Going 7 years with no social media 😄 ( no Facebook/ Or InstaSnap/ or Tiktok ✋ Life is great 😊
@A---AbhirajParmar2 жыл бұрын
Me too i only use LinkedIn and youtube
@adrianchico88869 ай бұрын
That’s good to hear so many people in todays world spend so much time on social media and detach themselves to the real world experiences that they miss out on social media is bad for you’re health mentally this is why I stopped using these apps because they become so addictive
@Dude-vb4ul Жыл бұрын
"What you allow is what is going to continue." Powerfull truth. I feel the same way about mental, and emotional abuse, until you are willing to walk away, you have some responsibility for your situation.
@marvinstewart17052 жыл бұрын
Some many people have that issue of getting out of relationships because the fear of starting over, but comes a time your well being is more important. Happy New Year
@davidjackson64752 жыл бұрын
That's the sunk cost fallacy at work. At that point you either accept the bitter disappointment of staying in; or you pull out of it, adjust expectations, and try again. As much as Courtney and Shaylee don't like it; it's as true in business as it is in relationships.
@UnexpectedWonder2 жыл бұрын
Indeed. 🙏🙏🙏
@UnexpectedWonder2 жыл бұрын
@@davidjackson6475 Exactly! They're thinking like Females. The older I get the more I understand that everything is relational with people. Shaylee is not understanding matters from a Man's Perspective.
@royalecrafts62522 жыл бұрын
Is boring to start all over again at least for me
@danigross982 жыл бұрын
I did pull out of my last relationship of almost 3 years at the beginning of 2020, although it was a really tough decision, it was the best I could do for both of us. I guess that's what they mean when they are telling you to man up... Only the timing sucked, it's 2022 now and I've only had just so much time where you could actually go on dates lol
@ralphmagtibay172 жыл бұрын
Dating can be really expensive. 🤣 I get the business analogy.
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
Haha right 😂
@alansun702 жыл бұрын
You can reduce the financial drain of some these restaurants by sharing the meal with your partner.
@PRdude2 жыл бұрын
I wish more women were like you two. Seriously.
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@Rick_Cleland2 жыл бұрын
😔😔😔
@johngalt68382 жыл бұрын
They're most likely not talking about you.
@SquallSZ2 жыл бұрын
Don't believe too much.
@sylvesterwoodest5358 Жыл бұрын
Remember. They make money doing this😎
@MrCanadiansingh2 жыл бұрын
Courtney you doing great job 💙 I wanna add up These things making people single °~° 1.Defenses. Most people have been hurt in interpersonal relationships. ... 2.Unhealthy Attractions. ... 3.Fear of Intimacy. ... 4.Pickiness. ... 5.Low Self-Esteem. ... 6.Fear of Competition. ... 7.Isolation and Routine. ... 8.Rule-making. 9.self obsession
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏼
@zombieslayer77592 жыл бұрын
I think you forgot only one and that is self-worship and/or selfishness. Besides that, good list man. :)
@MrCanadiansingh2 жыл бұрын
@@zombieslayer7759 thanks bro yes it was not coming in mind that time while writing it 😋
@worldwithin90752 жыл бұрын
I love how shaylee responds in a feminine feelings way lol the business analogy is a masculin logic leading way to look at it. This is an example of the different wiring and approach of male and female thinking.
@zerpblerd5966 Жыл бұрын
it has NOTHING to do with 'wiring' it is CULTURALLY LEARNED please learn about developmental psychology holy frikken stoopids everywhere, STOP with the nonsense
@GMell123 Жыл бұрын
Relationships are certainly an emotional investment. I’m looking for a woman whom I can invest emotionally into, who would then return that emotional investment back to me, with interest (and vice versa). Going on multiple dates, you know, when you’re not official, is one thing; you’re looking for your person. But having multiple official relationships on the sly? I fail to see the logic in that.
@PRdude2 жыл бұрын
About that last girl, it's disgusting how they use guys for money and wear it like a badge, and might even brag about it to their girlfriends as well. Then their girlfriends praise them for doing that. It's sickening.
@timothygibney1592 жыл бұрын
That's their mating strategy. Our job is to pay their bills so they can have a baby. So they seek 6 figure men as the best dating options
@adityamakwana6122 жыл бұрын
dude its us male enabling this behavior,if we man had standards and are choosy we would not be shooting our shoots everywhere in order to get laid with as many woman as possible
@max_rove2 жыл бұрын
What's disgusting is that a lot of guys do this. You can't blame the thief when the victim hands over their money voluntarily.
@Filthy_Larry2 жыл бұрын
makes me think that ted bundy wasnt such a bad guy afterall
@NateIcke2 жыл бұрын
As a 41 year old man, i choose to remain single in 2021/22. Humanity is a mess at the moment, i am focused on my mission and purpose, "awake/aware"where i place my attention and who i choose to share my energy with. As a man my time and attention is valuable to me and it will not be wasted.
@ShadowCthulhu2 жыл бұрын
Cheers, 43 here and I chose single life a long time ago. In a way you could say i saw this coming. As you say, my time is valuable, waste not want not.
@NateIcke2 жыл бұрын
@@ShadowCthulhu excellent choice mate, same here never married, no children.....had lots n lots of women want to dig their nails into my back over the years n entrap me down, stayed strong n true to my purpose n goals! No woman will ever just come n take my time n energy cause society and it's laws make it so! NO NO NO
@AJ-ju5dn2 жыл бұрын
Same here 43 and single . My only issue with this choice is just feeling lonely sometimes .
@tomasdeleondominguez76932 жыл бұрын
@@AJ-ju5dn there are a few great women out there. Problem is to find same 😂
@lpslancelot052 жыл бұрын
Bruh, culture is on the decline. Everybody is just bouncing around. Just enjoy the dumpster fire that is modern culture
@RaZoR7i72 жыл бұрын
Getting a girlfriend is like a fairytale I can only see them when I'm sleeping
@kylo2992 жыл бұрын
me too...
@GEORGIOARCADE2 жыл бұрын
It's nice to see Shaylee here again and it was funny watching her breakdown the toxicness of tik tok. It's crazy that even in 2022; people still be on that shady shit. Yes all of your advice applies to both genders. This is perfect reaction video for the new year. Those people have no chill especially one who said the guy would go bald was extra pity haha 😂 The guy in green video filter spoke some truth. A lot of guys do settle with bad girls because of low self value and i personally don't see a relationship as a business and i think you can find love at any age. There's no time limit on that. Anyways i wish you a successful New Year my friend 🙌🏽🥂💖
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
Agreed, Georgio! Happy new year & thanks for being here 🥰
@petertrzos66452 жыл бұрын
*looks down at belly* ...dammit.
@Gbaby2042 жыл бұрын
@@petertrzos6645 a
@ameya77232 жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan How to know what a woman bring$ to the table$ without a$king directly?
@therisingsun48282 жыл бұрын
Shaylee is so cold and funny with her "No one feels bad for you" comment, well said!
@Saphire_Throated_Carpenter_Ant2 жыл бұрын
I stay single because I cant seem to find a woman who isn't convinced that the 'garden tool phase' is some right of passage that every girl needs to go through. That's literally it.
@lordofgingers2 жыл бұрын
🎯
@adityamakwana6122 жыл бұрын
whats garden tool phase?
@kjack1572 жыл бұрын
A hoe is someone who sleeps around
@jimbaxter84882 жыл бұрын
@@adityamakwana612 girls sleeping around with high sexual body counts
@Lonstermash2 жыл бұрын
@@QMS9224 agreed, especially having lived in Los Angeles my entire life
@Rick_Cleland2 жыл бұрын
*_TikTok_* is _literally_ The Devil! *THE DEVIL!!*
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
👹
@Strive1324L2 жыл бұрын
Well it is a chinese app.
@Rick_Cleland2 жыл бұрын
@@Strive1324L Yup, the Chinese Communist Party.
@mikeklein17792 жыл бұрын
I used to agree with you but I think it has a great function. I saw an ad titled "when you see your crush on TikTok." Well, if I saw my crush on that app, doubtful she'd be my crush much longer.
@rah17352 жыл бұрын
HOLY SPIRIT ACTIVATE
@justinreich34862 жыл бұрын
I've never understood why some women get a kick out of having lots of guys chase them because they are leading them on. That has to be alot of work and be stressful after a while right? Plus that reputation will follow you when word gets around. Go hiking or play volleyball or video games or something. Less work, more fun and nobody gets hurt.
@jleano6092 жыл бұрын
because women love attention. It's literally how they arrive at their own value relative to other women in terms of SMV. i.e. How much attention from guys do I get compared to XXX?
@tomasdeleondominguez76932 жыл бұрын
@@jleano609 I think the same. They compete among themselves first.
@paulv23942 жыл бұрын
Being a single person is just too awesome.😁 The World is huge compared to the size of a human being and I want to see it all as a solitary person. I meet women everywhere but I'm always honest with them and tell them I choose to remain single. Some don't seem to like it but others appreciate my honesty and that's apparently very attractive to them besides my other personal traits, behaviors, qualities. Nothing wrong with learning a bit for from Mrs. Ryan regardless of choosing to be single or not.
@chepesantacruz7772 жыл бұрын
cope
@Filthy_Larry2 жыл бұрын
you the man paul
@dalewetzel30292 жыл бұрын
You two make a great team. You should do these as often as possible. Blessings in the New Year.
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dale! ❤️
@carlosverde-datingtips70012 жыл бұрын
I second that! …And I agree with them. Having integrity is very important… It’s really not worth it messing around with these women, or men that are unstable - why waste your time and energy on them? You would be better off being with a woman, or man that is of Quality - someone that will have your back, and vice versa. In the end, you’ll be a lot happier, and live a much more productive life - trust me! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@davidduff98712 жыл бұрын
Yeah you’re right. It’s never too late to lose your home, your kids, your money, your job.
@JasonMoir2 жыл бұрын
The business analogy is dead on. Men don't want to admit we failed so we hope things turn around. They hardly ever do, though.
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
Right 🥲
@marcmays482 жыл бұрын
It's called a sunk cost fallacy. Just move on.
@marlonmoncrieffe07282 жыл бұрын
I have no problem cutting my losses but how do you know when you are rightly ending something or just giving up because you hit a bump in the road. P.S. I am very socially retarded and emotionally unintelligent.
@marcmays482 жыл бұрын
@@marlonmoncrieffe0728 That is both an art, and a science. When you keep seeing the same problems repeat themselves, when you're feeling less happy, and more sheer exhaustion, or if friends and family are commenting on how unhappy you seem to be... those are all signs that it's time to end things. However, it is your life, so only you can make the final call if you think you're still getting something out of the relationship.
@Anamnesia2 жыл бұрын
Shaylee provides a paired, but unique perspective. Her comments were well thought out. A good match.
@wadereynolds65462 жыл бұрын
I’m glad Courtney and Shaylee talked about getting off social media after you have had a breakup. When most of us breakup the dumped usually hold on to everything between social media, there phone number, pictures Ect while wallowing in what could have been and holding on to a hope that maybe they’ll come back but the truth is there most likely not so I think it’s important even though it hurts to just get rid of everything that reminds you of them and move on by working on yourself for a bit. Then try again later with someone else.
@ryanbarker39782 жыл бұрын
'Love bombing' is absolutely a problem, but it also gets mislabeled by damaged people who don't give other people chances a lot. It isn't love bombing when someone is trying to put effort in and you keep rejecting it. It's still ultimately on that person to respect themselves and walk away, but the other person isn't the primary issue in that dynamic.
@haroldjohnson28512 жыл бұрын
I am 61, single healthy wealthy never married no children or bad habits. I am tired of being the ATM. Lived with one girl 20 year's. Two others 3.5 year's each. Four others less than one year. Not the first one ever paid a part of any bill. They saved up their money, when flush, took off. Then, regretted it and wanted back. Not happening! Now, I enjoy lot's of women in their 20's and 30's. I am not looking for long term at this point in my life, just pleasure for now. Life is easier.
@donaldduck74612 жыл бұрын
I believe you have to be happy with yourself first, if you're fortunate to meet a girl? You both add to the relationship & are a pillar of support through good times & bad. In other words, hard work.
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏼❤️
@Rafa-od5qz2 жыл бұрын
Well put Donald Duck!
@donaldduck74612 жыл бұрын
@@Rafa-od5qz thanks mate
@FreakinfreakInfreaki2 жыл бұрын
Happy with yourself first? I am so screwed...
@Rafa-od5qz2 жыл бұрын
@@FreakinfreakInfreaki as along you continue to wake up and see the next day it’s never too late , baby steps lead to big changes
@TheHornet1fan2 жыл бұрын
Thank you shaylee for your sence of integrity, very encouraging.
@russellmarvin28502 жыл бұрын
Do appreciate all your great advice. Explaining a relationship in business terms is not the greatest but it does make it easier to understand. But it comes down to what is the cost of your time and emotional effort that you're willing to put into it. It's more than what you seem
@unicornwitchprincess10042 жыл бұрын
I love this partnership video! You gals are great!💖💖💖
@jimcipolla852 жыл бұрын
HI Courtney, I've seen many of your videos, not only are you very pretty, but you have a beautiful heart, good morals and even grounded, down to Earth. There needs to be more girls like you.
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
Awww thank you Jim! ❤️
@Filthy_Larry2 жыл бұрын
shes a fake. live long enough like me and you'll understand.
@zombieslayer77592 жыл бұрын
1:30 That girl on Tiktok is wrong. I will never be bald nor will I ever get fat. I will keep lifting weights and staying in shape until the day I die. Love the content as always Courtney. I'm glad to see that you're doing more vids with your friends. These are always fun and it's nice to hear another person's opinion too. :)
@mokrulgobline94032 жыл бұрын
That girl on Tiktok will one day wake up to realize that she has become older, less attractive, and no longer relevant on social media. Then she will have to develop some empathy ... and a personality, though most people hit a "wall" in their 30's. She'll probalby understand when people stop liking videos of her twerking.
@jleano6092 жыл бұрын
Yep, as long as a guy stays fit he remains attractive far longer than a woman. After around 25 it's all downhill for a woman. Not saying she can't still be attractive but she's past her peak years. Then she has the wall and loss of fertility to deal with in mid to late 30s. Men meanwhile are only growing in value through these years, and the old tadpoles are still working too!
@zombieslayer77592 жыл бұрын
@@mokrulgobline9403 I could not agree more with you sir. 🙌🏻
@zombieslayer77592 жыл бұрын
@@jleano609 For the most part, yes. Although women can do a lot to remain attractive for a long period of time just as I can as a man. In that woman's case, what you described will very likely turn out to be the case. Plus in the end, what good is outer beauty if you are ugly as sin on the inside?
@jleano6092 жыл бұрын
@@zombieslayer7759 no woman can outrun basic biology and male attraction cues. A friend of mine aged 57 has just wifed and put a baby in a 35yo girl. There is no UNO reverse on that dynamic. Men win out in the end IF we stay attractive.
@07wrxtr12 жыл бұрын
Hey Courtney! Do you think if daughters had better relationships with their fathers, that it would mitigate the majority of the enabling of poor choices being made by both men and women? BTW: I like Shaylee - she's proof there's "hope" still for marriage material in this country...
@moleahy68802 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, YES. There's an awful lot of young women who have Daddy issues. It often manifests itself in these women wanting a man to spoil them, pay their bills, and take care of them. They are not really looking for a partner. They are looking for a father.
@johnmininger74722 жыл бұрын
I have two daughters who are now young adults. They have been my priority since day 1. They have a father, they don't need to look for one. Not that they don't struggle sometimes, like all adults do, but making poor relationship choices is not something they struggle with. Proud of both of them.
@MrDee-ct7gi2 жыл бұрын
Them telling me they understand all these memes, tik Tok n snapchat references just tells me they was like this at a point and have the knowledge and skills to do it again once it's in there favor to do so
@Nah-ah2 жыл бұрын
Relationships are transactional to most men, and to most women it’s emotional. It’s not whether men are right and we are wrong, we’re not alike and we’re not supposed to be. We have to know ourselves well enough to understand that we are giving each other something very important from ourselves to them whether the other person understands 💯 or not. I totally sympathise with guys who become disheartened when the woman they’re dating walks out on them. Men roll the dice with women and are at a higher risk of losing themselves and missing out! This is not taking away from the good women who do the right thing, OR the women who’ve been hurt in similar circumstances. Thanks, Courtney and Shaylee! I’m enjoying this duo set up. Pretty cool! 💞
@jamosss2 жыл бұрын
@Courtney Ryan pin this🙏🏾😭
@SmellOfFruit2 жыл бұрын
It’s 2022!!! Why the hell are we putting up with people that treat us like that? As Coach Cory Wayne says, the bus comes every 15 mins.
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏼
@jasonrocksvegas2 жыл бұрын
People that have tons of dating options are rarely loyal and most( not all)are looking for someone better. Women are objects of beauty. Men objects of money and resources. Superficial and shallow standards are the normal expectations. This is why more single people are alone than ever before.
@tommygunn69012 жыл бұрын
Ugh! It's not cute when one can't be bothered to care, whether or not there are a slew of people who are more compatible and nothing's going anywhere. And sad, but true that most settle cause they feel that if they leave the relationship, they gotta start over...dangerous way of thinking
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
Very!
@johnmetzger76462 жыл бұрын
Business Go Chapter 13 on relationships the internet has become an infectious disease of bad manners, bad social skills and bad advice. Also false unrealistic expectations.
@austinbergen24092 жыл бұрын
13:55 this right here is the most attractive thing I've heard all week! Preach!🙏🏼
@TotalSweetness100 Жыл бұрын
3:45 to 4:45 was me in my last ten year relationship to a tee. thank you for showing this on your channel. something clicked in my brain. thank you
@bambostarla62592 жыл бұрын
Social media detox is actually super important for your mental health. Just seeing random stories on IG can totally screw you over, especially if you view them non intentionally
@brotendo2 жыл бұрын
It's like super crazy disrespectful if you drive a Honda Civic and you're looking at hot, exotic sports cars on the streets or even online!
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
….. I think comparing a situation with a car and a human being is not the best take lmao
@brotendo2 жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan My point is that people are always going to be wanting and desiring more, even the people hurt by it. Acting on it when it's wrong is the problem.
@damianogrady61572 жыл бұрын
Enjoyable watch ladies like the new duo keep up the good work.
@ilai78932 жыл бұрын
Re: the guy in the green lit room and what he said about sunk costs keeping him in the relationship, I think - the message to leave only applies while they haven't gotten married, and had kids; - given how fluid (changing based on emotions in western society) and effort oriented (it takes little efforts e.g. acts of service/ quality time/ good communication) to sustain, I think guys in that situation need to confirm if the relationship truly isn't worth the commitment (the partner might still have some good qualities that deserve staying for) vs. they just don't feel that "in love" to the person at the time, since it takes more than lovey feelings to make a loving relationship work (as I'm sure previous generations who did marriage right would attest)
@mokrulgobline94032 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I really identify with the green guy for some reason. Despite "feminism," women really do expect men to invest a lot of resources and money into relationships -getting the check for dinners, activities, etc. From here on out, I'll be having 1st dates at Taco Bell, although, because I am a gentleman, I will insist on carrying the tray.
@shaunmayhew82942 жыл бұрын
Some guys are saying,"women age like milk and men age like wine." She is upset, and trying to counteract that thought process. Men do get gray, or white, or bald...but, they can stay healthy and fertile for much longer than woman can stay fertile and attractive. Older men are more likely to be established in a company and career, but older women established in a career much of the time are planning their escape or have given up on having a family. It is sad when you ask out a great person and the response is not "I am madly in love with my better half!" Or "I am flattered but have found the love of a lifetime!" Instead you get,"I couldn't do that to my kids," or, "I have been with this person for 5 years and am to invested to walk away."
@Booster852 жыл бұрын
37 this month and been single for 5 years for a reason, can't seem to find anyone on my wave length
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
Makes sense!
@iconodule39382 жыл бұрын
Saaaame
@privateequityguy2 жыл бұрын
*12 Simple Self Improvement Principles For Strong Women in 2022* 1. Drink more water 2. Eat whole foods 3. Practice daily gratitude 4. Pick up a book 5. Daily walks outside 6. Listen to a TED Talk 7. Forgive someone 8. Stop following Kardashians and build something for yourself 9. Join a group of supportive individuals 10. Stop nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) 11. Quit addictions - social media, binge eating, drinking, etc 12. Congratulate yourself for this growth Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list!
@Teddy_Gautier2 жыл бұрын
Another banger of a video. And I’m about my girl. Just saying this in reference to that Tik Tok about Men’s words not matching their actions. I tell my girl that I’m always there for her because I actually am. It’s so simple. I don’t get guys who play manipulative games by lying to their girls. That’s so sad
@drip3692 жыл бұрын
I invest in certain parts of certain markets, yet my most favorite investment is Sunday leg days. Set a new barbell clean PR today and i only have one high-intensity day each week for longevity. It is easier to put in 2hrs or more into training when you don't have to get ready for work at some point
@Youngboss10242 жыл бұрын
That red sweater guy was 100% dead on correct. A relationship basically is a company. Because men, guess what? You're not only investing yourself into a woman, you're actually applying to be a part of a woman's life. Men are expendable in relationships because women have SO many options. Just like in the business world, everyone can be replaced. I've seen so many women say, I'm taking applications for my next boyfriend (LOL.) Your first, second and third dates are job interviews, and here's the best part: you're actually PAYING for that woman's time. You're not just paying for parking LOL. Even when they agree to let you into their life, you still have to WORK your ass off to STAY in her life, or as I like to call it, EMPLOYED. Or you get pink-slipped. A girlfriend, fiancé or wife ends up being your boss at home, because you always have to impress them, meet their every needs, wants, and more, answer all of their penetrating questions perfectly, handle their shit tests, and produce financially.
@timothygibney1592 жыл бұрын
I saw another redpill channel from a psychologist who talks about this. Studies have shown women are turned off by what you just said "investments". It's weak and beta and they feel you are crazy and pushing a relationship and will back away. The reason he said while women fall for dirt bags is they don't invest in women so they invest in the man. The more a woman tries to please her man, make dinner for him, tell him she loves him the more she falls under his spell. I forgot the name of the channel but he a psychologist. So act busy and be scarce and create value. Stop texting and applying for her graciness as you act like a bitch she will treat you as one. Be assertive and not give a crap and she will be applying for you. The other beta simps will vanish away as she will be chasing you
@jleano6092 жыл бұрын
That's a terrible mindset for success with women. You've got to flip that script by building your value and learning some game so you can date attractive girls with LOWER SMV than you. That way THEY are the ones qualifying to YOU and chasing you for the relationship. That's the only way for long term success for the guy and the girl.
@timothygibney1592 жыл бұрын
@@jleano609 That is not good enough. With dating apps even 5s have 2 dozen simps at all times begging for a date. One of them will make 6 figures and be over 6 feet tall. What you need to do is have her invest in you. Have her do things for you and switch the application to you by being scarcely available and not buying her expensive gifts but have her do the same. Chicks dig jerks because they have to do the chasing and investing to gain their attention. Once you mention what you want and have her make dinner, please you in bed, have her buy something like a glass of wine you like she will dump the other dudes and focus on you
@jleano6092 жыл бұрын
@@timothygibney159 we’re basically talking about the same thing, but you can only stand out in first instance by being the high value guy who doesn’t pedestalize her, doesn’t blow up her phone and limits his time and attention. That separates you straight away from the thirsty simps so unless she’s just an attention whore you’ll rise above the others and you can switch the script on her. And as you say a woman will do all sorts of things for a dominant man, basically take on that feminine submissive role. Do it right and you don’t even have to be a jerk, just a guy with a solid frame, standards and boundaries. Your job then is to simply stay attractive and dominant. Actually that’s the hard part as she gets used to you over time.
@Youngboss10242 жыл бұрын
@@jleano609 Why in the world would anyone want to date someone with a lower SMV than me? That is a terrible mindset. You lose.
@daveparnell33302 жыл бұрын
Hey I just found this video & I got to admit I could listen to Courtney’s voice for hours!
@bullseyestudios90682 жыл бұрын
Superwoman and wonder woman thanks guys
@Janopooh2 жыл бұрын
Nope, the problem is that good guys are being blocked by girls who are salty.
@Filthy_Larry2 жыл бұрын
i agree. heres also another truth, im a good man but im not a nice guy.
@gjermundification2 жыл бұрын
1:18 I will quote Roger Waters - Amused to Death on this one: "What is the shelf life of a teenage queen?"
@Kevin092102 жыл бұрын
Shaylee is the perfect blend of hot and cute at the same time, while Courtney is full cuteness with her relaxing voice 🥺
@Filthy_Larry2 жыл бұрын
nah. she sounds like a manipulator!
@tobydulanski3000 Жыл бұрын
I see a lot of these videos and have to say that people have forgotten how to be friends. In the beginning when things are new and the romance is at its peak things are great. After a few years life gets real. This is when a couple learns the most about each other. When the going gets tough, the tough couples work together and find solutions together as a team. I speak from 27 years of commitment and dedication to the wife I would have done anything for in this life. Had it not been for cancer we would still be together sharing life. Money is nice but I would have done anything to have her for longer than we had. What people should be looking for is that special individual that will hold their hand until the end of this life. The one that will be there no matter what. The one that will make any sacrifice for them in the end. Dignity, Respect and Civility. People call this being a SIMP. I am along in years but know that real relationships are based on Friendship, Love and Romance.
@josephstevens98882 жыл бұрын
Courtney - you and Shaylee make a great team - next time can you show us girls who we would like to introduce to our Mom? ; )
@taytzuleong55842 жыл бұрын
Hey Courtney, first of all, wishing you and Teddy a very Happy New Year! I love your content as always and keep up the good work. Have you watched Coach Corey's video entitled "Why Women Never Mean Anything They Say"? I think it will make a great discussion video in your channel on helping guys to read between the lines of what women really mean in their words and do you agree on women using extreme tests like a 'fake breakup' to see how much their man care about them instead of proper communication? I am looking forward to hear your thoughts on this. Thank you!
@SoldierPoet2 жыл бұрын
Have a very Happy New Year Courtney! God bless. 🙏
@johngonzalez42982 жыл бұрын
Hope you had a wonderful New Year Courtney ❤🌹
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
You too John! ❤️
@johngonzalez42982 жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan Thanks Courtney!
@ryanj3572 жыл бұрын
I liked every tip you gave. One thing I disagree with is your point on the fact that a relationship is not a business transaction. A relationship is a trial run to a partnership in marriage. Marriage in itself is a business contract because you both equally share your assets. It's very rare to see a girl actually invest equally in a relationship. I'm not saying all women are like that. But today it's very common with a lot of women.
@matikaevur62992 жыл бұрын
Heh, life is much healthier without social media! In our household we have only one FB account .. and it is for our dog ;) although .. my son uses it when his piano classes are for reason or other switched to remote. Before pandemic i used YT mostly for DIY and technical information. Unfortunately, lockdowns and absence of other entertainment changed it. Happy new year! (btw YT autocorrect/predict is evil ..)
@josephgiambalvo38222 жыл бұрын
Reason I'm single is because I'm not 6' and super muscular. Social media and dating apps has given women an overinflated sense of their sexual market value to a point where if you're not a 6'+ personal trainer, they won't even consider you a dating option. Look at beautiful women's boyfriends from the 1990s-2000s compared to today. They're definitely decent looking goods, but not the the gigachads women of today demand.
@A---AbhirajParmar2 жыл бұрын
Me too Major reason is i dont have enough money to waste on someone whom i am not sure if she’s gonna stay or not
@jcyarg22 жыл бұрын
Courtney, I understand your message regarding the IG thing. I just want to explain the difference between a woman guys would JUST sleep with and a woman guys would marry. Guys aren’t necessarily saying they would date the women in the picture they’re liking. Hope that makes sense.
@cl8wnm5n2 жыл бұрын
That is true but it is disrespectful to lead with lust.
@jcyarg22 жыл бұрын
@@cl8wnm5n I agree.
@SlavicDyourCoach2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video, do you have any videos on the topic of how to move on from a long-term relationship and the pain of loss? Thank you in advance. Happy New Year, and may this year be a year of Miracles for you.
@capriomichael18792 жыл бұрын
Love when you have Shaylee in the vids w u, thx for your advice Courtney 🥰🥰
@shayleej942 жыл бұрын
thank you!
@capriomichael18792 жыл бұрын
@@shayleej94 Np 😉
@CinemaSermons2 жыл бұрын
I like videos with Shaylee! Smart and pretty lol. Great advice as always, Courtney!
@josephsielskisr37422 жыл бұрын
Wow two beautiful ladies 💖💖
@dochamp22 жыл бұрын
In life, always have the faith that you can be greater than the fear that you can't!
@chuychubasquino29572 жыл бұрын
Y'all are too cute. Easy on the eyes, as my mom used to say. Good advice.
@michaelkrain1644 Жыл бұрын
i like being single its lonely but its worth it
@ZakkuTakku Жыл бұрын
Lonely but peaceful
@Bugga451 Жыл бұрын
There's an evil part of me that would reply with "You have a job, right?" if a girl asked me to buy her a drink.
@Kratatch Жыл бұрын
A woman that post pictures of her self in bikinis and what not has no right to complain if their guy like pictures of other women in bikinis or what not.
@teddychalgren2 жыл бұрын
Sunday morning 02 January 2022. Thanks, Courtney.
@stephenpatchett20892 жыл бұрын
nice video, great partnership. Happy new year
@balham56062 жыл бұрын
Happy new year to you two
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
You too! ❤️
@SplashCannonball2 жыл бұрын
The one who did the 'when your flirting has gone too far and they fall in love', that's ZoZoRoe. She's hilarious and often does satire
@jacegallagher85892 жыл бұрын
I broke up with a girl once because she could not understand the fact that I'm not a fuckboy and cannot stand being treated as one. A big problem I come across with women is that some jackass has hurt them so they have their guard up and assume I'm going to be like that. I get that they went through crap, but do I not deserve a clean slate at the beginning?
@davidpeter45882 жыл бұрын
0:58 revelation!
@nokinim2 жыл бұрын
I am done buying drinks... Too many "women" ghost after a couple of drinks (a date) and they give no signs of not having a good time.
@jonnomame39092 жыл бұрын
Relationships are not companies hmmmm... so why am I constantly used as a tool?
@englishsounds64612 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah fourth heart in a row from Courtney
@CourtneyRyan2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@drip3692 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@p4ul.f7082 жыл бұрын
I guess with your saying that Some people put more attention and energy on a buch of other people who they find atractive vs one person that actually cares about them.... you hit the nail right on the head 👍
@phumai48502 жыл бұрын
Most men age like fine wine! We peak in all aspects as we get older. Our peaks are different from girls or women. The older i get the sexier i feel I look forward to my new age. #menneedtoworkforabundance
@Filthy_Larry2 жыл бұрын
im 40 and still eye down women 18+
@jimbaxter84882 жыл бұрын
People are single because we live in a 'post Christian' era. Monogamy comes from the Christian faith based on God's 'triune nature'. Accordingly, the young man and young woman leave their father and mother and become 'one'. Marriage is a beautiful typology of God's perfect nature. This is why it is written in the Bible "God hates divorce". Any cheating pr divorce is a desecration of God's perfect order. We (humankind) mess that up because we are 'sinful' and lust after others and after 'that which we do not have' etc....
@itstriplem20692 жыл бұрын
Exactly, and you'll have people say its patriarchal or whatever, like nah its God's design
@iconodule39382 жыл бұрын
Why would you say something so controversial yet so brave
@jimbaxter84882 жыл бұрын
@@iconodule3938 it's just the truth. Not brave. The basis of marriage makes absolutely no sense if you don't believe in God. The really popular cultural view on social media is that humans are 'evolved animals' products of 'natural selection'. Therefore, (they argue) as animals, it isn't 'natural' for us to be monogamous. Then they'll blabber a truckload of crap describing how humans are simply herd animals and the 'alpha herd animals' get to screw most/all the female animals to creat genetically superior animals etc etc etc...bla bla bla...then they'll turn right around be shocked, surprised, and emotionally upset when their 'partner' cheats on them. Without belief in God, without human beings being 'made in God's Image' (unique with a conscience- knowing the difference between 'good and evil'- i.e.- separate from animals) and without all humans possessing 'priceless intrinsic value', society DISINTEGRATES into exactly what we are witnessing...
@stevemcrichards87682 жыл бұрын
What I have found to be more common between female "friends" is the following dynamic: One woman will play the victim; even though what's happening to her is either her fault or she's being overly dramatic to make an excuse to leave a guy to "put his head in a guillotine." Then the other friend who has some sort of long-standing issues of resentment with men from her past and has nothing good to say about him or men in general will enable her pathology to persist. Then she cheats on him out of spite with however many guys she pleases and/or they then devise some scheme to act out their spite and resentment to get him falsely arrested or put in jail. None of these things are markers of an adult. They're markers of pathological female children that never grew up and are acting out their resentment and jealousy towards men. Women never just leave, they always hold a grudge. Always. Women saying: "its never too late" is a lie. It is at some point. At some point commitment is a right of passage as an adult. Make a decision. Commitment isn't something that only men are bound to land women can just do whatever the hell they want for the rest of their lives. Work through it, be an adult. If the relationship is bad: leave. If the relationship is bad and you were the source of the problems, understand what accountability is and change your bad behaviors. At some point your happiness as a woman isn't the only thing that should keep that relationship together. "I'm not happy." Well, you know what, YOU not being happy is primarily a YOU problem. Yeah, leave him I guess but, are you ever going to be happy enough or are you just going to blame men for YOU not being happy? Indecisive trepidation is a mind killer for women and if the problem persists into your thirties you likely will never be happy and only blame men for the problems that you created that men had nothing to do with.
@brentboost28792 жыл бұрын
1:15 LOLOLOLOL orrr its you getting one year closer to the wall and menopause while he is approaching his prime. Hilarious
@yaskingslay Жыл бұрын
Great job! Love the video.
@scottmullen6002 жыл бұрын
When you see your adventure see your journey you know your path
@ozaurelius41282 жыл бұрын
Great job simple wisdom and true!
@VILLEGAS76able2 жыл бұрын
I almost called on this if you didn't correct yourself but yes, both need to have integrity!
@seanm.matthews36942 жыл бұрын
Lol!!! "Butt hurt"
@DillonColtMusic2 жыл бұрын
Two intelligent and beautiful women giving great advice = me subscribing.
@tomasdeleondominguez76932 жыл бұрын
Sad we live in a society that does not really value honesty.
@Filthy_Larry2 жыл бұрын
for real
@Cary_Shultz2 жыл бұрын
Miss Courtney - first YT video with Miss Shaylee. Looking forward to more. Regarding timeline - I am nearly 55 (maybe have stated that 27 times in the last couple of hours) and I am FINALLY investing in me. Lots of damage. Lots of bad relationships (I know someone very smart who - correctly - states that I am the common denominator in all of those "bad" relationships). Taking the time now to invest in myself. The dating door is closed for me. Until further notice! LOL. Funny, ain't nobody knocking on that door! Maybe a reason for that, right? If I might ask, what do you think - in general, since this is a WIDE OPEN topic - about Jordan Peterson and his books (thinking about "12 Rules for Life" and "12 More Rules for Life")?
@jasonste4lth6142 жыл бұрын
Yep. This channel answers why pretty well. Im a fan of it. It makes me glad to be free from all of this nonsense. Being who I am I know a lot of people, and I've seen SO much foul in my lifetime. TikTok just adds to my observations.
@jamesclough26382 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice.
@claytonelofgren2 жыл бұрын
Unless the person is still trying to contact you there should not be a reason to block them. That’s immature people who tend to do that. Assuming the person they broke up with isn’t bothering them like I said. As for the thing about free drinks it is what it is. Often girls just go to promoter tables at clubs that got the alcohol for free
@ZakkuTakku Жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree. Unless the ex is straight up harassing you, blocking (even temporarily) is a bit extreme. I can get unfollowing, because in that case you're not completely cutting them out, just hiding most, or all of their posts from your feed. There will pretty much always be plenty of desperate guys out there sadly. I used to be one of them, and I know plenty who still are. It is what it is indeed...
@antoniopalestini83582 жыл бұрын
Courtney great video, you should react to some romcoms that are about how the other sex thinks, for example "he is just not that into you" or "crazy and stupid love"
@milforddekalb6429 Жыл бұрын
The grass isn't always greener on the other side. If you're in a stable relationship be happy, don't try to change it.
@NightRidah7772 жыл бұрын
"Guys, don't be a guy like that....We've all dated a guy like that." Make it make sense please!
@PaulDarcy2 жыл бұрын
OMFG All I can say is I am SO glad I'm single, and loving it! Ha ha!
@Filthy_Larry2 жыл бұрын
im glad i have the covid. i should walk into my gym and spread the disease