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Toxic family dynamics can sneak up on you in a family full of favortism, emotional traps, and jealousy.
How are you supposed to identify your own strengths, heal your broken pieces, and move into a healthy future in a family that creates alliances and coalitions and then pushes you outside of the "family system?"
You may find it very hard to do that in a family like this.
The first step towards healing is identifying family favortism and jealousy.
The second step is accepting family favortism and jealousy is existing in your personal story.
The third step...let's talk about that!
In this live chat, I discuss the psychology of favortism and how to heal from family jealousy.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
3:40 you know what the truth is
8:06 family alliance/toxic parent-sibling duo ("the twins")
11:00 emotional deprivation
13:37 family differentiation (correction: differ-en-tiation)
18:54 kids know ...
21:50 family alliances can occur with more than one sibling
25:41 WHAT HAPPENTS TO THE SIBLINGS
34:38 favortism can start in infancy
35:49 toxic family shapes personality
37:07 family alliances can create "robots"
47:35 WHAT HAPPENS AS THE DISFAVORED CHILD
*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Video (research & further information):
1. Differential parenting and sibling jealousy: Developmental correlates of young adults' romantic relationships
www.ncbi.nlm.n...
2. The relationship between parental role expectations and sibling jealousy: the mediating effect of first-born children’s role cognition
www.ncbi.nlm.n...
3. Parenting Characteristics and Callous-Unemotional Traits in Children Aged 0-6 Years: A Systematic Narrative Review
link.springer....
4. Heritable and non-heritable pathways to early callous-unemotional behaviors
www.ncbi.nlm.n...
5. Heritable and Nonheritable Pathways to Early
Callous-Unemotional Behaviors
ajp.psychiatry...
6. The Heritability of Callous and Unemotional Traits
www.psychology...
7. Mommy Dearest movie • Mommie Dearest
8. Aspects of morbid jealousy
www.cambridge....
9. The relationship between parental role expectations and sibling jealousy: the mediating effect of first-born children’s role cognition
www.ncbi.nlm.n...
10. The Role of Perceived Maternal Favoritism in Sibling Relations in Midlife
www.ncbi.nlm.n...
11. A psychological analysis of parental favortism and hyprocrycy of family love in Mansfield's New Dresses'
American Research Journal of English and Literature, 4, (1), 2018, 1-10 pages
Doi: 10.21694/2378-9026.1805
12. How Family Alliances Affect Your Daughter
www.familyeduc...
13. Early Maladaptive Schemas and Their Impact on Parenting: Do Dysfunctional Schemas Pass Generationally?-A Systematic Review
www.ncbi.nlm.n...
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