Makes sense 🤔 I feel that.

That's It 👨🏾‍⚖️

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Stop lying. Being single is being ALONE. No human being wants to be alone. 1st world problems, lying for self delusion. Most diagnosed, most mental illnesses, most loneliest people on the planet.

Facts. As I always say... "Live your life and keep yourself to yourself and I'll keep myself to myself"

@Tru 319 who hurt you

@Tru 319 and this is why she chose to be single a lot of y’all men are clowns… she don’t have time to pick through all the clowns to find someone decent… it’s more trash than treasure out there!!!

You determined that after interacting "for a second"?

@@davidearle7209 take your cape off DAMN

@@thetraveler1182 I said three words, grow up lol

Why "settle down" when you have all the money you need? Freedom means being free from all obligations. Marriage is in effect more about governmental agencies than it is about love and that kind of philosophy. If you've ever been divorced and not even understood the role that government plays in marriage, you better watch where you going, especially men without the proper education of the role that marriage plays, to their detriment, in the game of life. If we fail to understand what we're actually getting into, since we will probably not have the kind of resources that this Ross lady has, means death. Listening to this woman's story, for me, about why she's single is just about content creation. Who cares?

Just say you will never be able to pair bond and cooperate with somebody that has standards and limitations, it don't really matter unless someone cares enough to even put up with y'all "needs".

Exactly!👏🏽👏🏽Couldn’t have said it better!

@@imjusttrollingyou4014 seriously...

Definitely sounds like she's going to die alone or some cats of hers specific choosing

Because we know the backstory here...there's the spin Tracy puts out there and what really happens when ya watch her move. That's why...lesson in contradictions like Lolo Jones

I feel you but that shit get lonely sometime

Cuz statistics say more women in her age n tax bracket are more miserable than ever. With more options n technology it’s logically peculiar why women as successful n as beautiful as her aren’t married. And no offense but instead of addressing the logical intrigue.. women say things like “why you worried?” Aka “why are ppl so fixated?”. Ppl are just asking simple questions

@@Renzov12 Pray tell. What statistics supports such a subjective claim you have made?

@@Renzov12 no offense taken. I'm not a woman. And to the point of technology and an increase in choices....well, that's a reason why a lot of men and women have stopped dating and marrying altogether. Infidelity happens as much as day turning into night in this modern era. More people lack humility in place of extreme arrogance and entitlement. Good people just don't want to deal with all that nonsense when peace and tranquility is always an option

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That's how I feel! I get so annoyed with people who say things like "Where's your man?" Like I only have value if I have a man.

@@DarlingEbony sometimes it’s not meant in a way to say you don’t have value alone. Sometimes it’s meant to say you have a ton of value and who are you sharing it with? It’s like seeing an extremely wealthy person but they do nothing for society and only hoard the wealth to themselves. People like to see good people being able to share. But I can see how some can take offense to the question. Unfortunately we’ve come to a space where being with someone else is seen as taking something away from ourselves. With the right partner it definitely doesn’t have to be that way. It can and should be a gain. But so many people end up with the wrong partners.

@@lorenzopearson110 I understand your perspective.

@@DarlingEbony that’s why our society and our family structure is shattered into pieces and we lack wealth and control no resources.

Deserves more likes

I would just add that no one’s validation should come from being in a relationship. 😉

U got a point

She sounds self centered and scared

@@kenyattathompson6685 How?lol

Not in front of anybody at least. She drinks a tall glass of warm coffee and hugs her dog every time she steps out into the world 😂

and colorists be like "she lite skindeded , it don't make sense"

'I would love to be in a relationship that makes my life better than what it is' Tracee Ellis Ross

@@dtrn254 exactly it’s all cap

@@kenyattathompson6685 I actually believe Tracee Ross is correct

She about to be 70. lol. Beautiful and talented and successful as she is ya'll need to get outta your emotions and get in reality. That ain't a good look for anybody. A real friend would tell you that instead of cosigning your justifications for not being good at dating. We all have our own choices to do what we want. Doesn't make all of our choices correct.

So why women stay in men's business daily?

Sad sad sad

@@ysl_443ysl Im trying to figure out where and when people are trying to control tracee's life.Mfs love nut hugging celebrities

No one cares And she better not backtrack later and say where are all the good men

LOVE IT!!! ❤️❤️❤️

It is when u abt to age out of dating. All the shit our ancestors went thru to continue their legacy & u sittin up here abt to die alone with no kids.

Wanting/having a partner is not a “social pressure” babygirl. We are literally biologically wired for companionship.. ESPECIALLY as a women. Being old and single is seen as wrong because it is, it’s against nature. The same can be applied to gay people (men in particular).

At that age having her status yea theres definitely something wrong with her if no man wants her

@@BigWickEnergy_ thank u

Well Said

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she don't want invasive dusties , even rich folk have toxic dusties in thir midst. She a fine girl, i don't normally do biracial since i am one myself but she so fine if i had the opportunity.

I AGREE TO DISAGREE... THERE ARE ALOT OF PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD THAT FEED OFF GOSSIP...THEY LIVE IN THE MEDIA...THEY KNOW WHAT GOING ON MORE WITH THE COUPLE NEXT DOOR THAN" THE NEW 360* 4K DOOR BELLS" I SAY ALL THIS... BECAUSE I HAVE EXPEREINCED THIS MY WHOLE LIFE" I SMILE AT ALOT OF IT" BECAUSE I KNOW WHATS GOING ON..BUT EVERY THING CHANGED WHEN I STARTED DATING OUT OF MY RACE...EVEN THOUGH MY MOM AND FATHER ARE MIXED" JUST LIKE THEM ..I AM STILL CONSIDERD A BLACK MAN...LOL" BUT NOW THAT I HAVE A WHITE WOMEN...OR A MEXICAN WOMAN ON HAND" NOW THERE IS NO MORE TALK..ABOUT ME AND WHAT KIND OF CAR OR TRUCK I DROVE TODAY...OR MY DATE" WHY... BECAUSE... NOBODY KNOWS THE BUSINESS...OF THE WOMAN I WITH NOW...SHE DONT KNOW THEM..AND THE PEOPLE THAT WAS KEEPING THE MESS UP" DON'T HAVE ANY BODY TO CALL AT WORK...DOWN THE STREET..OR ACROSS TOWN...ALL THEY DO NOW" IS SMURK..OR ROLL THERE EYES_ IT SAD THAT PEOPLE REALLY HAVEN'T GOT A LIFE OUTSIDE THERE OWN FRONT DOOR" THEY STILL TALK..ITS JUST NOT AS GLAMOROUS...LIFE IS SO SHORT" AND WE LIVE AND DIE THE SAME EVERY SINGLE DAY" EVERY YR WE GET...ONE YR OLDER" I ONCE TOLD A PERSON...A FEW YRS AGO..WHEN THE COVID STARTED...PEOPLE ARE STILL GOING TO ROB...STEAL.. MURDER...RAPE... COVID...GOT ITS JOB..AND I GUESS THE WAY THE WORLD WORKS...ITS MAKES ITS ROUNDS AS WELL"

Because the idea that a woman doesn't need a man is a straight falsehood being pushed by older, bitter women.

Say that!

I get that . . . But she is also a part of a generation where there are a LOT of black women --- whether they are in the entertainment industry or not -- who are, and have been single for awhile . . . Explanation? . . . And, interestingly enough, African -American women are struggling financially, according to a recent news story . . . And why is that?

YAsss, finally someone said it...

Being single is wack ! Being in love with another person who thinks about you daily ,is concerned about you and loves you unconditionally is the best ..

Exactly. TOXIC

@@kriscotd76 Ok sir so u make sure u marry someone good then.

Wow, congrats!! I feel the same also, I have choose to be single and I am okay..I am happy enjoying my own company..the right make would make me happier..I am not settling for a unhealthy relationship, just to say i have a mate .I learned that earlier when I was growing up..I am a work in progress. My pay off is better than my cost..I have learned more about myself and being in a unconditional relationship opposed to ownership. Marriage is a contract between two people.. not ownership...thanks Tracy Ross...

Right mate/typo😆

Right on! I am the same.

Me too. I’m the only sibling that is single and my family is worried. I’m doing okay though. If I never find someone then I will accept it.

I say the same thing and TRULY mean it. I enjoy my peace.

Not just that, but *do you make your partner's life better?* Or are you just a self-seeking parasite? 🤔

Preach Bro .....

Tough pill I had to swallow in 2020

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That’s irrelevant. Women are approached all the time by men. So out of the thousands of men, they’re all shit? 😂 no. She just difficult. Women are not perfect. Neither are men but the burden of performance, providing & protecting is on men. The real PPP

Black women are the most unmarried group of women in the US. Hispanic, Asian and white follow. 50% of Black men are single and have no kids. For the majority of people in the US it takes two people to make a family home work. Using famous people as an example Is misleading us normal people. The Ave earning man makes less then 50k a year.

And normalization as they think we should all be unhappy

Great. Live your best life. It's nobody's business just do makes you happy.

You’re just fighting against your natural biology have fun living a depressing life with cats in ur 50’s and 60’s

Kids?

Sounds self centered Enjoy

Y’all crazy. 42. Bitch it’s you.

Far from self-centered. And yes I have a 20 yr old and a 16 yr old. Divorced. And why I gotta be a bitch? 😆

For now...

Yes and no. As a Bachelor, even I want a Woman to make a Family with. That “I’m Single and Happy” thing is for the Young YOUNG…and it’s predominantly a way of living for Men. A Man in his 50s comparative to a Woman in her 50s are different kinds of beings. Typically speaking anyway.

@@thetraveler1182 I noticed a lot of people tend to project how they feel or would feel in a similar scenario onto others. Not everyone responds the same to any one situation. Love is beautiful. But many relationships and marriages don't operate in love. They operate in control and need. If she has no desire to be controlled and does not need for anything beyond physical touch, why would she settle for a relationship that might ultimately strip her rather than compliment her?

She's miserable and she's past the wall. She tries to cover it up with social media. Her friends been hanging out with her less because they have relationships.

@@kimmiet1980 Actually your wrong. Marriages aren’t run off of control and needs. It’s funny how when women are past the wall and nobody is courting them, they always turn to this “I’m happy by myself. I’m not trying to be controlled I wanna be free” knowing damn well they are crying on the inside cause they don’t have a man at home to hold them. Women’s egos and pride are going to keep them lonely and delusional until they can just admit they want a man and stand on it while being able to compromise and cooperate with a potential life partner

That's not how that works, especially at her age. If she wants a relationship at 49 she will have to agree to the Man's terms.

I hope she finds it too.

@@blacktothefuture6230 lol no she doesn’t. Why would she?

@@brittmar538 For 1, She's financially well off, which means she wouldn't consider a Man that makes less money than she does. That alone eliminates 7 football stadiums at capacity full of Men for her to "date". Secondly, She's 49. The kinda guy she wants has his pick of the litter with 21 year olds. Why would a 50 year old woman be a better choice over a 21 year old?

@@blacktothefuture6230 She won't answer that question. Sounds too much like logic.

nothing wrong being in a relationship just because. humans survived that way for thousands of years. shared responsibility and security are valuable.

What you say is correct in context but a woman that old and that famous would have found someone by now the fact that she hasn't says more about her What you say is correct in context but a woman that owed and that famous would have found someone by now the fact that she hasn't says more about her

You're speaking in the context of a 49 y/o woman lol

@@ron.247 I'm speaking for ME, myself and I.

@@ron.247 Again I understand your lol.

Nah you lonely lol

@@bigtrevish ok Steve Harvey w the advice lol u don’t know me

@@k.e.5886 I prefer Kevin Samuel's 😌 lol

This comment should be the herald of youtube…

I share Tracee's same status and I am perfectly happy being single. I do not seek a relationship for just being in a relationship. People think it's weird and question it but I'm okay with it. I also think I'm a rare breed and there may not be someone out there for me which I can accept. However, I'm still open to it but I'm just not as motivated to find it because it will just literally have to happen! LOL

Sounds kind of dumb but she's literally one in 100 million. Based on for her background she can speak like that. But always remember it's rhetoric not gospel

@@ebony81067 sounds like you're going to be preserving your eggs for latter days of your life. Well adoption is always great too. It's a lot of kids out here that need love

@@aimforthesky6095 I'm passed that... Didn't want kids. I never dreamed of wedding or the house with the white picket fence and a dog. Not all women needs that and it's okay. Just don't judge me for my path and certainly won't judge you. I have 6 nephews and nieces. My Twin brother had a daughter that looks exactly like me and so did my sister. I find joy in being a Aunt-Mother and have done an excellent job at it without tormenting myself because I didn't fulfill societies' expectations of me... Frankly, I never cared all my live since I was young, I never cared... My mother hated that about me but she later LOVED that about me and so did my sister... :-)

@@ebony81067 I really hate that it hasn't become more of a quandary that people would want kids. It should be important that people have a clear reason to take on such a big, impactful job and not just fall into it because it's the thing you do. So many people suffer being born to parents who really should have opted out of parenthood.

They always think they can do better. She's past her prime. Stop it.

@@ron.247 I believe it's human nature, most definitely for an optimist, to believe they'll do better. I won't fault someone for that💯👌

"But Black Dynamite, she wants to settle 'up' in the community!"

So you basically didn't have the ability to cooperate with him. Crazy how yall just chalk it up to "focusing on me" and "living my best life" lol

@@ron.247 He was basically lying and cheated also whoring around in the street with other women 😒 while I would come home for work and focus on our home and son. Also why would I want to marry someone who always used to say marriage was just a "piece of paper" 🚩 I did not want to waste my time with that toxic mindset or him dealing with other women so yes I chose myself in our son the best decision I ever made for myself.

@@ron.247 I understand your lol. However, read between the lines.

I read between the lines. Anything else, I'm out of line. Best to you and yours.

@@ron.247 reading your comment makes me understand why a lot of women choose to be single.

I get that . . . But she is also a part of a generation where there are a LOT of black women --- whether they are in the entertainment industry or not -- who are, and have been single for awhile . . . Explanation? . . . And, interestingly enough, African -American women are struggling financially, according to a recent news story . . . And why is that?

@@genejohnson3508 Your reply speaks upon a more broader range. My comment is about the perhaps maybe a choice "one" woman might've made until she's ready for a relationship. I don't know Ms. Ross personally.

@Kecia Harris you sure she knows what she wants? And if she does does it really take THAT LONG to find them? Could she just be bad at dating?

she ain't that rare. she's just another single person.. plenty of those walking around.

@@Kevinschart I mean, you aren't wrong lol.

@Mahogony Love Jones what i said was harsh? my bad. i just didn't like the "rare breed" comment...like the reason she's single is because she's extra special. plenty of rare women in happy relationships, with big ol' families. having said that, i like tracy. had my little young eyes on her, golden brooks, the moon child, and jill marie

She's miserable and making excuses

Are you a man or woman?

@@charliemack9118 I think when women say they are happily single means they can't get a man.

I’m not upset at all sir. It’s real.

@@sydneyboyd615 What's real???

& that’s why you’re single! Whew chile! Life is too short to be that extra, 😂

Amen

'I would love to be in a relationship that makes my life better than what it is' TER

She is not of God

My name is Ms Harris and I approve this message 💃🏾👍🏾🌹

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Despite the money, would you?

Oh wow , I didn’t know that

@@DubG9 not if he doesn’t like women

I never knew that

@@lwilliams9548 🤦🏽‍♀️

Of their own life, of course

People can still have sex while single. In fact, many have stand in sex partners for that specific reason.

I hear you. I am single and abstain and have for years. It’s definitely doable, especially when you understand the intricacies involved with sex. It’s not just for fun and recreational. ❤️

@@shawnlove4502 people can do what they'd like some people like eating shit but it doesn't mean it's good for them

@@Greg-oi7wo Sex is healthy when done in a way that protects both parties. Nothing wrong with that. Sex is a natural instinct and men do not wait for a relationship to have sex. They shouldn't expect women to either.

@@seekinghimdaily92 exactly I wish some people understood this to be true cuz it would solve a lot of single parent home issues but a lot of people are lawless and don't get that they're inviting so many different spirits into their temple and how it becomes idolatry

*Disturbing.*

💯 This is so true brother. I’ll rather stay single than to be in an unfulfilling, one-sided relationship.

🙋🏾‍♀️ My name is Ms Harris and I approve this message 💃🏾👍🏾🌹

@@kiwi9921 well hey gorgeous!!! 👋🏼 keep shining ✨️

I get that . . . But she is also a part of a generation where there are a LOT of black women --- whether they are in the entertainment industry or not -- who are, and have been single for awhile . . . Explanation? . . . And, interestingly enough, African -American women are struggling financially, according to a recent news story . . . And why is that?

Vivica Fox said one thing in life she regrets is not having children.... It is interesting so many successful, educated Black woman are single...we are the least married group of people

But, when it's all said and done the women you mention still want to be in a relationship deep down rare breed or not. In those quiet moments, it's painful to many. Black men don't help by their implying black women aren't worthy, what they should be saying is 'are they'??

Good point. They don’t understand why women won’t settle for men like them,especially if you are successful and rich.

Right

🤔 If that’s what she means, I don’t blame her. What does a woman need with a man that doesn’t AT LEAST MATCH her accomplishments and dough? Deep down he’ll never respect her for accepting that and will resent her via jealousy in the end. It’s not natural for a woman to carry and cover a man. Those kinda relationships are destined to doom. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Not much difference between lying with a woman and lying to a man.

Yep, just look at the divorce rate 🤷🏾