Understanding Attraction Through Sub Communication

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The Fearless Man

The Fearless Man

3 жыл бұрын

In this video Brian demonstrates the importance of communication and how it can impact how a woman is experiencing you. Pay close attention to the body language, voice tonality and ability to step into tension and being grounded.
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@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
What did you see and learn from this demo? Let us know below. Want to learn about more about how your sub communication and body language shows up when you are in front of a beautiful woman - join us in Miami for a 2 day weekend with model work like this what you just saw - www.thefearlessman.com/124-asg
@Authentic_Confidence
@Authentic_Confidence 3 жыл бұрын
Please bring us more videos like this one. The feedback we see from Brian’s in these demos is powerful.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
@@Authentic_Confidence We'll most likely be doing more of these for sure
@dfjr1990
@dfjr1990 3 жыл бұрын
#MeToo
@user-dm6yo7de7k
@user-dm6yo7de7k 3 жыл бұрын
Don't know why that one bloke had to say 'creepy'. That kind of pissed me off. No need for that when you've got a bloke in front of everyone giving it a go.
@tonivaara7095
@tonivaara7095 3 жыл бұрын
Because that's honestly how it felt. They are there to learn, if you're not honest with how it makes you feel , how are they gonna improve?
@HealingThroughInspiration
@HealingThroughInspiration 3 жыл бұрын
Right he wasn't creepy.
@lavolpe8525
@lavolpe8525 2 жыл бұрын
Its better to say it seemed creepy because its was an honest observation. we all know he isn't trying to be creepy and he is there to improve. Knowing how we are coming across is important because it tells us where and how we need to improve. You can be as genuine as you want with your intentions but at the end of the day if you are coming across as creepy its better to know and improve than complain and reject improvement. Too many guys get bitchy when faced with reality instead of accepting something and improving/fixing it and then wonder why they fail with women, this isn't a masculine type of behaviour, its insecure and creepy. Accept the raw data impersonally, digest it and improve.
@Authentic_Confidence
@Authentic_Confidence 3 жыл бұрын
This video demo was brilliant. Antony pointed this out to me in a workshop and as I got down in my body I got in touch with stored sadnesses and apathetic. After that, I connect it with people and girls on all my approaches in a more raw and genuine way. Even though I initially hated the feeling of sadness down in my lower body, I now embrace it and deliberately use it to relate to others. This work is very powerful and I thank fearless for their support!
@evileast282
@evileast282 2 жыл бұрын
How do you get into your body? Tips?
@damianu3871
@damianu3871 3 жыл бұрын
I remember when I used to be like this gentleman, I couldn’t even look at a beautiful woman in the eye, because she was to beautiful. And in my mind I started playing this old CD’s 💿 or affirmation in my head that I wasn’t aware of them. Every time I saw someone I liked. She’s to beautiful for me, she’s would never like me, she deserves someone better then I do. (Talking to beautiful woman = pain.) No wonder I couldn’t talk to women. Then I found out that pain was using me. Instead of me using the pain to drive me. Now when I see someone I like, I immediately look her in the eye, hold my gaze for 2-3 sec and slowly smile, and be aware of how she reacts. First key is reading woman’s body language. Does she like me or not. Next step, She’ll turn away, to test you, hold your ground, if she looks back within 45 seconds or less she’s into you. You have the green light. On does 45 seconds or less, picture yourself driving home, in pain! Because you didn’t talked to her. Then the mind, would say screw this! I better go and introduce my self, it’s more painful to think about driving home, not knowing if she like me or not. Guy’s this is just the tip of the iceberg, you have to go into the deep end. Part of it, is watching this video. But there’s lot more to learn.
@cartermason8985
@cartermason8985 3 жыл бұрын
Damn that guy has guts ! Cheers !
@danielgray9909
@danielgray9909 3 ай бұрын
This is the best representation of attraction I’ve ever seen, I think it perfectly captures the experience of approaching a attractive girl and striking up a conversation with her.
@Tommcginn
@Tommcginn 3 жыл бұрын
Love seeing the work done. He managed to go through so much in such a short span of time. I thought this would be really easy the first time I attended an event. Turns out it scared the shit out of me!
@GetLostInTheSauce
@GetLostInTheSauce 3 жыл бұрын
This feels like a balance between the warrior and lover archetypes
@user-su4mh8ur6c
@user-su4mh8ur6c 3 жыл бұрын
This is amazing. So many people need this.
@raresholota3002
@raresholota3002 3 жыл бұрын
This is awesome. I can see myself through him getting in my head
@dimitrijeberic622
@dimitrijeberic622 3 жыл бұрын
Brian keeps putting out top notch content.
@michaelrodriguez3253
@michaelrodriguez3253 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is definitely one of the most amazing videos I've ever seen. Mental to speech coordination has 90% more to do with anxiety. I am finally understanding how anxiety actually works and the thing is, literally anything can trigger it as anxiety is generally an emotion of uneasiness. As it relates to me, through this video I realized that I often have a tendency to jerk my neck when speaking in an effort to compensate for effective expression through speech. As a result there's a build up of tension in and around the neck which causes a lot of unnecessary tension ultimately making me nervous as I feel as though I lack the tact in being effective through speech. In summary dealing with anxiety has a lot more to do with recognizing and dissolving as much as possible the problem that triggers anxiety for the individual. I very much appreciate the videos of this channel. Thanking you very much so kindly.
@davidt1977
@davidt1977 3 жыл бұрын
I know this sounds insane but I'd really like 4 video clips: 1. Long shot (this footage) 2. Zoomed in - head and shoulders 3. Over her shoulder looking at him 4. Over his shoulder looking at her. tiled/composited in a 2 x 2 square. Seeing all at the same time. To be even more insane: heartrates of both
@peterfallon4018
@peterfallon4018 3 жыл бұрын
My God..1. Approach women w/ confidence & a smile 2. Exude *authentic* confidence. 3. Understand like sakes, it’s a numbers game. 4. She’s at least as nervous as you are provided the initial 3 points
@fearlessorozco382
@fearlessorozco382 3 жыл бұрын
That was flawless. Great work guys
@oldskoolordie
@oldskoolordie 2 жыл бұрын
It's over for flipboardcells
@appreciatte
@appreciatte 3 жыл бұрын
Greg is a friend of mine, And I love this video. I wish that you would have talked about how to create comfort, and safety with women.
@JJ-pl5cj
@JJ-pl5cj 3 жыл бұрын
Well done Greg
@JonasFromWinden
@JonasFromWinden Жыл бұрын
I came across your content after an interview with Dr Robert Glover. I think you have a unique approach to the subject. Thank you for your contribution to my personal development.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan Жыл бұрын
We're grateful to have your support. Landon, TFM
@Icyjuicemanreporter
@Icyjuicemanreporter 3 жыл бұрын
I like how u brought attention to his sadness. I’m sure most of my anxiety comes from deep sadness that’s too difficult to let go. I mean I’d actually cry I front of people if I became vulnerable. I’m too afraid to do that b/c it’s weird. I see it like crucifying myself like Jesus was, completely vulnerable to everything up on the cross, but the only way I can truly save myself
@davidt1977
@davidt1977 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, who's gonna do cold approach to ball their eyes out in front of a random stranger women. Women have no clue how much trauma men are carrying. ZERO CLUE. They don't care, we're in the emotional dark ages
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Hey HewantsmokeTV, This is very good that you can recognize this. The thing to do is find an opportunity to do bring up the sadness when you are on your own or with someone trustworthy. That energy is in your system and can be let go anytime you are able to let it come up (which might take some work). A lot of deeper inner work needs to be done with support, either from a coach or therapist or spiritual support group because like you said, it feels socially awkward to let the mask drop fully and get messy with your emotions. Needless to say that is what we do at Fearless and we'd love to help you with that process if you are interested in working with us. - Andrew, TFM Staff 2-Day Revealing Process Masterclass - Virtual Event thefearlessman.com/july-2021-revealing The Fearless Integrated Man Summit - Miami, FL November, 5-7 thefearlessman.com/tims2021 Attraction and Seduction Gathering - Miami, March 13-14 www.thefearlessman.com/GatheringMiami
@Icyjuicemanreporter
@Icyjuicemanreporter 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan it’s far but I might just do it. In the meantime I’ll set aside some time everyday to cry n stuff lmaoo
@josueavila104
@josueavila104 3 жыл бұрын
I have this thing that comes up occasionally where im talking with a girl, were close to each other and i just get really nervous so i start to fidget and break the tension by moving my head or moving my feet up n down fast how can you deal with that tension? The crazy part is that's at the first few minutes but then once we break the ice i feel more calm in my body and more relaxed. Then silence comes up n im back in my head what do u think
@owen2002
@owen2002 3 жыл бұрын
I used to do this. I found grounding very helpful at this.
@diegopagani2010
@diegopagani2010 2 жыл бұрын
What I really like about you, Brian is how you teach to RELAX into Tension. Grace under pressure is absolutely crucial. And learning to feel the emotion and relax into it is the first step. Thank you, man
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 2 жыл бұрын
Great insight, Diego. We appreciate the comment. Thanks, Landon from Fearless
@dotheyfloat9961
@dotheyfloat9961 3 жыл бұрын
Qigong geek here... I notice that when I put my mind in my "lower dantian" area for too long, my libido goes down after a while. I've heard that the point converts testicular jing into qi, so that might have something to do with it. I think I might have overpowered by body awareness through exercises done throughout the years. Like if I just accidentally think of my forehead it will start throbbing and I'll get ungrounded pretty quickly. I have to focus on the sensation of gravity and weight to ground myself. Imagining my feet, legs and hips are made of lead and feeling what that would actually feel like seems to work the best atm, it also increases my libido pretty rapidly. I have yet to experiment with that in combo with the dantian awareness, it might solve the issue possibly.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Dotheyfloat, It sounds like you might be using a lot of mental focus to direct energy in your body. Like you are discussing how you get an overload of energy in one place and become ungrounded so you are directing you mind to another place instead. Maybe a practice feeling the overall energy field of your body without having an intention to focus on one place or direct energy in any particular way would start to ease the over collection of energy in one place or another. - Andrew, TFM Staff 2-Day Revealing Process Masterclass - Virtual Event thefearlessman.com/july-2021-revealing The Fearless Integrated Man Summit - Miami, FL November, 5-7 thefearlessman.com/tims2021 Attraction and Seduction Gathering - Miami, March 13-14 www.thefearlessman.com/GatheringMiami
@thomasgrabowski2202
@thomasgrabowski2202 3 жыл бұрын
lol this is making me nervous x'D ! THis guy haha
@DaveThundercloud
@DaveThundercloud Жыл бұрын
Good info
@ShaneJoshua1980
@ShaneJoshua1980 3 жыл бұрын
Is it me or is Brian constantly on it with these women and they just naturally feel comfortable around him.
@timwilkins6248
@timwilkins6248 3 жыл бұрын
Jesus, man this was beautiful. I am considering doing the Miami workshop. Will Brian be there?
@alexfonseca2063
@alexfonseca2063 3 жыл бұрын
When and where is the workshop ?
@alexfonseca2063
@alexfonseca2063 3 жыл бұрын
@@owen2002 I know. When and where?
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
@Tim Wilkins @Alex Fonseca Here is the Miami March Seminar event link. - Andrew, TFM Staff Attraction and Seduction Gathering - Miami, March 13-14 www.thefearlessman.com/GatheringMiami @Owen McIntyre - touche'
@AsheetingBull
@AsheetingBull 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏🏼
@ErvinMitchell
@ErvinMitchell 3 жыл бұрын
He did great from what I could tell! I bet he gets better really fast
@josueavila104
@josueavila104 3 жыл бұрын
So twards the end you sed that where your focus goes thats the part you become continuous of. If your focus goes to your brain on what to say next you will start to get nervous and in your head so my question is where do you put your focus on To feel that sweet spot
@Joseph.Gallardo
@Joseph.Gallardo 3 жыл бұрын
You put it onto your body and learn to feel yourself while talking to her. Try searching for grounding.
@1stRedCommander
@1stRedCommander 2 жыл бұрын
so is the negative tension aka anxiety men feel when holding tension with woman stem from being a nice guy and seeking the woman's approval and validation?
@Theo_iv
@Theo_iv 9 ай бұрын
Why does Brian always sound like he’s about to pour you a drink
@timwilkins6248
@timwilkins6248 3 жыл бұрын
Mary had a little lamb broh - gonna use that with the ladies.
@mustaphadoaa1024
@mustaphadoaa1024 3 жыл бұрын
Pushing energy is forward, while relaxed energy is backward coming.
@MrBlackjack456
@MrBlackjack456 9 ай бұрын
**Title:** "Mastering Sub-Communication: Connecting Authentically" **Summary:** In this video, the speaker demonstrates the power of sub-communication and how it can influence interactions, particularly in the context of dating and connecting with others. The focus is on embodying emotions and intentions rather than relying solely on logic. The speaker selects an audience member, Greg, to participate in a live demonstration. Greg is asked to approach a woman without saying much and to connect with her purely through non-verbal communication. The speaker emphasizes the importance of feeling the comfort or discomfort in the interaction and encourages the audience to think like women, prioritizing emotions over logic. Initially, Greg exhibits signs of nervousness and tension, as many do when approaching someone they find attractive. The speaker helps Greg lower his focus from his throat area to his lower body, reducing tension and nervousness. Through this process, Greg becomes more present and genuine. The video highlights the significance of maintaining eye contact, reducing nervous gestures, and softening tension to connect authentically. It also emphasizes the importance of focusing on emotions and vulnerability to create genuine connections. **Key Points:** 1. Sub-communication plays a crucial role in human interactions. 2. Prioritize feelings and emotions over logic in connecting with others. 3. Lowering focus from the throat area to the lower body reduces tension. 4. Maintaining eye contact and reducing nervous gestures enhances authenticity. 5. Embracing vulnerability and genuine emotions fosters meaningful connections. The video demonstrates practical techniques to improve non-verbal communication and connect more authentically with others, particularly in dating and social situations. qx84lEk)
@content1599
@content1599 7 ай бұрын
He was great. What amazes me is hot women's they don't even feel nervousness they are used to be in a position of power, the arrogancy specially when they test you, they analyze you, they always act from a position also of superiority she doesn´t even flinch or get nervous
@Fxx308
@Fxx308 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Fearless Team one question. It is possible that I lose hair because of realising? I mean because of the Stress im this Moment
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Tdog, Do you mean lose hair because you are feeling an emotion? This is not medical advice but since the emotion is already there (in your subconscious) and already affecting you, it would not change any kind of reaction from the body to feel it consciously. If the emotions had no effect when they were repressed into the subconscious, there would be no reason to bother releasing them. The fact is the repressed emotions have a fundamental affect on our life. Second thing, dude, women give no shits about your hair. Zero shits. The most important thing is that you are confident. If you are constantly worried about your hair, that is the biggest turn off. I cut all my hair off in 2019 because I was losing it and it had a completely neutral affect on women's attraction to me and believe me I was worried and watching women's reaction closely. Men's attractiveness has very little to do with your hair and way more to do about how you carry yourself including being self-conscious about your hair. - Andrew, TFM Staff
@Fxx308
@Fxx308 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan Yes i mean i do releasing since 6 months and i have incredible experience. My whole life changed. But it was also a very difficult time and a lot of stress because the trauma. I saw some expects of my shadow. I thought because of the stress it can possible to lose hair. But i dont know. Maybe it came back
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
@@Fxx308 OK that's really great to hear about your successes with releasing and making those changes in your life and being able to recognize parts of your shadow. That is very real and valuable. Really though, the best possible thing you can do about your hair is stop giving a shit. Women do NOT give a shit. Zero shits given. Zero fucks given too. The most important thing is confidence. What is a woman going to do with your hair if you don't have confidence? In fact the main thing it will make her want to do is test you around your hair. - Andrew, TFM Staff 2-Day Revealing Process Masterclass - Virtual Event thefearlessman.com/july-2021-revealing The Fearless Integrated Man Summit - Miami, FL November, 5-7 thefearlessman.com/tims2021 Attraction and Seduction Gathering - Miami, March 13-14 www.thefearlessman.com/GatheringMiami
@Fxx308
@Fxx308 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan Hey thank you men i appreciate you. You make a great job
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
@@Fxx308 Cheers man :) - Andrew
@J91Y
@J91Y 3 жыл бұрын
WHERE ARE HIS CLASSES HELD LIKE HOW CAN I BE A PART OF THIS
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Hey J-man, I love the enthusiasm and decisiveness man. This is Andrew from TFM staff. I'd be happy to have a call with you and find out what challenges you're working on and talk about the events we have coming up and find the option for you. My email is andrews@thefearlessman.com. Here are some links to upcoming events as well: - Andrew, TFM Staff Attraction and Seduction Gathering - Miami, March 13-14 www.thefearlessman.com/GatheringMiami Fearless Experience Intensive - 2021 Schedule www.thefearlessman.com/Experience2021
@J91Y
@J91Y 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan I LIVE IN MIAMI HOLY SHIT !?! does it cost money to attend one of your events ? also i’m honestly trying to watch and just get a feel for it ... not nesscarly go out the same day
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
@@J91Y Hey J-man, There is a lot of value delivered even at the introductory seminar events like the one in Miami March 13-14. That event is $247. You don't have to do model work in front of everyone although you'll have the chance if you decide you want to. There is a lot of other valuable stuff that is presented too. It's designed to give you an idea of the process we coach guys through. - Andrew, TFM Staff
@BAMBAM-pz9hz
@BAMBAM-pz9hz 3 жыл бұрын
Mary had a little lamb..its me and you're gonna take me in to your barn😎
@jordanzell1
@jordanzell1 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know how I could do this exercise. I'm too short.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
One of our most successful clients is about 6-8 inches shorter than his wife. He's been into tall women all his life and got to a point where he called Brian to ask for advice on what to do with all the women that were chasing him. -- Andrew, TFM Staff 2-Day Revealing Process Masterclass - Virtual Event thefearlessman.com/july-2021-revealing The Fearless Integrated Man Summit - Miami, FL November, 5-7 thefearlessman.com/tims2021 Attraction and Seduction Gathering - Miami, March 13-14 www.thefearlessman.com/GatheringMiami
@thomasgrabowski2202
@thomasgrabowski2202 3 жыл бұрын
Dude Brian is, man fuck. Yes. Yes. Yes.
@peterfallon4018
@peterfallon4018 3 жыл бұрын
My God it’s not like women wake up & say ‘gee, I hope a confident man w/ his act together WON’T approach me. Build a full, enjoyable life-looks or money has nothing to do w/ it-& women will be clamoring to be a part of it
@Jo_240
@Jo_240 2 жыл бұрын
In the real world she walks away lol
@Stephen-bq4nq
@Stephen-bq4nq 3 жыл бұрын
I am 47 and have scoliosis since I was about 10 it's destroyed my life with woman I lost all my confidence because of how my back looks and because of the back pain I struggled to work which ruined me financially. I am single with no children and haven't had a relationship in decades. I avoided asking woman out but I have to say I am amazed at these fit healthy men who are afraid to talk to woman. If I was the guys in the video fit and healthy I wouldn't give a sh.t I would walk up to woman like I was a king.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Hey man, It's not your back that is turning women off, it's the fact that you are hiding behind your back issue. If you don't believe me, look up Nick Vujicic or Sean Stephenson (for starters). - Andrew, TFM Staff
@Stephen-bq4nq
@Stephen-bq4nq 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan thanks👍
@Stephen-bq4nq
@Stephen-bq4nq 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan yep as I said in my comment it destroyed my confidence because of the way my back looked and it's very common with people who have scoliosis. I am starting come to terms with it but it took me a long time the shame I carried was so destructive to my life.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Sure man, any kind of shame is very very destructive. Have you worked with the revealing/releasing process? There are a lot of videos on that topic on this channel. That is the basis of everything we teach at Fearless and it definitely address shame as well as belief systems like "I'm not good enough because of..." - Andrew, TFM Staff
@Stephen-bq4nq
@Stephen-bq4nq 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan I will check them out I know it's going to be a process but I want to cleanse myself mentally and start moving forward👍
@user-su4mh8ur6c
@user-su4mh8ur6c 3 жыл бұрын
You and Dr Joe Dispenza need to work together. It's a must. And if you can get Jason Momoa involved, he would probably understand quite easily and i'm sure he can set a prime example for a lot of men to follow.
@Omar_PS9inchhs
@Omar_PS9inchhs 2 жыл бұрын
@Brian, my problem when I'm communicating with a woman I'm attracted to is that instant idea in the corner of my mind that she isn't attracted to men (she's lesb etc) the younger and more attractive she looks the worse it gets, that's the first thing that pops up in my head when I see a beautiful girl..does that make any sense?.. I mean personally I don't give a rat's azz if I'm not her type, cause her type can change in my experience..but that "she's not attracted to men" voice in my head is the main blocker, even sometimes knowing that she has a partner makes it MUCH MUCH easier because all you need to do next is make her cheat on her man lol, compared to if she's not attracted to men at all, which makes your chances ZERO with her, so how to deal with this and I really hope to see a video on your channel which sheds some light on this as I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this way. (sorry grammar and typo)
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 2 жыл бұрын
Are these things definitely true? - Andrew, TFM Team
@Omar_PS9inchhs
@Omar_PS9inchhs 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan yes that's exactly how it is with me..maybe it's about my brain putting the worst case scenario, because if she's not attracted to men, I mean there is nothing worse because it means it's impossible to have her.
@Omar_PS9inchhs
@Omar_PS9inchhs 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan and thx fr the reply TFM kutgw..
@Uzodesign
@Uzodesign 2 жыл бұрын
Wife did I just watch?
@sk8tb1
@sk8tb1 3 жыл бұрын
So..... you want me to focus on her left eye. While her face gets blurry ?
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
You just have her left eye at the center of your visual field. You have a relaxed focus. - Andrew, TFM Staff
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 3 жыл бұрын
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Icysnow, If things were actually as you describe, your question would make sense. What's happening here is you are projecting your inner feelings of loneliness and isolation onto the outer world instead of observing the world clearly. All of the statements in your post are absolutist and there are countless, glaring examples showing the opposite. Men go through all kinds of extreme circumstances and brave all kinds of risk out of a spirit of brotherhood - war, exploration, adventure, etc. There are countless documentaries and movies about it and it is a distinct energy that is part of everyday unless you are blocking it out - which is exactly what you are doing. Women also undermine and back-stab each other all the time for that matter. Many women get into all kinds of drama and have a hard time stopping. The good news is all the beliefs you are expressing as if they are facts, are actually incorrect and can be discarded. - Andrew, TFM Staff
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.
@m.r.5990
@m.r.5990 3 жыл бұрын
​@@icysnow57cold64 Man, you are so wrong about the traits of women and men. Who put you to those conclusions? Science? Your view on women and men is like in the science discovery movies about the mammal spiecies. Women connect easily with other women because of their feminine emotional nature. They connect, but you don't want just that connection, because it's just "sticking together", not attraction and love. You don't want to "stick together" unless you want to be her girlfriend. Women are made to be loved by men. Can you love women? And show it? Do you have the courage? Or you just want to be with one of them, hoping to have a relationship, hitting on them and then get rejected after a while? Or befriend them like you were her girlfriend and hope to have a relationship? Are women an object to fullfill your desires about a relationship? Or do you love them all? Do you open your heart to them? Or you wait to "achieve" the relationship with a decent "specimen" and you just give your heart to her? Women don't want your heart given to them, they just want a man who love them. Women can never EVER develop a connection to their female friends like they have with men. It's just on another level. Basic emotional connection can never compare to deep love that transforms the man and the woman and touches both spirits. Learn about the reality of the world and don't stick in your false beliefs. Cheers.
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 3 жыл бұрын
@@m.r.5990 Women can never EVER develop a connection to their female friends like they have with men? Men and women are wired differently from each other and women produce a lot oxytocin than men do. Here's a quote I found in an article about how men's brains may not being wired for much connection: "A 2014 study found that males had stronger neural connections in the parts of the brain responsible for perception and action, while females had better connectivity along the neural pathways linking analytics to intuition - two areas used heavily in interpersonal connection. Before this study, differences in these kinds of neural pathways had never been highlighted among such a large sample size (949 individuals)." Here's another quote I found from another article: "So why are men and women different in the way they make friends? One hypothesis is the difference between the male and female brain. Typically, women tend to have a larger deep limbic system than their male counterparts. The limbic system is a network of nerves in the brain connected to instinct and mood. The limbic system controls basic emotions such as happiness and fear. Because this system tends to be larger in women, females are more in touch with their feelings and have an increased ability to connect individually with others." Because of women being more emotional and more affectionate than men are, and women being able to connect a lot better with other women than they do with men or men with men, wouldn't that mean that men and women are not very compatible with each other?
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 3 жыл бұрын
I just don't understand how men and women can have a strong bond with each other. Women have different attitudes towards physical intimacy from men. The friendships that women have with each other are usually a lot more intimate than the friendships that men have with each other. Women are more comfortable touching and complimenting each other (unlike men). It may or may not be based on sexual attraction but rather love, comfort and affection. They seem to enjoy the company of women more than men. Women tend to get along better with other women. Why? They share the same issues, situations, life experiences, etc. So they tend to get one another and relate. Also, Women, in general are sensitive, vocal, and are not ashamed to admit their fears, apprehensions and insecurities. They face problems head on even if they don't have a solution. They talk it over, seek counsel, empathy and compassion, and, yes, they cry. And, they are not ashamed of it. It is cathartic for them. It releases stress. Now we know why they live longer. They just share a camaraderie with other women. They are sisters, friends, mothers, aunts, grandmothers, next-door neighbors, colleagues and peers, and, in some cases, lovers. They are different and unique. They are comfortable with their womanhood, sexually and their individuality. Also, women usually do stuff with their female friends like sleeping in the same bed together, showering together, kissing each other on the lips, going to the bathroom together, and changing clothes together. While men will usually never do that type of stuff with their male friends, and men and women will rarely do that type of stuff together. Men will rarely see other men naked, while women will usually see other women naked all of the time, and men and women will rarely see each other naked.
@nonamenoname3850
@nonamenoname3850 2 жыл бұрын
So we have an old man and a girl young enough to be his daughter wtf
@PrimoConfidence
@PrimoConfidence Жыл бұрын
Why most alpha male today not teaching this BASIC fundamental most important secret technique?
@dfjr1990
@dfjr1990 3 жыл бұрын
This shit gonna get you #MeToo 😂
@josephnorris4095
@josephnorris4095 Жыл бұрын
On the one hand, I think game and cold approach is dead. On the other hand, the advice you are giving here is still quite important and can be applied in just about any situation. In fact, one of the things is that you are showing actual interest in the person that is in front of you and you are showing respect, when you look someone in the eyes and listen to them.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan Жыл бұрын
I don't really care as much about the approach as having real connection with people. If people feel seen and heard from a solid place the rest starts to fall into place when starting conversations. You joke and be lite from here or you can have deeper conversation but to do that it's all about connection with the other person.
@MrMattyMan
@MrMattyMan 3 жыл бұрын
Look I love your videos. I've taken notes on your other videos and they have helped me immensely But I cannot watch these demo videos like this any more. They are so cringe to me. These women are just here because they obviously love the attention. They claim they can read you and "sub communicate." I cannot agree with that. To me they seem to just be blindly agreeing with your assessments. I see them just standing there without any skills whatsoever. These guys are uncomfortable as all get out. I'd love to see a course of women being taught how approach Men.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
For sure man. I'm sure you can find lots of videos that don't challenge you or make you uncomfortable. Maybe some cute cats or Fail Army videos. - Andrew, TFM Team
@mediapowersolutions
@mediapowersolutions 3 жыл бұрын
Just go to any random lady and say: "Mary had a little lamb" works like a charm!
@nickldawg
@nickldawg 2 жыл бұрын
i started farting near women and my results plummeted. so i stopped doing that
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 2 жыл бұрын
Way to adapt lol 👍 - Andrew, TFM Team
@lalalalalala9333
@lalalalalala9333 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfaoooooooo "Don't think like men, using logic to determine what's going on in the situation. Think like women." How insulting is that! All of these dating gurus are laughable. This whole video is clownish😂
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Well that's not very nice lol
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