60 Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 14/33 - Value Issues

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Tim Fletcher

Tim Fletcher

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Many from Complex Trauma struggle with feeling that they don't have value, and they also tend to go about finding value in unhealthy ways. Why is this so? How does one develop a healthy sense of value?
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@j.d.buchanan4897
@j.d.buchanan4897 2 жыл бұрын
I love Tim, he is such a talented and inspirational teacher. These videos are helping me so much, more than therapy, more than self-help books. I regularly cry when watching them but I keep coming back because I am learning so much about myself and about what really matters.
@acjom101
@acjom101 Жыл бұрын
True. The same for me.
@mknels1299
@mknels1299 10 ай бұрын
Cleansing tears
@sheiladuke3289
@sheiladuke3289 2 ай бұрын
❤❤😇 😇 😇 ❤❤
@Cardio_gram
@Cardio_gram 2 ай бұрын
Same here too ❤😍
@JPlayz_GG
@JPlayz_GG 3 ай бұрын
It saddens me this isn't taught to people until they go through their own trauma. As a parent, I have seen how my family or even myself have said certain things to my kids that have shaped their values (and yes some values might not be what is ideal such as saying you're so beautiful so much). This world is crazy and I am grateful to this content.
@helenyates3951
@helenyates3951 2 жыл бұрын
Very valuable and condensed So much of western culture is about putting conditions on values. Its a great trap. We are all wounded by this. Our world needs to change this. We are all inherently valued regardless of what we do. It's how we are and how we can be. Value is innate because God created us. We are all beautiful....
@evelynmontez3565
@evelynmontez3565 28 күн бұрын
This is so great. Now I see why I'm obsessed with cleaning . It's my value.
@daniellemichayla
@daniellemichayla 3 жыл бұрын
God’s using you to help me for sure. Your content has been a huge blessing to me. Thank you.
@heathermason489
@heathermason489 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! Such a blessing, so thankful❤
@trudytru8224
@trudytru8224 2 жыл бұрын
Helping me so much too. Had a decade of therapy and this is working much better for me
@HannoverDaz
@HannoverDaz 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Wow! This is blowing my mind. Seeing my own behaviour and endeavours over the years to get respect (love) and affirmation that I'm valued. Thank you so much! So much insight! ❤🙏
@williehaller5840
@williehaller5840 3 жыл бұрын
I love this channel. I've learned so much. Thanks, Tim
@thepersonaofgrace
@thepersonaofgrace 2 ай бұрын
Me too ❤😊
@sll110
@sll110 3 жыл бұрын
I have to admit, you are angel sent by God, also you are Athena, because you have wisdom, though listening to you, making me too painful to die..
@williehaller5840
@williehaller5840 3 жыл бұрын
He's not Athena he's Tim
@gideonscheepers4340
@gideonscheepers4340 2 ай бұрын
You can not mix the two.
@loricoe4566
@loricoe4566 Ай бұрын
These videos help me a lot seeing that I’m not alone. I’m glad he’s a Christian also.
@AiCash-mc8fb
@AiCash-mc8fb 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks KZfaq for recommending this to me.
@catherinewilson1079
@catherinewilson1079 Жыл бұрын
You are describing our modern culture! 😥😥😥
@catherinewilson1079
@catherinewilson1079 Жыл бұрын
Better to build a life on the cornerstone❣️
@giannafrancis5176
@giannafrancis5176 3 жыл бұрын
This is what I need today. Thank you.
@adimeter
@adimeter 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing thought--I can now choose who influences my life!! Thank you for that, Tim Fletcher.
@maranata693
@maranata693 2 ай бұрын
Thank u Tim! you mentioned my anxiety to be authentic in a relationship, because I am afraid, that I am not valuable, not loveable! 😢 Thank you for your videos, I am using them to get healed ❤
@mcmic1212
@mcmic1212 3 жыл бұрын
I thank God for your work. The Lord impressed me to watch this video with intentionality and I'm glad I did. This teaching unlocked a key, know I know what to pray and how to apply my emotional efforts and energy...my value inwardly. God bless you, you're saving lives.
@lanishortsunshine5773
@lanishortsunshine5773 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.for alll these videos...helps my mind and my heart...lol....yay.
@charliesomoza5918
@charliesomoza5918 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely beautiful beyond words for what truly really matter.One of the best.Love and truth for all of you.Blessings.
@fairygurl9269
@fairygurl9269 3 ай бұрын
Integrity 🤘
@Monkchip
@Monkchip 7 сағат бұрын
Thank you, sir. I value you and your ability to speak these words to me. I understand better now.
@laurentiurudeanu4102
@laurentiurudeanu4102 7 ай бұрын
Another great one from Tim! Excellent, exhaustive, to the point presentation, congratulations and a thousand thanks! To add to it, when it comes to value, no discussion is complete without mentioning the construction of the ideal self and the mind-boggling neurotic scaffolding built around it, all with the purpose of protecting it, propping it up and compensating for the sorely felt lack of inherent value.
@ingridmolins19
@ingridmolins19 2 ай бұрын
Finding your channel has been a blessing, thank you🙏
@UnapologeticGen
@UnapologeticGen Ай бұрын
thank you for this video ... very important..
@josefinemilo
@josefinemilo 3 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏❤️
@calvink7382
@calvink7382 2 ай бұрын
I love how you explain with your beautiful, convincing accent and body language And everything complex simplified
@unmistakablyjaselle2179
@unmistakablyjaselle2179 3 жыл бұрын
I am all in this, and man it gives me anxiety just listening! I love my Friday nights with Tim. But man the anxiety and tics from over stimulation!
@adimeter
@adimeter 2 жыл бұрын
That's interesting that you feel this way. Tim's talks have a negative impact on you? I am glad you shared this--it only proves we are all so different.
@user-tv6ks7cl8s
@user-tv6ks7cl8s Ай бұрын
God bless you all
@miuthub7954
@miuthub7954 Ай бұрын
I wanted to not cry today but.... Okay maybe tomorrow. So true about the whole value system constructed not only how you under value yourself
@mi6432
@mi6432 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. x
@ChitinousMass
@ChitinousMass 9 күн бұрын
Hey! So i have several questions relating to this issue of inner value, which is kind of beating my up. How do you achieve a sense of inner value if in order to function in society you are valued as an individual in terms of your social status and not by your inner person? Your social status is determined by what you deem for yourself a worthy pursuit in order to become competent and desirable for employers, customers and potential partners. The amount of time and effort you put into growth is also determined by your sense of self worth and self respect and exploring those areas also leads you to grow those same inner values. Inner and outer values are not exactly separate. How do you manage having a sense of self worth when you know that you are not what you could be precisely because you don't value and respect yourself? And you know that your choices lead you to not only be less than you can be but also that you are the author of your own insuccess. Thare is no getting away from that existential responsibility if you want to live in this world. And you are the sole person responsible to how painful your life is. How is self forgiveness even possible after a long uninterrupted series of self sabotage? Especially when reality starts confirming what your inner critic is on about.
@middleofnowhere1313
@middleofnowhere1313 8 ай бұрын
I was supposed to be valuable for my intelligence but i didn't turn out to be the prodigy they wanted. The whole thing was a disaster.
@sheiladuke3289
@sheiladuke3289 2 ай бұрын
❤😇 😇 😇 ❤
@shelteredsparrow2736
@shelteredsparrow2736 4 күн бұрын
Great video
@visionvixxen
@visionvixxen Ай бұрын
Can you address this one time w regard to neurodiverse or personality disorder or trauma actually related to oneself- ways of being we cannot change- and how to deal with the trauma or advocating for self so you don’t have gaslighting trauma
@Loved2024
@Loved2024 5 ай бұрын
Just Awesome❤
@neferzoe5140
@neferzoe5140 2 жыл бұрын
Great work!
@leahflower9924
@leahflower9924 2 жыл бұрын
I gave up on doing a lot of things because I said I feel the same when I try and when I don't try so why bother 🤷 people told me I was wrong they said I will find meaning by doing stuff
@haidyyousif2125
@haidyyousif2125 Ай бұрын
🧡much Helpful🙏
@christopherleubner6633
@christopherleubner6633 2 ай бұрын
I'm useful but not genuinely valued. 😢
@pegagonza3784
@pegagonza3784 2 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@phoebebeacham9816
@phoebebeacham9816 Ай бұрын
Value … from The Almighty ❤
@eyennordic348
@eyennordic348 2 ай бұрын
I see society as a very incicere construct where you must make statements opposite of what actually happen at your working environment to not make others irritated by your unironical disagreement with how so called "cooperation" really works.
@alanwood4968
@alanwood4968 Ай бұрын
I have one. If im happy in my skin then im ok.
@chocolatejellybean2820
@chocolatejellybean2820 2 ай бұрын
is his work covered in a book?
@Cassie-pt7mt
@Cassie-pt7mt Ай бұрын
I have no value.
@robertjennings397
@robertjennings397 3 ай бұрын
Your glasses are not correct. The frame shape makes your eyes ‘look’ off target. You have so much to say.
@user-mn8bb2ky7k
@user-mn8bb2ky7k Ай бұрын
Hepynesfür ather??????? Dont know,this stalking peopel,dont wont to know
@katebueno191
@katebueno191 3 ай бұрын
You going to leave !! And your screaming shows ate done too !! Not like you notbwrong about everything you say !!
@Ominous89
@Ominous89 2 ай бұрын
Ever since I got Tim Fletcher recommended in my feed, my mental health has been improving better than I could do myself or with the help of a therapist. I can only hope that you will have better days, so you can stop hating people for speaking out unconvenient harsh truth.
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