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Timing Is Crucial To Get Your Ex Back

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Coach Craig Kenneth

Coach Craig Kenneth

Күн бұрын

Not just time is important to get your ex back, but also timing! In this video, we discuss how it isn't time alone that can cause your ex to reconsider your relationship but also timing. We discuss how other factors in your ex's life can interfere with the timing of your relationship and how understanding this can transform the way you handle the breakup.
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@CoachCraigKenneth
@CoachCraigKenneth 2 жыл бұрын
If u don’t focus on personal growth, you will regret it. I see it every week. Don’t let it be you #TheKnowledge
@lesleymiller8446
@lesleymiller8446 Жыл бұрын
Its sad to learn that since the latest video we seen with Margaret in it that we are not gonna see her happy face again or hear her warm, caring soothing voice again since learning of her recent passing from coach Craig xxx 💔💔💔😭😭 may she rest in peace and thank you for your advice, kindness and caring words. Sleep well Margaret....
@chiranjit0
@chiranjit0 2 жыл бұрын
Waiting for her to come back is just a waste of my time. She left me once like a coward when things got a bit difficult and will leave me again. No place here for a quitter
@naadde
@naadde 2 жыл бұрын
Actually in an earlier Craig Kenneth video we talked with another man that there are a lot of success stories where men contact the woman. The other way around, they're never coming back because they get over breakups much easier than men and also they get bombarded with attention and no man is that special for them, unfortunately.
@chiranjit0
@chiranjit0 2 жыл бұрын
@@naadde yeah sometimes it's harder on us men. Although there is a friend and we are kinda flirting. But i will take my time to make sure I don't get in a rebound. Will be unfair to this person. But I doubt my ex can show this restraint. She is weak and just unworthy.
@LonelyRider87
@LonelyRider87 2 жыл бұрын
I'm feeling the same way but it's just my anger and hurt talking. He didn't mean to hurt me.
@chiranjit0
@chiranjit0 2 жыл бұрын
@@LonelyRider87 probably not. Some people do deserve a second chance. Don't know your situation so can't really comment on it. I hope you stay positive towards yourself
@LonelyRider87
@LonelyRider87 2 жыл бұрын
@@chiranjit0 TY. I just can't stop crying. I was doing so good and 4 months in I just crashed. It scares me cause us dumpees are supposed to trend upwards with time. I hope we both find peace.
@riseandshine6193
@riseandshine6193 2 жыл бұрын
They did you dirty. Don't be worried about losing someone like that. There is nothing to lose on your end guys.
@alyc9317
@alyc9317 2 жыл бұрын
2 weeks no contact, this is so hard but I’m staying strong.. I kept relapsing and called him over and over again like a crazy person but as soon as I came across your channel i am so motivated to not contact him no matter how hard it gets! Thank you 🙏🏻
@zb5436
@zb5436 Жыл бұрын
Update on your situation?
@amytiffanyhemingway
@amytiffanyhemingway Жыл бұрын
exact same. how did it go? I'm guessing well as you have not been back on here looking for answers
@epaliotisglx190
@epaliotisglx190 2 жыл бұрын
We broke up about 5 months ago. 1 month after the break up we bumped into each other at the club. We hugged, I asked her how she was and then turned to my friends, while she waited for something more. I have been a lot better 2-3 months after the break up but now I am so anxious and I overthink a lot of stuff again,going down this spiral. I am trying so hard to let go and move on but I don't know the reason I can't. I love her and miss her so freaking much.
@andreschavez9671
@andreschavez9671 2 жыл бұрын
9 year relationship ended about a month ago here. I guess that's part of the healing process: moving from stage to stage
@silvermont331
@silvermont331 Жыл бұрын
@@andreschavez9671 20 yrs here 😂 ppl change and they don’t tell you !
@epaliotisglx190
@epaliotisglx190 Жыл бұрын
@One With Nature Bro real talk now. I stopped caring about 3 months ago. I found God in my life. I created a strong bond with my religion and I am not afraid of what the future holds. Whatever there is for me will find me, meanwhile I am becoming the best self I can possibly be. Put your religion first, your family and your goals second, the rest don't matter.
@bushrayehia2758
@bushrayehia2758 2 жыл бұрын
I’m reading the comments & I’m seeing everyone is freaking out & asking questions like “if I don’t reach out they’ll think I don’t care?” 🤣 why do u care about somebody who kicked you to the curb? Man, some people have no confidence, work on yourselves people. Love yourself more.
@brandonf24
@brandonf24 2 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done...you can't put life, a nascent or old relationship on hold to "fix" yourself...otherwise, you're not living. You're gonna have peaks and valleys in everything from assertiveness and confidence to reticence and meekness. Understanding that people can vacillate between various states is a measure of maturity and wisdom. So long as they make a concerted effort to grow...good...and nothing incentivizes change quite like a breakup or divorce. Despondency sucks to be sure...the people in the comments that are doing that deserve the benefit of the doubt as wounds are still fresh.
@jacqui8392
@jacqui8392 2 жыл бұрын
Yet here you are....watching the same videos as us lol ok
@bushrayehia2758
@bushrayehia2758 2 жыл бұрын
@@jacqui8392 LMAOO I congratulate whoever dumped you. You probably deserved it. Go work on yourself and heal buddy.
@jacqui8392
@jacqui8392 2 жыл бұрын
@@bushrayehia2758 😉
@bushrayehia2758
@bushrayehia2758 Жыл бұрын
@@markai2002 I am simply making an observation. We as the dumpees must note that we are worthy and if whoever don’t want to be with us, fine we will still live and love again. We have to be aggressive, especially when it comes to our feelings.
@celestenova338
@celestenova338 2 жыл бұрын
I already messed it all up. My ex and I started talking again too quickly I think and my anxiety got the best of me 💔 We finally decided it’s really done this time. The regret I feel for not being patient is eating at me daily. I’ve lost all hope
@Kate-ub1dp
@Kate-ub1dp 2 жыл бұрын
When did you start talking to your ex again?
@kevinkoperniak7062
@kevinkoperniak7062 2 жыл бұрын
6 months today since she broke it off. Unfortunately I said some regrettable things to her when she broke up and my apology went on deaf ears. She will probably always hold that against me.
@TheFujiwuji
@TheFujiwuji 2 жыл бұрын
I'm close to five years now of No Contact. I don't think it's working.
@revelationx9852
@revelationx9852 2 жыл бұрын
Are u fkin kidding bro
@TheFujiwuji
@TheFujiwuji 2 жыл бұрын
@@revelationx9852 Nope. 100% true.
@Jordandacosta25
@Jordandacosta25 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 move on
@Dolphinsz
@Dolphinsz Ай бұрын
me and my ex was speaking a lot then suddenly conversation stopped just wasnt feeling good towards the end. none of us really felt the effect of the break up as we was talking none stop after the break up for over 2 months.
@Clarissa-lm5rj
@Clarissa-lm5rj Жыл бұрын
I can really listen to y’all talk now that I know what you’re saying is true because the things y’all talk about, are what I’m going through.
@conquistadorchevalier6687
@conquistadorchevalier6687 2 жыл бұрын
First! Thanks coaches for all you do. You're fab!!!
@justinclausen5934
@justinclausen5934 2 жыл бұрын
I've been in no contact with my ex since may. I've had a few girls in rotation since then. She just made a bumble account and liked me on there. So I liked back this morning. She hasn't reached out, but she just extended her time to reach out for another 24 hrs. So now she has 39 hrs to reach out. What do I do? Hold strong? Or break and say something to her? I figure if she dosent contact me by the end of the extension then I could playfully text her a couple days after. Oh and of course her freaking main profile pic is a picture we took together with me cropped out of it.
@lindam7821
@lindam7821 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a good sign that she extended the time.
@pixotass
@pixotass 2 жыл бұрын
Say nothing!
@spideymen1544
@spideymen1544 Жыл бұрын
How's it
@gow6739
@gow6739 2 жыл бұрын
My ex reached out yesterday 2 hours after i fell asleep. Woke up at 2 in the night and texted her back. She asked if she should wash my hoodies and pack my computer (that i gave to her) in a box for when i was going to come and get my stuff (in about 2 months because i broke my leg 4 hours after our breakup😅). We had been in no contact for 3 to 4 weeks. I kept it light and funny. She asked me how i was and how my leg was (which she didn’t even respond to when i told her i had broken my leg and couldn’t come get my stuff). Conversation died 3 houes ago because i did not carry and did not ask how she was. Going back into no contact now until she reaches out again. I can not set up a date either because we live 5 hours apart but i will move to her city once my leg has healed for work.
@paniq_fnite
@paniq_fnite 2 жыл бұрын
Why should she reach out when you didn’t ask her anything else?! She already tried to reach out with the “direct/indirect” approach!
@aerialace7100
@aerialace7100 2 жыл бұрын
Hey coach, Can you do a video on "action speaks louder than words"?
@CoachCraigKenneth
@CoachCraigKenneth 2 жыл бұрын
I already have
@aerialace7100
@aerialace7100 2 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth I saw the video. But unfortunately certain parts are not answered. Its there any form of dumpee's actions speaks louder than words? In the meeting with my ex, I had provided the offer which ex couldn't refuse. But was refused with "action speaks louder than words". Therefore I am trying to look for one. Thanks
@dontmesswithleah
@dontmesswithleah 2 жыл бұрын
I became anxious and texted him the day after the breakup, and called him. No answer. I told him how much ghosting hurts me when we first met and now here he is, doing it to me. Idk what to do. I want to text him again because I’m fearful he’ll never respond to me since he just straight ghosted me. 😢
@justinboyd1031
@justinboyd1031 2 жыл бұрын
Be patient and just focus on becoming a better person. He will return sooner or later.
@RJ_HTx
@RJ_HTx 2 жыл бұрын
Stay strong and go NC. I know it is something really difficult to do. All the feelings and emotions that you are feeling are not easy to handle. What Helps is to talk with people who care about you and write about it.
@chiranjit0
@chiranjit0 2 жыл бұрын
Give it time. Chat with your closest friends. Learn to appreciate your worth and time. I know it sucks to loose someone so suddenly. But respect his need for space and treat yourself to something nice
@toniortiz819
@toniortiz819 Жыл бұрын
Update
@dontmesswithleah
@dontmesswithleah Жыл бұрын
@@toniortiz819 He and I have been back together for about 8 months now. I broke no contact and texted him. I kept it light and brought up an inside joke. We are so much stronger this time around - it's great. You just need to allow time for the negative feelings to fizzle out and eventually they will be more open to speaking with you again whether you choose to break no contact or wait for them to speak with you.
@MusicRenos
@MusicRenos 2 жыл бұрын
Could you guys do some videos on addiction, please? I think this would be appreciated by many since many of us trust you and your knowledge, a lot! I‘ve tried so many things to get rid of my addictions (currently working on the Knowledge Elite Series to better myself), plus I‘ve been back to therapy but those feelings are still overwhelming and I can‘t seem to get past them.. I don‘t know what to do… I‘m usually VERY disciplined but when it comes to my addictions (e.g. food, since I‘m suffering from BED) I‘m weak.. it affects my whole life and my relationships..
@helenbarnett6005
@helenbarnett6005 Жыл бұрын
Anorexics & Bulimics Anonymous is really good. It's a 12 step programme. You have to really want it and be done with your addiction, but it works
@user-gd6gv7cr6j
@user-gd6gv7cr6j 3 ай бұрын
Patience pays
@kirstenbellcarter7471
@kirstenbellcarter7471 2 жыл бұрын
My ex has been with the rebound or my replacement for a year and he’s engaged to her. I have tried to move on but it’s hard
@flat4wankel
@flat4wankel Жыл бұрын
Update?
@MrSantiagoZombie
@MrSantiagoZombie 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, I was dumped back on July 12th, recently started NC. Our 5th anniversary was on August 11th, should I keep the NC going? I'm afraid she'd think wrong about my silence
@Jlucasnysports
@Jlucasnysports 2 жыл бұрын
It’s gonna be tough to stay without texting her but still wait I had it work with my current girlfriend after holding off 2-4 weeks I’ll text her something from social media that’s funny that we usually did and we’ll start talkin from there again but wait at least 14 days preferably 3-4 weeks
@manishamandal9525
@manishamandal9525 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. If she thinks wrong, she can contact first and then u just reply. Don't initiate.
@chiranjit0
@chiranjit0 2 жыл бұрын
She stopped the connection. Its upto her to reconnect
@malice2846
@malice2846 5 ай бұрын
What if she's married and went back to her spouse
@ananooo0
@ananooo0 Жыл бұрын
He told me he’s too busy working and can’t manage timing but it’s not the only reason, he says he can’t concentrate at the moment. Its not our first time so I know what he means, I was too much and that made him lose interest. This time I don’t know if he ever comes back and what can I do to make things work out
@mariotaylor9659
@mariotaylor9659 2 жыл бұрын
Look you follow your heart can’t help who you love no contact makes a lot of sense to me! It breaks them down I can feel it coming in the air tonight right and wrong is common sense if you know in your heart you gave your very best 💯❤️ can’t no one take that away one thing about broken heart there’s someone that will come 😘❤️ and take the pain away and will appreciate you us! If they do come back don’t let it be easy for them if they don’t GOD got you 😘💯❤️
@jeaneengant6771
@jeaneengant6771 Жыл бұрын
It’s been almost three months and I will do no contact for weeks then lash out at him via text..
@StarReact001
@StarReact001 5 ай бұрын
update?
@LKelz
@LKelz 2 жыл бұрын
Does no contact works on a crush ? Me and my crush had a hugeee fall out
@princessisrael563
@princessisrael563 2 жыл бұрын
My ex dumped me two weeks ago and told me to move on and he leave him alone.
@princessisrael563
@princessisrael563 2 жыл бұрын
@@preciouseyam7080 I don't believe it did you hear me he said Leave him alone and Move on with my life and we have a small child together one year old.I don't think he interested in me at all.
@lindam7821
@lindam7821 2 жыл бұрын
@princess Israel Coach did a video on this topic. Maybe look into that video to help ease your mind a little about it.
@princessisrael563
@princessisrael563 2 жыл бұрын
@@lindam7821 thank you for the video and positive encouragement words. But I really think that he's not coming back and he don't want nothing to do with me and we have a baby together he went so far and told me to put him on child support. So I don't really think this is going to work and you want me to move on but thank you
@lindam7821
@lindam7821 2 жыл бұрын
@@princessisrael563 No problem, I wish you the best and of course take care of yourself and your child first. Wishing you all the best on your healing process!
@jeaneengant6771
@jeaneengant6771 Жыл бұрын
I think it’s over.. he like being single so he can do what he want
@MedRider
@MedRider Жыл бұрын
pretty sure she doesnt miss me. lol
@dotfive5six477
@dotfive5six477 2 жыл бұрын
Haha first
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