Connecting with animals was my cope. They were and still are my safe place.

TIM, U R... an Amazing gift to humanity!

This ministry is changing my life

That’s what I love most about Tim Fletcher 💜 he doesn’t just accept everything he his told as truth. He examines a concepts validity before deciding whether or not to agree with the message. He uses critical thinking and his own mind to question, challenge and discern what information is actually true and accurate apart from the platitudes and the bs. He thinks for himself in a realistic way, he’s not a propaganda puppet whatsoever. It’s cool that he’s not afraid to discuss things that might be counter to popular belief or controversial, even amongst his fellow Christians. That’s why I respect him and love his videos/talks. His philosophy is authentically accepted by his own reasoning, not just regurgitated indoctrination. What he has to say is based in research, psychology and honest Christian spirituality rather than any distorted/corrupted religious views. I do not identify as religious myself, but I really like what this guy has to say. I am in agreement. I also love how he doesn’t push religion on the listener. So very wise and respectful 👏 thank you Tim 💜

"Happy people are all alike; every unhappy person is unhappy in their own way." The challenge of raising well adjusted individuals is you have to get everything right, and even more challenging to help someone who's already unhappy because so much can be wrong.

Also use pets to connect. They are like an addiction too

"Alot of people with complex trauma hate their parents but never leave them"🤯🤯

Thank you for this Tim!! A lot of things were validated here which is both good and bad and sad 😐

Thank you for all the work you do. You are changing the life of generations to come.

Wow. Cure for addiction is connection

God Bless you Tim You are a treasure trove of knowledge & hold the keys & answers to many of life’s problems and very important questions. Thank You for all your time and effort, your positive contribution to humanity is profound & everlasting!!!:-) keep up the good work!!! You are a one of a kind and this world is certainly a better place because of YOU!!!

Thank you for these videos. Oh my goodness, will I ever watch them All? I really, really like how you explain things from a psychological view at 1st and then tie it in to The Bible at the end. Everything you say makes so much sense. Thank you . You're a good man for putting on these seminars.

Watching this in 2021, wow... I'm only 10 minutes in, and it's hitting me to the core to grow and change for the better, thank you, Tim!

Profound revelations and concepts Tim. Yes thats how I understood marriage intimacy and connection. I've become one more times than Im comfortable with. Lots of amends to make... Thank you for everything you do.

If your parents suck, your life is terrible. Excellent.

This is the problem. I can't find SAFE people in these 12 step rooms ...I was deeply hurt and retraumatized more from some of these ppl than others outside the program bc I expected them to be trusting and safe given the principles say we are to be loving and compassionate and protect anonymity.. Instead I was betrayed by a cppl of ppl. Now I'm really disillusioned as the opposite of addiction (to food anorexia ...) Is connection. I haven't yet found a sponsor as I'm afraid to be judged...🙏😓

connection is everything - i need to replace the disturbing connection with my mother and replace that with more healthy regulated people thanks

This is totally brilliant 👍👍👍 things are making so much sense after hearing you Tim. Thank you so much 🙏🏼

Oh my goodness! The research that Tim spoke about really drilled into the importance of a good community for healing, AND also showed that like humans, animals have feelings and the need for connection! And if they have the same need as us for survival, then we should really also rethink about our food source!

I want to thank Tim from the bottom of my heart. 🙏🙏❤❤

How can I better be there for my kids when I am absolutely shattered? I don't feel like they are getting what they need from me...

I am grateful that i found such a teacher like you. Thank you

Thank you. I am saving mine in a file to download and listen while driving. ❤

Thank you so much for your work, and that's all I can say right now.

Love these teachings so much. God bless u.❤

I have never used the "clip feature" on here before. I used it twice to make 2 different 15 second clips. I clipped 2 sentences from this video where u said becoming one doesn't need to include a marriage ceremony and entitled them "Marriage?". Also, I have shared many of your videos to some groups on Facebook for people recovering from toxic relationships and narcissistic abuse. I hope they get watched because they are quite helpful.

Amazing content. Thanks Tim!

Appreciate you. Thank you for the education

This guy is amazing.

Thank you ❤ Tim

Thank you Tim

Can a step mom repair the damage done by the biological mother when the daughter is a teen?

I am finding much value in these lessons and I thank you for the time and anointing that produced these, however, I am a recovering closet addict and prefer not connecting with people; what advice do you have for those like me?

"The Bible never tells you to have a marriage ceremony it just tells you to 'become one' " and that is repeated in The Bible several times..."Leave your father and mother and become one".

Powerful

What if the child connects with only one parent? Could that affect the child as well?

Tim, what do you think about the new psychedelic therapies on the horizon? For reliving childhood feelings and memories? Seems to be very promising.

16:56 A poorly attached child's demand for attention is not "excessive".

Wow, I'm 60 and not felt that.

I do the abandonment issues and don't know how to trust and ended up I'm relationship with a women who had parents but doesn't know how to love or deal with someone who has so much trauma. And expects me to give get attention like she got with 2 parents to 1 child ratio. Total miscommunication and most understanding. She can't relate or know how to handle someone so traumatic.

What about the wedding in Jesus and the Apostles attended?

Too bad I can’t find a community to form deep connections and friendships with…..

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Oh it got cut off at the end😢

Hi

Meee....adhd

I avoid parents at all cost

OMG this! I came for the complex trauma and attachment disorder splainer, but stayed for the deconstruction of fundamentalist patriarchal Christianity 😉

How do I repair? Is there any hope?

I disagree with his theory on being able only to connect to one of two things 1. Activities 2. Drugs .... I connected with animals and I'm sure there are several other ways people have found to cope with lack of love in childhood that are more healthy then this guy gives us credit for. Lol After all, we are SURVIVORS. Some of us found different ways to do that....

Warning: It's not clear that this guy's prerogative is Christian preaching via a cursory overview of attachment theory and an endless list of symptoms of 'failed attachment'. He was doing reasonably well until 31:46 when he contorts attachment theory into a bible class. What a disappointment.

your channel causes the most hacking attempts on my iPhone....?