“Who’s a good boy !” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

“He’s not like a dog… most of the time” 🤣

It’s not about being perfect it’s about being authentic 😎

Some things I’d like to dive into a bit to get more understanding: 1. When you say “get to know the real him”, do you believe it’s a woman’s responsibility to always pull the “real him” out, or would you recommend that men also need to learn how to be more communicative with their authentic selves? Many women already try getting men to open up, but many men refuse to open up because they perceive any vulnerability as a sign of weakness. That’s not something a woman can fix unless she’s a therapist, and even a therapist can’t make a man open up if he doesn’t want to. His authenticity is his responsibility. 2. You give this example of your friend’s love interest ghosting him, but don’t give us a specific step to “keeping a man committed” (as if we can actually do that lol). Are you trying to say “don’t ghost a guy and he’ll be committed”? Please give clarity to this part. 3. Yes, we should all be our authentic selves. But to claim that this keeps a man committed? Unfortunately many women’s’ experiences show that once they start becoming more authentic, most men withdraw, have affairs, etc. they don’t want real relationships because men are socialized to think relationship is a weakness. 4. Doing something active? Again, I’m not sure you’re actually in touch with women’s’ perspectives here. Women are ALWAYS trying to accommodate to men. We usually do what they want to do, and when we bring up things we want to do, they usually act like that’s “too girly” for them. Activities should not be gendered, but sadly, they still are, and things that are considered “masculine” are seen as acceptable to everyone, but things that are considered “feminine” are still largely seen as exclusive to women and girls and are perceived as inferior to the things considered masculine. Telling women to simply accommodate more in this way is not only unequal, but doesn’t keep men committed. I’ve seen men get with amazing women but not commit and men get with women that don’t show a sign of uniqueness and worship the ground she walks on. Men commit because they want to. That’s it. Either they’ve got enough of their shit together to be ready for commitment or they don’t.

Whenever I'm feeling quite lost in my relationship, I always resort to your advises. They give me so much reassurance, and I find great comfort in the way you make sense of painfully difficult circumstances. Always gives me the drive to take a step in the right direction. Thank you, Brian!

Ah, that’s the problem. I wasn’t feeding him. 😂

Brian!😂 "reward him and give him a toy, who's a good boy"😂😂😂

Brian you put things into perspective like nobody else.

Yes, building memories is very important. And fun. And alive. We are here in this world for living ourselves, perpetuate life and sustain life itself.

I get scared every time my boyfriend says “you are perfect “ deep down I know I’m not

Now I understand why he doesn't want to lose me. He told me he got attached when I opened up to him.

We have to see each other as we are and how we can become. We also need to remember we are not perfect and will make mistakes. Be who you are but strive to be better. You have to be willing to work on the relationship. I tried to encourage my husband to spend time together doing a variety of things. It just never really happened!! My list of activities was long but not extravagant. You don't need to spend a ton of money to enjoy time together.

🤣 You’re the best, Geert-Brian. You’re psychologically spot-on AND you deliver your crystal-clear, super-helpful information with a humor that’s uniquely your own and simply fantastically hilarious. Thank you for your wonderful work. I’ve learned so much from what you teach, and my dating life is becoming increasingly healthy because of it. THANK YOU.

That is great advice - doing activities that create memories, and not always sitting down talking

Be confident in your vulnerability to be authentically you 😎😘

Love your humor and positive energy, Amazing. I find myself laughing and smiling while also receiving what I feel is great advise. Cheers.

Your guidance is priceless for me, it’s like having the wisest older brother 24/7. I loved your book as well. Thank you for all you do 🙏🏼

This actually happens to me often... I meet a man, he gets fascinated by how amazing I am, we start to date and boom after few weeks he realizes I am still a person with flaws and scars, and not some kind of goddess. And then he leaves saying I am not what he was looking for. I am really not trying to hide who I am, althought I do understand I do something wrong. Any ideas?

You are by far one of the best spoken ones I’ve seen here. Logical reasons, insight, wisdom. No fake bs abt “how 2 get a guy fASt”. Genuine tips. Thank you. Great tips for real men & love

You bring me back to reality. Knowing my guy and still caring about him, warts and all, and visa versa, has helped us BOTH relax.

Would love French people to be able to listen to you too… we don’t have anyone with your unique spirit ! I have French connections that really need your advices and stories

Loved this advice because I always second guess if I showed too much of myself, but why would I be with someone who doesn't make me comfortable to be myself or like who I am.

OMG you just solved my problem. Answered the questions he won't. Huge epiphany huge! Thank you!

"Brian : Brilliant as always ❤️"

This is hands down one of the best dating videos I have watched. Thank you!

6:38 😔 this is something I’ve always been insecure about. growing up with a psychopathic narcissist dad, I’m terrified to show weakness. Esp in r/s. I use my attractiveness, but fear them seeing my heart.

Most guys are dogs lol but you are a BLESSING 😂🥰😆

Each of these videos are making me more aware of myself and my mate. I am feeling like I'm less and less and LESS of anything he wants in his life. I am unable to apply any of the positive things you're speaking about. Even when he shares those 'fond memories' I feel like he is making fun of me more than he is sharing a passion for something we did. A passion for mE being the one he shared that moment with.. . I'm embarrassed AF!

The introduction is brilliant 😂😂😂 So is the rest of the contents. Thank you very much.

its so enjoyable to hear your playfulness Brian :) thank u for Being YOU!

This was a unique and wise list of points. Very useful and thought-provoking. Thank you!

You really make me smile with this post.( what I mean by that is your subtle form of sarcasm at the beginning of the video. That made mi laugh)

You deserve Millions more Abos!!! Great Advices!

Haha. Celebrities never date their fans. Great point. 😁💥😁💥😁 Don’t put your boyfriend on a pedestal. Keep your life full.

Thanks Brian! I really like listening to your videos, they're fun, entertaining and most of all educational!

You have a gift. I could watch your videos all day long and never get bored. Your content is solid with a good amount of humor, and that accent... yep. Big fan.

Actions speak. Louder than words. X

I found your channel a few days ago. I have a new boyfriend and am struggling a little with trust issues, etc. Your videos are very informative and entertaining! I'm a new subscriber.

" Feed him twice a day... if he makes a mess just tide up, bring him out for a walk, give him a biscuit as a reward ?! ".... I guess some people do like that to make their relationships work! But this would never really work!

Who is a good boy award him with a toy or cookie🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I was so scared you weren’t gonna make any more new videos! I love your intro! I’m so glad to see your still making videos

Ty Brian. My master plan was to dye my hair red and put on my best linen dress and sing rather poorly I might add, " Make up your mind" by Florence and the Machine in the middle of the living room. 😆

This is the first time I've ever saw your video, and Hiet, I like your style, you have a cool way of explaining your examples in a way anyone can understand. I'm an instant subscriber😁❤️

Thank you so much! So helpful! And I love your sense of humour 😀

I absolutely love your valuable sense of humor!

I love your comedian side!!

You're a real blessing to so many girls out der.. I genuinely love him a lot. I always go with ur advice to save my relationship..

I got so scared the first 40 seconds 😂 I thought I was on the wrong side of KZfaq

These videos are calming my anxiety over not being with him and realizing I was putting him on a pedestal and he was withdrawing. I will know how to deal with him when he comes.

I did not expect to laugh that long at your intro 😂🤣 Bravo!

Thank you Brian for your valuable tips... from Egypt 🇪🇬 with love

THUMBSUPTHUMBSUPTHUMBSUP!!!!! 4th time listening to this guy and I KNOW I need not listen to a single word before I THUMBSUP!!!!!!!!! LOVING HIM!!!!! (will create a playlist asap with him mostly on it!!!!). LOVE THIS GUY!!!!!!!

you make me giggle! thank you ! :)

Do I have to play games to get love and to give love? It is very sad, how men behave sometimes...

😂😂😂 I love your humour Please do more videos You’re one of my favourite coaches

1. Being irreplaceable should not be your primary goal. That would put him on a pedestal. 2. Try to see the real him: -Don't be delusional. -Think rationally. -Beware of the mind games. 3. Be special: -Don't blend in with other women he knows. -Be authentic, to see if he's genuinely interested or not. -Let there be differences between you two. Don't change for him. 4. Do more fun activities together than just restaurant dates. Allow him to see you in motion to notice your uniqueness.

Well said ..be authentic..

I think I love my dog more much simpler 😁thank u straight forward to the point amazing video

Geert! Thank you it is sooooo true, you hit so many points that I needed to reminded of 🤗 Cheers 🇨🇦

Thank you Brian. I love your sense of humor.🤣

0:12 Hell no! He is a grown man and I am not his mother.

Thank you, Brian 💕

The alienation of celebrity, sigh* yes Brian it IS hard being this fabulous.. lol 😆

Hey Brian, love the content,you brilliant awesome great sense of humor man. Enjoy your walk.

Done this but still they left haha! I prefer dogs now 🤣

TOTALLY AGREE! BRILLIANT ADVICE! 👍

Being exceptional = as side effects

I love your dog metaphor introduction 🤣🤣🤣

But dogs are so much funner!

Love you man!

Thank you so much. This is one of your best videos.

I beginning to watch this kind of advice because of what I facing right now . Me and my best friend Im beginning to fall for him he doesn't know and suddenly he told me he meet the girl he like for all those flirting we do it's just me I'm fall but he told me I'm he's priority even he have like someone I'm crazy to choose to stay his side but now I watch this it's like a bomb to me it's really not okay this kind of feelings it's affecting my whole life it's so painful and I don't want to sleep so that It can't running my head

You give shaggy from scoobie doo vibe 😋❤

Great talk. I’ll be sure and watch your other videos. Smart man!

Great content! ❤

Your videos are awesome and so real! Thanks!

I really needed this thank you so much

Hi, I love your videos and a sense of humour

OMG this is the perfect analogy for men/women

I hope it will help me. Thanks, buddy btw I am first here

What I find odd is I wanted to do more and for the most part he wanted to do less and less, just go through fast food lines and run errands or sit in front of the TV. However the most exciting and unexpected and romantic weekend we spent was the last time.we saw each other and after that he was "too busy" and put everyone else ahead of me during the holidays. I never understood that. We were together for 10 months and suddenly the communication abruptly pretty much stopped about 1.5 weeks before it and he had no idea when he would have the time to see me. I was trying to do inexpensive things together before that romantic weekend so we could make more memories. He would rather do those with his friends.

"He's not like a dog... most of the time" 🤣🤣

Best coaching

Love your work! 🤣

🤣🤣🤣 Take him for a walk!!!

i love his vides. looking back i realized how pathetic i was...

one does not have to be famous to be desired for the wrong reasons. A lady with a nice rack or attractive hips can be invisible to a man who has a weakness for those features and no self-control. Some women who learn they have this power have to decide if they are satisfied with using their bodies to take advantage of men, or if they would rather be loved for the part of them that will last forever. If you are using your beauty to manipulate a man he can lose interest in you for anyone he finds more beautiful in some way....

I felt is a sign from the universe it came in the right time .so lost

Sounds like how I deal with and raise my dogs..lol

This is so true 💝

I was always half cut when I'd speak to him, always had my beer googles on,the first thing I ever said to him was" I love your name!"what did I get from him nothing!nat a thing!so I didn't like him(i actually hid from him the next time I saw him),,but I do now he's slightly amusing 🤣he knows I'm such a catch🥴🍻

please make more videos.. im always waiting

“Like a dog, most of the time.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Do i have to say " Whos a good boy "? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Beginning of video, you reminded me of Master Oogway

So good men are just golden retrievers

Be careful , you can have a narcissist and take advantage of the women. If you do this, will cause heart ache

Can you do a video on being in a relationship with a narcissistic person

Omg when I started listening i was like 🙄 are we in 1960? What the heck? 😂🤣😂🤣

Why that was driving guy crazy, because a. she allowed him to kiss her, meaning that she is interested in this man more than in others; b. She showed interest; c. She was talking about the future - all those things together say that she is serious about this man, but suddenly disappears. If she was distant and didn’t rush things, that it wouldn’t be a problem if she pulls away. His reaction is normal and adequate to this situation. These players have a separate cauldron in hell🤫