WOW!!! Txhob tu siab os tus me tub aws...lawv qhia kom yus rau rau siab ua neej xwb os mog. Hnub no koj twb los caum tau koj lub hoj phiaj os mog. Thaum yus tau zoo lawm ho hlub cov nerg tsis hlub yus thaum yus txomnyem mog. You'll never forget those who hurt you but forgive them....forgiveness is for yourself not for them. May you continue to rise!

Congratulations on your achievement. What does not kill you will make you stronger. Learn from your experience and don’t repeat it. Life is hard but choose wisely.

Take all your suffering and mishaps as a blessing in disguise to remind yourself what not to do in life and what to be humbled by. Sadly in our world today the broken homes and the divorced rates have climax uncontrollably and no one seems to have responsibility anymore or any sense of manners towards another person. Don’t be like them just carry on in life counting the blessings how you dodged the bullets. Love your grand parents they matter more then anything and be thankful you were blessed with loving grandparents.

Proud of you and best wishes to you brother! Focus on you and your wife now. Give your future children the love that you never received from your parents. Hlub koj kawg li os tus brother!

Love happy ending. The event that took place in your life was meant to be in order to achieve the greater things. Very few sees the opportunity. Congratulations to your accomplishments. Greater future ahead of you. Now you will live your life with experience. Happy for you, brother. If you don't mind, I like to give a suggestion. Live life for the years to come as how you started. This is the foundation that made you who you are today. Never forget the principles that guided you to where you are. Thank you for sharing. You have my admiration for you endurance.

Brother..I'm so proud of you 👏. Congrats to your success. The way your dad let your stepmother talked to you..you don't need to do anything nice to them now. As for your mom..such a shame she can't tell you the truth. Glad you didn't go back to your ex. So glad you found love and success 🙌❤

Proud of you brother glad you are finish up your Dr doctor degree 👍

Congratulations on your accomplishments. I don't understand why some people do not realize how precious their children are. How does anyone live with themselves knowing that their child is suffering and need their support. I'm sure that you are a strong man today because of your experience but no kid should ever have to suffer like that. I didn't like it that you gave your ex a second chance but I'm glad that you eventually let her go... that was very wise. May God bless you and your wife with an abundance of love and happiness going forward.

Some people would agree that “If your absent during my struggle don’t expect to be present during my success.”

Zoo heev o mog❤❤

god bless and help those who help themself. you are God's child . you forgive but not forget, is the right thing. god bless your future

Zaj no cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os

Nrog koj zoo siab os tabsis noob phem yeej phem nawb ceev faj thaum laus cov ntshav phem tawm tuaj

Such a sad but inspirational story. You have made the right decision to let her go because if she truly loves you she’ll fight for you. She had the audacity to come back and ask for a second chance but Im glad you stand firm on your decision. Never let love blinds you. There’s a reason why she didn’t choose you and you don’t what that to haunt you for the rest of your life if you decided to take her back. Congrats on getting your doctoral degree. Wishing you the best in the next chapter.

This is a great story for the younger people thanks you got this story

Very proud of you, son. Hopefully parents will learn from your experience and don’t treat their kids as your parents. Thanks for sharing.

Always remember the person who disrespected and abandoned you when they believe you have nothing.

Be glad no one coddled you. That's why you became the person you are today.

Ua neej nyob zoo phem los ob leeg yug ob leeg hlub mog es txob sib nrauj os peb cov tub ntxhais txoj kev sib nrauj zoo rau yus tab sis tsis zoo rau tej mi nyuam li

Kawm tiav Dr lawm txhob muaj neej neeg nawb.

I'm happy you found love and all your hard work paid off. Best wishes to you

Tu siab kawg li os me tub aw, cov tsis muaj niam muaj txiv los kuj tu siab hos cov muaj es tsis hlub los kuj tu siab thiab, txawm li cas los zoo siab uas koj kuj ua tau lub neej zoo lawm mog

Ib leej niam zoo li ntawm ces tsis thas nug moo li os

I have to agree 100% it all depends on the two-people if they want to work hard and become better.

One day when those people come crawling back to you, dont open your doors either!!! Never look back!!

You believed in yourself and knew you could only depend on you. What a strong proclamation. What a way to live your own life and identity while forgiving your parents for not being strong enough to believe in their own son! Your gf wasn’t your true wife and I’m glad you were truthful in her placement. Live your life peacefully and fully because you truly can only trust you and your wife.

So happy for you that you'd succeeded successfully. Even though they are your parents, they basically was never there for you. Move on with your life without these negative people. By Drawing back to these people, you will probably ruined your happiness. Wishing you the best.

Zoo

Proud of you brother. I'm glad you made the right decision.

It is true, people should not judge others by their parents or the status of the people. It is depends on the individual person.

“If you’re absent during my struggle, don’t expect to be present during my success” Chris Rock's slapper

zaj no yog ib zaj tu siab kawg thiab muab tej menyuam sib cais li no mas tej menyuam nyob tu siab nrho thiab txom nyem siab ntsws kawg

Much congrats to your success, but life is truly a gamble. You don't know how things will turn out!

Good

💪💪💪💪💪👍👍👍💖💖💖😍 very good for you 👍

This is a sad story and congratulations on your achievement. Yog tus hlub yus thiag txawm zoo thiab phem los nws yeej nyob tos yus thias tsi tej zaum neb kuj tsis qha daim ntawv los ua niam txiv es neb thiaj li tsis tsi tau. Thanks for sharing. :)

Kuv yog koj mas kuv twb mus tua ibtug npua ua koj tus hluas nkauj thiab nws tsaug lawm os, vim yog nkawv tsim txom es koj thiaj mus tau zoo lawm.

Ma hlub nw rau nruab siab xw mog mu ..ua kj lub neej kom zoo thia tsim nyog qho lua saib tsis tau kj naw metub

Koj hais tau zoo noog heev li

Hnov koj zaj no ua rau kuv nrog koj zoo siab tias koj yog ib tug tub uas muaj peev xwm heev li os me tub aw. Nrog koj zoo siab kawg li os mog. Rau siab ua lub siab ntej hlub kwv tij neej sa sawv daws es thiab ua koj lub neej kom zoo thiab Vam meej lawm pem suab mog.

Wow, such a strong men. I feel like most old hmong folks are like this regardless if they married or divorced. Selfish and greediness. At least you have your grandparents. Some people don't. I'm happy for you. You area very successful men.

Zoo kawg li luag tej laus twb hai tias hmab tsi khi duav zeb tsi nias hau muaj 1 hnub yus yuav txawj zoo thiab God bless you!

Nrog koj tusab kawg thiab koj xav tau yog kawg lawm metub aw

Hmoob lub neej ces yeej ib sim neej yeej xyeej cov neeg txom nyem, neeg pluag, neeg ntsuag thiab yeej ib txwm saib tsis taus tej menyuam uas tej niam tej txiv liam, liam. Too sad😢

All the events that happened in your life was meant to happen to motivate you to reach your goals. At the end of the day, the only person that would truly be there for yourself is yourself. I am glad you did not let yourself down. Be proud of who you are today and remind yourself to never do the bad that was done to you to others. May GOD continue to bless you and your wife.

Love yourself and the people that love you only....don't love those who does not love you...have a heart of cold metal..don't love your dad and stepmother....don't love your birth mother...don't go back to your ex..leave them....

Qhuas koj heev uas koj kawm tiav Doctor lawm os.

I'm glad you didn't go back to someone who constantly left you. (Your ex') Great job to moving on! 👍

What a good ending to your story. It's unfortunately that people will judge you, base on the status of your parents, relationship of your parents or how your parents carry themselves. With this being said, it does not mean that you will carry these characteristics, like the hmong saying "noob phem." You took the adversity that you were faced and turned this into motivation to better yourself. Some people do not know how to be parents and at the end they end up hurting their children the most. Wishing continue blessing for you and yours.

Tij laug koj txoj dab neeg thiab lub neej tu siab heev li od

...........Brother, they say the best revenge to those who left you behind is being successful, healthy and being happy. That's you today. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

I'm very glad for you brother. Being a good person doesn't come from parents. If you want a good life, you have to get it for yourself.

Yog kawg tus metub no hais mas yeej muaj tseeb neb tus metub yog tub Dr nej tseem tsis hlub txhob mus yug dua lawm os

Dear Hmong brother I’m so happy for you and glad that you are a thoughtful son to your parents. I only wish my children could be the same way. Sometimes the best people are those who have experienced rock bottom.

Way to go brother... glad you did the right thing and keep it up 👍🏻 very proud of you....

So sad...I can never leave my children behind. 😔

I'm happy you got this far, think of what you lost. Going through all this hard stuff is it worth it? Let's not make history repeat itself. Only they can do this to you, you shouldn't do what they did back to them. Remember you who are you, you are not them. Kindness is the language of happiness.

Nrog Koj zoo siab os tus mes Tub zoo hais tias Koj caum cuag Koj tus noaum suav

😭😢 sad story

Congratulations on your success even though you went through many difficulties in your life but you did not let it stops you from your goal in life. From now on just remember those that helps you alone the way and forget those didn't.

So happy your life has gotten better! Be happy with your wife & new life...the Past is the Past.

Tus muam kon zj neej neeg or. Story no puas yog true maj yog true no txaus tu siab tiag2 li

You should not even talk to your old dish. She chose someone else over you so let’s forget about the old plate. Nco ntsoov tias Kawv tiav doctor lawm nhria kom tau ib tug neeg zoo2 mas yuav nawb.

Proud of you for not getting back with your ex. Move forward on building a life with your wife.

😢😢😢so sad...

What a sad story!!!!! Please parents stop doing this to kids because it is something that will haunt them forever.

Cas nim tu2 sb os raug2 li yu lub neej thb

Brother...sad that you went through a lot of difficulty but God has blessed you with bright future and your other half to make your life complete. Even my husband and I both loss our mom on his side and my side too. I'm so thankful that my dad always there to help my husband and me.

I'm very proud of you👨‍🎓. Never judge anyone wrong today, we don't know who's going to be best tomorrow.

I feel your pain, but I also very proud of you son. I wish you the best in life.

So so proud of you! Way to persevere and stay committed towards your dream. Zoo siab nrog koj os.

So proud of you for being resilient and achieving your dream of because of your pathetic parents who didn’t love ❤️ you. Despite of your sadness and loveless life in the past, move forward and live your life proudly and with content. Let your ex have regrets for not being supportive in times of your poorest moments. Hopefully, you’ll mend your relationship with your mom. Happy that you now a bright future ahead of you!

There are only these types of people in the world: those who were there for you during your struggles and those who weren’t. Then there are people who support those during their struggles and then they become something and forget you, and then there are the few with a grateful heart. Choose to love those who supported you during your hardships. And that’s your grandparents only. Screw the rest!

Zoo siab nrog koj os me nus. Xav tias vim yog koj niam koj txiv tsis hlub koj es koj thiaj muaj Hnub no tias koj lawm doctor tag, vim koj tus hluas nkauj niam tib tib koj es koj thiaj tAu doctor Hnub no mog! Yog lawv tsis ua Phem li no ces ntshe koj twb tsis tAu koj tus doctor no nawb mog

Dont judge a booke by its cover. You reap what you sow..

I'm sorry you were dealt with sh1tty parents. Many blessings to you & your future. You don't need them.

Pab koj tu siab heev kawg os brother....tsis txhob xav li cas 6 koj niam mog, vim nws txaj muag 6 koj dhau lawm xwb es nws thiaj li ignore koj lawm...but i'm so proud n very happy for you....i'm pretty sure you'll hav a very wonderful n happy life in your future......

txhob tu Siab mog tos koj tas Dr los twb yog muaj neeg thuam koj thiab twb yog koj niam koj txiv nkawv ua phem 2 rau koj es thiaj rau2 siab es koj thiaj muaj hnub no os

I'm so sorry your parents didn't love you. I feel so hurt with you. But I'm so proud of you for your achievements and your decisions. Praying for your love and happiness.

Everybody has a story. Pursuing one's doctorate can be painful in many ways I should know. An altruistic deed does not require reciprocity. Keep being humble against all odds.

Brother aw, txhob tu siab, yog koj tau koj tus qub hluas nkauj mas xyov koj lub neej puas zoo thiab vim yog tsis muaj leej twg thuam koj ces koj tsis muaj chaw khib siab, los sis mob siab rau koj lub neej.

What your parents did was irresponsible but it became a big motivation for you to peruse higher education.. you did the right things for yourself, bro... have a good life and no regret for the decision you made..

My friend, please don’t feel bad. What they did to you become an positive energy for your success, so please do not look back. Do not love something that doesn’t love you back.

Wow your parents are cruel! They really don’t love you but I’m glad you have self love for yourself and keep pushing yourself to better. Proud of your accomplishments!

Koj niam cais txaj muag tuag nthi thiaj tsis muaj plus ntsib koj lawd . Hos koj txiv cais ntsej muag ntuag tas vim nws saib tsis taus koj tsam no cais ho tsi muaj ntsej muag fim koj lawm ntag . Pab koj zoo siab kawg os luag saib tsis taus tab mas koj ho tau lub zoo neej lawd

So 😭 but as long as you still breath one day the sun will shine and never look back. One day they will regret when their death near by,they will craw back don’t open the door either son..

Hlub tus hlub yus xwb People so selfish

Cov niag niam tais zoo li ko mas ntxim ntxub tshaj, thaum luag g muaj g zoo ces nim ntxub2 luag. Thaum luag txawj ntse cas txawj ntshaw luag thiab pab txaj muag dhau

Bad parent's making bad choices in life, but only the strong survive.

Koj yog 1 tug tub uas ncag siab txog kev ua neej kawg nkaus li zoo siab koj peem tau los ua 1 tug tub tsim txiaj nawb mog thiab koj paub txog koj niam lub neej sab tom koj thiaj tsis tu siab rau koj niam yog 1 qho zoo kawg thiab os me tub aw...

Tsis tu siab, cov lus ua lawv hais rau koj yog cov lus zoo. Yog lawv tsis hais lus phem thiab dag koj. Ces koj yeej tsis tsim txiaj thiab tsis zoo nawb.

Txhob coj koj niag txiv tshiab tuaj ntsib kuv ov . Kuv tsis ntsia nws li nawj paub lawm ov niad !

im glad you moved on

You are right! Parents should never stop their children from being with the one they love. Nobody knows what tomorrow will bring but I'm glad you got the chance to be with your ex one more time. Many of us aren't that lucky. My ex passed away before we got the chance to see each other again. He's gone, but I'm here regretting the what ifs forever.

It’s a blessing in disguise that your ex-girlfriend didn’t marry you . You’ve achieved your dream and goal. Good luck !

Koj xav tau yog lawm....koj niam muaj ib lub neej sab tov thiab yog koj niam muab nyiaj rau koj es nws lub neej yuav tawg yog li koj niam thiaj li tuav nws lub neej tab sis vim koj niam tsawg ib lub tswv yim tsis ua tib zoo qhia kom koj nkag siab xwb....txhob tu siab rau koj niam txawm koj niam pab pab koj rau Doctor lo koj yeej yuav hlub tsis tau koj niam li...

Nrog koj tu siab ntau rau koj zaj neej neeg no os tus me Dr koj tus hluas nkauj poj nrauj ntawd ces tus neeg lub ntsej muag tseem yog tus qub tab sis nws lub tshuaj khib ces txawv tag lawm tsis yog lub qub thaum ub lawm, sim neej no txawm ruam thiab ntse los thov kom tsis txhob tuag rau pojniam lub ob ceg. Yog koj xav haistias koj yog koj niam koj txiv nkawd ib leeg zoo tub ces tsis txhob mus khaws luag tej qub, koj twb yog ib tug zoo hluas nraug ces tsis txhob lam mus khaws luag tej niag pog laus, koj puas paub xu siab thiab qias haistias yus mus khee luag tej niag qub zaub qub mov uas luag noj seem es puas huv siab ? tej laus haisli no ! muaj zoo zaub yuav tsis txog tus nyuj ceg tawv noj, yog luag muaj zoo ntxhais yeej tsis txog koj tus ntawm ko coj los ua koj ib leeg poj, muaj zoo zaub yeej tsis txog tus nyuj ceg tawv qhe, luag muaj zoo ntxhais luag yeej tsis cia rau ib tug tub ntsoj tub ntsuag li koj tau coj los ua koj ib leeg sev. Kuv tus no tsis yog khav theeb tab sis kuv yog ib tug txiv neej kuv tau plam ntau tus hluas nkauj hauv kuv lub neej los lawm vim yog yus txoj niag kev pluag kev txom nyem muaj niam xwb tsis muaj txiv tab sis kuv tsis tau quaj rau ib tug hluas nkauj twg hlo li, tsuas muaj lawv quaj thiab khuv xim kuv nkaus xwb. Tsis txhob tu siab rau koj lub neej yav tas dhau los, hmoob muaj ib lo lus hais li no ! tsis raug luag tsuj ces yus yuav tsis tsim nuj, yog yus tsis raug lwm tus tsim ces yus yuav ua neej tsis tsim nqi dabtsi ! qhov koj kawm tiav koj tus Dr no los twb vim yog hluas nkauj niam nws tej lus cem kom koj tu siab thiab koj niam koj txiv nkawd tsis txawj ua ib ug zoo qauv rau nkawd tej me nyuam ces koj tsis xav kom koj muaj ib lub neej zoo li nkawd lub xwb.

Ntsuag tsis muaj niam tsis muaj txi ntsuag hlob gev muag nti ntsuag hlob los ntsuag ua nom gas nrhi

Just remember that a Doctoral degree does not make you a God and you will do good. Congratulations!

Wow! The audacity these kind of women have, like your ex. Thick face, thick skin to come see you and asked for your feelings and for you to give her hope again. Tsk tsk tsk!