PLEASE don’t leave your children with your parents. They both sound unstable, the lies, the antagonism, the racism.

That conversation with your mom about leaving your girls with her is literally the start of a horror film. I'm sorry you're going through this with your family. I'm Korean and my son is mixed race. I cannot imagine life without my parents' support.

Please do NOT bring your kids to your parents home unless you are with them the entire time. They may unknowingly say or do something prejudicial towards them. Kids never forget things that hurt them the most. Also, I can’t imagine your wife allowing her babies to stay at a place where she can’t be as well. It would be better for one of your loving friends to keep your babies while you are at the hospital. Keep pressuring your dad to get a check up at the Dr. I forgot to ask, where is you sister?

DO NOT let that woman watch your children alone!!! DO NOT 🚩

Your mom mentioned that one daughter is prettier than the other. That's a major red flag that can harm your child's self esteem that they will never forget. It should be supervised in my opinion. I'm in my late 40's . I'm an AA but my step grandmother is Puerto Rican. My little sister is her bio grandchild and very lightskin. One day me my two little cousins and my little sister were with her. I'm 4yrs older than all of them so I was around 9yrs old and they were all about 5yrs old. My grandmother gave us Popsicles based on our skin color. She said banana, chocolate, chocolate, fudge as she handed us the Popsicles. My one cousin is dark skinned and she said, "fudge , she gave me fudge!" My cousin is now 44 yrs old and still vividly remembers getting that fudge pop based on her dark skin. It still hurts her till this day. Even then as kids we knew it was messed up. Be careful with your kids even around family.

Please don't leave your babies with your parents. Your mom is very unreasonable and your father seems to be powerless against her. There's no telling what they might suffer. Especially since she blames them for their financial struggles. PROTECT YOUR FAMILY. All you can do is plead with your dad to see a doctor, but ultimately it's his decision and I know you're worried about him. God bless you and your family, I pray that things change before it's too late ❤❤

I have a very bad feeling about this. Under no circumstances, Please DO NOT leave your girls alone with your parents. Comparing their beauty in of the girls will implant deep self esteem damage and rejection issues.

Please don't leave your sweet girls with your parents. Any kindness they may show now doesn't erase the years of heartache they have caused you. Your kids' physical and emotional safety is your #1 priority.

I think you should protect Sara and the kids and give you a break of your parents situation

You are right in thinking that your kids would not feel comfortable with strangers, regardless of them being grandparents. If she was serious about improving her relationship with them she would start the process as soon as possible. I wouldn't trust her with my kids.

Please never leave your kids alone with your parents. My fear is some “accident” happening while they are watching your kids. It’s not worth it. Always be there with them if you choose to bring them over. Having a paid babysitter may be a better investment than leaving your kids with your parents. Hope you all stay safe ❤.

PLEASE, don't leave your kids alone with them! Can't Sabrina's sister watch the kids when she has the baby???

Please!Please! Your beautiful daughters should never be left with your mother under any circumstances. I am delighted to hear that you and your family have made positive changes after all these years. Hope this is the way it will be going forward. If I may, although it's between yourself and your wife, wow, I can't encourage you to do it. Please don't leave your children alone with your mother; always be one of you with her. Your youtube family know she is your mother, and you would like to repair your relationship with her, but please don't put your children at risk. It's terrifying to hear and imagine now after the way she has behaved over the years. Perhaps in a few years, but it scares me to death right now. Love you guys and wish you all the best, again, please, for you, Justin.

Do not leave your kids with your family. As much as this is heartwarming to you them opening up use WISDOM. In light of everything that has happened I would never leave my kids with them, never

Please don’t leave the girls with them while Sarah is in labor. I think it’s great that they are finally opening up but one kind-of hopeful visit after years of outright rejection does not warrant giving them so much trust. I wouldn’t leave them alone with the girls until they spent a lot of time getting to know them and Sarah. There’s still a fair amount of denial/ delusion on your moms end. Seems like she’s still trying to make Sarah the scapegoat when they were the ones who cut off communication.

It sounds to me like your mom was very hurt by the way she was treated by her parents in law and never recovered from that trauma. And it sounds like she didn't get the protection from your dad against his parents to make her feel safe and appreciated. And now she is still struggling to understand her value. I'm so glad you stand by Sarah and prioritize her, and broke that generational pattern. Both of your parents have a lot of issues it sounds like, and it's so wonderful that you're keeping that communication open. Please continue to keep Sarah's feelings as priority ❤️

Coming from an Asian house hold. I can understand this situation. It sounds like your mother does want to see your kids but her pride and ego is bigger than her heart. If you ask her she will always say no because of her pride. The only way to tackle this is when you go to clear out the rest of your belongings take your daughters with you only then you will know how she really feels. Goodluck and I'm rooting for you all.

Dude. Korean parents can be rough. Going through a some drama myself now. Best thing to do is stay calm and carry on. And one thing you can thank your parents for is giving you an example of how not to treat your own children and grandchildren. At least, that's what I'm taking away from my own situation. Good luck!

Where is Sarah’s sister? I would be afraid to leave them with someone that wasn’t interested in them so long.

You still haven't given up, that is amazing. I am a little surprised that you would be willing to trust your parents to watch your children after all the BS that has gone on though...I feel like that is a privilege that they should have to earn at this point. I do wish your family all the best and hope it works out like you want it to!

I actually cried for multiple reasons throughout this video. I wish someone could speak to your mom about the prideful wall that she doesn't need to have up with you guys! I feel so bad for you guys and feel sad for her and for your dad! He wants to be a part of your lives but doesn't want to make your mom feel abandoned with her pride. I'm still praying for everything to get better for guys! We're getting there, tho. The door is open now! You have some insight about the excuses but it doesn't excuse the nastiness and rejection. I'm sure if your mom explain her feelings and apologize for her behavior, they can simply just go to your house to visit since she is ashamed of hers. Good luck, guys! 🫶

Justin, you are so patient! I cannot believe you’re able to hear your mom say all of this and not react to your mom with anger. I would not leave the kids with her. It sounds like she could really harm them emotionally 😢💔

I just want to say, take it with someone who have had experience. do NOT send your children to anybody who haven't show love for their parents. it doesn't matter if it's their grandchildren because your children will pay the price for what they couldn't do or tell you. and I could say much more. don't let your emotions take control

I would definitely accompany your children for a couple of visits with your parents before leaving them with your parents.

PLEASE don't Leave the girls with them. Love from Ireland

Don't leave your daughters alone with your parents and your sister because they don't sound mentally or emotionally well. Who knows what they would do with these cuties even though they are their grandchildren/nieces? These are truly evil and crazy times! God BLESS you AND all of your family, including your parents/sister. 🙏🙏❤❤

Your wife is so sweet. I'm happy you have her. Your daughters are beautiful. There is a lot of love in your family. You're so blessed. Your mom will come around but please make sure to protect your daughters, wife, and yourself. Stay close to your father. I dealt with a narcissistic parent. I wish I would have protected myself more.

No matter how sad Justin seems his face lights up when his daughters are around....... That's a great dad....

Thank you so much for your transparency. We appreciate you sharing with us the information about how your parents still react to your family. They are very much missing out on the gift of having a relationship with you, your wife and those beautiful children. I wouldn’t want to expose my kids to a person like your mother and your father who seems to go along with whatever your mother tells him. Kids can sense when they’re not received well and I don’t think your mother doesn’t really want to see them. They don’t know your mother so they’re not missing out on having her for a grandma, but she is definitely missing out on having a loving relationship with your beautiful family.

My dad won’t go to the doctor here in the states but I convinced him to go to one in Korea. You can get a comprehensive full body exam for a few thousand. It’s all done at one time and it’s so convenient. Most big hospitals do it. Lots of people go to Korea for medical tourism. You should look into it!

So glad your mom is happy about the babies!!! What scared me was her question about comparing them. I suggest taking for a visit, but I wouldn't leave them alone with her given her past actions against your wife. Can't you guys leave them with trusted friends or Sarah's sister? I'm so scared for the babies. I'll be praying for your DAD!!!!!!! I hope he seek medical help! Of course I'm only one of your girls internet aunties, I'm sure you'll make the best decision for your family. 😍😍😍

I'll start by saying I'm happy you got to see them. I have a lot of thoughts about their treatment of your family and the favoritism already brewing from your mom. I will focus on the most critical issue, DO NOT LEAVE THE KIDS WITH YOUR PARENTS!!!!! They have NOT earned the right!!! Also, they sound like they're not in the best health to care for two small children, and the house doesn't seem safe either. You and your wife are comfortable with her mom because you have seen how she interacts with your girls. You have not seen your parents with them. Also very important, DO NOT LEAVE your kids with anyone who disapproves of your spouse. Everyone can say," but it's family" and "it's his parents", but if they are willing to say hurtful things to you both, imagine what they will say to the kids If someone doesn't like half of who a person is, they can't fully love and care for them.

Thank you for the update. Please please please don’t leave those precious girls at your mother’s. She sounds unstable and the rhetoric is not something you want around your babies. Who knows in her unstable hatefulness what might happen. Also if your sister is at the house, it won’t be a suitable environment. Pay a babysitter you trust when your beautiful wife goes to hospital. Never leave the girls unsupervised with her. If it’s possible, find a neutral place where they can meet them and do this gradually because sometimes we like putting people in a false comfortable position and then we go in for the kill when their guard is down. Sorry about your dad, find a Korean doctor and take him for the appointment. Do whatever it is to make him comfortable to see someone. Do research on Korean doctors around his area and present it to him to make a choice. Praying for him and the rest of the family. They’re your parents and do not give up but also be very cautious.

AS a person who deals with this very situation. DO NOT ALLOW them kids go with the parents AT ALL. My children are NOT allowed anywhere near my partners family. Not a single one of them. If they can't accept me for being white and my partner is Mexican, I mean deep south Chiapas Mexico. His entire family doesn't want anything to do with me, and there are several I refuse to let meet them, unless I am present as their mother. NOPE. I don't care if my husband's parents are in their 90s. They don't want us, that's on them. I will not make any attempts on visiting them, because I have no idea what they can do to my children as several nieces do not like me. You never know what type of danger you are putting the children in.

I find it interesting your mom finds your youngest the cutest and she looks the most like Sarah… praying for healing and growth over your parents justin… your family is so beautiful can’t wait to see your baby boy❤

After all this you both have endured with your parents,I think it's time to question if you both want them in the equation anyway. I myself don't think I could continue the toxic dynamic and it be exposed to the kids eventually too. I'm sorry for what you both have had the go through you guys are strong people!

I am so saddened to see the conflict still going on. I'm happy you and Sabrina leave the door open to reconciliation. Hire a nanny to stay with the kids please. Praying for a safe delivery

Your younger daughter looks like your wife to me! They are so adorable. I’m happy for the chance you got to see and talk to your parents. I’m praying that everything will work out!

Thank you so much for the update!! I think your parents are slowly warming up...and I bet deep down they really want to see your precious daughters.🥰🥰

THIS IS SOOOOOOOO SAD 😢 I’M SORRY YOU’RE GOING THROUGH THIS I PRAYED THAT US PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS GET IT TOGETHER FOR ALL OF THE NEXT GENERATIONS WE’VE GOT TO DO BETTER. PEACE ✌️ AND BLESSINGS TO YOU ALL

Those little girls you have are so beautiful and sweet. I hope that once their grandparents see them in real life they start to feel enormous love for them.

your children are so adorable. I will keep you in our prayers that your parents will come around and realize they need to spend time with their grandkids.

So the kids might be able to come over but what about Sara? She is their mother and deserves the utmost respect first and foremost of coming over

Praying for your family's full restoration.

You cannot leave the girls at your parents especially if your father is unwell. They are enchanted by the girls because they do not look like they have anything but Korean blood. I know you so want their acceptance but as long as they refuse to show any good regards or respect to your wife, in my honest opinion, nothing has changed. Where is your sister? I do not think a reconciliation will be as easy as this appears to be. Your father needs to sort his health out and your mother must put aside her prejudice and accept your wife or nothing will have changed.

Oh wow, Justin. Thank you for sharing. This video highlights a lot about your mom´s deep root of unacceptance, etc. She faced the same thing that she did to Sarah-when the victim becomes the abuser. This seems to be deeply rooted. There seems to be hope but there´s still a lot of work to be done. I´m rooting for you guys. Congratulations on baby#3. He should be here soon. Sending positive energy and lots of peace and strength your way.

You’re doing your best Justin and we support you. Wishing your family all the best 🤍

👍I will say / like to think this is progress. I’ve watching you guys since the beginning, I’m hoping that your mom’s heart is softening and meeting the kids will help bridge the gap so healing can begin. I will also say monitor her interactions with the kids very carefully. Wishing you guys the absolute best. 🙏💝

As far as leaving the girls with your parents…… it wouldn’t be a good idea, at least at this time. Your parents have to build that relationship with your children…. Love, trust, respect… all that goes with being a loving grandparent. It doesn’t happen over night. Hopefully one day your children will have a loving relationship with your parents. I hope the best for you and your family. ❤❤❤

This made me sighhh , my heart goes out to you, and what your going through, ‘ it reminds me so much of my own trials and tribulations, with my Mother and several siblings, I had to learn to start putting my primary family first, husband and children. I understand you being concerned about your Father’s health, ultimately that will be his decision, you can’t force. Even though you mean well, in all honesty I think you know not to leave your little Princesses, in your Mother’s care’ even with your Father there. Pray or meditate about this situation to help you find the solution.

Thank you for sharing about seeing your parents finally. I understand the frustration and pain. I can only pray for you all. My mom was extremely difficult and 3 out of 5 stayed away and quit talking. It sucks as there is no repair in site. So excited to meet your son it is almost time. Sending lots of love to you all.

Hi Justin, thank you and Sarah for sharing so much about your family. I hope Sarah and the new baby boy will have a safe, healthy, and peaceful rest of the pregnancy, delivery, and post-partum recovery. I also hope everything will work out very well with your parents and sister. I want to suggest that maybe you could ask the dayhome teachers if they could look after your girls or look online for local mommy groups and ask them for recommendations for babysitters/night nurses/nannies? I really really worry about you leaving the girls with your parents because firstly (and I'm sorry to say) that your mom seems very emotionally volatile and prone to blurting out whatever thought comes into her head. She might have Borderline Personality Disorder or Complex-PTSD or some other personality disorder, possibly from childhood abuse or traumatic experiences where she was constantly made to feel less than others. Consequently, she might suddenly end up saying to Sabrina that she thinks her younger sister is prettier than her (which is not true because they are both equally gorgeous, super cute, and so precious) in a moment of annoyance or anger and that can permanently hurt or scar Sabrina's self-esteem and sense of self worth for life. Secondly, your parents are elderly and no matter how spry they might seem, they might not be able to continuously keep up with 2 toddlers for hours, especially if either of your girls are scared or crying at night and won't go to sleep or don't like the food they are served etc. They could (God forbid) easily get injured or have harsh words spoken to them, especially since your mom cares so much about skin tones, appearances etc. Thirdly, you don't know what the current daily climate is like in your parent's house so there might be shouting matches between your parents and or sister that might terrify or traumatize the girls. As for convincing your dad to see a doctor, I'm sure you're very busy but try to find a korean health or medical show on youtube or ondemandkorea.com that talks about elderly health issues or similar symptoms to his for him to watch. Or you could try to find an older male korean doctor online through a telehealth company like maple health in Canada or one in Korea or the US for him to consult remotely. Or even find an online older male Korean traditional medicine doctor who could advise your dad that he needs to seek conventional medical treatment apart from whatever herbal remedy your dad is taking. You can tell your dad that the doctor is far away so he doesn't have to see the doctor again if he doesn't want to but you would be grateful if your dad could just listen to what he has to say. Also, you could maybe say to your dad that you'd like to be able to have more years with him and get to know more about his childhood and life so that your family history is not lost and your children could get to know where they come from and feel proud of their korean heritage and pass on the family history to their children. Finally, I don't know if your parents are really putting $8000 heating in your former bedroom floor when they can't seem to afford a new tv or laptop (I could be completely wrong about this though) ? Anyway I wish you and Sarah the very best and thanks once again for sharing these precious moments of your lives with us.

My heart goes out to you guys and more so for your father. With the little history you've shared re the circumstances your father's position is very much similar to what my father experienced as i am estranged from my my mother. A piece of advice i would share. My father unknowingly to many people was extremely sick didnt say anything about how bad he suffering and also refused to go to go Dr. He was waiting for his wife, my mother to take him. My regret is not being there when he passed without warning and suddenly. My father had missed out a lot due to my mother's issues/estrangement's among adult kids and never got a chance to experience the joy of grandkids. Take ur dad to Drs even if u use the excuse u need his help dad to dad to take kids out to get him to drs. Its a hella shock to the system when ur parent is gone suddenly and/or no longer there. I wish you and the family good health and safe delivery and joy with ur upcoming bundle and gods grace to ur dad and his health and may he be blessed the experience of joy spending lots of time with the grandkids especially bubby #3❤

I am so pleased you have seen them after so long. My heart goes out to you. Pop around on a shop run to get ice cream, so it's just 5 minutes so they can say Hi and see you soon. A little quick visit to build up familiarity will be good on both sides. Praying for you all 🙏.

It's sad, but look at what you two have created together. How cute and beautiful your children are. Love and light ❤

When you go back to clean your room out you should take at least one or both of your kids with you. This would give you and your parents the opportunity to see how they react to the kid(s) and how the kid(s) react to them. This will also give you the opportunity to protect the kids from any inappropriate words or actions from your mom. But to be honest….I would never leave small children with them….never ever never ever. You can not predict that they will behave in rational or reasonable ways and will not subject the kids to mental or verbal abuse. Supervised visits only until you know unequivocally that they will behave appropriately. Btw…the question and comment about one child being more beautiful is inappropriate.

Justin, thank you for keeping us informed with what’s going on with your parents! I’m still praying for you all. I truly believe God Will restore your parents relationship ship with you, your wife and your children! Hang in there. There will be a transformation in them. Use your own discretion when allowing your kids to stay with your mom. If I were you I would make a gradual introduction of several visitations before you take the girls over to stay with your parents, especially your mom. If your dad is sick, your mom might be coming to the realization that she needs family! I hope my comments are helpful. God bless you all!

Awww... Baby Girl is adorable. I hope your dad is okay, and I hope this is the first step toward healing your relationship.

You are such a beautiful family! your daughters seem to have the best parents ever

God bless you Justin. Life is a constant battle for all of us. Evil just always seems to find our weak spot. Stay strong and continue to do what your parents will allow. I do agree that it may not be best to leave the kids with your parents until a good relationship is established.

Loved the update. Make sure u have a couple visits with u & the girls & watch how they treat them. Love u guys. 😊

Thank you for sharing your family has come so far, and are so beautiful.

Nice to see you and the family. Please don't leave your children with anyone who hates them and their mother.

As a biracial child who estranged from the black side of my family( not because of myself or my mother who is white). Do not leave them with your parents. If they want to see them they will contact you. Im soon to be 47 years old and more secrets are coming to the surface from my fathers family and my mother about hurtful things of the past i did not know. But even spending time with them i never felt like i truly fit in. I didnt have memorable time with my grandparents. Just know family does not have to be blood. You can have chosen family. Aunties, uncles,godparents, friends,friends parents that show great love for your kids can be perfect grandparents. I have silently watched your stories over years. Its painful to see. I would watch these precious babies if i still lived in Ontario. I know you want your parents to be part of their lives. But it just may not happen. Energy could be used elsewhere on other people who do care about all four( soon to be 5) of you. I could not expose my kids to such hatred and vexatious behaviour by your mother and sister. Your father is mere shell of a man he maybe once was. Im still fighting with feelings . Dont expose your kids to feel the same. ❤

Thank you for the update, peace and blessings. I hope your Dad changes his mind about the doctors, just to be on the safe side. I wonder is he scared of what he'll be told.

Justin you are a very sweet man and I don't know how you survived that family for your child hood and turned out to be such a wonderful man,provider,father,and partner. Stay strong and try not to let the abuse of your mother effect your family or your mental health. Sorry, this sucks.

I hope your Dad will be ok.

I've been watching you since before you were married. I'm so glad that you're coming to some understanding with your parents. Prayers for you to have an easy delivery and a healthy baby, please God.

Im happy for you that you were able to have a quality conversation with your parents. That was such a long time coming. I hope your father will receive medical care he needs also. You have a beautiful family.

Sounds like your Mom has been hurt a lot and is protecting herself. Saying a prayer that she comes around. You are doing good with your family. Also saying grand prayers for your Dad’s health. Thanks for sharing with us. Looking forward to the update.

I'm so sorry you are going through this. You are a loving son. This is a lot to go through.

You have awesome clear skin! All the best for your family!

Justin, my emotions run all over the place whenever I get your updates with your parents. Thank you for always trying to reach out even though they hurt you with their rejection....(I would've shut that door long time ago bc I can't imagine my parents rejecting me. I would've been angry and so hurt)...but you have a bigger heart. I wish to God that some day this will all pay off for you.

Wow your mom is a tough stubborn one.She finally gave in. Like I’ve always said ones past affects one’s personality n decision making. When you said that your paternal grandmother treated your mother poorly, I figured that may have had an affect on how she viewed your wife. Your mother is getting older and one day have to meet her maker. I hope she gets a chance to be apart of the children’s lives and experience the joy n fulfillment of being a grandmother. I will be praying for your family and a safe delivery of your unborn son. You are such nice n hardworking people n great parents. You deserve the best. I’m sad to hear your mother in law retired back to the Philippines but I’m sure she missed her homeland n cost of living is probably lower. Can’t wait for the next updates already.

All these years that I've been following/watching until now this issue is still on going with your parents. Kudos to your wife, God Bless her . She is so patient, understanding and full of love even though I'm sure she's been hurting so much for years...my heart breaks for SabrinA the most. Girl! Be strong and do what you have to for your family.

Every time I watch these parent videos, I am more and more reminded that I had an amazing mother. As the product of an interracial/international marriage, my mum never put up with any of the crap from her family that you do. Sorry if that sounds harsh but my heart really goes out to the children. They will be the ones who will be affected by this rollercoaster ride in the end. I also have a half-asian daughter and I would go to war over her not being accepted. It is not my job to force someone to want to be in my child's life. People need to get over their own pre-conceived notions regarding their kids and who they should marry. It is damaging. And it is damaging on the children to keep humoring and excusing bad behavoir. And before people get on here about culture and family life in Korea, my spouse is Korean and still chooses us everyday! This does not make my spouse a bad child to my in-laws. It just means my spouse puts us first and has a backbone. :)

All of your babies are equally beautiful. You may have to force him to go to save his life. I wish your family the best of luck. I'll be praying for you guys!!!💙💙💙

This sounds very hopeful. It could have turned out way worse. I hope your family become closer. It sounded like good news to me. I hope you were feeling the same as me and are happy with how it went ❤

I am so glad you went to see your parents. I agree with you about taking your kids over to see them before the new baby comes because they can get to know them first. I wish I live in your state I would watch them. Love your family.

Let Dad know "That you would rather know what's going on, so that you can plan for your family." I understand his fear, but to know is the best💜 Sad that health issues have softened your parents, but God knows best💜 Prayers for you and your Family 💜 Have a Blessed Sunday 💜

Don’t bring your kids to your parents without you or Sara being there! Maybe arrange a meeting at a restaurant or something (if they’re okay with going to restaurants). For your kid an same. You don’t want them coming home and telling you they never want to see them again. Or that they did something bad to them while their baby brother born.

Prayers for your family!

Justin I'm so glad your parents are warming up, they need you now. One thing you could do is drive over to their house and let them say hello in the car first we did this for my Dad who is 99 and afraid of getting covid. Hopefully this is the beginning of a better relationship. It seems to me that they could really use the expertise, love of you and your wife at this point in their lives. Being around your children could be therapeutic for them. My mom was in a similar situation when she married my dad but my grandmother came around and my mom accepted her gestures which was good for everyone involved. Also I'm so proud of you I think you are doing great, If my son turns out to be half the man you are I would be so happy. Prayers for all of you ♥

It sounds like your mom is very traditional to her values (obviously) I’m so happy she’s coming around and I do believe she wouldn’t treat your children poorly even with her past comments. That said, would I leave them alone with them? No. That would take a lot of time and trust building on her part. I’ve followed since the start and I’m so happy to hear things are changing - blessings ❤

I am happy to see your mom has warmed up to the idea of seeing the girls. There will need to be several supervised visits before trusting her alone…. If ever. Better days are coming. Praying for your dad.

You are such nice people. Please dont leave your girls at your parents. I made that mistake once with my sister in law and I truly regret it. Never spoke to her again never let my kids around her again. Broke all ties.

Justin, you are indeed a beautiful person and BLESSED as well for NEVER giving up on your parents! You have the love of the Father that passes understanding!! CONTINUE to let God use you and to ONLY follow His lead, no matter what anyone says! Glory be to God in the highest and may all your wildest dreams - within His will - always come true!!! Kiss your family and keep enjoying them all, bless XoXo❤❤❤❤

Omgeee the spilling of tea I’ve been waiting for🫢🫢🫢

You are a wonderful soul, May God bless you and family a thousand times over. Your father wants to, it’s your mother that’s in the way. I’ll pray for her, your dad is going through this twice. His family, and she is doing the same with you. So sad, but you and your wife have so much grace❤❤ blessings to you both and your children ❤❤❤

Always great to see a video from your channel!

I am half Korean and I have to say that it is refreshing to hear that your parents are coming around. Children have an amazing impact on grandparents. I loved my Halmoni so much and my daughter loved my mom, I am now a Halmoni (Mimi) I love my grandson so much. He has made me a better caring human. My Halmoni and my Umma are in heaven now . I remember thinking how jealous I was of my Umma and my daughter’s relationship bc she was so kind and fun to her. I know now that it was hard for my Umma to be a parent to a child who was a first generation American (me) so it was her time to be a loving and carefree Halmoni to my daughter and now it’s my turn now too. Baby steps. Your babies and parents need to know one another. Everyone has lots of love to give.

Oh Justin, this is a very complex situation, not easy to resolve, so many areas of need, and concern ☹️ it must be heartbreaking to see the state of health that your Dad is in. Even though i was against it, and previously wrote in the comments, i am glad that you trusted your gut, and went to their house, showing them that you infact never stopped being a good Son, and stayed away to respect their request at that time. Best wishes to you and Sarah, and the girls xx

Thanks for update. Much appreciated 🩵

Justin, you have created a beautiful family and life with Sarah, and as hard as it is with your parents, you need to keep your focus and energy on your own family. Your parents' pride, ego, and narcissism are robbing them of a beautiful and loving relationship with your family. If you want your children to visit your parents, do so, but only with you (and) Sarah present. If they can not or will not allow Sarah into their home, then you have your answer. As for your father's illness, you know the old saying..."you can lead a horse to water, but you can not make it drink..."; just be emotionally prepared for some sad news. Peace be with you, Sarah, and your children. ♥

Persistence with your dad. Your mom seems like she is somewhat softening. Stay strong and safe.

Very loving of you to do your best by your parents in-spite if their obvious prejudices. And very loving of your wife to show more concern for them than they her. It's sad, but respecting them is the right way

Hi Love Withstanding Family!!!! Love You all so much-You are a strong Intelligent Family and I appreciate all of You❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

You are such a good Son ❤ It shows how much you love your parents. I’m glad you choose to stand by your Wife that’s the Right thing to do. 🙏 for your Dad. Your girls unfortunately don’t know your parents and would be terrified to be left with them 🥹 I hope they agree to let you bring them over 💞🤍

This is so sad. Does the sister no longer live with her parents to notice her father's medical decline? Maybe you could see if there are any Korean nurse practitioners or other medical professionals who can provide a home visit. As far as your children only visiting when it's time for their brother to be born, absolutely not! If their grandparents become overwhelmed, there would be no one there to help with that.

Keep doing what you are doing. You are a very loving son, husband and daddy. You will only do your best, it is all you can do. I wish the best for you and your family.