I’m so glad you didn’t take your dead beat dad back, he doesn’t deserve your love! Love is unconditional and he decided to throw your sister and your mom away like you didn’t have any emotions. Your mom is the true hero of the story here, karma always sees good and bad in people.

Many and many true stories of hmong daughters open their hearts broken stories how they fathers treated their daughters so badly hope many fathers out there leaned and re-love nej cov daughters nawb

I hope hmong men understand that it is not a matter of whether the child is boy or girl. It is HOW you raise and teach your kids so that they love you at old age. If you fail as parents, don't blame on gender issues; no kid begged to be born. If you don't want to be responsible, use protection!!

Seriously! I'm so over people who wants kids, have kids but don't want to put in the work of raising them. Then blame others when their own kids get hurt. 🤦‍♀️ Exactly what my brother and nyab are doing to my parents. 🙄

Hmong men continue to treat women & daughters like this because there are no consequences for their actions. These sisters should've said no to paying for the funeral. Your dad treated your mom and you guys like animals and in the end, you still buried him. SMH. This is why Hmong men do not change.

May aw ua cas es tej zaj neej neeg no es yuav tus siab ua luaj li os

Honestly, you girls should have just let your dad rot in the open. Let it teach other OGs about girls do have strong will and determination that cannot be overlooked or looked down upon. That this generation, girls have just as much guts as boys do and many times, more.

kuv tuaj koom koj lawm thib o

Thov kom Koj & Koj cov viv ncaus Noj qab pw sov o mog.

Yog lawm os ib tug ntxhai yua mu saum luag ce txau hlub tshaj li os lawv ntshai 2 tsam luag g hlub li os

Hmong men need to change. We are the new hmong generation. It is up to us to change this mindset of multiple marriages because of their wishes of wanting sons. A child is a blessing from God. There's millions of people that can't have children. There's very few hmong couples that can't have children. Therefore, hmong men should be blessed to be able to father a child. In this story.... we are in America. If you chose to have children. As a man it is your responsibility to take care your children. It is NOT your 1st wife's job or responsibility to provide care for the children you father with another woman. It is NOT the responsibility of your daughters either. Remember these are the children you did not want and abandoned.

Cov kwv nej tsis txhov ua lub siab phem lis nos news mog thov caw peb cov txiv neej hmoob los mloog lub mai no naws. Peb hmoob lub siab phem ....

I am happy you were able to voice your opinion at the end to that guy!

ntxub cov txiv neej hmoob uas cem saib tsis tau cov ntxhais hu ua maum kuag ,es txiv neej twb yog tawm hauv poj niam plab los xwb los sav …..xav kom zoo zoo ua ntej uas yuav cem cov ntxhais nawb . cov txiv neej hmoob naj.

Yog lub neej tiam no txhob cia2 rau ntej tub heev yuav tau hlub cov ntxhais thiab vim xav maim no cov tub yeej tsis tsha hlub cov laus lawm

Haha..Pabniag Neejtsa Ntxhaw Nyiaj...Pab tsajmuag dhaulawm laus.. Cuab neejtsa nov nas..

Koj txiv twb saib tsis tau pojniam cas tsis mus nrhiav txivneej los ua neej nawb...tseem mus yuav niamyau thiab...niamyau twb yog pojniam ne

This is for all the hmong guys out there listen and learn!!

Good for you about telling your uncle because of him who broke up your family

Nyiaj tshav ntuj cov kwv tij noj tag lawm nej tsis paub xwb pluag dlau lawm lawv noj lawv yus tsis pluag txhob tu siab los ua neeg ib vuag dlau xwb haiv neeg muaj haiv neeg tsim mog

Hais tau zoo heev li os

Tu txiv ntawv tab phim nawb 😄😄😄😄😄

May this story teach those who needs to hear it. This father disowned his daughters. Now at old age when none of his 2nd wife's children (that he had with) will take care of him, he goes back and guilt trip his children from his 1st wife that he divorced and abandoned to care for him??? Come now! Have some shame. If he didn't need you girls to take care of him, you wouldn't even exist to him. He wouldn't even call you. Good luck sister.

Kwv tij kom yuav niam yau tab sis thaum tuag kwv tij tsis tha kwv tij yuav kom nej cov ntxhais tha ntag lo mas....thaum tuag ces kwv tij tsis xav poob nyiaj kwv tij yuav hais tias twb yug tau nej ib pab ntxhais ces nej yeej swb dua lawv phem npaum li no ho

Zoo kawg nkaus rau cov ntxhais uas txiv yeej saib tsis taus ces thaum kawg thiaj zoo li. U leej niam yeej yog tus sawv nraim haus u siab vim muaj nws uas qhov zoo kom sawv daws thiaj paub sib hlub.

Koj cov nus tsis hlub koj niam koj txiv, txhob liam tias tas nrho cov tub tsis zoo. Yus hais yus xwb. Koj los txhob khav khav tias koj zoo vim koj yog ntxhais.

Omg kuv mas ntxub cov neeg pheej tsis hlub ntxhais. Tab sis ho hmo ntuj no ho txawj nkag mus nrog poj niam pw thiab mas. Tsis muaj ntxhais ces Nej cov txiv neej tuag tag li os

The guy cousin is a bad influencer. He ruined a good family and yet he have the audacity to call the daughters to cover the funeral expenses. No moral or self respect li. Smh

Koj txiv tub muab koj niam nej niam tub nrauj tu kua thiab tsi hlub nej. Tsi tsim nyog nej hlub nej txiv lawm.

Ua cas seem yuav mus Pam ib tug neeg pov tseg nas los

Hais tau chim siab npau taws tshaj plaws li 2 tug dab Ntxwg nyoog ko ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws..Zoo heev li Thov sawv daws hlub hlub pab ntxhais nawb mog

Hahaha, where is his dame good SON'S!

Peb moob ces yeej hais qhov kom yuav niam yau xwb os yog yus tsi yug tub tu siab thiab zoo mloog kawg li..😩😢🤗

Ib tug txiv twg es pheej tsis hlub ntxhais ces tus txiv ntawv tsis txwm pua lawv tej zaum nws yog cov txiv dev guest xwb os lawv

Hais tau tu siab tshaj plaw li os tus me Vib ncau Aw

Why would you allow yourselves to be used at the very end? I just don't get these types of women. You have absolutely no obligation to your father, yet you're stuck having to bury him.

Yog nej xwb. Yog kuv ces kuv yuav npuaj tes rau cov txiv dev ua cob nej txiv yuav niam yau kom ntiaj teb paub tias ntxhais muaj nqe npaum cas. Siaj....

This story makes my blood boil.

Cov niag txiv neej hmoob mas thaum tseem ua taus txiv dev mas muab cov niam thiab tej mesnyuam mus tso pov tseg tag. Thaum ua tsi tau noj es tsi muaj neeg tu thiab tsi muaj chaws tuag mam yus mam rov dev leg los tuag rau tej ntxhais thiab tej tub xwb.

Cov txiv neej saib tsis tau pojniam cas twb xav2 tau pojniam lub povhaum noj tsis tau ibtug txivneej tus khwv ne

Nej ces dev siab xwb tseem sov cov phem Liam ntawv kuv ces ciaj tuag lis yeej tsis khes li lawv yuav zoo li cas los lawv teeb meem kuv yog niam yau mas kuv foob kom nej tuag txhuas tys twb tsis yog koj niam mag xwb vim nej siab dev

Kv los yeej hlub2 kv cov ntxhais thiab lwm hnub kv cov ntxhais puas hlub kv os

Phak dat, I'd make niam yau kids pay majority of the funeral.

Totally understand you sister. My father denied us girls as his own, but he happily accepted the 2nd wife kids- daughters from her previous marriage as his own legally. That’s too crazy how a father could denied the truth. I guess some men are just plain Stupid! At the end we disowned daughters gave him a beautiful funeral. The other half don’t even care. The money after the funeral I got $20. lol… it’s okay is all about the love and blessing. Money will disappear. The blessings will remain forever. God bless!

Your father is playing the guilt trip.

Nej niag niam yau kov yeej yuav tuag ib hnub thiab ma lwm hnub tso nqs caij tuag nej txhob pam nawb nws siab pheem dhau lawm nws cov tub los yog noob liam ntxhaw nyian dhau lawm tub dev vwm xwb os

Why, after all the stuff that this old man did, does he feel so entitled to come back and live with his daughters? No thanks.

Why is it that when old hmong men of this type are old and sick always trying to apologize and ask for forgiveness and talk about giving blessings. Chump dad's like this should never ask for help when their helpless. When you leave your kids, don't come looking for them ok. Now where's your family that told you to leave your wife and kids. Where are they now. Get them to come take care of you. Don't depend on your kids you left behind. He doesn't deserve their love. This has nothing to do with forgiveness because he did this to himself. Enough said!!!

Living in America with old county mentality. No working yerrr

Cov niag txiv dev siv dev npua Cai cov niag ntsej muag ruam tsab ntse lim hiam siab dev xyov yuav yog tiam twg hmoob mam hloov hmoob lub niag siab phem lim hiam no hmoob.

Ua cas tsis file restraining order rau koj txiv thiab niam yau na kom nws txhob tuaj thab tau nej.

zoo heev li o

Get rid of this kevcai qub. It divides family more than the new kevcai.

Npua tshom rau dev huas ces yog li nej tiag. Cas koj txiv cov tub lim hiam ua luaj li? Cov txiv neej hmoob yuav niam yau tsis hlub niam loj cov me nyuam ib qho li ces tuag niam loj cov me nyuam tsis txhob pam lawm. Cia rau niam you cov me nyuam mam pam xwb. Pam tau li cas yuav li ntawd xwb cov txiv dev laus no tsis sawm zoo na.

Cov kwvtij uas pheej txhawb kom yuav niamyau rhuav luag lub neej. Kom nws sau ntawv lav tseg hnub twg muaj teebmeem, tuag txog ces kom nws nres txhua yam tsis pub dim, tsis li ces nws🤐🤐🤐

Pab nej cov ntxhais tu siab leej txiv muab nej nrauj pov tseg tag thaum kawg kwv tij tsis tha tseem yuam kom nej tha thiab cov kwv tij no yog aub xwb tsis yog neeg yug...yog neeg yug no paub txaj muag rau koj niam tej neej tsa....yog nej cov txiv hlub nej xwb nawb yog lawv tsis hlub nej ces cov neej tsa no lawv tsis pab nej li os...nej tuaj txog lo lawv yeej hais tias lawv yeej nrauj nej tag nrog niam lawm lawv tsis thaj tsob nej xwb

Hmoob ces yeej ib txwm xam cov tub xwb yog niam hlob tsis muaj tub ces 95 % yeej yuav niam yau xwb os

Cov txiv neej coj lub siab phem li ko ces yog siab dab xwb os

Nyob zoo os py tua koom koj thiab os py 👍👍🛎🛎

siab phem li kom nej tsw ntsej los tsw npam nej li. twb ntshaw2 kom cov tub kwv lub taub hau thaum tuag rau hauv qhov thiaj phov2 tub tas npaum kom tseem mus tas ib pob ib thooj rau thiab

This is a GOOD lesson for all hmoob. Degrading women is a SiN!! We R all born equal!! Example: We have a cousin only hav 2daughters, they force him to marry 2nd wife, had 2sons n now both sons R married to Mexican gurls! How good is that?? The sons don’t even speak/understand hmoob n definitely hav no clue about hmoob culture bcuz they were born in the states. This hmoob rule doesn’t seem to work in the states anymore!! The hmoob culture need modernizing!! In our family, we treat daughters equal like a son so during funerals, both sons n daughters split equal amount for funeral!

Cov txiv neej hmoob uas saib tsis tau cov ntxhais zoo lis no mas uas rau kuv ntshav siab.

My mom have us a lot of girl with no big my dad blame my mom for not having boy and married a second wife. At the end my mom have couple boy. Now at ok’d she. My mom children love him and my mom more. His second children care less about him. Especially their son. Their daughter are divorced, cheating on their husband tib pab liam2 xwb. Vim muab hlub dhau lawm es muaj2 phlu.

Tus Txivdev liam xwb coj linov nas

Ua neej nyob ces siab phem lis peb hmoob ces 100 % feem zoo lis tu kwv tij hmoob no tau ntxhais ces xav tau tub xwb kos yog siab pheem. ua neeg nyob tsis txhov ua tus siab phem lis tu kwv tij no 😂😂😂😂 america hais yog karma news. Siab phem lis ntawm cia nws tuag nws mus os ....ua siab os mog cov me niam tai tsis npam lis os ...

Vidncaus, peb txiv kuj yuav 2 tug niamyau los yug tub, tabsis thaum tuag yog peb thas nws xwb. cov tub tias lawv tsis muaj nyiaj li.

Kajtsi hu kwvtij pam xwb. Tsis k li vim saib ntxhais tsis rau nqi!

Hmong men in this world will not change its very sad Hmong nes Hmong os smh we Hmong kids are getting super book smart but some still follow the old traditional

Nej tsis tha nej txiv lo yeej tsis npam vim nws yeej nrauj nej tu tu lawm...kwv tij tsis tha ces tsum xwb dab qhuas kev cai yog kwv tij puas tsuaj ib tog lo tsis txoj nej cov ntxhais vim nej yog nej tu txiv neeg nej tsis yog neej tsa neeg...tim ntsej tim muag neej tsa lam ua nej tsaug tab sis tom pob tw lawv yeej hais tias pab niag ntxhais ruam...

The OG will be OG. BUT!!! If one woman doesn't do this to another woman, this will be taken care of. When a woman knowingly does this to another woman, she does it to herself. However, men of this type are considered unfit, unloving, uncaring, evil, men are really controlled, overly self-centered, narrow-minded. Such men deserve to be treated badly later on. You girls shouldn't have even buried him. Let him rot out in the open. This Niam Yau is very evil herself. Wow, talking about evil. She does this to her own gender. She doesn't love, cares, or respect her own gender.

So proud of you. For your father, he had a devil whispering in his ear called kwstij. He should be cut up and fed to his kwstij's family to eat. So sorry. The injustice is too much! But you and your sisters did well by your mother and father. Money can be made, and your lives will be fruitefull because of your kindness. The problem with children coming to deadbeat parent's rescue is that it perpetuates their bad atitude and behaviors. Asian parents leave their kids and are fine with the idea because they know in their last moment of life the kids will still be there no matter the hurt they inflicted upon those kids. Maybe, it is time to let the deadbeat father or mother leave this earth all by themselves so that deadbeat parents will learn. Just a thought. The abondonment of children is not limited to only men.

Zoo li cov ntseeg tswv zam tau txim no sav?

Kuv ntseeg tias tus neeg no tsis yog txiv tsev tab sis yog txiv aub ruam. Nws yog 1 tug neeg uas tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws, neeg lwj neeg liam, siab phem lim hiam....! Tus neeg no nws yuav tuag li tus aub tuag...!

Sister, kuv twb Yog 1 tug ntawm 6 tus ntxhais thiab os. I feel your pain.

Ib leej txiv phem li ko nej txawm zov loj lo yeej yuav txw kom tsis hlub nej

Ib leej txiv dev siab phem2 li ntawv cas nej tseem zov nkawv cov tub xyob txhiaj ntawv thiab mas kav tsij hlub2 koj niam xwb ho koj txiv ces xam tias tuag lawm no xwb mas lo

The relatives suck for pushing the dad to make that decision to cheat. Good for her for calling him out. Instant karma for the dad for listening to them. Glad she was able to care for her mom. Hopefully Hmong men keep moving forward and not stay in this backwards way of thinking that daughters have no value.

These types of stories just pisses me off to no ends. I wouldn't have given a single penny for s sperm donor. Cov niag kwvtij dev liam no ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws! Txws txws txws yus txiv mus yuav niam yau thaum kawg nyias nrhiav nyias kev khiav! Tab txawm yog yus txov kiag los nej cov niag kwvtij dev twb Cia Cia siab rau cov niag tub dev nev? Ua cas tsis khoos kom tau cov niag tub dev coj mus ua lub ntees? Ua cas tseem muaj phlus rov qab los hais cov ntxhais? Nej twb hais tias ntxhais xwb, nej tsis thab thab txog no ne? If it was me, Cia mekas coj mus hlawv losis faus lawv.

Hmong just talking about money

Omg all these gender roles are always a problem. Just because you don’t have sons doesn’t mean you should marry a second or they’re wife! Most daughters love their parents more than the sons anyway, the sons get controlled by their wives by moving out of the home. Your father is obnoxious! Bringing his brats over to you girls to babysit. If I were you I wouldn’t care.

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That's what he get for listening to his damn kws tij that told him to get a niam yau. So glad you called that kws tij's ass out on it.

Sister, I'm so proud of you and your sisters for all the things that you did for your dad and including all your husband's too. Hope your story will inspire and a lesson learned to us listeners

Wow koj txiv mas ruam tshaj plaws es tseem ntseeg cov niag kwv tij dev lau, hos koj niag niam yau los tseem tseem ib niag niam nkauj kub kaw ua cas koj txiv twb Hlub Hlub koj niag niam nkauj kub kaws es thaum kawg ho tsis tau chaw nyob

I hope that you guys don’t deal with the niam yau.

Man like this old man don’t deserve anything from the girls…

Tos peb cov niam tsev tim america pheej zamzam txim rau cov niag txiv dev no los nej tsis muaj peev xwm nyob tu thiab khwv ib puas tsav yam los rau nej tej metub menyuam noj hnav es nej thiaj pheej uv. Kuv hais rau phaum laus xwb nawb.

Cov hlwb 75 ces yeej coj tus xeeb ceem li no. Tsis ntev ces yuav dhau mus vim cov hwb 75 tsawg zuj zus lawm. Tub ntxhais los yeej zoo ib yam os mog.

Zoo kawg li o

Ruam li koj txiv cia tuag liab qab ib niag txiv tsim nej xwb cov niag txiv dev liam ces ib txwm poob qab nej cov ntxhais tsis tas quav ntsej quav ntswg hlo li os