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Roy Den Hollander | Homicidal Anti-Feminist Lawyer?

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Dr. Todd Grande

Dr. Todd Grande

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@natalielawyerchick
@natalielawyerchick 3 жыл бұрын
When you said “they separated after 9 months” I cracked up
@violetsmith6579
@violetsmith6579 3 жыл бұрын
Fancy seeing you here Natalie, love your videos!!!
@monicawylie3985
@monicawylie3985 2 жыл бұрын
Me, too
@lisamcdonald2877
@lisamcdonald2877 2 жыл бұрын
His wife transcended right out of there.
@myusernamerocks3
@myusernamerocks3 2 жыл бұрын
Long enough to get American citizenship, and then she was out the door.
@BlackjackArmyCaptain
@BlackjackArmyCaptain 29 күн бұрын
love that green card
@CBrown86
@CBrown86 3 жыл бұрын
“It’s just a little book” You are too humble Dr G! Congratulations on your book being published!!!
@julio-iz3sk
@julio-iz3sk 3 жыл бұрын
what Book?
@pelo_chiclede_fresa7238
@pelo_chiclede_fresa7238 3 жыл бұрын
@@julio-iz3sk check on Amazon, it's called "The psychology of notorious serial killers" by the one and only Todd Grande Phd.
@codyehret8168
@codyehret8168 3 жыл бұрын
Ya, congrats Dr. Grande!
@stevenkelby2169
@stevenkelby2169 3 жыл бұрын
I like how he glanced at the cover, as if to check, before telling us the name of the book.
@Oldndazed
@Oldndazed 3 жыл бұрын
I’m literally pausing to buy it
@maureeningleston1501
@maureeningleston1501 3 жыл бұрын
A big "HIP HIP HOORAY" for our dear Dr Grandes book success.
@dj-dq4lr
@dj-dq4lr 3 жыл бұрын
What book????
@maureeningleston1501
@maureeningleston1501 3 жыл бұрын
@@dj-dq4lr He actually has 2 books coming out he tells you about them at the end of the video, ones about "serial killers" :) I have to have it.
@archiebunkers7881
@archiebunkers7881 3 жыл бұрын
@@maureeningleston1501 that sounds awesome
@unabO0mer
@unabO0mer Жыл бұрын
I need to remember to check out the book!! I desperately want to see how his unique and clear communication style translates to a novel work of fiction Edit: *books plural
@Jess-jt4zf
@Jess-jt4zf 3 жыл бұрын
Huh, I was just thinking about this... I read his ex-wife's diary and letters (that he published) a while ago and it was heartbreaking... One thing that I won't ever forget is her writing to him, "Don't forget I have a rich inner world, try to imagine what it's like (inside of it)" or something similar... It's so sad, he could never understand that women have an inner world, he viewed them as objects.
@lilrabbitcuz
@lilrabbitcuz 3 жыл бұрын
Huh wtf does that mean?
@joankennes3230
@joankennes3230 3 жыл бұрын
Not just women: people in general are just commodities for a narcissist.
@DonnaBrooks
@DonnaBrooks 3 жыл бұрын
@@joankennes3230 Yeah, but there is a difference. I doubt there are many male narcissists who forcibly kiss other men. I know there are men who have had experiences w/ other men who violated their personal boundaries with everything from sexual harassment to rape. I just don't know if men experience the feeling that another man thinks he's ENTITLED to their bodies the way women are too often treated by men who think they are entitled to women's bodies.
@joankennes3230
@joankennes3230 3 жыл бұрын
Well, there is a specific dynamic in a male-female interaction that can have that vibe in a particular way, that, I believe, does not exist in the same way in most male-male interaction. Though I can never know for sure, not being a man. And, even though I consider myself to be an empath, even talking about it with men at length, I still would not fully grasp how it feels like for them. As I, to be honest, can never totally appreciate what another woman feels... even though that feels more accessible to me. Men in general do not realise, for instance, of how aware women are, by nature, of danger, because we are mostly estrogen based creatures and they are not. Testosteron does things to how you perceive things and how you react to them, as does estrogen, that are totally different. I would like to refer to The Male Brain and The Female Brain by Dr. Louann Brizendine and to Alison Armstrong. And everybody has a different balance of these hormones, so it's not even a gender based thing and very individual. But does it really matter? I believe men can endure such entitlement in a different, but no less hurtful and harmful way, just because they are men! Pain can never be a contest, it is an individual experience. Your pain can never be smaller or less significant than mine, even if your experience might seem so to me: your pain is yours and should be acknowledged as is. Any man's pain deserves the same acknowledgement.
@jaimeduncan6167
@jaimeduncan6167 3 жыл бұрын
​@@DonnaBrooks I new one at a job that believed that one guy was gay (all software engineers ) and he harassed him relentlessly just for the shake of it. In one occasion he pinned him in the elevator and push his body on him (I was not present but after the fact the narcissist was telling everybody and the victim did not negate the events). I told the victim to go to RH but he refused, citing a bunch of macho reasons. Kissing and sex are not the only issues, getting beating by a narcissist with a sensitive ego can be equally destructive or worse.
@toniemorrison4263
@toniemorrison4263 3 жыл бұрын
I'm screaming. 🤣The intimacy was transcendental but they broke up nine months later? And Dr. Grande's dry, "I guess he had some strong feelings there," made it even better.
@JonniD
@JonniD 3 жыл бұрын
Same. I choked on my Mountain Dew laughing, lol.
@cereneryilmaz6715
@cereneryilmaz6715 3 жыл бұрын
Ahahaha i laughed so hard
@pierrepence9876
@pierrepence9876 3 жыл бұрын
Fifty-one year old dork getting lucky with a hot 23 year old Russian chick? 'Course he said it was transcendental!
@5daboz
@5daboz 3 жыл бұрын
Just a shoutout, relationships in Russia more than anywhere in the world often end up in death of a woman, so ... watch "Embracing Tyranny to own the Libs" and prevent your country from going down the same road I guess x)
@derstoffausdemderjoghurtis
@derstoffausdemderjoghurtis 3 жыл бұрын
She probably had an affair
@BigZebraCom
@BigZebraCom 3 жыл бұрын
Just a reminder I'm not diagnosing anybody; only speculating what could be happening with a homicidal anti-feminist lawyer like this.
@monicalange4226
@monicalange4226 3 жыл бұрын
I love this too.
@heyho7506
@heyho7506 2 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA
@lauracrosby4324
@lauracrosby4324 Жыл бұрын
LoL rolling here
@angiedixon8017
@angiedixon8017 3 жыл бұрын
I often wonder if it is a surprise to Dr Grande, that he has ended up making a living being a popular, well loved KZfaqr.
@emanuelaemanuela
@emanuelaemanuela 3 жыл бұрын
You are so humble, you wrote a book and another one is coming? Congratulations, dear Dr. Grande, heading to Amazon right now!!
@emanuelaemanuela
@emanuelaemanuela 3 жыл бұрын
@Phuk Youu I live in Germany and adore Dr. Grande, this is your business because? Lol
@emanuelaemanuela
@emanuelaemanuela 3 жыл бұрын
@Phuk Youu but thank you, apparently my English is not that bad since I am not a native speaker :D
@emanuelaemanuela
@emanuelaemanuela 3 жыл бұрын
@Phuk Youu he has almost 700k subscribers, he doesn't need anyone to write comments for him. People like him and his work, what is wrong with you? Seriously, how can anyone write a comment like this?
@emanuelaemanuela
@emanuelaemanuela 3 жыл бұрын
@Phuk Youu ah, a completely empty fake account. Forget it.
@arleneshanley9889
@arleneshanley9889 3 жыл бұрын
Right?? I didn't know !
@barquerojuancarlos7253
@barquerojuancarlos7253 3 жыл бұрын
"A cautionary tale when a narcissist gains any kind of legitimacy or power" - should be the subtitle of this video
@derstoffausdemderjoghurtis
@derstoffausdemderjoghurtis 3 жыл бұрын
Sadly we have a lot of structures in institutions that facilitate narcissist to flourish in their disorder.
@Seltkirk-ABC
@Seltkirk-ABC 3 жыл бұрын
@Pojka ding ding ding!
@qei431.
@qei431. 2 жыл бұрын
@F.W. we're all a little narcissistic
@crongusclips7836
@crongusclips7836 2 жыл бұрын
@@qei431. yea I get the vibe sometimes that people really don’t get that everyone’s a little narcissistic sometimes. It feels like people think that just because they don’t fit the diagnosis for the personality disorder that they would never do anything that’s selfish
@danielsorenson6981
@danielsorenson6981 6 ай бұрын
Like the Democrat party
@dub2536
@dub2536 3 жыл бұрын
"....bringing misery to others as an attempt to bring glory to himself.... " This world has too many like this regrettably!
@oOIIIMIIIOo
@oOIIIMIIIOo 2 жыл бұрын
Is there ever a reason beside self defense?
@Hhe448
@Hhe448 2 жыл бұрын
@@fatherscarecourtsdont1389 never seen a more truthful statement on the internet.
@Hhe448
@Hhe448 Жыл бұрын
@@fatherscarecourtsdont1389 I’m not reading that. Learn how to type correctly.
@sandydee8003
@sandydee8003 3 жыл бұрын
Dr Grande, Your analogy was so well done.I appreciate you calling out his constant attempts to blame others for his selfish behavior. Thank you Dr Grande for working so hard for us.
@maureeningleston1501
@maureeningleston1501 3 жыл бұрын
I can honestly say I have never been disappointed by any of the videos Dr Grande posts, this was another great one, I had never heard of this story and BTW I have to get that book it sounds as if it's right up my street.
@Ugly_on_the_Inside
@Ugly_on_the_Inside 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats on the book release Doc! Putting this one on my Christmas list
@ChristinePerez903
@ChristinePerez903 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats on your book Dr Grande!!! This is such sad case. Mark and Daniel were killed for no reason. Great video Dr Grande!!
@lidahall5928
@lidahall5928 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sure he did think that killing the judge's husband and child would bring her the most pain.
@vinsonmccants1128
@vinsonmccants1128 3 жыл бұрын
"So he had some strong feelings there, I guess! They separated after nine months!" Funniest thing I've heard all week! Great video, Dr. Grande!
@kevinross6235
@kevinross6235 3 жыл бұрын
Have to appreciate the delivery
@vinsonmccants1128
@vinsonmccants1128 3 жыл бұрын
@@kevinross6235 Right!?!? It was classic!
@redshiftexperiment
@redshiftexperiment 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah this was pure gold!!
@beeimaginative
@beeimaginative 3 жыл бұрын
Writing books, developing a very successful KZfaq channel, teaching. You must tell us what you do to relax when you achieve 700K subscribers. The hardest working psychologist around.
@lookingglass108
@lookingglass108 3 жыл бұрын
Great suggestion for a 700K sub video.
@HumanimalChannel
@HumanimalChannel 3 жыл бұрын
I think we Grande is a doctor of counselling? Not sure tho... :)
@joankennes3230
@joankennes3230 3 жыл бұрын
@@HumanimalChannel counselor and supervisor. He said so several times. Not sure if he is still actively seeing (many) clients at this time, though.
@HumanimalChannel
@HumanimalChannel 3 жыл бұрын
@@joankennes3230 yes. Not psychologist
@beeimaginative
@beeimaginative 3 жыл бұрын
@@HumanimalChannel I am not sure either
@jayuhoo4806
@jayuhoo4806 3 жыл бұрын
To all homicidal maniacs who later plan to take their own life, please do the latter first. Thank you
@a.i.chatbotspeaks
@a.i.chatbotspeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr. Grande, thanks for the speculating on Anna Sorokin. How about doing one on R. Budd Dwyer, the Pennsylvania councilman who committed suicide in a live meeting, though the story goes, he more than likely would not have went to jail. Gotta add the correlation to the movie, "Network - I'm mad as hell, and I'm not going to take it anymore!"
@JoeinSeattle.
@JoeinSeattle. 3 жыл бұрын
That’s a great idea 👍👍
@littleredwitch
@littleredwitch 3 жыл бұрын
“Gone”... wouldn’t have “gone” to jail.
@roxannemoser
@roxannemoser 3 жыл бұрын
From what I read about Dwyer, he was facing a hefty sentence. I also read that sadly, evidence came out that he was in fact innocent. I remember seeing the video of his suicide. It really gave me nightmares for a very long time.
@stevencoardvenice
@stevencoardvenice 3 жыл бұрын
Hey man! Nice Shot!
@francesbernard2445
@francesbernard2445 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on publishing your first book!
@maureeningleston1501
@maureeningleston1501 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for him, I'm sure all his subscribers will buy a copy.
@martineldritch
@martineldritch 3 жыл бұрын
@@maureeningleston1501 Except for us broke ones, but I have hope because the city libraries are soon to reopen :-)
@maureeningleston1501
@maureeningleston1501 3 жыл бұрын
@@martineldritch Yeah !!! I must admit I"m broke too, but I know if I put on my petted lip act, my daughter will treat me. :-)
@sherunswithscissors
@sherunswithscissors 3 жыл бұрын
@@martineldritch - Hope your library opens soon. My own has been the only thing to get me through this.
@creepmike77
@creepmike77 3 жыл бұрын
I remember Opie and Anthony really gave this guy a trashing because he wanted to sue bars because they have ladies night and he thought that was sexist... I remember Jim Norton made fun of him because he took a hip hop dance class to try to meet women. He wanted to duel with guns down in south America and kill Norton for making fun of him. You can find the audio on KZfaq here.
@mlane120
@mlane120 3 жыл бұрын
I remember that! He said Peru turned a blind eye to dueling.
@CesarClouds
@CesarClouds 3 жыл бұрын
Darn, the last time I heard of a real life duel was in Mexico a few years back, both men had been drinking tequila.
@littleredwitch
@littleredwitch 3 жыл бұрын
@@CesarClouds yep. Tequila does that to you.😂
@CesarClouds
@CesarClouds 3 жыл бұрын
@@littleredwitch Lol
@olgapavlova585
@olgapavlova585 3 жыл бұрын
I think feminism means something different in USA than Europe, as in Europe it only means fighting abuse and subjugation of women. Such as women didn't have as many rights and were less represented in their own country. It wasn't until recently women had the right to not be raped by her husband. In USA it seems to be an insult by men who hate women, who spend their time searching out examples of idiots who talk nonsense to say all women who fight against abuse are like that. Funny how they spend to much time online whinging against women, filling comment sections no matter what the subject as an excuse to whine on against feminists and saying what women should want, but no woman finds an abusive misogynist who feels threatened by women who have rights against them to be a turn on. I also think men and women dislike each other more in the USA than Europe as USA women tell men they're disgusting if not cir'cised and some men who had that done develop issues, such as less sensitivity, which they try to take out on women.
@helpyourcattodrive
@helpyourcattodrive 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats on your book! How exciting.
@Estelle-Maureen
@Estelle-Maureen 3 жыл бұрын
CONGRATULATIONS on getting your book published Dr. Grande!!! Whoop Whoop!!!
@nuttyfruitloaf
@nuttyfruitloaf 2 жыл бұрын
I love it when you plug your books. You looking at it to read the title made me really happy. Thank you for the endless hours of entertainment and your help in learning how to do clinical interviews! Go Dr. G!
@branman399
@branman399 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Dr. Grande, I was wondering if you could do a video on 5150 Psychiatric Holds and similar holds, and their efficacy. I work as an EMT and transport many such patients. Many I understand it is for the best, but others I can’t help but think it is a traumatizing experience. I would really like to hear your perspective on this. Thanks!
@roxannemoser
@roxannemoser 3 жыл бұрын
My sister in law, living in my home, suffers from severe depression. She only gets out of bed to use the bathroom. She showers maybe once a month, if that. My brother serves her meals in bed. It's getting under my skin. They live in my home because my brother is legally blind. He can see enough to get a plate to her. When she's finished eating, she places her plate on the floor beside the bed and there it stays until I pick it up. I'm so frustrated, and have actually thought about a 5150 for her. I just don't know what to do.
@Sforeczka
@Sforeczka 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you've put out a book! You have a rich vein to mine for the next ones.
@enlighenme11
@enlighenme11 3 жыл бұрын
"Sometimes being controversial is all that's required to be on television" - Yes, I've noticed that even more lately!
@normynbaits1135
@normynbaits1135 3 жыл бұрын
"Meet the Spartans" Haha. I thought for sure that he was about to say, "22 Jumpstreet."😂
@carag2567
@carag2567 3 жыл бұрын
I was cackling at that!
@dasik84
@dasik84 3 жыл бұрын
22nd Jump Street was hilarious. :)
@DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT
@DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT 3 жыл бұрын
The subject of today's video describing the experience of a 51 year-old man having sex with a beautiful 23 year-old woman in a relationship which lasted a whole nine months: "...a transcendental relationship from another part of the universe that erases aloneness!" I'll bet he wrote some great poetry when he was in high school!
@dortesandal4303
@dortesandal4303 2 жыл бұрын
Ofcause, way back when he did not have sex in another part of the universe - you know what I mean😂😂😂
@Spudawg
@Spudawg 3 жыл бұрын
I've binged most of your channel in half a week. I absolutely love how you make all this stuff understandable to the lay (ley?) Person like me. Also your dry humor and witt thrown is makes me laugh out loud. Can't get enough of this stuff!
@icturner23
@icturner23 3 жыл бұрын
Lay.
@teresa9419
@teresa9419 3 жыл бұрын
He's definitely awesome! 👍😃
@sreddy250
@sreddy250 3 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to see this! I've wished Dr.Grande would cover this! I think I'm becoming addicted to this channel! ❤
@nikkioshea4139
@nikkioshea4139 3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy and respect your analysis of cases.
@LaceyAnn
@LaceyAnn 3 жыл бұрын
Looks like I've got a new book to buy! Already looking forward to the next one and I haven't even ordered the first yet. Your comment about his 9mo relationship sent me flying into laughter despite how disturbing this man's story is and the things he believed. I feel like I can learn about these things without walking away with that awful burning feeling in my chest that screams at me to be sad and angry. I gain understanding watching as opposed to gaining fear and anger. That's really something else. Thanks so much Dr. Grande 🖖🙂
@LaceyAnn
@LaceyAnn 3 жыл бұрын
Oh cute, looks like I'll get it one day after my birthday 😊🙌
@Cello-Pam
@Cello-Pam 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats on the book, Dr G!!
@CherylB.
@CherylB. 3 жыл бұрын
I like how in the introduction of your book, you give us the story of how and why you chose profiling. Congratulations! :)
@robotaholic
@robotaholic 3 жыл бұрын
He was such a freaking weirdo! I loved your analysis, Dr. Grande. You will some day become legendary just like Bob the painter. And I'm gonna brag to everyone I was with you before it was cool 😆 😂🤣
@DenaDeniseRush
@DenaDeniseRush 3 жыл бұрын
You are right! I can see that too. 😍
@simonbelmont5801
@simonbelmont5801 3 жыл бұрын
@ozymandias nero nulifidian Bob Ross, I imagine. The "Happy Little Trees" guy. :)
@HermunthrudaWaldheim
@HermunthrudaWaldheim 3 жыл бұрын
I am so impressed by your productivity, Dr. G.! A new Video nearly every day and each based on through research and exellently delivered! Thanks a lot for your work and effort! Over here in Germany, I do really appreciate it. Be blessed and stay healthy!
@ericcastaneda7514
@ericcastaneda7514 2 жыл бұрын
Discovered this channel about a month ago and it's become one of my favorites with his analysis and especially his dry sense of humor 😄 .
@CookingbyCampsite
@CookingbyCampsite 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on the publishing of your book, Dr. Grande! I’ve been looking forward to this.
@playboicatie
@playboicatie 3 жыл бұрын
Just bought the book! So excited to read it!
@smadude48
@smadude48 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, doctor Grande! Thanks for your channel! It always brings me joy. Loyal viewer here. Keep on going. I was thinking of this topic for a video - how do Insight and mindfulness relate to narcissism? In a lot of presentations, I feel like narcissists claim to be highly mindful and insightful, but I’m interested as to what the actual relationship is between the two.
@ipsygypsy16
@ipsygypsy16 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your 'little book', Dr Grande. I'm sure it's going to be delightful, with your trademark humour amply sprinkled across.
@studiosandi
@studiosandi 3 жыл бұрын
I would love to see one of these shows talk about how so many men are angry that they can't get a woman who is out of their league. You have someone who doesn't take care of themselves and are old, fat and bald who thinks they deserve a 20 year old who goes to the gym daily and puts an incredible amount of effort into her looks.
@jaimeduncan6167
@jaimeduncan6167 3 жыл бұрын
I hate the entitlement, but I will love to see how you will react to a similar description of women, instead of the bald we can use some description of the saggy breasts etc. The dude problem was not that he was ugly, but that he was a narcissistic monster. The proof is from the victims, one was a MRA layer that died because he was more successful than him.
@sambibambi5409
@sambibambi5409 3 жыл бұрын
@Pojka call ur mom and apologize
@TheTam0613
@TheTam0613 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such an informative video, Dr. Grande! Huge congratulations on your book(s)!!! I'm definitely going to buy and read them!!!
@thereal4113
@thereal4113 3 жыл бұрын
The wife of 9 months probably changed her name and moved to avoid this psychopath. Great news about the book .Congratulations Dr. Grande 🪴🪴🪴🪴
@leonieromanes7265
@leonieromanes7265 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad she lived to tell the tale. It must of been horrible.
@joankennes3230
@joankennes3230 3 жыл бұрын
@@topsuperseven7910 jeez, you are jaded. Read the comment of Jëss????? below.
@1chienandalou
@1chienandalou 3 жыл бұрын
@@topsuperseven7910 you may be living a long life but be careful you don’t become one of those people who live the same year over and over again and try to sell it as wisdom because in this particular conversation I know for a fact that you don’t know what you’re talking about. It takes minimum 5 years to get a US citizenship. To even keep a green card the marriage should’ve lasted a minimum of 2 years. This woman, if she could stay in the US, would be staying illegally, and therefore there would be no recourse to support another person (since it’d need to be on a green card that she doesn’t have... can’t just getting US citizenship that easily, don’t believe everything you see on 90 day fiancé or wherever you get this information).
@Zei33
@Zei33 3 жыл бұрын
She probably noticed that he was incapable of forming emotional connections. No doubt he also always wanted it _his way_ too.
@Zei33
@Zei33 3 жыл бұрын
@@topsuperseven7910 literally in the video and the OP comment, it says they were married for 9 months. That means she couldn’t have achieved citizenship in any form.
@jenilynneful
@jenilynneful 3 жыл бұрын
I’m excited about your book!
@BrianStanton-oh2uh
@BrianStanton-oh2uh 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for explaining the narcissist’s view on their own death. Miss your videos about narcissism.
@Melinamiu007
@Melinamiu007 3 жыл бұрын
You look up “entitled” in the dictionary, I’m sure his photo would be there.
@splifstar85
@splifstar85 3 жыл бұрын
Something that he had in common with the feminists 🤷‍♂️🙈🤣
@Melinamiu007
@Melinamiu007 3 жыл бұрын
@@splifstar85
@splifstar85
@splifstar85 3 жыл бұрын
@@Melinamiu007 not surprising you think you are entitled to make baseless assumptions 🤷‍♂️🙈 P.s. I have absolutely no problem with women, respecting women or getting with women.. I just like pissing off feminists and lettering them expose their entitlement and stupidity 😏😘
@mewpertybewtox7887
@mewpertybewtox7887 3 жыл бұрын
@@splifstar85 you seem very angry about something
@splifstar85
@splifstar85 3 жыл бұрын
@@mewpertybewtox7887 you seem to be disingenuous 😏
@clairehawkins6325
@clairehawkins6325 3 жыл бұрын
Fantastic! Congratulations with the book. Looking forward to reading it. Thanks Dr Grande for working so hard and keeping us all glued to your videos and speculations. Always very interesting
@elizabethp2018
@elizabethp2018 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't even make it to the "they separated after nine months" part. It was the "some strong feelings there" that got me. The dry humor is an exquisite vintage. I'm sure these videos do well across the pond. Well done!
@danieladeutsch1708
@danieladeutsch1708 3 жыл бұрын
Dear doctor, you are unbelievable! You have your job, this channel, and you write books! Chapeau, my virtual friend. All my respect! XX
@SuperTehetehe
@SuperTehetehe 3 жыл бұрын
Pre ordered my book. Very excited to read it. Congrats on getting published. Very excited for what is ahead for you.
@maureeningleston1501
@maureeningleston1501 3 жыл бұрын
I have no idea who he is, but I know I will enjoy Dr Grandes "speculation".
@maureeningleston1501
@maureeningleston1501 3 жыл бұрын
@@thijsbergman2424 I think you're being way too polite, lol.
@maureeningleston1501
@maureeningleston1501 3 жыл бұрын
@@thijsbergman2424 Hahahahahahahahahahahaha. Thank you I needed a good laugh.
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 3 жыл бұрын
I didnt know either who he was. Still finishing his analysis 😊
@megja1812
@megja1812 3 жыл бұрын
It’s interesting hearing this. So he basically projected his personal experience into the whole world 🤪 and he calls us women crazy
@sliglusamelius8578
@sliglusamelius8578 3 жыл бұрын
People project onto the world their personal experiences. Feminists do this too. “Men are pigs”. I’ve heard that from feminist women a thousand times. Some men are pigs and they generalize that to all men. A man treated badly by women just might think that all women are bad. It’s how people analyze the world.
@joankennes3230
@joankennes3230 3 жыл бұрын
@@sliglusamelius8578 he wasn't anti-feminist, he was just anti. Anti women, people, world. As per Dr Grande's analysis: total narc and psychopath. Same goes for some people labeling themselves as feminist. Or religious this or that. Or race this or that. Or politics this or that. Etcetera. Projection in itself may come natural, for better or for worse, but growing up means you learn to question that reflex and consciously decide to differentiate. Oh yeah, and learn to be accountable for your own part in the events.
@sliglusamelius8578
@sliglusamelius8578 3 жыл бұрын
@@joankennes3230 I agree thanks.
@sliglusamelius8578
@sliglusamelius8578 3 жыл бұрын
@@joankennes3230 Typo: Project not protect lol. Stupid phones.
@michellemorris-jensen7668
@michellemorris-jensen7668 3 жыл бұрын
@@joankennes3230 very well said. To me people are people just trying to make sense of this world. If you think badly of things/people then eventually those things/people will become ‘bad’ to you. You develop a bias and if you don’t actually learn accountability for your own part in the world, control your own actions and thoughts, you’ll start to project, or emulate what you don’t like, be it anger, envy, intolerance, violence and never really understand that you could control it all by controlling(monitoring) your own reactions and actions to events and people in your life.
@serignesarr4898
@serignesarr4898 3 жыл бұрын
Great analysis I like watching your videos It helps to understand some behaviors around me and try to improve myself also 🙂 By the way I m also learning English which is not my native language Thx
@dawnfalvey6766
@dawnfalvey6766 3 жыл бұрын
Love this channel. Will definitely be getting your book and will also recommend it to friends. All these uploads AND a book - you spoil us. I don’t know where you find the time. Thanks for all the hard work. ❤️😁
@pelo_chiclede_fresa7238
@pelo_chiclede_fresa7238 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't even finished watching this video, but I've already bought the book and audiobook, just in case I go blind/deaf I can still enjoy it ❤
@katiev5213
@katiev5213 3 жыл бұрын
Cannot wait to get this book!
@montyburnz
@montyburnz 3 жыл бұрын
I went to college with Hollander's victim, the "rival" lawyer. An earnest, friendly, and passionate man was lost. While Hollander can rot, I did find the analysis of his twisted psyche interesting.
@kingkong8974
@kingkong8974 2 жыл бұрын
It's crazy how people can kill people
@kingkong8974
@kingkong8974 2 жыл бұрын
It's crazier that everyone is capable of it.
@lookingglass108
@lookingglass108 3 жыл бұрын
Wow Dr G, a new video every day. Do you ever take a day off? I’m looking forward to reading the new book. Congrats! 🌵
@kathleenreardon8943
@kathleenreardon8943 3 жыл бұрын
I am not at all surprised that a narcissist would resort to murder. I have on occasion, read comments from folks who say 'just ignore them, no one can bother you without your permission'. I have reacted very strongly to these comments. These people are dangerous when crossed and will figure out a way to hurt you from the grave if they are able to. They will walk over every boundary you set and grin while they do it. It took me awhile to understand that they do not think like normal people. So you have to understand their mindset and then get the hell out if you can. Great job Dr. Grande.
@sunnyjozani8421
@sunnyjozani8421 3 жыл бұрын
I just ordered your book and can't wait to read it. :)
@ren17x50
@ren17x50 3 жыл бұрын
There was a song out about a decade ago that describes him, "I'm a Pimp in my own Mind"
@SB-ou2ji
@SB-ou2ji 2 жыл бұрын
I just purchased your book, “The Psychology Of Notorious Serial Killers” on Audible ! I actually had looked for your book, “Harm Reduction” but didn’t find it there. Once I saw the end of this video when you talked about “The Psychology Of Notorious Serial Killers” I checked and found it! Woo! I’m excited to clean my house listening to it lol! Also,! You’re about to hit 1 mill!!!!!!!! BOOOOOOM!!!!!
@Dan-ud8hz
@Dan-ud8hz 3 жыл бұрын
"No one is more arrogant toward women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious about his virility." Simone de Beauvoir , The Second Sex
@canileaveitblank1476
@canileaveitblank1476 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@DIVAD291
@DIVAD291 3 жыл бұрын
It's funny because coming from a feminist im assuming this is meant to ridicule people that are anxious about their virility rather than an attempt to be understanding.
@Dan-ud8hz
@Dan-ud8hz 3 жыл бұрын
@@DIVAD291 It's an accurate description of murderous men who deserve to suffer much more than ridicule.
@sisuguillam5109
@sisuguillam5109 3 жыл бұрын
@@DIVAD291 it is not meant to ridicule - it's an observation.
@apachejano1872
@apachejano1872 2 ай бұрын
​@@DIVAD291 funny cause I bet you ridicule woman and or feminists who act a certain way towards men, than to understand why they view the world the way they do .. funny how we should all have understanding for all groups of people not just the ones that your views and beliefs say to support. sometimes people aren't ridiculing , they're just pointing out causes and effects..
@foundation13productions61
@foundation13productions61 3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande, congratulations on the book. Your work ethic is an inspiration. I was disappointed when I listened to the audiobook sample and it wasn’t you reading it. Doesn’t seem as enjoyable to listen to your words in someone else’s voice.
@EarlSmith2469
@EarlSmith2469 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Dr. Grande, for taking the time to write on an important issue in every society, the Psychology of Serial Killers. Your work has added another diamond into the treasury of knowledge and information available on important and socially relevant issues. Salud!
@ET_Bermuda
@ET_Bermuda 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Dr. Grande! Could you please do a video on "adult adoption"? Yep, it really exists & I think it'll someday be the next Tiger King phenomenon. Might as well get to talking about it now.
@legzfalloffgirl5148
@legzfalloffgirl5148 3 жыл бұрын
Adult adoption is a wonderful thing for people who create a chosen family. It can help create a support system and community
@joshuacarpenter4350
@joshuacarpenter4350 3 жыл бұрын
Tiger King?
@debbiec4530
@debbiec4530 3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow a book! I never saw that coming Dr. Grande!🤠💕Ps I’m not being facetious.
@Ina_5686
@Ina_5686 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this video, Dr. Grande. This hits close to home since I have a brother in the same level of narcissism as this guy. It's very hard. Dr. Grande I will be buying your book because I know I will be learning a lot. Great video as always!!!!
@EmGee410
@EmGee410 3 жыл бұрын
My analysis is simply: he was a freakin wing nut. Thank you.
@QueenOfTheNorth65
@QueenOfTheNorth65 3 жыл бұрын
Yes; a true Neanderthal.
@redram5150
@redram5150 3 жыл бұрын
The male equivalent to Gloria Allred
@leonieromanes7265
@leonieromanes7265 3 жыл бұрын
@@redram5150 lol okay boomer.😁
@Jessica-gy6kr
@Jessica-gy6kr 3 жыл бұрын
@@redram5150 🙄
@QueenOfTheNorth65
@QueenOfTheNorth65 3 жыл бұрын
@@redram5150 Last time I checked, Gloria never murdered anyone.
@facemuscles9
@facemuscles9 3 жыл бұрын
Im always sad when I hear stories like this. Of course for those killed and affected by the aggressor, but also for the man himself. He was imprisoned in his life and in his own twisted thinking. He never allowed himself an opportunity to achieve any of his more normal desires. He lived in his skewed perception and in a world full of threats. What a miserable existence!
@elizabethbathory6144
@elizabethbathory6144 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure that he could change? If he had narcissism/NPD, how would he know/care what other people are thinking/feeling or what is 'normal'?
@stt5v2002
@stt5v2002 3 жыл бұрын
His presidential preferences are a reasonable candidate for "least surprising thing in the world."
@jasonmichael3676
@jasonmichael3676 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah John Wayne Gacy is more the Democrat type. He was a Democrat precinct captain. He even had his photo taken with Jimmy Carter's wife...which she signed "To John Gacy. Best wishes. Rosalynn Carter."
@heyho7506
@heyho7506 2 жыл бұрын
The name of our favourite spray tan disaster ran through all our heads instantly. Dr Grande need not have expended energy naming him!
@jasonmichael3676
@jasonmichael3676 2 жыл бұрын
By the way, have you seen the mansion that the Obama's just bought in Martha's Vineyard? It is absolutely obscene how huge and lavish it is. Kinda surprising, since they just 2-3 years ago bought a Washington DC mansion and built a huge 15-foot-high wall around it.
@Ivan_BSGO
@Ivan_BSGO 2 жыл бұрын
He was kicked out of a men's rights forum as well (A Voice For Men if i remember right). For saying that violence is a valid option. They wouldn't put up with him after that. I'd love to see that list. The rejection started in childhood. A missing father who wanted him aborted and a mother who angrily regretted his birth. Sounds like she was a very abusive woman. Small wonder he grew to see the world as rejecting of him.
@autumnedwards4448
@autumnedwards4448 3 жыл бұрын
I am so excited your book is available!😍Thank you Dr Grande for your analysis! Definitely getting your book!💙💙
@josephcronkrite4530
@josephcronkrite4530 3 жыл бұрын
I love your episodes Dr. Grande. I'm wondering with the new charges of Josh Duggar, if you could do an analysis of him. Keep up the great work!!
@ultraviolet8792
@ultraviolet8792 3 жыл бұрын
Grande...if there were a disorder called " asshole personality disorder" what would it entail. What traits? And what existing disorder would in your opinion, best fit this title? I believe my husband may have it.
@Jaksi-a
@Jaksi-a 3 жыл бұрын
700k video coming up in 3.... 2.... 1.... About good soil types for your indoor plants.
@joankennes3230
@joankennes3230 3 жыл бұрын
Great idea! LOL!
@joan-lisa-smith
@joan-lisa-smith 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats on your books AND you're almost at 700,000k.
@CL-lo4wd
@CL-lo4wd 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for another thoroughly brilliant analysis peppered with your inimitable delivery. Such a horrible crime...
@mrooz9065
@mrooz9065 3 жыл бұрын
This man terrorized everybody around him fir a long time. . I will loose sleep just thinking about the judge who lost her son. Your analysis specially the point you made about narcissistic rage are spit on. At the end of this sad story you gave us the gift. Will it be just paper or there’s a chance for digital version?
@Ablackwindblows
@Ablackwindblows 3 жыл бұрын
He probably took a breath and asked, "What would Elliot Roger do?"
@Lindsey0007
@Lindsey0007 3 жыл бұрын
I love your analysis on narcissism in this case. It’s dead on accurate.
@TheInternalNarcissist
@TheInternalNarcissist 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your book Dr Grande. You’re a star! ⭐️
@Judsonberry
@Judsonberry 3 жыл бұрын
Please read it and publish on Audible so I can listen to it while working.
@TM-tx9ct
@TM-tx9ct 3 жыл бұрын
So important when looking at the narcissist, how they are treated by their parents. The main rejection is that of his mother, what we call today, child abuse. He seeks a mother's love in every woman and in his mind rejection by a woman is love. People who are hit by their parents or guardians will often find relationships with violent people and people who who have been mentally abused will often find partners who mentally abuse them. Stands to reason that those who have been rejected will find ways to continue the rejection. The only people who will get into a relationship with a narcissist are very kind and loving people, horrid people will not tolerate a narcissist.
@kitiyana
@kitiyana 3 жыл бұрын
Many congratulations on your books’ publication. I look forward to reading it.
@xandra3220
@xandra3220 3 жыл бұрын
Would love to see a review of Q Into the Storm and a profile of Ron Watkins.
@pattiodors8296
@pattiodors8296 3 жыл бұрын
Good evening Dr Grande. Thanks for today's video. Very antagonist and fear based visceral and anger, point scoring traits going on with this cat , Dr. Grande. Another wounded and rejected inner child, who carries it and nurtures it , the baggage weight with abandonment, rejection, and identity crisis resulting from not, developing the required self preservation, cognition "containment" skills, on his own victimology, resulting from his early growth traumas and, social shunning. So he was, self sabotaging in his adult years wasn't he Dr. Grande due to how much resentment he was, 🤔 harbouring. Moral of story. It's crucial to not let jealousy, bitterness and ridicule from childhood rejection and traumatic experiences, define ones adult years. Because that's the whole point of being an adult, isn't it ? To grow up. And choose to act like one, instead of acting , the vulnerable, hurt inner child. It's way too cliche, and cop out Dr Grande.
@lnc-to4ku
@lnc-to4ku 3 жыл бұрын
I have an important question, Dr. Grande.... Do you ever sleep? I continue to be in awe of your Incredible work ethic, and not just for 5 days a week, but 7!!🥇 And now we hear you've written a book too. I cannot Wait to read it, and I hope to collect several of your works in the future!! Congratulations, Dr. Grande!! 🌠
@vickikay25
@vickikay25 3 жыл бұрын
Doc, very excited to read your book! Congratulations. That is wonderful. As for this mess of a human being , if only he had turned the gun on himself first and went out a martyr.
@svalentina3075
@svalentina3075 3 жыл бұрын
I always suspected those FedEx delivery people were not to be trusted.
@purpleslurple5149
@purpleslurple5149 3 жыл бұрын
I was wondering why you didn't put your face on the cover of your book, and then I pictured it in my mind--your face, that title above it--and I realized why. 😆 Good call! 😉 And congratulations!
@shszady
@shszady 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Dr. G. I bought your book!. Can't wait tor receive it. I hope you get loads of orders. Best Wishes from a long time subscriber.
@Venomous_471
@Venomous_471 3 жыл бұрын
I just ordered your book , I'm excited, can't wait to read it. 🥰🥰 Congratulations on your book.
@theautisticside
@theautisticside 3 жыл бұрын
Bought the book because I love the subject, and I want to support Dr. G. Keep on keeping on.
@conorfitzmaurice8959
@conorfitzmaurice8959 3 жыл бұрын
Well done on the book. 👏👏👏
@arielle2745
@arielle2745 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your book, Dr. Grande!
@wildchild1542
@wildchild1542 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your book, Dr Grande! Thought you might be interested in the recent case from St Petersburg, Russia, where History assistant professor Sokolov killed and dismembered his student/lover and tried to get rid of the evidence. It’s a really bright example of a narcissist and an interesting one since all his career and life choices were documented and described thoroughly. Please consider it for analysis.
@Surai00
@Surai00 3 жыл бұрын
Another great video. I would still like to see Dr. Grande do a critical self analysis video. I would like to know more about our host here, I'm sure others would too!
@MariaPerez-dr4qz
@MariaPerez-dr4qz 3 жыл бұрын
Dr Grande, thank you for your always interesting videos. Would you comment on the Nanny murders in NYC a few years ago. Yoselyn Ortega is her name. Thank you.
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