Unpacking Addiction, Finding Yourself and Our Strict Girlfriend rules with

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Thato Rampedi

Thato Rampedi

Күн бұрын

Another week another thought provoking, thought unpacking, thought digesting episode with Caiah and Mpho. Our guest for today is non other than Malome KZfaq himself Thato Rampedi.
In this episode the girls tell us what their strict girlfriend rules are, and our guest will be rating them on a scale of 1-5 (1 being unreasonable and 5 being reasonable). He also tells us some of his strict boyfriend rules. Don’t be afraid to tell us what are yours.
In today’s game the girls and Thato play a fun game of One must Go, where they decide what would they rather live without amongst the things they love.
On our next segment the topic of discussion is Addiction: Where the girls and Thato share if they have you dealt with addiction ? What is at the root of addiction? How did they overcome their addiction ? Forgiving yourself after relapse.
For our members: We will be delving into the concept of Finding Yourself. If we subscribe to that notion. How we individually define finding ourselves and if we ever will find ourselves.
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@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii
@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii 15 күн бұрын
One thing about Caiah, she is always comfortable and cozy here. What a healthy work environment. Big ups to the big boss Thato🎀
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 15 күн бұрын
Thato is the best boss ever ! I’ve got my feet on his couch and everything 😂😂😂
@MoetK21
@MoetK21 11 күн бұрын
We want Lebo with the girls too please🥲🥲🥲
@Botse_Maaboi
@Botse_Maaboi 15 күн бұрын
Editor please THE PINK SPARKLES 😭
@nkosazanatshabalala2711
@nkosazanatshabalala2711 14 күн бұрын
Broo😭😭
@JachinDitle
@JachinDitle 15 күн бұрын
I agree with Caiah's second strict rule. I don't want anyone to know about our relationship😂I don't want to meet your mom or cousins unless we are engaged. That's valid
@newangotsopeng3926
@newangotsopeng3926 15 күн бұрын
i high high high key miss the pink shining stars when a new topic is introduced😪
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 15 күн бұрын
We’re gonna confront the editor fr fr 😭😭
@lindiwegama412
@lindiwegama412 15 күн бұрын
Well first ( correct me if I'm wrong pls) it is against the bible to have a partner who's not christian when you are Christian.( 2 Corinthians 6:14) It is just not good for your spiritual life and will eventually bleed into all aspects of your life but I'm glad you recognize that Caiah. Also thank you for being a Christian girly who's so real and relatable, it's so refreshing. I agree with Mpho about the example of a Christian who is addicted to pornography correcting other christians on lust because for the fact that you would be aware of their addiction it means they are seeking help and like Paul they are dying to their flesh everyday as long as they are correcting you and not judging you, you can both help each and hold each other accountable. Great episode as always guys. Very knowledgeable and eye opening ❤
@elli-t
@elli-t 14 күн бұрын
liked how Mpho was so appreciative of her healthy relationship and how she is proud to have a partner 👌
@rosemah
@rosemah 15 күн бұрын
Caiah is in the coziest outfit. 🥰😂
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 15 күн бұрын
Well I tell you I was COMFORTABLE 😭😭😂
@liisaimmanuel
@liisaimmanuel 14 күн бұрын
I'm so glad that Caiah is being honest and transparent about being a Christian and dating a Muslim. I'm not for it but coming from someone who asked the question last week, thank you for answering and addressing the topic and being so transparent about it.
@florencemoyo499
@florencemoyo499 11 күн бұрын
Is the guy knownnn?
@seipati_
@seipati_ 6 күн бұрын
​@@florencemoyo499 Isn't King Omar?
@kattsomething
@kattsomething 15 күн бұрын
Caiah is just like me. As my partner, I don't want to meet/know your friends or family until we're going to be engaged to marry.
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 15 күн бұрын
Yebboooo💃🏾💃🏾
@dineovalencia
@dineovalencia 15 күн бұрын
I also agree but I had a situation with my bf where he introduced me to his family, I told him that let it be us for now before anybody else because i don't want pressure for either of us but he said he felt the need to in order for me to see that he is serious about me and his parents told him that he should only come with a girl only when he sees a future with them...
@naomimwikali6329
@naomimwikali6329 14 күн бұрын
I love how you've represented Christ without fear or shame, I enjoy listening to your update and progression on your relationship with God. On Caiahs' relationship with a Muslim, I think the bible is clear on being equally yoked and the reason you're finding it difficult to post as usual could be a conviction from the Holy Spirit. Being with a Muslim is difficult since the basis of Christianity is Jesus being the saviour and that's what they don't agree so their faith discredit everything about your faith. Talk to God about it though, He will guide you as always😊
@pilisapiliso9647
@pilisapiliso9647 15 күн бұрын
I love Caiah so much, she debunks so many religion norms ! She is ssooo open about how ones real walk with God truly is
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 14 күн бұрын
Ugh man, this walk is so difficult. And I want nothing more than to be an example that God carries us through it ALL. No matter how difficult, confusing or destabilising a season is. I’m so glad you received this❤️
@mballynkosi6518
@mballynkosi6518 15 күн бұрын
This channel has beautiful conversations! Thought digest and Seated are beautiful shows. I always learn and reflect almost every episode! Love, love the content Thato!❤️❤️
@lebontshweng7472
@lebontshweng7472 9 күн бұрын
Mpho is so smart, I agree with her on the genetics part about substance addiction and one being susceptible to it if let's say a fam member was or is addicted
@ethichadebe
@ethichadebe 14 күн бұрын
This is a tough pod to listen to, this is a very uncomfortable but extremely necessary conversation, thank you guys for this
@liisaimmanuel
@liisaimmanuel 14 күн бұрын
Caiah Is such a smart girl, she really knows how to speak, her body language, posture, everytime she speaks I immediately want to listen.
@liisaimmanuel
@liisaimmanuel 14 күн бұрын
I love the way Mpho reasons and the way she's such an open minded person, I love it🤍
@shammahshirinda4280
@shammahshirinda4280 11 күн бұрын
Mr editor sir, please give us our sparkles hle😢
@thotoaneramakhula9140
@thotoaneramakhula9140 15 күн бұрын
I hear the friends chat. But truth be told, seeing your man with his friend reveals a lot about him, I am 50-50 with that one😅
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 15 күн бұрын
Actually🤔🤔
@liisaimmanuel
@liisaimmanuel 14 күн бұрын
Thank you for joining us this week Thato, thank you for being so open and transparent.
@Rorisang_.
@Rorisang_. 15 күн бұрын
I do think the equally yoked chat wasn’t mentioned when Thato asked the question of dating outside of Christian faith
@Prince_Haremgard
@Prince_Haremgard 15 күн бұрын
I so want a seated with lebo and thato rampedi please thatoooo!!!
@itsjustmpho5978
@itsjustmpho5978 14 күн бұрын
Caiah, your bravery and openness to talk about real issues and relate them to yours is so inspiring❤.........you go in girl
@RizzMedalion
@RizzMedalion 14 күн бұрын
As a gent that pour a bit too much when I'm with a partner I can relate to where Thato is rn and I'm also on that journey of loving and appreciating myself lately. It's always tough at the beginning because of limerence but it gets easier as you go. Big s/o to you bro and s/o to the ladies dope pod, keep em coming.
@kekeletsolicela5961
@kekeletsolicela5961 15 күн бұрын
This was such a good episode !!!! Thato must come back
@NeoTshoagang-yq1wh
@NeoTshoagang-yq1wh 15 күн бұрын
I love you Caiah and Mpho❤
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 15 күн бұрын
We love you too !!
@lerevofficial4683
@lerevofficial4683 11 күн бұрын
Caiah dont switch..i know its easier said than done..praying for you❤
@nnonhle341
@nnonhle341 15 күн бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Also learned a few things. Thanks guys!
@lethabolekalakala6652
@lethabolekalakala6652 15 күн бұрын
this was such a wholesome episode . thank you ladies 💕💕
@SibsM93
@SibsM93 15 күн бұрын
Thee best Thought Digest episode ever!!! By far!
@nokhwezikhumalo3970
@nokhwezikhumalo3970 10 күн бұрын
Neeeee❤
@kumkanikazi.27
@kumkanikazi.27 4 күн бұрын
Word
@lethuvinindwa2597
@lethuvinindwa2597 14 күн бұрын
First-time watcher here. I'm definitely coming for more, very informed and informative convo👌👌
@Lerato_Makgati
@Lerato_Makgati 15 күн бұрын
Your outfits are jelling together guys🔥🔥❤
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 14 күн бұрын
Unplanned too😂😂
@LethoMbonane
@LethoMbonane 15 күн бұрын
I thought I was crazy for not wanting to meet family and friends while I’m still a girlfriend 😭😭, there is NO need
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 14 күн бұрын
No need whatsoeverrrrr😭 Then I get super attached unnecessarily
@mokhantsoletsela
@mokhantsoletsela Күн бұрын
I'd love to hear the three of you talk about attachment styles
@_Montlenyana22
@_Montlenyana22 15 күн бұрын
Beautiful episode guys! 🙏🏻❤️
@pitutie_girl
@pitutie_girl 15 күн бұрын
Finally, yall uploaded on time. I was soo excited when i saw the drop ❤
@mphorakodi7347
@mphorakodi7347 2 күн бұрын
Caiah's Second strict rule used to be my number 1 strict rule. 😭😭 very reasonable though!!!
@Yandie425
@Yandie425 15 күн бұрын
I love the bond 🥺❤️
@everybodyknowswhitey
@everybodyknowswhitey 15 күн бұрын
This was such an amazing episode man i loved it ♥🥰
@Thabii_
@Thabii_ 14 күн бұрын
This episode was incredible! I loved it and found it so educational and relatable. Thank you much!
@natasha.kafumbe
@natasha.kafumbe 13 күн бұрын
Every week I am here. This podcast is everything and more
@katlegophiri79
@katlegophiri79 15 күн бұрын
Finally made the time to come watch 😊❤
@loideuuzigo697
@loideuuzigo697 13 күн бұрын
I learn so much from this channel 🥺, i love and appreciate you guys soo much❤
@karabolepheana7657
@karabolepheana7657 9 күн бұрын
If someone is going to cheat on you they will, it doesn't matter if you have rules, have access to their devices, curfews, etc. Unfortunately a relationship is a risk, can't runaway from that🤷‍♂️ some risks pay off and some don't 😊
@neonation6801
@neonation6801 15 күн бұрын
very informative on addiction❣i will definetly FORGIVE myself💓💓💓💓💓💓
@ofentsemorobe
@ofentsemorobe 15 күн бұрын
Very informative and delightful episode❤ got to learn a few things about myself and also I took away quite a lot of things.you guys are an inspiration
@Mr_Munene
@Mr_Munene 14 күн бұрын
First time I’ve sat through an entire episode cause I mostly watch seated.. equally an amazing time🤞🏿
@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii
@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii 15 күн бұрын
Caiah with the friends and family chat? She cooked. I don't want to love your family too much, then when it ends I'm attached to your family because I come from a toxic and now you've introduced me to your healthy family. Now I find reason to stay in a toxic relationship. No thank you
@pilisapiliso9647
@pilisapiliso9647 15 күн бұрын
the way i was so excited and expectant to see the pink sparkles
@nokhwezikhumalo3970
@nokhwezikhumalo3970 10 күн бұрын
This is one of the best episodes touched down 😭♥️
@lindiweQueenFoko
@lindiweQueenFoko 7 күн бұрын
Enjoyed this,thank you guys!❤
@nkosazanatshabalala2711
@nkosazanatshabalala2711 14 күн бұрын
This was super informative as always ofcourse ❤
@WetsoMogorosi
@WetsoMogorosi 15 күн бұрын
and is like "iyoo"😂😂😂❤i love Thato so much!!
@siyethembamahaye9144
@siyethembamahaye9144 14 күн бұрын
That addiction topic got me like “Hi, I’m Kevin. I’m an addict.” 😅
@khanyisilekhanyi5428
@khanyisilekhanyi5428 14 күн бұрын
I looove this episode so much! Thato should deffs come back
@kut-words
@kut-words 11 күн бұрын
This is a great show! 😆I enjoyed this, especially the part when Mammi dearest looked at the camera on the "God and singleness" question part. 😄
@snikiwezamazwide7566
@snikiwezamazwide7566 4 күн бұрын
It's my first time here and I'm loving this❤❤❤
@msrorisang
@msrorisang 12 күн бұрын
When Mpho said “Thank God”😭❤️
@ItsRauha
@ItsRauha 11 күн бұрын
Appreciate this Episode ❤
@Moeti2915
@Moeti2915 15 күн бұрын
When are the gents gonna get Seated with Lebo and Thato though❤🤲?
@Geegee-r1n
@Geegee-r1n 14 күн бұрын
Thato is right, sometimes the opposite company is great even if you not dating.. Guys stop being too hard on yourselves! Sometimes as ladies when we go to clubs then guys just come chill with us we have a good time,part away after ,no messing around!thats how life is!
@BRIGHTONMATHEBULA
@BRIGHTONMATHEBULA 15 күн бұрын
Great episode ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@rosemah
@rosemah 15 күн бұрын
Still no sparkles 😭
@vuyokazimjomle1323
@vuyokazimjomle1323 4 күн бұрын
Thato is very diplomatic, the way he answers
@misstereo
@misstereo 7 күн бұрын
I LOVED THISSS
@dephneyramphisa6724
@dephneyramphisa6724 12 күн бұрын
Lovely episode
@lekaka_le_brown
@lekaka_le_brown 7 күн бұрын
Thank you guys for putting me on. Now I know to keep my data off for find my iPhone hun let it slip that she tracks me "sometimes"
@KwaneleSikhosana....
@KwaneleSikhosana.... 14 күн бұрын
My addiction is that I am always on my phone form the time I open my eyes till I close them.The reason for that is like I am always on my thoughts which result in getting sleepless nights so I am on my phone till I get tired and also my phone is my bestie cause that's where you will find me laughing and happy cause I can't stay with people for too long
@loideuuzigo697
@loideuuzigo697 13 күн бұрын
Same 😢 and for me it's because I stay alone most of the time. I'm unemployed and depressed and I treat my phone as as escape goat from reality . It's not good but that's just my life 🥺
@KwaneleSikhosana....
@KwaneleSikhosana.... 13 күн бұрын
@loideuuzigo697 I hope you find a job that you will be excited about and also find some podcast or show in KZfaq space that can keep you laughing and help you in a way❤️love and light
@loideuuzigo697
@loideuuzigo697 13 күн бұрын
@@KwaneleSikhosana.... thank you so much ☺️
@wakunyambomwalusi6484
@wakunyambomwalusi6484 15 күн бұрын
On the live location part, Caiah and I are literally the same please 😭🤣
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 14 күн бұрын
😭😭we know ourselves. We’ll drive ourselves crazy
@NolwaziSibiya_
@NolwaziSibiya_ 10 күн бұрын
FIRST THINGS FIRST, YOU GUYS LOOK GOOD AND THE COLOURS ARE COODINATING😍
@phographyandlife9932
@phographyandlife9932 14 күн бұрын
I truly relate to Mpho's addiction, Nd it's something that I need to work on because I'm always on my phone
@thulzzz583
@thulzzz583 11 күн бұрын
I'm not a podcast person but I'm enjoying this❤
@kabodithabe
@kabodithabe 13 күн бұрын
This was beautiful!!!
@kabodithabe
@kabodithabe 13 күн бұрын
Thato must visit more often
@apollosmartyn
@apollosmartyn 14 күн бұрын
Great work ❤❤❤Namibia 🇳🇦
@thecelebriteagossip
@thecelebriteagossip 9 күн бұрын
Can we have Lebo next😊
@judithngake9577
@judithngake9577 8 күн бұрын
I love Mpho so much
@walterwhite7976
@walterwhite7976 9 күн бұрын
Nah that's enough seated with. I'm a Though Digest broer now 😭 I'm healed.
@Shuzz_Production02
@Shuzz_Production02 Күн бұрын
Damn this is powerful. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@delleuniverse2735
@delleuniverse2735 14 күн бұрын
First of all I loooove this podcast and this is constructive criticism coz I love y’all. Mami, I think you interrupt people when they try to get their point across, it used to happen to me a lot when I was talking to my friends and it’s a habit that I’m working on letting go and I think you should too. I get it , sometimes we’re so passionate within a conversation that we wanna add something immediately but I still think it’s good to learn the habit of controlling that❤️❤️
@JoyLutangu
@JoyLutangu 12 күн бұрын
Seated is the top on the list❤❤
@Rorisang_.
@Rorisang_. 15 күн бұрын
Ngl and not that my opinion has value because I’m literally a stranger but when I saw Caiah date a Muslim…I found that a bit questionable.
@nzamafamily7nzama766
@nzamafamily7nzama766 14 күн бұрын
Editor was like, “I ain’t doing that”😭😭😭
@Imvubu.dablack
@Imvubu.dablack 15 күн бұрын
Yoh I also love kissing hle I've dumped a lot of people because of that issue
@vuyokazimjomle1323
@vuyokazimjomle1323 4 күн бұрын
Very informative and interesting episode
@jessicakleinbooi7750
@jessicakleinbooi7750 8 күн бұрын
Its always Mphos giggle for me 🤣🤣
@ApheleleButhelezi-n5c
@ApheleleButhelezi-n5c 15 күн бұрын
they must read life of pie 🤣
@dinelagomutota9240
@dinelagomutota9240 10 күн бұрын
Caiah, can we please talk about how you couldn't hold it in about " I always date people who are nonchalant "😭😂
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 10 күн бұрын
😂😂I was instantly concerned
@demberamel7197
@demberamel7197 13 күн бұрын
No because watching this came up with some life lessons ❤
@user-cj2vc3fc8w
@user-cj2vc3fc8w 12 күн бұрын
I have not watched this in long time and it's like I was in therapy thato must come back more for bros please and bring Lebo also
@Anomthajaco
@Anomthajaco 14 күн бұрын
"that's a real thing because our alcohol problem is deep" 🤣🤣 Mammi nhe
@phumelelamkhonto2219
@phumelelamkhonto2219 13 күн бұрын
Interesting👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@den.ii_se
@den.ii_se 15 күн бұрын
Does this mean we are getting an episode of seated with ?😭😭😭 it's been a month Thato
@vukonaanita9879
@vukonaanita9879 15 күн бұрын
“your saying bye to your husband?”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kamogelothamaga5751
@kamogelothamaga5751 14 күн бұрын
Wisdom dropped ❤️ 🥹 sound track title?
@loideuuzigo697
@loideuuzigo697 13 күн бұрын
Let's talk about the video quality 👌 ❤❤
@shashat.w.o7497
@shashat.w.o7497 14 күн бұрын
I can relate with Thato a good kiss feels like heaven
@vincentmacamo6301
@vincentmacamo6301 14 күн бұрын
13:00 I believe before religion we are Humans and a Principle or base of Human intention should be placed as FIRST to create a family. you can't say I won't leave religion and deprive yourself of creating a family. and this is the mistake alot of people make, its something everyone should learn from our elders when a woman is married by a Man she leaves her church and joins the Mans, you can choose what to submit on and what not to submit on. relationship is not that hence alot fail because people create double standards.
@WetsoMogorosi
@WetsoMogorosi 15 күн бұрын
Mpho's phone addiction is me😫👍🏽
@charlottemygal528
@charlottemygal528 12 күн бұрын
I really like caiah
@vincentmacamo6301
@vincentmacamo6301 14 күн бұрын
57:00 am glad there's such thing as personal opinion in this life.
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