Thank you for making this video. With the "modernization" of society as well as the scattering of the community across the world and the rise of the internet, the "traditional" methods of finding a partner or not optimal or even available for a lot of the population, so there is a desperate need for adaptation.

Siri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Ang 788 ਧਨ ਪਿਰੁ ਏਹਿ ਨ ਆਖੀਅਨਿ ਬਹਨਿ ਇਕਠੇ ਹੋਇ ॥ They are not said to be husband and wife, who merely sit together. ਏਕ ਜੋਤਿ ਦੁਇ ਮੂਰਤੀ ਧਨ ਪਿਰੁ ਕਹੀਐ ਸੋਇ ॥੩॥ They alone are called husband and wife, who have one light in two bodies.

I love my culture.. ❤️ main suwas suwas vaarne baliharane jaandi an.. patshah ji nu.. I'm really thankful.. guru pita maharaj ji ne mainu sikhi bkshi.. I really don't want anything else.. Main naam tera adhar.. 📿🙏

U explained very well veer ji. This question always Disturbs that As Gursikhs will be able to find a Partner like us when we see outside the world these days. But Bhrosa As u told. Faith in Waheguru ji is Everything. Waheguruji will take care of everything. when i was not Amritdhari for me how i look is important Like we want to impress ppl but now We just want to impreas waheguru ji. If any one is reading this Don't trim your beard, Cut your Hairs , colour them to look preety. Waheguru ji nu Impress kro. Loan ne tain Kdi v nhe hona. accept who u r. and Follow waheguru's Teachings. And don't worry about Marrige. Faith , Bhrosa in waheguru ji is everything.

Vaheguru. Love this series of videos. Full of wisdom.

Vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

Such beautiful wisdom, thank u

Please make a video with ur wife...we want to know her routine

Many thanks for making this video may God bless you sangat and that listen find there right partners with tips you have gave ❤whagurue ji kals waheguru ji fathi 🙏🙏

I am also looking for a partner and soon I will be a amritdhari sikh, by Guru's grace. Thank you so much for your suggestions and guidance veer ji. Waheguru ji !

Dhan Dhan shri Guru Ramdas ji maharaj🙏

Great advice bhai sahib ji....with guru sahib kirpa.......

You are such a wonderful person and your way of explaining is wonderful. Chardi kala 🙏🏻❤️

Thanks veer jee 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

This video was much needed Thankyou bhai saab ji thankyou very much 🙏✨😊Guru sahib kirpa krn

Vaheguru

ਵਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਸਰਬੱਤ ਦਾ ਭੱਲਾ ਕਰਿਉ ਜੀ

This advice might work for the majority of the Sikh community (which lives in India), however a lot of Sikhs in the diaspora face unique challenges, that the "traditional" method of marriage isnt able to account for. Let me give some context: As someone who deals with a lot of these issues on the Sikh Reddit, one of the main questions that users ask me time and time again, is what to do if they are not from a Sikh family, are not Punjabi, &/or do not live near Sangat. A lot of these tips assume that both partners have a "GurSikh" family, or access to Sangat, however as Sikhi has started to grow outside of India and into new cultures and backgrounds, this isn't the case for a growing number of people across the world who are joining Sikhi. The question is then what does the next generation of Sikhs do in this new age? Ofcourse the 6 tips of having common goals, guide, devotion, eating habits, and lifestyle will be relevant across cultures, however the factor of lack of Sangat or being born into a non Sikh family isnt taken into account. One of the things that I usually suggest (keep in mind, I myself am not married and am stil pretty young), is that instead of getting ones parents to find a partner (because for some Sikhs, their parents might not even be Sikh or might care about other things in a partner), instead, they can get a respect group of Sikhs to find someone. However, then the question is how does your average new Sikh even gain such contacts? I am aware of marriage institution in Punjab that set people up, however a lot of these places might not take into account the context of the lifestyle and culture of diaspora Sikhs. There is also the issue of Punjabi "Sikhs" trying to marry western Sikhs in order to get a PR. One of the pressing matters that will affect the long-term survival of the Khalsa is reconciling the old and new ways of finding a partner in this digital age we live in, with the rise of non-Punjabi Sikhs. If anyone has any tips, feel free to add to the conversation.

Thank you. This is so relevant to me at this time. Thanks a lot ❤

Wowwwww!!! Toooo good, Please talk about sangat.....like your friends with whom you spend your time with in your college,I always tell my kids to have gursikh friends.My kids are gursikh and they don’t drink and they have full faith in Gurbani but they have friends from other faiths mostly Americans and that scares me too much. So it’s my request if you please try to talk about sangat also. You are blessed soul ,Waheguru bless you 🙏🙏

Needed to hear this. Thanks pyareyo 🌸

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Thank you for addressing this topic! Vaheguru 🙏🏼✨

Love it❤

ਸਿੱਖ ਕੌ ਸਿੱਖ ਪੁਤ੍ਰੀ ਦਈ ਸੁਧਾ ਸੁਧਾ ਮਿਲ ਜਾਇ॥ ਦਈ ਭਾਦਨੀ ਕੋ ਸੁਤਾ ਅਹਿ ਮੁਖ ਅਮੀ ਚੁਆਇ॥੧੯॥ “The Sikh should marry his daughter to another Sikh, thus nectar and nectar mix. Marriage to a non-Sikh is akin to feeding Amrit to a snake.” ਅਵਰ ਜੁ ਆਨ ਵਰਣ ਕੀ ਨਾਰਿ॥ ਇਨ ਸੇ ਸਿੰਘ ਨ ਕਰੈ ਪ੍ਯਾਰ॥ “A Singh should have no relation to a woman who is not of his religion.” Gurmat doesn’t condone interfaith marriage in any way.

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Ji waheguru you 100000% true 🙏

Thank you so much veerji😇🙏🏻

These days its getting harder to find a True Gursikh Singni...Dumalle sajana to Bad Gursahib nu Milan di we khich honi Chaidi aa ....very sorry I am saying this but some sikh bibis they are making silly tik tok videos ..Dumalle is not shingar Its Rehat given to us by Guru Sahib ji 5Ks.

Exactly my parents.. doing.. this exactly as u said..

Really helpful!

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Tussi punjabi vac video upload karo waheguru Ji🙏

*16:22* ...... Yeah that's a point

Bhai sahib make a video how to tie dumalla like yours

Wow you answered all my questions 🙏

Good video . A small but extremely important part of the clip was ‘window dressing ‘ . Watch out for that . Some people tell you what you want to hear . I don’t know the solution to get round that . But just carefully watch the red flags

What if you discover your love for Waheguru way after getting married and have difference in opinion with your partner now?

Veerji, is it mandatory for a Gursikh to only marry a Gursikh? Can a Gursikh marry a Sikh(Punjabi) girl/boy that is trying to follow the path of Sikhi but has not yet received Amrit?

What if somebody do not want to get married and want to find true god within him or her?

Singh labna parents waste.. bht aaoukha hoya wa.. stressed rehnde ne sometimes they say dheeye tu kyun Amrit shakk lea.. they don't understand.. Sanjog maharaj ji de hath ne.. 🙏

Is marriage pre destined?

What if you’re family members are not gursikh, drink alcohol, don’t care about Sikhi but you have many many blessings from Satguru Ji...does that mean I can’t bring a gursikh wife to my home and be a good husband? Can you explain this further? That means only families full of gursikhs are allowed to marry? It doesn’t make sense.

Sat Sri Akaal Ji, please make a VDO of caste hatred and racism within "Sikh culture". This is not Sikhi, yet our local temple support this trash. We need to open our eyes, and love all regardless of of caste and race. Baba Nanak Ji stated "na koi Hindu/Christian/Jew na koi Muslim/Christian/Jew".