*Falling in love too fast is a sign of neediness and wanting to accept whatever comes your way. We should raise our standards instead, and become the amazing person, that we want to meet, before it happens. Improving your life overall, will attract the kind of person you are looking for. Love yourself first, the rest will come.*

Fall in love when you're ready. not when you're lonely.

"Being in love isn't a mood, it's a commitment; even after your mood changes!" Wow!!!

Once I met this woman at a friend’s house. We really clicked that night on. We hung out every night up to two months then we went on an “official” date, and a month later we were talking marriage and got married about a year after we met. Some would say we fell in love too fast, and maybe we did. Somehow it all worked out and is still working out sixteen years of marriage later.

wait a minute.. Why did this come as a recommendation to me?😂

"He took away my insecurities. But in one moment, he brought all them back."

I feel sorry for those who mistaken love with a crush...

Fall in love with yourself. It’s the most important relationship you will ever be involved in and is mandatory, so make it a good one.

But what if I hate everyone too fast

You should love, not fall in love, because everything that falls, breaks.

“You think u know their past, but u just know parts” . Touched!😪

You know, I used to love that one person. At that time and up until now, I can't define what is love. I did and gave him everything I could, and let him break me apart. As time passes, my wound is healed, but deep down in my heart, I know I could never love someone the way I used to love him, not anymore because he changed me. He was, and always will be a part of me, no matter what I want to call him, a mistake, or a memory. I did not hate him, nor deny him, in fact, I accepted him. The love is far gone, but the respect, the admiration, and the affection are still there. You know, to love someone doesn't mean you have to keep that person around, to me, to be able to let someone you love go is the truest love. One day I will be stronger, but my love, you will always be in the softest place of my heart. I wish you nothing but strength, luck, and happiness to go on in life.

"Don't make someone fall in love with you, if you don't know how to love them."

Them: don't fall in love too fast Me: ignores and gets heartbroken over and over again

My dad always tells me to trust no one. This simple phrase has prevented me from getting into a lot of potentially painful relationships. It sounds harsh, but it is true.

A patient in hospital told me that he bumped into a girl when he went rollerskating, on leave from the navy. They talked all night after that and he walked her home afterwards. He said a 15 minute walk took 2 hours because they talked so much and that night, the same night they met, she suggested they should marry. He told me they got married within the year. He had just celebrated his 61st wedding anniversary with her. How crazy is that??!!! He told me he still loved her just as much and wouldn't be without her for the world ❤. This isn't the only story I have heard from patients like this. Sometimes you know straight away that you have stumbled on a good thing and you don't want to lose them. Sometimes you just need to go for it. Or perhaps older people didn't feel the need to try out countless people until they found the perfect one, perhaps they were just content with a nice person? Maybe there's a lesson in that...... Anyway, there in a nutshell is why dating is so hard. How can we possibly know what the right thing is to do? Still looking for answers here...

“Being in love isn’t a mood, it’s a commitment even after your mood changes” BIG FACTS 🔥🔥🔥

*"let the right person show you that they're the right person"*

“Nothing good in our lives ever comes from falling” Ermm.. falling asleep?

He says "don’t fall in love too fast" like if it‘s a choice. As if I see someone and think to myself "let’s fall in love with this person"

Wait.... How does KZfaq know that I fall in love too fast???...

Your not supposed to fall in love. Your supposed to stand in love. That's what my father always told me. He says it hurts when you fall.

So... wife and I decided to get engaged and set a date after knowing each other for 72 hours and going on one date. 12 years and 5 kids later were still going strong.

"Don't just give away your trust let someone earn it"! 💯🔥

*It sounds like a cliche but I also learnt that you're not going to fall for the right person until you really love yourself and feel good about how you are.* ---Emma Stone

When you feel you are falling in love too fast just understand, it's just the attraction.

This is wrong. He led her on and she did nothing wrong. Don't tell me it isn't love. It's love. It is just unrequited. It doesn't take time. It takes authenticity. People are cruel.

Man sometimes it feels like being single is the best option in this world, but believe me that when u see other couples having a fun life it hits hard; And we wish to be dating someone and then the whole cycle repeats 🤕. Being born as a human is more of a curse than than blessing in my opinion.

1:25 I dint realise she was a different girl

i "fall in love" with every cute boy i see that smiles at me. i'm pathetic.

My husband and I met in our mid 20’s we were friends first, 5 years later we were roommates. Years down the road we were boyfriend and girlfriend. 12 years past in our mid 30’s we were engaged. We’re in our 40’s we’re husband and wife. We’ve shared and done everything together I can honestly say I can’t see my life without my husband he’s my everything.

A message i remembered from experience is this, "You didn't fall in love with me. You fell in love with the moment."

Don’t make someone fall in love with you if you don’t know how to love them. FACTS

what is love baby dont hurt me...

I disagree with this. Everyone loves at different speeds, some are more open whilst others are more reserved. To each one of us, love represents something unique. With each person you meet, your love will be different. With each love comes lessons. Some loves last longer than others. But my main advice is be true to how you feel, stop controlling it. What you can control though, are the actions you take.

Falling in love is an act of surrendering oneself to another person.

there seriously should of been a different thumbnail though lol

You can't eat the fruit the same day you plant the seed👌

The honest truth, falling in love doesnt have formula, we cant control our hearts and heartbreaks are inevitable...

That other woman was just his sister. She freaked out for nothing.

Here we are at another episode of WhY wAs ThIs iN mY rEcOmEnDeD

I think the right term for that is infatuation...you don't love him, you only love the IDEA of him.

Love which lifts up when we are in hard times comforting with pleasing words lifting us with true kindness is the most admirable love l fall for.

Jay thanks brother I can not tell you how much I cry these days for him but after watching your videos I am feeling relax... thanks 💫

When you go in for a hug but he goes in for a handshake *Deep inhale* OOOO GURL

"Being in Love isn’t a mood, it’s a commitment, even after your mood changes” ... Jay maybe you don’t realize enough how your wisdom can be inspiring, thanks a lot 🙏🏽. Be blessed!

Whilst I appreciate the intention of this video, but am AMAZED at the generalisations and separation consciousness being shared so freely by someone people seemingly look to for guidance. We are nearing the end of 2020, higher spiritual pathways are opening gateways to deep healing and all this video can do is bash up the shadows? Maybe the dating culture of the West has created the need for such a message but I’m still appalled at the way this video is giving a leading statement, making people believe that somehow they right person’ won’t hurt them or make them feel insecure’. True relationships don’t just bring out the best but sometimes the worst fears of the people involved and that’s where lovers can find a safe space to heal themselves and grow together. I fell in love real quick, it’s as if we had known each other forever, we had a deep connection and chemistry and after many highs and lows, the love has only grown stronger in all of these seven years. Sometimes ‘good guys’ and ‘committed partners’ can flip after years together, leaving the other wondering what happened. I’m saying, you can never be too sure of a person and love is always a risk. Always. That said, it’s not only upto people to try and make the right choices but also build a robust relationship with their own selves that nothing and no one can threaten. That’s true commitment :)

Relations are build on trust Trust come with patience Give more time to your relationship 6 months are like honeymoon period After that only you face originality Of your partner whether in Love or anger So don't share all your secrets Otherwise he/she will bring out your insecurity Take advantage of that

KZfaq teaches me everything about love 😂

*Fall in love with yourself* *and you will see wonders happening*

This video opened scars for me. Cut right to the quick. Every thing he says is so deeply true, and heart breaking.

I went back to watching this video today. I tend to fall quickly. And this helped me a lot. I had someone I thought I knew and we were close. Ghost me out of nowhere even though we were just talking for hours together tonight. Im glad I still have this video

I don't fall in love too fast, I just get crushes easily and I hate it because I'm all uncomfortable around them ;_; I know it's not love. Love is something greater ❤️

How'd KZfaq know that I really need this video now??🤔🤔

Love yourself enough to take your time-----no one "completes" you---you are a gift to a potential partner....man or woman....take your time---what is the rush?? Everyone has secrets.....and they take time to be revealed. Great video!!

I don’t know how I stumbled upon this video. It seemed the Universe wanted to give me a message. Many thanks for this video Jay.

Jokes on you, I never even get to the mutual attraction stage, let alone love 😂😂😂

I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m so scared to fall in love cause I don’t wanna have my heart broken. 💔

Thank you so much, I needed to hear this cos I'm a 19yr boy who has started having a crush with a 40yr woman(single mom) with a 14-month boy (she's getting divorced so she's staying here with us) and I started having feelings for her last night. This morning (11 August 2020) when I woke up, I was happy to see her because when she's around I feel happy and warm but when she's not around I feel sad and lonely. She is a psychologist and she has helped me with other problems that I had like falling asleep at night but as I said I'm catching feelings for her so I needed your help, Jay!! Thank you for helping me! (I think you should be awarded for helping us by uploading truthful and well-deserved content!! (KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK MAN)!!

You can't dodge the big lie, but "never give away your trust" is excellent advice; it must be earned.

I fall in love every morning With myself when I look in mirror

I never wanted to fall in love But then at some point he smiled And holy shit I blew it

It's really true and happened with everyone when u fall in love first time. But after the situation has changed...😎😎😎 Very great message ☺️

Love is not a mood it’s a commitment ... how true!

How the hell does KZfaq know that I fall in love very fast?

They fall in love fast... My phone fell in my face

No truer words ever spoken. Jay Shetty is a genius. I wish someone gave me that advice decades ago.

Love is respect, patience, dedication, and commitment. It's not just about letting someone in your life, it's learning how to accept their life into yours and trying to mold it into one somehow in the good and bad. Take your time to get to know people before "choosing the right one". Bless you and good luck. 😃

The talking guy has really beautiful eyes

Name a Scam: "He said he had never been this way with anyone else before" Yeah right! Typical Lines

Hey Jay! This video just made my years that I left behind in couple of relationships that didn't worked and fully had opened my eyes on thing, despite I always knew that everything that comes up slowly is about quality, I kept making same mistakes opening myself to my exes too fast and suffering after for every finish. Your words I see was lived. Thank You for that.

The heart is soooo vulnerable! it's not easy to just move on

Basically don't rush your thoughts on thinking you know them. Let time show who they really are. You can't control who you fall for but take it slowly.

Don’t know how did i ended up here, but it was worth it “no tree gives a fruit and flowers overnight” 💜

It took me the decade of my twenties to learn this through through experience. I always got confused when the mood left. I got married when I was 30 and have been married for 30 years now. Everything her says in this video is so true. Most of us have no one to guide us.

True . So true . That we ignore these things n then get hurt . It's tough but it can be implemented. Al d best to all of us . Thanks Jay 4 sharing such a video .stay blessed

It takes time😢💔...who else is still waiting for Mr Right

Funny how KZfaq recommended this to a dude who’s never had a girlfriend and is eating frozen waffles in his underwear at 3 am

Gratitude, your wisdom and knowledge shall never run dry, insightful video

Long years of relationship does not also guarantee forever because i think love comes regardless of time. And love can not just be compared to a fruit of a tree. But thank you for sharing, maybe sometimes its true but not absolute.

Don't fall in love too fast. because when you fall in love too fast, it's not love. You think you know their dreams, but you just know their plans. You think you know their heart, but you just know their mind. Let the right person show you that they are the right person. Don't just give away your trust, let someone earn it.

"They say love is blind because the only time we fall is when we're blindfolded"

Ive been hurt too many times to people i have given my trust to. Even after years of building that trust, they somehow break it. Im just at the point of no more. Im done trusting others not to hurt me. I love this story/lesson. Its very true.

Second part of his message just hit the right tones and brought back all the senses. Don’t make anybody fall in love with you if you don’t how to love them, because they won’t end up questioning you, they would end up questioning love.

I'm the one I should love in this world - Kim Seokjin 2018

Me and my wife started falling in love before we really knew each other. We were married just a couple of months after our first date. That was 26 years ago. Still married and still in love.

I'm one of them that do it the wrong way,falling to fast, and it crushes me everytime.but there is a thing I learned along the way of my life, outside of love.I will always be the one that catches me,always,no matter what. Now I'm single for ...some time, and I don't trust no one. That dosen't mean I regret something. If I look behind me, I know I was true to everything I felt. Maybe I didn't find the right guy...maybe I changed... but I still have me❤it's very beautiful your work, thank you.it make me think love still exist as I want it, but I am surely not ashamed of what I'm feeling ❤thank you

Excellent points and reminders... mahalo🤙... now that being said lol, my husband proposed to me less than a month after we met and we were married 15 years before he passed away this past July... you just never know, just remember your happiness doesn’t come from someone else it comes from inside yourself...it’s a choice we make everyday... the love we have with others is an awesome bonus 💕

Forget about "falling in love." Focus on yourself, your goals, your fitness your career, and your hobbies.

Listen to this man !! Save yourself pain and time later !!!

This vidéo is so simple and so true. Why would I fall in love for someone that doesn’t deserve it and wouldn’t catch me when I fall? I deserve more and better. We all do

KZfaq always recommends videos that pertain to my life :")

"The way you feel about me, is the way I feel towards her" 💔 I learnt this message the hard way

I was like that but now I’ve changed. It’s really problematic to fall for every single guy who gives you some attention.

Oh my God its too much relatable.....my family also say always to me that don't trust too easly🖤🖤🖤

I actually met my partner on a bus. We fell in love on a 7 minute bus ride. We became officially "together" three days after we first met. We've been together 2yrs and 4 months now and it's going strong. Maybe we're the odd ones out, I don't know. We've still got a lot to learn about each other but it seems to be going in the right direction. I watched this video coz I wanted to make sure I'm doing the right thing. I feel like this video is aimed at someone like me. I'm really glad I watched it, as it's reminded me to take things at my own pace. But I definitely feel like this could be it. I think a key factor is that we don't argue - if we're unhappy about something, we talk it out like adults. It speeds up any conflicts and prevents them from happening in the future. 💘

Temporary pain ends but regret lasts forever!?

When I watch that video just want to cry and cry....my heart is totally broke cuz I love someone who doesn’t love me back...

Thanks to the recommendation, I received your beautiful message. Thank you for those words. You helped me open up my eyes to see better perspective. God Bless!

But the actual thing is we can't prevent ourselves for falling in love 🤐