Thanks Andrea! I've worked very hard to figure this out :)

agreed!! just discovered him 3 days ago and my mind has been blown

@@CoachCraigKenneth What if there are young children involved and you have to contact the person in order to arrange visitation, etc? Obviously ZERO contact is not entirely possible but could this method still be made to work somehow?

Yes he is the best

I want you andrea i dont want my ex

What if they were grateful to have you but you made mistakes that pushed them away

@@-1nterruption-960 yes I feel I did the same. She was really into me but between her deep insecurity and me making mistakes which undermined her trust, it started a slippery slope that ended with her cutting me off

You're not on their situation so shut up.. you know nothing.

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This is the truth

We just call it love but it’s probably just the vibration of trauma from our childhoods.

I totally agree vile time tbh

So so hard😭😭😭

until you meet the better one

Aggree but also if you loved that person you forgive his or her mistakes bring the communicstion together to table and move back together but be honest open for everthing....

Is this guy still posting do you know?

@@philipzanoni I have no idea, Sorry I couldn't help

@Love Family huh?

@Love Family No never message him

Right. I was dumped in my twenties by this girl who thought she had the world by the balls. In my thirties I saw her getting drunk in this cheap tavern and inebriated she walked over to me and expressed her regret for having left me. She said she was never able to find a better looking fellow after me. That was a shallow comment, but it gave me a picture of what she valued. I could imagine she was working up the totem pole of what she thought was good-looking men and when she had me-a fellow who was maybe an 8 or 9-she was convinced she could capture Brad Pitt. Number 10 never came along and so now she's regretting her choices alone in a bar getting drunk to forget the pain. So you're right, they do sometimes end up regretting it.

I did on many occasions!

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Lmaooo

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Haahahha

I'm going through thud myself.2 questions...1 was there abuse? 2. If you get back wth her.can you post that?

@@sithblackmore7631 1. No, there was no abuse. 2. Will do if that will ever happen. But I doubt it.

I'm in it myself man..... 5 weeks no contact. She sent me a bill to pay. I cut the begging when I took a no contact course. But still nothing.

@@sithblackmore7631 do what you always wanted to do. You have so much spare time! I went sky diving and visited friends I havent seen in a long time. I met lot of great people! Week ago Id say Im too depressed to do anything. But you have to take that leap of fate. Force yourself to explore outside your sadness. Put all the photos of you and ex in a disk. Clean up you phone,pc, stop stalking social media. I know it sounds stupid but it helped me. Past week I did check her profile few times but why? Only things I could see there would be a false hope or a false bad scenario I'd make up in my mind. I said it once and Ill say again - love yourself! Stop punishing yourself for someone elses choice. Set yourself free :)

I'm going through all the things you posted Today.....It hurts but not as bad as the first marriage!!!

Good on u mate out with the rubbish 👍

jabari thomas Keep the dog, let her go!! Lol 😝

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Lol

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Yeah, they have to have formed some form of attachment in the first place.

AMEN so true

And if it "doesn't work" then look at how much pain and suffering you saved yourself by not mooning over someone that couldn't care less)))

...and if they're not in another arms already

I think it's the opposite- when my ex n I split it was like a piece of my soul went with him. We were best friends- but after we split I honestly couldn't stand the pain to still be his support. I told him so. I know he loved me all way.

My ex left me for some random guy online she doesn’t even know I know her in real life fuck her

@@WOOFxSTYLE bro same here 5 years

Who isnt

No, I'm just here for the shits and giggles bro

Me

gurl tell me about it. I just want to get dolled up, go out with friends an take my mind off it all but I'm stuck at home looking at the walls getting lost in my head about it all

Me too!

@@angeladelrio8865 We're all in this together. My ex broke up with me yesterday, been together for eight WONDERFUL months. And here we are. It literally came from nowhere, like rain from clear skies. I wanted to resolve our issues since this was our very first fight, but she refused to give it a single try to repair all this. Thankfully I live in Sweden, and you know. Here in Sweden, we have no enforced restrictions. I can literally go out this friday and get wasted and party. Is it smart to do so? Hell no. Will I do it? I don't know...

I hear you. 😔

6yrs doing it all together to a total stranger unable to even contact them. The worst to see them acting like nothing and flirting with others. How? Why? ...Damn.

Some of us men have that intuition as well. Mine was correct.

Kim Green, I agree and some of us men are good at intuitions as well. Believe it or not. Good point though lady.

I'm so happy to have my ex back truth doctor Lawrence you can contact him on whatasApp +2348115358008

Especially us empaths! I have always been an INFG and love learning about Psychology but I would never want any of my ex’s back. Being and empath and Psychology goes hand and hand. I love learning more and more from it. I believe that if a relationship is bad and one or both people in a relationship, (if it’s toxic, never feels right, or just doesn’t work) you just have to learn from them, always love yourself first if you want to be in a good/real/stable/happy relationship/truly love another, and always trust your instinct. Obviously this doesn’t apply to people who were in a healthy relationship and maybe it just wasn’t the right time in life for that relationship…if this video helps those that’s great. Just saying some people look to these because they loved a toxic person and if that’s the case I just wanted to share the hard lesson I learned myself so maybe it could help. Female or male never stop learning, trust yourself, trust your intuition, and your subconscious over your heart if it’s telling you things aren’t ok. Most importantly people will only treat you badly if you allow it. From one empath to others I hope this helps.❤️🙏🏽

Has nothing to do with gender. Men have same intuition. This is where our anger enters and some get violent.

what if they want but dont know it, or what if they dont know what they want?

So true

STOP TRYING TOO HARD IN ALL OF THIS JUST MASSAGE MADAM OGAGA IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN ANY RELATIONSHIP HELP OR READINGS

Jade Monde lol,Yes using logic. Awm

Too savage

How do u know she stalked u

“Had to help her out” 🤣

Did your ex ever reach out to you???

I was wondering when someone was going to mention the Lord. I'm just giving it all to God and allowing him to work on my heart and mind. Letting him fulfill the voids I have and heal my brokenheart. If it's God's will then ok if not ok. Because I know either God will save him and make him a greater person or the Lord will send a greater person who's ready.

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Amen Sister.

LaTasha Ursin God to work on us? God doesn’t work on us! God already did that when creating us! It’s nothing to do with him. It’s up to us to work on ourselves coz it’s our bad behaviour that we’ve learnt along the way, it’s not his fault! Jesus, I take it youre a yank? You’re all bible bashing nuts aren’t ya? Lol.

LaTasha you're so right!! Thank you so much for your encouragement. That's like counseling. I have anxiety.

Me too

Jesse Boggis Yes

Jesse Boggis yes

No

I did. And we both fucked up. we both love eachother but it went so bad at the start we can't repair. fuck life, right? Naaaaaaaaaa

Definitely. I found in my case as soon as stuff gets them down like family problems or work your the one who gets pushed away. It's worse when all the drama goes away and they end up dating someone else.

It's ok buddy. Same here. I am 5 weeks in. I only just found Coach Craig a few days ago. I broke contact several times and sent rejection/mean texts. Now I'm blocked from everything. They will come to miss us. Give it time. Might take months. We got this.

Man I am exactly there with you. Exactly. We broke up a month ago. Saw her for the first time yesterday and she wants to stay committed to this breakup. Dang, I don't know what to do. She's my soulmate haha

@@fiercemillionaireproject3824 Bro just hang in there. I am now at over 2 months NC. I am working in the workbooks. Starting to see a gal I kinda like (I get it - it's likely a rebound) but I've come out of the darkest times. You will get through this. Just stick to the NC and get the workbooks if you can. It's a nice distraction.

Did your ex ever reach out to you???

Follow up we are together again living with each other . I have realized as you said for continued improvement and always working on the relationship. Coach Craig & Margaret you'll are the best hands down.

Congrats that's great to hear you got to work things out! Did you ever get coaching or did you mostly just watch the videos? I can't afford to do any coaching but any tips or any resources that were helpful?

@@CozzyBoy any update?

​@@nycrich425nice bro

Not everyone. In my case, she messed up. Cheating, lying, etc. I'm just the stupid idiot who was in this "forever", and willing to forgive. How do you even deal, when she says she regrets everything, still loves you, but keeps on doing it with the same guy? It's all very confusing to me. She says she can't forgive herself for what she's done to me, so keeping on doing it doesn't make sense to me.

i didnt messed up and i want it to work anyway

There can be many different tips and tricks to get your ex back. The majority of individuals are interested in doing this because they want to restore a previous relationship. Willingness to admit the mistakes that a person has made in the past is the first step to success. When people are willing to admit their mistakes it shows a sign of emotional maturity. Visit *MyExLove. info* If you want to get back your ex back

I don't think I'll ever LOVE another woman EVER AGAIN either. I want to do what I want

Hahaha, teaches empathy. Now you know how much others are in pain, you oughtn't look down upon them anymore.

The Catt Chronicles Food Fun Fitness IMO you have Anxiety because of the unknown!! I was once like that.

106FM Catt hi update please

It seems like he's talking about me

Its ok. All of us in some point idiots. Just let it go

Me too dude. I wish I discovered this channel a month ago before the argument with my ex started.

Never too late to do the right thing!

Update? What did you do please reply

Yeah.. My girl just left me for another guy. Fuck love

Take each day as it comes. Keep walking forward, with each step, you become better. I’m in the same boat, I know how much it hurts but in time, you’ll feel better. What goes around, comes around.

Bro im with you.. move on ,keep working on yourself ..she might come back to you .

It is fucjed up man.. I'm in the same boat too bruh. Lost and lonely. Everything seems depressing and keep wanting to message them and getting all those fucked up thoughts.

Guys break girls hearts too fellas!

Jorge Anibal same

I feel you...I been acting like a little bitch lol

I feel the same way

Sadly,,, I "out-pathetic'd" you )))))) I was one whiney , needy little he-bitch ))))))

~. Hahaha wish i seen this video a week ago after these past few days i been pouring my heart out to someone who possibly been doing the "no cantact" thang to Me. Lol. Womp womp wommmp.!!! 😂 I feel stupid but glad i found this to stop being a sad lil pussy. Lol

I got news for you.. you are dying- to self. You are being broken and are being taught that you cannot control your own heart's desires. You can control NOT getting into a situation that the Word of God condemns or prohibits i.e. entertaining pursuit of a person that does not know God. God is greater than the human heart. The perfect God will give you rest if you are His child. It is God's peace what He saves us from when we heed, trust, and do what His Word commands.

Hang in there. It gets better.

@@AlexG-tp2ik It hurts. It hurts bad but remember Christians are not to be unequally yoked. By the grace of God, I will never again ever pursue a woman that does not have a genuine love and fear of God. If you build every relationship knowing that God values honor, integrity, honesty, servitude, and character AND also, that we were not to pursue a woman for marriage that does not know Christ as God her Savior----- It saves us A TON of hardship and fiery darts penetrating our hearts. I've failed twice in this and am just now coming to a place of acceptance that this woman does not know nor want Christ. She only acted like it to woo me and swoon me. I am hurting bad but God is still God. God is still good and still sovereign. I am not good and my heart is wicked and deceitful above all things. I trusted in my heart and am now suffering for my own unrighteousness when suffering for righteousness is what is expected of His people. Oh God forgive me for pursuing with my fleshly eyes and heart.

@@AlexG-tp2ik thank you ...your rite cuz it just did 5mins ago i now have a friend to talk to ...this girl just asked me for my number out of nowhere at the store lol ...thank you

I'm with you. I feel the same way!

Man did she come back?

@@gowthams3723 You know its actually a crazy story, she did actually. We met again at a baby shower with a group of friends sitting at a table and soon enough it was just the two of us. The story doesnt really have a happy ending for me as we got back together in July and then broke up again in December but it was on my end that it didnt work, it just didn't feel completely right, which really sucks and honestly I regret the decision of not ask her to marry me. She was ready to marry me and we actually talked about it for a while and I have some benefit in that she had deep feelings for me before which helped. That being said what I did worked completely, so Ill tell you in hopes that if your in the same situation it works out for you. One working on myself helped a lot. She was so encouraged that I was reading scripture and spending time with God, this also gave me insight into her own flaws which I was able to be honest and tell her about. She actually appreciated, that, be very tactful here, because I could never see her flaws clearly asI wasnt paying enough attention to them, I wasn't really wise enough to see them and I think she saw that as being an unequal partner. Girls want to be challenged more than you think and they want a spouse who will help them improve as well. I also told her generally that I really missed her in my life, that there are things I wanted to do in life but then realized I mostly wanted to do them with her and that I had been saddened that she wasn't there to do them with. I told her I believed we were good for each other and that God had revealed that to me in the past months. Which in my defense I really believed at the time. We then agreed to get counsel over whether getting back together was wise and both came up with a list of how we had grown and improved during our breakup. She was very encouraged by my list and the conclusions I had made during our time apart which helped put her at ease that things would be different. We then set out a plan of what barriers and differences there were and how we would change or address them and we set physical boundaries to prevent physical attractiveness from distract us from our issues because that was a problem in the past. I also met with her dad one on one for dinner together to get his advice on everything, he always loved me though so that was not a hard thing to mend. With all this we were back to were back to where we were within a few short months of dating. Like I said it didn't work out in the end because it didn't feel entirely right in the moment and I struggled to get a ring and its honestly really painful looking back, I don't have much assurance now that I made the right decision in not marrying her, and I do miss her alot but I know how I felt at the time. That is life you make decisions and then you have to walk in them, you don't always get the clarity you thi with your ex or the next girl, in which case both will greatly appreciate the effort you put into yourself. If your in this situation I pray God will bring you back together if it is right. Thanks.

​@@justinhetrick968thanks man this honestly gives me hope 🙏

Wow, this is the way I think about my ex … I know somehow he didn’t cheat but the way he accepted the breakup, like „ok“… made me think that he pushed me to break up with him because he had someone in his head. He denies. Anyway after 4 months, I decided that it’s time to move on. Anxiety is a terrible enemy.

Thank you for the kind words Steven. It took many years and a lot of hard work to figure this stuff out! Every day I look to learn and share new things with you guys. If you ever want my coaching personally I'm here for you!

My ex lives life like a baseball game three strikes ur out

@@dougseiler4681 STOP TRYING TOO HARD IN ALL OF THIS JUST MASSAGE MADAM OGAGA IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN ANY RELATIONSHIP HELP OR READINGS

@@dougseiler4681 W H A T S A P P, H E R

Look into local therapy. Also look into borderline personality disorder and see if you relate to any of those traits. If you do, there is still hope but it takes a lot of self work starting with seeing a psychiatrist or going to therapy to work on yourself before you can be with anyone else. Let me know how you were doing 😊

Same here. It just happened. Are you okay now?

I did the same thing. I hope you're feeling ok now

You should have apologized for your error and then asked for him to call you if ever wants to give you guys a chance again.

@@LifelessonsHurt I have tried but he's already blocked me on everything he felt betrayed apparently I guess what will be in the future will be.

Zehra Emin lol fast response, still have the anxiety, staying close to your phone? I’m going thru it now and I’m a life coach and know better haha. It just sucks. In time the bad memories will fade and he will unblock you and miss you. I’m 90% positive.

@@LifelessonsHurt yeah I agree well I work in mental health so I should know better too but you know they say we're always better at hekoijgbothers and rubbish when it comes to our selves and yeah probably I have been on my phone a lot lately I wish the best for you too time is the best of healers and trust in th universe what is meant to be will be. :)

LoveMe,com we need to hook up you're pretty hot

start with me hahahah

That’s not a good way of moving on. Let it go, so you can heal. Anger, revenge, does nothing for you, forgive them, so you can be good to the next one you meet.

trust me sweety, if a guy dumps you, your done for it.

You probably lying, you probably treated him like shit. All women lie, I think your ex was a decent man. You say you even want to give him a payback. To make him feel like you felt. Smh. You no better.

Hello! I understand how you're feeling going through break up I know of someone who will help you fix your relationship issues

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Simon Magic tysm for your suggestions 😊

I relate to much...... I begged... I cried....i ask him other chance but everything failed...... He said he wanna see his life with out me....... Im here cnt focused my work n everything..... Now i really give up what he told me the last is if we meant to be if we hve faith then we are if not then we cn find better one.....

What happened

I agree so much with your statement!

W H A T S A P P, H E R.

I like Corey Wayne though he can be a bit crass at times.

Pretty much went through this entire scenario exactly and ignored the warning signs. She asked for space and I was going through a rough time and needed some comforting and was focused on myself and my pain. Her response to it all was my feelings did not matter at that point because she was dealing with a lot herself...and I felt very neglected. We both needed opposite things from each other. it really caused us a lot of frustration and ended up pushing her away.

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I totally agree with you craig just let go guys. Stop communicating completely find yourself. Do something that make yourself happy and contented

I'm sorry. Sounds terrible.

Rebuild my friend. That's all I can say. You'll find your way again.

You won't always feel this way

Same thing happenin to me .. I’m scared of getting hurt again

Tania M lmao, typical hypergimust. You go girl 🤣

@tania m Why did you break up with him?

Hore

Thanks

Wait 3 months later after breaking up an 8 yrs relationship you allready had a nre boybriend. Sketchy dont you think.

Hello Courtney, how are you doing?