A man should focus on his purpose in life, women coming in as "accessories" or "spices" in his life. Take very good care of yourself first, before anyone can love you.

MY SIMPLE ADVICE: 1- Don't be like any one. 2- Don't act 3- Don't try too hard 4- Be honest 5- Don't show fear ( of loosing her) 6- Don't reply right away 7- Don't ask many questions 8- Value yourself 9- create a talk that she replies on long text 10- Don't text her late nights and early morning 11- read behind the words so you reply better

I think a lot of vlogger channels are too talkative, repetitive and just not engaging. Your style is so laid back, engaging and real; like a genuine conversation. I love that. That's why I subscribed. It just took 1 video and a half! ❤

Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️

Jessica I got your point but woman are nothing to predict. So to every man up there just leave your life like there's no woman on this Earth to enjoy every peace of life. Without or with.

I must say honestly always enjoyed watching your video you being so transparent about things and also spoke on both sides where relationship is concerned. Well done stayed blessed 🙌

I think that we should also understand that it's not all about the man. Some women don't actually know how to communicate no matter what a man does or says.

I love watching your videos, they're all helpful and Supportive!

Congrats 🎊🍾🎈🎉 Jessy! Let me say it: you’re a blessing for thousands and thousands! Your words are shaping my household! Thank you so much!

Hi,Jess, varying response times and making the texts thoughtful is it for me....!Smart you...!!!

Regarding number 4. I can be busy, have a lot to do, do what I need to do and respond quickly to her messages. This doesn't mean I'm obsessed or am eagerly awaiting her message. I just respect her so I will reply fast. Why can't we as a society normalize such things instead of saying "Vary your response time" and continue to imply that a fast response is a sign of desperation?

Huge fan Jess. Appreciate the great work

very informative..so refreshing..Jessica I have learned alot..from u thanks so much..💯❤️

Jessica thank you again, I was in this situation before about texting rules, and trust me, that didn’t end up good, life learning today I use different rules, thank you 🙏

Hello Jessica thank you so much you are just wonderful and thank you for giving us this wonderful idea it is very important I have had broken also with my girlfriend for two years I have been doing everything for her but today she turned me down I always follow your videos and your advisors and I know this is only knock me what is many men's I'm going through a lot of this kind of issues thank you so much for your kindness really appreciate you

Best advice Jessy always give us! Focus on your goals, hit those targets hard and you're more likely to have the attention of a woman and you won't come out as just existing to chase women in their chats and everywhere. This advice works too perfectly and balanced as well! Thank you

Dear Jessica all subjects that you deal with Are not all interesting but so very useful! I just wanna thank you with this brief comment of how happy and how much I await your videos every single day. Cosmic blessings and lots of life light and love to you always.🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

You are such a blessing to many people in the 🌎 just keep on helping men mostly 😜

Another issue is the art of asking questions properly without sounding awkward or very demanding

I'm a new subscriber and I'm so engrossed with your talks ... makes me concentrated

Jessica I have watched your videos and I'm learning so much from it. Since I started to put in actions your advices I'm getting good results. Thanks a lot. Valdick, from Angola🇦🇴.

You are always a mentor to many not only in Ghana but all over the world...be blessed my Mentor...

love your content Jessica. much love from south Africa

jessy you are the best, whenever I have problem, or having conflict inside my head I jus know we I'm gon right answers.

Jessica you speak real facts sister 💯🙌🏾 God bless u x

My friend: I'd never take advice from a woman. Me: You haven't met Jessica 🔥

I like a woman that can speak to me and say the word "shit" with the same comfort and ease as the word "monosyllabic". I admire you so much more now, Jessica.

Jessica is value adding and is a practical teacher

Thank you Jessica. Interesting Topic.watching from Jamaica

It’s the outfit and background for me☃️☃️…best video❤️❤️

Jessica, I admire your practicality in your relationship videos. Keep the good work.🙏

Love, love this set-up. You look amazing!

Love listening to your voice and your content too is very helpful

I love your work. Nice points.

Then you'r certainly going to get liquidated in 90% of your trades. Yeah that's the bitter truth. For a start you need a good and experienced hand to guide you or even manage your account while you copy the same trades Trust me, trading isn't difficult as we see it. With the right information and guider you are sure to always place the right trade and make profit.

Monosyllabic replies truly indicates her lack of interest, but many men don't get to know that, and also don't know when to pause and restrategize. Thanks again Jessie for these points.

Thanks Jess thanks for giving me these insights

Great video! I agree with everything

i have become such a big fan of the undiluted wisdom you dispense here per time ma'am jessica. Your tips are priceless. I wish every guy would come drink from the well of wisdom on this channel. I did this "hello..am just checking up on you" thing for the most of last year and boy it got me nothing but serious ghosting😩.. but boy! are your tips helping me!..i am seeing rapid changes. Your page not only helped me recalibrate emotionally and bounce back from the wilderness of being ghosted and all the depressing feelings of not being enough or not having enough class ,it also helped rekindle the fire of purpose in me. I hit the gym regularly,eat healthy ,dress well and spend more time thinking of how to achieve my goals instead of texting and calling this babe. As we speak i have started my own youtube channel where i do comical voice overs on animal videos. Though i just have 23 subscribers but i am moving anyways, undaunted. I am about monetizing all my other skill sets aside music this year. These are ; proofreading,editing,writing ,newscating,presenting,voice acting etc. I am also delving deeper into my basic background in foreign languages like spanish,german,portuguese,italian etc. Keep up the fantastic work ma'am. Thank God for the gift of you. What you are doing is rekindling the flames of purpose in many promising male folk.

Great advice always 👍

Great advice I should’ve gotten a year ago. Great vid!!

2:31 weird my last broke up with me because I never spent any time with her. Granted looking back maintaining a relationship while working 2 jobs wasn't the best idea and I never really made the effort to see her but I definitely went out of my way to avoid being needy.

Thanks for the tips. I made lots of these mistakes and got burnt. So, I relate 100%.

I love the lessons here good job keep it up waiting for more. Blessings

Thank you very much Jessica OS

Fantastic very helpful .You smashed it again. Thanks. Kevin xxx

Auntie Jessica thank you very much

Great content as usual love you I really love to visit Ghana and meet you personally blessing Queen to you 🙏🥰❣️

This one is really helpful thanks

Very helpful tips ❤️❤️❤️

Just love your advice thanks

The way you speak out ur words and acent is way too much organised 👌👌👌

Amazing tips

Jess your' so amazing. These tips really helps.....love you.

Nice one Jessy

You're the best patron

I love this video and I am joining patrons.

You know I'm also learning new words from your therapies,🙏

I love your topics Jessica

Thanks for your advice.. This made me to subscribe to your channel

Ohhh sweet Jessica 😘. Thank you

Thanks Jessie, I have used a catchphrase to entice one immediately. She was wild to meet me right away.

Thank you!

Goddamnit, Jessica! Your voice and the way you talk always distracts me in the most pleasurable way possible. I end up having to watch your videos twice.

You are right. 💯

Hi, Jessica. Sup with you? By the way how is midnight? OK so thanks for this wonderful piece 👌👍

Great insights

Facts my dear 💯

You are an embodiment of gifts and talents. Your articulation, your presentation and just everything. You are just awesome Jessica

Very good

You never disappoint me.

Thank you

Okay, the sign off on the Patreon account was🔥

Yh I like your vibe 💯💯🥰

Never time wasting at all listening to you, Jess. Keep up your good work. You are an inspiration. Doing my best on the other side.

Mob love Jess from Uganda thx alot

Watched some of your videos and feel like it’s good content. Just wanted to let you know I will become a subscriber and keep it up. From Ghana to Nigeria we can relate. Enjoying from the states though. Will try and check out your community platform as well.

Jessica, you do all!

You're the best Jessica

I like your videos. I just believe that there are no rules, type of ways or manner to these things. Both men and women can be very complicated and unpredictable, and sometimes it pays to get it wrong to actually get it right.

Amazing points stated 👌🔥🤩 Great video Jessica 👏❤️

Here we go another one👌💞🔥🔥

Jessica always knows how to make my day, great tips, I hope I get that lady anytime soon !

The easiest way to do this is to schedule a text you can literally set the time and date for a response. For those that forget to text back its a underrated feature use it

Jessy,hi. Nice point of view,i can't deny that and i like the fact that you stated if there are points that you feel you might have missed that we should add as well in the comment. For one,you give solid advice but there was a topic that doesn't appear as general. Your last topic about avoiding boring conversations is one that should be viewed from both ways. The man may come across lively and interesting but the lady seems to constantly appear as a brick wall and we are talking about a situation in which the lady is also attracted to the man and not necessarily the man chasing. Some ladies are also a bit boring personally. The concept of constantly trying to be inventive in conversations should be from both sides.

Can't ask a fish about fishing

Beautiful ♥️ Information 🤔 watching fr jamaica 😎🌅🏖️

Thanks Jessica

Thank you for took

Thanks

Wow thanks

“ find it difficult to pretend long enough”… that’s my issue. I’m really interested in one thing only with women. I don’t like the conversations, the FaceTime, texts… But i realized I’m like that with men to. I need to see you more than 10 times before we become friends. I get close to people through actions or event we shared, not thru talks. But with women that’s a handicap lol. Thank good my parents gave me a decent look.

1. Be mysterious, women are drawn to men with mystery. 2. Compliment her, then stop. Make sure it is a compliment she will never forget. Do it only once. From there she will concentrate on that one special compliment for many months. It will have her thinking about you all of the time. Don't over do it with the compliments. 3. Show gentleman like qualities 4. Silence when she flirts with you makes her tell you everything sooner or later. When you're silent and she shows anger and frustration and gives up; she doesn't want you. But if she continues with the flirting and trying to get your attention, she sincerely wants you. The more a man seems distant and out of reach, it make her fall in love with you. Women fall in love with men that they have hard access to. It makes her want you more. 5. Flirt with her a couple of times then pull away, this causes attraction and make her want you more and crave for you to be around. She wants to hear more, so she will chase you and seek you out. And by flirting and pulling away, it also keeps her mind off of other men. 6. Be kind to other women in her presence. Women are drawn to men that treat women with respect. If you can respect other women, it shows her that you will definitely respect her. 8. Show love to her children or grandchildren and it will steal her heart immediately. She will not be able to resist you!!! 9. Women are drawn to men that are generous to others. Especially the elderly. It turns us on!!! And sensitive too? Yes baby that's how to hook us!!! We love men with pets too, it softens us up and makes us warm and fuzzy inside to see men be loving towards his pets and ours.

Wow, That's wonderful to learn

First to watch ☺️✌🏼🥰

#5 Is the best , give yourself some value in life, good women love men who have something doing.

Big Up Jessica ;jamaica 🇯🇲🙌

I find you very intriguing, some of your Analysis is Spot on I actually subscribed just because I Wanted to see from a womans point of view if The things I already know is Factual.. I've seen quite a few of your videos, and your spot on.. But I think most Guys don't pay attention to details so what you are explaining is missed due to this Factor.

U the best Jessica

You nailed it my sister