lol so true

IKR 😂

Yes.

right 😩

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

pretty_ str4nge unfortunately I have school 😔

pretty_ str4nge I am definitely nailing that

Thanks I'll try lmao

best fucking tip ever i swear-❤️

Michael twins

yep

Yup

Yup

y e s

You’re completely valid bro

Not sure if this will help but I use Hawaiian shirts. Some of them come in dark colors and if they don’t the patterns are usually random enough to hide stuff

get rid of the Mediterranean, it's just _summer_

@@elliot4417 ;-;

let me introduce you to African summer in a country wear winter is also hot af

Me, a FtM living in Australia-

You lucky potato! I am out to my parents and they are accepting, we just can't afford a binder or testosterone😓

Woah Potatoes aw no😟. Do you have medical ?

Congrats bro!

Dante Mira ahh my god so excited for you.

What's the update

Ikr I'm always so nervous my binder is showing through 🥲

Oh we have blue shirts so but yeah white shirts are the literal devil

Me: i love u school u dont ask y i wear blue when its white

yeah my school shirts are lie tight fight and veryy see through and white and im just lie ahhh

Or my school, in romania💀

Lol my school, they just banned hoodies this year ;w;

How should you survive in the winter? Wtf

Wtaf Why??? Do they think you're hiding weed or something? Jeez nobody's that dumb, allow kids to wear fucking jackets

That's not that bad. At least u can wear mostly what u want. In England we have to wear uniform.

@@taehyunsfairy1843 I used to wear a uniform in romania too It's not that bad Actually helps, if we were allowed to wear our own stuff, I'm sure kids would make fun of people with less expensive or not fashionable clothes. I know I would've been one of the kids to be made fun of. But oh well, I guess your country has more civilized and nice kids. I just hate the fact that girls have to wear dresses or skirts and boys pants, that's still really dumb.

yea,, me too- but just remember!! the binder isnt supposed to make you completely flat- its supposed to make you have a masculine chest for your body type,, some people are really lucky though kjfshdkf

Same. Happens to very shirt but it's manageable

me too. and I don't even have a binder so it's more messed up. I don't know how to bind without one.

Dont worry bro. We gotcha. 😉

行く 宅度 you could bind with 2 sports bras, put on forward and put one backs. Put the backwards one under the forward one tho

SpicyMayonaise_3 primary is fucking superior 😂

Lol lucky. Do your parents know?

I kbow this was posted months ago but I just want to say; I'm happy that your happy, you are a beautiful and amazing person and don't let anyone say otherwise~

Yay

SpicyMayonaise_3 Be careful when shopping a primark as they miss shape in the wash

I’m sort of fat so my face is round and I look like I’m 8 😔

@@marsearley6682 I mean, hey, if that's the issue then you can solve it by just losing weight. My face is round and I'm not overweight, so rip me.

@@marsearley6682 yeah same

I use makeup, I got a lot of tips from cosplayers, dragkings, and other FTM's

My face is so round just look at it

Just try talking to them. If you dont feel like a girl then you need to tell people. I wish you luck, I would have more tips but you have a different situation. If your young then your parents might not be very supportive. If you need to then wait until you move out until you come out. Good luck? 🏳️‍🌈

Caden_ Hardwick I agree with the other commenter. You should definitely talk to them. I’m guessing from what you wrote that you’ve already come out, sure they don’t sound supportive but they didn’t disown you so that’s a good thing. If your parents love you and want the best for you they should be more concerned with how you feel than what they feel. Certainly because this effects you more than it effects them. You being compromised because they can’t let go of their image of having a daughter is not okay. Sure, it’s a huge adjustment to them because they might feel like they lost their daughter when in reality you are still you. You are still that same person but now you are their son. A lot of times parents need an adjustment period to accept that but in the meantime you still need to think about yourself, if you feel uncomfortable presenting as a girl you need to express that to them in a way they understand. Maybe draw parallels to your dad and ask how he’d feel if he had to dress the way they feel like you should. It would feel vary wrong? Well, that’s the way you’ve been feeling

Mine are the same way. I get it

I'm v late but I've had the same issues with my mum - I just do everything with my own money (she's threatened to throw away some of my clothes before but I've hidden them so she can't do that haha). Also doing some other things like working out and voice training, wearing your hair up in a beanie or smth and wearing more unisex clothes perhaps could make you pass better (+ it'd show your commitment and your parents might see that you're happier like that and come around?). I wish you luck man, honestly just be true to yourself and ignore anyone who tries to put you down

i have the same problem my parents want me to be a girl because they say i was born a girl and a girl i should stay. i really hate being a girl and i want to transition into being a boy. i have thought about it many times and i am ready to transition but my parents are religious and believe that i should be a girl.

That’s a pretty good excuse though. Parents who aren’t supportive (my mom hates when I have a short hair, she doesn’t know I’m trans) so I used the excuse that I’m too lazy to take care of long hair. Sometimes it’s best to drop your pride and do whatever’s necessary to get the job done

@@jamesthesock1349 fr

I've hated my voice as soon as i could remember so i get it dude

Try singing the low parts of songs and your range should expand. That helped me a bit. Or get a cold lol

I'm glad that I have a natural deep voice. 🙏

blue berry cosplay I usually scream because it makes my voice raspy and deep. Hurts a little after a while tho

I can relate, I sound like a 7 year old girl

Same

Same here

Same

Me, too!

Same.

That's where I'm going today! I came out to my mom and right away she said, "I love you, support you, let's go to Old Navy and get you some new clothes!"

Kelsi 101 awesome man!

@Twitchyboi Oof, you may not want to. Update: They "accept" me, they're ok with me dressing and styling my hair masculine, but when it comes to anything else, they call it a phase and ask me if I'm sure, and they continue to try and help me, but to help me figure out that I'm a girl, not a dude.

Yee Haw literally my family

@Twitchyboi same dude, ive been trying to come out to them for 4 years

Wait wait I'm a trans kid from pgh yay this is so wholesome I'm smiling

Your comment makes me happy, I love seeing older lgbt+ members they have good stories alot of times

PITTSBURGH GANG WOOO!!

I love the phrase "chiseled out" referring to FtM transition

Bruh your parents are dumb

You need new parents.

that’s how my family is i’m so sorry i understand how hard it is bc my entire family is extremely transphobic and im ftm trans soo

Me too! My mom hates trans ALOT and I’m ftm aswell. She won’t even let me get my hair cut.

I need new parents too

This are actually really great tips, all of which I use now! The only one I don't use is the first one but not cuz it's bad, I was lucky enough to be afab but have quite broad shoulders XD

You could buy a binder and have it come in discrete packaging. They would probably not even notice you wearing it

ik how u feel.

Same with me, so I bind with sports bras

i know this is like super late but doubling sports bras is safe and makes me feel more confident

You could ask your friends to buy you a binder and give them the money after!

wow.. tbh I hate those ppl

@@imoutofhere171 it wasn't like she was rude about it...

@@fourscot yea? ik

True!!

Agreed (but coming from a gay man!)

You sure you’re straight?

Karen I. u can call someone good looking and not be attracted to them :pp

@@kristiani.1123 oh damn never compliment anyone or you're attracted to them

have u ever thought about going to other countries in the eu for Treatment?

How did you do it ?

i did'nt do anything yet, but i know some other people who get treatment. i live in austria and the system for transpeople is seemingly really good here.

@Elly Moon Not quite possible, I'm unemployed, nobody hires me because of my female ID. Can't change it because it needs thousands €. It's a never ending circle. Only one positive thing is since 2017 in Greece I can change my ID without undergoing surgery , sterilisation etc.Thank you for your consideration tho :) ❤️

@Salanda Shampson I really don't want to give any details on how I got into HRT myself. It's dangerous, risky, immature, and it causes so many health issues. Worst thing is no doctor will help me for anything, like allergic shock? "It's because of Testosterone can't help" arrhythmia? "It's because of Testosterone can't help" etc. I want NOBODY to follow my steps , you are all special and precious and please don't risk your health/life by doing shots yourself from unreliable recourses. Be patient and thank God you live in a more trans friendly country.

Happy you! I just have hoodies and jackets but my mom don't say that i need to dress in dress sometimes she say it i like when someone call me Elliott and don't like Lana

Nigga it's a shirt

Thank you!! Imma try it-

bro when I do that theres always a lump💀 how do I to hide it 💔

Or guys who have long hair usually put it in a low ponytail. Might not have the desired effect though

I usually ask my grandmother "Am I feminine?" My grandmother says "Of course you are!" Just... *Cries in dysphoria with you*

Jayden J yo congrats!!

Jayden J dude me too congrats

Capt SkyZ congrats to you to lol

Congratulations!!!!

Congratulations fellow brother 🙂

Same! I mostly get misgendered if im with my boyfriend because we dont pass that well but ive found when i wear beanies i pass way better

i love you bud! i’m so thankful i’ve helped :) that means a lot to hear that

same man none of those compression shirts do anything for me either bc my chest is too large lmk if you ever figure anything out

I do believe they make binders for sports and working out. You'd have to look it up. I do believe they are called sports binders

Hey so some binders can be used for exercise but the websites always suggest one size up from what you normally bind with, hope this helped! -Milo

Twitchyboi thanks guys! i do marching band and i run frequently so i’ll be sure to check some of these out... i appreciate the help :))

angel Czepczynski no problem, best of luck :)

Thats kinda my style ( mostly emo lol )

Archer B ooh! same here!

Same 😂

How do you afford their clothes???

Same 😂👍

Samuel their shortest leg size is 30 imma 27-28 :(

We have the same name! :)

instead of asking yourself "what am i", asking yourself "what would make me happy" may help. gender identity is complicated, so take your time with yourself, and whatever answer you come to is okay, and if you change your mind later that's okay too

That doesnt make you trans.we are born that way and you cant specifically struggle with it,do what you want,if you arent thinking of yourself as a girl but rather as a boy,then transition.

I used to feel the same way. I liked having a flat chest some days, and liked showing off my curves others. Then, sometimes, I felt like neither gender. Then, I happened to discover this thing called being ✨gendeefluid✨ ppl who are genderfluid alter their gender to how they feel that day. If I feel like dressing masc, I consider my pronouns to be he/him/they/them. And just the opposite for days I feel like being feminine. Hope this helps!! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

XD

I second Ross and TJ Maxx, also Marshalls is good. Those are my favorite places to go.

Same

It is also in England

And it's in the Netherlands too - I used to think it was only in the Netherlands.

Aish.. same with England!!

haha lol. H&M beherrscht die Welt.

@@marleen.nicht.verstehen That's kinda scary, actually 😂😅

MHM Im not allowed to go to the men's sections eitherrr, they say I'm a girl so i need to dress, talk, sit and act feminine kdkcmdnc

thank you !!

(I’m transitioning from female to male starting now!) :)

Dude that’s awesome! You’re so lucky you have a supportive brother

Tell them when you're ready & confident enough 💕

Take your time, don't stress yourself. You should come out when you're ready. Maybe you could only talk with your mother first so you could talk together to your father but that's just a advice, do whats best for you.

Finally! Somebody just like me

ALSO she thinks I’m going to be bullied thats why she won’t let me cut my hair she isn’t transphobic⚠️

"I brought a shit" nice spelling lol

snazzy lizardz XD I didn’t realise that

Moon because that’s what to supposed to do..

There's a gel form of T that has nothing to do with needles. It's applied daily, and it'll keep your hormone levels more consistent than weekly/bi-weekly. ❤️

@@snazzylizardz5041 i had no idea about this! This is amazing ty so much