How Your Personality Can Sabotage Your Success | Eric Barker on Impact Theory

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Tom Bilyeu

Tom Bilyeu

7 жыл бұрын

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Eric Barker is redefining the rules of success. Leaving behind an illustrious career as a screenwriter for Disney and Fox, Eric turned his passion for fact-finding into one of the most popular blogs on the Internet. His insatiable curiosity drives him to question everything and, in turn, publish science-based insights that reveal real and usable secrets to success. He’s spoken on prestigious institutions like West Point, Yale and MIT and his work has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Time magazine, and Business Insider. Watch Eric Barker explain why everything you know about success is (mostly) wrong in this jam-packed episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu.
PULL QUOTES
“Peer pressure affects us our entire lives. We are always influenced by our context and by the people around us. The biggest danger is we don’t realize it.” [15:50]
“It’s so hard to bring up your weaknesses. You see much greater gains by trying to double-down on your strengths.” [19:41]
“Work’s not work if you enjoy it.” [22:56]
“We’ve all had successes; we’ve all had failures. But which ones do we choose to define ourselves by?” [31:57]
“If you have trouble changing your story, first change your behavior.” [36:42]
“The more stuff you quit that isn’t delivering value to your life, the more resources, time, and energy you have to really become good at something.” [39:06]
SHOW NOTES
Eric speaks out about why feeling powerless at work can kill you. [3:55]
Tom and Eric discuss the “prisoner’s dilemma” and whether nice guys still finish last. [7:07]
Eric talks about behavioral strategies and lengthening the shadow of the future. [12:02]
Eric offers advice to those who are givers in every area of life. [15:01]
Eric debunks how bad behaviors can be good in the right context. [18:00]
Tom and Eric go deep on what drives him and how he’s reinvented himself. [22:16]
Eric explains why the Navy’s research shows self-talk was a critical component of their training. [26:21]
Eric speaks on the power of personal narrative and the evolving story of the self. [30:18]
Eric addresses why stories are edited and inaccurate and why your story follows your behavior. [33:53]
Tom and Eric dive into knowing when to quit and how to manifest your dreams. [38:39]
Eric describes how to use little bets to develop passion and asking questions to spark curiosity. [43:22]
Eric reveals three keys to producing great content and uncovers the struggle with happiness. [47:22]
Eric breaks down work-life balance and the four things that everyone needs to consider in life. [52:02]
Eric defines the impact that he wants to have on the world. [54:38]
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
BOOKS
Barking Up the Wrong Tree: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong - amzn.to/2wXGjyu [0:57]
Little Bets: How Breakthrough Ideas Emerge from Small Discoveries - amzn.to/2w9CnwX [43:28]
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@fadius17
@fadius17 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched a lot of these interviews but Eric Barker’s has been by far the most helpful and inspirational! He does an amazing job laying out practical steps anyone can take for approaching life’s most important questions.
@janesmith167
@janesmith167 7 жыл бұрын
Philosophy, Psychology, Inspirational, Insightful, Actionable... all in one interview. Fooking Awesome!!!
@lambd01d
@lambd01d 5 жыл бұрын
As someone who has bipolar disorder and has great experience of depression I can say that depression leads to pessimism and not the other way around. Depression is the lack of capacity to be optimistic. I tried lots of positive affirmations and positive thinking. Never made me feel better, not one bit. I just had to put up with it until my mood swung round again which could take months. Depression is an illness. It's a complicated illness involving diet, sleep, mitochondrial dysfunction, neurotransmitters, brain rewiring, excitotoxicity, gut microbiome, epigenetics, the immune system, light, circadian rhythms and environmental and interpersonal stressors. Once I discovered what supplements and other techniques helped me, I found my capacity for optimism became much bigger. When you are depressed the specific part of your brain that deals with the expectation of non-reward is overactive and the different part of your brain that deals with the expectation of reward is underactive, so you don't respond to things that are rewarding and you expect good things not to happen. It's not as simple as just having an optimistic attitude. You brain has to have the capacity to be optimistic and that requires it to be in a healthy state first. Then you can rewire it for an optimistic attitude.
@dronesandnature
@dronesandnature 5 жыл бұрын
I met a young reservist/soldier the other day who is learning Russian. So empowering to learn new things! And yes, stress at work or in your career that is not GOOD stress will absolutely raise cortisol and insulin and profoundly ages you beyond your years. Plus, it decreases your personal and professional efficacy, and people who you serve...well, they know! And it robs your soul, most of all. People don't take steps to change things a lot of the time due to some perceived pressure that they have to stay in some "respectable" societal role when it no longer makes them feel good. Really good stuff! Thank you!
@RohitKumar-ku4nh
@RohitKumar-ku4nh 7 жыл бұрын
One of the best episodes of Impact Theory!!!!! this guy is so fabulous !
@anthonypietrobono6178
@anthonypietrobono6178 7 жыл бұрын
God bless these show notes in the description wow. Talk about OVER DELIVERING. Thanks Tom!
@ItsBonfireMusic
@ItsBonfireMusic 5 жыл бұрын
Anthony Pietrobono srsly
@HG51_
@HG51_ 7 жыл бұрын
Without a doubt makes the top 3 impact theory interviews. Eric is authentic, genuine, intelligent and inspiring. The concepts about happiness leading more often to success than vice versa, and how many so called mysteries are actually puzzles are powerful truths. You’re always setting the bar higher and higher!
@CzechRiot
@CzechRiot 5 жыл бұрын
The fact that happiness more often leads to success than vice versa is something I had observed throughout the years . It's almost a tautology to some extent, because concepts like "education", "friendship", "family values", "honesty", "brotherhood" are all about the same principle which is to CARE FOR LIFE, which is the same as "being optimistic", the same as having a "positive mindset". What is a "happy family"? It is a group of people who truly care for the well being of the others; and truly caring for others is simply the definition of *love* . And you cannot have love without a positive mindset, without focusing on the value of existing, focusing on the positive aspects of existence, of living. The concept of "education" is basically schematizing what's positive and what's negative, defining what actions/processes will have positive or negative consequences. Education is nothing more than filtering out actions that have prejudicial/damaging consequences on life. It is not about having diplomas and titles and certificates to fuel narcissistic proclivities. The fundamental idea of "education" is designing thought processes that increase *care* . Being organized, prudent, perfectionist, attentive, are all concepts that signify taking better care of something regarded as valuable. It is protecting the valuable. Love is nothing more than trying to protect something deemed as valuable. Happiness is simply a word that represents the feeling someone has when they perceive the valuable item as being properly protected and maintained. The state of happiness is the overall feeling when there's an observation and realization that all valuable things are properly maintained. "Happy" people will be those who are connected to valuable things, and that connections are stable, secure, persistent, permanent (this I'm referring to an idea of *true happiness* , not momentary feelings of well being that can be obtained through peaks of chemicals, which is basically what happens with drug use. That is an unstable, ephemeral, fragile feeling of wellness). Suffering, anguish, misery, desolation, are simply the feeling of remoteness of dissociation from valuable things. The valuable things are distant and out of reach, or they're jumbled and cluttered amidst perilous and toxic things. "Lack of education" tends to lead to unhappiness because the _life-caring processes_ are inefficient; actions lead to disease, to accidents, to violence, corruption. The unhappy aim to destroy what they deem as threatening, but since they don't have good judgmental processes, they destroy aimlessly. That is why "dumb people", people who lack intelligence, often create suffering when they act. Happy people are happy because they know how to take care of valuable things, unhappy people are those who progressively have less efficient life-caring thought processes and, therefore, actions.
@bdotdilla
@bdotdilla 7 жыл бұрын
Amazing interview. I just finished his book and I took TONS of notes because there was just so many nuggets of actionable steps. As always, thanks for having him on & leading me to this guy! He's a beast with his knowledge!
@ProfaneEgyptology
@ProfaneEgyptology 7 жыл бұрын
This might be my favourite episode yet. What a deep well of wisdom and insight this man is. From the idea of aligning your context with your key traits and intensifiers, to the notion that stories are the operating system of the brain - Joseph Campbell said something very similar about mythology being the software that we use to interface with the hardware that is the universe. The WOOP acronym is now going on a post-it note on my desktop, along with many other quotes from this damn fine show. Thank you Tom and IT team!
@jqjq1796
@jqjq1796 5 жыл бұрын
I watch every interview conducted by Tom. thanks tom for bringing such great people on ur program. by far this Eric barker is one of the best one. I'm in the process of recovery n broke but you give me not just hope but shown me the right path. lots of love from london.
@nitahudson5109
@nitahudson5109 4 жыл бұрын
ERIC is a great guest and his personality compliments Tom’s work strategy beautifully. Love it when Tom is super excited and jumps into learning from the guest along with us! Great show!
@seemapatilJapan
@seemapatilJapan 4 жыл бұрын
Tom is so focused and asks the right questions. Amazing skills of interviewing and Eric Barker gives very pragmatic advices.
@robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654
@robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654 7 жыл бұрын
Glad I clicked in this...it's one of those videos where you HAVE TO take notes. #Awesome! Thanks Tom and Eric!
@impwerume
@impwerume 3 жыл бұрын
I always to come back to this interview especially in times when I seem stuck. It is one of the best I have ever watched. So rich with practical wisdom. Thank you, Tom.
@ngonichirinda124
@ngonichirinda124 7 жыл бұрын
I was blown away. Thanks Tom for bring Eric to the show. You are always taking it a step higher.
@corykong6510
@corykong6510 6 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorites! Really great interview. I've learned a lot from prisonner dilemmas to being nice without being a doormat and delegating time for certain activities. Wow. Bakadesuyo is also absolutely a fantastic blogsite.
@MrTORISSIMO
@MrTORISSIMO 7 жыл бұрын
My favorite take away: 1- Wish: or paint the picture.. dream, meditate or visualize / 2 - Outcome: How will you measure that this has been achieved in a tangible way / 3 - What are the obstacles, things to tackle or accomplish, the stepping stones (the not so fun part) / 4 - Plan: What's the next step, chunk it down in very small, measurable steps so you can keep focusing on just the next step (and don't forget to celebrate small achievements to keep fueling up) and get to work baby!
@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 7 жыл бұрын
Agreed about WOOP. Amazing.
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@user-mm2be3wu3m 3 жыл бұрын
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@npipkins
@npipkins 6 жыл бұрын
Great interview! I’ve enjoyed Eric’s blog for a long time but hearing him discuss things with you was amazing. Science in plain English always resonates.
@fiddles78
@fiddles78 5 жыл бұрын
Tom I just wanna thank you so much for your work, you have really helped me hugely out of depression and started thinking positive about my life again. Amazing.
@brianagonzales7648
@brianagonzales7648 5 жыл бұрын
This was my favorite interview thus far!! His passion is so infectious!!
@LionfrZion
@LionfrZion 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tom! :) That was a super engaging and fascinating episode. Thank you for introducing me to Eric Barker! and Congrats on 81 K Subs.. and rising fast... !!!
@jenil691
@jenil691 4 жыл бұрын
You will continue to change lives with these interviews Tom. I watch Impact Theory throughout the week.
@anuratiraina6800
@anuratiraina6800 5 жыл бұрын
One of the best episodes ever... This guy's face expression changes Every single second, During the whole episode... So expressive
@shafiqkhan1609
@shafiqkhan1609 6 жыл бұрын
Tom you doing fantastic work thats healing the humanity .I learn a lot . Eric has excellent insight and research base knowledge which will help many people.
@crisg.6236
@crisg.6236 7 жыл бұрын
Yas!!! Huge difference between getting the job and being genuinely successful at the job.
@eugenierunner7988
@eugenierunner7988 5 жыл бұрын
What a positive, charming, knowledgeable, interesting, loveable, inspiring, happy individual who loves life! Would love to have a friend like this! So nice to have discovered you Mr.. Eric Barker! A big thanks, to you, as well, Tom, for your terrific work!😃
@paulandreehouman3094
@paulandreehouman3094 2 жыл бұрын
i've watched a lot of impact theory interviews but this one is amazing because this man always answer questions by "there is research ......" . he reads a lot
@nobertstanel9428
@nobertstanel9428 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you IT team ! This is going to be my movie for tonight.
@otilialeonte1160
@otilialeonte1160 6 жыл бұрын
Waw,this changed the way i see things. Great guest,lovely host,amazing team.Thank you. Impact Theory you changed my life.
@DanielChardMagic
@DanielChardMagic 7 жыл бұрын
It was a great episode and I came across Eric Barker originally in an episode of Lewis Holmes Show, the name alludes me right now. But what I liked is that here's a guy that has clearly very knowledgeable and successful, But very humble and came across as a really nice guy, purchased the book. Its on my reading pile. Might move it higher up the list now :)
@persianchris2451
@persianchris2451 4 жыл бұрын
38:49 "Having a budget of time, any resource to assist people and designating it allows to make sure it happens so you are a giver, but also make sure that it doesn't take over your life" Wow that resonates with me so much! I tend to not say "I don't have time" because we ALL have time,. Instead, I tend to say "It's not that I don't have time for you, I've just prioritized my time to certain commitments"..... That way If there's any resistance I can follow up with "You want my help but would you someone helping you and telling you what to do who can't even deliver on their own commitments?".... Moving forward I am going to incorporate "I don't have a budget of time at this moment without compromising commitments" or something along those lines. Thank you so much!
@kathiecherry2672
@kathiecherry2672 5 жыл бұрын
Pages and pages of notes here ...so many news things to read, think about, and take action on... Amazing and Thank you!
@Jamie-vn6ko
@Jamie-vn6ko 5 жыл бұрын
This is so awesome!!! I love this episode! Every second is GOLD, so inspiring and POWERFUL! Thank you guys!
@stephenodey5147
@stephenodey5147 5 жыл бұрын
Listened to this a gain one year on (2019) and found it even more insightful 👍 Thank You both for the secret sauces to happiness ❤️
@sahilaurora9093
@sahilaurora9093 7 жыл бұрын
great interview. Reading his book currently and whatever he says makes so much sense. Thanks tom for the great content :)
@ashleymackenzie7209
@ashleymackenzie7209 7 жыл бұрын
Amazing, I've made most of the mistakes he mentioned 🤦🏻‍♂️ if only I'd watched this show 35 years ago!
@ToniBlackman4
@ToniBlackman4 5 жыл бұрын
You have the best guests Tom! This is so good. Sooo many quotables here and this is a ministry for us Over Givers! Lord!
@amerok3
@amerok3 7 жыл бұрын
Hello Tom, Lisa, Cindy, Chase and all the team. Thank you very much for this! I would like to know if it be possible to have more Impact Quotes, please? Thanks a lot for what you're doing!
@thekhoatran
@thekhoatran 4 жыл бұрын
From this interview just bought his hardcover book, so excited to read it!
@eddierocksteady5740
@eddierocksteady5740 5 жыл бұрын
Always great interviews as always. Thank you, Tom
@jamesgrey13
@jamesgrey13 6 жыл бұрын
Tom and Eric, great show! Awesome job!
@Igbostudy
@Igbostudy 6 жыл бұрын
Many thanks for this interview. Loads of practical ways to approach most aspects of daily living. Took notes.
@vin_lulz
@vin_lulz 4 жыл бұрын
I love you tom you're seriously one of the biggest role models in my life. you're really a model individual and deserve all that you have This guy really might be just speaking the truth, but i really am a doormat as a person And there's been a lot of really great and amazing people in my life who have helped me so much through rough patches, and I always try to be as nice and respectful to everyone and help people out so maybe someone can look up to me as a good person who helped them out or showed them the way in life I guess i felt offended that he's saying basically greed is the way in life but really in many principles is destruction
@Snackay
@Snackay 6 жыл бұрын
My workplace is just like that. A key leader is very critical, and so all the lesser employees behave that way too sometimes.
@SaudMasud
@SaudMasud 7 жыл бұрын
"Stories are the operating system of the brain" Thank you!
@jaredpratt3927
@jaredpratt3927 4 жыл бұрын
Dude, your question @ 15:24 earned you a subscriber! Thanks for your work and keep questioning!
@andrewshaw3926
@andrewshaw3926 7 жыл бұрын
Wow. Another awesome guest. Thanks Tom for inviting him on. Heading straight for the rabbit hole. See you next week. #belegendary
@KeerthySunder
@KeerthySunder 3 жыл бұрын
Eric Barker- Astonishing is an understatement. And as for Tom- he is alien genius 👊
@realmacksteve
@realmacksteve 2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to check out whatever Eric Barker puts out. He's brilliant. Never a bad episode from Tom and the old one's in person are some of the best.
@TheZGALa
@TheZGALa 7 жыл бұрын
OMG I fucking LOVE that I am listening to this tonight, just as I wrap up my day...may have to pause to play my guitar and come back to review this. Relationships are so important to every other thing in our lives, and it all starts with understanding ourselves well enough to utilize the appropriate aspects of ourselves in the appropriate context. "It Is All about the relative perspective of one thing to another." me
@carlosbecerra4189
@carlosbecerra4189 7 жыл бұрын
This was great! Thank you!
@loredanaotilia5505
@loredanaotilia5505 3 жыл бұрын
I've just started to read Eric Barker's book and I love it 👍great interview and really happy to see Eric Barker how he talk 🙂
@azhaz578
@azhaz578 6 жыл бұрын
This is amazing. As someone who works for a narcissist this was really encouraging. Thanks!
@SiimLand
@SiimLand 7 жыл бұрын
Dope new studio setup!
@ibtihalelalami4171
@ibtihalelalami4171 4 жыл бұрын
As always, amazing content! Thank you Tom 🙏🏻
@greg6895
@greg6895 5 жыл бұрын
l love his advice, he is a very wise man and so easy to understand....priceless. Thank you Eric
@jason_carelse
@jason_carelse 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome episode Tom, keep up the positive influence.
@dinonaccarato2989
@dinonaccarato2989 2 жыл бұрын
Tom, he was great and knowledgeable. Loved listening to him. Keep up the great work Tom and team. Nacc, Canada
@gambarusso
@gambarusso 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you once again for bringing inspiring people on the show.
@Snackay
@Snackay 6 жыл бұрын
Much greater gains by doubling-down on your strengths, but in the right contexts.
@alexfan7454
@alexfan7454 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I will be able to use the WOOP test from now on when my head gets caught in the clouds.
@lise4369
@lise4369 6 жыл бұрын
A budget of time. Chunking 😀🤗😍 love this!
@lylab9922
@lylab9922 7 жыл бұрын
Awesome interview!!!!!
@martincasey5110
@martincasey5110 7 жыл бұрын
Book ordered!! Thanks guys
@rakeshkumarmadella7955
@rakeshkumarmadella7955 5 жыл бұрын
Even I liked this interview... I am from South Indian.. I had a thick South Indian accent.. I started listening to ur videos.. some of the videos I have listened again, and again, again... the way introduce to people is simple wow.. amazing.. unbelievable... the intonation is also great .. I tried to imitate or shadow learning.. so that can speak like u.. that accent.. I have also joined toast masters sessions.. my English is good.. but the problem Is that i have an Indian accent.. I had overcome most of that accent .However I need to keep listening and practicing it .. I work for Hyatt hotels USA.. and speak to some of the native speakers from India in Chicago.
@danielreid3447
@danielreid3447 3 жыл бұрын
Puzzles -v- mysteries was a good example. What I think is frustrating is some puzzles have more than one answer.
@feiadobraia
@feiadobraia 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Such a nice guy! Thank you Tom for doing that. It is perfect.......
@BIngeilski
@BIngeilski 4 жыл бұрын
Positive, pragmatic and practical approach to becoming successful and happy!
@oliverf944
@oliverf944 5 жыл бұрын
Eric information is really fascinating. Just downloaded his book on audible
@marcuswarren4390
@marcuswarren4390 7 жыл бұрын
Another great interview. Thank you both. I especially enjoyed the insight about whether considering the obstacles in pursuing a goal makes you feel energized or not, and on that basis is a worthwhile goal, or not. Great stuff...
@progressandproductivity
@progressandproductivity Жыл бұрын
One of my favorites and one of the few I watched twice. Great job
@michellekalski8823
@michellekalski8823 6 жыл бұрын
Very interesting! I’m going to get his book.
@paradisearyaei7058
@paradisearyaei7058 4 жыл бұрын
Good o you, I really like to meet and talk with these types of people hours and hours and I strongly believe that I will not fed up because it makes a better person by leaning different things that help me to realize that life is not just making money and going to holidays but if u think that when u helped someone to be happy what amazing work you have done and you will see the meaningful world. ........ Thanks dude. God bless
@stukenborgpodcast
@stukenborgpodcast 5 жыл бұрын
An absolutely compelling interview Tom!
@failforwardfast8609
@failforwardfast8609 5 жыл бұрын
Love This interview!
@timiadetona
@timiadetona 4 жыл бұрын
I love me some Eric. He has a unique way of reviewing books if you're subscribed to his list
@LunyMilky
@LunyMilky 7 жыл бұрын
I feel legendary right now x'))
@ritwikraj6293
@ritwikraj6293 6 жыл бұрын
That's how you introduce a guest. Brilliant!
@williamchamberlain2263
@williamchamberlain2263 6 жыл бұрын
Research shows that the Matthew Principle compounds early luck and early leads in careers, separately from the good/bad behaviour axis. So that 15:00 first impressions point shows that it's good to put yourself out there and work hard/smart as early as possible.
@robertrainey1728
@robertrainey1728 6 жыл бұрын
Great show. Thanks
@sorayalux
@sorayalux 4 жыл бұрын
This is life changing🙏🏾
@robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654
@robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654 7 жыл бұрын
I'm not even finished with the video yet and I already KNOW this has changed my life. I can't wait to share this clip and it's content with others. #trajectory
@oolala53
@oolala53 4 жыл бұрын
Please tell us how this played out these last two years.
@robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654
@robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654 4 жыл бұрын
@@oolala53 Thank you so much for asking. When I first saw this clip, I was visiting my cousin in Texas. I had month before that, quit the shitty cubicle 9-5 (it was more like a 9-8) to pursue my own business, and love life on my terms - months after I quit, I was on the brink of losing everything, and was having problems with one of the most personal and important relationships. Fortunately, I was invited to go on a vacation, and my expenses would be covered by my sister. I felt guilty about it since I was broke, and felt broken. She convinced me, and that seemingly counterintuitive trip was the reset button I needed. I journaled while on the trip, and decided I was going to address everything that was written. That was about 4 years ago. Now honestly, my life of wonderful, of course there is much work to be done and lots of room for improvement. Currently I'm focusing on the money game - which it "should" be a lot better, aka I'm a slow starter in the money game... or better yet, I'll say I'm a late bloomer :D As far as wealth is concerned, I'm a wealthy man - I'm a good friend to have, I have cultivated a diverse group of friends, I'm a good son to my mother, I'm fit, enjoy my obscene sense of humor, with creativity I often exploring new areas including communication, reading has greatly improved my thought process, my minimal apartment is peaceful... and that is what I mean by I AM WEALTHY, I live a peaceful life. Bringing it back to the clip, it's so impactful due to it's holistic approach and how to live a good life. I'm enormously grateful. Applying the mentioned principles, really did work for me. Hope you are well, and on your way to doing wonderful things. 🌎✌ ~ Roberto Enamorado aka Roberto In Love💪❤
@oolala53
@oolala53 4 жыл бұрын
Roberto Enamorado aka Robertoinlove I am not sure how you got all that out of this video but it am the first to say that wealth is an inside job. There are plenty of people with many times the assets of the average person who feel frightened of life a lot of hours in the day. If we have to have a lot of money to be happy, most of the world is doomed to misery, and I just can’t believe that that is how things are meant to be. You can’t buy peace! Good for you and best wishes.
@robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654
@robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654 4 жыл бұрын
@@oolala53 hey thanks for the response. In a nutshell, what I got from the video is, a holistic approach to having a sense of fulfilment. Work on all the "Buckets". I haven't watched this clip in a very long time, but anyway, take good care and hopefully you find what works for you. ✌
@CarrierChicken
@CarrierChicken 3 жыл бұрын
aw tom and eric's photoshoot together is so wholesome
@a.k.4085
@a.k.4085 5 жыл бұрын
Total accident that I stumbled upon this...and this guy makes TOO much sense. Whew....wish I had known this 5 years ago!!!
@nathanielmarshall7637
@nathanielmarshall7637 7 жыл бұрын
Have no idea who this guy is or what he's going to say, but he's wearing an Oswald the Lucky Rabbit shirt so I'm pretty sure he's going to rock.
@CzechRiot
@CzechRiot 5 жыл бұрын
I know very little about cartoons and I simply though it was a Mickey Mouse with strong wind blowing his ears backwards... After reading this comment I found out Mickey was actually simply a redesign of this Oswald character...
@batsmiley1
@batsmiley1 5 жыл бұрын
Fantastic interview. Very motivating.
@averhamilton8823
@averhamilton8823 4 жыл бұрын
Man. This is so great! Thank you Tom Bilyeu!!!!!!!!
@ElishaLong
@ElishaLong 7 жыл бұрын
Tom please do yourself and the fans a huge favor and get Jordan Peterson on the show
@brianmclean8732
@brianmclean8732 7 жыл бұрын
Elisha. Make it happen. Have Tom be the last person to ask him.
@neacsumiruna5621
@neacsumiruna5621 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes! I'm sure he would blow our minds
@SM-xe5sr
@SM-xe5sr 6 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up!
@360.Tapestry
@360.Tapestry 6 жыл бұрын
free will is an illusion
@ariellecat
@ariellecat 6 жыл бұрын
I think it'll happen. I recall Tom saying that he's reading the Gulag archipelago, and so he's probably doing his research. But I could be wrong. One can hope :)
@slippo99
@slippo99 4 жыл бұрын
Could be Bilyeu's best ep.! Thank goodness.
@sylviacanchangeworld
@sylviacanchangeworld 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Amazing.
@teposipho2388
@teposipho2388 7 жыл бұрын
it was super....eric barker is a phenomenal thinking superhuman!!
@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 7 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@drlepora1
@drlepora1 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@vikassm2383
@vikassm2383 7 жыл бұрын
Ordered the book after watching 5 minutes!
@naimmir3429
@naimmir3429 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent Job Tom. Your are a very good interviewer. I am glad that you invitied Eric Barker, this guy is an inspiration with content! Do you think you will invitie Jordan Peterson?Thanks Tom, you and your team are great!
@LukeDupin
@LukeDupin 4 жыл бұрын
Fantastic interview.
@KezDaniel2010
@KezDaniel2010 6 жыл бұрын
Great interview thanks, this guy is awesome, but I found the title of the interview misleading. it is more about success and how to live a good life than about sabotage.
@lilianagarcesrosero
@lilianagarcesrosero 4 жыл бұрын
happiness leads to success... no the other way around, I like that!
@tashidolkarsamdrupling5720
@tashidolkarsamdrupling5720 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for motivation video
@seemapatilJapan
@seemapatilJapan 4 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring with pragmatic answers. I have to read the book.
@nathaniellee3996
@nathaniellee3996 5 жыл бұрын
Top 5 video right here!
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