TO BE STEALTH OR NOT . . . IS THERE SUCH A THING AS "STEALTH"? GUEST JAN FROM BUTTERFLY TRACKS

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BREAKFAST
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1 Grain
1 Fruit
LUNCH
1 Protein
1 Vegetable
1 Fat
DINNER
1 Protein
1 Vegetable
1 Grain
1 Fat
PROTEIN
4 oz. meat/poultry/fish
2 eggs
2 oz. hard cheese
4 oz. cottage cheese (plain)
8 oz. yogurt (plain, no added sugar)
2 oz. nuts/seeds/nut butters (no sugar)
6 oz. beans (legumes)
4 oz. hummus
2 veggie burgers
4 oz. plain tofu
4 oz. tempeh
GRAIN
4 oz. cooked rice, potato, quinoa (or any cooked whole grain)
4 oz. corn or peas or winter squashes
2 oz. oatmeal or oat bran (weighed dry, before preparing with water)
3 rice cakes
FRUIT
1 piece of fruit (apple, orange, banana, peach, etc.)
6 oz. loose or diced fruit (berries, grapes, cantaloupe, watermelon, fruit salad, etc.)
2 oz. dried fruit (raisins, dates, apricots, etc.)
VEGETABLES
16 oz. cooked or raw or a combination of both
including summers squashes
including avocado and olives, used sparingly
FAT
1 Tablespoon oil (olive oil, canola oil, safflower oil, vegetable oil, coconut oil, etc.) (any oil)
1 Tablespoon butter or margarine (no sugar in ingredients)
CONDIMENTS (with meals)
free to use mustard, vinegar, spices, lemon/lime, cinnamon, pam spray, herbs, soy sauce, fat free broth or stock (unless you find yourself abusing any of these foods)
AVOID
flour
alcohol
sugar, artificial sweeteners, all sweeteners
see this article for all ingredients that are sugar:
Secret Sugars: The 56 Different Names for Sugar
www.virtahealth.com/blog/name...

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@user-eo5lo5dq3p Ай бұрын

I would put magnetic signage first and see how that went before putting something permanent on. Just a thought.

@user-yb9ub5lk5u Ай бұрын

I would think by keeping your van looking like a work truck, would be more of a target. The thief’s would think there are tools in there to steal.

@Bernimv 26 күн бұрын

In the 6yrs I've had my cargo van 2x tried but while being parked at home base my daughters home once in driveway other street in front of her home.

@lynnchapman5276 Ай бұрын

My brother had a great idea: get magnetic door signs made up that say, "Diaper Service". Aint no one gonna go in there!

@pamdanko1078 Ай бұрын

Me and my daughter thought about putting up signs for skunk removal service, nobody would want to break in. LOL

@LulusWay64 Ай бұрын

HAHA!! 🤣

@pamdanko1078 Ай бұрын

@@LulusWay64 Sorry about your knee. I'm currently recovering from a shattered femur. I was wanting to come to one of the meet ups this past winter, but have been out of commission since Jan 1st. Maybe next year.

@barbarafuhrman7395 Ай бұрын

Stealth is over with now there are to many of us doing the thing...stay safe have fun❤❤

@lindalougram Ай бұрын

Lulu. No. Don’t do it. You are right just the way you are set up. If someone sees it advertised on your vehicle, wouldn’t they be able to just look it up on their phone and there’s a single woman in there? No keep yourself safe. You are on the right track.

@judyyaklin7408 Ай бұрын

I agree wholeheartedly!

@vickihutchison9536 Ай бұрын

We have watched the ID channel for years and I feel like I have learned lot’s about criminal from this. I stayed at a large hospital in Montgomery Alabama on the way home from Lulu’s January meet up. Retired nurse so knew they would have security. Went in and asked if I could stay there and was told to park around back. Security officers checked on me and were extremely nice. One wanted to see my small trailer and just loved it. You can see the whole thing by looking in the door. I have had people at gas stations want to see my 14 ft trailer. I use my trailer when I go to dog shows where I meet up with my friends. However if traveling to meet up or wherever I feel I would be safer in my van as far as making a quick getaway. Just got my new van this month and am just now trying to do a no build,build. Hope to get on the road by June. Thanks for all the helpful hints.

@kathytorrington9164 Ай бұрын

To stealth or not to stealth-- Isn't that the query? Should we or shouldn't we hide in plain sight To rest when we've grown weary? Whether we choose to sneak a bit Or whether we choose to not Trust that little voice inside-- It's the very best guide that we've got!

@LulusWay64 Ай бұрын

BEAUTIFUL!!!

@isabellayogurte2308 29 күн бұрын

Yes! Echo that! Best gift of camping life. It gets us sooo much better in tune with that voice!! And the voice always knows the way. Lovely!!

@julesann1773 Ай бұрын

I agree with Jan..... queen LuLu, if you add that extension thing on the back of your van, it will definitely take away from your stealth. I wanted to mention, if you do decide to add it to your van, get an installation quote from uhaul, they install hitches all the time and may cost less, perhaps tell mechanic that your nephew did it for you. Just an idea to think about. My van is pretty stealth because I'm a complete minimalist and don't use any window coverings, nobody would be interested in looking in my van. And I park right up with the overnight employees at Walmart so I blend in. I love you and your videos, always a joy to see you've posted a new video. Hope your day is beautiful like you!

@lindabyars5903 Ай бұрын

Hi Lulu! In favor of your side of the stealth issue: When you settle in for the night for your private time, your youtube fans might be knocking to get to meet you. I think that as much as you care for them, it could be intrusive. Your popularity is really growing so you need to stay stealthy. People might know there's someone in there, but they don't need to know who it is.

@Nurse67 Ай бұрын

If you put on just the back of the van, then back in to your spot it would be less noticeable

@agneskiesling2905 Ай бұрын

I think some people want to be known, because it is more important that her followers know her....❤

@southerngirlyall6497 Ай бұрын

Great topic! Thanks for covering the examples.

@OkieGirl899 Ай бұрын

A senior couple I know, very experienced, who travel in a 40 ft class A, would sometimes go directly to the police station and ask for advice on where to park for the night. Sometimes they were invited to use the police station parking lot and a few times an officer would lead them to a safe place. You can't hide a bus and they never tried, but nearly everywhere they went people were more than happy to help.

@user-vk1rm2wm5y Ай бұрын

Such an interesting conversation! Thanks, Lulu and Jan. I've been following all you camper dwellers for a time now, learning how to build, how to eat, how to live on 4 wheels and how to be stealth. And today I very much enjoyed that debate on being stealth. I follow both of you everywhere. If I lived in USA I would certainly be part of that van life and have great ideas on how to build one to "serve me well". Many thanks, as usual. All my love ! ❤❤❤

@donnaaparo9450 Ай бұрын

Theft would most likely happen with a work van then if they know someone is in there. They are looking for tools to pawn or to steal the van. Be safe dont be stealth! Loved this video!!❤

@doriskeil-shamieh8852 Ай бұрын

State parks are lovely places to stay that aren't as expensive as private campgrounds like KOA and the like. No one sleeping in their vehicles are stealth. Van life is a thing now.

@kandytiffany-morgan5737 Ай бұрын

How about "Bye for Now" on the back?

@user-mt1rx3sd7n Ай бұрын

Nice one 👍

@betsyandall Ай бұрын

Perfect! 😂

@LulusWay64 Ай бұрын

good one!!

@christiannemayer6062 Ай бұрын

Ready to Dance... Lulu's Way...and a storage box. Go girl. Jan made a lot of sense❤️🙏🌞

@ameelecoq8801 Ай бұрын

So happy to watch this discussion of Van life! This is how I first found you, and feels like you're getting back to your roots!

@LilRuby1961Bonanza Ай бұрын

Great topic ladies! Since I’m a vintage trailer camper, I’m definitely not stealth at all 😂 but I do prefer my privacy when I am camping or overnighting to get to my next camping spot. I use Hipcamp and lots of state parks, mostly always paying to stay overnight verses free staying anywhere like Cracker Barrel, etc. … not because I won’t stay there, because I have, but just because I want the security of a safe haven as a solo woman traveler. I admire stealth in my various camping groups, but I definitely want people to know I’m in my rig! My blue heeler and my own protection help as well! I do sleep good at night! 🥰🏕️ Edit : another thing I do because I’m a sister on the fly, we have a “curb” group. Sisters all over the country that have space for an overnight stay or two. That’s a fabulous program. And also, I do stay at Love’s a lot. I like to use the electric in the winter, but have solar and a water tank for fresh water so rarely hook up those while traveling between events.

@sandyschneider6792 Ай бұрын

I had an ambulance wrapped in Eagle’s. People always talked to me. It was fun and never a bother. More pure enjoyment and met great people! Great conversation you two had today 🎉

@karenreese4470 Ай бұрын

You could wrap the whole vehicle :-) The ministry i am a part of did a car ....and I have a friend who wrapped his driving camper. It was so cool!

@lisawood8207 Ай бұрын

5+ years ft van and I'm with Jan, no such thing as stealth, and I don't want the headache of worrying that I'm not welcome. But I still prefer to keep it discreet, clean, and leave it better than I found it. Hobo rule to not screw it up for the next person.

@sheilahoness-dd9ws Ай бұрын

Hi Lulu Hope you are having a good day today. Thank you for your help and information. I had magnetic signs for my animal rescue. So it's something to think about.

@moondreamerpublishing4036 Ай бұрын

I love this discussion because it was the perfect example of two people who had different opinions on a topic based on their own individual perspectives and experiences that could talk it out calmly. Oh if we all could only do this more often in our lives the world would be a better place without so much hostility. It proves we can think differently on a myriad of topics and still be civil. We could learn so much from each other and if our opinion didn't change after the discussion then agree to disagree is always still an option. No harm no foul! Kindness matters ❤

@tammy6992 Ай бұрын

And stand your ground here in Florida

@marymcmanus Ай бұрын

I agree with Jan. I have not tried to be stealth because I don’t stay where I’m not wanted. ❤️

@isabellayogurte2308 29 күн бұрын

Loved this video! Lots to think about. If it was my option, I would the magnetic. That way depending where Im at I can put them on or not. If your meet ups passed 75 ladies imagine when you are somewhere and they know your van! They will be like Papparazzies and you will need to call security.😂😂😂😂 We all want to dance with Lulu❤ And with Jan we all want to caravan!!❤ Loving our awesome communities!! Thanks to you both for all you do!!! Blessings!!

@drillsergeant5338 Ай бұрын

I have a Sprinter passenger van. It's all windows. I have two windows covered on the inside. No windshield cover or rear window covers at all. I always ask wherever I stop if it's alright to park for awhile and rest. So far I have never been told no. I do have quite a few antennas on the roof so I do get asked if I am a communications van and I always say, yes. Because I am communicating a lot from my van. Also, if it's foggy, people are sympathetic and say sure, stay as long as you like. I also have one sign on my van that makes just about everyone smile. I can't say what the sign says, but it usually gives me instant bonafides. Take care.

@jameslongstreet37 Ай бұрын

I wouldn't "obsess" over it, but I (still) favor "stealth".

@kathleendanley8508 Ай бұрын

I find this very interesting because there is a truck stop about 6 miles from my house and I don’t think I have ever seen a camper there but they could be in the back. There is also a State Park right down the road that also has a primitive camp ground so my local trip stop may not let campers stay there. I am enjoying your conversation!

@isabellayogurte2308 29 күн бұрын

Ready to dance with tap dancing shoes in it! And Lulu's Way with a bunch of vegetables ....magnetic😊

@nbig860 Ай бұрын

Very interesting to hear different perspectives- to each their own 👍

@doreenhayden-cote553 Ай бұрын

This discussion gave me a lot to think about. I know that most people are good but we also know there are some not so good people out there. I think as long as you never announce on your channel where you are staying ahead of time, it is okay to have a wrap advertising your channel. I know when you were at the beach you were careful to not say exactly where you were.

@disabledarmyveteran Ай бұрын

I camp in a travel trailer so I don’t camp stealth.

@Andrea-208 Ай бұрын

Several reasons for stealth: (1) to park in unconventional places to save money, passing through, or unavailable camp sites; (2) avoid vehicle smash & grab break-ins; (3) avoid a personal attack while in or near our vehicle. Stealth isn’t fooling anyone when parked overnight, whether parked in retail parking lots or a blind spot in a subdivision. But “modesty” reduces the chances of a woman being targeted for other personal safety reasons, including being watched from a distance or followed for miles without us knowing it. Safety gear like stun guns is good, but only as effective as our physical health (speed, flexibility, steadiness) - and in a confined space. The dream of freedom on the road and the excitement of this lifestyle shouldn’t replace the cautions we take in our everyday life.

@robertamahoney2109 Ай бұрын

This was wonderful, Lulu and Jan. Made so much sense to me. I have followed you Both since your beginnings. Yes get your wrap LuLu you Rock 🤩Warm regards Ro

@lindachiappetta3387 Ай бұрын

Awesome... Enjoyed your conversation today with Jan; lots of great insight and ideas. Thanks, you two. Go for it Lulu! 🥰

@dorismatthews4416 Ай бұрын

Interesting points on both sides of the stealth conversation. Thanks Lulu and Jan. Keep on keepin' on!

@margaretbruckner3924 Ай бұрын

This was very informative....thank you Lulu and Jan

@sallydavis1345 Ай бұрын

Very interesting topic and I can see both sides of the discussion. I think you need to do what feels comfortable for you. I am not comfortable having my curtains open in my house after it gets dark. That is how I was raised and that is where my comfort zone is. I don’t think I would make it in a vehicle in a parking lot at night.

@dianeabell5782 Ай бұрын

Great video. Thank you, Jan and Lulu.

@Peepa_and_the_Pearl Ай бұрын

Wonderful interview, Jan! Well thought out, and great tips! I don't want to overnight anywhere where I'm not wanted". "Someone breaks a window, their arm won't look the same going in as going out". That Costco fail experience was memorable! hahaha "Always ask the Costco manager" lesson learned! ;) We learned so much on that Route 1 caravan trip! Looking forward to the next adventure with the Butterfly Tribe! www.youtube.com/@ButterflyTracks

@shirleyd5212 Ай бұрын

This was a good conversation and lots to think about. I appreciate you and Jan sharing this conversation

@lanaadams7425 Ай бұрын

Excellent. Thank you to Jan as well.

@sandyschneider6792 Ай бұрын

I like the wall vs the window for utilizing the space for storage and less window peepers …

@always.wondering.wandering Ай бұрын

This was a great conversation. Thanks for sharing with all of us. Thank you Lulu and Jan.

@dawnsmith7189 Ай бұрын

I am just starting to build out my van. I so want to put some magnets on it to add some personality. I have been tring to decide if I should or not. This video helped a lot. So glad you posted this!

@beckykukoski8678 Ай бұрын

Lulu, some of your followers comments made some very good points. This was a very good topic for discussion.

@dianeabell5782 Ай бұрын

I’m not a stealth traveler, but I do have my own stories about my camping excursions. First of all, I love HipCamp because it’s usually very inexpensive, fun to sleep on farms, and safe. Cracker Barrel’s have mixed reviews from me, as do truck stops. Friends’ driveways are the best.

@EmiliaGarcia-sh1my Ай бұрын

Good morning Lulu and Jan🙋‍♀️ Enjoyed the video , great information ❤😊 Safe travels ❤❤😊

@clarasmith1873 Ай бұрын

It's good to think about stealth in this way. Interesting to consider. Jan, if anyone hears your watchdog growling, they will surely think twice about breaking into your rig. ❤

@wyldewolfe1 15 күн бұрын

Very useful discussion. Thanks LuLu.

@pollydunn3191 Ай бұрын

But a work truck might have tools to steal and I think that would be pretty tempting for a thief especially if its sitting in a parking lot all night. They most likely wouldn't think the worker would be sleeping in it.

@Jules73572 Ай бұрын

Absolutely!!!! I wrap would be awesome on your van !!!! Very cool 👏🏻👏🏻🤗🥰🙏🏻🇺🇸

@DianeDees Ай бұрын

When I had my business. I had big magnetic signs to be able to take off and on my van. I wanted them on there for my business and off of them when I was using it for my personal life. I did find out that I had to take them off when I went through the car wash as they would come off. If you want the signs on when you are driving but off when you want to be stealth would work.

@DianeDees Ай бұрын

PS friend, this is actually Gayl from Tulsa

@LulusWay64 Ай бұрын

hi Gayl!!!

@niftytraveler Ай бұрын

For some of the companies that usually will invites overnight parking there are some laws in certain States and counties that make it so that they have to say no even if their own personal boundaries are different.

@pammerola3801 Ай бұрын

Great informative video Thanks LUlu and Jan

@marthaewing1230 10 күн бұрын

My vote is stealth, + use common sense 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💞

@dianajohnson5838 Ай бұрын

Thanks for this discussion!

@susanaustin4809 Ай бұрын

Very interesting. Plus very helpful

@JanGray-qw7fr 16 күн бұрын

I believe it isn’t safe to advertise one’s name. Knowing one’s name is a privilege given.

@KarenWhelihan Ай бұрын

As a soon to be newbie to van life. This was helpful information. My plan once I am set to go is start at the Oregon/California coastline and travel south alone the hwy1 scenic route.

@jsoll1695 Ай бұрын

I would like to know if Jan is bothered a-lot by strangers because of her advertising.

@LulusWay64 Ай бұрын

I would like to know that too!!!

@cherijdennett2894 Ай бұрын

STEALTH!!! So just watched your segment and it was very thought provoking and fun...Of course I'm excited for you to get a wrap and maybe magnet signs for the sides???? As for stealth, I think one of the major aspects of stealth is privacy...as least it would be for me..I almost went the van route but I'm enjoying the life I have as is!!! Your segments make me smile and it's so peaceful and fun...Thanks! Cheri

@Yogagood4you Ай бұрын

Great KZfaq with Jan. Thank you

@bettysuelong4268 Ай бұрын

Really great video.Thought provoking.

@pizzalady55 Ай бұрын

This is off topic, but I had to jump on to say this. I just had my first bite of roasted Japanese sweet potato because of you mentioning them frequently . They are incredibly delicious. I now have a new favorite food, going to put it in a salad for dinner.

@684jewel Ай бұрын

Love the glasses! Listening to both sides of this!

@user-mt1rx3sd7n Ай бұрын

Pam __Get yours made magnetic!!! Take them off or leave it on

@l0l585 Ай бұрын

Yes that will be great .

@28maganda Ай бұрын

I would stay stealth , get a bigger van with another color besides white, also install security cameras outside with an indoor monitor

@cwstyle3 Ай бұрын

Hi Lulu. Good information from Jan. Thank you for sharing. ❤👍🤗

@ruthdella37 Ай бұрын

Interesting conversation.

@debbies6192 Ай бұрын

Fascinating

@rosiescraftyshack7177 Ай бұрын

Hi Ms Lulu, both ways make sense to me. I really feel it’s what makes you personally feel safer. That’s just my opinion ❤blessings to you 38:51

@donnapecoraro3126 Ай бұрын

In NY at least, a work truck needs a commercial license to park in a residential area during working hours. A camper or van can stay in one spot for 24 hours. If police ask them to move because they notice it or a neighbor complains they must move the vehicle but it can be as close as across the street. A lot of these places you went to had giant lots with plenty of room. Maybe the northeast is stricter because they worry about people permanently encamping and there is a lot less space in the cities. I’d think parking in a neighborhood is very questionable, people pay high taxes to not live with people parking outside their house living in their vehicles. Parking in a motel parking lot seems sketchy, people are paying for rooms, if the motel is full, you’re taking someone’s spot. Unsolicited advice, don’t park in NYC, they’ll certainly break into your vehicle whether you’re in it or not. This stealth/not stealth is really something to consider. I don’t know what I’d choose. Frankly, I’m scaredy cat and wouldn’t survive one night out there, lol.

@MDWascom40 Ай бұрын

Put those logos on, get an LLC and claim your trips on your taxes.

@LulusWay64 Ай бұрын

I already do claim my trips on my taxes!!!

@MooniiplaitsCrochet Ай бұрын

Good discussion. I was coming and going with the idea. In the end, I felt that KZfaqrs, who are more well known might sometimes want to be private, so maybe magnetic signs might be the way to go. But then I'm very much a drawbridge up kinda person who values some alone time.

@ponylady111 Ай бұрын

😂think I would start with a nice big magnet that could be removed. Sometimes you feel like putting yourself out there....sometimes you don't. If you find you like the advertisement all the time, then there you go, get a wrap. I just like that you're making a knowledge-based decision. Happy travels, see you in June.😊

@debbiesue4287 Ай бұрын

I can spot a vehicle dweller a mile off no matter what their vehicle looks like... They are everywhere. Some try to be stealth some don't but you can still spot them. Within the last 5 years, so many people became homeless and had to live in their vehicles.Everybody knows you're in that vehicle. There have been many documentaries on netflix and other streaming channels... Most of them are not Positive so I think people Who are respectful and don't make a nuisance of themselves Being not stealthy shows people in society that not everybody in a vehicle is trouble.

@miriamhawkins7825 Ай бұрын

Keep it clean looking and in good repair - wear decent clothes - don’t appear homeless. Don’t be rude to the neighbor in the big box store etc

@patbullard8135 Ай бұрын

I think you should do it

@kayecastleman6353 Ай бұрын

I agree with Jan in principle... I wouldn't want to stay in a place I wasn't wanted. It's one thing to have to move because of regulations, but if the local people are okay with you being there it would just feel safer. She also makes a good point about the illusion of stealth... so many people and especially the authorities are aware of folks living in vans these days, most are not being fooled. Just be real.

@janicehart5397 Ай бұрын

I know in Massachusetts there are city/town ordinances that do not allow sleeping in vehicles. Walmart would be happy to allow it, but the police will check all the parking lots and clean them out. Here in the Northeast, we are generally not friendly to RVers or Van dwellers, and it's a shame.

@Cali-ForniagirlinMichigan Ай бұрын

That was a lot of wise advice. I also watch Chrome on Vancity van life, he has a little different situation, as he is a man and he is pretty well known in Vancouver, so he more than not gets people leaving him gifts on his van, also he has a friend Emily with the cat van lady, she also has stickers on her van, I don’t thinks she has ever had the knock but I do remember once she was parked on the side of a road not to far from other overnight vehicles and there was a van or truck that was harassing her by driving by honking and shining their high beams at her, she got real shook up over that, but that’s the only one that I can remember that ever bothered her, I guess what I would think is if you advertise who you are on your van your either going to get a lot of people who want to talk to you because they are curious or a fan or people leaving you gifts lol, but in the long run I guess I would just feel safer parking where there are others like me parking in a safe area or parking area and I think I would have a prepared noise maker, weapon of some sort like the taser and even the good old wasp spray. It’s all in what you feel comfortable in Lulu, do it Lulu’s Way 😊❤ Thanks for the informative video Love your pal Susie

@heartradiant Ай бұрын

❤After you hung up from Jan your brain was a very VERY busy place. I laughed out loud when you said you were getting the wrap. That was wonderful!!!! Thanks for doing this vlog. Very spot on. Got me thinking too. I'm 68 now. Why be stealth if we (that would be the Victorian WE) aren't planning on parking where we have no business being in the 1st place. You are such a joy to watch.❤ ~ Peg

@LulusWay64 Ай бұрын

hi Peg!! I probably won't get the wrap (lol), but yes my wheels were spinning!! 😂

@betsyandall Ай бұрын

I'm thinking if I was a thief I would chose to break into a work truck to steal tools which are easily sold.

@gabriellechilton5902 Ай бұрын

Hi Lulu. As I listened to the conversation with you and Jan , I couldn’t help but have my own opinions per my experience. If you know a police officer ask one what they think of stealth, what they look for when they are on patrol. My guess is, officers know exactly what to look for and those that are stealth , maybe the officers know we are not. Lulu… I think you will continue to do what serves you well. What ever your choices are. You’re a leader for sure.

@kathleendanley8508 Ай бұрын

Hmmm I could see a Lulu’s Way Wrap or Ready to Dance i mean if people want to know who you are they will find out regardless. Also like you say you both try to be in places where others are and obviously you love people and the attention so i think it could be a very good thing.

@frnchblondtrvls Ай бұрын

Yes! I'm with you on the wrap! I hope to wrap my van in the future. Great conversation! Thanks, Jan!

@LulusWay64 Ай бұрын

oh, I can see it now . . . the Purplemobile!!!

@mielesutter4159 Ай бұрын

Great video, great job Lulu. Just my theory, no reason to be blatantly obvious we're sneaking a squat. I'm just saying because I like to park in towns, sometimes on a city street. I di my best to not give a reason to get the knock. Cause I'd poo my pants I'm sure.

@chastity5401 Ай бұрын

I understand both sides. Me personally, I’d be concerned advertising info on my vehicle if I were staying/sleeping in my vehicle. Just my thoughts! I know everyone sees things differently. Just seems easy for a group of bad people to target if they had researched what the info was advertised on the vehicle. I guess if she/one is always traveling with groups maybe it’s not an issue?

@Bernimv 26 күн бұрын

Exactly what Janet say is what I thought, they tried to take my converter in front of my daughters house. I had decals, not large one, on my chevy cargo van and even had black out windows. I park majority in Loves Travel Stop i even have their mug on my window showing i shop there especially their drink and get free ice ½$on drink

@rubylopez5941 Ай бұрын

Lulu you are are a thinker and you are wise. Go with your heart and instincts. We all have to do what feels right to ourselves. You both have excellent reasons for doing what you do.

@Michelle-bw1xg Ай бұрын

Newbie...I have a Dodge Caravan starting to convert. Want a boring exterior and a fun comfortable interior. Working on a plywood painted floor with access to storage underneath. Hoping to keep it free of roof boxes and hitch boxes. I don't plan to be a YT creator and just want to be nondescript. The call with Butterfly Tracks was very thought provoking and insightful I have to say. I plan to do both urban and boondocking stays. Hoping that the Supreme Court case does not make it harder to park a van in the future. I am not a fan of campgrounds. Bet you do go for the wrap!

@rubylopez5941 Ай бұрын

Oh wow there's a Supreme Court case. I don't have a camper van but I have been looking into it, so I started watching Lulu and a few other van people. I want to be like Lulu part time and go for a few months at a time.

@pnwusa Ай бұрын

great video lulu. thank you. both perspectives were good to hear. i never got the stealth thinking from people sleeping in their vans on city streets and parking lots of every kind etc... regardless of them being full or part time van dwellers. the decals, magnets, wraps are actually a brilliant idea. here on the west coast it's a great thing for people in the know because it's another legit tax write off. continued travel mercies and blessings. 🕊

@tammy6992 Ай бұрын

Yeah, I mean I just drive around and if I see a solar panel or the air conditioner, I basically figure it’s being lived in to some extent, so yeah, as far as stealth goes some people in particular cars, not any kind of a minivan or anything seem really stealth but most people think that they’re stealth and they’re really not stealth which is fine

@kimpeasester Ай бұрын

Yeah I thought stealth meant that you didn't want to be known because you fear and are hiding from all the bad apples. Stealth to me meant that you can park on a busy street next to other people and you blend in with everyone else but dont if you're there perhaps after 24 hours. The regular people in that area will notice you. So is there really such a thing as stealth? I guess I would rephrase it and say "I'd rather blend in then stand out." Either way, for different reasons, like the ones mentioned in this video, there will always be clues that indicate if you're stealth or not. For example, the window covers or condensation. Really great conversation in this video, lulu.

@lovematters7122 Ай бұрын

But one thing I wouldn't want are those who may want to talk to, visit, or even stalk KZfaq influencers!🤔

@1BibiVanGo Ай бұрын

My thoughts and concerns exactly. There are some crazies out in KZfaq land. Just look at the amount of trolls that are pesky and annoying!

@terizumbusch8408 Ай бұрын

Fun conversation i've enjoyed it . I verse up on my windows or put my curtain up.Because I like it dark inside.I don't want all the light in the morning.I want it dark so that's why I do it.. And it gives you some additional privacy ever see and like she said they don't know who's in there and that's a big deal. I'm a 70 four-year-old lady in Portland and I like Going Out camping but I always make sure I feel safe and not.All by myself.❤

@maryjomccallister9102 Ай бұрын

Thanks to KZfaq, stealth is over. I can drive by a vehicle and tell quickly whether or not they are full timers or car campers. As Jan said, window covers, condensation, and/or solar panels are dead giveaways. Roof top boxes are for travelers so they are another sign. Put your Lulu's Way stickers on your van with a Smith and Wesson sticker underneath it. 😉 Put the little silouhette of a Rottweiler or German Shepard and love my pup on there. Set a big dog water bowl outside the van.