Bro I stg I did what u said and I won bro. I stg. I did not look at her react to her and was prepared. I listened to u. Thank u.

Thank you for the content. Through these stressful times in my life it makes me feel better to know someone has gone through the same thing. Very useful info my dude

Restraining orders can be about trying to humiliate the other partner.

Thank you for sharing your experience! I’m going to use these tips you gave us all.

I’m here watching to help my case against my loser x 🤣🤓🙏🏼 good advice!

Thanks for the video, Brother. Love that SHIRT!

Thanks my guy! You’re killing it!

Thanks for the tips, and focusing on helping others.

Hey thank you very much for this video. Very helpful. 🙏🏾

Thanks for this much needed my man!!!!

I can tell this guy is a great dad.

Thank you so much for your best advice!!!

Good advice thanks! I will use the tips tomorrow.

Stumbled upon this and good to hear that point about keeping emotions in check because all I can think of is what to say against her lies in court but that's not gonna help like you said. Peace to you my man

Respect, I love that advise. I need that

Listening to this a day before appearing in court although the defendant will most likely not show up because “she wants nothing to do with it” even though she was the cause of all of this smh. First and last time hopefully dealing with this. Thank you for such an informative video!!

I'm sorry to hear that this happened to you bro. Thank you for sharing the lessons learned, it shows a lot of compassion. I was just served a TRO for harassment by a girl I was casually dating. She's knows that I'm moving to NY in a week for a new career and she's trying to ruin me. I can't believe what we go through in life. Thanks again and I hope all is well

Thanks 4 sharing the good advice bruh.

Thank u my brother thanks for looking out .

Man big of you for this video

Appreciate you sharing your experience with us. Thanks man. Hope you find your self a better women. We got this #singledads

Great video thanks for the tips brotha

Good Advice. I'm going to mine later this month. I never been to court ever. Thanks.

Great video Brotha Ty..

seems like a wonderful, sincere gentlemen. wish him the best, in the future and now.

It’s crazy how one (man) would think, “dang I bet I’m the only one that has a girl lying about me” but dang there’s way more men out there that this happens to. Great video brother. I have a hearing coming up and I can’t even believe my ears about this. Just like you said in your video. I paid all the bills as well and the home. While she’s there now and I’m sleeping in my car tonight. I started coming up with my game plan and researching to make sure I’m all prepared. I’ve done printed out all my evidence, pictures, screen shots, and will summarize everything to make it super easy for the judge to read with cover sheets on all exhibits. I will now be adding pictures of memories of who I am to the kids, what important part I play in their lives and thanks to you I’m going to also add my game plan with the kids and how important it is to continue being a part of their everyday life. I’m switching the tables on this one cuz I’m going for full 100% custody. All her lies will be backed up with time stamped dated evidence showing different, plus I have even more dirt on the accuser whom thought she wiped my phone out clean so I wouldn’t have any dirt on them. But guess what, gotta thank that iCloud:) amen!! Sorry you went through this, but after my case, I’ll come back and let y’all know how it went. And I should also do like you and share some knowledge with a video on what I went though and how to get ready for this battle that men “GOOD MEN” honest, sincere true men do not and should not have to go through.

Thankyou for the advice brother. I haven't seen my baby boy for 102 days do to a No contact order my wife issued. She said I made threats which is all hearsay. It's costed me my relationship with my son for over 3 months now. My Lawyer finally scheduled a Hearing to modify the no contaxt order. Please keep me in yalls prayers.

Excellent editing choices!

More good news brother. Ex refused to file Child support, so I went file one on myself today. She wanted cash... I said nope! Expecting to go to mediation soon. Yay! So glad this ex is off my shoulder!

Legit thank you . thank you

that was the cutest intro ever, i wish i had a father.. like that

Great video.. thank you!!!!!

Good content brother. Keep pressing 💯

Brother I like you I really do. But my dude chill with the clips and keep the content to the point then maybe here and there add some funny clips. Your layout is distracting to the good information you do have. 🤙🏼

Thanks for this video!

This is good advice . I just got one served on me at work yesterday . It’s for calling her out of her name and using text apps when she had blocked me . Yet she had me at her home the night before she filed on me and only did so because we go into an argument. I stayed at her home and bed a week before that also and she invited me down to the park to see my son 3 days ago . The only time I ever called her out of her name is in retaliation when she would call me all kinds of horrible names first and I have all of the messages .

They watch u when u come in they watch u. That's how they decide. The judge watches u on camera. I did not even look in her direction. I did not react. That's how they decide these particular cases. Observation. Don't talk over her. This guy given u the game.

Had mine today to fight the order. Judge said he will make the rulling later. 🙏

Bro! can’t believe you went into court not knowing about #2! lol... Glad you learned and came through. Good for you.

This video helped alot thanks bro

Thanks for this video sir. I plan to get a restraining order issued to my 8 year son mother who has temporary custody of our son. The family court temporary order was made in Texas but the mother and child live in Missouri. My son told me two days ago that his mother had sex in front him in a bed room he was up watching tv in the same room on the same bad. His grandmother stepped in and also caught the act.

It's always good to have trips to win a restraining order hearing.

Thanks for the advice nervous about my hearing

Thanks bro

Bid bless u the spirits told me this but still open to knowledge got court in 4 hrs wish me luck

Thank you so much for the advice man, I am headed to court tomorrow and was thinking of showing emotions but not now and I just want to work my marriage out.

"u have to show the court u are not the person u are portrayed to be" ommfl.

Im sure your tips will work for dvo's aswell. Cheers brother ✌

Man thank yu !!!

Thanks subbed🙏

thanks for this video man. My Ex and I dont have any kids but she is definitely making up things because she doesnt want me in the picture anymore. But now she assassinating my character. Tbh im looking at possibly suing for defamation of charater at this point

U helped me brotha.

Thank You for this video. My daughter’s father filed for an Emergency Order of Protection because I exposed his lies to another woman he was cheating on me with. I never knew this was a man’s tactic. I go to court in a few weeks. Wish me luck.

Hey guys my name is Daniel I’m in the very heart of all this my emotions are running wild I got a restraining order against me false stuff I need some help guys wise words thank you for your video

Brother, I got good news! Since my ex filed a TRO, a lawyer I couldn't retain advised me to go file A PETITION IN RECONVENTION at the court house, have it NOTORIZED, CLERKED-IN, and submitted to the judge to grant my RELIEFS. This simply means I counter sued my ex and put a TRO on her as well. Got to court today without a lawyer, her lawyer approached me and we agreed on withdrawing our petitions. Went into the court and the judge granted us DISMISSAL. NOW, we just need to go to mediation to put a custody and Visitation order in place. Win-Win brother. Thank you for EVERYTHING!

Good video man, I also cannot believe my wife is doing this to me but I still want them back.

Thank you for telling your experience. My court hearing is in a couple days. The hardest part will be my emotions. Thank you.

What would suggest if it's neighbor threatening you and how do you win it

Bro this helped me so much. I'm going through exactly the same thing. I have a court date coming up for custody of my child. My fiance was dealing with another person and doesn't want me around. She filed an order of protection to keep my son away.

I feel sad to all the fathers who have been and going through such indescribable pain

good job

Thank you. I’m a women dealing with it too.

They use them as a sword instead of a shield!

Thanks for the vid. I'm trying to find information re restraining order taken out by my fella's adult children in an attempt to get rid of me. I might as well write the book, it's unusual enough to leave me with few resources. Best to you and your Boyz

I broke up with my ex and he filled a restraining order even though he’s the abuser. I can’t afford an attorney so these videos are helpful. Thank you.

Last time the judge dismissed my baby mamas restraining order he said he was going to throw her in jail, Thursday should he interesting then... lmao

I always considered filling a restraining order against the girls who spread rumors about me in high school. I never was in a relationship with any of them (or at all) and seriously was depressed since I never texted them or have any documentation they were spreading rumors about me that I knew (and they) would affect my relationships (they were popular). being a man sucks because I doubt a judge would grant a order to protect me , an unfit man against a pretty girl . those times were a long time ago and it's in the past but we were all playing a game who could file a restraining order against each other first . I couldn't lose since a restraining order would make me inedible to possess a firearm and disqualify me from military. maybe it was in all our heads since the only interaction I ever had was shaking their hand in class.

I did in court yesterday. Even know I'm just now seeing this today. My case is different. The mother tried killing the baby. Litterally picked up my mew born daughter by her leg. Holding her up side down with a knife in her hand right in front of her own mother/the grandmother. They didn't lock her up. Just a few days in the hospital. I went to get a restraining order they granted it for 1 year. Then the grandmother went to go get one on me. The judge thur hers out for lack of evidence. A month later the granny has a lawyer. I was told my court date was moved. So on March 10th the grand mother and her lawyer showed up for Court. My court date that was moved was between me and the BM. Not the granny. So her lawyer got her approved for a restraining order against me for 3 years. Apon protective services recommendations can I get monitored visits. I pulled her records. She has had the cops called on her a lot by the grandmother that defending her after sge tried killing the baby. Man its a long story. But I'm trying to find a lawyer that can put my words on paper in away that will let them hear me. Cause they rejected my letter to have the protection order thrown out. U get 14 days to submit in writing if u didnt attend court. Smh

My gf is 8 months pregnant. And she did that restraining order on me. I can't see the birth of my first child. She didn't even call the police. It was her mom. How can I defend this?? At this point I lost everything

Bro im stressing rn im being completely misunderstood. Okay so i like to go on drives in my car i can't go very far cuz well the car isn't insured or anything. And basically i kept going down this one road where there was one house and i used this ladies driveway to turn around and head home. Sometimes i would sit a bit because i like to listen to music and my car does not have a radio. So i have to fiddle with my phone and just change it. My accuser things im stalking her which is completely false. Ive never gotten into any legal trouble in my life.

My ex threaten me with one.. this helps me put me at ease :,)

Wow! I can't tell u enough that u are fucking spot on! Like literally!

Wow I’m sorry for all the guys commenting here that have had fake frivolous bc court papers on them from a drama. Queen power trip or to manipulate custody- so messed up.

Can a RO lead to more? Like, what I’m being accused of on the RO paperwork, can that turn into actual charges? I’m actually not opposed to agreeing with the RO against me, I don’t wanna see this person ever again anyways, but I don’t want to have it turn into more just because I comply with it. What I’m being accused of isn’t even that bad, but I’m working towards a career where an extensive background check will be done, and I can’t have anything against me.

Unfortunately I was coerst into signing the consent form for the restraining order against me and she used my children against me and used her father to get me out of the house so I can take him to the ER the same day she decided to leave me and it was the day prior to my birthday, I was heartbroken and devastated and I was already heartbroken by my family whom I grew up with mixing my belongings with my deceased grandmother s estate so I was already emotionally drained and not in my right mind and all I could think about was seeing my children and my children seeing their father to make sure they were taken care of 😢😩 She said that I was abusive but I protected her from the abusive one

Sad that men have to go through all this I understand why some men completely walk away and never look back that’s what I’d do kids or wife would never see me again it’s not worth it in the long run. That’s why you never marry women and never have kids.

Like he said u gotta sway the judge. Judges are open minded.

What about if you don’t have evidence of that specific issue but have evidence of other abuse that’s happened?

Please try to win your Restraining Order if you have one. It can make a difference!

Yes, Your Honor. No, Your Honor

My roommate filed for a protection order against me last month and was denied the permanent one at the hearing

This music destroy my mode

Great advice but i did all the above and still lost. If anything they were disrespectful and interrupting me the entire time. I had mounds of exculpatory evidence. Didn't matter. What they are doing is called abuse of process.

Does it goes on a person background check?

Came here cause i got a Court date this Tuesday!

Dude I just had a harassment charge against me and im so nervous

When someone serves you a restraining order do you get it in the mail, or get served by a police officer?

GUILTY AS SOON YOU WALK INTO THE COURTROOM

im having the opposite problem, where the judge isn't taking my claims seriously, outright dismissing my claim without even telling me why. Im going to provide pictures of the abuse next time, but I was more than thorough with the details, and can't find any resources online about how to deal with this. The only resources I can find are specifically for women getting more ability to win their cases. Im kinda pissed.

Does my babymama need to show proof because I have not seen my daughter in 22 days since she wants to keep her away from me.....also she has no evidence for what she is accusing me of.

Bro I stg hit me up. It's because of ur words it got taken off.

Has anyone on here returned home back to their families, or was this the end of that?

And That's All I Want. I Jus Want My Daughters Names Lifted Off The Order Protection.

I had to put one on my girl for hitting me 🤷🏾‍♂️

I did all this. My attorney Exposed 4 lies the petitioner said and 2 lies her witness said which contradicted what the petitioner testified. The judge still granted the DVRO. We proved she wasn’t afraid of me by continually passing by my house. She denied ever passing by my house then when we showed her the videos she admitted to them. Lies under oath and still got it granted. It was crazy. She clearly did it to retaliate against me for breaking up with her.

Thank you

What if you are helping someone that is seriously hurting his wife and children??

I have my son with me currently. My girlfriend caller the police on me for DV said i was drunk and hit her. They came out seen that wasn't true and she was the one drinking. Advised me to leave for 48 hours. Next day she files assault on a female and requested a DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ORDER basically a restraining order but in closed i cant carry my firearms or use them and she requested emergency custody of our son. So on the day of court i have a lawyer. Before roll call my lawyer talks to her lawyer and comes to me and says it was dismissed that i was free to go. 3 days later i get a letter in the mail saying the ex parte was continuing and still in effect to reappear at court in about 2 weeks. I dont see how this can be done but im out 850$ from a lawyer and nothing got done. Unable to pay another attorney i resorted to KZfaq school. There is a police report stating that there WAS NO VIOLENCE and 2 police officers that we're subpoenaed to the 1st court date but it was dismissed and now it's not? Im glad i came across your video you seem like a stand up man. But that's my story anyone want to give advice i also live in N.C

Are you allowed to read an opening statement so the judge understands the petitioner isn't telling the whole story?

highly suggest you balance sound effects and music with dialog, had to turn volume up high to hear your dialog and then the sound effects and clips would come in suuuuuper f***ing loud