Me too!!

Yup!

Fucking same

Username checks out

Agreed. Many wm didn't consent to that label, and didn't choose it for themselves. I kind of feel like, if I can respect someone's pronouns, why can't you respect that I don't want to be called that, or that I don't identify as that term?

Exactly, Thank You!

Not only does it dismiss what it means to transition, it also dissmisses what it means to be a biological woman. As a currently 37 weeks pregnant woman myself, about to give birth, I can't help but feel like this whole movement is hurting biological woman. It feels like it's dis-acknowledging the amazing abilities of a woman's body, the life we can create, the food we can provide through our breasts, and the pain we have to suffer from periods, to pregnancy and child birth, to menopause later in life etc. It makes me sad to see all of this being dismissed like it's nothing, and same goes for the women in sports who now have no chance to win - which winning is what competetive sport is all about. After everything women have gone through to get to where we are today, it's dissapointing to feel a step back into suppression but for a different reason now. I support trans people, but I don't support them surpressing cis/biological women. There needs to be a distinction still, because there's clearly always going to be differences and no one else in this world can do what we can do with our bodies.

What is messed up .. today probably 80% of trans are not trans but a combo of gay or attention seakers

The fact that they can't see this is incredible.

Exactly.

@Doug Fisher haha funny joke...right??right??

@Doug Fisher reality check sweetie: idgaf lol

@Doug Fisher yes REALITY CHECK, just because someone prefers a certain group over another doesnt mean anything bad. Why force people to accept others into their intimate bubble. That shit is PRIVATE and your entitled ass SHOULD NOT have anthing to say about it. And yes im absolutely complicit ig🤣🤣🙄🙄

haha I was called a homophobe for sitting away from a gay strangers. I did it for anybody hate being near people, but no one ever offended until I met this gay dude.

That's different though. Straight people aren't attracted to the male gender. That's outside of their control. Transgender women ARE women though, so the idea that a straight person can't be attracted to them isn't true.

Lmfao. Perfect analogy. 🥰

Except the earth is flat and motionless and the sun, the stars all revolve around us. You ain't spinning, and you never will be

Please don’t use the word god

To me the whole flat Earther versus everyone esle. It's all about ego. Some people literally want the universe to revolve around them.

@@tysonrinker5958 thank you!!

i agree

I've always found that disturbing. "Sleep with me or you're x-phobic" So you want sex under coercion i.e. rape?

@@SharonVeeLee People who play that card are just scumbags.

Isnt that also just really entitled? "Oh, Im trans, I want the same rights as a cis people." "Okay, you do (kind of)" "THEN WHY WILL NOONE SLEEP WITH ME! CIS PEOPLE GET THAT; WHY NOT MEEEEEEEEE!!! I bet that everyone is transphobic!"

i saw a trans tiktoker say the other day that if a female finds out a theyre trans and no longer wants to date them bc they dont have a biological dick then their reason for feeling that way was rooted in transphobia...

And that's exactly the line everyone should tread. But both 'camps' want to recruit people to extremes. Trans women are women, trans men are men. They can be gay or straight just like cis people. But there are differences. Trans women won't know the pain of childbirth even if they want to and cis women will never know the pain of SRS. Trans men have periods doesn't mean cis women don't. The sports issue needs scientific review and maybe a new non binary category. Like seriously people, talk for more than 5 seconds. Texting is always worse than talking.

@@wanderingrogue3039 Exactly, sad but true!

@@wanderingrogue3039 Yes! This! I have spoken to so many people that can only ever think in extremes. You are either 100% for it or 100% against it, there are no nuances anymore. That is so crazy, especially because it is coming from the same people that love to preach about spectrums.

Wtf is a 'cis' woman'? You are either a woman, or trying to pass as one, which you NEVER WILL.

@@tamsinthai lol you should watch the video where she gets kicked out of places for going into men’s bathrooms

I agree!

Agree!! Definitely a cut above !!

Was about to post the very same thing.

Yes most definitely! Everyone is just calling each other names in America when we can’t agree and it gets us NOWHERE. We all need to learn to find common ground.

as a trans girl i'm happy that some ppl say the truth (like Blaire), why do we have to accept pronouns like ... tree/tree. In my oppinion there is two or maximum three pronous : he/his,she/her and at the extrem limite they/them ... NO MORE !

Well he/she is just an attention seeking brat

r/thatactuallyhappaned

Perfectly said. If they would continue i would have said “you telling me I can’t label myself by how I feel and am is violence , I’m extremely offended”

Top 10 things that never happened #1 you went to college

@@PossQueen y’all really love to erase other people’s experience. It’s already a pattern atp.

I heard that! I tried for a long time to be a "girly-girl", not to mention that everyone told me I was supposed to be that way. But, what I really am, deep down inside...is a tomboy. So...I seldom wear makeup, I am into hiking, I like trains. I also play GTA, Age of Empires and Truck Sim...a lot.

The amount of gay people who have been fooled or outright emotionally coerced into thinking they're trans is staggeringly high, your cousing was lucky to realize before she transitioned.

Your family sounds really great and supportive.

@@nothanks7063 And that is why someone needs to live full time in that role BEFORE going all the way.

@@nothanks7063 Actually it's not "staggering high", keep dogwhistling terfs you fool.

How....I can lactate? I never had silicone or cosmetic work and my breasts are fully developed. Why would I be offended by that lol. I wanna remove myself from my community

Wouldn’t it be discriminatory against trans men?

How is it not discriminatory against biological women

This doesn’t make any sense

Yuck

men are naturally stronger than women on average, not all men are stronger than all women though majority are.

Absolutely true, in most situations. The rare women who are as strong as most men (not the strongest men) do not change this fact.

There's a reason you hear of MtF trans athletes competing at the top and not FtM.

Careful don’t give them ideas, some will come out saying they label themselves as a child and fight to play in children’s sports. Scary thing is … is that we’re not too far from that at all, there’s that grown man than says he’s a “girl “ not a women a “GIRL” aka predator

I’m still mad at Lia Thomas

Your channel scares me lol

@@cjgaming3605 - Haha! Why?

@@cjgaming3605 LMFAO

Your channel scares me a bit too lol. Sending love anyways lol 💕

Cys woman here .... your profile pic is so beautiful, you are stunning... (my spelling is horrible sorry )

a cis person congratulating a trans woman on invalidating her own identity LMFAO who gave you the audacity

@@DANIELGORMANN how do you know that they're cis? But I think that Blair is a woman (in terms of gender) and a transwoman 🤷‍♀️.

@@DANIELGORMANN cry about it 💀

@@imanepink because they’re transphobic lmao? ask them

@@familyguyclips-4026 why don’t you go and cry about your geometry dash simulator 💀💀

Well, she also does a lot of videos against other transpeople or makes fun of their appearance if they don't pass like she does.

@@why8476 She only criticizes "trans" people that don't even make an effort in passing but then get all triggered when they're misgendered.

@@why8476 it's funny

How do you know if someone is putting in the effort though? Blaire herself literally attacked another trans woman for ages for “not trying enough” only to find out later she was on hormones and was getting FFS (Riley Dennis). Some people literally can’t afford to transition, and not everyone who can transition will ultimately pass well. Does that mean we shouldn’t respect them? EDIT: I know Blaire apologised, and I knew that when I wrote this post. That isn't the point. The point is that you can't tell from a damn KZfaq video if someone is putting in the effort or not.

@@TigerDragon1001 I do understand that not everyone can afford transitioning or transitions well. What Blaire is saying is that if you know you don't pass well, you can't blame others if they misgender you.

I mean.... technically that is exactly how it all works. The only reason we have words and language for example, is because we made up the sounds and attributed meanings to the them. The only reason a cloud is a cloud... the only reason why I am a she and a human and am wearing a silver dress rn is because those concepts were literally derived from thought and imagination. We very much DO get to recreate reality how we see fit... reality IS malleable.

Just like All, shim just married hermself!

Terfs unite 🥺 was exhiled from my friends for saying peace and love for all... it showed my privelege apparently after 3 years of friendship :(

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I wish I could be in your friendship circle and back you up when that occurs. And then you could be like "see....my trans friend agrees!! so stfu!" lol.

@@Lavender_1618 I'd love that :")

Didn't something like this happen to JK Rowling?

Yep, and specifically with housing and employment, many landlords/supers/owners/managers need to know if there are any specific facilities that need to be added, if there are any extra costs that need to be sunk to ensure compliance with the updated regulations, like there's a whole pandora's box of potential expenses that may have to be sunk into new compliance, and somehow the trans community just doesn't seem to get it. They could easily get the multinats to put legit money into reforms, they have enough money already, but some smaller regional firms and local businesses need to be able to get grandfathered in.

genders dont exist just biological sex rest it an ideology and it entirely in the mind

@@Barbiethebarbiechannel. Amen ! 😂 (i'm kidding but so true)

omg you described yourself well done

@@DANIELGORMANN Hey. Do you wanna talk? I saw your other comments and thought that maybe we can have a conversation about this.

I have a friend who went from identifying as trans to being incredibly suspicious and critical of trans people

I heavily disagreed with the trans community on a lot of things for years, and in February 2020 i began to dislike the LGBT community as a whole because of some shit that had been building up for a while combined with the crazy ideas. I'm gay, i don't hate LGBT people but i hate the way the community behaves and how they think.

Wow! I am sorry to hear that, must be difficult to go through a change like that and not be accepted by people who have gone through the same change that should be someone you could relate to and relate to you. I can't imagine how difficult that is

@@SkaterBlades As a lesbian, I feel the same way

@@SlightlyPeeved I felt like the oppressive stack was heavily leaned upon in the lgbt group i was in. Trans and NB people were prioritised over gays, lesbians and bi people and were usually treated better. They also tried to put me into a box, I'm pretty masculine and they acted like i wasn't gay enough for them. Then it's also full of heterophobia and they especially hate anyone to the right of them. We had an election for prime minister a couple of months before i walked away and some guy was ranting about conservative voters calling them things like cunt (isn't that supposed to be a sexist term?). I didn't vote but i asked him to stop insulting huge groups of people, especially as there might have been people who voted Conservative in the group. Guess who got in the shit. Jolly old me

We live in a patriarchy. Misandry isn't valid. Look up what Patriarchy means and how many societies function on it.

@@glistening7178 “misandry isn’t valid” yes it is. Just because one form of sexism is used more doesn’t mean that the other isn’t important, sexism isn’t based completely on power it’s also based on descrimination, prejudice, etc. If you discredit misandry then you are in fact a hypocrite and sexist.

@@wydkatsui You are correct, just like racism IS RACEISM not matter what, color or gender of the person perpetrating the act... @glistening - Look up the word logic, you clearly have no idea what it means. You are using patriarchy as a shield and a bad excuse for being a bigot and intolerant towards men.

@@FrankAndreasLia Exactly, people should stop using words without understanding the meaning.

There are no men only spaces. Radical feminists won't let those exist😔

That's awesome. I felt the same boat: trans-confused and trans-misinformed but never phobic.

Not necessarily, going on testosterone (especially when you’re younger, 18+) changes the density of your bones, the thickness of your skin, the emotions you feel, and you gain muscle at much the same rate as a bio male would, assuming you work out and eat right for your body type. I would say if a trans male hasn’t been on testosterone for at least a year, then they might have some disadvantage in athletics, but for the most part, most trans men can compete with most bio men at the same level or higher. Testosterone does a lot more to the bio female body than estrogen does to the bio male body. That’s why a lot of trans women have a hard time transitioning if it’s not early on, they are stuck with the permanent changes of testosterone that estrogen can’t really change.

You can chop off the twig, and mutilate the berries, but DNA says you will always be a Man.

@@joechain7548 well I mean, yeah, just because you get bottom surgery (FTM or MTF) doesn’t make you biologically male or female, but you do appear almost 100% bio male or bio female which is the whole point of transitioning. Trans people are still men and women, but when they go to the doctor, they usually have to disclose their biological sex to get proper treatment. Doesn’t make the trans person any less of a male or female.

@@jzargothesnowleopard As someone who competed at a very high level in athletics as a woman and then transitioned and continued to compete as male, I can tell you straight up that you are dead wrong. Sure I took some medals home, but got totally crusched in all disciplines 90% of the time, even after YEARS on HRT.

@@tanjalover93 that’s in your personal experience though, everyone’s body reacts to taking hormones differently. There are some trans men who could compete with bio males. Although, I think Blaire has said in the past or someone said, trans people should have trans sports groups, but there aren’t enough to create and ALL trans sports group usually

This is exactly how I feel. I had a conversation with a group of people about trans women in sports and they jumped on me so fast, told me i’m cis i need to stfu and stay out of “trans business”. So I’m just supposed to be quiet while my sport is taken over, no thanks.

@@aaniyahhardwell9237 *hugs to both of you*, sorry you had a bad experience. The logic rejecters are so loud, and often it's the allies as well who are insufferable.

@@Stefengris That’s exactly what it is! Like you’re cis as well but apart of the LGBTQ+ community, but that doesn’t mean you’re right on all topics involving that. For a while it left a bad taste in my mouth but I’m not gonna let a group of “allies” change how I feel about equal rights for trans people. They’re still people regardless of how some people of their community have treated me. HUGS ALL AROUND!!

I've always supported the trans community and tried to make some more stubborn people get that there's nothing wrong with that. I started having problems not with the trans community but with the extremist side of the gender fluid/non binary team (i said extremist because the others are usually chill), when they started denying the existence of biological genders at birth and wanted to remove the sex voice from passports/identity cards until someone is old enough to chose theirs, which would make it burocracy wise A MESS. I tried to have a conversation with a nonbinary person about this, explaining how i thought it would make it difficult for governments to identify you, that there are more important battles to get acceptance rather than removing "ladies and gentlemen" from public announcements before even having people knowing what non binary mean (let's be honest, a lot of people that don't spend too much time on the internet dont know what genderfluid and non binary are). This person straight called me "victim of the patriarchy" and bigot since im straight and cisgender, told me that their requests are legit and we just have to accept them, and that if we don't know what nonbinary/genderfluid means it's time for us to get educated instead of thinking that there are only two genders. It wasn't a pleasant talk yeah. I feel bad because i've seen improvements in the past years for trans people but these kind of people are kinda ruining them

I got told a similar thing and it now makes me double think before even interating with a trans person in case I accidentally offend them with scientific facts...

And others as well.

I feel like coming out is more difficult than ever. You’re automatically pigeonholed into a political ideology.

@@mutestingray thanks identity politics

blaertes This "progress" of theirs is something they clearly do not want. These activists seem to want crisis, not progress.

Don't know if it helps, but while I'm struggling with my trans support these days, my LGB support never wavered. I'm sure, I'm not the only one. Stay strong. You are not alone.

@Brittany Du When you say that people get homophobic, because a gay man doesn't support trans issues enough, then you are saying that it is actually the trans community, who is getting homophobic. Because why would the rest of us care? Is that really the point you want to make?

That's a pretty stupid thing to say. Of course they weren't voted in. They just have the rights to say whatever they want, just like you.

true, if the majority of the community doesn't want you to represent the community then you shouldn't

They have the right to pretend they do.

@@2v_5r84 preach

@@2v_5r84 no it’s not

Exactly!

I just stopped including the T+ just LGB until they stop being so confused

Seriously. They're out there saying they're really progressive, but they can't even conceptualize women being masculine and men being feminine. There "must" be a hard line between the two apparently, as if we will stop being a woman or a man the moment we pass it

Isn't it transphobic to view transwomen as just men in dresses? Or misogynistic to view makeup as a must for women as though tomboys don't exist? How did they not see the misogyny and transphobia in their own statement??! If you don't mind me asking, what exactly did you say for them to conclude transphobia? And I, too, am sick of this gender nonconforming stuff being muddied into being trans. Like the ideology is so hypocritical and has re-introduced gender stereotypes as facts.

We are going to see a huge landslide of gay male detransitioners soon. They are telling these gay men that liking make up and glam means you’re trans, and that you don’t have to even hate your body or genitals to be trans! Add in the desperation many femme gay men feel when it comes to dating (since gay men want masculine men) and they see that transsexual women are desired by men, and they crave that attention, and pretend to be “trans” to get it. Soon all these gay dudes who would of just been flamboyant campy gays will end up detransitioning. Just watch. It’s already begun.

it's so normal for girls to feel alienated from their bodies at 13, what girl wants to get a mature body and be leered at by men. i think most girls dreamed of escaping that. the best thing you can do for your girl is let her dress how she wants, anyone encouraging permanent changes at that age is not your friend

@@kupotenshi most people feel confused by their bodies when they are pushing through puberty, there is a massive adjustment that needs to be made for every person as they move from being a child and adult that comes along from the hormonal and physical changes happening. it is in no way an indication of being trans though, Trans activists are exploiting a confusing time in everyones life to further indoctrinate others into the cult of transgenderism at an age when they are still very open to suggestion from a position of faux authority.

Honestly, I’m 13 right now and sometimes I have a passing thought of ‘Hey, I really want to be a guy right now’, in which it was more prevalent when I was younger. I’m coming to terms that maybe it was because of all the stuff I’ve been through and the fact that I’ve always thought that being a boy would rid me of all the negative statements made about my body and the trauma I’ve more or less experienced. Why? Because I believed it would make me feel as though I was reborn. Also, the idea of being a guy in a girl’s body influenced me a lot, as I’ve picked up a lot of traditionally ‘male’ behaviours, speech and so on due to not having much of a mother-figure in my life and growing up watching men on the internet. If I were to have told my parents about wanting to be a boy and they were to have allowed me to transition, I feel as though I’d probably never truly feel happy with myself as I’d know that I’ll never truly be a boy. Just make sure to let her know you’ll support her no matter what but make sure not to make any rash decisions, as even now, hormonal blockers are relatively new and there aren’t any known side effects yet, in which one of them could be the potential permanent impairment of the brain. Wish you and your daughter the best! ✨✨

@@jamiehatesyou9175 I don’t even know what that is, so probably not.

I hated being a girl up until about 15/16 years old. I felt so out of place and awkward in my own skin. I played with "masculine toys," participated in "masculine activities," and hated "feminine clothes." My parents never held me to a feminine standard and just let me be a kid and discover myself on my own, though other kids who actually were trans did not always have as understanding of parents as I did. These days, it isn't any easier on kids because now they're being told that if they don't feel right as their biological gender, they must be the opposite gender, which plays head games just as much when people said that people can't be trans. I never understand why we go from one extreme to another.

I have a similar experience kinda. I'm a straight cis woman with a cis male husband that openly identifies as gay. We have an open marriage. Big deal. Our relationship and sexuality doesn't define us nor do we wave it around like a badge of honor. We just want to live our lives and start our family in peace.

@@notmychairnotmyproblem wait, your husband isn’t a cis male if he’s gay, also why be married to a gay man? I don’t understand that. Open relationships are cool I just don’t see the need for it since both of you could be happy in other relationships more fitting to your sexualities, idk enlighten me?

@@aislinlindsay3950 Uh yes the husband IS cis is hes just gay because cis doesnt mean straight, cis means they are born as the gender they identify with. What the actual fuck

@@notmychairnotmyproblem Just letting you know that commenter is wrong, your husband is Cis, even if hes gay.

@@aislinlindsay3950 They're married to a gay man because that's what her and the gay man decided they wanted to do???if it works for them then shut the hell up rather than trying to be some fuckin YT marriage counselor in the comment section. They're happy and that's what they consensually decided to do together. Get over it

Thats because trans women were socialized as biological men. So though they have a new appearance, they still take that oppressive misogyny with them. If you notice, transmen respect biological male spaces.

​@@anonmon8550 Oppressive misogyny? How many more female only spaces and programs do we have in society? Female only gyms and salons are fine, the world's only male exclusive barber shops get feminist protesters throwing tampons. The Boy Scouts had to change its name to "the Scouts" and accept girls, the Girl Scout gets to keep its gender specificity. College campuses are 100X more likely to have a "women's center" than a "men's center." Etc. Better explanation: Society sees trans-woman as women, thus its easier for them to get society's sympathy and attention towards their grievances.

Because they are jealous of biological women, perhaps.

@@loislois3526 Do you have a single fact to back that up any of what you said? These are just abstract sociology class dogmas with no actual reference points.

Well women of all sorts have invaded men's spaces. We're not allowed to have spaces. Welcome to inclusion.

Period 💯

It's still a rant...

Love the channel! Can't wait for you to review the S20 from last year!

They want conservatives to be demonized. If they made claims that conservatives could agree with, then they wouldn't be able to label us as haters. The trans issue is not useful to the left, if it can't make conservatives look evil and stupid.

Yaaaaaas preach

You're confusing gender with biological sex. Just because one isn't assigned a certain gender at birth doesn't mean that they aren't that gender. Someone saying that you're not a woman is bigoted statement.

well good for you friend!!!

Agreed

That’s really beautiful. I’m so happy for you.

Good for you. Much respect.

All individual humans will have a different experience in life. Its not a competition anyway. But i wanna mention this. Me myself is a transgender woman, and the public society see me as a woman. Therefore, my experience can be quite similar to a "real womans" experience. It just depends u know.

@@evamalene2746 yes, in a social sense the experiences can be similar, in most cases socially, trangender women have a lot more to deal with for example murder/assault and just an overall lack of respect for women like you. I feel like the movement today got clouded by other parts of the lgbt and the push of what I would consider bio women replacement/competition, such as language changing breastfeeding to chest feeding, pregnant woman to pregnant person or replacing the word mother even the new developments in bio women's sports is defintely pushing the movement back. The main focus should be transgender awareness/safety and just the right to be treated like a normal human being when it comes to work and opportunities. Regardless of that there are physical experiences like menstruation/pregnancy/certain health concerns that are unique to bio women that should be allowed exclusive to us rather then changing the spaces or names for inclusivity which creates hostility gradually for both sides.

They can be seen as similar. However, transgender women choose to transition to be viewed as woman. You want to be seen and identified as a woman and I respect it. But I was viewed as a “woman” without choice and sexualized as such by society before I even understood what sexuality meant. Transgender women and biological women have both had to fight, true. However they’re fighting from 2 very different angles

@@evamalene2746 no.

Very transphobic comment. I have a femalr body, not a woman thanks. Or did you want me in the woman's restroom with a beard?

This is absolutely true. It’s just like with religion you can get plenty of religious people who are just normal people. Then you get the extremists. Trans extremism goes unchecked because everyone is afraid of being labelled transphobic.

@@jupiterisaak1004 exactly, these rabid 'activists' do more harm to the wider cause.

EXACTLY- My first experience with lgbt people was online and it was a total NIGHTMARE, so when I met lgbt-identifying people in my real life I got so scared of them but they were the complete opposite. I learned so much from them, looked up to them, and they were so kind to me. They weren't these hot-headed people convinced that I was oppressing them or trying to label me as homophobic to isolate me or forcing ideas into my head and calling me a bigot when I wouldn't yeet my beliefs out the window for them. I wish all lgbt people could be just.. Normal like that. It's so much easier to empathize, learn, and understand them and how we can help them that way.

@Brittany Du Yes, because they're a rational human. No one who holds sanity would dare waste effort on a movement that dehumanizes them by calling them a bigot or other insults. Do you spend time learning why those "bigots" hold negative opinions on you or do you just dismiss them as they do for you?

@Brittany Du No one is transphobic, you are literally proving her point accusing everyone who doesn't bend to the twitter mob of being transphobic.

I'm confused, how does it eliminate your gender? I know I'm a cisgendered man, have always been and am ok with it. It doesn't mean I'm no longer of any gender, what are you talking about?

Facts!

@Brittany Du and how does calling out issues within the lgbt make her those things?

@@WinterStones Because questioning the alphabet people is bad and makes you a bigoted nazi

Blair doesn't have autogynephilia so that helps a ton. The movement is led by autogynephilic males for whom any reminder of their biological reality crashes their s3xual fantasy, therefore the whole world is expected to play along with their fetish

Don’t be a kiss ass, there are plenty of us out here trying to say the same thing 😎

Omg 😱

What the actual hell?

They got them on assault right?

Self-centeredness is prevalent in our society today for all types of people and create awful problems like this. We could all use a bit of thinking past our navel and realizing the world sure doesn't revolve around us and our tiny plight

Oh fuck no she would’ve gotten slapped back

I hope you don’t mind me saying but you’re gorgeous! Also I agree :)

@@sarahbethjacobs thank you :)

FACTS!

Say it louder for the people in the back 👏🙌

@@gimygaming8655 lol

I disagree. This movement isn't about helping people. It's about power and money. Big pharma is raking it in.

@Brittany Du You mean the truth?

@Brittany Du it's not a conspiracy. It just is what it is. Money money money

Because everyone wants to be "trans" but don't want the monetary responsibility of transitioning. Also because these people are perfectly fine living and presenting as the gender they were born as, they just want to *feel* as though they're somehow different. Like you can identify as whatever you want, but why call yourself, for example "genderfluid" when everything about you screams "woman"? You don't dress ambiguously, you don't present ambiguously, you just barely act ambiguously, and 99% of the time you're talking about women's issues as if they relate to you. But you're "genderfluid" or "nonbinary". How? It's just a label with no effort because the label is all you need these days.

Isn’t respect a human right? The right to be not murdered by men who murder cis women as well? The right to not be abandoned by their families and support systems for being honest with themselves? It’s about time they demand it. At least gay men and butches always had validity, so they could ask politely for respect, but that luxury isn’t afforded to trans people.

@@beatrixlozach4840 @Beatrix Lozach the thing I feel is no one cares if your trans. No one cares if you want to identify as a woman or man. What you are not getting is the trans community is separating themselves so much its hard to respect them. Being a lesbian or gay can also have family disown you its not just the trans community. But we know we cant just make people respect us. You can't force someone to accept your trans or gay. That's their beliefs and opinions. I'm gonna be real with you. The trans community gets crowned the most because yall aren't realistic. I've met 1 wonderful trans person before. Out of the many I've seen or talked to. Your not going to get respect from demanding it. Just like gay people aren't either.

exactly

Same👏🏼

TRUTH

This!

I feel the same way

Tucutes will never listen

blairs the anti science one tho she doesnt even do her research lmaooo i bet she cant even spell science

@@anyaj5171 Says the individual who "can't even" use capital letters or apostrophes.

@@anyaj5171 No no Blair is pretty pro-science because in hard science such as biology for example your biological sex is not defined by the very narrow criteria gender fluid people use. "But muh chromosones" 5 things are used to determine your biological sex and your chromosones are only one thing on that list. "Wait are you telling me that scientists who know about evolution being imperfect process are not actually using classifications on the notion of 100% purity ?" Yep. A biological male with few % of female biological characteristics is still a biological male just like how humans with Neanderthal genes are still classified as Homo Sapien Sapiens and not Neanderthals or "hybrids". I mean for fuck sake we humans share over 90% of the genes with Chimps and that doesn't make us Chimps. Going the route of LGBTQ community when it comes to biology would mean we not only would have to create thousands of different BIOLOGICAL SEXES but also new biological species for every living thing.

but you can`t have a discussion because the wrong word can cause to be called bigot, hater, anti-trans etc.

Yes, I also don't get why people crave gender labels when we were just now trying to eliminate gender discrimination.

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Bleeders? Cervix havers? You have to be freaking kidding me. And what are men referred to as? Still men I’m assuming?

@@samanthas6073 of course, because only women must be super inclusive and accepting uwu. It's okay to call women menstruators, but god help you if u say something like "prostate bearer"

@@samanthas6073 Of course.

But being called a woman if you're a trans man having a period ISN'T dehumanizing? You think the needs of cis women should be lifted up above and beyond any other minority with less protections and less visibility? Your arrogance speaks for itself.

Thank you Pepperidge Farm for thinking of me 😂

What happened in pepperidge farm?

who is making a fuss over their transness. do you mean trans people proud of their story and experiences as trans speaking about it? or people who don't conform to gender?

@@jae-ds2ot anyone who makes a point of declaring that they're trans when it doesn't matter.

@@OldGayGamer example?

I always thought they meant trans men when they mention that.

right... like, they LITERALLY cannot menstruate. it’s science

Are you talking about that heifer/heffer(grossly obese) man that tries very little to look like a woman from Canada that hates Rebel News and girls above 16 yrs old?

Are you sure that isn't trans guys, or the symptoms trans women can get that are similar to a period if on hrt?

I live in England, uk. I am cis female. Our NHS system, has started ordering midwives and nurses, to stop using the terms "breastfeed" and "breast milk", because its discrimination, and bias against transgender women. This is really alarming and confusing to me.

Religion Without Redemption, as a friend of mine put it.

@@Longshanks1690 Redemption? More like ONE OF US. ONE OF US. ONE OF US. And the typical behavior of grooming children

spirituality only means that people believe their fantasy is real. Spirituality isnt real.

It's the mobb mentality for me

@@themplar You forgot your fedora buddy. OH WAIT. What's THAT? *SUI CI D.E STATISTICS COMING IN*

Ofc not, it's literally impossible for girls to relate to men. Kathleen Kenedy told me so.

@@userequaltoNull lol

um excuse me, "male" and "female" are just oppressive labels invented by white men to discriminate against trans folxs 😉

omg don't you respect women at all? Wanting a male role model is so misogynistic, you just don't realize it because you're brainwashed by the patriarchy! (this is sarcasm!!)

@@natb9919 lmao

They sure do love them labels!!!

Not judging those who live this way by any means, but i really dont understand trans people who dont want to pass. Like, someday i want to be stealth and have as little people know about me being trans as possible.

@@Beast121126 I can understand that they don't feel societal pressure on how every gender 'must' look to be perceived as such. Honestly that's really good for them, I wish I could be as careless about it. I want to be stealth because of dysphoria but sometimes I'd like to have a little more fun with my looks. Not comfortable enough ATM though. Maybe when people around me will be acting naturally and when I'll be "done" with the changes I need I'll feel confident enough to have fun with make up again sometimes or stuff like that. I'm into LARP and can't even use a little bit to do my faun make up. Too dysphoric even for that. I'm really glad some people feel safe enough to express themselves however they please. But the snowflakes who make everything about being trans and warcry when you misgender them when you can't have a clue... I can't stand them. People who drown others in their insecurities make me wanna hit them with a brick.

i truly hope there is a day when you can genuinely feel that way and live your life quietly in peace as just a person. ya know part of the herd, no matter your coat patterns. peace, love and power to ya!!

I'm with you, bro. I just want to be seen as an anonymous man. I'm not a poster child.

So many people in the LGBT community do the exact same thing. I know far too many lesbians that 99% of the jokes they tell can be responded with, "Ha ha ha it's funny because she's gay." Their entire personality is wrapped up in their sexuality or the community in general.

@@Dyonivan I agree 100%. Members of the LGBT community can do absolutely everything that straight people can, they are over-represented on TV and in fact they often have even more privileges than straights when it comes to gaining employment and also within the workplace, but they're constantly on Chat Shows complaining about homophobia!

I think it's all about timing, the age we live in with the whole "look at me", and searching for and creating injustice where there was no malicious intent. Personally, I don't take offense if I'm called sir or maam, since most of the time these terms are meant to address a person in a respectful manner. I do correct some ppl some of the time, but I never attack anyone who is just being kind, some ppl are so provocative and then play victim upon another's reaction, like children sometimes do. Demoralization is not evolution.

Same here with the labels, it's funny that the ppl who have slapped the most labels on me in life or the ppl who tell me I can't identify a certain way or that I'm wrong, those ppl have always been from the lgbtq+ "community" or they've been ppl in position of power with some major control issues. I even spent time in public schools in rural areas down south as a teen with minimal issues compared to the cattiness of the "community"

@Alex Paul Yep! As I said in another comment regarding a similar subject... "The ones who shout 'tolerance' the most, are often the ones who tolerate the least!"

@mi pájaro me esta buscando When I read someone identifying as the moon for the first time I thought it was a joke. But no, they mean it.

You don’t need gender dysphoria to be trans. Some trans people only have gender incongruence or gender euphoria instead.

True and This is also why "non-binary" is a growing thing. It is a way to make any behavior into a gender and gain benefits from it. And it is a way to have "trans" people without having to have

@@NatureLover-pj2qe Prolonged gender incongruence is a literal clinical definition of GD and autogynephelia is a fetish not a gender hon.

@@NatureLover-pj2qe One could argue, that GD comes with GI and GE, and that GD quite often is the consequence of GI, but I don't really think that is what the OP is going for. It is more that people think if they have some behavior that doesn't fit their sex, that they are transgender. For example, I wouldn't like Chicks Flicks and instead watch sports with the guys, drinking beer. My parents taught me, that it is absolutely fine to do that, while one is told today, that one is trans. I'm not trans, however I took three tests I found on Google. I made the first ones Google spit out, because those are the test a kid wondering about it would take. I answered honestly. One test told me, I might just not like being pressed into a gender-role (which is correct), one said I'm at least non-binary and should talk to someone about being trans, and one told me to get onto testosterone right away. This is harmful.

What’s a cis-women? I’m confused

@@chrissy387 Born as female and identify as women

@@alafrah1752 oh ok thank you

As a trans girl myself, I think its bs that people say, “date trans people or youre a bigot”, somebody’s biological sex is what plays a major role in attraction. Yes, it is upsetting for us trans women to be rejected as a potential partner by straight men/lesbians just for being trans but thats simply a fact of life us trans people have to deal with. For a trans person to go on about why not dating/having sex with them is bigoted really is stupid and not really different from a “nice guy” going on a rant about why women dont have the right to say no to him. Also, you are NOT a TERF. If you respect trans people and their identities, then you are just a lesbian who likes biological women. And there’s nothing wrong with that.

I believe terfs are the only feminists in the western world actually fighting for women's rights at the moment.

Same it’s super frustrating. It seems like now in wlw spaces lesbians are always having to explain why they don’t want to sleep/be with a trans woman. And if they don’t want to they’re a terf/transphobic. Terf has become such a meaningless word to the point it’s thrown around at someone who gives so much as a side eye. It’s not productive and just makes the community look aggressive.

Same experience here.

Does someone mind educating me on what the term TERF means?

lmao, honestly a perfect example

why do you feel the need to diagnose communities that you are not apart of

@@ahahayeah9930 why are you assuming I'm not part of one or the other community I mentioned? You don't know me. The comment was stating people are turned off to the trans community because of its worst examples getting a ton of press. I think that's pretty obvious.

@@ahahayeah9930 better stay in your lane from now on, don't talk about ANYTHING you aren't personally involved in. Yeah, seems stupid, right?

Exactly! Very different! Just like biological women have no idea how distressing it is to be constantly criticized for having the same interests as girls and being innately feminine as a child that’s born a male. Or to have a group of girls as friends as a child and then when boys come around completely turn on you as if they are also your bullies so they can get male attention for it. When we get bullied we can’t say “you can’t hit me I’m a girl” like you can. I was sexually assaulted as a child by a married man and was told to keep it quiet as to not “upset his wife” because in todays world females feelings matter more then males. Most situations strangers will rush to help a female, but i as a trans person have to wonder if the people around me would have my back if something went down. You’ll never understand that. I also had an incident as a passable trans woman as an adult with a man who took advantage of me, and I didn’t go to the police because I knew I’d be blamed for my own SA. Women will never know how it feels to be afraid to get cat called, you might be annoyed or offended by it, but for us it could mean life or death if the wrong person realized we’re trans. Anytime a bio woman is killed or rap3d she gets nothing but sympathy. We get accused of tricking someone and blamed for our own murder even tho in todays world none of us have to trick anyone as most men don’t care we’re trans, especially behind closed doors. We put up with more disrespect from men then the average women could ever imagine. And tbh I wonder sometimes if women are okay with it. I literally won’t go to bars with groups of girls because they sometimes will police every interaction with men who hit on me. As if I’m supposed to out myself to someone I’m not even interested in! SOME women will call us she all day and tell us how gorgeous we are UNTIL a guy like us then it’s “u know that’s a dude right?” “U know she’s trans RIGHT?” Honestly I can see why so many trans people just live stealth we get constantly disrespected. We have very different lives then people who are born the sex they identify as. Like you said two totally different worlds, that’s why so many FTM detransitions happen, these women find out how much harder men have it then women!

Well said.

I agree. I'm religious and seeing other people forcing my religion on others it makes me super upset...

@Brittany Du oh my, you're on quite the roll aren't you! It's borderline painful to watch you shove your foot in your mouth repeatedly!

@Brittany Du cult like behavior is cult like behavior, no matter what it's about.

@Brittany Du Imagine being so dumb you think calling leftist idealogues religious zealots is ONLY talking about transgenderism.

Yes they were forced?? Otherwise nothing would have happened

@@derpyliciousmiku You completely missed the message!

@@derpyliciousmiku Ah yes, people only do good things when forced to by threats from the government, this is why we need socialism.

@just shut up it's the internet oh well.

@Brittany Du you're gay.

Thank you. I'm a tomboy, which I can't say anymore. I have to say hetero tomboy, and that blows people's minds. And even then, they're like, "That doesn't really make sense." Also, how come people who are against labels have the most labels?

@@danicleckley5404 Beats me. Apparently as a male, me wearing makeup and dressing up is considered "transphobic", cause I don't give Trans a decent "platform".

They've gone full circle and they don't even care lol, right back to "women can't be masculine and men can't be feminine"

And let’s not start with the other letters L G B Q A I

And they will say that you all are sucking up to transphobes and have internalised tranphobia too, cause that is the best argument they can come up with 😂

You guys should! The trans community has a very loud minority that’s completely taking over the discussions

@@jacksonmcnuggets7488 Actually the LGBs are pissed at the trans activists too ;) I also saw a lot of Intersex people not happy with the situation.

But most of you don't push back against this crap either.

I hate it when people use those terms. They’re just yucky. I’m not a “birthing person” I’m a woman

"Birthing Person" reminds me of Handmaid's Tale

Birthing person? Hell nawl

Vulva people? Does that make it ok to call transwomen penis people? They come up with such demeaning and insulting words for biological women and then demand that everyone treats them with respect. It feels like they're just men finding a different way to control women. How can people who hate women so much claim to be literal women?

Vulva people? Are you kidding?!! How dare they.

Not really there are many people like Blaire they are just not as loud

@@ashleyk8406 Yep, I’m from LA and there are lots of Trans who agree with Blair but wouldn’t dare say it publicly

No there fucking aren't. Blaire look what you have these people believing

@@bobbiechristine sure about that? Have you opened up tumblr pr twitter or been in high school in the last 6 years?

No the jessica yanivs are just alot louder than the blaire's of the world

Well said 💙

I agree 100%.

No, you may ASK me to come aboard. You have no right to DEMAND courtesy from me.

@@sevenproxies4255 Yeah, it's more a "manners" kind of thing, rather than "scream bloody murder and demand social exile."

Yes...exactly.

Some men don’t want money...some men just wanna watch the world burn.

If everyone in the LGTB community was like Blaire LGTB community wouldn't suffer this much Nah who am i kidding ya all are useless in the eyes of religions

@Tigreal i hope one day that you discover from a first person account that cancer and activism actually AREN’T the same thing

@@DANIELGORMANN they are though. Real transpeople want to live their lives. "Trans" activists are concerned with things like "OMG, YOU WON'T DATE ME, YOU'RE SO TRANSPHOBIC." It's like feminists who think they're actually doing something for women. They're not.

@@ryanthomas49 once again, you are trying to speak FOR trans people and decide what is or isn’t real trans activism even though you’re not trans and you’ll never know what it’s like to be trans. and again, it’s ‘trans people’, two separate words. oh, and you’re obviously in no place to speak about feminism either, being transphobic and all

Evaluation, criticism, research, etc. Are all needed to support the trans community in my opinion

@@loislois3526 Yep!

Same I have left the lgbt community because I cannot talk about anything when I'm an lgbt minor from UC Berkeley. They shut me down if I don't go along with their insane homogenizing ideologies. Trans politics has taken over politics. It's enough.

I hope youve stopped calling them cishet. Makes you sound like a dickhead.

As a lesbian, I say fuck those weirdos in our community

Same. And I am trans myself. I was extremely transphobic as well. But I like trans people like Blair

It's embarrassing to admit it, but same. Today many of the trans extremists would still consider me one, but I don't think I am. Different definitions I guess

@@gimygaming8655 you mean trans people that conform to traditional gender roles and bully those who dont?? Blaire bullying and misgenders other trans people for her amusement.

@@derpyliciousmiku in this video she is saying that we should change the way you guys advocate for the trans community. By integrating your wants into society. Like saying instead of crying everytime someone misgenders you or refuses, saying "I understand how it may be confusing but we are the same" or "how am I different from you in everyday life?" Not going around saying if you have a different belief you are a bigot. It makes people feel attacked and not want to accept anything. You say she is attacking others, while that may be true same goes for the other side. If someone disagrees about something but still support the community they get called a bigot. It makes people mad and not accept the community at all. Although yes, some people just will never get it or refuse, but that's with everything. But we have got to work on the majority of people, and calling them names just cause they disagree is not how we should go about it

@Brittany Du nah. :)

Yeah it's like a little shrug or something but yeah 🤣

I think they connect to the back of the shirt

I was fascinated too. Looks amazing!

Spent the whole video looking at her shirt, never noticed if it had sleeves or not.

Booba

Same

Depends on the truth ,everyone is in a perceived delusion labeled as their reality for them the truth is what they think it is ,to say you can be objective is false but yiu can get to the truth through perceived facts but whether yiu accept it as undeniable is hard to tell, so what is your truth

@Brittany Du you're a delusional lefty

@Brittany Du oh dear, the irony of YOU calling others delusional! For pete's sake have a snickers or something already. It's not like you even attempted to post an actual rebuttal yet.

@Brittany Du you have to be trolling 💀 she literally explained what they were in the video and how they are real scientific things. You're just a hater. Nothing she said was wrong. Stop embarrassing yourself for the love of god.

You’re absolutely right.

It’s the behaviour of abusers you are describing

@Booger Balls You described my parents... they’re gaslighters x(