Oh sad. You know what's sadder? Never having that. There are lots of people who are in genuine pain because they can't find true love. The not-by-choice singles. Year after year all alone. You hit the lottery, lady. I would've killed to have 15 years of what you had.

@rainydayz7 Actually , people cannot miss what they never had or knew. They miss the ideal of it. But people deeply miss and grieve what was lost. To the OP, I am glad you had wonderful years with your husband.

R.C. Blakes says people will launch negative & derogatory words at you when your confidence is on 10 because they don't like the way you're wearing hour crown. Don't compromise your crown. Don't 2nd guess your worth because of negative energy or words from people who are unqualified. Good for you practicing self care!

I have been looking for this lady’s name..!! Good one Larissa

Sorry, which lady ?

@@jeanannedupratt7075 the other guest ☺️

I feel this so hard! No matter how many times I may have watched dating advice, I find myself back here again to remind myself when I am in that infatuation stage or early dating.

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@@Maria-006. Thank you Maria! 😘❤️🌹

@@NathalieLazo You’re Welcome 🤗

Thank you for this! Really good adivce and think everyone needs to see this!

@@Maria-006. 😘❤️🌹

Just text : “ so when are you going to ask me out on a date 😉?

@@Toobs8465 I have since come off dating sites. Waste of time and attracts the wrong types.

Really this video is pretty much, be perfect, don't not be perfect.

I see the sense in this. Even for friendship this works. Another way is if you have an early argument or disagreement. I recently learned that HOW you argue (as Mathew Hussey stated), says alot about dynamics between you. It can expose a gentleness in someone that is not immediately evident.

So true - just ended a vacation half way through and broke up with the guy!

Be careful about how you talk about your ex...it says alot about yourself. If you see traits of covert narcissim in your ex, then it means you have those same traits yourself in unexpected and surprising ways. I think we should all humble ourselves and take ourselves off the pedestal in order to grow emotionally, spiritually. Peace to everyone 🙏

@@Eserr7856 gosh yes I agree. I confidently describe my ex as a covert narc because a relate therapist we both saw at the same time - for a couple of times (he wouldn’t go after that but I continued to see her ) confirmed he was one , when I had my suspicions after our break up. I said” I think I’ve been in a narcissistically abusive relationship” , she said “well your mums one isn’t she?”. I was flabbergasted that she knew. The therapist had been trying to get my confidence up, get me out of denial but she didn’t say anything about my ex . I had to work that out for myself. Really, I wish my ex a well life. I don’t want him anywhere near me though. I don’t blame him for how he treated me. I know I was just as unwell as him to not do anything about red flags, in my desperate need to find love. With his final discard of me he set me free and I learnt so much and yes I learnt where I had been narcissistic too and made amends for that. We all have narcism but it can increase with the wrong partner. I believe my issue was co-dependency. I had some wonderful times in the beginning with my ex, however the cost to my well-being was immense. I wouldn’t have wanted to have been married to me either by the end of the marriage. I couldn’t do anything for myself I was utterly controlled by him. I allowed myself to get into that state but it did take many years of gas-lighting, cognitive dissonance , manipulation and control so I won’t be too hard on myself.

Wow!! I never thought of it that way! It really Should be red flag, thank you

I was extremely nervous on my first date, I actually cried before I went and was wondering whether to go. Apparently, he wasn't nervous at all. 4 months later, I couldn't have asked for a better person he has turned out to be amazing,we have the same values and outlook on life, and we're in love. But I tell myself this is very early on, so I'm still cautious and not getting my hopes up too much.

Wow all on a first date?

Or its just BS and it doesn't work like that and he's exactly where a logical and sane person predicts him to be.

Yes who is she and I want to know the name of her book too!

Death steals and destroys no doubt.. I'm on the same boat. But we can't change what happened only learn to live with it. Appreciate what you have now and build new memories. All the best to you.

Celebrate his life and having gotten the chance to have shared what you have shared together. Gratitude. And Presence to Life that is here Now. Recommended reading: Power or Now by Eckhart Tolle. And Stillness speaks. Love!

I hope i meet that someone soon Thanks