Ladies, never tell an abusive man you plan to leave him! Just keep quiet, act like everything's fine, and prepare... When he's out of the house, grab as much as you can, and GO!!!

I can't stop binge watching these documentarys anyone else?

Off the bat, the mom says that he was VERY protective of his wife, wanted her to look nice, “didn’t mind” buying her new dresses ALL the time. He also bought them a house with his money and possibly made her quit her job. It seems she thought he was being a good husband, but these are signs of a controlling partner!! The level of control over her life is clear here and having her quit a job is an isolation tactic. Ladies, when they start being overly obsessive, it’s not cute, it’s a red flag! Do not tell them you’re leaving get to a safe place!

This guy is by far my favorite reporter for True Crime Daily or Crime Watch. He does not stop he's tough and I love it! I love how he just keeps asking questions outside this guys door embarrassing ones at that out loud for neighbors to hear and it's going to be seen by millions online. I love this reporter. He needs to be used more he really does not let up. Tough guy.

Too bad no one called the cops when he was burning couches in his backyard.

How are these relatives waiting months before going to the police. My mom starts calling everyone if I am an hour late.

When marrying another person make sure you dig up everything on him, his families, his personal history make sure no criminal records... Just to be safe not sorry.

I feel terrible for this mother! Every one needs to pray for her!

I don’t understand why anyone would wait 2 months before reporting your loved one missing? If I don’t hear from my daughter within 48 hrs, I’d freak out!

No one burns furniture they donate it to the goodwill or Salvation Army or a neighbor or a yard sale or take to the dump

Her mother’s inaction baffles me. This could’ve gone a different (better) way.😔

I just don’t understand that if the friend knew there were things going on and that she could be in danger, why wait two months? It’s insane to me.

don't rush into moving in with someone just because the first couple of month are perfect, relationships are always good in the beginning 🤔

2 hours, 2 Days maybe YES. But 2 months to wait before you report them missing, definitely NO !

I just looked up any updates and they’re still considered missing and no one has been named a suspect in connection. I hope the family gets answers ASAP

Her best friend and mom knew how concerned she was that her husband was not only cheating but selling himself to other men and how controlling he was but it took 2 months for anyone to report them missing?! Wow. I seriously hope this family and their friends get justice and the closure deserved.

It’s so sad to me that someone can go missing along with their young son & NOBODY REPORTS THEM MISSING FOR 2 MONTHS.

Just the fact he BURNED most the stuff that was renovated shows hes hiding something

When a man, who never cleans, scours the house twice, you know something is wrong!

My thoughts and prayers go out to her Mother and family. How tragicly sad.

He wasn’t protective, he was controlling 🤦🏽‍♀️

That journalist is a savage, he makes this show entertaining

Do not ever tell someone you are leaving. Just do it. Let them come home and find you gone. Even if that person doesn't show any signs of abuse before this. Because leaving flips a switch in someone people that you never see coming.

I was in a extremely abusive relationship to were I was pregnant n lost a baby because of him, honestly it took after he almost took my life by stomping on my head repeatedly for me to find the courage to leave, with the help of the police and my family backing me I was able to get out with my stuff with a police escort while doing so. Telling an abusive person that you plan to leave n if you have children that your taking them is not the right move! Stay quiet act as normal as can be, have people who know and are ready to help at any means!! The signs were there in the beginning for me but I choose to ignore them n say he will change he is not like that all the time!!! Don't be fooled ladies n gentlemen they never change!!! Get out on the first sign Please!!! 💪❤

It's strange that the mom and best friend who knew about the husband's activites and yet they took so long to call the police! Beats me!

The mom gave him time to commit the crime and cover it up. She should have BEEN reported them missing. So sad.

Bless this poor Mama's heart! I pray that she gets the closure she so desperately needs and the justice she so desperately deserves 💞

Update: he’s still free. And engaged to another woman who has a child. And the house, yeah he sold it. Ridiculous. Whatever is POSSIBLY left as evidence has new people living there. So heartbreaking.

No way it would've taken me two months to call the cops. After 24 hours I'm headed to her house with 911 on the line

The guy has huge tattoos and he's seriously asking how he's identifiable from the back?

My mom waited until her husband went to work & then took my 2 older brothers and left on a bus from Missouri all the way back to her family in California. The week before he had threatened to kill them and burn the bodies. She believed him & starting planning that same moment. Listen to your instincts ❤

If only they would've reported her missing sooner. Two months is insane! A week at MOST, but not 2 months. Especially if the best friends knew that Jerry was so controlling and possessive. I also think he could've caught the attention of police sooner if one of his neighbors called the police on him for burning his furniture. Idk, it may be different from state to state, but open burning is illegal in a lot of places.

"Look i have proof hes alive... heres a bill for the appointment he missed!!" 🤷‍♀️

If you find out secrets about a person, especially ones that are contrary to how they live Day to day, don’t tell them. People will go to great lengths to keep their secrets hidden, up to and including murder! Just wait for a time to leave, without notice! Never look back and certainly never see that person again! Under any circumstance!

What kind of mother is more concerned about how her daughter is going to feel about her opposed to her well being?

The reporter that went to the suspects house to get questions answered is a bad ass. He wasn't going to leave without answers. Keep up the great work, stay safe out there.

The moment someone demands to control your phone or listen to your calls, the relationship is over. End it and GET OUT!

I'm sorry if I found this of my man I'd play it cool that day or night & next morning he leaves for work I'm packing up leaving & gone like a ghost!

The mother waiting 2 months to report her missing is absolutely ridiculous, shame on her

I don't care if "some people just aren't that close." There's something wrong with her "friend" and mom for waiting two months. I was giving them the benefit of the doubt until they said they knew there were serious problems, especially the friend who knew Susan was terrified of her husband.

Probably never cleaned a day in his life prior to this.

"Boy toy"?? He hasn't been a boy for about 30 years.

it starts with possessiveness and ends in violence and if they're accusing you of something you shouldn't be doing it's likely because they're doing something themselves

Invasion of privacy is a HUGE red flag for psychopaths. If your partner is listening in on your therapy, listening to your calls, going through your phone, reading your journal etc ie not allowing you privacy, be VERY CAREFUL and GTFO. The only two people in my life who have ever done any of these things both turned out to be abusive and criminal. Feeling entitled to someone’s most private thoughts like that is a trait of narcissists and individuals with stunted empathy. Stunted empathy lends itself to cruelty. They are twin sisters… Protect yourself!

Its unhealthy how many of these I've watched tonight it's currently 3 am HELP

I love this journalist/interviewer. He gives zero fucks and asks the best questions in a tone we all wish we could.

It is obvious what happened to them. This is so terribly sad.

He wasn't worried about her leaving him, he feared that she would expose him

I don't understand how someone can kill people, and then just live their life like nothing happened..

He was so worried he would get caught, he had been cleaning like that all 60 days...

Never let a man have you quit your job. And depend on him. You lose all control.

The police said they were 60 days behind because her mum did report it earlier? And the neighbours didn't report the burning issue? 😩

So here’s what I’ve learned watching True Crime Daily. The person that lights up a room, full of energy, happy, tons of friends and special is always the one that gets murdered. Glad I’m none of the above.

These days, we need to run a Criminal Background Check BEFORE getting into any relationship!

I’ll never understand how mothers can go days/weeks without talking to their kids. Two months and you didn’t hear from your daughter or grandson??! Crazy

What kind of parent waits for 60 days to report her own child and grandchild missing????

He took 2 months to get rid of the evidence, time given thanks to her friends and family.

*see giant tattoo on his back Reporter:"And how were you able to identify him from the back?" 🤦🏽

"Attorney advised me not to answer any questions." "So we continued asking questions-"

Now that I found this channel, I’m never going to get anything done.

I have a friend who not only kept quiet her plan to leave but stashed cash in a secret account and even organized her home In such a way that when the moving van showed up on the morning she was leaving, she was able to quickly get everything out that she needed for her four young daughters who knew nothing about the plan. The guy she left was the step-dad of the daughters, not their biological dad. The step-dad was emotionally abusive to all of them, but physically abusive to my friend, but only when her daughters went to see their dad for the weekend. She pulled off the move years ago and is now in a relationship with a really nice guy and is enjoying her grandchildren and has a great relationship with all of her daughters and their father, (her ex-husband) but not the abusive step-dad. She is happy, but it took a long time of saving and planning to be able to leave. Stay strong ladies. Don't give up!

Those two months were very crucial. That’s a lot of time to clean up evidence

What mother in her right mind waits 2 months to report their daughter missing? WTF is wrong with people.

Mother’s follow your gut especially when it’s about your children. He’s guilty as sin .

If my best friend was missing it wouldn't take me 2 months too phone the police. Especially if I think there's foul play.

even if my mother and i are fighting the longest we go without communicating is a week. 2 months is beyond ridiculous especially when the mom admitted to talking to her daughter every single day. how was she not panicking after 2 weeks??? smh not everyone is born with good instincts and common sense

If you are married to someone and they leave you, why not call their Mother to let them know?

I wasn’t ready for that seedy hotel pic of him on his knees w/hands on his hips🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

18:24 "After losing my husband, my daughter and my grandson, I feel dead inside, I feel empty"

Susan’s mom is so beautiful! Bless her heart ❤️

If I talked to someone every day or every other day, and then couldnt reach them, I'll be damned if I wait two months to report it.

I'm so comfortable being single ! Me and my daughter are just fine 👌

I’m sorry but if my child does not respond in a matter of a few hours is over with. I will NEVER understand 2 months missing.

Shame on a mother who takes 2 months to report her daughter and grandson missing. Shame on a best friend for not reporting her missing. Glad you're not my bestie. 2 months? Why didn't her mother and brother help her pay her bills, so her water wouldn't be shut off? Come on people. This woman and her son were very unloved by the people in their lives. Blood word takes months to come back to say if it's the deceased? What a world.

They (sociopaths /psychopaths) always become violent when confronted about their "extracarricular activities" and then suddenly become OCD about cleaning and remodeling right after the person/ persons suddenly "up and leaves" ...

Shannon Watt's friend Nicole went into beast mode when her friend and children disappeared. Trust your instincts.

It always sucks majorly when a child is involved in a crime/disappearance.

my mom went through something like this (only she didn't get killed, she would have if she'd satyed) when i was 3 yrs old my mom married her 4th husband and it lasted only 6 to 8 months. his name was Kinsley Melvin Chandler and we lived in PA, the man was an abusive drunk who beat me and my older brother and my mom. i was only 3 but i can remember every detail and the day that we ran was after me and my brother put a vhs movie (we thought it was a cartoon) in and we ended up watching a video of our mom passed out and Mel (which is what people called him) was raping our mom with 3 of his friends. Mel would get together with friends on weekend and they'd drink, play pool or just hang out and we found out that he was spiking our mom's drinks and then after she passed out he'd let his friends have their way with her. the moment we showed her the tape she grabbed it and us and we were in a woman's shelter that evening. my mom filed for divorce but before the first court date he died, he had been a severe drunk for 15 to 20 yrs and i can't remember exactly what he died from but i do remember hearing the adults talking and saying he drank himself to death. my mom was a warrior of a woman, she worked her whole life and not dainty jobs she worked in Steele mills and construction but wasn't very lucky when it came to love. things got better once we were away from him and she ended up meeting the man i considered my dad for the rest of my life but the abuse she suffered from her 4 marriages took it's tole on her mentally and physically and i lost her in 2012. i would say to any woman, especially one's with children....... get out the first instance of abuse cause it only gets worse, it may take awhile but you'll realize your better off trying to do it alone rather be in a relationship and be a punching bag. God bless all women who suffer partner violence.

This makes me sad.. but one thing... where is the REAL DAD of the little boy?

How many times have we heard, "As soon as they were married, he became very controlling..."

The victim wasn't ready to move out-needed to get a job, etc. If I was the BEST FRIEND, I 'd offer her to share my home until she's back on her feet. Think about the kid's safety.

Don't ever think you cannot send the police to your children's house to do a welfare check. My mother did that one time when she couldn't get ahold of me. Until you have your own children you do not understand how frantic you can be when you do not hear from them. I wouldn't care if my kids did get angry if I didn't hear from I would send a welfare check. That's just part of being a parent.

Why in the world did the mother wait TWO MONTHS to go to the police?? Especially since the daughter had told the mother about this guy's double life.

If my daughters didn't answer my calls or texts within 48 hours you better believe I'd be on a plane.

Going to prison will be right UP his alley....😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

Senseless. The irony of murdering your loved ones to keep you from being shamed and you still end up getting shamed by the whole world.

Knowing he was treating her friend like that why would she wait to report her missing? That aspect of this case is so weird to me.

Okay, straight up, I want to be that reporters best friend. He is so chaotic. I love it

It's scary how you can fall in love with a guy, and then out of nowhere he'll just kill you and your child.

I friggin love the investigator Jason, hats odd to you sir I love how confrontational this guy is, going directly to the creeps house and yelling his questions loudly 😂

Please listen up, if you’re planning to leave your abusive partner, do not tell them. Leave ASAP !!! You do not owe them any explanation, save yourself & your children . You will be fine , you will survive & be stronger . Good luck 💖

Am done with dating, too many evil people out there!!

As soon as her mom says she didn't want to call the police because her daughter was a "private person", I knew he was abusive.

How can you say that you really care for someone if you wait 2 months to call the police? I wouldn't care if I was wrong and had called the cops within a week of not being able to reach them and they got upset at me! At least I would have known that they were ok!

"She knew more than she ever let on..." We always do...

Never comfront a psycho, they might snap. Act cool, evaluate things quietly, and move in stealth.

Who in the world rips up hardwood to replace with carpet.

Absolutely agree neve tell an abusive person you going to leave, and if you get to leave as soos as can be, stay away and don't even share with your friends where you are, they can give you away also

I can't believe Susans mom waited so long to call the cops and say that she was missing

People will spend thousands on a wedding but not hundreds fully checking someone out. Amazing.