Hi inbetweeners, thank you for always supporting our content! We see you! We do! Unfortunately, Chris Njeri’s episode couldn’t air when scheduled due to unforeseen circumstances. But it’s airing next month. So sorry for the delay.

Why does it have to be Us against the world? Why not Us in the World? I felt that to my core!!!

Just here to say that Dr. Obwaka didn't lie. True Love is really enough. Goes back to the discussion what is love? Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. So going back to that example of the guy who loved going out, that was self seeking and he was not protective of his partners interest or marriage hence one can conclude from the biblical description that wasn't true love.

One lesson I've unlearned is that..I don't have to carry all my family's weight on my shoulders😢..I know sometimes I do have the capacity but they will never experience it, especially my parents since they are soo distant like together but then again not together, bruv, I know I don't have to pick sides ..I love them both and whatever happened between them is between them,, my work is just to support and love them individually. Love this TMI talk❤

Funny you should mention the kids thing. My husband and I have been happily married 7 years now. No kids and it's out of choice. A huge part of the community around us don't believe that people can just be staring at each other for 7 years and not want kids. But well, that's our truth. We agreed that when we are ready, we would have them. And somehow, the contraceptives have cooperated 😅😅

I think it’s very important to get to know the Lord personally and one of the ways of doing that is by reading the bible. So we should always be careful not to justify our lifestyles based on feelings or worldly wokeness when we actually have a Bible that is very clear on all matters. Discernment and revelation can help us navigate much easier.

I am unlearning that i must pay black tax. After moving abroad my mentality switched, i actually dnt have to pay black tax.i believe in the crashing airplane tutorial, i have to look out for me first before i can look after anyone else. Nowdays mimi ni bwana sina pesa.

Things i am unlearning: We all need to have figured our lives, goals and passions out by a certain age_ not everyone figures this out early or at all. Life is a journey not a destination. You have to like your family. You are not normal if you set boundaries with some or minimize contact with some_ blood does not make connection especially if you are left feeling mentally drained after interactions with some people. Being too nice is ideal_ it is better to be kind than nice, being nice gets you used. Being too serious and ' mature'_ i am learning to bring that childlike joy and zest for life. its good for my mental health.

Hey ladies, I love you two.. Especially yummy mummy.. but ladies I prefer the firm ‘it’s definitely TMI’ instead of the singing. The firm one give’s strength.

The unlearning friendship piece hit me like a ton! I’ve always thought that it’s the one ship that should last forever especially the ones you have called “best” or closest friends. The ones you knew in your heart like it’s a forever thing. Letting go and realizing they served you and you them, during that season was merely a chapter (even if it was decades of friendship) I most certainly unlearned this just last year! Grateful to hear y’all talk about it! 🙏🏾

I want a friend like Lydia The way she always affirms Murugi 😍😍😍😍

TMI is officially my weekly therapy session 😪😪 I love you guys. Empathise but don't carry - new motto 😪

the colors of your outfits today are giving 'happy' 😍🤩

I met Murugi over the weekend and we for sure chatted like Queenbetweeners. Wonderful authentic soul she is. Looking forward to meet Lyd

On the part where Murugi said loves needs to be peaceful I could 1000% relate...the moment I met the love of my life it's been peace all through ♥️ And I met him at the point where I didn't want to settle anymore

It's amazing to have these conversations of in learning habits and beliefs. Someone said that the illiterate of the 21st century are not the people that can not read or write but those that can not unlearn and re-learn things

😂 Us against the world. Seriously WHY are we against the world

Omg,what did I just watch?. How would somebody speak such insightful information?I've learnt so much from these two babes and I can't get enough of you .been binge watching for quite sometimes now and still will .I wish I knew this channel back when I was in campus I could have skipped all the common unit classes and attended the classes I'm having here now💜..it's worth one's time and much more..I cannot wait for part 2...and Lydia thanks for the disclaimer towards the end,we can't know everything but we're here to learn I'm coming back with all my friends subscribed🤗,,💜💜💜💜💜 Beautiful insight here

TMI ❤️. That bit of our parents has been on my subconscious lately especially from the fact that I felt bad growing up seeing my mum love her biological children and treat me alittle different. Now grown, I know she tried her best and she just didn't know how. Coz definitely now I understand how she tried to treat me as one of her own but it can never match. I still love her for being a mum to me. Dad tried. He wasn't thaat obvious that he is biased. . Love and light❤️

Am unlearning people please. I have a tendency to bend over backwards so as not to inconvenience others.

Haaiiyaa today you decided to step into the fire! I totally agree with Lydia, Kenya is honestly NOT a Christian country. I don’t know where people get that idea, if it was it would be a theocracy. Last I checked, it’s not; this is why the Muslims and Hindu are able to live in Kenya in peace. I think how so many Kenyans think about religion is so limited and scares me to raise my own children as well because people are not as open as other parts of the world to new ideas especially those that challenge the status quo. Great episode as usual!! Great convo

Empathize but don't carry 😊 I learnt 💞

When are we watching the episode with Chris Makena??? Been refreshing here nikama nasaka mihadarati bana.

Someone can love you deeply and still not wash the dishes on your schedule. Some things they can compromise but some they can just never wash the dishes when you want. And you deciding to not stress over the dishes with them is also you showing your partner grace and love.

That Bible talk by murugi... totally endorse it.👏

The conditioning that a peacefull relationship is being boring is real..we were taught to survive and thrive in chaos..peace and stability feels unfamiliar , untrue mostly like a setup😂

Listening to TMI is definitely very therapeutic🥰🥰🥰. Love the way you guys articulated the point on religion/belief system; Hopefully it spreads the word and make Christians especially more open to the views of other religions cuz I feel like we were conditioned to think our religion as being "the way, the truth" whereas navigating life and being open only teaches us we are just using a way, a truth like other religions. Nice episode!! We definitely unlearning much and will raise a better generation God willingly

Can’t wait for part 2. So insightful!

This episode is amazing, I love how murugi talked about the issues with religion because honestly there is. If we believe government or our parents can set up rules to live by and it turns out to be for everyone's good then definitely God's rules are for everyone's good except if its being misinterpreted or invented by people to suit individual needs or goals. I honestly think you accept religion twice in your life, the one you were born into and when you truly believed and affirm its truly the one or when you choose another one because that's what you now believe is truly the one.

yes, its not just about having the capacity to do something ,but in a relationship, its about compromise and tying to create the space to love someone right in their love languages .

This episode! Just! I have no words. Thank you for this one.

This has to be one of my favourite episodes. So much to learn and unlearn . Thank you TMI ❤.

😢 My best friend introduced me to your podcasts and I swear you guys are the best . As a 23 Yr old in betweener I'm learning alot of things and the pressure i had before of how life had to turn out is literally gone . I'm approaching life more differently now 😌. I'm learning how to appreciate Awino more and its all because of you big sisters ❤❤❤ . Let me take the mantle and introduce another young babe to your podcasts

When Murugi says, when I meet couples who are married more than 2 years without children! She goes why? I have laughed so hard because those couples are US 9 years on 😂😂😂😂 happily married !We get that alot btw 😅Mambo ni mengi lakini 😅. Funny thing people will ask my husband the question not me 😂.

I'm I the only one waiting for the episode tmi shot with Makena Njeri?

The points mentioned about closure are so true. I am definitely struggling with closure!

This episode is pure gems 🥰🫶

I have been unlearning a false sense of responsibility ''empathize but do not carry.'' The Bible has no issue, the society is what has an issue. Principles do not change. The issue of heaven and hell and salvation is all about accepting Jesus as our savior and then repenting and sinning no more. The time comes when you actually take that path with both feet in if that is what you are about. You definitely can not understand things you know nothing about but if you study the Bible and get more knowledge then you will make more informed decisions. Many days down the road, you will know more and then you will do what needs to be done. Salvation is a personal journey, nobody can tell you when to get into it, you will feel the conviction when the time comes.

LOVE IS GIVING YOUR BEST! For God so loved the world that he gave his only son... If they say they love you & are not giving you their best, IT'S A SCAM!!!

What i have been waiting for my week to start ❤❤

Hi guys ,,it’s me again watching my favorite ❤it’s definitely tmi🎉🎉🎉

I love you ladies.Great content.When I grow up,I want to be a great woman like Murugi❤️

Yeeeey ☺️ let's go!!!

People who haven't subscribed changamkeni.

This conversation is so eye-opening. It feels like I am in therapy. Thank you, Girls ❤

Guys, i love you so much, i love your wisdom, I love your authenticity. May we continue to unlearn and apply what we know for sure! lots of love from my Namibia! You are my online friends!

I had to listen to this episode with a pen and paper... too many gems on here. Hardest thing is unlearning our mental conditioning.

Beautiful!Beautiful!Powerful!Episode! 👏👏

Premium content. Thank you for being so raw and authentic.

and that's why its important to communicate your non negotiables and if the other party doesn't find them realistic, move on find what works for you rather than tying to change the person....

I love this episode so much!! Great job girls❤

This is just powerful am soo much informed wooooow,I wish we had this kitambo just open and candid conversations.

The friendship part hit me! This happened to me with someone I shared a room with, you can imagine the awkwardness. I've come to accept it now, it was great while it lasted but it just wasn't meant to be.

True on the empathy and wanting to help everyone. I try to not listen with my heart but my mind🙈🙈

Actually, the bible does not say don't have earrings. God himself told Israeli women to get jewelery from their Egyptian Masters. The tattoo one was "don't mark yourself on account of the dead" People judge the bible based misinterpreted versions 😮 Jesus said mosaic law can be superceded by grace and this was why the Galatian churc, which was being too formalistic, was asked, "Who bewitched you?" Also, yes, the bible can be taken in context.

The best episode yet🔥🔥🔥

I looove this episode so much😍😍. You ladies motivate me to keep going and pushing my Podcast to get to where yours is and even better. Keep up😍👏👏

Hey inbetweeners I really enjoyed the episode especially the last segment about religious and spirituality and I think we should have it as a topic soon...cause there's a lot to unpack on there

Honestly lyd and Murugi thank you for holding such conversations. Thank you for being virtual Big sisters ❤

It's the consistency for me love you guys

I had put on this podcast to go on the background as I worked... But I found myself just glued to the screen cause of how relevant the conversations are... From beginning to end... So helpful and eye opening... Thank you 💜

My best Episode🥹 You both are gifted and sure are the change we need in this generation 👏👏 You just gave me a wake up call Ding Ding 🛎️ Dong🙏

Yaaaaay 🎉🎉🎉🎉Atlist today for the first time i got so fresh😅 not like other time am ibusy and chekin late on weekend 🙃 Thank you ladies for this,so therapeutic ❤

Yup we have to read our Bible ourselves and also develop a relationship with God/Jesus ourselves; a lot happening today is prophesied in the Bible too; overall, we are admonished to love God and our neighbor as ourselves!

Love is not enough that got straight to me. I never learned that got to learn that later in life. Toxic relationship i can get closure on my on own very true ❤❤❤

The way I look forward to Wednesday because of TMI💃💃

Always interesting 🎉🎉

Not me saying "wacha kwanza niwatch hawa wasupa" everytime I'm on youtube

Beautiful episode ❤

Lyd u spoke to me directly in this episode ,love love u gals 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Lovely episode as always, loookatchuu both🥰🥰🥰, looking forward to enjoy

Such an informative episode. Love guys so much.

This looks great already

Word of the day "vis a vis"

Ladies...thank you❤

Wow this is so deep. I’m learning a lot, thanks TMI

Just wooow, girls, you are deep!!

Please put a TMI live experience in November so that I can atleast attend when I come to Kenya to visit my family 😁

I knew I'll love this episode n behold!!

Amazing conversation. You both look gorgeous in your face beat❤❤❤

Gang gang,we love you♥️♥️

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Amazing content so mature and alot to learn and think about 💯💯you ladies are gorgeous ❤️❤️

This episode is so colourful, healing, and right on time! ❤

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This was a great episode! Could you please do an episode on friendships?

TMI🥳🥳❤❤

First to watch and comment ❤❤❤❤❤❤

What does a good life look like to me me right. It's just the next best life in line. Where bills are not an issue. Things like food, fuel, wifi and a weekend getaway are all taken care of. With very healthy friendships and relationships all round me.

Very great conversation ❤️

Beliefs: That part need to hear more

I am yet to see a bible verse that says drinking alcohol is sinful, especially drinking it responsibly. As Murugi said some of these beliefs are based on cultural contexts

Me patiently watching the add for my babes to secure the bag 💰

This topic spoke to me ❤❤❤❤

Vile nawafuatilia kama siafu aki 😂 you're my therapist Also road to 100k

Very impressive. I've really learnt so much

Love this Episode

Love needs peace

Gai Murugi preach that part on the Bible needs it’s own session …we pick and choose what we want the Bible is a buffet pick what you want 😭😭😭

When I saw the thumbnail, I thought Lydia is gonna be alone today 😄