Tracee Ellis Ross: A woman's fury holds lifetimes of wisdom

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Tracee Ellis Ross: A woman's fury holds lifetimes of wisdom | TED

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The global collection of women's experiences can no longer be ignored, says actress and activist Tracee Ellis Ross. In a candid, fearless talk, she delivers invitations to a better future to both men and women.
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@kriskarlaonline 4 жыл бұрын

Love this, it resonates with me. If you are upset by this Tedx talk, it is because she held up a mirror and you don’t like the reflection.

@voyance4elle 4 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙌

@umbersheikh3047 3 жыл бұрын

@@voyance4elle ojio

@Floridacoastwriter 3 ай бұрын

Crack the mirror yourself with your own reflection. If we don't like it, it's none of your business, got it?

@pupuchicha 4 күн бұрын

@@Floridacoastwriter eh stay mad

@voyance4elle 4 жыл бұрын

A woman carries the history of mothers, grandmothers, sisters who have been raped, who have been forced, who have been surpressed, who have been touched without permission, who have been harassed, who have been silenced, who have been threatened. I can say this because I have a mother, a grandmother and many women in my life who have been the victims of men in this way. I myself have been a victim.

@cursedmale7490 6 жыл бұрын

I do not have to imagine. I KNOW how all that feels. I KNOW EXACTLY HOW ALL THAT FEELS!!!

@razileeligaray7207 4 жыл бұрын

"Women being made responsible for men's bad behavior" True... And they expect you to "save" him. But what happens to a girl who does that? She's a human being, not a life jacket. She's a human being, not a sacrificial lamb.

@autumxxleaves4186 6 жыл бұрын

If your a dude n u think this is trash, then u really don't understand it🤷🏾‍♀️

@dianadinah24 6 жыл бұрын

This is the best talk I have heard on this subject. Thank you so so much. Time is indeed up. Best way to start my morning

@phenomenalfemale524 5 жыл бұрын

This is cleverly presented and amazing. And actually enraging in demonstrating the male 'privilege' mindset that women are objects first. Does anyone think the man would have done this to a man he encountered at the PO? This guy gets the award for having missed all understanding of respect for women and his behavior is just another showcasing of here in 2018 we still have a way to go before men get it... Way to go Tracee for such a well done, insightful talk.

@jaclynh9343 5 жыл бұрын

She is a LEGEND in my eyes. Absolutely remarkable Talk.

@kimberlywright4988 5 жыл бұрын

He did violate her. He had no right to put his hands on her!

@LaVidaFelicia 4 жыл бұрын

That’s what I said!

@orphanedhanyou 4 жыл бұрын

so a community of humans must live in a completely touchless society? that isnt how humans are built. ive touched or tapped plenty of people (male & female) on the shoulder, had to squeeze past them, all without 'consent' to 'violate' their body. this isn't a 'spectrum' causing rape and actual violation.

@thefairychild 3 жыл бұрын

@@orphanedhanyou If he had tapped her to get her attention, or even brushed past her, that would've been fine. But he didn't. He touched her and did what he wanted with her. That is assault.

@kaylacoleman9879 3 жыл бұрын

@@orphanedhanyou tapping someone is completely different from physically moving someone as if they are an object. One is okay. The other is not. Its degrading a sapient person down to an inanimate object. Essentially, the woman they.moved without their consent doesn't matter. Think about that. Would you like it?

@tytell77 5 ай бұрын

Yes personal space is personal space

@biancamorley1064 6 жыл бұрын

This is beautifully written, spoken and message delivered. Thank you, truly!

@GreenMM_11 6 жыл бұрын

"Women aren't supposed to get angry"..... damn makes me angry just thinking about that. True in society at large unfortunately.....

@rkms5606 4 жыл бұрын

I appreciate her sharing this truth experienced by many daily. I'm sad that she will receive backlash more than support, but her courage inspires. Love God. Love yourself. Love others. Lord, help us to stand up for righteousness.

@lovesings2us 3 жыл бұрын

Rev. Robin Kay Monk Self - Thank you so much for your words and you prayer asking God to help us stand for righteousness! I spent quite a while this morning looking on KZfaq for healing prayer which uses inclusive language and honors the equality of women and people of color. I found that here is no such prayer on the internet, as far as i can tell. Thank God I found your comment which sheds the beautiful Light I was hoping to find on KZfaq, not only for myself but for so many women who strive to love God and to build a world where our equality, and all people's equality, is respected.

@MsLazyTiger 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so grateful that she said “NO.” I needed to hear that; it was like she was speaking directly to me. The first time I heard this talk I didn’t get it. I’m female, but it just didn’t resonate with me. It’s taken a couple of years and a huge learning curve, but now I get it. I AM furious, and the fury is not just for me. It’s for everyone and everything and it is POWERFUL.

@AlexTejeda_ 4 жыл бұрын

Oh man I cried. I’m a survivor of sexual abuse and it is sad how we rationalize and it’s just normalized. I used to not even believe in women empowerment cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Why do we do these things to ourselves to attract men instead of standing up for ourselves!

@Novocainero 2 жыл бұрын

as a rape victim fighting a case due to me defendind myself……this felt like it needed to be said and you explained it beautifully. thank you,you only spoke facts.

@virgorisingtheory 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry. I hope you're doing well now 💓 I hope you won

@Novocainero 2 жыл бұрын

@@virgorisingtheory hes in jail wont the fight that matter, thank you love

@Floridacoastwriter 3 ай бұрын

Glad he is but make damn sure you don't do anything to encourage it or walk in risky places or entertain risky friends. Use your brains if you have any.

@SweetasSugar42 6 жыл бұрын

I was really happy that I finally see a speaker on here with cards. I love public speaking but struggle with memorising my speeches and I always use cards as a support.

@tmurray0306 5 жыл бұрын

SweetasSugar42 wonderful idea

@voyance4elle 4 жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with that!!! 😌 Also it's comforting because your hands can hold onto the cards 🙏

@mskymo12 6 жыл бұрын

What can you not do... She is everything. great speech👏👏👏👏

@lalkhawngaihiralte7946 6 жыл бұрын

Mutual respect is all we need

@gabicastellanos6419 6 жыл бұрын

So true... but the silence of the audience made me uncomfortable. They seldom laughed, so when finally, a few minutes before the end, they erupted into applause, I was happy. The applause at the end was thunderous. I was relieved.

@Floridacoastwriter 3 ай бұрын

We are so relieved that you are relieved. Now, relieve us by relieving yourself of these stupid comments.

@talisha5863 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this Tracee👏🏽It’s so important to acknowledge that as a society we still have a long way to go to combat patriarchy and ethnic supremacy that is still very dominant throughout the world. Although progression for equality continues to get better, it’s still difficult for women to stand up for ourselves, particularly women of color when we are the singular minority in our work environment.

@msnkuli6089 5 жыл бұрын

Love this woman. Wish I can express myself like her! ❤️

@MalissaVieira 6 жыл бұрын

This gave me chills. Watching it, I thought back to every creepy male manager who ever commented on « how nice my outfit looked on me » or the uninvited back caresses or touching my hair or telling me « smile, sweetheart, you’re so pretty when you smile *for me* » . If you’ve never experienced this kind of objectification, then you really are not an authority to comment on why women shouldn’t feel angered by this. Telling people to do things they don’t want to do or touching them uninvited should make anyone angry. The problem is that it happens disproportionately to women and girls. If you haven’t lived it, you don’t *get* it, so you don’t have the right to say it’s not a big deal.

@StigHelmer 6 жыл бұрын

Yes, it's difficult for men to relate to behavior they never experience but the same can be said about women, right? Imagine we collect a number of anecdotes about mean women, would that be helpful for anyone? Check out Norah Vincent, this is a news interview about her experiment living as a man: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/f9ZnnrOQycqafIk.html

@Floridacoastwriter 3 ай бұрын

Yea and stupid women sometimes do that to men but the double standard doesn't apply to them too. Wake up.

@zuleikhanajeeb5810 4 жыл бұрын

YES YES YES YES YES! This isn’t a new topic for sure and it’s been an issue for years and years and years yet we STILL have to spell it out for them. We still feel like we have no right to talk back. We still feel like we shouldn’t be angry for these ‘silly’ little things. Thank you for talking about this ❤️

@NerteaAlenuath 6 жыл бұрын

Amazing speech! Thank you!

@marion-catherinegrall1986 4 жыл бұрын

Wahoo ! This woman is so smart, and so intelligent, and then so beautiful, inside first and outside sure. From France

@phenomenalfemale524 Жыл бұрын

It has been several yrs since I stumbled across this video. I had a recent incident with a man that brought this video fully back. In 2023. This video has withstood the test of time and is still relevant. Of course I wish we'd had more progress.

@leahazure7529 2 жыл бұрын

Tracee Ellis, you're remarkable! We need more talks like this, and explanations added to pop culture and scripts.

@brianmeese1641 28 күн бұрын

“The innocuous makes space for the horrific.” I think even the most well-meaning among us need to really get this.

@Divchyk 4 жыл бұрын

Very good job on explaining "the fury" of a woman being "man handled". Thank you Tracee Ellis Ross.

@josephfinklea3650 9 ай бұрын

Tracee ellie Ross I always love being compassionate to women 🚺 and respectful.

@tierrasworld Жыл бұрын

I love the fact that you did this ‼️I hope it continues to Spread. I wish I would’ve seen it sooner

@StrangeKvol 6 жыл бұрын

As a man I must say, that this was very elequant (sp), and put words to feelings I have often heard friends of the opposite gender, try to express. I see myself as a feminist in many ways, and I still found new thoughts in this - thank you!

@treeforged9097 6 жыл бұрын

If you cared more about statistics and logical arguments then you do about elegance of speech and feelings you would be less likely to be fooled by con artist weather of the used car salesman or the dictator verity.

@maroonrebel 6 жыл бұрын

Jahnes love. Thanks. Great talk by one of my favorite celebrities. Tracee Ellis Ross is soo smart, beautiful and stylish. So wish that she was my friend. I am furious that I am not yet in a position to reach out to her and get a reply. I will find safe and positive ways to work my way up the ladder though. Blessed love.

@whatever96 6 жыл бұрын

Well now that's a role model I want to follow. Amazing speech.

@jmccaffery1 6 жыл бұрын

I was moved by this. ... And now I feel fury at this woman for moving me.

@jmccaffery1 6 жыл бұрын

The Fuzz hasn't it already started? There are a lot of single good looking women out there crying because they can't find a man to put up with them (except for white knights, male feminists or feminizers... Are these soyboys even men? )... It's typical to hear of a woman complain about these things when their actions and victimhood/empowerment narrative is literally the thing hurting their prospects for a bright happy future with marriage, children and family, to those women who so desire the fulfillment of nature's course. If only men's rights activists/advocates were seen as defenders of womanhood... because by combating the ideological scourge of Feminism, they are.

@hediyehb9082 6 жыл бұрын

One question, What are men's rights that need advocation. I mean besides the general human rights for men and women, what is specific to men?

@jmccaffery1 6 жыл бұрын

Hediyeh B How about for starters, the application of the general right of due process instead of instant belief of dubious claims made toward the character and alleged conduct of males by women? This TED talk is a perfect example. Women moved to utter fury and desire to physically assault someone. Physically being moved without consent could possibly be ruled as battery, but aggravated assault is hardly a logical response. I wonder what the person moderating this channel, male or female, seeks to attain by highlighting my response? One can only wonder *eye roll

@hediyehb9082 6 жыл бұрын

first of all, fury is a feeling, not an act. It can happen because the bus leaves a minute too early and you miss it. It is important to channel it into something positive and talk about it and resolve it. As long as you don't break a window because you missed your bus everything is in healthy order. There was no aggravated assault!!! stop exaggerating. Let's not talk about all women accusing all men with no proof. You like "How about" , don't you? then how about stay on topic!

@hediyehb9082 6 жыл бұрын

@architectMd 4 жыл бұрын

Salute to Tallie Ellis Ross! Fabulous speech! Oh, what wonderful expressive words! Beautiful, Heartfelt, Electrifying, Thundering & Stunning English!

@MistaMoshi 6 жыл бұрын

This crowd is butt.

@TheNicoliyah 6 жыл бұрын

Mista Moshi hurt!😉

@myrahj1482 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely Love Tracee Ellis Ross and everything she stands for 💞

@marniewoodrow3432 4 жыл бұрын

Is "Excuse me please" no longer an option for people? No need to touch someone you don't know. Period.

@thomaswalsh4552 6 жыл бұрын

The post office story to phone parallel is completely absurd. The post office guy was definitely in the wrong, but that is different from someone grabbing your phone daily, with thinly veiled taunts. As well, women are far more able to express emotion, anger included.

@seasong7655 6 жыл бұрын

How about instead of leading a war between the genders, we try to understand eachother and learn to forgive?

@DeathnoteBB 6 жыл бұрын

Good idea, inform the men and misogynists.

@DeathnoteBB 6 жыл бұрын

The Fuzz "women" aren't a hivemind.

@hediyehb9082 6 жыл бұрын

do you think she was explaining and helping men understand her POV, or she was waging war?

@dienazday81 6 жыл бұрын

I think that is exactly what she is calling for. Pay closer attention.

@hediyehb9082 6 жыл бұрын

The Fuzz so mich incel vibe coming off of you. You realize nobody called you a creep until you did it yourself? Work on that, maybe then you'll start having Other experiences with woman. Or keep being this angry and bitter. After all, land of the free...

@tunnelvisionisrealgangstal1102 6 жыл бұрын

It does seem sometimes that even when you try to “ play by the rules” you still lose. You still suffer people (women and men) who help themselves then blame you. It was what you were wearing, or you should have known better etc

@serendipity0775 Жыл бұрын

One of the best iv heard. I often experience RAGE due to all this.

@echakamonjok 6 жыл бұрын

😍😍😍❤️🙌🏾 This is why I love her.

@goawayleavemealone2880 6 жыл бұрын

For being insufferable and whining about a non-event. Well each to their own.

@echakamonjok 6 жыл бұрын

GoAway LeaveMeAlone Yes to each its own... 😒 your comment was unnecessary though.

@goawayleavemealone2880 6 жыл бұрын

So was your comment. Didn't stop you from making it though. If you are going to use the lack of necessity as an argument against other people then don't do unnecessary things yourself.

@echakamonjok 6 жыл бұрын

GoAway LeaveMeAlone ??? Yeah You commented on my post. If you don’t agree you could keep scrolling. There’s no need for negative, just saying.

@goawayleavemealone2880 6 жыл бұрын

Echaka Monjok - yes no should ever disagree ever. But especially with you, I'm sorry - I'll never question the aristocracy again.

@brianhines1452 2 жыл бұрын

MEN MOVING WOMEN AND/OR ATTACKING THEM?!! IT MAKES MY BLOOD BOIL!!! 😤😤😤😠😠😠😡😡😡

@kat1701 6 жыл бұрын

Look at all the trolls who didn’t even watch but still have an opinion. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Floridacoastwriter 3 ай бұрын

Look at all the judgmental fools that do have an opinion that doesn't count, like yours.

@lu8201 5 жыл бұрын

Respect all women!

@epithanyreighn 4 жыл бұрын

As A woman I can relate, not bashing all men but women are the most disregarded and disrespected and if you speak up , you are rendered as the bad one, We must do better, I noticed too many men wasn't clapping after her speech, 🤔💯💖

@Floridacoastwriter 3 ай бұрын

Good reason. She didn't deserve many claps, neither do you.

@enicholsfranklinuniversity 6 жыл бұрын

My idea. Use manners and treat everyone right.

@finessemeister 3 жыл бұрын

The entire speech was built up about a singular event that occurred in which a man moved a woman. So the claim here is that men objectify women? Because the rest of the video falls under the pretense of that statement. She's basically suggesting that women are the victims in society and that we should blame men for women's faults yet disregards that women should hold their own accountability as well. She provides no real examples of how men are at fault for women's behaviors, but still makes the statement "It is man's responsibility to change man's bad behavior". I hope you're aware that men overwhelmingly have the highest rates of being victims of crime?

@roopsharoy7156 2 жыл бұрын

She just iterated one story of a woman, who was violated, yes she was violated, as he didn't even have the basic decency to just say, "Excuse me", but there are so many stories, of men doing so much worse than the above story, to so many women. And I get it, it's not all men are predators and not all women are victims. But enough men in the world have this mentality, that just because it's a woman, he can do absolutely whatever his heart wishes with her and she would not make a sound. That's how his brain is functioned and that's how the woman's brain is functioned. As women, we are still told to this day, that "boys will be boys". And that we are just to accept what they do to us. I have no intention of undermining the struggle that men go through, but in this context, where we are obviously discussing women's issues, we should highlight that with more emphasis.

@finessemeister 2 жыл бұрын

@@roopsharoy7156 I don't disagree with you but i will say that the facts are in our current society is that there are way too many advocates for women than there are for men. There are way too many false claims against men of all kinds of accusations if you look at statistics, and yet society today will still favor women indiscriminately. Taking a look at our court systems, they will always lean towards the women's side in almost every situation regardless. This has become an issue for men in recent times as there aren't that many organizations/movements that fight for men in comparison.

@mikejohn29mj 2 жыл бұрын

@@finessemeister One day a women would invite a man over and seduce him, the next day she will turn and say that he raped her.

@onesmoovealpha 2 жыл бұрын

Late to the party but glad I made it. A very important message indeed!

@Floridacoastwriter 3 ай бұрын

No damn party here. Just a bunch of whiny bitches.

@hlewis5217 2 жыл бұрын

Love Tracee. Extremely well spoken and passionate. Got super engaged from the start!

@brianhines1452 Жыл бұрын

Tracee Ellis Ross is VERY attractive! She is the picture of beauty! Physically I like her face, cheekbones, neck, lips, and her forehead.

@rubychew6535 4 жыл бұрын

Tracee is a highly intelligent woman. She communicates very well.

@jacobzaranyika9334 2 жыл бұрын

I will watch this in full later

@else5393 6 жыл бұрын

amen

@elizabethmcgonagle8313 4 жыл бұрын

Some men are crazy. I will never stand up to a man who disrespects me because the last time I did he put 10 bullets in my car.

@rejoicennedi 4 жыл бұрын

How can we be loud enough on this matter🤦

@girlyblackgirl 6 жыл бұрын

This needs to go viral

@Floridacoastwriter 3 ай бұрын

It does sound like a virus.

@tryingtomake9871 6 жыл бұрын

This is a big channel, I am so happy to join with you.

@sophie716 6 жыл бұрын

Every woman and every man should watch and reflect on this now

@tianag3012 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you thank you thank you.

@TheRealDanBond 6 жыл бұрын

If you don’t agree with the analogy, it might be because it’s very hard to show someone a different gender’s social issues. It’s similar to how an upper class white person will never fully understand the racism put on a dark person of color.

@advp26 6 жыл бұрын

TheRealDanBond that's some marxist ideology bud.

@TheRealDanBond 6 жыл бұрын

^ I guess I wasn't being too clear then. I included economic status in the comparison because there are some upper-class people of color who can avoid a lot of racism, but now that I'm thinking about it, I'm sure even they can't escape it. I wasn't trying to say they can't understand the economic troubles of having less money, but the social ones like being stereotyped or unintentionally or sometimes intentionally discriminated against. There's just no parallel. You won't be able to fully understand it unless you live it, and you can't.

@advp26 6 жыл бұрын

TheRealDanBond bro that's victim mentality. If I were to think like you because I'm a 'POC' I wouldn't get anywhere in life.I reject that type of mentality. Nothing but slave ideology.

@TheRealDanBond 6 жыл бұрын

? There's nothing wrong with being a victim. You can still be a victim and not let it hold you down. There's nothing wrong with trying to better your situation and make yourself not a victim. Again, I think you're misunderstanding what I'm saying. I'm not saying that if you're discriminated against you shouldn't try or let it run your life. This is a completely the opposite of what I'm saying. Take control, and try to show people the problems. My main point was that no one could ever fully understand some of the troubles of being a woman similar to how many people will never fully understand what it's like to be discriminated against because of the color of their skin. I'm not saying those people should be submissive to it. They should speak out and advocate for change (rise over it) like how Ross is doing in this video.

@treeforged9097 6 жыл бұрын

You are basically saying that empathy, putting yourself in other peoples shoes, is impossible. Thankfully for everyone you are mistaken. Saying a black person cannot know certain things just because of there race, is racist. The same is true of all other groups it is racist to say a white person cannot know something because of the color of there skin. Your creating divisions in society that do not exist, we should be uniting each other and not dividing each other and asserting that we can never be undivided. Ross is not advocating for change, she is complaining about nothing and demanding that other people change in ways that she does not specify. You can't just demand people fix the problem you have to actually come up with an idea that address the issues, she failed to do that in this video.

@IamMinnie90 6 жыл бұрын

I cried..... thank you using your voice for us

@goawayleavemealone2880 6 жыл бұрын

Meanwhile people were having real problems, like dying on the job and you probably didn't spare a single thought for them. Because your privilege is being able to behave as if some non-event is completely world ending - because adversity is to you as chalk is to cheese.

@MinnieMoo48 6 жыл бұрын

I think the example she used was well chosen. I highly doubt a man would move over another man the way the man moved her friend at the post office. It was a gentle, soft yet significant example in the difference of how men's and women's bodies are treated and respected in general (not every case). I don't understand why people are being so harsh in their comments. It makes no sense to me. In fact, what is truly confusing is how misconstrued her comments and opinions are in other people's comments.

@brendarua01 6 жыл бұрын

I almost can't believe the knee jerk reactions of most guys in the comments. It's likely most did not listen to the whole talk. It's guaranteed they don't comprehend the talk. The question is why and did they even try? The perfect case in point is they guys who say they would react aggressively to a man grabbing them to move them. These guys don't have the empathy or intelligence to put themselves in the place of the woman, who is fearful because that is the ingrained response for her. _And the very odd thing is that this is the experience of their sisters and mothers, their cousins and aunts their wives._ You brave, insightful, brilliant guys need to explain to me how it is you let your family be subjected to this. I think it's all posturing and hot air.

@brendarua01 6 жыл бұрын

Well Fuzz. You are one of the more eloquent trolls I've run into. But your knuckles still drag. Are you suggesting that "this new reality" is a safer place? That may be true. But safer from what? Troglodyte men? Actually it does not really matter. You are right. It is safer - thanks to work done by ranks of women and a few men.

@benh392 6 жыл бұрын

All I ever see is the vast exaggeration of women's problems and the blatant disregard of the (at least) equal issues that men face. How about you show some empathy, Brenda.

@benh392 6 жыл бұрын

well said Shugo. Women an men both face problems but women's problems are exaggerated and men's are ignored.

@hybby 6 жыл бұрын

Brenda Rua I didn't appreciate her patronizing tone at 2:15 where she says " I can feel the men getting a little bit uncomfortable. It's okay. Stay with me" I will continue watching to the end of the video. However, if women want to communicate with men, they can't patronize us. That's going to piss us off.

@mrblack65139 6 жыл бұрын

If you're afraid of everyone and everything around you who is potentially more powerful than you then that's YOUR FAULT. I know plenty of women who most would deem disadvantaged. But instead of buying into a victim mentality they choose to empower THEMSELFS and are much happier than anyone I have ever seen who is always on the lookout for the next act of oppression put against them.

@rleo6334 6 жыл бұрын

Not only am I watching this video, but I'm watching the war in the comment section... 😂

@lina5699 6 жыл бұрын

this talk was phenemonal. consent is a very important issue. women dont get to choose how they feel. same thing how what they do to their bodies. Ex: serena williams and how people called her manlooking in a insulting way because of her athletic build. As well as her reaction to the referee at the tennis match.

@laylaveruska627 Жыл бұрын

She's so complete, musician, actress, Ted talk presenter, comedian, business girl, and so much more

@Hallelujur 6 жыл бұрын

Comment section is totally proving her point. Chapeau Tracee!!!!

@Floridacoastwriter 3 ай бұрын

Yes, that she's as creepy as she whines.

@Jessica-zn7ov 3 жыл бұрын

Women, do not feel shamed for your FURY. Be furious if you are furious. SHOW THOSE where your boundaries are. That is the ONLY way people learn - Experientially!

@solomondessesso662 4 ай бұрын

She is so wise

@konicalancea 6 жыл бұрын

Tracee Ellis Ross could not have said this any better. This is the same conversation that I was having with my sisters. Men are absolutely responsible for how they behave and the change begins within them. At first, I thought "eh, it's not that big of a deal. He moved her. Just laugh at it" but then what she was saying makes sense. Those tiny moments symbolize how women are used and abused. Majority of cases you hear of human trafficking is of young girls and women. You've heard countless stories of women being beaten in domestic violence scenarios. This tiny case of her friend being moved just represents the larger picture.

@hungrymusicwolf 6 жыл бұрын

"Majority of cases you hear of human trafficking is of young girls and women.", that is until you look beyond the media frenzy which loves everything feminist and look into the actual cases and you find that young boys are frequent targets as well. "Men are absolutely responsible for how they behave." yes and so are women, so stop telling men "you have to change!" and actually have a proper conversation with them over what you and other women have trouble with, and then LISTEN TO HIM AS WELL, the solution has to be fair to everyone and that does not just include women.

@godbearxd 6 жыл бұрын

KONICA LANCÉA Now replace the word men with black people and imagine it being said by a white person and see if your comment or her ted talk sounds racist. That's what men who aren't Feminists feel like when women talk about what men should be "doing differently."

@dontblockthebox 6 жыл бұрын

KONICA LANCÉA yeah its totally not up to you to change yourself

@benh392 6 жыл бұрын

Lol. I'm so fed up with this group politics that suggests that everyone from a certain group behaves a certain way. Not only is it wrong, but it's downright prejudice. Also, the heavy majority of domestic violence is committed by women against their husbands or boyfriends(who are usually too scared to admit it) but, due to biological facts, men can cause more serious harm in the cases when they do attack. It is a myth that men are oppressors of women; that's not only wrong but also a Marxist way of thinking. Men and women are different. Both have problems. All this victimisation is only marginalising the problems that men face and blowing women's problems way out of proportion. When a feminist says they care about equality, that's a lie. They don't even acknowledge that men face, at least, equally important problems and all they want is a system that allows them to gain access to the top of hierarchies without having to work for it by saying that it's because of oppression instead of work. It'd be nice to see people who actually want to help everyone, for once.

@konicalancea 6 жыл бұрын

I expect this to be a very controversial topic that flares up a lot of emotions, but, all men are not terrible and all women do not let things fly by. However, in general, men need to have more respect for women. Not all men are disrespectful. Not all cases of abuse and trafficking or whatever else is about women and girls only. Yes, it happens a to boys as well. But, in today's society, women are not respected. We have shifted from that notion. Our young boys are growing up thinking that it's okay to just look at a woman anyway they please. Young girls are growing up thinking it's okay to settle for less and not value themselves. There are men out there who understands the value of a woman and will not ask her to lower her standards. There are men who will step up to the plate to do whatever it takes to honor a woman. And, on the contrary, there are women who have lowered their value simply because "it's hard to find a good man." That's some women's issue. It's not okay to feel like you have to compromise your self worth to find a man who will respect you or just to settle for less than you deserve. Some of you just need to sit down and analyze what Tracee is saying here.

@florianeschmitt6813 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this talk ❤️

@lovesings2us 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Tracee Ellis Ross! May divine and human love clothe you with unbreakable and everlasting protection. May all of us who are inspired by your also be steadfastly and eternally protected by the steadfast power of mighty and tender Love. May we never give up on building a world where women are naturally respected and all men respect women, the earth and every life form on the earth.

@theawsome6244 6 жыл бұрын

good job!!! all this controversy means there is still a lot of work to do ! :)

@FansonicGaming 6 жыл бұрын

And a womans forgiveness can change the world forever

@AmanSingh0699 6 жыл бұрын

Ethan 8==D~~

@virgorisingtheory 2 жыл бұрын

Why should we forgive you for abuse?

@ands19 6 жыл бұрын

The terrible comments on this video highlight as to why the world needs many more such Ted Talks.

@StigHelmer 6 жыл бұрын

The terrible comments are criticizing the talk for being sexist. Maybe you should read them and engage people if you think they are wrong.

@beletristabennett6910 5 жыл бұрын

And 19 I agree with you! 😊👌✌👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💛💛💛💛💛🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟you are not alone!

@Floridacoastwriter 3 ай бұрын

Your terrible comment speaks volumes.

@samiam5343 6 жыл бұрын

She actually had a really strong message women have been conditioned to question themselves before they question anyone else however I think the talk itself could have been better

@treeforged9097 6 жыл бұрын

People should constantly question themselves before others, men have been conditioned that way to its called skeptcism. You lie to yourself more then anyone else lies to you, so you should be constantly questioning yourself.

@MQB-dz8wr 6 жыл бұрын

Love all the men commenting under this video telling women how they should feel/not feel about being women therefore re-iterating all the points she's making in this video. Thanks lads!

@beletristabennett6910 5 жыл бұрын

😆👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏✌👌👐🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟💛💛💛💛💛💐

@hollyberrii 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. Any men commenting that have a problem with this.. get help. Please.

@dyna1937 6 жыл бұрын

Any men that hate toxic feminists need help? Get help. No ones oppressing you because they moved you to get to something.

@advp26 6 жыл бұрын

Holly Berrii yes do not question anything. Let's just accept assumptions as facts and not question the narrative.

@hollyberrii 6 жыл бұрын

I have experience being a woman and how I have been treated. This is very relatable.

@Drudenfusz 6 жыл бұрын

What about if I as a woman have an issue with her narrative?

@annaleigh6551 3 жыл бұрын

Being told I'm " too much" IS!, infuriating because I'm only being myself, giving you the real me and letting you in on what my brain is trying to convey.

@milkballz 6 жыл бұрын

Technology? Nope Entertainment? Nope Design? Nope Maybe they should create a sister channel. It could be called FED Talks: Feelings Emotions Drama

@tmurray0306 5 жыл бұрын

milkball 😮my god, I just realized that her subject matter did not match any of the 3 categories.

@brendasmith6550 5 жыл бұрын

I feel inspired to LISTEN!❤❤❤❤❤

@xbellaxo 6 жыл бұрын

Wow. Amazing.

@Michelle-pn9xt 4 жыл бұрын

I do not think all the men in the audience would be uncomfortable because all men are not that way. I think he did violate her. Nobody she be pushed out of the way be someone needs to reach something.

@cherylkimble7526 6 жыл бұрын

Perfect timing. Spot on. 👏

@cynthiaguzman7130 Жыл бұрын

I saw a lot of men NOT clapping at having men being responsible for men's behavior. Just something I noticed when they zoomed out and you see the women clapping.