter of 1cm. If they want a guy to jump through those hoops, let them go to the circus. A lot of women nowadays have checklists from A to Z, which is 26 things altogether which a guy should have/do. And the questions still remain: why they deserve a guy like what they envision, and why they deserve to a parent in first place, cause it seems like a lot of people (women included) are failing miserably in proving themselves worthy of the part. They are not the clowns, they're the entirety of their own circus

What does not tapping out first mean

nobody asked, and you sound like the most beta soyboy lmao

​@@mharrtj6350 Not being the one to fold first. In a fight tapping out means to yield to your opponent to make him stop and thus forefit. In a sense never be the one to get one upped by the other guy.

@@mharrtj6350 yeah in the contact sport of the mattress not the mat it is important that you can go multiple rounds while being the first to not tap out. It's something that will greatly be appreciated so you better work on your conditioning hahaha I mean Courtney did title the video 6 things women absolutely love so there you go

@@DIDDLOTIC yes, that too hahaha a passionate man is unwilling to give up

Who are Chad and Tyrone?

Yep. Height, face all a part of looks.

Correct. None of these tips apply to average or unattractive men. Glasses are sexy... on a hot guy. Bespoke suits are sexy... on a hot guy. Ripped jeans and a white tee are sexy... on a hot guy. Beards are sexy on a hot guy, and clean shaven is sexy on a hot guy. But none of these get you through the door if you're not already a hot guy. Sociability, conviction, communication, integrity, humor, these too are all indeed sexy qualities in an already hot guy, but none of them will get a homely guy through the door. Halo effect combined with misattribution. Classic example: hot guys are perceived as relatively funnier by women, but the funny is not the cause, but rather the effect. That's why Danny DeVito can spend decades honing his chops to become literally the funniest man on the planet, and it won't make him any more attractive in the slightest.

You will always be attractive to somebody, and it’s not the number 1 factor. Every ugly dude i saw outmatched me by 10x in the beautiful girls they had, most are too afraid to talk to me. And Less attractive dudes tend to have better confidence personality wise than i do.

This!!!

@@johnnylego807 cope

Agree to some extent. Reason why my comments are so explicits.

This is what happens when someone decides they are a dating expert just because they say so. If you watch videos on this topic from people who are educated/certified on this topic, you'll get vastly different information.

@@MikeyP109 well, in two years I've never heard her claim she is a dating expert, on the contrary, she encourages viewers to consider the opinion of professionals. As an influencer I consider her pretty accurate, so "totally different" opinions from other coaches as you mention is debatable.

Hahaha no twerking here 😂

@@CourtneyRyan glad you understand the joke 😊