This is What the NARCISSIST NEVER THOUGHT you would do that makes them regret until they Die

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This is What the NARCISSIST NEVER THOUGHT you would do that makes them regret for the rest of their lives | STOICISM | MARCUS AURELIUS | SENECA
Learn how to make narcissists regret their actions with these stoic techniques. Discover how to deal with covert narcissists and whether narcissists can truly change. If you're struggling with a narcissistic mother or partner, this video is a must-watch.
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@stoicseveryday 21 күн бұрын

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@BudMurphy-bt8hh 4 күн бұрын

Yes I sure do love what I am learning everyday I will not give up I am no quieter amen you help me so much

@sloanmagnum5009 4 күн бұрын

The best thing you can do to a narcissist, whether you left on your own or were discarded is to give them your absolute silence and absence, become totally indifferent to their existence. They can only exist in your thoughts but never in your world. Consider yourself lucky if they have left you alone and focused their attention elsewhere. They're horrible people.

@stoicseveryday 3 күн бұрын

Couldn't have said it better myself. Silence truly speaks volumes, especially when dealing with toxic individuals like narcissists.

@mandyjames8211 Күн бұрын

Eventually they don't exist in your thoughts either 🫶

@user-xo5xt6nt3h Күн бұрын

Trapped in a narcissistic haze for 60 YEARS. My brother and father are narcissists. My mother and sister are malignant narcissists. I almost died five times because of my family.

@stoicseveryday Күн бұрын

Oh my god! Are you alright now?

@WendyjoyBartholomew 2 күн бұрын

I am just barely getting out of an narcissist relationship. Everything that is spoken her is punctuality & stride & so very true!

@adose_of_Tequila Күн бұрын

Me too and I’m very hurt and feel sad but I know it’s for the best.

@brianbucher1313 2 күн бұрын

Narcissists never regret anything...move on

@RecThaRebel 18 күн бұрын

It took me going to another state for work to finally break free! I knew something was wrong during the live bombing stage but couldn’t figure it out. After the constant trauma bonding and cheating I started searching for people that acted that way. I’ve been watching videos on narcissists ever since! I’m still healing.

@stoicseveryday 17 күн бұрын

i am glad that you have already started your healing journey. Just remember you are not alone, on this channel we all are one family. thanks for sharing and take care of your mental health.

@Krumbs84 5 күн бұрын

Bruh….. you never stop healing! This shit changes you completely. Once you start doing research and going on youtube you know for a fact there is a problem

@StoicSpirit101 3 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story, RecThaRebel. Your resilience is truly admirable. What advice would you give to someone who might be in a similar situation but hasn't yet recognized the signs of narcissistic behavior?

@user-qu8om1pu4s 3 күн бұрын

Brothers you are not stupid or weak !! You were targeted!! Breaking free is half the journey, healing is slow and strenuous but its worth it when you come out the other end. My narcissist has used every trick including my 8 years old daughter to get back with me. And the answer has always and always will be no can't do. God bless the people that made videos about narcissism it was a massive help

@darealblair6774 2 күн бұрын

@StoicSpirit1 good question

@BudMurphy-bt8hh 4 күн бұрын

I don't even want to think of them let alone talk or see them

@lennyluzitano8920 12 күн бұрын

you are 100% right....thank you with all my heart in Jesus name...God bless you....i'm ok now thank God...and people like you

@StoicSpirit101 3 күн бұрын

Thank you for your heartfelt comment, Lennyluzitano8920. It's wonderful to hear that you're feeling better. What specific insights or advice do you find most helpful in your journey towards healing and well-being?

@franco2b145 25 күн бұрын

Once you know, you know. The only other thing left to do, is start formulating a discrete strategy to make your exit. It may take several attempts, Lord knows it surely took me several, before I made my permanent move, yes with children. I wasn’t planning on leaving any behind! The children MUST come first by any means necessary. Go and live your lives good people. We weren’t meant to fix anyone, nor.. can we! Imagine trying to fix someone who’s slowly killing you? Go.

@stoicseveryday 25 күн бұрын

Your words hit home. Remember, you deserve happiness and peace too. Take care.

@MissTeriousAries 23 күн бұрын

Physic hugs and sooo much love chickie!!! Your survival story will help OUR younger generation!! ❣❣❣

@tammyfitzgerald5336 9 күн бұрын

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@mayhemslim1217 4 күн бұрын

She discarded me 4 weeks ago after a year of living in a limbo ..... still feel love but going no contact ...... my brain is racing every day and nightmeres every night ..... I hope I can survive.

@stoicseveryday 4 күн бұрын

Yes ...You will, you need to start looking for yourself, and trust me i have gone through the similar phase, these hard times just makes you stronger and let you know that you are brave. don't think much, its her loss, not yours.

@ignaciomartinezserra7366 3 күн бұрын

You will

@DivineIntervention777 2 күн бұрын

Jesus is the light of the world & his word is a living force. It's the only thing that Freed me was the blood of Christ an his word. Narcissistic behavior is 100% demonically Influenced. My Story & Testimony Is Supernatural & now so is my Faith. What the enemy AkA dark forces used for evil, the one True Living God Jesus-Christ used it for good & Awakened Me spiritual an to my Calling an Purpose. Witchcraft is real and most Narcissist person use Witchcraft, both knowingly & unknowingly. The Bible Says Manipulation, stubbornness & Rebellion is as the sin of Witchcraft. The key to Freed an Renewing of the mind is the word & Jesus-Christ. Iam living breathing Proof Jesus-Christ Saves, his word is truth & that Demons Are very real. God bless. Jesus-Christ Is the key you all seek trust me an choose eternal life. We are Created a Lil lower than the angels. We are God's creation so think like it, talk like it & live like it. We have royal blood runic through our vains. Most of the time, the chosen rare breeds are targets of the darkness, ending up a victim of Narcissist Manipulation.

@user-do9dh7mg1m 12 сағат бұрын

Priorities one to ten when dealing with a narcissist is protecting boundaries at all cost. Only then you can protect your piece of mind and calm

@hibbertsh 25 күн бұрын

When he realized I had nothing more to offer, he slithered away. That's when I started researching and found out exactly who he was I blocked and deleted. He has tried hoovers in different ways that I do not respond to. I want nothing more to do with this individual.

@stoicseveryday 25 күн бұрын

It's great that you were able to recognize the situation and take steps to protect yourself. Stay strong!

@StoicSpirit101 3 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience, Hibbertsh. It sounds like you've made a powerful decision for your well-being. What strategies have you found most effective in maintaining your boundaries and moving forward after cutting ties with this individual?

@hibbertsh 3 күн бұрын

@@StoicSpirit101 Costantly reminding myself this association was more toxic than it was worth. I am enjoying being isolated while I heal from this experience. At the time this all blew up I was undergoing chemo and radiation treatment which was extremely draining as it was. My home is my sanctuary, I feel safe.

@StoicSpirit101 2 күн бұрын

@@hibbertsh Thank you for sharing your experience, Hibbertsh. It sounds like you've created a safe and healing environment for yourself. What strategies or practices have you found most helpful in maintaining this sense of sanctuary and peace during your recovery?

@Krumbs84 5 күн бұрын

Im glad I left…….. As much as I wanted to stay and be there for my children, be the father to them i didnt receive I couldn’t. Over time it got worse and quickly. This person made me feel like I was a narcissist myself. I found myself responding and reacting the same way she was which made me feel like I was the actual problem. Being a people pleaser I accepted blame for everything while she got a kick out of me losing my mind. After I left the alienation started and now im at odds with my own legacy. She’s acquired flying monkeys in my own family members using my past with the stories shes been told against me. The court system is just as bad as she also has them in her back pocket. Its all about control and dominance. 3 yrs later i feel alot freer as going no contact has been an important choice to move closer to being a better version of self. It is not easy being lied on and watching those you love be manipulated however I understand the necessity in it all. One day my children will be curious and because I didnt loose my mind fighting a fight that is undefeated it would be a relief to guide them through the process of my experiences

@stoicseveryday 5 күн бұрын

I salute your courage.. please keep thriving like this..take care of yourself.

@mjo2303 5 сағат бұрын

It will contaminate you and make you feel like your the problem. Intellectually I know I’m not, the problem but I feel like I am . It’s part of their distortion of situations and truth

@Underrated7777 10 күн бұрын

I can’t stress how important it is to journal wake up in the morning. First thing you do write down what you’re thinking start there and then once things start to be easier to identify and construct what exactly you’re feeling right Moor and you’ll find yourself writing things that are surprisingly Clear and present, but you’ve been manipulated for so long that you’re just in this dysfunctional state that you can’t think or constructive thought to save your life, but I am telling you every day with one journal entry every morning do it I am telling you it’s going to work like magic like magic Get a journal book. Keep it open. Get a pen. Leave it on the journal from waking up to writing in your journal. Should be one step cut everything in between off get up. Go to the journal right down if it’s a pen that you have to click get a pen that’s already ready to write. That’s how much you need to cut the steps from waking up to writing inside of your journalshould be taken that seriously

@kyleross5019 Күн бұрын

What exactly will this do?

@Underrated7777 Күн бұрын

@@kyleross5019 it takes the thoughts out of your mind and puts it on paper. If you just do that first couple of weeks, you already noticed the difference you maybe notice a difference even after the first journal entry it has some kind of decompressive effect.

@Goodie2shoes-lb9jf 22 күн бұрын

Yes, drain resources, discard, move on, his surprise I found 8 other women. Exposed him to everyone. He's a "professional victim". He finds his victims on Tinder. The devil's playground.

@stoicseveryday 22 күн бұрын

Sorry to hear you went through that. Hopefully, your experience will help others recognize the signs of manipulation and avoid similar situations. Stay Strong.

@amywilliams4233 5 күн бұрын

Same, my ex would use Facebook and TikTok to find new victims!

@StoicSpirit101 3 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience, Goodie2shoes-lb9jf. It sounds like you've encountered a challenging situation. How did you navigate the process of exposing this behavior to others, and what advice would you give to someone facing a similar situation?

@dawnmccarthy3276 2 күн бұрын

Always have more than 1 phone. Late nights up searching for "supply.' Always want your schedule to know where you'll be and not to go. Like chaos and will put you in different chaotic situations and stand back and smile. They thrive when they give to people around you and exclude you. End of the day, be you. Live for your well being not for anyone else. Stay positive. God Bless 😁😊🍀🌞🐕‍🦺🐾💐

@StoicSpirit101 2 күн бұрын

@@dawnmccarthy3276 Thank you for sharing your insights, Dawnmccarthy3276. It's important to prioritize your well-being. What are some specific practices or habits you've adopted to maintain your positivity and sense of self?

@chippynz5564 2 күн бұрын

Although I can see that she is this now, I still feel sad seeing her sabotage herself and wreck her own life..

@user-du2zz7pd9l 10 күн бұрын

So you've met my ex-husband. ... Everything you say is accurate, but so incredibly frightening and debilitating to live through, especially when you learn that much of the harm they do is intentional and well-planned. And they experience no remorse. It's evil. Satan must be the Grandest Narcissist of all.

@stoicseveryday 9 күн бұрын

Hey, I am sorry to hear that. Hope you are taking of ur mental health now.

@Clevelandsteamer324 Күн бұрын

Move on. Go no contact or gray rock if you have to share custody. Become happy and successful. Genuinely be happy. They can sense if it’s real or not.

@dominohayes 14 сағат бұрын

At one point , I doubted my self. Later on I learned without let him know my knowledge . Now I laugh at his ways of manipulation and engaging in arguments. . It does not affects me anymore .

@user-jc5bx7is2t Күн бұрын

Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde…. that’s what I use to say about ex. I kept thinking… what did I do wrong, I was not enough, good enough, thin enough, smart enough, and did not contribute enough money. Sex was pathetic….I know somehow, I was “saved” when he left…. healing has been painful only because of how I was left feeling about myself. On the flip side of this “thinking” , I have found people, teachers, love, support, nurturing and even financial support ever since he left. When I beat myself up, which is a bad habit, I remind myself how fortunate I have been with all that has come into my life….. even the reality of narcissistic abuse. What a lesson! I am grateful for awareness of this behavior and hope others who suffer or have from it get the help that is being offered by the realization that it exists and there is help.

@dominohayes 14 сағат бұрын

I overcome the abuse

@catherinewindsor1654 4 күн бұрын

My ex-husband was as evil as evil exists. Caused me to attempt suicide twice, loss of promising future as a single, beautiful 32 yr old. As I reflect back I realize I married a monster. Our son 33 yrs old has become a narcissist to the core. Until I learned I simply absorbed the abuse. No more. It horrifies me that narcissists exist. The damage done to persons who are ignorant is tremendous. My only consolation is I know Justice is coming and harshly by a God who is all-knowing and those who harm His children or anyone are going straight to Hell for eternity.

@stoicseveryday 3 күн бұрын

It sounds like you've been through an incredibly difficult and painful experience. I'm sorry to hear that you've had to endure such trauma. Recognizing and breaking free from abusive situations can be a long and challenging journey, but it's incredibly brave of you to prioritize your well-being and safety. It's important to remember that you deserve love, respect, and happiness. Take care of yourself.

@margaretsanfran7317 Күн бұрын

SAME GOT RID OF MY NARC EX AFTER 40 YEARS THE CHEATING ABUSE FINANCIAL MENTAL TOO MUCH TOO TAKE GOT OUT SET MYSELF BACK UP IT WAS BRUTAL MY SON STARTS HIS CARRY ON EXACT SAME BEHAVIOUR AS HIS FATHER TO THE EXTENT HE SERIOUSLY ASSAULTED ME N THERE THEY BOTH WERE IN COURT I FELT NOTHING WHEN MY SON NARROWLY ESCAPED JAIL HES LOST A REALLY GOOD JOB APARTMENT THE LOT & HAS A TAG ...NEVER SAW THIS IN MY SON TILL I GOT OUT ITS ALL OVER NOW HOW KIND I WAS TO THAT MAN & BOY N THATS THE THANKS I GOT BUT IM SO GRATEFUL MY OTHER SON IS NOTHING LIKE THEM ...I HAVE NOT UTTERED 1 WORD IN 5 YEARS WHEN I GOT HIM GONE THAT WILL REMAIN IN PLACE TILL I DIE AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED THEY DO NOT EXIST WHAT TYPE OF SON HITS HIS MOTHER ON THE HEAD WITH A CHAIR 😢 I WISH U WELL ON YOUR JOURNEY 🌟

@abes2017 12 күн бұрын

I have this In my life now. But i feel rejuvenated this second for i will wake up to a new me within hours! I have broken free without feelings of guilt or shame. I am forever grateful 🙏 for this guidance and pure wisdom ❤

@stoicseveryday 12 күн бұрын

Hey, I am glad that you found it helpful. Please consider subscribing for more such videos. 😌

@Lupacool 4 сағат бұрын

24 years in now with this relationship. I thought I was crap for many years way before i ever was Married. Finally about 15 years ago i was enlightened to this reality. One Day at a time, many good days , as well as bad weeks. Knowing what’s going on and being able to witness the textbook behavior, it can be managed carefully. The crash can be very negative but always educational upon reflection. Know if your gonna express any wrong done by Them, there will be very serious negative toxic consequences guaranteed

@shifrafreewoman174 11 күн бұрын

Lots of what you say is true. I was so hurt by a relationship. I got very sick and while she was supportive for a while then she got very enraged. I took space. No apology on my part was enough. . no more or very little good stuff anymore. So much control. So angry. So mean so callous and so unemphatic. There was good in the relationship but over time so much nastiness.

@stoicseveryday 11 күн бұрын

yes, you should never apologize for taking care of urself. I am sorry you have gone through a tough time.. sending blessings on ur way. Don't forget to subscribe and stay tuned for such interesting content. 🙂

@jackclark1521 Күн бұрын

Very true! I think something should start being taught in school about it. So many people go their whole lives and never know anything g about it.

@user-do1iv1gd4r 6 сағат бұрын

I’m 67 yo. I learned of this mental disorder three years ago. My first husband was an extremely abusive narcissist which set me up to repeat the mistake with another one. He’s worse than the first one. I was love-bombed and after successfully being thrown in a cage, it was over. He moved onto the next. These women seemingly came out of the woodwork, more than happy to fulfill his needs. So now I stay locked in my room. I stayed thinking he most likely wouldn’t live past 70 but remembered too late that psychopaths/sociopaths never die. I’m sure I’ll cry when he’s gone but hopefully they’ll be tears of relief and peace. ❤

@ZenayZaal Күн бұрын

So true I was in that situation and still struggling to get over...

@julientanner5036 Күн бұрын

This is so crazy she had me looking up narcissist for myself i didn't feel i was one asked other people around me in they were like um no but after she broke up with me broke the family apart lied constantly sbout shit she shouldn't have tol lie about still paraded me around her family and wouldnt go away just was hovering exaclting dominants over my new place then came the one min lets work on our family the next minute they go cold i would get so angry and curse her out like no other not knowing she loved it my angry hurt was her fuel after the upteen lie i finally saw it for what it was i literally very calmly asked her too stay away oh yea and she came back after getting put in jail yup it was i love you i miss you my dumb ass let her back in 2 weeks later back at the point i was before

@mjo2303 5 сағат бұрын

I spent a year plus feeling sorry for this person, thinking their trauma was blinding them. I finally decided I need to walk away, the only way I could do it was by blindsiding her and saying the nastiest things and telling her I’d call the cops for harassment if she contacted me again. Strangely I feel empty and still feel sorry for her, and I feel drained I really need self compassion

@mayhemslim1217 4 күн бұрын

Your support means so much in this difficult dark period of my life❤

@stoicseveryday 4 күн бұрын

Thank you so much @mayhemslim1217 . for showering this much love ❤️🥰..and I am so happy I am able to help you with my videos. Please stay tuned, I will keep uploading more content to help people like you. Thankyou so much again.

@dominohayes 14 сағат бұрын

Now I use him for my own travels but I have other friends to have fun with .

@chaossausage3940 23 сағат бұрын

I wonder how many of us are talking about the same man or woman in our lives. 😂 We are probably all dating the same people.

@JC-br5bg 17 күн бұрын

Thank you very much for this insight! You have described a relationship in my life to a tee! Repetition is indeed key to let these lessons take root

@stoicseveryday 17 күн бұрын

Absolutely!! Thanks for being here, take care of yourself.

@fantazm79 2 күн бұрын

Of the time of thing my ex did that indicated she is a narcissist, the one that is by far most incriminating is how she would mimic the behavior of her narcissistic ex. She exhibited these behaviors know how messed up it is to be in the receiving end. I really don't think she would intentionally did any of these behaviors if she was not a narcissist herself.

@StoicSpirit101 3 күн бұрын

“He who laughs at himself never runs out of things to laugh at.” - Epictetus Thank you for watching! What do you think is the most empowering way to handle interactions with narcissists?

@stoicseveryday 3 күн бұрын

"So true! Laughing at oneself can be liberating. When it comes to narcissists, setting boundaries and practicing self-care are key. It's empowering to recognize their behavior for what it is and not let it affect your sense of self-worth."

@StoicSpirit101 2 күн бұрын

@@stoicseveryday Thank you for your insightful comment, Stoicseveryday. It's wonderful to hear how laughter and self-awareness play a role in your approach. What self-care practices have you found most effective in maintaining your boundaries and sense of self-worth?

@stoicseveryday 9 сағат бұрын

I actually make my distance immediately i spot any narcissistic traits in an individual, not waste my single second to get engaged in any kind of conversations with such people, this actually saved me a lot of time. when i found out they did something wrong with someone, i realize i could have been there in place of those victims, if i had not take any action on time.

@annikabruggeworth4643 Күн бұрын

How insightful and precise.

@salonig9005 14 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. This explains the relationship with my mother perfectly.

@stoicseveryday 14 күн бұрын

Oh! Thanx for sharing, I hope you are taking care of your mental health properly.

@Hart-rl9fq Күн бұрын

I'm so tired of being this way 2 years of this abuse

@HarleySLA 13 сағат бұрын

Nobody deserves abuse. I love you, we're all God's children, we deserve love. Unfortunately we don't always get it from each other, but God's love is always there- even when we refuse to see it. I'm guilty of that and how lonely and lost I was. Loneliness is a killer.

@dominohayes 13 сағат бұрын

Are you married to the abuser ? I understand sometimes it is difficult to just take off . In my situation is different I have my own money and my own place . Now I use the Mother … to my benefit and don’t let him intimidate me anymore , knowledge is power , read and learn all about this type of abuser and be a step ahead.

@ASHnFIENDS1111 Күн бұрын

It is so disappointing that there are people like this… My soon to be ex wife used me until I broke, trapped me with my children and then after she depleted my GI Bill she took them and falsely accused me of abuse… She did this Dec 15th last year… a very hard time for me having PTSD… I had to call the veterans crisis hotline for the 1st time and then many times over the months… she socially isolated me and then left me alone to die. But she underestimated my will for my children, they are more important than me and I need to get them away from her. By the way I am the 3rd person in her cycle of destruction

@stoicseveryday Күн бұрын

That's a very tough road you have been on. Stay strong buddy.

@dr.bunnywilson8321 8 күн бұрын

When he started telling me what God to worship,I exposed him to his friends,family,business partners & the WHOLE NEIGHBORHOOD WHEN HE ASSAULTED ME & WENT TO JAIL!!!!

@stoicseveryday 8 күн бұрын

I am sorry you went through all that..hope you are taking care of your mental health now..

@charlottemcdougale3481 Күн бұрын

5:30 yes I was married to a Narcissist for thirty six yrs like you said I didn't even know what a Narriccist was but ni

@debbielawrence9811 6 күн бұрын

I've learnt a lot watching these videos. I didn't know what a narcissist was untill I started researching about it..

@stoicseveryday 5 күн бұрын

Thtankyou so much. Subscribe and stay tuned for more such videos 🙂

@yasminramson2592 2 күн бұрын

After hearing this I am living with one😂

@catherinewindsor1654 7 сағат бұрын

Get out YESTERDAY!!

@Horizon25 19 сағат бұрын

Exactly

@user-df5rt9ix5q Күн бұрын

Narcissistic Haze hhhh...so true ...

@user-ck2oy3vu4q 25 күн бұрын

You are speaking correctly That's exactly all THEIR charater Weldone

@stoicseveryday 25 күн бұрын

Thanks for the shoutout! Keep watching!

@danmcdonald8522 6 сағат бұрын

Thank you. Your video is full of excellent insight and useful advice. You are helping many victims of abuse. God bless.

@douglaswright2610 25 күн бұрын

Kids by a married woman killed everything even my feelings !

@stoicseveryday 24 күн бұрын

I'm sorry to hear that, it sounds like a tough situation.

@patm8251 4 күн бұрын

What’s the solution for a narcissistic spouse? I’ve been married for over 10 years without realizing that she was a narcissist until recently. After a few months of marriage, I thought she had a mild intellectual disability. Here are some of what she does: 1. You don’t listen to me 2. We don’t have the same goals, you need to do what I’m doing. 3. You don’t go to church, and when I go to church on regular basis, then she will say “ We need to pray at home at least once at home. If we do that, then she start questioning or challenging my Christianity or she will say “ You can’t be a Christian if you don’t read the Bible “. 4. Complaining about everything 5. Lack of consistency 6. Creating chaos for no reason. For example “ You don’t take care of me” etc. 99% of my advice to her is rejected, even if she asks me for an advice. Sometimes when I ask her to ask her best friend for advice for the same issue, and if her friend tells her the same thing that I advised her then she will start questioning or challenging her friend’s integrity. So what are your thoughts on this?

@stoicseveryday 4 күн бұрын

See any relationship is built on a proper communication.. you need to talk it out with her.. making her realise that if it's not sorted out ASAP, it can make your relationship in danger. If she truly loves you, she will definitely try to listen to atleast what's important for you or what's bothering you...i can't comment on the Christianity part bcs that is a very sensitive topic and I don't prefer talking about it on social media. If nothing works.. I would lastly suggest you to seek professional help.. everything depends on her perspective. If she is afraid of loosing you a little bit, I am sure she will definitely try to understand the main issue in your marriage. And thanks for commenting, we all are a family here, I am sure people will try to help you in their own way... We provide strength to each other...stay blessed and don't loose trust in your God, I am sure if you truly believe him, he will make a way for you my friend.

@lennyluzitano8920 12 күн бұрын

best video ever thanks again....i'm healed.....

@stoicseveryday 12 күн бұрын

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@krizstinapapp39 26 күн бұрын

REPETITION is KEY 🔑

@stoicseveryday 26 күн бұрын

Yes, totally! :)

@IndigoBlue-td9ho 2 күн бұрын

Breaking our repetition is the key....because ive discovered oddly I attract the narcs...3 long term relationships But what is confusing....two met in bars and one online. How do they know you're an empath !

@user-wh7ou5mb4j 4 күн бұрын

This video is so true because I am pretty sure it happened to me

@stoicseveryday 4 күн бұрын

I am glad you found it relatable, please like and subscribe for more such content. :)

@IndigoBlue-td9ho 2 күн бұрын

What I find odd is that I always second guess and question myself. Then when I listen to the descriptions of the stereotype for one it makes total sense. My take on things is that whatever force we believe in GOD or universe etc etc I have this notion that we all have blueprints We come in as empaths...or narcs....or any other type of person... It's almost like two sides of the spectrum..... The older you get the more you see them. The more apparent it becomes so much so that when youve met dozens carrying the same traits there really must be a blueprint at birth !

@user-vg9db6ny4f 3 күн бұрын

Permanent damage 💔

@kat467 26 күн бұрын

Great content!

@stoicseveryday 26 күн бұрын

Hey, thanks for the shoutout! I'm glad you liked it.

@ronvanderveen6883 3 күн бұрын

Pin point accurate. Best aspect is society becoming aware and now the needle has moved towards truthful understanding. Cheers🎉

@stoicseveryday 3 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! I'm really glad to hear that you found the content precise and insightful. 🎉

@ronvanderveen6883 2 күн бұрын

truth will always just be that..truth. 🫵🍻

@Fettidadon 2 күн бұрын

I was.

@user-gb6hp2xy4q Күн бұрын

Yes I beng there am put

@jacquelineglitter4328 3 күн бұрын

My family is full of them from generations of alcoholism. I've got help over the years but they never did. Many of them I've walked away from and some I'll distance myself for awhile if they won't respect me. I don't go into anything deep and I grey rock many of them. They think I'm boring but can't handle the criticism over small things.

@stoicseveryday 3 күн бұрын

Setting boundaries and prioritizing your own well-being is important, even if others may not understand or agree with your choices. Remember to focus on what's best for you and continue to prioritize your mental and emotional health. If you ever need support or someone to talk to, there are always resources available. You're not alone in this journey.

@Leif6780 18 күн бұрын

Since 2019 ive been in a narcissistic haze always. At all times. Ii think i may have died and am in hell... For me its not just one, it is very plural... narcissi. I never realized nearly all the people closest to me are narcs my family. My friends. Lovers. And worst of all i think theyve begun corrupting my bpd to a cluster of cluster b personality disorders including ppd w/npd

@stoicseveryday 17 күн бұрын

i am really sorry to hear about your experience, that must have been so hard. I suggest you to surround yourself with people who value you, take care of yourself buddy. thanks for sharing.

@paulf7106 Күн бұрын

Great video thanks, been through the worst and working on a new me.

@stoicseveryday Күн бұрын

Glad it helped. Keep watching :)

@AnicettoBiyok 2 күн бұрын

Thank you

@stoicseveryday Күн бұрын

You're welcome! Please stay tuned for more such content :)

@richardfurlow6192 5 күн бұрын

You nailed it with this video.

@stoicseveryday 5 күн бұрын

Awwwwww, thanx for loving it. Please consider subscribing for more such videos 😌

@BudMurphy-bt8hh 4 күн бұрын

I have it know and I am not stupid enough to let that happen again my daughters are on my side and I respect both of them very very much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@stoicseveryday 3 күн бұрын

Stay strong buddy and take care of mental health, so that u can be an inspirations to your daughters in the future.

@chrissyannnh1057 15 күн бұрын

So true

@stoicseveryday 15 күн бұрын

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@user-lx6eg3op4k 5 күн бұрын

Very accurate 🌞💙

@stoicseveryday 5 күн бұрын

Thank you so much. Please consider subscribing for more such videos. 🙂

@ai3674 5 күн бұрын

Thank you so much! I😢😢😢 I was too trusting

@stoicseveryday 5 күн бұрын

It's my pleasure to help you with more advice like this. Consider subscribing for new videos every week. I am sure you will be able to help yourself in a better way.

@JamesSmith-po6di 2 сағат бұрын

Amen ..

@victorwoods1759 2 күн бұрын

5 years

@ManuelMunoz-hn5jo 4 күн бұрын

Yes

@CreateYourOwnWorld 6 күн бұрын

The age of believing others from generation to generation telling the same stories again and again have made a lot of damage even if they did on school learning old books from the past worldwide is duality in the society……everyone is unique as entering the age of knowing is who are you as you are not a book of someone else…..

@stoicseveryday 5 күн бұрын

Absolutely right 👍

@user-jv3vp9qb9f 3 күн бұрын

Yes I was

@Underrated7777 10 күн бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

@teresadvorak6145 25 күн бұрын

👍 thank U❤❤❤

@stoicseveryday 25 күн бұрын

You are so welcome! :)

@tammyfitzgerald5336 9 күн бұрын

Devil forever searching for mommy now run 🏃‍♀️

@BudMurphy-bt8hh 4 күн бұрын

Love God bless America amen I have recovered at least I see daylight know

@krizstinapapp39 26 күн бұрын

I was nearly killed by him and my children, too... He is a Swedish preschool teacher, and he still works with small children at a school even though he HIT me in my head and my BRAINS giving me an organic BRAIN injury/condition. The Police left me and our common children in our home after the abuse. We weren't taken to the ER and put in a safe place. So WE woke up next to him in the same bed. The same bed I refused to sleep in before he HIT me because he was unfaithful with another mother.

@stoicseveryday 26 күн бұрын

That's messed up, no one should have to go through that. Stay strong and take care of yourself and your children.

@raymondwallace8806 5 күн бұрын

I'm drowning

@stoicseveryday 5 күн бұрын

Hey please seek professional help, it's important to take care of mental health. You can share your story, we all are one family here.

@BudMurphy-bt8hh 4 күн бұрын

That is if I ever get a chance with one

@tammyfitzgerald5336 9 күн бұрын

Moved and cameras ❤❤❤❤❤

@BudMurphy-bt8hh 4 күн бұрын

That truly cares

@BudMurphy-bt8hh 4 күн бұрын

How well I know

@sandrahooper502 3 күн бұрын

When they cabt control you they co ntrol people around you like mutual friends kids relatives even police or social services They know what to say how to act how to be polite for like 20 min How to play victim It just unbeklvable They have many personalities One thing ask them how you feel abath something they change subject Or say what Can mot have reasonable conversion even They are so sad people Just run and never look back You be fine Because in first place you were there because you most likekly kind empath and had feelings good heart They do not have it That is why They needed you You do not need them They do not keep promises either 5hey lie With no efforts What you all think They say black is white They twist your sentences as well

@stoicseveryday 3 күн бұрын

It sounds like you've been through a lot, and it's clear you're speaking from a place of deep understanding and empathy. Your advice to distance oneself from such toxic behavior will resonate with many people who may find themselves in similar situations. It's important to remember that protecting your own mental and emotional well-being is crucial. If anyone else here has experienced something similar, please feel free to share your thoughts or advice. Let's support each other in navigating these challenging relationships. Stay strong and take care of yourselves

@BudMurphy-bt8hh 4 күн бұрын

Never again

@RichardKaniku 10 күн бұрын

Im struggling

@stoicseveryday 9 күн бұрын

Please share ..we are same family here. 🙂

@darryllovett2291 2 күн бұрын

Ginger parson covert female narcissist

@jozefjanssens3683 5 күн бұрын

tja the energie is mine energie not heres ( she is a covert Narcist with bipolar trades), sometimes I fall sometimes I win, this is evluation in 3year, i hope dat this a winner is this time

@stoicseveryday 5 күн бұрын

I hope you can help yourself with my videos. 🙂

@michealassalas 3 күн бұрын

Narcissists isnt a real word tgeyre ysually kids given stuff nit hugs or chats no comfort just give me greed addicted parents who dont live self or them just mkney cause it. Theyre emoath defecit still sources so we can heal them bless each new..true books r best. Bless hearts they grow soft too but onky when were kind to kids all ages are hods b well ❤

@stoicseveryday 3 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts! 😊 It's really important to talk about how our childhood experiences shape who we become. Your perspective on empathy and kindness is so valuable. Let's all work together to support and understand each other better. Blessings to you ! ❤