When does a man mature?

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

4 жыл бұрын

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@becky3087
@becky3087 4 жыл бұрын
“Be willing to lose a man in order to keep him. A man does not change until he’s pushed to the edge.”
@sanjeshnidevi982
@sanjeshnidevi982 4 жыл бұрын
I think this is the sheer catalyst for CHANGE & SELF-GROWTH for both men and women. Time and time again I see men losing respect for women who stayed in a crummy relationship with them. And when the woman finally leaves after staying TOO LONG, it doesn't bring about the change and self-growth she had hoped in that man. -Most women being nurturers and caregivers by nature, find it nearly IMPOSSIBLE to walk away from a man, especially between 0-6 months time line. -Most men being hunters and competitive by nature, find it nearly IMPOSSIBLE to change their stubborn and set ways. -Therefore this pushes the limits of BOTH men and women, as they have to RISE UP and FIGHT against the "human nature". In my opinion, this proves, that of course walking away matters....BUT walking away EARLY boosts effectiveness to trigger the much-needed CHANGE & SELF-GROWTH.
@PrettiRissa
@PrettiRissa 4 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Romain yes sis! ♥️
@Mindsetolympics
@Mindsetolympics 3 жыл бұрын
@shawtty but if the woman is not a mans wife does it really matter he wasn’t gonna be influenced anyway.... right??
@oshunsweets
@oshunsweets 3 жыл бұрын
We are talking about a man who is basically of good character.
@Pacifica74
@Pacifica74 3 жыл бұрын
That means they suck!
@iamannettec
@iamannettec 4 жыл бұрын
“You have to be willing to lose a man to keep him.” 🙌🏾
@coachnatishamommatish185
@coachnatishamommatish185 4 жыл бұрын
Amen, that is so true!!!
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
Netta C. Thats major! We have to be willing to walk away.
@iamannettec
@iamannettec 4 жыл бұрын
Momma Tish1 yessss!!
@iamannettec
@iamannettec 4 жыл бұрын
Marisha Lewis exactly!
@dominiqueclark119
@dominiqueclark119 4 жыл бұрын
😉
@ericabostwick4033
@ericabostwick4033 4 жыл бұрын
Wow that’s deep! When you said you won’t even do business with a man that is not married and faithful to his wife! That speaks of you character because you are 100% right if a man can’t be faithful and honest with his wife, how can he be honest and faithful to anyone else. How you treat your wife/husband speaks volumes to a persons character! I love this!
@officialnotesonlifepodcast
@officialnotesonlifepodcast 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I was surprised to hear him say this. Very respectable.
@realtruth3762
@realtruth3762 3 жыл бұрын
Yes but how would he know for sure though if it's just a business partner.. a married man who cheats on his wife most likely tries to keep it a secret
@tmakesha198725
@tmakesha198725 Жыл бұрын
Deep!
@ashleygoodrich3294
@ashleygoodrich3294 4 жыл бұрын
He will act right and change for Jesus and for the Women he WANTS. Point Blank PeriotD
@storyanimator3763
@storyanimator3763 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@lerhondajones-bates3324
@lerhondajones-bates3324 4 жыл бұрын
LoL per-re-yard....lol
@nuriyahsworld5317
@nuriyahsworld5317 4 жыл бұрын
Woman
@elizabethnamirembesekitto1232
@elizabethnamirembesekitto1232 Жыл бұрын
😂❤❤
@Mariah-er5yc
@Mariah-er5yc 4 жыл бұрын
Woman voice “ohhhhh” 😂😂
@gino6658
@gino6658 4 жыл бұрын
Mariah Bargainer i be cracking up everytime he does that voice!
@DJGURL
@DJGURL 4 жыл бұрын
Hilarious! 😆
@lzsunshine
@lzsunshine 4 жыл бұрын
This takes me out every time. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@keishaoliviab
@keishaoliviab 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@TropicsFever
@TropicsFever 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo it cracks me up
@DynamicallyDC
@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын
You have to be willing to lose a man in order to keep him!!! So true Tony, and also be willing to lose a man permanently, & not lose yourself by keeping him!
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
Demetria Calvin So true!! Leaving is vital, as hard as it is we have to do it.
@Glamrocs
@Glamrocs 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@ladysayso8070
@ladysayso8070 4 жыл бұрын
It's Friday & payday but I rather stay home and get new knowledge from God. God bless you Tony.
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
Lady SaySo Amen lady!
@myhealthislife
@myhealthislife 4 жыл бұрын
Real Talk!!!
@DynamicallyDC
@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын
Tony:" Listen to me... cause You dont wanna hear this, you dont wanna hear this!" 🤔 Everybody: "YES we most certainly do!!!" 🙂👂🏽👂🏽
@feleciapowell5792
@feleciapowell5792 4 жыл бұрын
Demetria Calvin hahaha !!! I read that in his entire voice! Lol lol
@DynamicallyDC
@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын
@@feleciapowell5792 same lol 😄
@PrettiRissa
@PrettiRissa 4 жыл бұрын
Demetria Calvin right! 🤣 yes we do!!! Tell us Tony! Lol I tuned all the way in on that part! 🗣
@KelilahIsrael
@KelilahIsrael 4 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed .. this is the end. Lol
@nontobekomncwabe4976
@nontobekomncwabe4976 4 жыл бұрын
"A man matures when he finds a relationship with God. "
@ampedhallway
@ampedhallway 4 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@pilargamble9118
@pilargamble9118 3 жыл бұрын
Not automatically It is a developing process and with the right influences and mentoring it happens that much faster❤️🙏⚓️
@falicaglaspie2383
@falicaglaspie2383 3 жыл бұрын
A woman is the second self of God. It's a loosing battle when a woman fights against her nature. It's a loosing battle when a man fights against a woman that knows who God intended for her to be.
@FurbiidN
@FurbiidN 2 жыл бұрын
Thats not an answer beloved but good try
@d.c.5033
@d.c.5033 8 ай бұрын
True
@lzsunshine
@lzsunshine 4 жыл бұрын
Just left Jill Scott concert and was in the uber checking to see if Tony had a new video up for the day! I was so crunk when I saw it AND it is 53 minutes! My Friday night treat that is calorie free. Thanks brother!
@keychabudgets
@keychabudgets 4 жыл бұрын
Girl it’s like crack!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@lzsunshine
@lzsunshine 4 жыл бұрын
@@keychabudgets Girl YES!!
@much2lovely
@much2lovely 4 жыл бұрын
kellee ransom I know right! I love the long videos! Don’t understand why some pole pole say they want him to do shorter videos
@PeaceBeStill-
@PeaceBeStill- 4 жыл бұрын
@@much2lovely I love the long videos too. It's just the ads every 7-10 minutes. I'll be in the shower and have to step out to hit skip lol 😩
@PeaceBeStill-
@PeaceBeStill- 4 жыл бұрын
@Abisola Abiodun lol you know I almost have 😅
@lilkathytaylor
@lilkathytaylor 4 жыл бұрын
•Man Mature when he FINDS his relationship with GOD • Man Mature LEARN lessons from LOSES/his MISTAKES •Man Mature when he takes FULL Responsibility for his ACTIONS •Man Mature when he MEETS his Wife..NOT A WOMEN
@rizalukman7982
@rizalukman7982 4 жыл бұрын
That is the real problem in family right.Woman mature earlier than man.When man meet All the four criteria then a man is matured.Woman maturity is not depend on all four factor because it ia built inside of her
@lilkathytaylor
@lilkathytaylor 4 жыл бұрын
@@rizalukman7982 Yes The Lord knew that hahah that's why he created a help meet/women.. wife/mother/sister. women are important in a man's life.
@rizalukman7982
@rizalukman7982 4 жыл бұрын
@@lilkathytaylor this is the reason why red Pill content nowadays are trending around the world.When a man is in a relationship as boyfriend the looks are the most important thing.But when it come to marriage and a commitment, then maturity,money and status becoming the first priority.
@sanjeshnidevi982
@sanjeshnidevi982 4 жыл бұрын
I think women need to ask themselves some HARD QUESTIONS like : a) Why is a woman NOT "fed up" with a man's bad behaviour in TWO STRIKES. b) Why does it take 10 strikes to LEAVE a man? c) Why is it so hard for women to leave a man EARLY? d) Why do you care that if you leave, another woman will put up with him? e) What kind of PAST hurt, pain, betrayal are we suppressing, by TOLERATING a man's bad behaviour? f) What are we women doing to heal from our past hurt, pain betrayal?
@Timi1111
@Timi1111 4 жыл бұрын
I sure needed this questions, B!!!🙌🙌🙌
@tlm824
@tlm824 4 жыл бұрын
I believe I know part of the reason. Baby boomer Mother's have fed their daughters the wrong information about men. In their day they stayed through some nonsense because of various reasons primarily financial. They tell you things like all men lie, all men cheat.. That's conditioning to put up with poor behavior. Once we learn better we can do better. I have more to speak on this but I have to get back to work. Lol I'm learning better!!
@fluffysox6072
@fluffysox6072 3 жыл бұрын
Because we always sleep with them so early
@Leelang931
@Leelang931 4 жыл бұрын
Tony your female imitated voices have me cracking up, 😂 it’s good listening to everything you have to say sir, thank you
@enyin2001
@enyin2001 4 жыл бұрын
When He Goes....Oughh!!!😂😂😂Cracks me up everytime! Love the imitations!!
@Leelang931
@Leelang931 4 жыл бұрын
EbonyJ 😂 I know right !!
@11071874
@11071874 4 жыл бұрын
When I hear that “OHHHHHH” I just bust out laughing 😂.
@ruru9400
@ruru9400 4 жыл бұрын
It's not that we don't like hearing about being a man's influence; it's a very nice thought and feeling. We just HATE it that the man NEEDS a woman's influence in order to treat her properly. 😕 Like he really won't do it on his own no matter if he's taught to do that because of the fact that if he can get away with doing less, he will. It's just really sad to hear that. 🙁
@helenabailey40
@helenabailey40 4 жыл бұрын
That is why women should raise their standards and keep their legs closed. Do it Gods way and God will send you the man for you. We can't blame men anymore. You attract who you are .the right man will raise up to your standards if you're the woman he wants. But you have to have standards and the first step is waiting until marriage for sex
@geminitwix
@geminitwix 4 жыл бұрын
BINGO
@helenabailey40
@helenabailey40 4 жыл бұрын
It's sad that a lot of women hate to hear the truth
@ruru9400
@ruru9400 4 жыл бұрын
@@helenabailey40 that's not what I'm referring to, but you are right about having standards and keeping the legs closed.
@helenabailey40
@helenabailey40 4 жыл бұрын
@@ruru9400 o ok sorry for the misunderstanding ❤️a lot of men weren't taught .My brother is bad with women and I think the root cause is because our father wasn't around. He still hasn't forgiven my father because of it and won't even talk to him . My dad was the same way with women and mad with his father. My dad just reconciled with his dad at 48 years old. It's mainly a generational thing that runs in the bloodline . I think once my brother forgives my dad he can start to heal from his wounds .
@larenzapious502
@larenzapious502 4 жыл бұрын
U have to understand that it does a lot of damage to a woman's heart and self esteem when it seems like she is always good enough to be slept with but yet she never seems to be any guy wife. It's really degrading and hurtful
@bernitapennick4685
@bernitapennick4685 4 жыл бұрын
Especially when she’s faithful and honest maybe even a women of god
@terrybrown7510
@terrybrown7510 3 жыл бұрын
What helped me was to stop sleeping with them, that helps you weed out the riff raff and see the man that likes you for you and not what you can give him. Now that is something to build on! May God continue to bless you and give you peace until he puts you in the path of your husband. 🙏
@essiethebestie1
@essiethebestie1 3 жыл бұрын
Well.....honestly, 100% of women are "good enough" to sleep with in men's eyes 🤷‍♀️. However, becoming selfless, empathetic and considerate to a WOMAN...... That's not on MOST men's agenda, not even to their WIFE! I'm pretty sure you know a married man or 2 that you could bag. So being a man's wife doesn't necessarily means he values & respects you.
@kenishalperkins
@kenishalperkins 4 жыл бұрын
The more I hear “You’re not his wife” the more I am okay with not being HIS wife ✌🏿
@takeauthority30
@takeauthority30 4 жыл бұрын
Isn't that the truth, it's freeing
@gino6658
@gino6658 4 жыл бұрын
Kenisha Perkins truth y’all!
@kenishalperkins
@kenishalperkins 4 жыл бұрын
Ericka Dillon So true !! I feel so free 🦅
@kenishalperkins
@kenishalperkins 4 жыл бұрын
R B So true 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@adreneblake5570
@adreneblake5570 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@takeauthority30
@takeauthority30 4 жыл бұрын
We just have to be strong and love ourselves. Men will mature when they choose... They need Jesus and their wife... do you and He'll show up, trust God's timing
@tmakesha198725
@tmakesha198725 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@cassandravelvet
@cassandravelvet 4 жыл бұрын
Instead of complaining why Tony said this and that. Listen and comprehend him. Thanks Tony! 👏🏽❤️
@bowleged1
@bowleged1 4 жыл бұрын
Maaaan tell em
@bowleged1
@bowleged1 4 жыл бұрын
Well I was always taught that people try to slide their truth in JUST.....soooo MISS.Cassandra Thank you for JUST being a cool understanding person ...Be Blessed
@akuasalaam490
@akuasalaam490 4 жыл бұрын
It was hard, but you're right!!!!!!! Had to just listen and humble myself to this truth.
@MrsVanness0929
@MrsVanness0929 4 жыл бұрын
When you make the woman voice “oooooooohhh 🙄🙄🙄” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭
@kymistryw
@kymistryw 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 you be cracking me up with your lady voice 😂😂
@CreativeJourneys036
@CreativeJourneys036 4 жыл бұрын
kymistry that’s he funniest thing I have ever heard -
@keishaoliviab
@keishaoliviab 4 жыл бұрын
Right 😂😂
@Sunflower_1818
@Sunflower_1818 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, I totally agree about when a man is 100% committed to his marriage that there are really no real problems in the marriage. I have always said this. Sadly, my ex husband never understood this.
@heychunkybutt2010
@heychunkybutt2010 4 жыл бұрын
I truly believe this is why God commanded men to LOVE his wife and the woman to RESPECT their husband! God only commands us to do things that he know is not simple and take his help/guidance to do so. And that is also why God created the helpmate. Helpmate not handmaiden.
@TopHat_VR828
@TopHat_VR828 4 жыл бұрын
Well said
@marywilson8776
@marywilson8776 4 жыл бұрын
I always cried and got comfort from my dad not my mom. I love my dad lol
@ladyt_speaks_truths3923
@ladyt_speaks_truths3923 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly 👌🏾🎯
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 4 жыл бұрын
Love and RESPECT go TOGETHER. Can't love without respect but you can respect without love. It doesn't work for women because women have feelings, women can't respect a guy and not love him. Or why be with him?
@mntw6062
@mntw6062 4 жыл бұрын
“He might be cheatin’ on her with “”Handjula” I had tears in my eyes from laughter
@sehkanchance5360
@sehkanchance5360 4 жыл бұрын
Boy without you, I'd be so depressed.. Everytime I feel my heart recalling and replaying the hurt and the deception that I've been through in the past 7 years It makes me so depressed. I just turn on one of your podcasts and I might have to listen to two or three or four of them before it dragged me out of that state of mind but I'm so grateful for you It's so so grateful for you I'm so grateful for you. My heart hurt so so so bad it feel like a gulf ball stuck in my throat. For some reason With this break up my heart hurts but I can't cry. It's been 2 weeks since I left and I haven't cried and usually I'm crying and lost and vgo running right back to the distruction...
@geneviveross4234
@geneviveross4234 4 жыл бұрын
@Sehkan Chance; Stay strong..! I’m in the process of divorcing my abuser after 20 years. Why did I allow myself to be treated this way for so long. I almost lost myself but thank God I finally found the strength to leave..I’m still yet to forgive myself but with God, I’ll begin to heal. You are not alone in this...many women are.. May God help us all.
@beedabee1221
@beedabee1221 3 жыл бұрын
Same here sis! He helps me understand why and what was in his mind...
@terrybrown7510
@terrybrown7510 3 жыл бұрын
Same here, in the process of divorcing my husband because I was not his wife, thank you God for clarity and the strength to do what was right.
@Carolrocs
@Carolrocs 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed! Had to leave him for him to grow. He started to go to church. I'm not planning to go back to him though.
@queenchica6623
@queenchica6623 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you. 4 years ago when I threatened to leave, mine started going to church, taking marriage counseling and all. Just to start becoming the same way again. Not cheating, but lack of other things that I need. 2020 will be a great change to me.
@miabeasley9208
@miabeasley9208 2 жыл бұрын
“There are no problems when two people are fully committed.” Thank you Tony.
@monica-womenininsurance6456
@monica-womenininsurance6456 4 жыл бұрын
I wonder what percentage of men that purely love a woman🤷🏾‍♀️
@sheshez4christr301
@sheshez4christr301 4 жыл бұрын
2%🤣
@monica-womenininsurance6456
@monica-womenininsurance6456 4 жыл бұрын
@@sheshez4christr301 😁😁😁
@flyyygirl87
@flyyygirl87 4 жыл бұрын
0.0000000000000000000000001% 🤣
@monica-womenininsurance6456
@monica-womenininsurance6456 4 жыл бұрын
@@flyyygirl87 lol omg child....
@musicmaker1311
@musicmaker1311 3 жыл бұрын
-1.8%
@ThoroughbredDiva
@ThoroughbredDiva 4 жыл бұрын
My bro TG. Your female impersonations are HILARIOUS! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
ThoroughbredDiva 😂🤣 he got the attitude down all they way! He know us too well 🤣
@user-pn6qh7nk5q
@user-pn6qh7nk5q 4 жыл бұрын
The "ooooooh" 😂
@saphinawest
@saphinawest 4 жыл бұрын
Yessss😂😂😂
@justsomeideas9594
@justsomeideas9594 4 жыл бұрын
I have no problems letting go and letting god. I’m willing to risk it all!! What is meant for me will be, no matter what. Letting go will show if he’s the one, because he’ll come back ready and with no games. Be blessed!
@justsomeideas9594
@justsomeideas9594 4 жыл бұрын
LaFenice Forbes Bless you too
@TheTiaNetwork
@TheTiaNetwork 4 жыл бұрын
Your imitation of the women that don’t wanna listen to you is hilarious. 😆🤣 Some of the things you explain is hard to hear but when you have humility as a woman I’m grateful to be able to take in this knowledge. 🙌🏾
@lynnjones7695
@lynnjones7695 4 жыл бұрын
Nope, idk no other man that speaks to us for a hour! I appreciate u, & I ONLY listen to your videos bc you a Man of God & you have great wisdom..
@bowleged1
@bowleged1 4 жыл бұрын
Not 1
@Glamrocs
@Glamrocs 4 жыл бұрын
Tony and RC Blake is the only men I listen too. Tony is my big brother and RC Is like a father. The Father Daughter Talk and Tony’s books are life saving Godly advice. Others won’t even show or talk about the relationship they’re in.
@enyin2001
@enyin2001 4 жыл бұрын
I know, He absolutely goes above and beyond. Man it's crazy, He's one of the many couple of men that are spreading God's Word along with the truth about some men.
@lynnjones7695
@lynnjones7695 4 жыл бұрын
EbonyJ yes ma’am..
@Glamrocs
@Glamrocs 4 жыл бұрын
Abisola Abiodun Like Tony always says be the best mother you can be to her. When he comes back evaluate the situation. If he’s being a consistent father because he’s changed that’s great. If he’s making empty promises to the child then you should stop the contact because it can ruin her emotionally.
@Ms__Respect_love
@Ms__Respect_love 3 жыл бұрын
Be blessed. "You have to be willing to lose a man to keep him." -Tony Gaskins
@lonnicadarden
@lonnicadarden 4 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed! And on a side note: I'm one of the ones who actually watches your videos til the end Lol
@overcomingdaily4695
@overcomingdaily4695 4 жыл бұрын
Men do as much to women as we allow them to. Let’s stand our grounds ladies and let these men work there way up. Afterall we are queens so we should be treated as such.
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE 2021
@reginajeter6204
@reginajeter6204 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, when I listen to your messages they do not go void. I am blessed by all of the godly, educated, Information that I received from you. I thank God for you and using you as one of HIS vessels to bring the good news, to HIS daughters. God is allowing you to plant the seed into women who are looking for a husband after God’s own heart and to live a happy life. I do not take you or your work for granted. You could be doing other things like being with your wife and sons, but you sacrifice time from them to give to others so that we/I might learn, and get the knowledge, and I thank you for that. So, Sir and ma’am, please get out of your feelings and listen to the truth of these lessons. Be blessed🙏🏽. (I put this at the end so that you will know I listened to the entire hour of the lesson) 😊 smile
@tammaramencias495
@tammaramencias495 4 жыл бұрын
Speak it into EXISTENCE Tony! I cant wait to see your network. Blessings!
@ayianahenry6077
@ayianahenry6077 4 жыл бұрын
Goodness... Gracious! It's sad that some men and women can't understand that there are people who are genuinely happy in their marriages! Happy 13, Mr. and Mrs. Gaskins!
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO RIGHT! MANY MORE TO COME! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE 2021
@destinyuplift
@destinyuplift 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for telling us about a man 3rd leg!! I don't have a 3rd leg so I didn't know men had it so bad. I'm going to keep praying, taking your wisdom and trusting God using discernment that I will be bless with a man who will be faithful. Thank you Tony for your wisdom!
@browngoddess5340
@browngoddess5340 4 жыл бұрын
As long as there are women who will give a guy the opportunity, he will be tested and possibly take it.
@km7890km
@km7890km 4 жыл бұрын
When you stop what you doing and start listening to Uncle/Cousin/Bro. Tony.
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
Kirstie M it’s life changing every time. You hear meh 🤣
@km7890km
@km7890km 4 жыл бұрын
@@marishalewis484 ay, lis'en ta me nah. Lol 2-3x soaking up everything.
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
Kirstie M 🤣🤣🤣 I’m done with you! Me too lady!
@mntw6062
@mntw6062 4 жыл бұрын
I’m staying in tonight just so I can be alone to study and take notes from Tony. I learn so much . You are worth your weight in gold Tony
@DevAllDay
@DevAllDay 4 жыл бұрын
😊😊 Yes!
@annettesolomon1347
@annettesolomon1347 4 жыл бұрын
I had to replay this video I missed some of what you said because I was crying ,after watching this and I had to let him know and holding him accountable now I'm willing to loose him the ball is in his court.
@lachaebrown6334
@lachaebrown6334 4 жыл бұрын
No the ball is in your court. He will have to fight for the ball. If not you will be unhappy. I'm learning this right now.
@annettesolomon1347
@annettesolomon1347 4 жыл бұрын
@elven mckay I'm not perfect and neither is he , no one is perfect we all have our flaws.
@proverbs31woman62
@proverbs31woman62 4 жыл бұрын
The ball is in your court, you have control now over your life. You letting him know you will not be treated any kind of way... praying for you🌹
@annettesolomon1347
@annettesolomon1347 4 жыл бұрын
@@proverbs31woman62 Thank you
@proverbs31woman62
@proverbs31woman62 4 жыл бұрын
Annette Solomon You are welcome
@ruthwells3990
@ruthwells3990 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for mentioning “the 3rd leg”. My Momma use to tell me as a young woman, you have the power, “ALL WOMEN DO”. His 3rd leg is his weakness, don’t let it be yours, ya hear me!!!!( in my Tony Gaskins voice😁).
@LadybugPhil413
@LadybugPhil413 4 жыл бұрын
Ladies, hustle in your single life. Love yourself more than anyone else could imagine and the "right" Man will work for you! Don't waste time with immature Men. They come in ALL ages and sizes. Know Your Worth and do not settle!! Easier said than done but your Heart, Mind and Soul will thank you later! Hustle and build on your own until a Worthy Man comes along. Low lying fruit is easy to find and a complete waste of time. A good Soul is rare but will be worth it all!! 😉😘💗 Be Blessed!
@shaneekaraybe4919
@shaneekaraybe4919 4 жыл бұрын
A man's morals and values will push him to be a better person. If it was planted in him from a young age and even if he may stray going into teen or adulthood he may contemplate deeply about how he is living
@sacha.fierce
@sacha.fierce 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony. I needed to hear this. “You gotta be willing to loose him to keep him”
@kikinyte6806
@kikinyte6806 4 жыл бұрын
that touched me too....but I don't want that comment to pull be backwards because I'm healing and happy
@elicore.biz81
@elicore.biz81 4 жыл бұрын
These grown boys need to stop!! Thank you Tony for the gems you give, because I was able to see the true nasty colors of a grown boy recently. I study your content and take notes....the work speaks for itself. I have learned to "inspect what I expect". And I make sure to discern spiritual things by not operating in the flesh. Ladies be careful when dealing with certain men, some of them are certifiably insane....you can look up arrest info, but not medical records....
@DaAvant
@DaAvant 4 жыл бұрын
Facts" to love 1 woman
@channapooh
@channapooh 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed! What a powerful message. “ You have to be willing to lose a man, in order to keep him” -Tony gaskins. Mr. Gaskins again I thank you for changing the world. Your purpose is great, keep on keeping on brother! Thank you
@karaavery7000
@karaavery7000 4 жыл бұрын
Hand-GELA 😭😭😭 Tony I can not deal with you 🤣🤣 I’m cracking up lol
@marcusthomas2752
@marcusthomas2752 4 жыл бұрын
be blessed, i watch until the end.
@bossladymsp2885
@bossladymsp2885 4 жыл бұрын
When two people are fully committed there aren't any issues within the relationship..
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE 2021
@Please1ful
@Please1ful 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed!! Another on time video. I’m willing to lose him to keep. I’m scared but still going through with the 2 week no contact... day 2.
@therealtamararandolphoffic6103
@therealtamararandolphoffic6103 4 жыл бұрын
You can do it
@Please1ful
@Please1ful 4 жыл бұрын
Tamara Randolph Official .. thanks sis
@Glamrocs
@Glamrocs 4 жыл бұрын
You got this
@Queengemi5
@Queengemi5 4 жыл бұрын
How’s it going
@beauty4ash914
@beauty4ash914 4 жыл бұрын
naturallyme so what happened during and after the 2 weeks?
@nikkigillis599
@nikkigillis599 4 жыл бұрын
This is all pure facts! It takes awhile to really be accountable for our part in allowing it but it’s true. The material gain and business ethic doesn’t make the maturity of a real man
@maxinesmith6965
@maxinesmith6965 4 жыл бұрын
He's telling me that his BM doesn't want him nor does he want her, but he says they still have conversations with one another.
@ggpebbles3354
@ggpebbles3354 4 жыл бұрын
Tony precipice is a word🤣 you be cracking me up using these words and don't know the meaning of them 😊
@annettesolomon1347
@annettesolomon1347 4 жыл бұрын
But it just fits and flows perfectly with what he be saying 😂
@Passion84GodAlways
@Passion84GodAlways 4 жыл бұрын
GOD BLESS YOU for BLESSING US with videos day in and DAY OUT!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
Passion8 4God Yes! He’s very consistent. Thank you Tony!
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE 2021
@bre_s9164
@bre_s9164 4 жыл бұрын
So instead of when does he mature the question should be WHO does he mature for??....
@aliciadickson4564
@aliciadickson4564 4 жыл бұрын
Nopes. He matures at the very point he is held accountable by his woman.
@runningwithscissors1564
@runningwithscissors1564 2 жыл бұрын
This channel is pure therapy! I can see the Lord working in you!
@DeeDee-no7bb
@DeeDee-no7bb 4 жыл бұрын
We as women play a vital role but the man must fear and respect his creator. A man matures when he learns from his mistakes, accept full responsibility You are on fire !! Please don’t let satan stop you from giving us what is needed. Be blessed!!
@pjSoCal23
@pjSoCal23 4 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed... Thanks Tony these are words to live by.. I wasn’t afraid to hold him accountable and with doing so, I lost him. I saw the “ Instagram live “ right before I viewed this!
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
PJ Cali that’s okay lady. He wasn’t the man for you.
@pjSoCal23
@pjSoCal23 4 жыл бұрын
Marisha Lewis Yes, you have to lose him to keep him.. like Tony said.
@pjSoCal23
@pjSoCal23 4 жыл бұрын
LaFenice Forbes Bless you also!
@enukajoseph
@enukajoseph 4 жыл бұрын
Always learning from Mr Tony Gaskins. I've started my business after reading single is not a curse 4 years ago and I've been abstinent for almost 4 years. Your message is real and I am so grateful for all that you do. Your book really changed my life. Keep it up!!!
@lindahastings3684
@lindahastings3684 3 жыл бұрын
I learn something new every video , and I'm 70 years old! Thank you , You have quite a sense of humor , and you can talk a chicken off a bone! In a very good way !
@toriyt2714
@toriyt2714 4 жыл бұрын
I just want to give thanks and commend Tony for what he does. It takes a very wise person to realize what he did in his life and how it worked out was the exception and speak from that place. Many people are the exception but don’t realize it and speak like their experience is the rule. Thanks again Tony.
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad 4 жыл бұрын
Soo good. I have def been there trying to unlock a lock that wasn't mine. Glad I learned early. I know how to walk away now 💯 Be blessed & thank God for the calling on your life!
@ggpebbles3354
@ggpebbles3354 4 жыл бұрын
Keep being a blessing!!
@geribradley9354
@geribradley9354 4 жыл бұрын
You are right... you have to be willing to lose a man to keep him🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@yolandalofton9967
@yolandalofton9967 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being transparent. Be blessed
@CoachHC
@CoachHC 4 жыл бұрын
This is good stuff and an eye opener. I’m listening 👂 and received it. Be Blessed!
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
H Cohane Me too lady! All ears!
@monet1463
@monet1463 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed! Thanks for the message!
@mntw6062
@mntw6062 4 жыл бұрын
Meeee!!! Thanks for popping in tonight Tony !!!
@AngelaRCurry
@AngelaRCurry 4 жыл бұрын
Blessed Tribe here. Thank you Tony.
@ShirahGodsSong
@ShirahGodsSong 4 жыл бұрын
I love it!! Thanks Bro Tony!! Looking forward to the vision!!!
@ionadawes8769
@ionadawes8769 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome word. Be blessed.
@DD-mg2se
@DD-mg2se 3 жыл бұрын
Be blessed. I ALWAYS watch till the end.
@bobdee4468
@bobdee4468 4 жыл бұрын
Great video Tony!be blessed
@lynnjones7695
@lynnjones7695 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed, I always listen to the end..
@luulips
@luulips 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed Tony. So excited for the book in April already pre-ordered.
@Somuchtotalkabout
@Somuchtotalkabout 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed. I ALWAYS WATCH TIL THE END!
@aquarislov79
@aquarislov79 4 жыл бұрын
Dem rooms be banging I need yo discount 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.. good topics as usual🙏🏾❤️
@arielskys8727
@arielskys8727 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed! Golden wisdom nuggets!
@SilviaHernandez-lx4zz
@SilviaHernandez-lx4zz 3 жыл бұрын
Mr. Gaskins I just have to deal with a grown boy come back, got emotional for a second , listening 🎧 to this videos gave me the strength to put myself together thank you.
@andreadouglas4738
@andreadouglas4738 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, the way that you let God work through you is nothing short of a miracle!! You're living, breathing proof that any man can redeem himself. It's beautiful to watch. Can't wait for the network!!
@kendrahouston5016
@kendrahouston5016 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this be blessed brother Tony
@lwatson8667
@lwatson8667 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed! Thank you for the message and your dedication. Watched to the end. 😊 What a blessing you are.
@cornelieworahowanga8975
@cornelieworahowanga8975 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed Tony! Thank you for sharing and being so dedicated! God bless
@timdand
@timdand 4 жыл бұрын
Always watch till the end. Be blessed! Thank you for your message. ❤🙏🏾
@jaymibowie241
@jaymibowie241 4 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed!!! Appreciate this video!!!
@missebonii2706
@missebonii2706 4 жыл бұрын
I have enjoyed the realness of your videos.
@lavernewilliams6905
@lavernewilliams6905 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed! God bless you Tony!
@daphnedalton223
@daphnedalton223 4 жыл бұрын
Keep dropping knowledge...most of us are learning then not. Be blessed 🌟💫✨
@ElleonayDiazOviol
@ElleonayDiazOviol 4 жыл бұрын
The quality of the information you share with us is always always always on point.
@Tarahsays
@Tarahsays 4 жыл бұрын
So thankful for you Tony, I watch your videos everyday and I look forward to the raw honesty yet comical words!
@keyamoore6995
@keyamoore6995 4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed!!! Thanks for all you do to make sure we are well equipped as women out here in this world! 😄
@BrittanyCaprice86
@BrittanyCaprice86 3 жыл бұрын
I love this message. My dilemma is it's hard to find the time to support a man when you spend most of your time playing the role of a man yourself.
@sggray3983
@sggray3983 4 жыл бұрын
men or woman that complain about marriage ..never did it correctly or they know they can not be faithful to themselves 💥one woman 💥one man 💥or the higher calling.🙊🙉🙈
@msramonaable
@msramonaable 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, thank you for always keeping things 💯
@ggpebbles3354
@ggpebbles3354 4 жыл бұрын
Speak it into existence brother Tony!
@dbenj8219
@dbenj8219 4 жыл бұрын
Yessss. Tony network would be amazing‼️
@marishalewis484
@marishalewis484 4 жыл бұрын
You sure did said that Tony on the Breakfast Club! I just watched that video yesterday! You have been consistent because that interview was 1 year ago.
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