Yog muaj tu ua tau li koj ma zoo txhaj li os kuv tseem xav kom ua ntau ntsaj koj os yog ntsib tu txiv lo yog tsev neeg tsi hlub yu thiab saib tsi tau yu li koj na

Tsi npam li os ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag kawg txawm foom npaum cas lo yeej tsi npam vim yus twb ua tag qhov zoo

Unlike majority of our Hmong mothers & sisters, I'm so glad that you did not stay and live with the mistreatment/disrespect from those people. You are smart so you stood your ground and left. Ain't nobody got time for their BS.

Don't worry lady, you are a good person, karma will be on them. You're a strong lady to walk away and not pay for the funeral.

Very thin line between love and hate. In your case, what’s yours is mine and what’s mine is mine. Take it all and run!!!!

Love this woman! You did nothing wrong sister. They disrespect u so they deserve it. God blessed you.

Girl don’t go back to him. Love yourself. You DID it right!!! I’m very proud of you!! Girl power!! Let them talk all they want!! They can do whatever they want but the sky know.. Just keep doing you boo..

This lady is smart. She did nothing wrong! Other ladies need to learn from her. LoL Need more stronger, smart hmong women like this.

You are a smart woman. Give yourself a pat on the back for me. We need more smart Hmong women like you! I am so proud of you! Tus uas yuav npam ces yog koj niag txiv dev thiab koj tus niam pog xwb. Tsam no ces koj niag txiv tsis muaj poj niam hos txiv yawg los tuag lawm cia koj niam pog mam kav koj niag txiv siab phem tsis muaj hlwb ntawd xwb. You have not done anything wrong, your mistake was loving him, his children, and family but got nothing in return.

You’re a smart lady who didn’t let your ex bring you down. Wish more people would love themselves more by doing what’s good for them.

I applaud you 👏👏👏 for standing up for yourself. This gives our Hmong women an eye opening that we don't always have to do what they want. You did the right thing sister. Also I'm really proud that your neejtsa didn't force you like all the other stories we heard. Your neejtsa is definitely a neejtsa not a neej qhau. You are super lucky to have someone like him who took your side. I wish alot of Hmong neejtsa are like him but overall, you great a great job. No karma. Your ex mother in law already got her retribution.

Nothing is going to happen to you. Your the genuine one. Karma will go after the unfair ones. Good luck. God blessed you. 😘😘💃💃

Wow, I read all people's comments and they're all on your side. Don't feel bad,no regrets no sorrow, you did the right thing, I wish alot of Hmong women are as strong as you...

I'm proud of you, sis! You are a strong enough hmong woman to take care of yourself! I would have done the same thing or worse!

My life is kind of like yours too. No matter how hard I tried to raise and love his kids, it wasn’t good enough for his family and him. I couldn’t even assign them chores and tell them to do chores, if I do, my husband’s mom would say I’m slaving his kids. Since that day, I don’t tell them to do chores or do anything. Their mom would tell them to fight me. My goal was to help my husband and his ex wife raised their kids in a loving environment together as parents, but all it was was to turn them against me. I’m living for myself and my kids only now. They don’t matter to me anymore and I learned to accept things the way is. Zoo li koj tus txiv ces pov tseg xwb os! Tsis npam li nawb. Yog koj npam ces yeej npam lawm, yog lawv npam xwb os mog! Koj tus txiv thiab niam pog yeej saib tsis taus koj, tej kev koj ua ntawv yeej tsis npam li.

I’m so glad you did what was right for you! You’re courageous! I’m so proud of you!

You are a strong, smart and determined lady so stick your plan never fall into your ex husband's trap again

Kj ua yog, tsi muaj mpam,, tsi tshuav txiv dev nqi yuav los ua qhi tu, thaum kawg kj ts tsu kev mus. Txhob ua tus txiv dev nqi, kev ksj siab yog nyob deb ntawm tus neeg siab qias mog

Koj ua Yog lawm nawb tus niam laus 👏👏👏👏👏👏

Zoo kawg li os.. zoo qhov tias peb cov poj niam hmoob ntse zuj zus lawm.

Don’t worry about it sister, just keep on smile. You done nothing wrong. You’re very smart and a strong women. I’m so proud of you.

Niam laus aw...koj ua yog tshaj plaws li lawm os ua tsaug rau koj lub tswv yim thiab kuv xav tias yeej tsis ua cas rau koj li os koj yog ib tug poj niam ua ntse heev

Love it. Koj keej kawg.

Niam laus koj mas keej tshaj plaws kuv thov qhuas koj ua li koj ua yog lawm nawb lawv cov lus foom koj, koj yeej tsis tuag li nawb cov lus foom ntawv yuav rov qab mus raug rau tus neeg foom koj.. tsev neeg siab phem li ntawv nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb.. kuv muab 100% rau koj.. ua tsaug koj pab share koj zaj story rau peb kom peb yuav tsum ntse li koj thiab keej li koj..

Tsis npam tsis tuag li! Zoo kawg!!!

Ua yog lawm ntxim npau taws kawg li os

Restraining order to protect you lady. Never know if he has the heart to pop your tires and loosen the lug nuts from the tire. He’ll do it again or have people to come do bad things to you. I say protect yourself and your love ones before it’s too late. Plus get cameras around your house to capture those idiots then report them.

Koj ua yog lawm os niam laus.

Koj ua Yog lawm, so proud of you! Yeej tsis npam vim koj tsis txhaum. keep living your life

You didn’t do anything wrong sis, just keep on living your best life, NEVER go back to this man.

👏👏👏 GOOD JOB SISTER! I would have done the SAME. Let Their Favorite Nyab take care.....

YOU GO, SISTER!! 💪🏻👏🏻

Koj ua li koj yog kawg lawm cov txiv neej zoo li no ua kiag li koj rau ces nyuam qhuav ntxim. Zoo kawg li.

Zoo kawm li os

koj hais yog lawm, yog kuv yij ua ib yam o U r sooo good 💯💯

Tus me niam tsev aw,,, koj mas ua yog kawg nkaus! U so smart and strong lady!

Me nyuam ces tsis yog yus yug ces yus hlub npaum cas los luag yeej tsis hlub yus. Only a few step children will love you and care for you. Just like a few step parents will love their step children. You did the right thing. When you’re no longer welcome or respected in a family, it’s best to remove yourself from them. You give them all already, you’ll leave without regret. We as human can only do and tolerate so much. You’re a smart lady. Glad you did what you did. We need more women like you. Block them from your life. No need to stay in touch. Only God know and see everything. If you did nothing wrong, no need to worry about their cursed.

Koj ntse kawg!!! Txawm yog leej twg los yeej yuav tsis tau.. kav tsib mus ua lub neej tshiab.

Yeej zoo kawg lawm os

"An eye for an eye". He betrayed you, it was nice of you to pay that back to him.

Ua li koj yog lawm nawb

Take control of your life or your life will take control you. Never put somebody ahead of youl, love yourself first, respect yourself only love the ones that love you back. You did everything right, I’m so proud of you sister

Proud of you sister! You didn't do any wrong against them, they plotted against you. Get a restraining order against him. God bless you

Don’t fall for his tricks and his evil mom. You do the right thing in my opinion

Haha you are a strong woman! I would have done the same thing too! So awesome! Don’t worry about all that curse. It usually just goes and bite them back since you didn’t do anything wrong.

koj ua yog lawm os tus niam tsev yog kuv los yeej ua li koj ua thiab koj tus txiv twb ua tsis yog nrauj lawm los zoo os tus niam tsev

First smart Hmong woman! Txhob ntshai, lawv foom tsis npam, yuav rov poob rau lawv tsev neeg, lawv tsev neeg yuav tu noob zuj zus, txiv yawg yuav los tos mus vim txiv yawg tsis tau kev mus thiab niam pog cov lus foom thiab xya ntawv tsis muaj chaws mus.

Ua tau li koj ma zoo kawg li os tus me viv ncau aw lawv xav kom yu hlub lawv xwb lawv twb tsis hlub yu os kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej ua ntej xwb

Koj ua yog lawm. Stay strong. Don’t go back to him.

ua yog lawm os niam lau

Koj ua yog lawm

Tus niam laug koj mas keej tiag2 koj ua tau raug kuv siab kawg le os thiab koj yeej tsi npam kiag le tus ua npam cais twb yog lv lv twb npam es lv thiaj ua le rau koj os koj yeej tsi tshaum kiag le nv thov qhua koj os koj muaj peev xim tshaj plawg le lm os

Koj hais yog lawm , Koj ntshe kawg es Koj Thiaj khiav kom dim Koj txiv cov qhis hoo maum mu coj ib Niag hmoob nyaj laj tuaj nyob meska yam qhias neeg kawg , Koj tsis paub hais tias hmoob mas qhuas Koj kawg rau Koj thiab Koj tus txiv lub npe tsw lwj es tseem muaj siab qw kom hmoob qhuas Koj yom.

Me niam laus ua li kj ua yog lawm vim luag ua saib g taus koj los yog kj tej neej tej tsav thiab ua li kj ua ma yog tshaj nplolaws li os kj ma ua tau haum peb cov poj niam hmoob sawv daws lub siab tshaj li os mog

Keep up your strong ambition! He just used you through his hardship. You did everything as a faithful wife and caring and loving stepmother to his kids. You did no wrong! Stay strong and forget your ex.

Koj ua tau zoo heev lawm ua li ko mas thiaj zoo rau cov poj niam uas mus yuav txiv tshiab es cov txiv phooj tsis hlub tej me nyuam uas coj mus yuav txiv tshiab mog ua koj tsaug uaa koj ua tau zoo kawg li os

It’s time to move on and find another man who will love you and appreciate you…😩👍

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj os me viv ncaus aws😭😭

Koj mas ua tau zoo kawg li os tus me niam tsev. He deserves it .

Koj ua raug siab tshaj nplaws g npam li o

Way to go sister! So happy for you! You did the right thing. There will always be good karma coming your way. Live happily and always let the sun shine in your life. They wronged you that’s why karma got them so bad. Good luck to you and your future endeavors. I love your story so much I had to listen to it twice! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Koj hais Yog lawm os tus viv ncaus aw! Koj yeej tsis npam li os txhob ntshai kiag nawb,txog txij koj npam ces lawv tseem yuav npam loj tshaj koj nawb.

Koj yeej tsi npam li os niam laus aws koj kav tsij rau siab khwv thiab txhawb tej me nyuam thiab ua me nyuam niam os nawb

Sister ua li koj ua yog kawg lawm os

Koj ua tau zoo kawg li os me Viv ncaus aw...peb yog ib tug neeg diam nas yuav tsum ua kom nws mob thiab os

Kv nyiam kj tshaj li os kj ma ua tau kv siab kawg li tiag

I can't say you are wrong or wright, but yog koj tsi ruaj siab, or tsi fell good no ces mus ntseeg Vajtswv thiab cia nws txoj lus ua tus nplig thiab qhia koj ua neej mus Tom ntej os sister. God bless you.

Kuv nyiam qhov koj ua no kawg nkaug li.cov txiv liam mas yuav tsum ua lub li no rau xwb os.peb cov poj niam yuav tsum xyaum lub maib no nawb.

You did the right thing!!! You are a smart woman, I'm super proud of you...

Sister aw ua li koj ua yog lawm mog luag twb ua txaus rau yus lawm mog txhob cia luag tsim yus txog qhov yuav tsis taus lawm mog.

Koj ua yog kawg lawm os tus sister aw. Kuv thov qhuas koj uas koj ua tau zoo thiab niam qhuav ntxim lawv kawg. I would do the same thing too don’t let man like that walk all over you.

You haven't done anything, karma will not touch you. It touched him! Be in peace. You have and are blessed! I wish we woman be strong like you out there.

Courageous woman! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Don’t worry sister, you are a good person. Lawv yuav foom li cas los yuav rov poob rau lawv xwb. Koj Txhob txhawj Txhob poob siab kiag, keej twg foom ces poob rau tus ntawv xwb. Thank you for being a strong women, good for you. I’m so proud of you, a sting Hmong women.

Sister Aw!!! Koj ua yog lawm mas

Haum kawg nkaus lawm os mog ntiaj teb muab khaws mus ua kev kawm coj kom ncaj nruab nrab ntug

Koj ua yog lawm raug leej twg los yeej mob

Niam laus awe ! Txhob nkim koj lub neej kod os ! Kuv twb mob siab nrog koj es cia niag neeg liam kod ua kom txaus nws yeej Yuav tsi muaj qhov zoo ntxiv mus ! Niag pojniam sab tod txhob txwm ua kom koj lub neej lwj siab xwb ! Txiv neej yeej tsi sawm zoo

Poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj sib sau los ua neej ces yeej lwj siab li no ntag nawb lawv aw......

Koj ua yog lawm os tus muam aw

Don't worry sister. Tsis npam li os. Koj ntse tiag tiag. Zoo siab nrog koj.

G npam li os niam laus aw kj ua yog tshaj plaws lawm os

Yus yog neeg ncaj lawm yeej tsis npam tsis tuag li os sister aw. Kuv nyiam koj heev, koj muaj peev xwm kawg! Nco ntsoov tias yus tus niam nkauj ntxhav qaib txiv nraug ntxhav noog yus twb tso tau, lawv niag qub txiv qub zaub tsuas yog niam txhais ntog txiv txhais nta xwb ua qias neeg npaum no yus haj yam tso tau. Txiv coob coob mam nrhiav dua. Txhob mus theej luag txhoj zaum ob. Koj mas twb yog siab zoo zog lawm. Yog Kuv mas Kuv ua kom ob niag niam nkauj txhav qaib txiv nraug txhav noog no tuag kiag. Yus ntsa luag tej menyuam lub neej mas yuav npam tas tus

Tus viv ncaus aw koj ua yog lawm os, yog kuv los kuv yuav ua ib yam li koj ua thiab nawb. Koj tus txiv thiaj li yog tus npam.

Koj Ua Yog tshaj plaws

Koj yeej ua yog lawm ua neeg nyob luag saib yus tsis yog neeg koj muab muab koj pob nyiaj los nchuav los yeej tsis Tau ntsej muag txiaj ntsim li os ua li koj yeej yog kawg tsis npam li os

koj ua tau yog tshaj lawm os

koj zoo

Ua tau zoo kawg., ❤️💪

Tsis tuag tsis npa koj li os lawv rov ua rov npam lawv xwb os sister aw.....koj mas keej tiag tiag thov has koj os nawb mog nyuj ua nyuj thauj nees ua nees ris no nas tej laus hais lawv hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv ntau lwm hnub cov pa xyab pa ntawv . Ntawv yuav rov los kauj tus neeg hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv ntawv os mog txhob ntshai os

Lawv rov ua rau lawv lawm xwb os koj tsi ua cas li os niam laus thiab koj txhob rov mus yuav lawm os nawb. Nrog koj tu siab os niam laus😭😭😭

Koj ua yog kawg lawm. Lawv mas ntshe yuav khuv xim koj thiab cov nyiaj heev li. Niam pog tsa tsa tub cai li cia niam pog mam nyob nrog niam pog tus tub thiab niam pog tus me ntxhais uas niam pog nyiam2 os, muaj ib hnub twg niam pog tus me ntxhais mam tsim niam pog rau yav laus os mog. Koj dim lawm ces zoo tshaj plaws lawm

Kj ua yog lawm os niam laus

U did the right thing

Koj ua yog lawm os tsis txhob quav ntsej cov niag neeg siab phem ntawv li os

You did nothing wrong! I'd do the same in your situation! They can't curse you if they're in the wrong to begin with! And do not give the money back, that's for raising/taking care of his kids and putting money into their marriages and wasting yrs of your life!

Tsis tuag thiab tsis npam li koj ua tau yog kawg li lawm nawj

Peb cov poj niam hmoob mob siab txaus lawm koj yog ib tug ua tau zoo heev kv xav kom peb cov niam tsev muaj peev xwm ib yam li koj txiv neej thiaj saib tau peb kv thov qhuas

คุณทำถูกต้องแล้วนะ จงภูมิใจกับการกระทำของคุณ ถ้าฉันเป็นคนฉันก็ทำแบบนี้เหมือนกัน คุณยอดเยี่ยมมาก และไม่ต้องเสียใจกับเราการกระทำครั้งนี้

You did what is right for you. Cia Lub ntuj yawm saub God txiav txim.