TOBIN & CHRISTEN TALK ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIP FIRST TIME EVER! WHAT IS TOBIN'S SEVEN YEAR CONTRACT?

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Timestamps
0:00 - 0:30 We got the giggles! New Christen and Tobin interview was amazing!
0:30 Tobin and Christen were on Abby Wambach and Glennon Doyle’s podcast. Talked for an hour about their relationship
0:52 Over the last 9-10 years of the Preath fandom who knew this interview would ever happen
1:15 After all these years they give insight into their relationship after all these years. Hour Long
1:36 Touched on a lot of things. Love, privacy, queerness, Christen doesn't watch sports. SO many things
2:07 Christen had been on by herself a year ago. Christen loves Glennon.
2:29 First thing we are going to talk about is why Christen and Tobin decided to be so private for so many years.
2:51 Glennon asks a question from her podcast about privacy (we play the clips)
5:07 Christen answers the question. About what sacred means (clip from the podcast)
7:44 Back to Sarah and I. WOW. So many things were answered. Being an out couple never seemed to be their path. Their relationship is very sacred
8:22 There are many ways to be a queer/public relationship
9:09 Megan Rapinoe and Tobin and Christen are all valid relationships
10:03 Tobin Speaks on the choice to be private (clip from podcast)
11:55 Tobin Doesn't do her relationship to be known. She does it because she CRAZY in love!!
11:15 Tobin is giving us the FEELINGS!!! Very special!
11:47 It’s ok to be public or private
12:13 Once you give things what do you have for yourself. Being famous must be tricky at times
12:46 Then they talk about not wanting to monetize their relationship
12:47 Then we read from the Interview. About being in an public relationship.
13:22 Nothing more important than being in love. Not money
13:40 No shade its just them! Why they have been so private. Makes sense
14:20 After all these years! It’s really awesome to hear about there thoughts
14:38 Glennon asked about Tobin and Christen’s friends’ public relationship
14:51 Christen doesn't want the judgment from the world
15:14 how they made the decision to be private
15:45 Tobin's words to Christen about relationships
16:06 Everyday Tobin wakes up and chooses to love Christen - So cute!!!
16:41 We talk about how cute it was for Tobin to say that to christen
17:07 Tobin's seven year contract? Glennon asks her about it (clip from podcast)
18:33 Tobin talks about Freedom
19:17 Tobin gets back to the Contract part
19:36 Some people online were confused by the contract. But they liked it
19:57 Being married for life can be overwhelming. Takes the "love" out of it in a way. Choosing to love.
20:31 can't get boring
20:48 Commitment is a choice
21:27 I love this idea! With kids could be different
21:50 Tobin wants everything to purposeful?
22:22 We may do another video on this!! Love hearing about their relationship!
23:28 Christen likes to do things she’s good at. Not things she acutally likes
23:56 She CHOOSES TOBIN! The only innate thing she has ever chosen!
24:40 Their relationship is sacred!
24:50 Pandora box idea. Once it’s out it’s out
25:40 PREATH FANS FROM 2015! This is wild after all these years!
Link for in the interview/podcast wecandohardthingspodcast.com/

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@michaelbirch5270 4 ай бұрын

Tobin & Christen are the gold standard for athlete couples, regardless of orientation, who want to have a close relationship privately. Not easy for the social media generation, who can't even soft-launch new relationships without getting their privacy invaded. Also... Glennon Doyle sounds so much like Sarah, I was confused for a bit while she was interviewing T&C. 😂

@kaitlyndennis8722 4 ай бұрын

When I first heard some of the clips from the interview I thought it was Sarah and was very confused as well 😂

@babyelephant260907 4 ай бұрын

There are some couples who are great together. But I believe that these two were made for each other i.e. the Universe conspired to bring them together. I also love that they’re so private and discreet. It shows people that there are many different, equally valid and beautiful ways to conduct relationships in the queer community.

@anacarranzagzz5430 4 ай бұрын

Preath has been real all this time, and we've known it. I love them. They are my absolutely favs in the entire woso... what they want to share with us is perfect. As fans, we need to protect and respect them. The fact that they're public figures doesn't mean they have to share their entire life.

@isidrogonzalez8530 4 ай бұрын

It seems those of us who always hoped Preath was real, but didn't know for sure, simply hoped that it was the worst kept secret ever. We hoped because being public figures is hard and love is hard, so we wanted them to have each other. But that's the point. They weren't trying to keep their relationship a secret: they wanted to keep it private. They didn't have to say anything, so the bonus for us is to see how two thoughtful people work at happiness within their relationship. Thank you for the summary! Great stuff.

@helenharris9698 4 ай бұрын

Yesterday I listened to your show on Tobin and Christen. To me, they live in a Zen moment. I trust because of this, they'll be together for a long time. When I think of them, I constantly focus, and have flashbacks of how they look at each other. One can literally see and feel their love. It's real... folks.❤ Ladies, thanks for your coverage.

@lassam333 4 ай бұрын

I listened to the episodeas soon as it came out. I love "We can do hard things", and I was obsessed by this double date. So awesome how Chtisten and Tobin opened up on their relationship, soccer as well as their business. Christen and Tobin are such an amazing and intentional couple!

@sallychugg7887 4 ай бұрын

The way they keep things private the love they have is priceless was a great pod take care

@angelah1151 4 ай бұрын

Me ha encantado la entrevista, hace años qué sigo a la pareja Tobin Kristen y siempre he pensado el ejemplo de privacidad en su relación era especial. ❤❤

@RicardoRodriguez-wh1qd 4 ай бұрын

The storyline is amazing, I am so happy to see that they can talk about this. They have always been my favorite couple. I just love these two beautiful, talented ladies.

@susanwieland108 4 ай бұрын

I always come back to what I've done with my relationships. When I was in my 20s I had to be careful because, I could've been fired, we could've been denied housing, or barred from seeing my partner in the hospital. Life actually got easier, but I still wasn't comfortable with standing on a soapbox and saying "we are a couple". By the time I met my current partner of almost 30 years, I was pretty open at work in that I talked about her as I would have talked about a member of my family that I lived with. It got to the point where, if they didn't know I was gay, they just weren't paying attention.

@krisjohnson-proctor355 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for this! I’ve sent it to my sisters, and a friend…you unpicked it all for me beautifully, thank you 😘 x

@alansmithee8831 4 ай бұрын

Hello Sarah and Sara. I watched and commented on their channel at the time of the World Cup. Good luck to them for wanting to pursue business ideas rather than just earning from celebrity. Their relationship is what they make it, but it is interesting that they seem to me quite different characters but they are a team. I did feel they were very into how the US team used to win in large part by athleticism, but that they were still focused on that, which to me will need to be something developed in players with the best skill, tactical awareness and ability to read the game rather than trying to teach that to athletes going forward, for US not to fall behind countries with longer football traditions and commented that they could look at encouraging investment to take young US talent overseas to develop and bring back that experience. I gave the example of how English male football has learned from Spain in recent years.

@ayandammabatho6903 4 ай бұрын

I Love them and they idea is amazing. love u guys

@loupelizzo2399 4 ай бұрын

I enjoyed this video so much and getting to know Tobin and Christen better and how they see their life so interesting. Thank you so much for sharing this video and judgement I feel nobody likes

@queenboss7 4 ай бұрын

I was never a Preath stan, some people be crazy, but I've thought they're a cute couple and happy they're still together. If people wanna be public and open, that's their choice, but privacy is also good and fans should respect it.

@dotdotscottschott7529 4 ай бұрын

I would absolutely love to have the relationship my parents had there were always very loving kind and gentle with one another and we're not afraid to show their love in front of us kids unfortunately it was clear that they would never understand My Kind of Love

@canuckgirl1624 4 ай бұрын

Christen: (nervous voice) Tobin: YOU’RE WELCOME!!!

@rasclotify 4 ай бұрын

I dunno if I totally agree with angle of this stance they're communicating, or rather I see it as a reflection of progress in society. I'm in my late 40's, I grew up with no Queer role models other than the Indigo Girls (yes, it was rough). We were desperate for models of Queerness in Pop culture and thus spent a lot of time doing identity work while are heterosexual peers didn't have to explore who they were in the same sense. We Watched A LOT of bad movies we were so desperate. Preath is a bit younger than I, & I actually see their position being one of privilege to an extent, as they are reaping the benefits of all the hard work we put in, paving the way for them to be PRIVATE famous ppl in the way they're describing. I do on some level get that privacy is sacred but fame & spotlight are a privilege & in my generation LGBTQIA+ ppl couldn't help but be political because we didn't have the same rights or validation as straight ppl, so much so that when Queer ppl on the rare occasion reached such fame public status they felt a near obligation to represent because so few of us were allowed through that door. So, I think it's a little more complicated than they're making it out to be. They didn't choose to be closeted for sake of safety like we often had to in past generations, they chose to keep it on the down low for selfish reasons (not selfish in the traditional sense of the word but more so "protective" for personal love reasons, like I wanna keep that little something close to my heart). You can be out, but the PROUD part is where personal definition gets more nuanced. We also don't know how "out" they were in their private lives, did they attend Pride marches? Go to gay bars? Public holding hands? etc. I mean, in the public eye they kept it more like a traditional "Boston Marriage" (young ins look it up) but I think being Queer Role Models just wasn't their gig. Maybe it's not for everyone? I think the beauty of the Gay Liberation movement is we paved the way for ppl not to be publicly out in the media but still be "out" like straight heteronormative ppl get to experience, they don't have to talk about it or "come out" officially, they just walk down the dang red carpet holding hands & it's given & even no big deal we all know y'all are together. That's the progress to an extent that we were fighting for. So, yr welcome Preath.

@souixds 4 ай бұрын

Can you share the link to the interview?

@SaraSarah 4 ай бұрын

I think this should work wecandohardthingspodcast.com/ I will put it in the description as well!

@littlecat9413 4 ай бұрын

I watch FA CUP now.. No mewis so come to watch your frist🎉

@13vshasta 4 ай бұрын

All I got out of this interview is that I might have a shot with Press after 7 years. 😅

@nmikloiche 4 ай бұрын

I know this is going to be an unpopular point of view. I really wanted to love it, but it just fell very short for me. Why? I felt very much like major ground rules (topic boundaries) were established in advance and any hope for discussions with deeply introspection was dashed. We’ve waited nearly a decade to hear from them as a couple, so this felt like they were cracking the door open slightly and sticking a toe in the water. So, in that vein, I wish they didn’t do the podcast at all. They could have maybe waited longer until they felt they could be more open, vulnerable, and have a deeper, more meaningful conversation; or maybe went on the record using a different medium; or just keep it as is with no intentions to speak publically. Glennon’s podcast is usually so deep, that this felt rather empty. Lastly, I felt Tobin was doing this against her will - I just got the vibe that Christen was way more into it and because of this, Tobin came off as odd and unlikable.

@alisamarotta2352 4 ай бұрын

I actually feel I/we don't know Tobin as much by design but was rather interesting to get to know her and her mind then their WC podcast. Don't think it will change.😊

@TessaCoughlin-rt2ye 4 ай бұрын

I think this a very healthy way of not just looking at things but also navigating through life itself. Just because so many people are doing it this or that way doesn't mean it will work for you. Then them choosing to it there way is not just beautiful and brave but almost an act of defiance. Saying to the world this is how we live and if you don't like it, fuck off

@LaurenB20z 4 ай бұрын

Omg, Sam Mewis is retiring from soccer 😭😭😭

@SaraSarah 4 ай бұрын

LITERALLY CAN"T HANDLE IT!! SOO SAD!! Her Career ended too early. Gutted. She is so loved.

@vrhernandez6 4 ай бұрын

I think all Geminis should have a seven year contract!

@k.okeefe3125 4 ай бұрын

I still don't know why they couldn't acknowledge their relationship publicly and then remain private. And that has nothing to do with being queer or straight. No, they don't have to "in your face like Pinoe" and not right away. But I do find it weird that they just didn't acknowledge their relationship - that it exists.

@Argento323 4 ай бұрын

Because they didn't want to and that is good enough reason.

@k.okeefe3125 4 ай бұрын

@@Argento323 Good grief. Of course they can do whatever they want to do but people can have opinions about it.

@kapowjam3462 4 ай бұрын

I don't really follow famous people, it's just not my vibe, but I am interested in hearing what's going on time to time in woso so obviously I watch Sara & Sarah. I did really like everything but I'm just so hung up on Christen not watching sports. Do we know why she's 23? I always assumed it was a Michael Jordan thing. I mean national team sometimes the players have different numbers than club since club you can pick any number 1-99 but Christen has picked 23 consistently. But maybe it's more a reflection that I like basketball that I thought this at all 😅

@IngridAndDjuna 4 ай бұрын

We get a kick out of your videos, but couldn’t watch this one. G&A are too much.

@falcotol9299 3 ай бұрын

Please mind your own business. Tell about yourself.

@danaleestephens1686 4 ай бұрын

I m sorry I just can’t stand your voice as much as I love soccer it just turns me off! I will keep watching but I’m not a super fan and I know people are going to say don’t like don’t watch! That’s fair just being honest!

@nmikloiche 4 ай бұрын

Don’t confuse honesty with stupidity.