As someone who’s been watching your content for a couple years now, I love that “non-binary pals” has always addressed me. Makes me feel loved and appreciated

I love how “girl facts” are either extremely strange and untrue things or the most basic human facts ever and there’s no inbetween

Cishet Men/Teen Boys sharing girl facts online have clearly never seen a woman 😭😭 Like please look up how women work??? 💀💀

I love how a lot of these posts are “maybe have a little empathy?” And men are like “wow! I never thought of that”

A year free from my ex. After 20 years I found out he doesn't see women as equals. He had a friend who was a girl that he was supporting through a rough time (almost more than he was supporting me) and then he got in trouble with her because he SMELLES HER DIRTY PANTIES AND THEN "USED" THEM! Poor girl thought she had a supportive friend but she had a stalker instead

I had a guy I thought I was friends with complain that i “friendzoned” him. I was so confused, because I am happily married, he has met my husband, and knows we are happily married. Like of course we are going to be just friends??? Do some guys really think we will leave long term relationships just because they talk to us and be nice 1 time???

"If she's looking into your eyes, don't look away unless she does". I'm sure I heard the same advice on what to do when crossing a territorial dog

The hair, the makeup, the glittery outfit, damn girl, you look absolutely stunning 🥰

These guys: "don't associate with women who lie!" Also these guys: "here's our baseless explanation as to how everything she could say is actually a lie"

"she will get nervous being alone with u if she likes u" WHAATTT ???? no..??

I think the “I’m fine” thing is less of a girl thing and more of a depression thing

Ask much as it sucks being trans, growing up as a girl was probably the best thing for me in the sense that I understand girls more than most men.

giving ✨ gay mermaid vibes ✨

what truly bothers me about men / boys is that they'll talk to each other about how they dont understand women, but simultaneously never actually talk to women / girls to figure out how they are. Or they say "girls love when-" NO. All girls are different and have different preferences and your best bet is to just treat all women with respect.

honestly its so weird to me how closed off these facts are. it almost feels fictional. Like they DO know that women have different standards for each one of them, and that they are ALL different?… 😐 which probably just proves the fact they are incels lmao

Not female, but I hate when people assume when I say "I don't care" I'm trying to save someone's feelings. Like, seriously - I just DON'T CARE. I don't have an opinion one way or another, I don't have a preference in that instance, whatever, take your pick, but stop trying to get me to "tell you how I really feel."

Plus, it is annoying when women are called girls 👧🏼, especially by guys.

So happy there’s a new upload as I’m cleaning! I was just loosing motivation to do so. My GSD/Husky is shedding right now and there’s hair EVERYWHERE. My house plants are even covered in it 😅

FYI, the "big fish swimming through little fish" is predator fish herding fish to be easier to catch. It's pretty damn ironic that the guys who are likely predators themselves found that video pleasing! These videos seem more like instructions for men without theory of mind to be able to manipulate women in their lives. 😬

‘Girl facts’ on TikTok are basically those s**tty memes on Facebook that used to get traction. Like ‘Omg guys don’t understand shades of colours but girls do’.

I'm in a Facebook work memes group. About a week ago somebody posted on it something about "men what would you do to keep a woman?" And so many guys are all saying things along the lines of "why should I try? If she wants to leave, she can leave." Completely missing the point. But ever funnier than that, I thought I would inject some female perspective as I only saw one other post by a woman and we both kinda said it the same way; we don't need grand gestures, just be loyal, be an equal partner, etc. And this one guy responded back something about that being entitled! A lot of others laughed at his comment and I responded to him that if he thinks that's entitled then I hope he never dates anybody. But I'm also glad that by the time I got back on to respond a day or so later, there were other females commenting asking the same lines. Like how clueless are these guys to realize it's not about "if your girlfriend wants to leave, what would you do" and more about "how would you work to maintain a relationship?"

8:42 asking someone for consent before you touch them is very. important. coming from someone that has been made uncomfortable from a friend touching me.

The sex fact is absolutely true. I'm asexual and in my late 20s and I don't have a physical body anymore. I just kept rapidly aging until it turned to dust.

I’m AroAce I come here to laugh, finish being glad I’m me

8:25, as someone who hates physical closeness when im upset, id break down more if someone just hugged me without asking or without making it obvious they were initiating the hug

genuinely got jumpscared at the all for the game reference 😭😭

The hair is looking fire 🔥!! Have a good day who ever is reading this.

The ones that might seem like good advice at first glance are much much worse than the ones that are comically stupid on their face. So insidious.

17:29 “Who am i Neil Josten?” goes fucking crazy LOVE!

Oh boy, this one is gonna be painful, isn’t it? 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

I can almost understand how some of these 'facts' can be useful for teen boys (mostly the obvious 'be empathetic' ones), but if a grown man needs to hear that? They have bigger problems. And of course, a lot of it is garbage. Just...believe what people say. If they're playing mind games, find someone better.

The "Who am I, Niel Josten?" was funny lmao

"who am I ? Neil Josten??" In the year of 2024, i never expected an aftg reference in a queer kiwi video, what kind of timeline am I in

Not directly related, but I really love "Guys, Gals, and Non-Binary Pals" as an inclusive and succinct greeting/phrase/way of referring to a group. Yeah, friendship with someone you thought was cool/compatible enough for a relationship can be great. You're allowed to feel upset that they aren't into you romantically but it's also your responsibility to deal with those feelings and not make them the other person's problem. If you can't be friends with them without resenting them for not returning your feelings or hanging around them hoping they'll change their mind if you just put enough kindness coins in, then DON'T. They and you deserve better.

Not Neil Josten! 😂that took me out lmao. I was NOT expecting to hear an aftg reference hahaha

I've said it before but: those earrings are INCREDIBLE. I love this entire look so much!

the perpetuation that women are all secretly having other options for their love/sex life is so worrying. i've seen this all my life and it def feels like a projection rather than reality. also, so much of this "advice" is putting so much pressure on predicting others' actions and assuming others' intentions. assuming rarely gets people anywhere in any type of relationship. yes, there are people who play mind games, who manipulate, but it is not your job to allow these things to happen. you can also speak up for yourself. misogyny is still rampant, but hopefully this video and others will help dismantle this "advice" before it perpetuates harm.

so if me saying "im fine" means im actually not fine, then how do i say im fine???

😭 I love your top, its so mermaidy/sparkly

Got it according to "girl language" I'm perpetually angry at all my friends.

23:00 She may say “maybe” because she fears your reaction to a flat refusal.

Cool mermaid halter. That's gotta have great air circulation on scorching days, maybe even deflect some of the sun.

When it comes to women( or people in general) there is only one hard and fast rule for relationships . That rule is that there are no hard and fast rules for relationships!!

Women are like mythical creatures: their existance is based on social construct and vague historical coincidence

The communication thing reminds me of the scene from Red Dwarf where Lister is challenging Rimmer and is just going "OK Rimmer. OOOOOook." "'OK' Is not a threat." "It is if you mean it to mean what I mean it to mean, and what I mean it to mean is OK Rimmer! OKAAAA~AY!" Such a relatably british moment because every british person knows that tone when used with OK. Basically meaning "We'll see about that."

I love this, "Ohhh nooo I am now friends with the person I feel attracted to, ohhh nooo, what am I now supposed to do? Enjoy the time with the person I have enjoyed my time with?"

they always talk about women as if we're one collective hive mind and all have the same mannerisms and behaviors and thoughts

i’ve never heard an aftg reference outside of fandom spaces i’m freaking outtttttt

Sorry two seconds in but OMG I LOVE YOUR TOP (DRESS?! IDK IDC)

As someone who was raised a boy but I’ve been a woman my whole life (I’m trans fem) I can agree. These are all so freaking ridiculous that it’s more funny than anything

Have men never realized that these things happen for a reason??? Like this level of bad communication happens because good communication doesn’t work! It’s almost like actions have consequences!! Shocking I know

"guys she rejected in the past" brother Im ugly as sin, Im the one getting rejected

I sleep a lot because i have ✨narcolepsy✨

its true i havent had any in 2 years and my family just put me in the retirement home :c

OH THIS IS GONNA BE GOOOOOODDDD

I hate this whole "women dont mean what they say" thing. So annoying and actually dangerous. Especially the "no means yes". When my bf and I got together it was right before christmas we talked about Gifts. I said that I dont want a gift, just time together. He asked like 3 times, if I am sure and if its not a sh*t test. We were in our thirties. You would think, at this age you should be able to communicate. I told him to take my word. If I say sth, I mean it.

alot of guy friends dip as soon as they realize they get told no for a relationship cause they see you as only valuable as a girlfriend / sex pretty much when they dont get that even after being a nice guy they get bitter and drop ya they see friendship and kindness as a transaction rather disgusting

As ‘The Right Stuff’ owner is the example of, boys who write this stuff and think like that will grow up to organise things like Project 2025

Great, to see you love your channel. Those guys know nothing about women

27:30 The hoodie with the scent one is kinda weird. Also if somebody try's this with a neurodivergent person they might get a very diffrent reacion if they have sensory issue's. Like a hoodie full of aftershave might be way to much for there senses (I know it would be for me), especially if the aftershave is already really strong anyway and youre spraying it all over youre freaking hoodie then might not be very pleasant at all 😅.

13:51 I feel like you were mildly picking the worst possible scenario here. Most young boys/men don’t listen to women unfortunately. And hearing these things from another guy can encourage that behavior. I feel like even if they treat their partner better on their period, isn’t it better that they are learning how to behave in a relationship? Idk I just think it’s better that they are practicing positive behavior than being an Andrew Tate Stan. What I’m saying is we should encourage positive behavior instead of constantly shaming them. - random guy

Whenever I dont communicate well with someone it’s because I’ve tried so many times in the past and they don’t listen or ignore me

I'd just like to say, first ever video I've seen of you and I immediately thought "oh I love you" and then your opening line being completely inclusive made me instanlty subsribe. I'm not picky about who I watch but I could count them on both hands. You're so awesome you most likely just kicked a few aside!

This could be entirely wrong, and I'm just connecting dots that don't have a line between them. However, I think that there could be a connection between believing that women like playing hard to get and getting a job. For example, showing that you have other options lined up and that you don't need this job (and overall simply holding yourself in that way) can lead you to being more appreciated in the workplace. As opposed to just doing more work than needed and expecting nothing in return, as that can lead to being an easy target to step on and such. I am wondering if this mindset has been applied to relationships (I have seen it on both sides), and maybe it could even be a subset of men viewing women as a "chore/job" to 'take care of.' Again, I have no idea if any of these thoughts hold any real merit. I am not an expert on relationships (I am aroace), so this could lead to me having a blown up view of the entire situation. So take everything said with a handful of salt. It could also be that I'm tired and shouldn't be trying to explain myself at this hour. That's all, goodbye. Oh, wait. Also, this isn't job advice either. I'm just regurgitating what I've heard others discuss. Yeah, okay. Now this is goodbye. Goodbye

17:47 y’all that’s my Lock Screen…. (The sharks swimming through a school of other fish)

I used to love videos like the psychology shorts, it mainly targets the socially inept and awkward of folks. Me included.

I feel like at least two thirds of these go straight into r/PointlesslyGendered, nothing particularly wrong by themselves but the way they're being said about specifically girls is just like wtf bro

that top and makeup makes you look like a pretty dragonfly i love bugs and women

«If she ever says "I will see or maybe" she's trying to see if her first option is not going to bail on her.» Yes and my first option is stay in bed and enjoy some alone time. My first option is ME. If I’d rather spend the time on my own instead of with you that’s valid

your outfit and hair is sooo goood 🎉❤🎉❤🎉

"Who am I? Neil Josten?" obsessed with your aftg reference

omg her hair is so pretty holy moly

8 minutes ago!?? I’m early!! Glad to see another post!! Just in time for evening snack! ❤

When I was a teenager, a lot of this stuff was all over my feed, and as an autistic person, I found the step-by-step instructions on what social interactions mean and how to do them helpful and thus pretty much lived my life by those rules until I realized it wasn't right at all

When I was watching this video my mom asked "is this Rainbow Dash? bcs she has rainbow mane too" when I pause on the moment with Kiwi talking on the screen 😀 how am I supposed to react to that

Idk seems like most of these kids are just in middle school and for the ones that just seem like obvious things people should know their in middle school so maybe they need to be told these things.

love the top and hair, I always love your hair and clothes but this was really pretty ❤

The dude with the "5 Things A Girl Wants From A Guy But Won't Ask For" schtick should have stopped at 2 items, Respect and Empathy. That covers pretty much all of what we want.

This has real "I rhink every girl is a manic pixie dream girl" energy

Telling men that we actually don't mean the things we say and actually they should do the opposite/"be persistent" also has some really bad implications for consent. That's exactly the kind of mindset that makes men think it's their decision whether or not they need to take a no seriously. Which, in case anyone reading doesn't know better, you always always always take that no seriously. I don't care if you don't think they meant it. If they didn't, then that's their loss, but that is no one's call to make but the person who said no.

11:02 i- i just like to sleep a lot like im not depression napping anymore 😭

Your hair and outfit look freaking awesome today ❤

Idk why but your voice is so calming to me!! I like the vibe of this channel

Omg i love your outfit & makeup

omg i’m so sick of ppl overthinking women n shit like we’re all just humans there’s no set of rules per gender like it’s just so mindless

Why are these guys always so paranoid about women secretly hating them? Bro she's just minding her business why do you assume she's plotting a supervillain-level scheme for everyone she interacts with?

I envy your hair so much

Off topic but I love the outfit!!! It suits you so well

I'm glad there are guys just sharing the pure obvious advice. I am of the type that appreciates the bare minimum when the bare minimum isn't common.❤

18:00 i feel like this video is a joke. Like the joke is supposed to be making fun of those stupid facts. Like yeah, you turn into an old woman after a long time regardless of if you have sex or not.

Not the Neil josten comment I'm 💀💀💀 Was paying full attention and got confused for half a sec lmao

I also like he idea that “being good to me” is even enough to make me consider you my friend. You don’t have to share my sense of humor or my interests. Just be not neutral or bad towards me. So stupid

17:27 NEIL JOSTEN MENTION OMG

This is some wild shit.

Can we talk about "remind her to use pads" like no sh*t. "Oh babe good you told me, because I was using only my pants and toilet paper, omg I am so dumb. I forget I have pads".... I am sorry but wth... [Edit] I want to say about one guy on IG. He was an artist and I followed him, just to check his art. He wrote to me, saying my art is nice too and sth else. I didn't notice that he wrote to me, because I never used IG for messages. When I noticed after week or two, that he wrote to me, he sent me a short, where woman was saying sth like "they don't answer very often, because they are scared they will fall for you". 😅 At first I felt bad, that I didn't notice it, but maaan this short make me cringe

17:23 the aftg reference gave me actual whiplash

I had a jumpscare cuz when she said theo after talking about the patreon supporters cuz thats my name but I can't support (unfortunately) so it was like :0 when i heard my name from nowhere

Thought popped up in the last one; some of the others are ick but for more of the ones like this, even if they're "WELL NO SH!T SHERLOCK" kind of tips like comfort people when they're crying, are a positive contrast to the "do what you want and she should just cope to make you happy" kind of toxic messaging you get from the Tate-style bros - so a bit facepalm but also not a bad counter message if it reaches similar demographics. Thoughts?

10:51 isnt that the same for everybody? "If a girl loves to sleep shes sad" bruh that isnt exclusive to women lmao

omg this explains so many things about guys ive dated! but also really made me think about how like emotionally limited they must've been feeling - that's not like a dis or anything either - it's just like after seeing how popular these things are like, im seriously wondering... are guys just taught to fear expressing emotions so much that they genuinely need to be told these kinds of things to understand them? frak! there's no way of phrasing this without it sounding hella sarcastic, but im being 100% real here, im actually concerned that when i was thinking these guys were being ducks, they were just really scared cuz that's all they've ever known? (aaaannnd... now im doing even more emotional labour for my exes, wow, nvm, there really is no winning this, i guess. frak the patriarchy and frak toxic masculinity and frak my stupid exes for not going to therapy ever!)