I think when guys shy away from "strong and confident", they mean something really different from what you do. In this world of capital-F Feminism, "strong and confident" can be a polite way of referring to pushy, dominating, non-feminine women. Most guys very much want what you describe, but that ain't always what's out there. :)

"Strong and powerful" women probably translates to a loud, vocal and masculine type to most guys. I think most accomplished men want someone who is confident but soft and nuturing.

Only a woman could say "I'll let love find me" and actually have an expectation of it working. Dating apps are a waste of time for men and should not be used.

Dating apps are ridiculous. Great way to make sure you have a few men who get laid all the time, a majority of men who are despondent and resentful, and a majority of women who are wildly disappointed by the fact that they can't get a man to stick around. They've been horrible for us.

Courtney, would love to hear you talk about the 80/20 principe. Also, the recent study on online dating that showed that women rated 80% of men as unattractive and only “liked” about 4% of men’s profiles. Men on the other hand rated 60% of women’s profiles as attractive.

Ok. There's a difference between strong and hard. A feminine woman can be strong. Most masculine women are hard... brittle. What has gotten confused is that the feminism is that they seem to think that strong means masculine. That is where the stereotype comes from.

Always appreciate hearing your thoughtful perspectives! I don’t have any social media profiles anymore so I’m way behind the times on what people expect/want with dating

I disagree about meeting people on dating apps. Men have such an insane disadvantage when it comes to meeting people that dating apps. If the average man wants to even have a chance at getting a date they need to start making making conversation and taking chances irl.

Age is a factor in relationships! I’m 36 and it’s taken breakups, heartache and experience to be successful when you meet someone adaptable for you

I think the best way to meet someone is through mutual friends or through a common hobby.

People say "Love will find me when I'm ready. A right person will come when you least expect it." I agree with that, but to a degree. If you just sit on the ass and wait for perfect person to walk into your life, that is not going to happen. You have to work on yourself, be sufficient, successful, happy. Only then the person you meet can be a perfect fit, when you don't need it to "complete" you but to complement you.

Based on my experience with dating apps over the course of 6 years, I've got to be the ugliest, most undesirable guy to exist. Counting all of the matches from 3 apps, I've matched with less than 30 actual people, 2 of which I had an actual conversation with for more than a day. I've even worked with people on creating many different types of bios, used the pictures that show I have friends, pets, family, do outdoor activities, work out, have hobbies, dressed up, dressed down, serious, goofy, confident... and these were my results. For some men, it's just not there. I don't mean for this to sound like a pity party, it's just my experience and realization.

Well, Courtney. In terms of getting close. It's only sexy when the guy is good looking. But it's scary when the guy is not so good-looking. Looks make a lot of difference when meeting new people or women.

My wife cheated on me for months. I never understood why people cheat. If you want that then finalize a divorce then move on. I just don't understand.

I enjoy seeing people on social media recognize and change the problems others point out in society. I’m still not ready to date but it’s nice to see society change for the better.

I actually do way better in real world scenarios than on dating apps. I think it's great if people meet that way, but for myself it just didn't translate to much success. Also, shout-out to you Courtney for the winter men's essentials video! I'm not the most fashion conscious person, so your insights were much appreciated.

All I saw while watching the video is how much social media is destroying society

Of course it worked for you Courtney, you’re a woman! Like you said before in another video, dating apps are designed to be that way.

Okay Courtney, three things. 1-The tik tok you watched with the girl saying "he is gay" because he hasn't come over, despite me staring at him and giving him signs is SELF-ENTITLEMENT at it's finest. Many times, guys are aware that girls do this, if we don't approach...it could be that we're just shy as well or mostly that we are just not that interested in you. That fact that she resorts to calling him gay is stupid and that's the point you missed. Point 2- The whole online dating thing is ridiculous, many men & women put what they want on their dating profiles, but then their actions don't match up. Many do and live up to it, it's a 50/50 thing. I'll write Point 3 on the comment to this post...

I feel this changed my mindset and perspective on talking to or interacting with women, I read it on a forum, I thought the guy hit the nail right on the head. It changed my perspective and mindset on talking to women. A guy was asking for advice on how to get better at talking to women, and people used the word practice "It bothers and annoys, enrages me or pisses me off a lot when people use the word practice, because the way I see it, for women, there is no such thing as practicing talking to men, because women's lives are on autopilot when it comes to talking to men since puberty, due to all of the constant attention they've been getting since then, women are forced to, have no choice but to learn how to talk to men, and they gain it right away by doing nothing since they don't have to open their mouth first" I thought to myself, never truer words have been said or spoken. I thought that was bang-on right there. and i got a response from a dating coach on youtube, which enraged and pissed me off more, while I don't disagree with him, I just don't like how he said the brutal cold harsh fact of how different for men and women when it comes to getting better at talking to and interacting with the opposite sex. It makes sense and I like to believe there is far more advice for guys in the world on how to talk to and interact with girls then there is advice for girls on how to talk to and interact with guys. He said: "Don't worry about what other people don't have to do or why something is easier for them or whatever the comparison may be. Focus on you, where you want to be, what you need to do to get there and then get moving." That pissed me off more when I read that. Another reason why I don't like it is because it feels or seems like the way a guy talks and interacts with people or a guy's social skills has a much bigger impact on his attractiveness or ability to get a girlfriend then the other way around. As in, the way a girl talks or a girl's social skills doesn't impact her attractiveness or ability to get a boyfriend as much as it does for a guy to get a girlfriend. If an interaction or conversation goes poorly or bad between a man and a woman,. It's always the guys fault, it's impossible for a woman to screw up a conversation or interaction with a guy.

Truuuuust I'm a guy. I lost a great girl cheating. Few years ago when I was about 25. I was a dj at many places surrounded by strippers and gogo's dancers. Other beautiful girls but I've learned a whole lot since.

I agree the apps aren't conceptually bad, but I find that the paradigm amplifies hypergamy and the problems that often come along with it (unreasonable expectations, no shot for bottom 90% of guys, etc.), and I've had bad experiences. I don't think I'm actually undesirable, but the apps had me thinking that. I'm sure some of it was my profile and stuff, but the system is designed to get people to stay on the apps as long as possible and have to pay to get access to "better" matches. Hinge says it's designed to be deleted, but that's literally just a marketing line. It's designed to be addictive. One of my friends got married to a Hinge match, which I have absolutely no qualms with, but for the people it doesn't work out for, it limits our options outside of that pool.

I once heard on the radio 2 men saying; " That if you want to get married you should Not be " Running Around " ! But if your one who wants to " Run Around " then you should not get Married !

The hands down best way to approach a woman: “I noticed you, and I had to come say hi” That’s it. It’s simple, genuine, not cheesy, truthful, and you can use it with anyone you find attractive. Edit: SJ added that you can follow this up by offering her your name. If she offers hers without you asking for it- this is a sign of attraction.

I know I’m older but I have no interest in online dating, but there’s nothing wrong for those that do. You can be strong & confident and still be feminine (a must) !

There's this trend about girls recording dudes at the gym being "creepy"...how is okay for them to stare at us and creep on us when we would get called out for the same thing...it's a double standard man

Hahaha omg when you see that its tik tok girls being featured; i know that there tons of lessons to be learned 😄. Yeah people definitely shouldn't be getting their dating advice from there. I think if you do, take what is said with a grain of salt. It's totally normal to meet someone online but you sometimes don't know if you talking to the same person behind the screen. I've met a lot of women through Instagram and twitter that approach me there so things are changing tho. Anyways i appreciate you making this and i wish you a blessed day ♥️

GUYS in my 34 years of life I've learned this... STAY AWAY from GUILTY ASS It isn't good Guilty ass is ass you had to do shady shit to get. Lying, cheating, etc etc etc. Trust me it's not EVER worth it

Girl I was dating called a quits when I was getting a small business put together. Now the biz is more structured, has much more potential than it did at the beginning of Covid. She wants to see me again, thoughts? I can’t help but feel like I’m getting used

If I ever get married, I hope it is with an intelligent, mature, and strong woman. I can't stand weak girls with tons of issues to deal with. Being with those types of girls is downright exhausting!

The problem with dating apps is that the ratio of men to women is 70:30. This is data from dating app developers. For this reason, meeting in person is ideal. Not to mention the risk of catfishing/people not looking like their pics

My eye contact story: I moved from Silicon Valley to my wife's home state, which has some high-tech going on. Unfortunately I struggled to find a job I was passionate about and was often under-employed. At one point I got a job in Silicon Valley just to be fully employed, but had to live 1000 air miles from home (gets old after awhile). Having a bit of free time I started going to a gym. One day this lovely young lady, and oh was she lovely, looked at me and smiled. Her body language, her smile, and her eyes all said, "Come talk to me." Wow was she tempting. And how easy it would be to pretend to be single. Except for the occasional mysterious "business trip" that lasted a week or two, there was no reason for any local to suspect I had a wife and daughter. But I thought, I am not going to ruin the lives of my wife and daughter. I am not going to ruin this young woman's life. And I am not going to ruin my own life. So I did not talk to her. I must be gay. 😉

Sorry "strong and powerful" are not the qualities i seek in a partner. Too often i find that women translate "strong & powerful" to rude and dominant. When i think of my ideal women the very first word that defines her is "feminine", a traditional, submissive, loving feminine woman. Strong and powerful sounds like someone i will have to fight... it sounds like a man.

Can we stop glorifying these dummies on Tik Toxic? I don't use dating apps anymore because many are just wanting texting buddies, and will be written off as fictional characters

"I think we have progressed in the area of women starting to, you know, message men first or approach men" - What planet is this behavior on? Women aren't going to approach men. The burden has always been on the man to put the effort to start a relationship. "Men display, women choose"

Around my early 20s just out of college, I would hear about either male friends or acquaintances having a bachelor party and bringing in a stripper and /or sex worker for the sole purpose of getting the future groom to committing various acts of sexual impropriety. All I could think was: How foolish, reckless, and treacherous unto his soon to be bride to exchange vows the following day after purposefully setting up a final "roll in the hay" the night before. I just couldn't grasp how a groom and his "best men" thought this was morally justified and a solid foundation for a whole new union; and a brand new family upon which he would be deemed the trusted, capable, and morally upright standard bearer endowing him with rights and responsibilities that go with being the head of the family.

I really like these videos, Courtney's facial expressions/reactions alone are worth watching. Great advice and content Courtney!

Do you really feel that finding love on a dating app is progressive? Honestly it seems regressive. Just because it's the norm doesn't make it a good thing.

Lets be as non-traditional as possible but still be looking for traditional men who approach us in traditional ways...

You are someone who is really really getting god level respect from many guys coz of your honesty and videos....tons of love from India Courtney ❤️

Most important thing is to differentiate good from bad advice. Thnx for ur take on this. Shed some light into people.

I randomly put my preferred range on Tinder to max (very briefly) just to see what would happen. There were so many girls who put their age as 100+ to see if their boyfriends have Tinder accounts lol Y'all are freaking resourceful!

The only people on dating apps and social media are immature children (no matter the age). Real men/women do not use social media or dating apps. Period.

I cheated on the first girlfriend I ever had. The girl I lost my virginity to. No reason, just an opportunity that came along. That was 18 years ago. I was 15. It's the only time I have ever or will ever cheat. Since then, my morals have developed and are now set in stone. Most people describe cheating as being unfaithful. I have come to the conclusion that it's far worse than that. It's dishonourable. It usually involves lying to protect oneself from the consequences of one's own actions which is cowardly. It involves breaking one's own commitment and it involves breaking someone else's trust. Now I have a zero tolerance policy on cheating; not just for myself but for others as well. That being said, I am an example of how the phrase 'once a cheater, always a cheater' is completely false......but when I did it, social media wasn't nearly as common. If you cheat now, there will be a record of it that people can use against you even if you develop the same morality as me and others like me. It's just never going to be worth it.

I hate dating apps, and I refuse to use them anymore. I have had horrific experiences on them, it's not even close to worth it. Also, I wouldn't be caught dead in a wool overcoat, scarf and turtleneck. 😄🙃 If that's what pretty girls like, then I guess I'll stay single.... 😁😄😏 I still liked the video though, your perspectives are healthy.

Happily married for 39 years but find your videos very interesting. Concerning confident strong women, when I married my wife when we’re in our teens I could not have handled a strong woman as I was too immature but as we grew (up) together we changed and she is now very strong and confident which is now a blessing for me as I now would not now want an insecure woman.

I've been watching your videos for the least couple of weeks and I like your wisdom and the way you illustrate things. Can you make a video on why women after rejection stay around. Appreciate it . Keep the hard work up 👌

Nice to see some more positive TikTok videos out there. There's an avalanche of BS to wade through and Courtney rightly calls it out. However there's some diamonds in all the rough and it's great to see that highlighted too.

Guys don't tend to read subtle glances and things well. If you like a guy and want to talk to him do that, much better than smiling and hoping he will engage you in conversation. I see someone smile and I smile back and that is that, it's polite to acknowledge someone and not have it mean anything other than a polite hello.

we need more of these videos; I love your channel so helpful

i'm still blown away by how many people actually meet on tinder. Like how are you one tinder??!!

Men, remember... Even girls like Courtney had enough tinder experience, bad boys and toxic relationships when they were younger.

It's true, lying isn't worth the energy. It takes a lot to keep it going. I learned as a child the value in truth and the idea of faithfulness, being a man of your word. The Bible does say the light shines on the just and unjust, and the rain falls on the just and unjust, meaning everything will be exposed and consequences happen to the right and to the wrong because it is natural that everyone has to deal with stress

I can tell for myself every woman who approaches me wasn't nearly my type, I just ignore the fact that they approached me, talk to them normal and say bye bye 👋🏾, only friendzone.

Can we just all agree that for the most part TikTok is a bad place for dating advice? Not saying there's no good advice on there but most of the time it's awful.

I'm so glad to have found your channel. thank u for the videos!

I actually wouldnt want to be approached by a girl when I am out with friends. Not that I find that I have to do the approaching or something like that. I just wouldn't know what to say when put on the spot like that. I also need way more time to decide if I would want to go out with someone, time you dont get when someone is standing right in front of you. good thing it never happens anyway

Courtney, I love your attitude and spirit; such great wisdom and balance comes from your talks. Keep it up!

problem with in person approaches is we don't know if she's single, some of us refuses to flirt with someone involved

12:04 I can't stop laughing at that priceless look you made Courtney 😂

I think the misconception with the "strong powerful women" was the difference between what they were likely talking about, and the mental picture those words create. My guess is that they actually meant a "strong powerful feminine women." I feel like the popular notion of a strong powerful women is a masculine women, which for masculine men is not typically desirable.

My belief is this, if you want to do a dating app to find someone to hopefully be with forever, go for it. Also if you don't and rather do it in person instead, that's find to. Just be yourself, be honest with yourself and especially with the other person, because by being honest with yourself and them, then and only then can you have a great and happy relationship. Good luck everyone. 😊👍🍀

You are so right about having confidence in yourself. If she or the dude doesn't, it will destroy the relationship eventually. Oh, you really look good in black!

4:51 Imagine being a shy introverted guy. We're doomed. Add to that the slight insecurity and disbelief a beautiful girl is into us, but also just as shy. 😐 L

The Bible says a wife is a crown on a huband's head. It also says she is one that helps him in life. She makes them a power couple So a strong powerful woman doesn't have a high body count, doesn't manipulate because she doesn't need to and wants his kids which proves her power in being unafraid. Less makes the woman less, a pass around. A man is a fool to not want a powerful woman or not helping his woman be as powerful as she can be..

We are both Airline Captains, she’s now onto others but, yes, I’m totally into strong secure confident.

Love your tiktok reaction videos! I don't personally watch tiktok much so seeing how people think is pretty insightful lol

“If you’re a guy don’t cheat” as someone who’s walked in on significant others getting DP’ed I wanna say it’s not “just” us cheating anymore

I think some men have a "problem" with "strong and powerful" women is because of the image of "strong and powerful" women prostrated by society/feminists. Being strong and powerful doesn't necessarily mean being rude, not listening to others or being masculine. You can be an attractive, polite person and strong at the same time. You also can have a masculine appearance and be gentle as hell.

Reasonable, intelligent and thoughtful. Courtney gives the best dating and relationship advice on KZfaq.

According to Donavan Sharpe, he said “If you need women just to be happy? You’re not a man” so yes I agree, happiness must start with you before anyone else. I didn’t know how to attract women until I got myself a hobby and go out and socialize with people, and what makes me happy? Is to Isolate myself from toxic people, like Time-Wasters, Energy Vampires, Cheapskates ,Moochers and the Deadweights. I also learn to adapt to new ways of life, knowing when to cast people aside when they’re not adding any values into my life, and I’m going to succeed with people or without people, that’s where my confidence&abundance awakens.

7:10 is priceless... this girl is not just cute, knowledgable on dating dynamics, but she's down right funny...

Well i must say this I'm 72+ a male Aries,I never cheated if I had a relationship & it works both ways,Looking back now I realize why I could date anyone, so what goes around comes around.So Courtney well said. I was old school.Ladies clothes do not tell what a man is and never will.Look deeper.I didn't know I married a Virgo star sign but my marriage lasted 25+years and found out it was supposed to be the worst match ever but we made it work.

Feliz Miercoles Courtney! ❤

Can we define cheating? Because it seems like we can't even agree what that is anymore. Physically, I consider it sex, and other romantic intimacy, (french kissing, groping, pda beyond friendly touching, like handshakes or hugs.) Financially, I consider it staying in the same hotel room, honeymooning, big gifts. But really jealous types will even consider hanging out, having a co-ed cadre of friends, family, and community associations cheating because of their 'emotional affair' theories. In social media they'll even consider group pictures cheating... that's not cheating. I mean sure most people would love if their partner was invited to go everywhere they are, or else, was on the same schedule to permit that, or that their partner was even willing to go everywhere they want to go... but we simply don't live in that kind of world anymore. And we don't live in a world where one partner is at home all day and the other partner is at work all day unless someone is staying home with younger children instead of sending them to daycare.

The last two women I was in a relationship with approached me first. It wouldn't have happened had they not because I didn't know I was even on their radar. However, it's important to understand that they were forward but still feminine. I've had the so-called "strong" women approach and that feels like I'm being approached by a guy.

Thank you, Courtney, for enduring these clips for us. They are more sad than entertaining.

Can you please do more videos to help woman I really see you as an role model

I cheated, told my ex immediately and I basically said "why don't you give a fuck?" she said "I understand why you did it", then walked out a little after. I put up with her doing all this for 3.5 years 6 hours away from my family, I move with her cause I naively thought she would be the opposite. She'd hit me, treat me like a trophy in public or around family, Cleaning the apartment was never good enough, she never would let me cook, she'd always be glued to her phone. I'm not saying cheating is right, but biiiiiiiiitch if you don't have respect for me as a man, why in the fuck should I have respect for you? why the fuck should I continue to continue us if you never give a fuck? what kind of hypocritical narcissistic shit is that? I wonder how Courtney thinks about my situation. Luckily I have a girlfriend now that supports me in everything, loves me, cares for me, cooks, cleans and doesn't complain about a fucking thing lol and also isn't about herself, we argued once and talked through it and she even listened to what I had too say, she listens a lot to what I have too say, which my ex? was always "not today jordan, I'm not feeling it" etc. etc. I will never cheat on this girl, ever, because she is treating me how I should be treated and vise verse, I'd hope she wouldn't cheat on me because I'm treating her how she should be treated. For my ex too say "I understand why you cheated" then literally not even talk about the root causes that lead too the cheating, she obviously never cared. That's why for me why does it matter whether you cheat on a girl that never gives a fuck about you or you leave lol? the girl is the one in the relationship that has all the power to leave it, the guy introduces himself 9/10 times, is the one that has to make first moves 9/10 times, the girl is the one that can leave most of the time. I told her a shit ton "then there's the door" but then she'd constantly go back to her bullshit and it'd be constant cycle, like bitch, quite hurting me and walk the fuck out, but, you coincidently waited until I cheated for you to have a scapegoat and for me too look like the bad guy lol

Some of these women, I seriously struggle to understand how someone can be that 🧠 💀

I have bad eye sight, and I don't wear my glasses out in public. There's no telling how many people mistakenly thought they were making eye contact with me from a distance. I had a friend get angry with me one time for not waving or saying hello when we supposedly made eye contact at the grocery store. She thought I was sobbing her, but I didn't even see her.

I met my Fiancé on a dating site. She once we met set her sights on me and wanted me from the start. She is a former model but said was an import broker. I had confidence and even said that she was a former model as how she walked and dressed. She and I both feel as soul mates even though there is a Age difference. I even told her for a year I could not date her as she was too young. She was persistent and showed me that she was set on me and made her mind up. So we began again and now engaged and to be married. We also plan on beginning a charity to help Ukrainians as she is from Ukraine and we plan to live there after the war in her home town.

My long term gf met me by walking up to me and asking to share my barstool. She kissed me within the first 20 minutes. She had been checking me out for three weeks. Four months later I actually tried dating her (I was openly non monogamous when we met) and turns out we are right for each other. If a girl wants something, she should move on it.

"...but don't wear your pajama pants in public. __ I just feel like you all need to know that, so there's no confusion there." XD The way you said that cracked me up.

I am very careful about dating apps. So many of these are exposed as scams. I say that from being scammed myself. I may get over it, but when I see people I don't know, they get blocked. There also seem to be a big share of perverts online, and I am turned off. I have standards, and I want people who are civil and disciplined themselves.

I don't care if the girl doesn't like I turn my back to her if she doesn't like me I don't run after her

I notice more people on dating apps (since the pandemic) as there are three reasons..it's less awkward to approach some stranger during these times of social distancing, less social events to meet new people, and both people are on the same page. Even people who kind of said they wouldn't want to do dating apps, I find are on them now. It's pretty normal to me.

I agree with that second girl at 2:00 because i has meet all the women in my life at places like the bus stop, parties, a mountain in china (of all places) but never on a dating app.

Hi Courtney, can you do more fragrance videos? Maybe best fragrances for the winter? Would love to see your reactions and thoughts.

There really is a difference between someome who is faux confident and someone who actually is...in men and women. A strong and confident woman refers to a woman who values and sticks up for herself. Most guys, from experience instead, infer it to mean a girl who is obsessed with feeling powerful because deep inside she is horribly unconfident and insecure. She likely wants to control everything around her too just to feel safe -- all around a person controlled by her own fears. Power and control are the sources of abuse, people. An insecure women is as undateble and dangerous as an insecure man.

Cheating is not cool, it’s not cute, is a horrible thing to do. I cheated before when I was younger to get back at an ex girlfriend and it made me felt less a Man. Cheating is dumb so don’t do it fellas and ladies. Courtney clarifying the pajama pants! 😆 Thank you Courtney 🙏🏽😂 I actually watch Justin Baldoni’s Man Enough show and I agree with him on the strong powerful woman part so I’m glad we both see eye to eye to that. Also playing immature games is a pet peeve of mine too Courtney, it’s just another headache I don’t want to deal with. We usually have a different point of views somewhat in your videos but we both agree on a lot of stuff in this video but no matter what you M’am have my Trust and my Loyalty 💯 Thanks for sharing Courtney, Much Respect from Los Angeles to Cleveland 🙏🏽

I love your facial reactions at the end there. You got quite the aspectabund going on. Perfect for these types of reaction videos.

I wish every woman had the same personality like Courtney lol

They say that " Dating Prepares you for Marriage " / ! / But Actually it Prepares you for Divorce ! Because when you are young and you and your girlfriend/ or boyfriend split up there is grief and hurt ! But the next time it's easier, and becomes easier every time, so that when marriage comes and there is an argument too many it's become easy to depart !

Women should not believe everything what their female friend tells them. I remember this episode of my life back in the early 90s. I had two female friends, we were all friends. Girl # 1, found a guy started dating and moved in together. Girl # 2 started telling her friend Girl # 1 that she saw him kissing another woman. Thus, she threw him out of her apartment. Girl # 2 started withdrawing from our social circle, explaining her work demanded more time from her. A year later, Girl # 1 and I found out that Girl # 2 married her ex boyfriend. My friend Girl # 1 was devastated, telling me that she really liked him. Because we figured out the time line, Girl # 2 and Girl # 1 ex boyfriend, had to date for a while before deciding to wed. The reason why Girl # 2 withdrew from our social circle, she was dating her friend's ex. My advice to both women and men, don't believe everything what your friend tells you, especially about a girlfriend or boyfriend. There might be personal reasons, that you might not know. Such as, I have the hots for your boyfriend / girlfriend. Age old situation since the beginning of time. Always ask for proof; why am I saying this, because the same thing happened to me.

Never, ever, take dating / relationship advice from a women.

All of us are too good for dating apps. That's a fact. Dating apps take out so much of the organic, real life meeting. You are just a picture, and some words. You don't speak and listen to them, you don't sense their aura, their energy. The authenticity disappears. I don't think that many people are in a position to be getting in serious relationships now anyway, it is incredibly difficult to buy a house and have a family. The most important relationship is the one you have with yourself, as cheesy as that sounds. Definitely enjoy, and generally agree with, your logical + common sense advice.

At 8:27, as a man, I really can appreciate inner strength to be confident as an individual person. Confidence comes in so many forms, but embrace yourself as an individual.

The thing with dating apps is that if you're not above 6' you're out.

After starting to go to the gym more, I find MMA girls way more attractive than I thought I would...