Too Embarrassed to Invite Friends Over | The Hoarder Next Door S1 EP 3

Too Embarrassed to Invite Friends Over | The Hoarder Next Door S1 EP 3 | Only Human

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3 жыл бұрын

Stelios Kiosses and his team tackle the excesses of former Coronation Street actress Tricia Ford (Pauline Walsh), whose house is infested with rats, making her too embarrassed to invite friends over. The psychotherapist also meets a jazz enthusiast whose burgeoning music collection has left his girlfriend with no room to stay.
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@denisecarpenter2981 3 жыл бұрын

This is the first hoarder show where I laughed a lot. Thank you Julie. “If a robber broke in they’d start cleaning the house!” 😂

@thandoc3934 3 жыл бұрын

you cheeky...imagine u find the bugler still cleaning

@alisonalibongo3177 3 жыл бұрын

😂🙈

@picheepie018 3 жыл бұрын

@rexs.5188 2 жыл бұрын

They'd be doing her a favour by stealing some of the stuff

@cookiekirkland8689 2 жыл бұрын

I agree I was rooting 4 Tricia so bad!! And I loved her friend for sticking with her, true friend. ♥️♥️

@uddelhexe3545 2 жыл бұрын

The husband David...he seems like a person that is a part of the things that hold this woman back to move on. He will not be able to really cope...because if she heals and moves on, he has to move on too. And that means finding own purpose and not just blaming her all day and have an own journey. Sometimes people, despite liking each other, are not good for each other.

@UsernameUnkwn21 10 ай бұрын

What a HUGE ASSUMPTION😅

@jenguinofdoom4747 3 жыл бұрын

Julie is a fantastic human: says it like it is and ready to jump in without her friend even asking.

@johannas.l.brushane2518 2 жыл бұрын

But they should wear protecting masks when startingto move around the dust with mousepee!

@judylloyd7901 Жыл бұрын

@@johannas.l.brushane2518 Rat pee!! 🤢

@gorgon2385 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy that this show doesn't put the hoarders on display like other shows I've seen. When I watch other shows, it feels like they're really just there to shame the people and then clean their stuff without actually helping them. But I think it's great that this show promotes compassion and teaches people that there are proper ways to help people who become hoarders. If I were a hoarder and I watched this, I think I might be encouraged to reach out to someone for professional help.

@songwolf108 3 жыл бұрын

Coming from a shame based society makes it that much harder to heal...

@B_Bodziak 2 жыл бұрын

If you'll notice, the US versions have homeowners in a crisis situation. They're usually about to lose their homes. So, they have to clear the homes first and offer them aftercare funds to continue therapy and organization learning.

@cookiekirkland8689 2 жыл бұрын

Yes they actually give them individual tools to change their lives. Also the process is 6 weeks not 3 days or 1 week like most hoarders shows.

@MsMoonDragoon 2 жыл бұрын

@@B_Bodziak no, they don't offer them any aftercare or actual therapy. this is why 90% of the people on US hoarders relapse. they only get a small talent fee for being on the show, and only because in certain states its the law.

@judylloyd7901 Жыл бұрын

@@MsMoonDragoon One US show I've watched a lot, A&E, offers after care for the hoarder and sometimes for family members as well. It's quite often an urgent situation, but not always, and it's only over about 4 days, with on-the-spot counselling.

@ambreiachaney 3 жыл бұрын

This is So much better than the American version.. There’s true healing going on and not the need to get everything done in three days

@sheilaboston7051 3 жыл бұрын

So many American shows are all about the drama. The Brits are much more down-to-earth.

@lcnewberrie9021 3 жыл бұрын

I was going to comment this. I prefer this one over the American version as well.

@Ire308 3 жыл бұрын

That's exactly right. They put too much pressure on the hoarders in the American show. Then they get frustrated when many of them refuse to comply.

@Ytdeletesallmycomments 3 жыл бұрын

They wont heal either. Addicts.

@lauras3666 3 жыл бұрын

@@Ytdeletesallmycomments their not addicts they have ocd that limits their decision making.

@bjb0808 2 жыл бұрын

This is the best show on hoarding. Compassionate, caring and with a psychologist who really helps. In this episode, Julie is a godsend. What an incredible friend to help like she did.

@kerrywood407 3 жыл бұрын

Fancy having to turn to a friend because you can’t turn to your own husband. My heart broke for her.

@katywuste9054 3 жыл бұрын

Fancy being the husband who has to live in the squalor and stench

@whyme7996 3 жыл бұрын

fancy being so abused by your spouse for years that anything you want, anything you need, anything you own is destroyed by her selfishness, all while she acts the victim....my heart broke for him.

@marieangeli3333 3 жыл бұрын

This is not a disorder that belongs only to her. This is a disorder of both parties who live here. Selfishness? Really? Misogynist much?

@learntocrochet1 3 жыл бұрын

Didn't her husband say, "someone needs to help her"? Not "she needs help but I don't know how to give it to her".

@lushpapaya9932 3 жыл бұрын

His father was terminally ill. Was she helping him?

@camrenwick 3 жыл бұрын

I loved Julie for being an honest, true and helpful friend. A rare treasure to have.

@dbentleyto95 3 жыл бұрын

Stelios is a jewel. I love his style.

@mercedesehmsen9674 3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes. Always styled

@venumames6921 3 жыл бұрын

Love his style and personality too. Pity he is not here in Greece lol

@mj44190 2 жыл бұрын

Yes he is remarkably insightful and creative in his treatment

@sophirichmanfletcher4657 3 жыл бұрын

Trish is very fortunate to have Julie as a friend; I'm not impressed with the husband. Poor lady had to ask him if he was proud, ask him for validation, and for all we know, he didn't lift a finger during the process. I love the bursts of color and the art on display. I hope she stays strong. Paul's declutter was impressive!! His place looks great.

@gillianbrookwell1678 2 жыл бұрын

The husband has probably had to put up with her mess for years, and he's sick and tired of it. I've known marriages to end because of extreme hoarding; These individuals are a nightmare to live with.

@thegameplanapp7756 2 жыл бұрын

Right?!?? I can’t believe how absent the husband was!!! They should have made breaking it off with him a part of the show! He sucks!!

@koisneurotypical 3 жыл бұрын

There are a few differences with the UK version of Hoarders (when compared to the US version). The UK version really focuses on therapy and helping the individual. The US version only devotes the very beginning (and end) to therapy with giant dumpsters and moving vans and "junk trucks" taking over the Hoarder's home. It's just very interesting to compare and contrast the two versions. The UK version also focuses more on relationships and people as well (and not on the mess, if that makes sense). I enjoy both shows, but I find myself feeling more uplifted after watching the UK version! :)

@B_Bodziak 2 жыл бұрын

The US version has people who are in a crisis and about to lose their homes. They are limited to clearing the house first and then doing therapy afterwards. None of the homeowners on the British shows are faced with the city condemning their houses or having adult services called.

@D-me-dream-smp 2 жыл бұрын

The UK version maintains the humanity of the hoarder and demonstrates how there is often a root cause rather than presenting the person as bad or useless.

@judylloyd7901 2 жыл бұрын

@@D-me-dream-smp The American hoarder shows I've watched have shown compassion for the people suffering from the mental health issues which are at the root of the hoarding, with ongoing therapy offered.

@cookiekirkland8689 2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree the UK version focuses on all the "What, When, Why, Where's" in 6 weeks or longer. It allows the viewers to really get to know the hoarders and join their journey.😍🤗☺️😊🧱🏘🏚🏠

@olgakim4848 2 жыл бұрын

@@D-me-dream-smp ...rather than presenting the person as bad or useless.... The US version does this? No it does not! What are you spewing about? Why do you feel the need to blatantly lie?

@attheranch873 3 жыл бұрын

What a great friend Julie is! She calls her a dirty cow, and they both laugh hilariously 😀😀😀 they really are friends.

@MarianneMcVeigh-xz2yv 10 ай бұрын

I really love Stelios. He genuinely cares for his Clients and treats them with kindness, in a gentle, helpful way. I am so happy these hoarders regained their space and peace of mind.

@Pretty_Boy_Proud_Fil-Am 3 жыл бұрын

It is just satisfying to watch people healed and changed for the better.

@midnighthaven 3 жыл бұрын

I agree. It's one day at a time, like an addict.

@Fnugilet 3 жыл бұрын

That's legit my favorite part of this show 😍 To see the smiles at their face & the tears of joy. So beautiful.

@gulkokuluseccade8813 3 жыл бұрын

✓✓✓

@anianu-nm9ql 2 жыл бұрын

👌now I'm addicted 😉😉🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

@svamberiv7999 3 жыл бұрын

If Julie laughed at me and called me "dirty cow", I think I would feel nothing but love...what an honest gem she is! 💋👈💖

@LadyCoyKoi 3 жыл бұрын

It is also how she says it though. It is all about how it is delivered. 🥰

@littledabwilldoya9717 3 жыл бұрын

We all need a ‘Julie’!😄

@pigtailsandteddybears5985 3 жыл бұрын

I love it! ❤

@publicserviceannouncement4777 3 жыл бұрын

Right? Julie is a very supportive woman who doesn't sugarcoat anything!😅

@user-ce3ry8dh9j 3 жыл бұрын

@@LadyCoyKoi هه٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨٨خخخخمخدمممممككككحجحخمخممخخخخهخخخخ

@Wilma.Flintstone 2 жыл бұрын

Julie is an absolute doll and you need to hire her as "Friend for a Week" for every episode!

@ItzzFranziii 3 жыл бұрын

Julie is adorable...I instantly fell in love 🥰 - what a beautiful, powerful, funny woman. So full of energy, life, love and honesty!

@jennigee51 3 жыл бұрын

Julie is a wonderful friend, Trisha is obviously a wonderful friend too, or Julie wouldn’t have stayed with her!

@purrfection2208 3 жыл бұрын

Tricia's husband has clocked out. That delayed response to comforting her and how he held her hand. Cameraman/editors picked up on his mannerism. "Not a mind-reader" a whole interview and camera crew...

@sheilaboston7051 3 жыл бұрын

Not sticking up for him as such, but he's lived with it for 12 years and probably immune to it by now. We don't know, either, how many times she may have said she's going to clear it all out and then never done anything. Regardless of his attitude, he's stuck with her and now they will have a much improved life.

@JJ-iq8mi 3 жыл бұрын

Trish's mate Julie is FANTASTIC!

@remove574 3 жыл бұрын

I hope Tricia can enjoy the freedom of the declutter. Never be embarrassed to ask for help

@alanbirkner1958 3 жыл бұрын

My mother hoarded trash all my life. First, my dad cleaned up. He died in 1972. Then, my brother and I would do a major clean out every year until 1987, when she remarried. Her second husband was horrified, he didn't know she was a hoarder. She tried hoarding in a nursing home. Tina

@LuxMeow 3 жыл бұрын

LM FAO for her second husband. This is why a hoarder needs help to do it themselves or else they just continue on.

@mercedesehmsen9674 3 жыл бұрын

Did it effected you? Which Kind of Person are you now? I want to give everything away when it doesn‘t fit anymore...clothes, toys. I tried to make a make over in my apartment as often as I can because I don‘t want to have „old things“ like in my childhood.

@roseywinter 3 жыл бұрын

@@mercedesehmsen9674 Same here. My parents are mild/moderate hoarders. Nothing super crazy, but crazy enough. Drove me crazy, still does. I completely threw out like 90% of my own bedroom, realizing I was becoming like them. I don't even have anything from my childhood anymore, because it really was just clutter/trash/old/dangerous(mold, etc)... I feel so much better. But I hate keeping things, because it will spiral. I'm really not a fan of nostalgia, because it seems to ruin people. :/

@apriladelewhyte 3 жыл бұрын

Julie is so matter of fact in her way of speaking that its almost abrasive but she's also the best kind of friend to have help with this. 💖

@Budtuhrdhj 3 жыл бұрын

The anxiety and stress it’s probably unreal living in those conditions.

@QueenofArgyle2525 3 жыл бұрын

It Is

@tabby73 3 жыл бұрын

My husband is a hoarder and clutterer (although not nearly as bad as in these episodes) and I'm constantly de-cluttering and throwing stuff out. Yes it is stressful.

@noeldee9236 3 жыл бұрын

The smell

@amylee3531 2 жыл бұрын

Yup. It DEFINITELY sucks. Especially when you have no one to help at all.

@PhoenixFires9 2 жыл бұрын

@@noeldee9236 I always wonder about the smell too!

@janiceboyer6911 3 жыл бұрын

Trisha might consider what would be the appropriate post-it-note to place on Paul’s back.

@justcurious4060 3 жыл бұрын

YES, she should! Afwul man , like an anker ...pulling her down, no support, and scared to loose her. brrr

@janiceboyer6911 3 жыл бұрын

Oops. Maybe his name is David.

@justcurious4060 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, i hoped that i was not the only one

@amylee3531 2 жыл бұрын

I would have placed one on hers many years prior. Shes the one that kept bringing it all in THEN freaks TF out on him for bringing in their dogs biscuit jar he knew nothing about. His father was dying during filming but it's all about her? So wrong. HE needed to be dealing with his father. Not listening to the same stuff she's been telling him for many years.

@judylloyd7901 2 жыл бұрын

@@justcurious4060 anchor*

@DeniseCold 3 жыл бұрын

Respirators!! I am very pleased with this therapist. He's making such good progress with his clients.

@Serenityfor1 3 жыл бұрын

What a good funny friend Trisha has in Julie ❤️

@millville 3 жыл бұрын

Tricia has absolutely beautiful handwriting! At 10 minutes she starts with her postie-notes. Her writing is so clear and straight! She is a natural talent, so great that she will apply to her home!

@spookayitsme 3 жыл бұрын

Lol they've had to change the wording of Stelios' role and abilities... He used to say "I can cure a hoarder in 6 weeks and get them to get rid of their hoard" ... He met his match in a few of the hoarders and was unable to get some of them to part with much/most or any of their hoard... So now it's "it's a 6 week course and if they're ready then they get cleaners to come help" 😅

@publicserviceannouncement4777 3 жыл бұрын

"You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink."

@kathybricco1464 3 жыл бұрын

Julie is a dream friend....I want her to come to my house!

@gmkbelanger 2 жыл бұрын

22:18 This really gave me something to hold on to as I face getting rid of 50 - 75% of my stuff to reduce clutter and make room for my wife to move her belongings in. This brings it down to what really matters.

@guyporter6105 3 жыл бұрын

I love Julie she is an honest kind gem

@riawhetstone3725 2 жыл бұрын

When Julie said that anything she thinks comes straight out of her mouth I thought “oh, this is going to be good!” 😂

@andiebrit65 3 жыл бұрын

I want to dive in and binge watch Obsessive Compulsive Cleaners after this to clean my mind.

@LuxMeow 3 жыл бұрын

That's what I watch for motivation to prevent my place from turning into a hoarding situation/declutter.

@IJustWantToUseMyName 2 жыл бұрын

Before I found this program, I used to watch “How Clean is Your House” whenever I needed motivation to clean. I have chronic health problems and often don’t feel up to cleaning. I’ll watch 5-10 minutes of this and go spend a few minutes doing what I can handle, then rest a while before watching another 5-10 minutes of this again. lol

@PhoenixFires9 2 жыл бұрын

@@IJustWantToUseMyName Same with me!!!

@christinerewell9954 3 жыл бұрын

Eeww! The state of the computer keyboard!

@Ronnymikkonen2686 3 жыл бұрын

Yellow brownish yak!

@xoxo62477 3 жыл бұрын

If I were david I'd be more embarrassed that I made my wife's friend help her instead of doing it myself.

@rachelk4805 3 жыл бұрын

I think, if you know your presence is going to be more of a distraction than a help, sometimes the most helpful thing you can do is remove yourself. It would be great if he could be more supportive, but if he can't, he shouldn't be there.

@07051962kjf 3 жыл бұрын

Partners and family are not always the best ones to help, hes obviously been frustrated for a while and doubts her ability to now change, I think his not helping at this point is a good idea, he needs to regain his trust and she needs to deal with it herself right now.

@brocktoon8 Жыл бұрын

Julie is wonderful in every way. Love her blunt honesty, humour, and what a good friend she is. She seems to have everything in perspective.

@rogeregontrane9010 2 жыл бұрын

What breaks my heart is the terrible shame that Tricia felt for having mental illness. You wouldn't feel that way for having a physical illness (like diabetes for example) and no one should ashamed of their mental health problems and should in fact be proud to live and fight through it. I truly hope she is better today and live the happy life she deserves!

@bettystiegler1702 2 жыл бұрын

Actually, we do feel shame for our physical illnesses

@bisibisbi Жыл бұрын

@@bettystiegler1702 True.

@redwoods7370 3 жыл бұрын

Hoarder shows push me to clean my closets, drawers and house. I've never liked housework but this inspires me to just do it. I'd rather be out working in the garden! That said my heart goes out to hoarders. We all know the struggle with clutter.

@nohemigravina4923 3 жыл бұрын

It took me 14 months to clean my brother's mess, he was living with two hoarders. It looks like a brand new apartment now.

@michelegagne5169 3 жыл бұрын

What a caring approach from this psychotherapist! Learning and practicing meditation will help anyone unclutter the mind and the quality of one's environment usually follows. How we settle our homes during our lifetime is a reflection of who, what and how we are.

@grantstewart2522 3 жыл бұрын

Trisha might be the actress but it was Julie who stole the show. Brilliant.

@MrsShelleBelle 2 жыл бұрын

"You alright you dirty cow?" I literally burst out laughing!! :)

@howardthebuilder8185 3 жыл бұрын

The only shocking thing in my house is me.

@photogeNK 3 жыл бұрын

Electricity:

@dear9530 3 жыл бұрын

I'm sure there's help for that, too!

@wolfwhistlewoowoo6297 3 жыл бұрын

I adore this doctor - he truly invests in people ♡

@marisadoran4871 3 жыл бұрын

Found my new favorite show. I just adore Julie and Tricia :)

@sailordayix 2 жыл бұрын

Looks like you gave your cleaning lady the decade off 🤣🤣🤣

@ingeborg-anne 2 жыл бұрын

"How was I supposed to know" OH I don't know, David, I DON'T KNOW, maybe by the fact that she THREW IT OUT.

@karavandine 2 жыл бұрын

Yes - and he’d just sat through the interview with the show’s camera crew, too. How much more awareness did he need? He was hostile and undermining throughout. Whilst having a sick father would obviously be causing him stress, his behaviour here suggests that rude communication comes pretty readily from him. Trish should chuck him out along with the other rubbish.

@mariedeheryng1535 Жыл бұрын

Bless Tricia's friend! She is the best friend who makes her laugh as well!! Love her!💖💖💖💖💖

@Beeboop7 3 жыл бұрын

Tricia's beautiful and deserves so much better, I have a severe mental illness..if my SO wasn't there for me when I'm breaking down I couldn't climb out of that state alone. Therapy can only do so much

@traciculpepper876 2 жыл бұрын

Omg Julie is too funny... I love it

@rebeccadelbridge2998 3 жыл бұрын

Trisha needs to consider adding the husband to the clear out pile. But im only half way through. He might come good by the end....

@sophirichmanfletcher4657 3 жыл бұрын

Sadly, no... I felt bad for her having to ask for validation from him. 🤬

@brittanycomeau533 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly my thoughts! I’m at 12min in with the jar, and immediately thought “toss him out too”. I too was hoping for reassurance in the comments that he got better 😩

@judylloyd7901 2 жыл бұрын

@@brittanycomeau533 I originally thought the same, but I guess he had his own issues to deal with. His father was terminally ill during filming, plus it wasn't the first time Trish had talked about clearing the clutter, so he probably didn't believe it would really happen.

@rebeccadelbridge2998 9 ай бұрын

@@judylloyd7901 yes, upon a rewatch, I think I was possibly a bit harsh on him at first. It must be a nightmare living with this, when it's your partners disorder.

@laurariley7071 2 жыл бұрын

I hope Julie can actually read all the things that people have said about how awesome of a woman she is and a true friend

@FigaroHey 3 жыл бұрын

Interesting that the first thing Tricia does when someone comes in is go right to a picture of herself in Hair - young, attractive, at the beginning of what must have seemed like a promising career. It's that person she wants to be, to be remembered as and known as. She's lost that person.

@nalayat2050 2 жыл бұрын

what a gift to have a friend like Julie.

@AmazonEventer Жыл бұрын

Love Julie being so positive and supportive... whilst also modelling socially correct behaviour by saying "I'd be ashamed to let someone in". Whilst sounding judgemental, she's also agreeing with why Tricia never let her come over... both would be / are ashamed and would have to step into vulnerability space on order to invite someone in. I really do wish the Declutter ladies would wear masks though when dealing with vermin droppings! Their poor lungs 🫁 😢

@trixiebelton4604 3 жыл бұрын

Everybody needs a friend like Julie!

@hopeforthefuture8680 2 жыл бұрын

What a great friend to speak the truth with love and humor! So encouraging to see this true friendship

@cynthiamelendez2359 3 жыл бұрын

I notice that in these hoarding house show's the men call the house a sh.thole.

@cintaindonesia6382 3 жыл бұрын

Cleaning the house means cleaning the souls..

@gulkokuluseccade8813 3 жыл бұрын

💖

@jackins2000 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing episode. I wanna say so much, but I'm just gonna say I love You Tricia and Paul. You are amazing people with just a little twist in your lives. And Paul - I am You. I wanna have all the music that I love because it's pleasure, collectible thing, and knowledge about music history. CD's, DVD's, magazines. Love it, and won't get rid of it 'till I live.

@riddlemefish6217 2 жыл бұрын

Julie is a fantastic friend!

@openmind9820 3 жыл бұрын

Julie should do standup 👍🤣

@mercedesehmsen9674 3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes...

@Deborah4Antiques 2 жыл бұрын

Tricia Ford looks great for 71.

@leoniegoodwin5068 Жыл бұрын

This was such a wonderful episode of this show. I enjoyed it so much. I enjoyed it because I loved watching the Hoarders deal with the situation, get the help they needed and were able to move forward. They may have a few hiccups along the way, but at least now, they have a chance to move forward. I think Trish has a wonderful friend in Julie, who despite the fact that she didn't understand her friend's hoarding, she stood by her and helped her. Most importantly she didn't make a judgement of her friend or put her down in any way.

@crumb_of_nopeamine_plz 3 жыл бұрын

Omg David!!! Don't ever bring back the junk. Trish is trying her best. He's such an enabler.

@MothGirl007 3 жыл бұрын

He's awful.

@JJ-iq8mi 3 жыл бұрын

Give him a break guys. Think how he is having to live...for her.

@bettystiegler1702 2 жыл бұрын

He gives me the creeps

@apricotsapricotsapricots Жыл бұрын

We all need friends like unruly Julie. 💕🧡💕

@teavetyskova 3 жыл бұрын

Wow Julie is amazing friend!

@sophiegolden 3 жыл бұрын

Having a such loving helpful friend is amazing... I m happy for them, great fresh start

@d.e.p.5624 2 жыл бұрын

We all need friends like Julie!

@diybronwynsmith263 3 жыл бұрын

I love seeing the before and after! You have done so much your accomplishing a monumental task and I’m proud of each and every person in this series! Friends helping is also key and showing them how all their stuff looks out and in its proper place is so motivating and now I must tackle my housework this helps motivate me too 😊

@MelliaBoomBot 3 жыл бұрын

Brilliant to see two different people manage change so well. One of the best ones. I can empathise with both parties-I like collecting and music so saw a lot of things I liked lol! Well done x

@QuentimBurtino259 3 жыл бұрын

I'm definitely a bit of a hoarder, I've got things I've had from my early teens (I'm 36 now) I mainly keep birthday cards. I started keeping them aged 16 & I also have memory boxes which have things in I'll never get rid of.

@Beeboop7 3 жыл бұрын

I'm the same with sentimental things like cards and little knick knacks. Otherwise extremely organized lol just can't throw away something that came from love

@QuentimBurtino259 3 жыл бұрын

@@Beeboop7 There's just some things that have to stay & when I get my memory box out it takes me back to that place or time & I love remembering what I've done & seen 🙂

@JJ-iq8mi 3 жыл бұрын

Me too but I don't hoard. It's organised and in the loft. My mother is a hoarder and I will NEVER go down that road. Memory boxes isn't hoarding.

@mj44190 2 жыл бұрын

Would you consider scanning the cards or taking photos of them? So you can keep the memories without the object itself taking over your space

@VeggeMight 3 жыл бұрын

Wow Julie is such a great friend she's helping clean and I think she was a bit of a germaphobe.

@alicemazzucco2345 2 жыл бұрын

I like Trish she really is a good person and her friend is so funny it's great that she is talking to her and giving it to her straight and is supporting her and showing her love and care but she is funny. God bless u Trish I hope that your life has changed for the better and u are still working on your mental health to help with hording.

@dianeb2016 3 жыл бұрын

This is a respectfull way of help. Now people now there is nothing to be ashamed of.It can happen to all of us. Very goid work.

@coolrunnings3 3 жыл бұрын

With every episode I watch I get rid of a few items in my house. I am afraid there might not be enough episodes to get my house decluttered though. . . 😊

@annea5781 Жыл бұрын

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@petmomful2260 3 жыл бұрын

Watching this has reinforced an odd thought that I have had over the years. I have always been neat, tidy, and I love to organize my things. Growing up, my sisters always made fun of me, and when I got married and got my own place, they continued to make a joke of it. My husband gets aggravated if I reorganize something, and then he cannot find it. I tell him if I have moved something. Therefore, keeping my house very neat has always brought up feelings of shame. I am going thru a session of cleaning and organizing that I do every spring, and these feelings have washed over me again. It is just the opposite of the people in this show!! I wonder what Stelios would say about that!

@noviandy6482 3 жыл бұрын

I love Julie she tell Trish the truth,

@susancrawford5927 3 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed this episode because of the men and women who are all so charming, even Julie's husband whose father is dying.

@KCDisney1 3 жыл бұрын

Don't you mean Trish's Husband who is dying?

@susancrawford5927 3 жыл бұрын

@@KCDisney1 No I do not mean that.

@karenlee3372 3 жыл бұрын

She actually threw something out and he goes behind her and brings it back in that is not helping Mr

@tazzie2shoos 3 жыл бұрын

But why argue over it? He didn't know it was part of her therapy, and also could she not have just said, do we need this dog treat jar or do we have one already? People argue about the most ridiculous petty things that don't really matter, if these times haven't made people see that then there is no hope for us all.

@karenlee3372 3 жыл бұрын

@@tazzie2shoos yeah I know it isn't that stupid I'm glad I'm alone.. LOL ha ha ha..

@tazzie2shoos 3 жыл бұрын

@@karenlee3372 it is, definitely there are advantages to being alone, tho some people probably manage to argue with themselves.

@karenlee3372 3 жыл бұрын

@@tazzie2shoos talking to yourself I know somebody that does that he even answers himself LOL ha ha ha ha..

@janequaranta8306 3 жыл бұрын

If your not a mind reader, stay out of my s**t !!

@ginafrancis1585 3 жыл бұрын

I love England’s hoarders. For some reason they always seem more willing to be helped and are more pleasant than their American counterparts. I can’t watch the hoarders in the US sometimes. Too much drama, too mean and stubborn, and frankly some are just too out of touch with reality- so on the shows with hoarders like that I’ll just stop watching.

@donny4855 3 жыл бұрын

think this is because the USA approach is much harsher, from what ive seen, sometimes expecting complete change in a week

@thegreenmanofnorwich 3 жыл бұрын

I think that the US version is unnecessarily harsh to make for "good tv". A lot of the time they don't seem to pay even the slightest regard to the psychological aspects

@CristineTot 3 жыл бұрын

@@thegreenmanofnorwich True. It's mostly throwing everything of the hoarder's possessions into the garbage then cleaning the whole place so that they can show the "transformation". However, even if they cleaned the place, if the hoarders' mental and emotional issues are not taken care of, they will still go back to their old habits.

@jcspider7259 3 жыл бұрын

One of the main reasons: 6 weeks vs 3 days. Two quite different levels of trauma.

@mrtimezone8658 3 жыл бұрын

Some of the American homes need to be burned to the ground

@angelataylor4540 3 жыл бұрын

Trisha's husband unfortunately isn't telepathic and Trisha needs to realise that if you don't explain nobody knows

@Skeptigal1 3 жыл бұрын

Right? And she was totally irrational and unreasonable about it when he retrieved the jar. "Why won't you let me get on with my journey?" Well, if he'd known about it, I'm sure he would have...

@tamarasantana7290 2 жыл бұрын

I am sure she told him, but he choses not to help her. My ex was the same, off his house I am much better. In some cases I think it’s because of the person itself, but in this ocassion I think the husband has a biiiiiig part on it.

@dear9530 3 жыл бұрын

Enjoyed this! I'm working on reorganizing books now. Overtime can kill a regular routine. It's sort of like watching shows on the morbidly obese , I feel like if they can get through that I can continue improving the situation here.

@PhoenixFires9 2 жыл бұрын

I find all of these sorts of shows quite motivating : )

@sinthiaszato9189 3 жыл бұрын

I want a friend like Julie too! And I love the compassionate alternative doctor. Ive realized I am a borderline hoarder,no tats yet...almost. I own a 53 ft moving van full of clothes art antiques and so much torn and disturbed from a life of turmoil. Rejection and abandonment. I am also a compulsive over eAter and overspender, bulemic, it all runs together.

@jennifermosley2387 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve watched hoarding shows over and over in the past four months as I clean and declutter. It has helped me throw away BOXES and BOXES of stuff I had in the closet in my classroom! I’ve prayed and actually closed my eyes to chuck away books and papers without going through the junk!! I am committed to keeping my bedroom clean -no clothing or books on the floor or dresser. I have three family members who hoard-iI’m the only one who is confronting it. I’ve spent too much money, and over-eaten. Hun, prayer works! I’m praying for both of us to be healed within ourselves-from the inside out. As we begin to just love ourselves by faith, we can free ourselves more and more of the burdens we have carried within ourselves and in doing so, we can rid ourselves of the outside junk. Be compassionate and caring and loving towards our own selves!!!

@emptychair8141 3 жыл бұрын

Try a few Facebook groups that can be motivational . Search organizing and declutter groups .

@jenniferschmitzer299 3 жыл бұрын

Is this really your real name, or are you my gf Julia who lives in a 44 foot viscount caravan... 1978 model? Shes got a great long trailer full of stuff from her mother's property and you cant see her plant pots.. very overgrown or other things like pressed metal patio sets or birdcages full of grass and I tried to open a window the other day cos she left the heater on and she was not right and I moved the lace curtains and they shredded and tore .. I was gentle and just wanted to let fresh air in. Shes got home help once a week in to reduce the 'stuff'. Mostly clothes, shoes, bags, rando bits of paper.

@mist3h 2 жыл бұрын

Julie is a treasure! I'm a hoarder and I wish I had a Julie in my life :)

@QueenofArgyle2525 3 жыл бұрын

I have managed to keep the place not smelling but never seem to win against the dust and clutter. Some days it’s really just too much. I leave the house for hours and just chill out to keep perspective. It’s totally necessary.

@EDDIELANE 3 жыл бұрын

Trish could kick David to the curb and move Julie in.

@celine8793 3 жыл бұрын

@Harshit Kapoor why do you comment this under every single comment??

@codyminecrack248 2 жыл бұрын

That therapist is the real deal. Too many quacks floating around.

@paulasmall5113 Жыл бұрын

Tisha is an excellent friend, and as messy as her friends house is shes still there. To bad David want help. Cleaning could help him deal with the sadness of his sick father. You go Trish declutter your life and enjoy your friends company.

@arabellajones2968 3 жыл бұрын

David doesn’t seem very supportive to his wife.

@carochan86 3 жыл бұрын

David seems to have a self sabatocbhing mind set.

@LiamPorterFilms 3 жыл бұрын

He seems domineering

@carolynhbell 3 жыл бұрын

It was mentioned that his dad is dying. I think he just not in a good place mentally.

@Linnet09 3 жыл бұрын

He's been living with his wife's problems for a long time, and probably gone through many attempts to help her. He's worn out - don't underestimate the difficulty of living with someone with a serious illness, mental or physical. A lot of spouses can't do it. And in this case, his father is dying, so he has that as well as the hoard to deal with.

@whyme7996 3 жыл бұрын

He's been abused by is wife for years and his father is dying...yeah, he's not supportive.

@christinekaye6393 2 жыл бұрын

Well done, Trish. Now it may be time to give David a little tidying up at the barber shop.

@carolvanoppen2118 2 жыл бұрын

I loved, loved this episode with Tricia!!

@mrtimezone8658 3 жыл бұрын

Trisha, your home is lovely! Flowers and guests means joy. I bet you have great new memories. But how do you grow palms outside?

@QueenofArgyle2525 3 жыл бұрын

To be fair, I feel badly for the lady. I am dealing with a hoarder , myself. It is very difficult to co exist with constant mess.

@tabby73 3 жыл бұрын

Yup me too. Stressful and depressing.

@1985bjaycat 3 жыл бұрын

My ex was one and I deal with depression. Luckily I was only with him for 3 years. A lot of damage was done in that time and I didn't have the energy to battle him.

@QueenofArgyle2525 3 жыл бұрын

@@1985bjaycat I totally get it. The only way not to let it get me is to keep busy and be gone a lot. I joke I am going to fix up the shed and gazebo and move in. 20 years for me.

@1985bjaycat 3 жыл бұрын

@@QueenofArgyle2525 make that gazebo as beautiful as you can!!!