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@montricec87953 жыл бұрын
He said, "If you said you were going to call me at 9 and you don't, you better be in the hospital with a near death note." I 😂😂😂
@xfaroutzx36373 жыл бұрын
Men need to be kept on their toes by a woman, she needs to be soft feminine and sweet with strong morals and respect for herself. He needs to know that you'll walk the minute he f's up. No excuses, no forgiving, no begging....women need to have the mindset "I love you but I love myself more" when you have that mindset, the right man will be yours.
@gwenbradford61347 ай бұрын
Great comment!
@montricec87953 жыл бұрын
He is most correct!! The loudest mouth is the weakest. That has always been true.
@nataliellorente66193 жыл бұрын
You can’t let a man trick you out of what you know is right or wrong. Of what you know is respectful or not. Don’t let him trick you!
@TheRealHealer3 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right. we tend to allow guys to brainwash us to believing that there way of life is the correct way. Knowing that his way will always fail. Protect what is yours first, Your MIND. Your BODY. Your SPIRIT. He pull back, I pull back too. I never chase. I am the Boss. I pay my cost daily, so which means - He follow suite, or I'll make him wish he did.
@CaramelCuban3 жыл бұрын
!!
@shanepruitt27153 жыл бұрын
💯 Tony, on the part “when a man does something, he knows exactly what he is doing and is willing to take that chance”. BYE!
@theonerealestatesecret3 жыл бұрын
The more I learn about men the less I get tricked in personal and business relationships.
@heyyashleyyy26693 жыл бұрын
When they say you have to train a man to how to treat you and what will and will not fly with you, that’s literally what it is in every sense of the word. This video just confirmed that.
@CaramelKissez3 жыл бұрын
Yyyyaaass!
@evka243 жыл бұрын
I disagree. We should not look for the project but man who knows what’s polite and right already.
@Dr.Elaine13 жыл бұрын
“He can read you and tell if you’ll walk away.” TG
@shannonmiles6263 жыл бұрын
it’s been almost a year since I’ve been watching you..Tony! You stepped my dating game up!! 💪🏾
@CaramelKissez3 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@SexyVUUgirl3 жыл бұрын
Omg, Tony! The comment you said about a man not calling you when he said he would is the truth! I let them know you must be a man of your word with me. If you aren't consistent with me up front then I'm ghost. I dont explain no more. The first time you slip in consistency I say something. After that Im silent.. Ive learned just as you said..no need to cry and all that.. Move in silence. You are giving me confirmation!!
@CaramelKissez3 жыл бұрын
💯🙌🏽
@aquarianempresstarot73803 жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am! You just get tired of talking. Men respond to actions. All that talking is for the birds.
@lynnjones76953 жыл бұрын
He’s willing to lose you, whew raw truth sirrrr...
@soothingtemples93933 жыл бұрын
Mr Gaskins is correct. Most of the men in my family are all warrior types. Military, alpha and enforcement types, their minds work differently. They are not the average man. To exist among them as a feminine woman, you must have a total awareness of yourself, your boundaries and be able to vocalize your requirements in a diplomatic respectful way. You must also know how to sense danger and move out of range quickly because there will be no warnings. "Coach Francesca"
@mrs.mitchell49513 жыл бұрын
Finally someone else See's this!!!!
@francinewilliams42783 жыл бұрын
You always give sound, practical advice. 💯👍👍👍
@lemonspice58893 жыл бұрын
Tony for president of the United States!!
@keishawilliams75463 жыл бұрын
Men are to complicated and i don’t have time for it. I’ll just travel and enjoy life and if god has a man for me he will bring him without all these complications.
@brittbrat32323 жыл бұрын
I’ve learned so much from this man, taking notes as always!
@1stresurrection8343 жыл бұрын
You do well take notes girl because you are going to sit a man's exam🧐 i know am stupid🤯
@CaramelCuban3 жыл бұрын
“A man reads you he knows if you love yourself” whew! speak
@chellez293 жыл бұрын
Men are TIRED! Either he's marrying you or not! What do you wanna do 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@mrs.mitchell49513 жыл бұрын
Yes🤣🤣🤣🤣
@justincase10343 жыл бұрын
Have to correct you there coach. Crying is indeed a sign of strength. The strongest ppl show emotions. The weak ones are the ones who pretend to be moved by nothing or no one.
@ashleycbla3 жыл бұрын
Just In case But when you’re a cry baby it takes strength to hold in them tears because you can’t help it.
@BeautyWithinKakra3 жыл бұрын
No not dating/ correcting a man trust me on that! If you cannot find your words to articulate your thoughts BP man ( or woman ) will listen to you. Yes crying in a strength but do you cry at work when you’ve been wronged or do you verbalize what the issue is?
@fiftyfiftylifestyle4563 жыл бұрын
Whilst women tend to agree strong people show emotions many men do not. They will see it as a sign of weakness and use it against you. They will feel you are either manipulating them and wont like it or think that they 'got you'. I'm not saying this is right. But this is how most masculine men operate. 🤷♀️
@ashleycbla3 жыл бұрын
He isn’t talking about a person is strong for pretending to not be moved by nothing or no one, pretending would mean you aren’t calling a person out on their crap and just being a floor mat. He is saying the strong person has control of their emotions, so instead of being emotionally obnoxious, you are being direct and to the point about how you feel without being a floor mat and settling. This is even taught in the military, even as a woman if you don’t know how to have control of your emotions while communicating you’re seen as weak and not worthy of respect. That’s just how men think.
@kerrycoffee3 жыл бұрын
You can cry. Just don’t let him see you.
@christineporter99143 жыл бұрын
Bro Tony this one woman ain't scared to call the police on or put a man on child support . One thing a grown boy will see I will call him out on his behavior. Like you say point blank periooooood.
@coachnatishamommatish1853 жыл бұрын
Greetings Blessed Tribe Family!!!😁🙏💪
@JB-qz3ov3 жыл бұрын
This is beaitiful work. Women are remembering how to take their power back to create a harmonious, loving world through standing Her ground and respecting Her self worth. "Sgt. Booty-Hole" is gonna have me smiling all day now, lol 🤣
@Bbyg_x3 жыл бұрын
Class has started!!!
@nickbry73573 жыл бұрын
It has!!
@KingofgraceSARA3 жыл бұрын
Blessed crew, represent. Praise God! Army punishment = "smoking, smoke,smoked".
@lamiaallen78303 жыл бұрын
Part II...This young Man right "HERE"... God has given him compassion, discernment & Great Wisdom. The WEALTH of knowledge he imparts is 2nd to NONE!!! Blessings my 4Ever Bro Tony G.🙏🏾💯✔‼🎯
@GenZutuber3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony. Love is OR isn’t. Was married for 4 years this man threaten me with divorce after divorce. When I chose to say he chose to hit and I chose to stay. But after our son was born I told him if he hit again I walk away. He hit and I walked away didn’t expect that I would but I did. Was not afraid to involve cops which he was taken away. You’re right, they know what they’re doing and if you allow it to continue to do it. If a man doesn’t love you and has already told you he’s not afraid to lose you and he will not be afraid to abuse.
@christineallen30033 жыл бұрын
All facts!♏️❤️
@Meepsavage3 жыл бұрын
I’m scared to divorce my husband of 6 years and 3 children . I’m fed up. I’ve fought for our marriage for years. I’ve given grace upon grace and he is so narcissistic that he is blinded. I’m done with the verbal, emotional abuse . I’m building myself up again and moving forward with Gods help
@soothingtemples93933 жыл бұрын
Present. 🤚🏽 "Coach Francesca"
@ChaeThompson3 жыл бұрын
Tony telling straight truth. I’ve experienced some of this firsthand
@ashleycbla3 жыл бұрын
Believe it or not there is not a whole lot of integrity in the Army, it’s rare. Just saw an online news article not long ago where this lower enlisted male soldier got upset with his Sergant female soldier because she witness and was going to tell his superiors that he was having an affair. So the male soldier and his gf killed the Sergant because he said she was trying to ruin his career because he was cheating.
@sanjeshnidevi9823 жыл бұрын
I feel the problem is that BOTH men and women are looking to understand “LOVE” by using their conscious & cognitive brain. However, throughout human history LOVE continues to evade our understanding and remains a mystery. Our conscious brain fails to recognize that this powerful phenomenon called "LOVE" is actually confined to our UNCONSCIOUS part of the brain. The unconscious brain doesn’t ask for your permission with whom you shall fall in love with Or when you will fall in love. Hence, this is the ROOT of the challenges and frustration behind all the unhealthy, toxic, and drama-filled relationships in 21st century. There is a constant battle between the Unconscious brain and the Conscious brain. There’s an old saying... Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind. ~William Shakespeare~
@dn-cp6sh3 жыл бұрын
I literally learn something new with every video. I just wish I knew about you years ago. Thanks Tony, be blessed 🙏
@temitope_esther_oluwawunmi3 жыл бұрын
You're on point sir. Well-done sir.
@olabisiomotolaolugbodi49093 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr. Gaskins, be blessed.
@lisaamani44413 жыл бұрын
BE BLESSED!!
@Jazz.Ministry3 жыл бұрын
Here for Part 2 🙌🏾
@terrasseberry54033 жыл бұрын
Blessings to your life!! Your son looks just like you
@sablekennedy53603 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This really resonated with me. I’m gaining peace & clarity.
@judithstevens43233 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU sooo much Tony for this message.....it is so informative. I do this.....
@joymike54213 жыл бұрын
God bless you Tony
@AE-1063 жыл бұрын
Truth! As always, thank you and blessings! 🙏☮😊
@s.a.h64403 жыл бұрын
I'm learning every day. Thank you for the message Tony. God Bless!
@b.tabati9113 жыл бұрын
Brilliant!!!! As always... sound advice🙏🏽
@miniesianovaspeller69583 жыл бұрын
Well said Tony! God Bless
@AidaRivera3 жыл бұрын
Tony is always on point 💯
@cherylhunter27753 жыл бұрын
You are a comedian straight up but real
@angietorres47533 жыл бұрын
I love all your videos. Thanks for another great video!
@fikilemkhize11013 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tony for today’s video. I now have a better understanding about how men love, but more importantly the power and strength of my actions. God bless you and your family.
@ericacrayton86153 жыл бұрын
I so so wish my oldest son would listen to Tony and take heed...these grown boys have a lot to learn...smh..
@PrettiRissa3 жыл бұрын
This was a really good explanation on how men are designed! We often forget that it’s tough being a man. Well a REAL man that is! It’s a battle like Tony explained! ❤️
@BrittneySamoneSilver3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony!
@sandraestrich70743 жыл бұрын
Exactly correct Mr. Gaskin
@Shae_33 жыл бұрын
I literally was just quoting you today saying “Tony Gaskins said men read women” and here you are saying it again!
@elizabethjimenez10823 жыл бұрын
Just got "A Woman's Influence" in today!!!! Read the 1st chapter and also I may be late but I just found QUEEN ALUA and omg! What a beautiful human being I hope to see you both doing something together if you haven't already your messages both compliment each other 💛Thank you, Thank you, Thank you💛
@amarachukwu34553 жыл бұрын
Glad to be here
@CaramelKissez3 жыл бұрын
Welcome
@vanessachambers6973 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed 😊
@AtlantaAngel843 жыл бұрын
This was informative.
@zuleikae.50323 жыл бұрын
Great video! God bless you🙏
@celebratelifetodaywithcele84283 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew this before now. Though I believe it would not have made the difference in my last relationship. It does feel good to be equipped with this info right now. I'm a healthy woman who believes love will find me again! Hopefully I'll be ready. But I do know that I'm not ready right now. Still healing happily! No regrets! Right now I am in relationships with my Brain, Brand, Body. Thank you Mr.G. Peace & Blessings
@DD-mg2se3 жыл бұрын
Be blessed 🙏♥️
@jalisaspeaks95113 жыл бұрын
I think I’m the first viewer , !!!!! Glad to be a member GOD Bless U!!!! And your Family!!!
@CaramelKissez3 жыл бұрын
Jalisa SPEAKS God bless you
@nickbry73573 жыл бұрын
Welcome
@jalisaspeaks95113 жыл бұрын
Caramel Kissez -COACH thank you soo much!!!! GOD Bless you and your family!!!
@CaramelKissez3 жыл бұрын
@@jalisaspeaks9511 you're welcome, thank you🙏🏽
@dianariley10673 жыл бұрын
Tony you are so funny 🤣🤣🤣👍🏾! I laughed throughout the video 🤣🤦🏾♀️. And yet you are dispersing so much real Knowledge 😊. God Bless You!!🙏🏾💛😊
@user-pn6qh7nk5q3 жыл бұрын
That slap and head toss😂😂
@brittbrat32323 жыл бұрын
TG is so funny 😂
@myarenea11253 жыл бұрын
Its the smacks and finger gestures that kills me lol 😂
@kimberlyshue28233 жыл бұрын
Thank you ♥️👑
@stargoldqueen58943 жыл бұрын
😂 can't even pick up after his self
@brendajones91103 жыл бұрын
REAL TALK.....
@leibysferrera65043 жыл бұрын
Learning!!!!
@udoto2323 жыл бұрын
I gotta loud mouth But they didn't know my God, thats what makes me strong cause I'm weak by myself. 🤭🙏 love you Tony!!!!
@tee1903 жыл бұрын
Thanks to tony . Girl is wise up 😂🥰🥰
@conniekirventhecomebackque14453 жыл бұрын
Be blessed
@kaycocaine3 жыл бұрын
I love thissss....
@Carolina4807 ай бұрын
A HIGHLY COMPLICATED CREATURE
@QueenRonny3 жыл бұрын
I like your company logo showing in the background. 😊
@gokelovefeji16513 жыл бұрын
Am listening sir
@africas_original3 жыл бұрын
I truly love your words. My man broke up with me and came back when i forgot about his ass. He knew I wasn't the one😂😂😂😂😂.
@JewelGlowASMR3 жыл бұрын
“In 001” lol I’m done 😂
@valenciawalker64983 жыл бұрын
Thank you , for giving us a overview of manology , you men are complex . Yes , my grandfather was in the army and other relatives in diff areas of the military my boyfriend served two terms as a Marine . My bf was wired his step-dad was a marine the yelling didn’t bother him . My grandad always says never get a honorable discharge even tho ,I and my brother never went military.I definitely can see these things you speak of in men .
@bellaanders42993 жыл бұрын
5.30..... hahahahha xD Your acting skill is amazing xD
@indianlernmoore44893 жыл бұрын
Thank You for your sacrifice and shared wisdom and hard truths. With all of this information-knowledge and wisdom you are giving us about men, what can you give me to cause me to want to allow my heart to begin to desire being partners with a man again? Ever? Truly? I have no argumentative, beg-to-differ spirit. I am simply preparing myself to live forever. I want not to be disillusioned.
@lifegoeson15453 жыл бұрын
I was just talking to a friend about this . He allows his co worker to call him all times of the night he get off work and goes over to her house . She has to much privilege then the one he sleeps with do and that’s not good at all . He has no boundaries at all
@SittingPRETTY7273 жыл бұрын
Wow , I wonder why he does this
@1stresurrection8343 жыл бұрын
The comment section oh bwoy!! I ask in part 1 let me say again...only if we had known tony Gaskin,his videos and read the Holy bible then we wouldnt have so much problem with making relationship choices atleast for those who believe😊😊
@Misssixty5103 жыл бұрын
This answers a lot of questions for me - I always wondered if all men were secretly homosexual as I could never understand their fixation with women being ‘hard’ like them. She’s a ‘punk’ if she’s not miked up and acclimated to dismantling bullshit. Take Jay-Z for instance, I never understood his obsession with hood chicks when he has a wife that’s rich, enterprising, beautiful and hyper FEMININE (and I suspect that she GENUINELY loves him). Why would a man want to corrupt that by turning her into a male with a wig on? I’d cringe when I’d see her in mock bank heist scenes with sawed off shotguns est. Like I said this clears up a lot, thank you for sharing this perspective on the male mind and biology.
@Misssixty5103 жыл бұрын
This is also funny and ironic because most women work so hard at being ‘sweet’, nurturing and forgiving haha! Whew all that conditioning actually works against women when it comes to men.
@Misssixty5103 жыл бұрын
@Velvet Simmons I don’t tap dance for men. You either respect feminine energy or you don’t, I allow Men to work their Oedipal issues out somewhere else. I DO however make this switch energetically in my professional life because it’s the Wild West here in the states so a gal has to be ready, that and I’m paid very well for putting forth the extra energy and effort. Romantically I don’t play these games with men, if you ever demonstrate that you’re a threat to my feminine nature I will drop you in a NY minute. I intend to be a mother one day and I’m not going to be pregnant and vulnerable with a man who’s not in his King, if you demonstrate that your not fit that’s the end of it. I’m forever a Woman first, my signature of femininity dose not include ‘hardening’ up for an underdeveloped male. Understanding that this is a part of their nature helps a bit and I respect that, however I respect my needs as a Woman first - that’s my nature.
@kemiLuv3 жыл бұрын
Thank you as always Tony 👍🏾👍🏾 I love to listen to you? I really wanna ask u something but u mention in u last few videos that u don't answer DM 😔 Keep up the good work 👏
@teresaroquemore6703 жыл бұрын
So true
@veronicajones63513 жыл бұрын
God bless Mr. Gaskins I notice. You say you can't say certain words on your Channel or I assume KZfaq might take the video down or block you. Instead of saying the word abuse, you could say abnormal use. If you think of it when you abnormally use medication it becomes drug abuse. I think this applies to relationships too.
@savedbysabtravel_95603 жыл бұрын
Mannnnn. This used to be me. I’m laughing the whole video bc it’s true 🤣🤣🤣
@barbaradebets71813 жыл бұрын
say that! truth :)
@michelleatchison84243 жыл бұрын
That where I a different I will turn my back and sign divorce papers with a big smile cause it's his loss and in due time my gain in waiting on GOD and get the one God has for me in his timing.I am old school I don't play that.And if he willing to lose me so be it Because I say what I mean and mean what I say.playing with me is like playing with fire you will get Burned.I # zero tolerance
@iulioana3 жыл бұрын
I agree. My doubt would be: all this checking and behaviour correction would it not create a stressful atmosphere?
@carrom19203 жыл бұрын
Evolutionary psychology
@lorenaramirez96873 жыл бұрын
Well dang.
@FutureAttyInTheMaking3 жыл бұрын
Confirmation, Confirmation, Confirmation!!!!
@CaramelKissez3 жыл бұрын
Tonygaskinsacademy.com to view courses online. Do know prices may change and adjustments are not made. A free 10 steps to self love course is available.💞
@TiffanyBTV3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾
@casadegaitan Жыл бұрын
14:34 to the end whoo child
@kiwthebeauty3 жыл бұрын
Tony I swear I had this same download a few months ago. About no matter how technologically evolved we became as a society...we still have the same primitive skills and mindset, same body parts and dna as our ancestors. We didn’t overly evolved it’s just our environments evolved. It’s great we are technologically advanced but we need some of our primitive minds too but I think that’s why we are lost. Tony do you know we are not even attracting our mates properly anymore. Hair is pheromones and natural body scents are pheromones. Women are wearing wigs and covering up one of their main pheromone attractors. Even us natural hair girls if you cloaking you’re hair in products you are covering up all of these pheromones that could NATURALLY attract a good man. We overly perfuming and cologning ourselves and we can’t even chemically smell if someone is healthy or a good match for us anymore. These chemical perfumes/colognes are disguising our pheromones which has our DNA encoded into it - which helps us naturally without thinking be able to know if we are not only attracted but if we are a good reproductive match with someone. I know that’s gonna be too deep for some to digest but I just wanted to add to what you were saying about we still have the same body and dna encodings like our ancestors did before we got advanced. We are so advanced now we are disconnected and it’s sad. These basic natural things our body does to attract ourselves to people we are blocking it every day.
@remiem-iw7uk3 жыл бұрын
That's compelling info. Been telling folks for years to skip all these overpowering bodywashes, creams etc. for more natural ones. Please paste the links to this info if you have them.
@periodtpooh95_933 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂trueee❤️❤️❤️
@benjamincrooms50413 жыл бұрын
🙏
@lovinglife90233 жыл бұрын
What if he ain't a warrior?
@lovinglife90233 жыл бұрын
@Velvet Simmons I know for a fact that some men can infact be punks.