So very true. ❤

I still don't think she has personally acknowledged Sara. 🤔 She could say Hi or at least wave to her. Seems she is only interested in her grandchildren.

I agree with you 100%. I also think that it’s probable that her views have not changed, but she’ll rather tolerate Sarah just to make peace with her son. Hey, whatever works. If I were Sarah, I would proceed with caution.

I agree

Not true when it comes to stroke.

She is a bigger person. Mom in law had no choice now. She needs help now

That was exactly my thoughts. But the dad and sister didn't have a memory glitch so that rattles me a bit but I get it. I'm happy for Sarah to get this moment....way more patience and forgiveness that I can muster up with...and while part of ego is what's keeping things to be left unsaid on their side, if it works for them then it works. It's been a journey for sure.

I think the sister was the biggest problem…

She should have never been disrespected. It took a near death experience for her in law to wake up

Both the mother and sister need to get on their knees and ask for forgiveness from Sarah.

These comments are so amazingly true about Sarah's personality or who Sarah is as a person (daughter-in.-law , Wife or sister-in-law ) to her husband's Justin's parent's like his mom sister or Dad. Both of these comments on Sarah character is commendable and touching! They both mentioned she has been caring and supportive of her husband and patient with his family about not fully accepting her and their two young daughters. She's been really respectful of their family traditions and values! It also just goes to show you and let you know that there are some people who may not always agree with two different people marrying outside their own culture or decides to marry a man or a woman of another race rather than their own kind! When I come across or read about relationships such as this one, it represents two people man and woman can have a close relationship or can be in love inspite of their differences! It is such a wonderful thing to find and see! I'm the eldest of three of my siblings! I'm oldest sister and I have a younger sister and a young brother! I'm kind of like Sarah's place being the oldest out of my brother and sister! They are both married and have children of their own! My sister is married her husband is of mixed heritage lof African American and Filipino My sister and brother-in-law has two daughters like this couple ! My young brother started his family before my sister. He and his Wife are an interracial couple! He is African American and his Wife Is French/native American. I'm the only one who is not married and with no children!. I do have a strong interests in mixed couple relationships like this Blasian one! I'm not sure if it is possible for me to marry a man of another ethnicity ! Although I have had secret crush on a few men who celebrities! I thought they were cute looking one being of mixed heritage! This one is former golfer Tiger Woods! This one to name a few. I'm now at an age where people are married with grown sons and daughters who may have children of their own! ,Some People my age could become grandparents because of it! I keeping my options open in the future if I do meet up or find the right kind of person (man) with a kind personality as well as his attractive looks!

​@Ellie5621 An apology would show at least a form of enlightenment- self-reflection, personal insight. You're seeing clearly what truly is.. but great on Sarah for being a bigger person. And great on Justin for backing his wife up 100%.

Yes, I believe in my heart that mom in-law is intrigued with Sarah and her beauty (inter and outer) 😊 those beautiful babies my LORD she almost died not meeting them and her son's wife. Mom in-law is a proud momma right now 😊

You are soo right. Who could not love Sarah. She’s a beautiful spirit.💗

Usually for racist people, speaking from experience, it doesnt matter how nice you are- you're still black and they still hate you. I just stay away from people like that. My friend had a super racist MIL and once her eldest (at the time, only) grandchild was born she tried to flip the script without any sort of apology and just exprcted everyone to go along with it due to her age. My friend was never able to truly become comfortable enough to leave the baby alone with her for any length of time, like not even to use the bathroom out of fear she'd have some kind of "accident" with the baby out of how sincere her racism was when she was spewing it to her DIL. That's a kind of karma. Some evils cant be undone, if you want to be regarded kindly, it's best to be kind

Unfortunately sometimes it takes a tragedy to happen to open people’s eyes

they need help, someone to drive and cook and probably financial help soon

​@@WhiteTigerLuva80 Only temporarily though.. once narcissistic people find themselves back in a somewhat better place or "normal" situation, they revert to being assholes.

Yes ,I agree with you they both possess those fruitage of the spirit which has been displayed so far👍🏽👍🏽

I strongly agree❤

Well said🥰

Amen

So true. Same here- been following their story when they were first started dating.

I would never work that hard for someone to accept me. If it's work and my paychecks depend on it, then it's different story. But in your case, you don't have to. You can move on. Now that I'm older, it's ok if people don't like me because I now understand that people lies and they are jerks

I thought so too. She brought and cooked all the food for Baby Jayden's Birthday party. Even if she thought she had shingles, and didn't enter, she was still excited to see the children.

@@susannaCdonovan23 yes exactly!

Seems she has never acknowledged Sarah by saying Hi or at least waving to her. Her only interest seems to be her grandchildren.😏

Outstanding to cook for her grandchild? Isn't the bar set exceedingly low??

@@riiraa881 you must be new. Lol she’s come a long way. 😂

Am not surprised at all. Most Asian parents will come round in time if they find the in law is sincere. But at times it takes a major event like this. The fact that Sarah is showing concern for her too is helping.

I agree with all of this but especially the comment about why come to Canada and not only refuse to learn the language but dislike the other citizens of that country. I live in the United States and it reminds me of the Hispanic population that moves here. They come here and are the only group that refuses to learn English, and show an immense disdain and disrespect for Americans but especially black Americans. The people that fought for civil rights to even make it a country they would/could move to. Very disturbing thought process. Intriguing even

Exactly his mother has still Not personally spoken or even waved Hi to Sarah🤔

Italians are the same. They'll cuss each other out, and then half an hour later, it's like nobody fought.

Me too

Me three

It took a near death experience. No on her own

Depends on the situation and people

This woman literally said she didn't want to meet Sarah or her grandkids who were innocent BABIES because of their skin color. I'm being very gentle with my words about her because I love Sarah and she's such a pure soul. However, this woman deserves NOTHING

How long has she been in Canada though? The years the wasted hating lovely Sarah for no reason and now wants them in her life because she NEEDS both their physical and financial help. There are a number of black women who have married Koreans in Korea and have been accepted with open arms. They are on KZfaq. I'm Korean American and I find it completely unforgiveable. They refused to meet their granddaughter for years!

Honestly this has nothing to do with being isolated from the culture she lives in or living with the norms of a different time and society. It’s like saying/alluding that the norm of her familiar society is rac!st. Truth is that she hasn’t held back from acting rac!st towards her DIL and grandkids. It’s her choice to forgive her or not but let’s call a spade a spade.

@@truthspeaker8863 Yes I agree and I'm a 57 yr old Korean American woman.

@@truthspeaker8863Sabrina is the daughter, Sara is married to Justin

Yes, that's such a virtue to not hold resentments.