TOUGH LESSONS ABOUT LOVE, MONEY AND MARRIAGE || Soila and Curtis with Friends

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@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

For Land Inquiries Contact; Qhwetu Capital Limited +254 700 333332

@98Patrobas 10 ай бұрын

Unrelated, but it's kinda interesting that it's majorly women who are usually on your comment sections. It's disappointing that we don't have more single men (like myself) on here. I will definitely try and share your vids with some of my homies because your content is super educational and I love it.

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot Patrobas. Yes, do share. That would be great to get more dudes engaged in the conversations. Though I have met a number of people who say they watch on TV, which doesn't give provision to comment. Some say they watch with their wives or girlfriend who will comment on their behalf. 😂

@reensmunene132 10 ай бұрын

Good point

@christinekinyua8832 10 ай бұрын

Sometimes l dont feel like building a home is an investment. Using a real Example, we bought a land somewhere in the outskirt of Nrb, Our budget for the house we wanted was around 13m which means we had to take a loan. We sat and thought so much about it. Investing 13m in a house that will not give me a coin. I did calculations of the rent l pay and saw if l lived in rental, That 13m would pay my rent for 260 months which is close to 22yrs. According to my maths l better use the money to buy more lands and keep on selling after every few years and put up some business that will keep on generating money. l will build a home when having a very good cash flow. My peace of mind

@injilipecarl 10 ай бұрын

There's this way Makena just effortlessly completes Ithan's sentences! And he taps her to finish what he says 😁 What a connection. It's been a great and enlightening conversation, thanks to you, Soila, and Curtis.

@Gideon_CK 10 ай бұрын

That parachute landing clip after Curtis said what he wanted for the wedding has me out 😂😂🤣🤣😆😆

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@ivywangari1492 10 ай бұрын

Mmenimalisaa😂😂😂😂

@isitgodly3059 10 ай бұрын

This couple is so underated

@stephaniewakesho1264 10 ай бұрын

21 and learning so much from you guys to make wise decisions thank youuuuu ❤️❤️

@cynthiaakinyi2014 10 ай бұрын

I LOVE the question Soila asked about being obedient with the money that God gave you for something you asked. Wow, that really left me thinking. This episode is amazing 💯❤

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Exactly! Obedience is key.

@naomieogwoka1592 10 ай бұрын

I'm eagerly waiting 💯

@Lizmwangi9150 10 ай бұрын

❤❤❤ Great Content! I pray that God elevates youuu....you don't know how many souls and marriages you are saving out here 😍 These episodes are literally classes!

@thegodlyprincess_kenya 10 ай бұрын

Watching this I am just feeling grateful to God for marriages that are working😊Also I love how Karimi is very expressive and open minded.

@judymwendwa332 10 ай бұрын

Creativity|Wisdom|Rich content. I enjoyed the conversation. Good job guys!

@annahr8282 10 ай бұрын

I love money convos ,this was particularly insightful,thank you!

@eunicemwangi4065 10 ай бұрын

Keep these open discussions coming, I love how open in your relationship you are to let us in , Asante.

@michelleodhiambo2792 10 ай бұрын

Thank you guys for this! Very very important information being given here. Wonderful questions and answers

@lydiahkimani9301 10 ай бұрын

Karebe is wise. Great content as usual, may God keep using you Soila and Curtis

@malombomwarumba8143 10 ай бұрын

This was so enlightening.. Now for a proper round 2 with the Mr

@joharimwatonoka3836 10 ай бұрын

I have learned today we need to also invest in people, thank you.

@amosbanda-gx8pe 10 ай бұрын

Am a keen follower since, thanks alot

@ivykirera287 10 ай бұрын

I love this segment. Real solutions that are practical, especially at young Christian family level. Money does have an effect. How can two walk together unless they agree. Karebe has great wisdom. I like that he breaks the pressures of Having Money... Cheers to better family financial decisions.

@ItsAmazingGrace_ 3 ай бұрын

33:08 😂😂😂😂😂let me tell you something LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING

@MarinaRembo 10 ай бұрын

Love ❤🎉

@joymutiga3219 10 ай бұрын

I have been here since kitambo....and I am here to stay❤❤

@hellenkariuki8544 10 ай бұрын

Really enjoyed this episode. God redirected me here especially on the Land matter. Soila talk to Karebe nicely iyo discount ya ladies /women icome through!

@philamakhubu28 10 ай бұрын

Money and God. I once asked God to give money to pay off my debts. God being faithful, gave me a dream about the kind of job he would give even right down to my position.{I know the details because I journalled it} So the time came and I had the position and the money and to be quiet honest the debts were the last thing on my mind because there just seemed to be greater needs at that point in my life even giving to others and more. When I realized this, the job was gone, but I now understand that clearly my debts only bother me when I don't have money but when I do they don't. Maybe Karembe can give me perspective where this is concerned.

@kendikiruja9890 10 ай бұрын

Your wedding was amazing Soila I've watched it severally on MME

@Don_Pierre_K 4 ай бұрын

I'm with Ithan on tungsten ring. You can never go wrong!!! If I would go back in time, I would invest more in our honeymoon. Following Soila's thought on investment ideas as a family, is owning a home considered as an investment, or is it an asset?

@bernicehadassah 9 ай бұрын

I've learnt alot from this video❤❤❤

@thegratitudeattitude67 6 ай бұрын

It's a really good sign that the couples clothes are almost of the same colour scheme. Both couples are in sync.

@sheilandinda7095 10 ай бұрын

Jimmy my uni classmate… glad to see u. Good insights there

@Ashusheme 10 ай бұрын

Amazing conversation 👌

@langatchepkoech717 10 ай бұрын

The guy in the middle aletwe tena. He‘s got useful insights on finances & property. Thanks!

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

He will definitely return.

@NKATHAMEMEnm 10 ай бұрын

I love this channel it's a class of lessons and joy 😂❤🎉🎉

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Thank you Yvonne. Really glad you are enjoying the content.

@ministerChap009 10 ай бұрын

Am watching Your wedding now on maisha magic East,it was lit🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

@mercylinenyairabu3289 10 ай бұрын

Makenas laughter &soila ❤❤❤❤ l love them so much

@judithokari8356 10 ай бұрын

Great conversation

@kennedywambua188 10 ай бұрын

This is just vibes. I think for me the best investment is that which matches my goals. So there is no one fit it all investment.

@PatienceNgari 10 ай бұрын

I joined recently...and I love it😊😊😍😍ya'll just fun...especially with the friends edition wuuuhh🎉

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Hi Patience. Thanks for coming through. Glads you are enjoying it here. Rmemeber to share and invite others too. 🙂

@allysokech 10 ай бұрын

Wonderful episode, I've learnt alot on finances.Thanks Soila & Curtis for sharing this.

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for coming on board Alice. Glad you enjoyed the content.

@mukamissmallkitchen4971 10 ай бұрын

Eye opening conversation!

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching Mukami.

@africanqueenmo 8 ай бұрын

Guys this is a very important topic especially with all the lay offs and business closures going on that are rendering mens jobs insecure, inadequste or non existent. This is creating a lot of stress amongst couples and suicide rates are increasing especially amongst men.

@keziamathuku1528 10 ай бұрын

I have learnt alot ,thank you.Agnes i would like this Land conversation......let Him come again.

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Definitely, he will come again.

@candyvore10 10 ай бұрын

Haya sawa I have commented endelea na video

@salaneisoittara1343 10 ай бұрын

Off Topic Curtis uko na macho ya Rhemani😁😁, Ahh I need more of this money talk coz Wueeeh !!🤦‍♂🤦‍♂

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Hahahaha. Like father like son. More money conversations coming up. Stay Tuned.

@kwambydee187 10 ай бұрын

Am stuck at the rings😂😂😂🎉 because am almost newly getting married and I have considered all the contributions 😅😅

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Hahahaha. 😂 Imagine, some things are not necessary. We are the ones who like to make them a big deal. But I would say, as long as you have agreed with your spouse, that's what matters.

@drmutindikakuti1012 10 ай бұрын

I would first save for a BANGING GETAWAY HONEYMOON then plan the wedding.....this is where the marriage begins.....i think. i am likely to remember and frown over a crappy honeymoon than a wedding.

@christinenjeriwaithaka7293 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing great insights. Hongera to the Wamalwa’s for providing this wonderful platform of continuous learning. Baraka

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Thank you Chrisdtine for tuning in. Remember to share with your friends.

@paul_kariuki 8 ай бұрын

From one land seller to another, I am all for young Kenyans investing in land, own land before marriage, own land together after your wedding, own land in different areas.

@gracembaye530 10 ай бұрын

Good content pace setters

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Thank you Grace.

@winniewainaina3143 10 ай бұрын

Fantastic conversations but seems you now need mics to improve sound quality

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Hi Winnie. Thanks for pointing that out. We actually have a mic but had some technical issues that occurred during the recording. Sorry for the inconvenience on the listening experinece.

@mercymungai9532 10 ай бұрын

hey guys l love the conversation you guys should bring ben and Wanjiru Njiru

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Hi Mercy. Yes, we have plans. 🙂

@LisaM007 10 ай бұрын

❤

@bramuelmwai7998 10 ай бұрын

Parachute jameeeni 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@wanjikukariukiroyalty6515 10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂 soila I am with you at suzuki alto sio gari 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@esthermulee5129 10 ай бұрын

A very eye opening conversation. I love it.

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching Esther.

@beatricemuringi4120 10 ай бұрын

Such an amazing conversation. Soila has given a real example. I have been in such a situation where I asked God for sth, He provided then I used that cash for sth different. I lost the "investment". Wow May God keep us hearing Him.

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

That thing is real. When you ask God for money to do a specific thing, when the money comes, do exactly what you asked for.

@judithokari8356 10 ай бұрын

Wow have realized the same thing.

@user-kk6ky6hi1w 10 ай бұрын

Me at 2 am listening to the oozing words of wisdom 😂😂😂

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Hahahaha. Wisdom hits different at that time of the night.

@imungukalevera8671 10 ай бұрын

Wanjiku Karugo based at Village Market is a very well renowned lawyer for diaspora folks.

@Stacykabirori2 10 ай бұрын

You guys mwah

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Mwah to you too. 😂

@sarah0yagi274 10 ай бұрын

For me what i compromised is the gown because i want it to be shipped from Dubai and imgn that week my mother was coming for USA she brought for me to cut the cost it was really expensive man ghai❤❤❤❤

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Yep, shipping costs often drive the prices of things over the roof. It's really a compromise for most thing that people want for weddings.

@princevip5595 10 ай бұрын

Damn. This is eye-opening ❤. Love it

@cynthianyamasyo8800 10 ай бұрын

Soila I got my dream rings 8 year later am glad I waited I got twin rings 2 sets . I have 4wonderful huuuge rings

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

That's the way to go! Sometimes good things take time to come.

@kaddumarvian1257 10 ай бұрын

Hey thanks for the show. Very important topics to discuss. Am a viewer from Uganda. When you speak in swahili am off. Could you atleast put subtitles.

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Hey Marvin. Sorry for the language barrier. We'll be keen to put subs on the next one.

@christinenjeriwaithaka7293 10 ай бұрын

“Kwani uliingia business bila nguo…?”Curtis amenimaliza 😂😂

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@brianonganga2636 10 ай бұрын

This is great material. Keep it up. A question for you, isn't it better to have these questions during the pre-marital period as you sign pre-nuptial agreements for both parties? I believe signing pre-nuptial agreements will shed more light on the money habits of the couple before entering the marriage.

@kandisphere8828 10 ай бұрын

I am a born-again Christian, and I also think that prenups are necessary in marriage. People are willing to enter into a marriage contract as defined by the government under the general Marriage Act, but most people especially Christians, would have a problem with writing their own Marriage Act/own marriage terms and conditions.

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

This is a very critical observation. Pre-nuptials sometimes are tricky and can be misapplied wrongly if people have agendas. The lack of it can also bring issues if a spouse has wrong intentions. This is definitely a conversation worth having. We can structure it for the next one.

@africangirl189 10 ай бұрын

I don't even know why i watch such videos while i have zero plans of getting married 😂 it's the ( FOMO) in me i guess 😂

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Hahaha. It's always good to have this kind of information. You never know when and where it will come in handy, either for you or for other people. 🙂

@Gloriakerry 7 ай бұрын

Nimesubscribe basiii anzeni cheii

@drmutindikakuti1012 10 ай бұрын

Huyo wa kuinvest kwa watu anilipie fees.....heheheeeeeeee!!!! jus kidding.

@drmutindikakuti1012 10 ай бұрын

I probably would be the spendthrift

@pip_rake 10 ай бұрын

yes, Mutindi

@carolynemuthoni4580 10 ай бұрын

You need to pay hour self but also invest into the business

@SoilaandCurtis 10 ай бұрын

Yes, getting that balance is the tricky bit. But very important.

@graceimbukwa7756 10 ай бұрын

Soila u looking good u very content with the way u look at least u didn't come for a fashion show🎉🎉

@monicawanjikumwaura6689 10 ай бұрын

Ala hizi ndo gani yawa, ungeachia tu kwa looking good ingekua sawa. The rest was uncalled for

@malombomwarumba8143 10 ай бұрын

@@monicawanjikumwaura6689I know right😅

@gloriamutoni5137 10 ай бұрын

Since you're talking about money and God, next time you might want to talk about whether tithe should be paid from net or gross salary..for a very long time I used to pay from my net salary

@jimmycurtisiv3513 10 ай бұрын

We'll talk about it. But it should be from Gross.

@malombomwarumba8143 10 ай бұрын

As I pay Ceaser so should I pay God, so I tithe from gross

@_wawira 10 ай бұрын

Having no money is horrible.. You could love each other and be willing to work things out and all but poverty 😢poverty guys??sad story. From experience...i have seen what drastic financial changes(-ve) can do to partnership.can be costly if not handled right.