Going 7 years with no social media 😄 ( no Facebook/ Or InstaSnap/ or Tiktok ✋ Life is great 😊

"What you allow is what is going to continue." Powerfull truth. I feel the same way about mental, and emotional abuse, until you are willing to walk away, you have some responsibility for your situation.

Some many people have that issue of getting out of relationships because the fear of starting over, but comes a time your well being is more important. Happy New Year

Dating can be really expensive. 🤣 I get the business analogy.

I wish more women were like you two. Seriously.

Courtney you doing great job 💙 I wanna add up These things making people single °~° 1.Defenses. Most people have been hurt in interpersonal relationships. ... 2.Unhealthy Attractions. ... 3.Fear of Intimacy. ... 4.Pickiness. ... 5.Low Self-Esteem. ... 6.Fear of Competition. ... 7.Isolation and Routine. ... 8.Rule-making. 9.self obsession

I love how shaylee responds in a feminine feelings way lol the business analogy is a masculin logic leading way to look at it. This is an example of the different wiring and approach of male and female thinking.

About that last girl, it's disgusting how they use guys for money and wear it like a badge, and might even brag about it to their girlfriends as well. Then their girlfriends praise them for doing that. It's sickening.

As a 41 year old man, i choose to remain single in 2021/22. Humanity is a mess at the moment, i am focused on my mission and purpose, "awake/aware"where i place my attention and who i choose to share my energy with. As a man my time and attention is valuable to me and it will not be wasted.

Getting a girlfriend is like a fairytale I can only see them when I'm sleeping

It's nice to see Shaylee here again and it was funny watching her breakdown the toxicness of tik tok. It's crazy that even in 2022; people still be on that shady shit. Yes all of your advice applies to both genders. This is perfect reaction video for the new year. Those people have no chill especially one who said the guy would go bald was extra pity haha 😂 The guy in green video filter spoke some truth. A lot of guys do settle with bad girls because of low self value and i personally don't see a relationship as a business and i think you can find love at any age. There's no time limit on that. Anyways i wish you a successful New Year my friend 🙌🏽🥂💖

Shaylee is so cold and funny with her "No one feels bad for you" comment, well said!

I stay single because I cant seem to find a woman who isn't convinced that the 'garden tool phase' is some right of passage that every girl needs to go through. That's literally it.

*_TikTok_* is _literally_ The Devil! *THE DEVIL!!*

I've never understood why some women get a kick out of having lots of guys chase them because they are leading them on. That has to be alot of work and be stressful after a while right? Plus that reputation will follow you when word gets around. Go hiking or play volleyball or video games or something. Less work, more fun and nobody gets hurt.

Being a single person is just too awesome.😁 The World is huge compared to the size of a human being and I want to see it all as a solitary person. I meet women everywhere but I'm always honest with them and tell them I choose to remain single. Some don't seem to like it but others appreciate my honesty and that's apparently very attractive to them besides my other personal traits, behaviors, qualities. Nothing wrong with learning a bit for from Mrs. Ryan regardless of choosing to be single or not.

You two make a great team. You should do these as often as possible. Blessings in the New Year.

Yeah you’re right. It’s never too late to lose your home, your kids, your money, your job.

The business analogy is dead on. Men don't want to admit we failed so we hope things turn around. They hardly ever do, though.

Shaylee provides a paired, but unique perspective. Her comments were well thought out. A good match.

I’m glad Courtney and Shaylee talked about getting off social media after you have had a breakup. When most of us breakup the dumped usually hold on to everything between social media, there phone number, pictures Ect while wallowing in what could have been and holding on to a hope that maybe they’ll come back but the truth is there most likely not so I think it’s important even though it hurts to just get rid of everything that reminds you of them and move on by working on yourself for a bit. Then try again later with someone else.

'Love bombing' is absolutely a problem, but it also gets mislabeled by damaged people who don't give other people chances a lot. It isn't love bombing when someone is trying to put effort in and you keep rejecting it. It's still ultimately on that person to respect themselves and walk away, but the other person isn't the primary issue in that dynamic.

I am 61, single healthy wealthy never married no children or bad habits. I am tired of being the ATM. Lived with one girl 20 year's. Two others 3.5 year's each. Four others less than one year. Not the first one ever paid a part of any bill. They saved up their money, when flush, took off. Then, regretted it and wanted back. Not happening! Now, I enjoy lot's of women in their 20's and 30's. I am not looking for long term at this point in my life, just pleasure for now. Life is easier.

I believe you have to be happy with yourself first, if you're fortunate to meet a girl? You both add to the relationship & are a pillar of support through good times & bad. In other words, hard work.

Thank you shaylee for your sence of integrity, very encouraging.

Do appreciate all your great advice. Explaining a relationship in business terms is not the greatest but it does make it easier to understand. But it comes down to what is the cost of your time and emotional effort that you're willing to put into it. It's more than what you seem

I love this partnership video! You gals are great!💖💖💖

HI Courtney, I've seen many of your videos, not only are you very pretty, but you have a beautiful heart, good morals and even grounded, down to Earth. There needs to be more girls like you.

1:30 That girl on Tiktok is wrong. I will never be bald nor will I ever get fat. I will keep lifting weights and staying in shape until the day I die. Love the content as always Courtney. I'm glad to see that you're doing more vids with your friends. These are always fun and it's nice to hear another person's opinion too. :)

Hey Courtney! Do you think if daughters had better relationships with their fathers, that it would mitigate the majority of the enabling of poor choices being made by both men and women? BTW: I like Shaylee - she's proof there's "hope" still for marriage material in this country...

Them telling me they understand all these memes, tik Tok n snapchat references just tells me they was like this at a point and have the knowledge and skills to do it again once it's in there favor to do so

Relationships are transactional to most men, and to most women it’s emotional. It’s not whether men are right and we are wrong, we’re not alike and we’re not supposed to be. We have to know ourselves well enough to understand that we are giving each other something very important from ourselves to them whether the other person understands 💯 or not. I totally sympathise with guys who become disheartened when the woman they’re dating walks out on them. Men roll the dice with women and are at a higher risk of losing themselves and missing out! This is not taking away from the good women who do the right thing, OR the women who’ve been hurt in similar circumstances. Thanks, Courtney and Shaylee! I’m enjoying this duo set up. Pretty cool! 💞

It’s 2022!!! Why the hell are we putting up with people that treat us like that? As Coach Cory Wayne says, the bus comes every 15 mins.

People that have tons of dating options are rarely loyal and most( not all)are looking for someone better. Women are objects of beauty. Men objects of money and resources. Superficial and shallow standards are the normal expectations. This is why more single people are alone than ever before.

Ugh! It's not cute when one can't be bothered to care, whether or not there are a slew of people who are more compatible and nothing's going anywhere. And sad, but true that most settle cause they feel that if they leave the relationship, they gotta start over...dangerous way of thinking

Business Go Chapter 13 on relationships the internet has become an infectious disease of bad manners, bad social skills and bad advice. Also false unrealistic expectations.

13:55 this right here is the most attractive thing I've heard all week! Preach!🙏🏼

3:45 to 4:45 was me in my last ten year relationship to a tee. thank you for showing this on your channel. something clicked in my brain. thank you

Social media detox is actually super important for your mental health. Just seeing random stories on IG can totally screw you over, especially if you view them non intentionally

It's like super crazy disrespectful if you drive a Honda Civic and you're looking at hot, exotic sports cars on the streets or even online!

Enjoyable watch ladies like the new duo keep up the good work.

Re: the guy in the green lit room and what he said about sunk costs keeping him in the relationship, I think - the message to leave only applies while they haven't gotten married, and had kids; - given how fluid (changing based on emotions in western society) and effort oriented (it takes little efforts e.g. acts of service/ quality time/ good communication) to sustain, I think guys in that situation need to confirm if the relationship truly isn't worth the commitment (the partner might still have some good qualities that deserve staying for) vs. they just don't feel that "in love" to the person at the time, since it takes more than lovey feelings to make a loving relationship work (as I'm sure previous generations who did marriage right would attest)

Some guys are saying,"women age like milk and men age like wine." She is upset, and trying to counteract that thought process. Men do get gray, or white, or bald...but, they can stay healthy and fertile for much longer than woman can stay fertile and attractive. Older men are more likely to be established in a company and career, but older women established in a career much of the time are planning their escape or have given up on having a family. It is sad when you ask out a great person and the response is not "I am madly in love with my better half!" Or "I am flattered but have found the love of a lifetime!" Instead you get,"I couldn't do that to my kids," or, "I have been with this person for 5 years and am to invested to walk away."

37 this month and been single for 5 years for a reason, can't seem to find anyone on my wave length

*12 Simple Self Improvement Principles For Strong Women in 2022* 1. Drink more water 2. Eat whole foods 3. Practice daily gratitude 4. Pick up a book 5. Daily walks outside 6. Listen to a TED Talk 7. Forgive someone 8. Stop following Kardashians and build something for yourself 9. Join a group of supportive individuals 10. Stop nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) 11. Quit addictions - social media, binge eating, drinking, etc 12. Congratulate yourself for this growth Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list!

Another banger of a video. And I’m about my girl. Just saying this in reference to that Tik Tok about Men’s words not matching their actions. I tell my girl that I’m always there for her because I actually am. It’s so simple. I don’t get guys who play manipulative games by lying to their girls. That’s so sad

I invest in certain parts of certain markets, yet my most favorite investment is Sunday leg days. Set a new barbell clean PR today and i only have one high-intensity day each week for longevity. It is easier to put in 2hrs or more into training when you don't have to get ready for work at some point

That red sweater guy was 100% dead on correct. A relationship basically is a company. Because men, guess what? You're not only investing yourself into a woman, you're actually applying to be a part of a woman's life. Men are expendable in relationships because women have SO many options. Just like in the business world, everyone can be replaced. I've seen so many women say, I'm taking applications for my next boyfriend (LOL.) Your first, second and third dates are job interviews, and here's the best part: you're actually PAYING for that woman's time. You're not just paying for parking LOL. Even when they agree to let you into their life, you still have to WORK your ass off to STAY in her life, or as I like to call it, EMPLOYED. Or you get pink-slipped. A girlfriend, fiancé or wife ends up being your boss at home, because you always have to impress them, meet their every needs, wants, and more, answer all of their penetrating questions perfectly, handle their shit tests, and produce financially.

Hey I just found this video & I got to admit I could listen to Courtney’s voice for hours!

Superwoman and wonder woman thanks guys

Nope, the problem is that good guys are being blocked by girls who are salty.

1:18 I will quote Roger Waters - Amused to Death on this one: "What is the shelf life of a teenage queen?"

Shaylee is the perfect blend of hot and cute at the same time, while Courtney is full cuteness with her relaxing voice 🥺

I see a lot of these videos and have to say that people have forgotten how to be friends. In the beginning when things are new and the romance is at its peak things are great. After a few years life gets real. This is when a couple learns the most about each other. When the going gets tough, the tough couples work together and find solutions together as a team. I speak from 27 years of commitment and dedication to the wife I would have done anything for in this life. Had it not been for cancer we would still be together sharing life. Money is nice but I would have done anything to have her for longer than we had. What people should be looking for is that special individual that will hold their hand until the end of this life. The one that will be there no matter what. The one that will make any sacrifice for them in the end. Dignity, Respect and Civility. People call this being a SIMP. I am along in years but know that real relationships are based on Friendship, Love and Romance.

Courtney - you and Shaylee make a great team - next time can you show us girls who we would like to introduce to our Mom? ; )

Hey Courtney, first of all, wishing you and Teddy a very Happy New Year! I love your content as always and keep up the good work. Have you watched Coach Corey's video entitled "Why Women Never Mean Anything They Say"? I think it will make a great discussion video in your channel on helping guys to read between the lines of what women really mean in their words and do you agree on women using extreme tests like a 'fake breakup' to see how much their man care about them instead of proper communication? I am looking forward to hear your thoughts on this. Thank you!

Have a very Happy New Year Courtney! God bless. 🙏

Hope you had a wonderful New Year Courtney ❤🌹

I liked every tip you gave. One thing I disagree with is your point on the fact that a relationship is not a business transaction. A relationship is a trial run to a partnership in marriage. Marriage in itself is a business contract because you both equally share your assets. It's very rare to see a girl actually invest equally in a relationship. I'm not saying all women are like that. But today it's very common with a lot of women.

Heh, life is much healthier without social media! In our household we have only one FB account .. and it is for our dog ;) although .. my son uses it when his piano classes are for reason or other switched to remote. Before pandemic i used YT mostly for DIY and technical information. Unfortunately, lockdowns and absence of other entertainment changed it. Happy new year! (btw YT autocorrect/predict is evil ..)

Reason I'm single is because I'm not 6' and super muscular. Social media and dating apps has given women an overinflated sense of their sexual market value to a point where if you're not a 6'+ personal trainer, they won't even consider you a dating option. Look at beautiful women's boyfriends from the 1990s-2000s compared to today. They're definitely decent looking goods, but not the the gigachads women of today demand.

Courtney, I understand your message regarding the IG thing. I just want to explain the difference between a woman guys would JUST sleep with and a woman guys would marry. Guys aren’t necessarily saying they would date the women in the picture they’re liking. Hope that makes sense.

Thank you for the video, do you have any videos on the topic of how to move on from a long-term relationship and the pain of loss? Thank you in advance. Happy New Year, and may this year be a year of Miracles for you.

Love when you have Shaylee in the vids w u, thx for your advice Courtney 🥰🥰

I like videos with Shaylee! Smart and pretty lol. Great advice as always, Courtney!

Wow two beautiful ladies 💖💖

In life, always have the faith that you can be greater than the fear that you can't!

Y'all are too cute. Easy on the eyes, as my mom used to say. Good advice.

i like being single its lonely but its worth it

There's an evil part of me that would reply with "You have a job, right?" if a girl asked me to buy her a drink.

A woman that post pictures of her self in bikinis and what not has no right to complain if their guy like pictures of other women in bikinis or what not.

Sunday morning 02 January 2022. Thanks, Courtney.

nice video, great partnership. Happy new year

Happy new year to you two

The one who did the 'when your flirting has gone too far and they fall in love', that's ZoZoRoe. She's hilarious and often does satire

I broke up with a girl once because she could not understand the fact that I'm not a fuckboy and cannot stand being treated as one. A big problem I come across with women is that some jackass has hurt them so they have their guard up and assume I'm going to be like that. I get that they went through crap, but do I not deserve a clean slate at the beginning?

0:58 revelation!

I am done buying drinks... Too many "women" ghost after a couple of drinks (a date) and they give no signs of not having a good time.

Relationships are not companies hmmmm... so why am I constantly used as a tool?

Hell yeah fourth heart in a row from Courtney

I guess with your saying that Some people put more attention and energy on a buch of other people who they find atractive vs one person that actually cares about them.... you hit the nail right on the head 👍

Most men age like fine wine! We peak in all aspects as we get older. Our peaks are different from girls or women. The older i get the sexier i feel I look forward to my new age. #menneedtoworkforabundance

People are single because we live in a 'post Christian' era. Monogamy comes from the Christian faith based on God's 'triune nature'. Accordingly, the young man and young woman leave their father and mother and become 'one'. Marriage is a beautiful typology of God's perfect nature. This is why it is written in the Bible "God hates divorce". Any cheating pr divorce is a desecration of God's perfect order. We (humankind) mess that up because we are 'sinful' and lust after others and after 'that which we do not have' etc....

What I have found to be more common between female "friends" is the following dynamic: One woman will play the victim; even though what's happening to her is either her fault or she's being overly dramatic to make an excuse to leave a guy to "put his head in a guillotine." Then the other friend who has some sort of long-standing issues of resentment with men from her past and has nothing good to say about him or men in general will enable her pathology to persist. Then she cheats on him out of spite with however many guys she pleases and/or they then devise some scheme to act out their spite and resentment to get him falsely arrested or put in jail. None of these things are markers of an adult. They're markers of pathological female children that never grew up and are acting out their resentment and jealousy towards men. Women never just leave, they always hold a grudge. Always. Women saying: "its never too late" is a lie. It is at some point. At some point commitment is a right of passage as an adult. Make a decision. Commitment isn't something that only men are bound to land women can just do whatever the hell they want for the rest of their lives. Work through it, be an adult. If the relationship is bad: leave. If the relationship is bad and you were the source of the problems, understand what accountability is and change your bad behaviors. At some point your happiness as a woman isn't the only thing that should keep that relationship together. "I'm not happy." Well, you know what, YOU not being happy is primarily a YOU problem. Yeah, leave him I guess but, are you ever going to be happy enough or are you just going to blame men for YOU not being happy? Indecisive trepidation is a mind killer for women and if the problem persists into your thirties you likely will never be happy and only blame men for the problems that you created that men had nothing to do with.

1:15 LOLOLOLOL orrr its you getting one year closer to the wall and menopause while he is approaching his prime. Hilarious

Great job! Love the video.

When you see your adventure see your journey you know your path

Great job simple wisdom and true!

I almost called on this if you didn't correct yourself but yes, both need to have integrity!

Lol!!! "Butt hurt"

Two intelligent and beautiful women giving great advice = me subscribing.

Sad we live in a society that does not really value honesty.

Miss Courtney - first YT video with Miss Shaylee. Looking forward to more. Regarding timeline - I am nearly 55 (maybe have stated that 27 times in the last couple of hours) and I am FINALLY investing in me. Lots of damage. Lots of bad relationships (I know someone very smart who - correctly - states that I am the common denominator in all of those "bad" relationships). Taking the time now to invest in myself. The dating door is closed for me. Until further notice! LOL. Funny, ain't nobody knocking on that door! Maybe a reason for that, right? If I might ask, what do you think - in general, since this is a WIDE OPEN topic - about Jordan Peterson and his books (thinking about "12 Rules for Life" and "12 More Rules for Life")?

Yep. This channel answers why pretty well. Im a fan of it. It makes me glad to be free from all of this nonsense. Being who I am I know a lot of people, and I've seen SO much foul in my lifetime. TikTok just adds to my observations.

Excellent advice.

Unless the person is still trying to contact you there should not be a reason to block them. That’s immature people who tend to do that. Assuming the person they broke up with isn’t bothering them like I said. As for the thing about free drinks it is what it is. Often girls just go to promoter tables at clubs that got the alcohol for free

Courtney great video, you should react to some romcoms that are about how the other sex thinks, for example "he is just not that into you" or "crazy and stupid love"

The grass isn't always greener on the other side. If you're in a stable relationship be happy, don't try to change it.

"Guys, don't be a guy like that....We've all dated a guy like that." Make it make sense please!

OMFG All I can say is I am SO glad I'm single, and loving it! Ha ha!