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Yes, the delay of the "FOR YOU" always gets me because It changes the whole meaning of " My heart won't start anymore", She's saying she would still fall in love and love again but not with the person. Also the delivery and choice of singing and mood is... Incredible.

One of the many things that kills me about the song is the soft use of vocoder. One of the criticisms she received for Reputation was the “overuse” of vocoder, especially for the songs that were about Joe. For her to say goodbye to that relationship using the same effect hits really hard.

The way you explained your situation is EXACTLY how i envision it was for Taylor. When they got together she was at a very low point and he was what she needed and wanted and he was good for her. But she grew as a person and changed and he didn't grow and change in the same direction. Literally grew apart. Obviously, I dont KNOW this, but it's the impression I get and, like you, have lived this before. Thanks for sharing your story!

The song was first released as a bonus track on The Late Night Edition of Midnights in May. The CD-only edition was only available for in-person purchase at certain venues of the Eras Tour for a limited time, following which it was widely pirated on social media. It was released to music streaming services on November 29 as a token of gratitude to her fans after she was revealed as Spotify's Global Top Artist of 2023. Jack Antonoff, her co-writer, revealed the song was written and recorded on the same day TWO YEARS AGO, which made fans question if she and Joe had already broken up at that point. But it's more likely that they hit a rough patch and were able to overcome it. I think they just drifted apart. The song has 103 beats per minute, the right tempo for hands-only CPR. Interestingly it is also the second song of Taylor's to feature the sample of her own heartbeat - the first being Wildest Dreams.

This song was actually written in December of 2021. The same 'session' that "Midnight Rain" "Bejeweled" "Anti-Hero" "You're On Your Own Kid" + a couple more midnights tracks were recorded. I'm also pretty sure "Labyrinth" was written AFTER this song, so the "Uh-oh, I'm falling in love - again" has a whole new meaning, same with "Sweet Nothing".

I think this song defines the long thought theory that a woman emotionally leaves long before she physically does. Once your mind is made up and you physically leave you are completely done. Thank you for this reaction ❤

You mentioned a couple times amazement at her performing this- she actually hasn't performed this song live, it was only a bonus track on a specific show's hardcopy CDs, and then just recently released on streaming

The fact that she wrote it almost 1 or 2 years ago... And they broke up couple months ago.. It means she really tried to save they're relationship 😭😭😭😭

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It's even more heatbreaking when you remember at the beginning she tried to break up with him and he said "no". So he went from fighting for her to not understanding that she needs to him fight again.

I’m in a unique position where I broke up with my fiancé during COVID lockdown after 6 years together. We were both having such a hard time and falling apart individually. This song brings me back to that. We went our separate ways and kept in touch for 2 years, then reunited as new happy, healthy people with the same chemistry from the beginning. We’ve been married for 2 years now.

I’m always amazed how she put those feelings into words i relate to this song so much

I feel like what you described at the end is exactly what happened with taylor and joe which is why its so heartbreaking..... She was growing, and emerging back into stardom after lockdown etc and they were just drifting as I dont think he fully embraced her fame or who she was outside of them? Thats just my opinion.

Thank you for sharing your story. I definitely have new insight into the song.

I dont know whose idea was it to cut the audio off and just show your reaction and movements from another camera angel but that was GENIUS

What an awful lot of folks overlook is that at the time the relationship WASN'T over and still had over a year to run before it was publicly dead. My personal thoughts are that Taylor was really, really f***ing pissed at Joe as she gets angrier and angrier in the bridge. She was also approaching her birthday and we know what happened back in 2012 then. Don't forget we are only seeing one side of the story here; she the Global Megastar, Joe the jobbing actor over a year younger than Taylor. All that said I think it is a brilliant song and put it well into top 20. Another thought was that this was a cri de cœur about the direction of the relationship. That she wrote and recorded it with Jack Antonoff shows he was confidante to her as well. Look at the tense it is present, not past: this is a breaking up song, NOT a break up song which reinforces in my mind that she was still looking for answers.

Let me just tell you as a debut swiftie who has been here through the different creative projects she's done, this one hit me so hard- I can't listen to it without crying, whenever I need a good cry I will turn this one on lol. We loved the room because of the light reminds me of looking at a relationship in its early years thinking it was love with ease at first and then it slowly gets heavier as you realize the relationship got harder and more complicated maybe because of different needs and places in life. I also LOVE Marjorie because I lost my grandma, and I know what it's like to have all the questions you still can't get the answers to because now they're gone. I love that Marjorie gets to travel the world with Taylor and I can't explain it but artisticly she writes these really complex emotions so well. She's my comfort artist for sure. I also LOVED Kacey Musgraves' Golden Hour album, maybe if that's not something you have done in your content that you may be interested in reviewing?

Some people are drawn to people when they are down. Then they can be the hero. Their self esteem can't handle their partner succeeding. It's sick, but that tear she hid and just relied on him was probably the best time in their relationship - for him. Once she started healing, and was no longer dependent on him - then I think their relationship started breaking down. I don't think he's a bad person, and I think he's at war with himself if he recognized what he was doing. That's my opinion. Some of that is through the lens of my own experiences.

This song has brought up emotions, like seriously Taylor, whar are you trying to do to us 😅

This is the situation I am going through right now, also a 6 year relationship ending because I couldn't keep doing the same things over again without destroying myself with us. This song is on repeat for me currently

I know, what else can I say? Love watching you watch, this song is so deep. She's a lyrical miracle!

I’m currently in one of these relationships. “How can you say you love someone who you can’t tell is dying?” At this point, even if he changed I don’t think he’ll ever be able to mend this.

I was lookinf for a smart reactor of TS songs, glad ro find you. Others are just listening and just amaze of "oh she can actually sing, or "this performance is great" . I want reactors who can dig into lyrics and can explain not just by listening and thank tou so much for thisssss. 💜💜💜

I love your honesty. It's so heartwarming. ❤

I love you for sharing your story, it's what her music does. Everyone relates to it. I'm so glad that you found your true love.

I love your reaction & I love Taylor Swift so very much and I’m loving her voice,songs.

Your reaction made me cry (almost as much as this song always does). ❤

This is one of my favorites because it's so relatable.

This song reminds me so much of Exile. Exile was written long after this. But it still fits. I love when you can relate, and you share with us.

your videos are my therapy

This song Kills me. It takes me back to a time when the love of my life completely burned me in a business we were in together. "My face was grey but you wouldn't admit we were sick, and "My heart won't start again... for You." There hasn't been anything more painful for me than being so in love with someone, for seven years, and feeling my love die over the course of six months. Taylor writes lyrics we can all relate to and I love her for it. xo

Your commentary is so relatable...

My favorite line: Always rising from the ashes, mending all her gashes. It's exhausting.

Would love to see you react to Ronan. Taylor is so kind

They advised the beat of the tune is the same as if you are completing CPR on someone - 130bpm

the more i listen to this song, the more the production reminds me of Snow On The Beach...that twinkling sound. anyone else hear it?! at 1:01 for example

We were happy a vault song from fearless is very similar and I’m so sad she cut it and so glad she gave it to us years later

So so good!! Thought of you today because Vanity Fair released making of “What Was I made For” by Billie Eilish and Finneas. She really goes into all her vocal techniques and different ways she tried to record it with examples and even provided demos of the song as recording. Might be great reaction video!!

I'm 68 and have had too many breakups in my life. It's very hard but so beneficial to breakup BEFORE you dislike each other. Move on while you still have love and respect between you. Taylor really captures that feeling of "Fight for me!"

I WEPT the first time I heard this song… one of the saddest, most raw songs in her catalog.

beautifully done thnx!

its actually Taylor's heartbeat :]

Definitely her rawest and most brutally honest song EVER. It shreds me because one of my relationships is kind of dealing with a struggle (distance, because they needed to move for work) right now. This song rips me apart. Ev. er. y. time.

I’ve been there. With my high school sweetheart. From 15 years to 28, with 2 separations. The last time was the first time I actually realized I wasn’t in love with him for years and when I had to go back and figure out our living situation…it had only been a week or 2 and the amount of complete garbage, sickness, and depression in the air was the hardest thing I’ve even done. That complete and final acceptance in his eyes, while denying it is something I will never be able to heal from. I know now that we’re both in so much more beautiful people with healthy relationships, causing that pain onto him…I still have nightmares about it, 11 years later.

Top 3 Taylor songs of all time

Awe I love this video. 🩷

Please react to the song "el perdón" (official video) by the Spanish singer Diana Navarro; she is an incredible singer with a unique voice. Greetings from Spain.

I'm going through this right now. It's so hard.

I read that she wrote and recorded this song in December 2021!! 😢

you're so real Queen. So happy 4 u.

I can’t listen to this without crying. I was with my ex husband for 17 years and this song hits me right in the gut because it tells Our Story!! It’s so crazy, her lyrics are magic.

I see her finally being unabashedly & unapologetically herself & being joyful. She’s 33. That’s when i got married to someone i’d been with less than a year. That was 1990. I feel like this is her time.

Also for me certain situations kept happening I would says something it would get better for a bit and then keep happening it and so for me I’m screaming to them STOP your loosing me by keep doing this I want it to work but I can’t deal with this STOP! You’re loosing me !

I relate to this song SO much. I had told my husband I was leaving and he did not comprehend what I was saying and he wouldn't try to understand. He was an alcoholic and I fought for him so hard, but he NEVER wanted to fight for me or us. I moved out to care for my dying mother. 8 months after I lost my mother, my husband died. 😢

You're Losing Me was originally going to be in the Midnights album but it had to be go to the other 3AM Edition (I believe) it wasn't on streaming services until late November which i believe is a reference to Call It What You Want from the Reputation album which was about Joe Alywn Taylor's lover from the time Joe and Taylor were together for a very long time about 6 years he was seen in Miss Americana, the whole Reputation and Lover album (most*) were about Joe You're Losing Me was also written in 2021 which was post Folklore and her 9th studio album Evermore but Pre Midnights so the breakup would have just started At the Eras Tour when she performed Lover one time she was very emotional but a clip showed she looked annoyed and didn't seem to care about the song so she's moved on

i got the vibe that danny would fight with theet and nails for you

This song. For me. Screams Brooke and Lucas in one tree hill when she is screaming at him fight for me. She just gave everything and he gave nothing she was so broken

I want to share my story from last year, this song fits perfectly for me… I have been with a guy who got tired of treating me the same way as in the beginning of the relationship, I was slowly starting to be thirsty for attention and affection until I developed a crush on someone else… I loved him very deeply to the point where I had endless conversations about how to fix it, I told him examples of what to do, I tried everything and all he gave me were meaningless words and no action… I felt like I was dying slowly until I couldn’t stand it anymore and I left, he begged me for another chance and I felt very stupid and laughed in his face… I swear I will not do this again ever, thank you for however is reading this 🤗

the constant camera angle changes are giving 1989 tour film editing

love it when you say "Sh*t" - then it's going to be good!

If you want almost 2 hours packed full of diverse vocals you should react to The TERRELL One Million Show.

u should for sure listen to the songs from The Archies! I reccomend Dhishoom, Va Va Voom, and Sunoh i prob spelt that wrong😭💀

In all of the relationships I’ve seen her in “through the public eye”, Travis is the only one that holds her and protects her. You can see the way she melts into him.

Adele wrote songs about this as well. She talked about how she wasnt miserable but wasnt happy eiither.

This happened to me after 8 yrs. Turns out it was happening to both of us and he made the choice In the end. This song kills me.

2:25 he wanted to keep her hidden

April last year, when THE news came out- I was one of the swifties who took quite a time to have a denial stage on their breakup. I was acting like that in my part mainly because I just don't want Taylor to go through things again like what she went through before when breakups come in easily for her years/decade ago before Joe even happened to her- like I was scared of the media speculating about everything like her love life is a sport, they'll probably start to mock her for not keeping a man for good or she's gonna write another breakup album again, calling her a man hater or slvt/wh0re and stuff, it's just traumatic- some of you wouldn't get it cuz you weren't there (2011-2018 ESPECIALLY 2013-2016 like those years are nuts). BUT queen mother humbled me, Taylor made sure to let us know what really happened and she trusted us- my god the complete 180 of my beliefs after hearing 'You're Losing Me' in late May is funny but worth it at the same time. Then after hearing this song, I looked back on the past 4 albums we had from her with Joe beside her in that timeframe and wow, everything made sense like it showed me how gaslit I was and maybe her as well in that relationship that we witnessed all this time. I liked Joe cuz when almost everything went south in her career, she was at her lowest- he was there BUT that happenstance may also be the catalyst of how this relationship went down (in flames jk) aka the victim/savior complex... okay idk what I'm saying here but somehow Taylor has this imagery of Joe as her 'knight in shining armor'- "he saved her from the darkness, great! happily ever after" but that wasn't the case here, with this mindset of Taylor plus Joe's demanding attitude or aura (cuz idk what really happened but it felt like the demand is in Joe's favor in this) Taylor will tend to bend under his will (listen to willow, Joe really got her chase him and will do anything to get him) and adjust everything, her lifestyle and whatnot, in her power just to be with this man cuz this man doesn't want the life she's always been in, the scale of how magnified Taylor's life is as a celebrity/artist. In hindsight, we didn't know any of this and thought oooohhh Taylor is so in love and this is the endgame wow... but looking back now? it's just sad and aching to see Taylor looking like she's begging for him to stay, she did everything to make it work even staying with him where no one else can see them like they're hiding from everyone (ngl in the first 1-2 years of their relationship, Taylor needed that because of how her reputation shattered by the media and everyone in 2016-17 but eventually, she healed and go back to what her intended lifestyle and how she makes the whole place shimmer), she even avoided the idea of marriage (lavender haze) when 3 years in their relationship she's already dropping hints in his face my god (lover, paper rings, end game, i think he knows, willow, PEACE ugh i could go on) yet hE STILL WON'T COMMIT! idk what's his problem tbh, maybe he loved her when she was in her worst but honey, this is Taylor Swift- she will always rise from the ashes like a fckng phoenix and he broke that in her, she said she's tired even tho she's a phoenix- tired of sticking her neck out in this relationship with him doing nothing at all. The love they had was real at some point until Joe realized she's much bigger than this and she can be bigger than the last time he checked, he chickened out- he felt hesitant at some point in that 6-year relationship cuz he didn't want her way of living and it's inevitable that she will go back in the spotlight... she outgrew him. I think Taylor realized she's better than this and she finally knew her self-worth to get away from this "stuck in the middle of nowhere, suffocating, and dying in the vine" relationship and you know what? good for her because I believe that in the name of LOVE, no one should be contained (feelings or validity of existence) it's love- not a possession... love is about GROWING, makes each other be seen and help each other to grow in their lives and NOT stuck in a box waiting to rot. I wanted to be kind to Joe but my god it almost felt like he wasted her time (6 years, 6 YEARS? and she thought they were gonna be end game), he led her on and left her hanging apparently. I'm just happy Taylor is in a very different place now, she's happy and that's all that matters to me. Thanks for coming in my TedTalk lol

Wait didn’t she react to this is midnight pt.2

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I think she felt stuck bc he wouldn't fully commit to her and kept her on the warming shelf until something better comes along

Do you take requests??

The frequent pop-ups of "you might be interested" links take away from your reaction and even the on-screen lyrics.

Hi, it would be cool if you reacted to All Too Well 10min vs( if you didn’t already) it is one of my fav songs and a fan fav it talks abt a break-up and is super emotional but so beautiful

She actually hasn’t performed this song live (yet)

plss react to aurora or mitski 🙏

she actually wrote this song over a year before they broke up, it wasn't in the original version because she thought they would get better, and then she only put this song on one special edition of a vinyl

i thought you already react to it?

I feel both sides of this song. I’ve been both sides.

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i know this video came out 2 hours ago but like I've watched this before and I don't have her Patreon like I remember specific moments of the video i dont know its kinda of creepy like am I the only one

This song is about her break-up with Joe Alwyn. She wrote it toward the end of their relationship. Very classy. Seriously. That heartbeat is really hers.

Bro, the editor enjoys showcasing your other videos every 30 seconds 😂😂😂. You can relax a bit bro we get it she does other videos 🤣

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Emails I can’t send (pleaseeee 🙏 I’m begging)

Written in 2021.

this song was written on the fall 2021.... that breaks my heart

I got with someone again who I'd dated years ago. We've been, and continue to be, close friends.... but I was the one who wasn't willing to fight. I just didn't feel it the way he did, and finally after a year, I just had this talk with him. I think he understood, but god, it did not feel good. I felt trapped and claustrophobic, and he's too good a guy - he deserves someone who is thrilled to be with him, not someone who is settling. This song may not directly apply, but it's relatable enough, and she really knows how to hit a feeling well.

jus ended an 11 year relationship a few months ago and this song just is written so perfectly to describe how it jus fucking sucks

I swear only women/feminine folks react appropriately to the emotionally gut wrenching lyrics

Couldn’t get through your videos for all of your pop ups! Ridiculous!!

I immediately thought miscarriage... Could it be? Like this is how i felt after i lost a baby. I hated him.

idk why this was even made forreal... like who sits and edits an entire video just to comment on someone's weight? 🤷🏻‍♂️ maybe that's just me

This song was written way too late - should have been a Hayley song on One Tree Hill 😂

The pop in ads/promos distracting and too much

What’s really sad is she wrote this in 2021, two years before the breakup. Women tend to stay until it’s been gone and Taylor obviously stayed long after it had already died as well.

THE heart beat is a recording of Taylor's own heart........Wow..too much personal information......IF you give voice coaching to kids, I seriously wouldn't hire you ....I wouldn't want my child around your vulgar language, which wasn't necessary. Very unprofessional....especially since you pasted on the internet for everyone to view.

Thank you so much now i have two reviewers on Tays songs. You and Knox Hill. I love your reactions, i enjoy listening your analysis ❤

Audrey, i love you and your ability to relate to songs and you’re not afraid to be real and disclose your pain and to share those painful, intimate moments with us. You are truly a blessing and as soon as I find a new job, I will become a member. I worked for a company for 13 years and because I was 21 miles outside of their acceptable commute radius, I got a promotion to customer. YOU are keeping me positive and grounded so thank you, thank you thank you!!! 🫶