I got married at 31 but regretted marrying early... One should marry when one is mentally ready and is able to take all the responsibilities

There was a time when men used to marry young girls and ignore them after marriage, they were just involved for pleasure. That is why those mothers told their girls not to marry early and study, earn, enjoy life.❤❤ These girls should be happy. Atleast these girl will raise a sensible child if they marry.

Good marriage >> Single >> bad marriage.. the problem is, in todays day and age, bad marriages has become a norm… so, it is better to stay single… the reason for bad marriage is increased consumerism and narcissism… basically, increased show-off culture which leaves a person shallow on the inside… morals and ethics have gone down… moral and ethics basically means doing right when no one is looking…

Not just in Kashmir this is the new norm throughout the world. It is normal in Europe and korea Japan but even in india. It is impossible to complete our education get a reputed job and get married at the same time. We are spending time in our carrier obviously marriage will be delayed. Girls nowdays are demanding a boy with a good job, physique and good communication like flirting and others. Which is again impossible as the one who are good in flirting and talking to girls and the one who maintain a excellent physique remain unemployed and the one who is settled lacks the other qualities 😅😂😂

Unmarried at 39....my cous unmarried at 44 and the list goes on..

MAKE MARRIAGES VERY SIMPLE TO AVOIDE FINANCIAL BURDEN. WASWAN MUST BE REPLACED WITH SIMPLE DINNER. SIMILARLY BOTH PARTIES MUST AGREE NOT TO ACCEPT ANY CASH OR GIFTS DURING MARRIAGES. THAT WILL ENSURE CLOSE RELATIONS BETWEEN TWO PARTIES.

So what a big deal in it am 37 and single ,there are lot of professionals in their 40s and 50s who are unmarried only uncivilised people will make it a big.issue

Neighbours jealousy , backbiting , No grooms for un employed girls even if she is highly educated, caste stigma , financial status is the biggest problem in play which is telling upon our society even most eligible bachelors are rendered ineligible for above mentioned things . Kashmiri elderly women are mostly responsible for this.

Even men too cant marry because of unemployment

No more discussion about early/ late marriage .......Nikah is pre planned.....wait for ur time Girls....Don't stress......& Trust Allah

Job problem for both the Ganders leads to late marriage...

There are lots of reasons political and social people are tired there . They don't want to see if their love ones are dying and suffering after birth. Thats why they are choosing to remain unmarried willingly

why don't the same documentary represent men as well????, why the cover has only women?, aspirations are not exclusive to men

Main problem is unemployment of youth

Financial independence is a trap. In the current geopolitical and economic uncertainty and the rise of techno feudalism around the world, no job or business is secure. Everyone might face economic instability at some point in their lives. It's better for all women to be in marriage so that they can cushion if they find themselves in some economic instability no matter how good their current/future job or business is. Don't let the capitalists fool you. Marriage is better, brings stability and reason to life. Don't be a slave to the system. Have your own family who would stand for you even die for you

I got married when I was 22 years old. Best decision of my life❤. We have 4 children and are happily married for 17 years now. Be happy with what you have and don't look at what you should have according to societal norms. Relax and enjoy being a partner and a parent. Use positive humor and don't keep a grudge against people. Things in life don't always go as we want it, that's okay. A powerful marriage is a dyke against tsunamis. Life may be a rat race, but our house is peace. I hope to die together, so neither of us will have to suffer the loss of the other one😢

Kashmir is mostly Muslim. Still women prefer to stay unmarried despite religious pressure meaning religion has a problem. Other religion having unmarried women doesn't have religion pressure. It's there choice.

Early marriage is Key of success life

Unmarried at 42: A new norm in Pakistan !!!

Very great initiative ❤❤❤❤❤ U r doing great Make more vedios like this

Only changing i change in laws home can hlp.... After marriage girls suffer n treated as maid .... Waha nand aakr delivery k bahane mayke se nikalti ni h jb tk unke bche bdhey ho jatey h ...

The more we weigh Materalism in marriages the more the mence emerge. We are boomed with gold diggers in the society.

Very well covered

I am 22 and recently l got engagement 🙄😊

May Allah bless everyone with good spouses,,,,

Slowly, this norm is coming to India too!! My Cousin sister got married at the age of 32, last year..

Living a simple life with less expectations is the solution to this problem.

” ومن یرغب عن ملۃ ابراھیم الا من سفہ نفسہ ؟ !! “ !!!!

Good topic my son

A eye opening for society .80 percent problems are due to poverty & poor financial status is the main issue.Another factor is unemployment. I personally knows girls /parents how are very much distrub inspite of financially well off also facing this burning issue.God knows what happen in future but this video is very much true.A father of a girl sailing in same boat.

It’s common in south India too

Concrete video, financial dependency, stability , emotional bonding with partner and individual choice is key, it should not be burden, other wise state of celebacy is better.

Some times its not in your hand to get married early or late everything is depend on Allah when right time is for u

For remedial measures every quarter of society need to step in religious heads ,eduacted mens and womens , officers and labourers in equal measure mostly religions heads need to preach more on the issues and focus on making nikkah an affordable affair

Marriage is not just an important incident but ' the most important ' thing to do so girls don't do it early. Enjoy life and do something for yourself.

Nice editing, efforts visible.

I can't marry here in Kashmir I choose foreigner wife I am 30 years old

I think many girls out there are ready to marry but the problem is the Job holder and employed boys prefer employed girls only and if even a girl is well educated they don't see the education but want employment and on the other side some prefer girls half of their age if not employed, this became problematic as the grils in the middle age just completed their studies and ready to get married are suffering from this norm they have to get a Job to get married and because of unemployment getting a job is taking much longer time than needed and thus the girls became aged in this interval ruining their entire life in studies and getting the good man only by luck if some men left after choosing girls half to their age or employed so girls have to compromise to the norms of society or some decide to stay single because of this.. So this is not a matter related to only girls Entire society need to change the norms of their dream very young bahu with all ethics of household chores or employed bahu with good amount of money in hand.. And one other thing is because of this Pious Girls are suffering because if a men is getting everything in haram ways without taking any responsibility as in Islam, soon there will be a time no men will remain interested in marriage..So following the islamic path is only way out. So girls and boys need to choose their partner in halal ways and choose one who follow the path of God and then contribute accordingly to one another growth in life as well as in financial situation they need to find ways in mutual collaboration with mutual understanding among them..!!

3:30 Traffic - it's Andhra Pradesh not Kashmir..😒

21st century me duniya me yeh trend chal raha hain

AI vdo. .. nice

Well so many girls and boys are marrying non kashmiri. That might be one reason

When the population is more GOD makes certain amendments in creation.. and so some changes occur. Earlier there used to he child marriages and there used to be premature deaths and young widows etc. Now late marriages...

Education is an excuse to some extent. I have a relative she has two kids and she's side by side doing her phd as well.

Not only in Kashmir; this is the new norm all over India. About to be 30 ... and not interested in marriage.🤐 Right person can make your life Heaven and wrong person can make your life Hell ... so choose wisely🤨

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Really a burning issue

No marriage No sad Single life is happy

Because there are few qualified males.

Meri cousin ki shaadi 21 saal mai hogaye ....abi tak us ki aulaad nhi hai....ab kya kar sakte hai...

Evrything is perception... And it depneds on priority... What is wrong in marying at 35 ?

Natural selection of reducing population growth, addresses food, environment, water, pollution, waste..etc. Natural selection of reducing population.

Year

We may touch 35 ...but marry till it...

I'm 26 yrs wants to marry but my family doesn't understand they delay my marriage 😢😢

" آمین بالجھر ” !!!!

Bro ye channel monitize nhi hogi

There is no age for marriage.. anyone can marry anytime..

Pakistan Kashmir and The Muslim communities in the Subcontinent need to make inter ethnic inter caste marriages prevalent. Otherwise no need to follow a belief that allows these ways and we as people of the region follow ignorant cultural regional societal pressures which is totally ridiculous. If you follow true Deen e Islam then please do justice and equality on its traditions. Otherwise don't cry about the issues because we are no different than any ruthless civilization. Even sensible Non Muslims don't do this type of injustice. May ALLAH give us all Hidayah guidance to be Human Muslims including myself commenting here. AMEEN!

Education for boys in the family should be stressed in all classes of society and women should also get educated but not at the cost of marriage. The spending on weddings should also come down so that extravagance is curbed

Marriage has become a catastrophe in the valley So better is to focus on career

promote early marriage

Yee sab lalch ke waja say huwa.buss paisa chaye sab ko.agar govt job Hoga .aur bada sa bunglow hona chayee.ek admi ko sab apney betey ko dey gey shadi k liye.yee ladkhe waley pheley hee sochtey hain .agar kal ko duspute hoga.tuh hum bada say clime karey gey.

Haha 😂 Good for K-gang 😂

Comparison kills creativity, in kashmir people want comparison instead of compromise

Covid has made this situation

Only religion can revive the simplicity to moral marriages and also will change their higher expectational thoughts,,, Somehow hype in rates of common or basic goods and services also a fact.

SUCH A BIG HEADLINE. AT LEAST GET THE SPELLING RIGHT!!

Bro not everybody understands engiish . Please use kashmiri or urdu language and not this AI voice so that this message reaches everyone without any barriers .

” جہالت ” !!!!

Parents are not supportive

Very sad . Quran says marriages should be performed earlly as when a child reaches adulthood.Everyone has a heart n mind that prefers west even if we all are well aware that family system is an utter colapse there.And secondly financial independence of both men n women and undue aspirations.And thirdly everyone in kashmir desires at least of Anant Ambani like wedding. All against the sunnah and commandments of quran. This is bound to happen .So follow quran and sunnah in every aspect not only for nikkah ,namaz n jinaza etc. ritually but in true faith and spirit. May Allah protect n guide us all . Aameen.

How strange ! u are narrating the story of kashmir but showing the videos of different culture

Main problem hai log comparison krta hai + inn so called influencers jo show off krta + dowry + drugs + demands

My husband, s cousin is 42 still unmarried

Why to marry

Our kro nationalism tameez say pakistan kay saath ajatay to tumhara cukture bhi mehfooz rehta , religion bhi ,or sukoon say grow krrahay hotay Majority kashmiris are nationalist so this thing is bound to happen

How To Live In Harmony With Nature And Reduce Pollution 1. Many Production Which We Do Not Need Actually For Human Beings Has To Be Stopped We manufacture so many products and it is creating pollution. So if we minimise our products, pollution would be less. We produce so many things which we do not need, like cold drinks, leather products, potato wafers, chips, fruit juices, chocolates, biscuits, pickles, ice creams, etc. Cold drinks, fruit juices, pickles, ice creams, etc. Should be cooked at home only. If we stopped producing this things which are not required for humans, so much pollution could be reduced. If we colour the clothes pollution occurs. So if we don't colour our clothes, the pollution resulting from colouring the clothes can be stopped. Let everything remain in natural colour. 2. We Should Cook Foods In Its Natural Form We can cook rice and wheat in our homes and eat it. Rice and Wheat is produced in farms. Then it is packed and transported to big warehouses, then wholesalers buy from them and supply to retail shops. But if a manufacturing company makes bread from rice and wheat, then to make bread a manufacturing company has to be set up, machines and working staffs are needed. When a company is built many other things are also needed. Then at last a plastic pack is required to pack the breads. So if we start cooking eatable things in its natural form then we do not need many companies like bread manufacturing company, tomato ketchup, noodles, fruit jam, pizza, burger, etc., the things required for the company and the plastic pack, paper box pack and glass bottles. If done like this, so many companies will not be required and hence less pollution for the world. Also we could save our money like this. If you buy a packet of bread, it would cost you more money than if you cook wheat and rice in home. Previously before industrial revolution, we didn't have technology, but our foods were rich with nutrients. Now we have technology, but technology is polluting our foods and our foods are not rich with nutrients, and because of that also we have health problems. If this is done, then many jobs would be lost. For that many peoples should do farming and they should be given loans if they do not have enough money to start farming on their own. Food, Medicines, Surgeries and Education's should be made free to the world till the world settles down with farming. After that food, medicines, surgeries and education's should be stopped free to the world. Many people should study botany subject so that they have knowledge of plants and they should do farming. Is their any another solution, that humans won't lose jobs and also pollution would decrease. Humans have to take this step certainly instead of going on polluting the earth, making wildlife extinct and also mass extinctions of humans in future. 3. Electricity Pollution We create electricity from many types of sources like coal, water, etc., but it creates pollution. If electricity created from windmill and solar energy then no pollution occurs in the creation process. But still to manufacture windmill and solar machines pollution would occur. As I previously said that if we shut down many manufacturing companies which are producing things which are not needed for humans, then the world would not require so much electricity. If less electricity required, then less pollution generated. 4. Could We Stop Drinking Cow's and Buffalo's Milk Whatever vitamins and nutrients we get from milk, if we can get it from other eatable things, then we can stop drinking cow's and buffalo's milk. As milk has to be packed in glass bottles and plastic packs and then transported to places. All of this can be stopped. For infants whose mother's have died or mother's who cannot breast feed their infants, only for them cow's and buffalo's milk should be given. We use milk in tea and coffee. Instead of milk we must use coconut milk with tea. 5. How Much Should Be The World's Population Every place should have a single house. No buildings, everything ground floor. If we do this and the whole lands of our planet earth would be occupied one day with homes, farms, forests, schools, hospitals, etc., then we would come to know how much our planet earth can have maximum population. Once the population is determined, then we have to maintain that population. For example if our earth can have a population of 10 billion peoples, then when the population reaches 10 billion, then everyone should have only one child till the population reaches 9 billion peoples. As if we have only one child then the population decreases. When population is 9 billion peoples, then everyone should have 2 children's till the population reaches 10 billion peoples. After that again we should have only one child. In this way population can be maintained.

Allah Assan kare

The video is totally alien

Largely....when you are young you are more adjusting and flexible to your partners temperaments.....and its beautiful to build a long friendship with your partner from youth....and most importantly you have good energy and patience for the children....they grow with you ....having a ten year old when u r 35 is different from having a ten year old when u r 45..... regarding career finances.... it will all come along...always has....kids need there parents around......i myself got my first daughter at 33 ....its a blessing but how i played and had energy for my nephew at 23 ...i definitely cant now.....anyways.....this thinking and understanding and realisation will take a generation again to be understood.....

Thats why islam allows four marriages

due to lindu culture coming from tourism many problems as well as behayai is also spreading in kashmir tourists are openly using alcohol and local dont even try to kick them out, Ya Allah kashmir ko azadi naseeb farma or shariyat sy nawaz Ameen🤲☝🏴

Its such an irony, the most beautiful girls are in kashmir

Assalamu alaykum brother At age 35 woman enter into monopouse life cycle Good child get born in early 20s If anyone want to get married, please get the girl of early 20age girlwhere as man is totally different. you know Elon musk has 8kids.

Aaj ke time main aksar ladke 29 30 main shadi karte hain woh bhi apne se chhote 23 24 saal ke ladkiyo se isliye joh ladkiyo ko 29 30 saal ho jata hai toh rista nahi milta aur milta bhi hain toh Shai nahin isliye toda Dayan dena chahiye 24 25 saal tak kar Leni chaiye

its good,,,,girls getting married at 30

Kasheer gaii sirf khandraz fikr

Adopting western culture and inclusion of Hindu marriage rituals in kashmiri society leads to 40+ aged girls unmarried at home

Samilar trend hold for Jammu division too ....

Shadi jaldi karo musalmano rizq badta Allah kaha dekho haa Allah par yakeen hona chahiye aur mehnat karta rehna chahiye tabhi Allah rizq badate hai samaj ayi toh samjho future men aur women fertility rate girna wale dono baccha hona bhout mushkil hona 30 ke baad toh 50 percentage chances gir jate 40 tak toh bhout mushkil hoga ye main nahi western asian latin america Europeans sab doctors scientific researchers bolrahe plastic pollution food stress technology not sleeping aur bhi toh samjho Allah kyu kaha jaldi shadi karlo last 27 for men 2ya 25 female ab ke hisaab ya kum age karna chahte ho paisa toh 19 23 karsakte hai families