UNWED MOTHER - ABC 1965

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M DeMarco

M DeMarco

9 жыл бұрын

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@reneetone8965
@reneetone8965 5 жыл бұрын
No consequences of "loving out of wedlock" for men, of course.
@michellewoods1779
@michellewoods1779 4 ай бұрын
I was an unwed mother in the early 90's at barely 16, I was one of the fortunate ones that once the shock of it wore off, my family rallied around me and supported my decision to keep him! He is now 31 years old and although it was a challenge in the early years, I wouldn't change it for anything!!! I am so glad that the stigma of unwed mothers and the support system available has changed over the years!
@kimturner9309
@kimturner9309 6 жыл бұрын
I swear I don’t know how any of us survived this experience.
@msoda8516
@msoda8516 6 жыл бұрын
kdecrow1 I’m grateful to the strong women like you that came before me.
@kimberlymegoran
@kimberlymegoran 5 жыл бұрын
It is so out of control ridiculous this logic, control, mind warped thinking that I was born from. I am an adopted child. I still am an adopted child. Adopted in 1962. Born in the Booth Home in Grand Rapids MI>
@MDeMarco
@MDeMarco 5 жыл бұрын
@@kimberlymegoran I unearthed this because I worked at Inwood House. We're the organization in here that DOESN'T have the nun. (we're the one that has the smoking psychologist!) I'm happy to say we never shamed our clients. It was a place for pregnant girls to come- girls who were destitute and had no place to go, and girls who were in college, got pregnant and "went to spend the summer with an aunt." (which is what their parents told friends.)
@sylviadiymack8988
@sylviadiymack8988 4 жыл бұрын
@@kimberlymegoran sont you want to look for your bilogicsl parents. I watch long lost family and they can help you. I hope you grew up in a safe and happy home.
@susaneirthug415
@susaneirthug415 4 жыл бұрын
In 1965 Sarasota. Was there a home there ? I cant find my bio mother.
@GetTheGrandFunkOut
@GetTheGrandFunkOut 4 жыл бұрын
My God! I never knew this aired on the ABC-TV News in 1965! I am convinced that we children (girls) growing up in the 1960's should have watched every TV news special that came on at 10 p.m. when we were either doing homework or preparing for bed! We asked our parents these questions and they told us girls NOTHING, leaving so many of us ultimately to get knocked up and abandoned!
@BlackFlagHeathen
@BlackFlagHeathen 3 жыл бұрын
I swear everyone had the exact same voice back then.
@ladyoxygene24
@ladyoxygene24 Жыл бұрын
I recently learned actually that it wasn't their voices so much as it was the recording equipment at the time-it distorted them
@TheNotBees
@TheNotBees 5 жыл бұрын
So much courage and strength under truly horrific societal repression.
@AllBling
@AllBling 5 жыл бұрын
Strength maybe. Courage not so much. We had no choice.
@YFL.111
@YFL.111 2 жыл бұрын
@@AllBling why not courage?
@deloressullivan9830
@deloressullivan9830 2 жыл бұрын
OMG. This is so the way it was and so horribly wrong, so damaging to the child to lose their family of origin and the shaming and labeling of young women. Horrific
@frorasu3949
@frorasu3949 2 жыл бұрын
Keep your legs closed so you wouldn't have anything to worry about.
@YFL.111
@YFL.111 2 жыл бұрын
@@frorasu3949 mh... I think it takes two to make a baby😅 You can open your legs as you want that without a.man you wont get pregnant.
@bonitamartin4954
@bonitamartin4954 Жыл бұрын
When I was in junior high school (1973-1976) I noticed that only "good girls" got pregnant. None of them had contraceptives because none of them intended to go all the way. At 16, I had no intention either, but I began to carry contraceptives in my purse. I thought, you don't insure your car because you PLAN to have a wreck! Funny thing is, I was a virgin when I married. I didn't need the insurance, but I still consider it money well spent.
@videoettaceo8900
@videoettaceo8900 3 жыл бұрын
I was scooped from MY mother and I am so angry 😡 at what they did to us.
@lavenderfields5923
@lavenderfields5923 2 жыл бұрын
Me too. I hate adoption and I hate Christians at this point.
@YFL.111
@YFL.111 2 жыл бұрын
What is the meaning of scooped? I am so sorry that happened to you. Yes christianity has been the source of so much pain and uncompasionated acts throught history. Its sad, because I do believe in God , not in a christian way thou. But for sure Jesus was a great master. And see what people did with it. Judgement, emotional torture, etc. Hopefully society will evolve and its evolving slowly
@aaronware2174
@aaronware2174 2 жыл бұрын
I was born July 9,1965 was immediately put out for adoption
@videoettaceo8900
@videoettaceo8900 8 ай бұрын
​@@YFL.111the baby scoop era was a time of basically forced adoptions. I want to say that in spite of my experience, I'm very grateful for my adoptive parents.. Amen.
@YFL.111
@YFL.111 8 ай бұрын
@@videoettaceo8900 I am glad you had great adoptive parents. You must know your biological mum loved you so much too, but in that times they were forced to hide unwed pregnancies. Thank God society is evolving and that doesnt happen anymore. Sometimes you look at the past and realize some stuff was quite barbaric or primitive even just 50 years ago. Anyway I feel God always manages to make a good plan for people's lifes eventually
@meetmarkarit732
@meetmarkarit732 7 жыл бұрын
Dear Lord... these people were so abnormal back in the day.
@momoftwins8440
@momoftwins8440 5 жыл бұрын
Glad some communities & districts came to their senses and began to teach their children about sex education. This was a horrible era for the female. Everything is always the burden on the female!!!
@robertcuminale1212
@robertcuminale1212 2 жыл бұрын
I was born in Lennox Hill Hospital in May 1951. My mother was 16 and not married. I sometimes wish she had given me up for adoption. My life could have been so much better than it was. She married my father when they'd reached the legal age for marriage and had 7 more kids. My father's mental problems left us very poor in all categories. We were and still are a very dysfunctional family. I survived it all but my siblings did not and now their children are paying the price with broken families. I'm married 50 years and had a peaceful home the whole time. I did it by leaving them to their craziness to concentrate on my own family.
@iceybrice
@iceybrice 3 жыл бұрын
My mom never got to meet her mother because of this. Honestly, fuck the entire "nuclear family" concept that's shoved down peoples throats. Let families love in their own natural ways. Society sucks.
@BlackFlagHeathen
@BlackFlagHeathen 3 жыл бұрын
That’s really progressive for the time that the home took in women of all races and nationalities. I imagine minority and immigrant women were especially at risk for unwanted or unwed pregnancy. I wonder if the home was segregated though.
@jimansbro6756
@jimansbro6756 2 жыл бұрын
In 1959 I was born in St. Elizabeth's Hospital (see @ 10min) ; I have my ma's hall pass to see me once - never to meet again.
@mrmrsmsmisscloud7512
@mrmrsmsmisscloud7512 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for your pain.
@uglytuco
@uglytuco Жыл бұрын
Have you tried doing DNA?
@jimansbro6756
@jimansbro6756 Жыл бұрын
@@uglytuco oh yes - DNA works miracles !
@jimansbro6756
@jimansbro6756 Жыл бұрын
@@uglytuco oh yes - DNA works miracles !
@annagonzales8178
@annagonzales8178 11 ай бұрын
To “cram a lifetime of love in one hour” 😢
@sillysgood
@sillysgood 4 жыл бұрын
Now I think I know why my mother attended this institution
@MDeMarco
@MDeMarco 4 жыл бұрын
Which one? Inwood House?
@annagonzales8178
@annagonzales8178 11 ай бұрын
Thank God for DNA. Yes men would say”it’s your problem and walk away. Many women had to deal w shame guilt and try to make sense of life changing situations without being clued in to the fact that men would walk away. Thank God for DNA and these homes that gave girls(aged 10) and women shelter respite and care during probably their scariest moments. Bravo to all who participated in this.
@jeniferbass7484
@jeniferbass7484 2 жыл бұрын
The problem lies with the narcissists in this world, past and present, not women who got ensnared by them. They get what the want, any way they can, and LEAVE, get with someone else.
@LiveByDesign
@LiveByDesign 2 жыл бұрын
Yep
@BlackFlagHeathen
@BlackFlagHeathen 3 жыл бұрын
I like the mindset of the psychologist at 14:20 or so. Ahead of his time. The nun, on the other hand... 😬
@annagonzales8178
@annagonzales8178 11 ай бұрын
Catholicism has never been kind to single mothers. How could you be when sex education and teen pregnancy was taboo. Sex relations outside a marriage was damnation? We’ve come a long way and still tons of work to help our daughters sisters feel empowered w choosing when and who w to become parents.
@BrandyTexas214
@BrandyTexas214 2 жыл бұрын
I’m trying to find a baby my grandma gave up in the 60’s..
@VegasVixen
@VegasVixen Жыл бұрын
23 and me is pretty helpful finding lost relatives
@aprilw8565
@aprilw8565 5 жыл бұрын
Do you have any more videos of st Elizabeth's unwed mother home in san Francisco I am doing some research on my aunt's birth there
@MDeMarco
@MDeMarco 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry, but this is all I have.
@BlackFlagHeathen
@BlackFlagHeathen 3 жыл бұрын
13:30: Ladies and gentlemen, the 60s. 🚬
@daniiiakasha4711
@daniiiakasha4711 3 жыл бұрын
Did she say third grade?
@justred5164
@justred5164 27 күн бұрын
Mean ole nun!
@madamelogicbombdropperblac7799
@madamelogicbombdropperblac7799 2 жыл бұрын
Damn, they are all in the dark and shit🙄🙄🙄🙄
@bethrogers5553
@bethrogers5553 2 жыл бұрын
Now it’s very common for girls to get pregnant outside of marriage. The problem is especially prevalent among minority populations.
@albihysenaj5997
@albihysenaj5997 Жыл бұрын
No it’s not times changed girls don’t get pregnant anymore girls got pregnant back then and outside of marriage back then not today
@srso4660
@srso4660 Жыл бұрын
How is this a "problem"? 😂😂😂
@justred5164
@justred5164 27 күн бұрын
Illegitimate child 😂😂 so the child isn’t a legitimate child L😂😂
@patriottroll1764
@patriottroll1764 5 жыл бұрын
Has anyone heard or read the statistics on children raised without fathers? It was better this way. Shot gun wedding or put the baby up for adoption to a nice married couple.
@catherinelynch6669
@catherinelynch6669 5 жыл бұрын
Patriot TROLL??
@dianecrossfield8276
@dianecrossfield8276 4 жыл бұрын
Adoption is a life sentence for a crime the child did not commit. Adoption is the worst choice.
@videoettaceo8900
@videoettaceo8900 3 жыл бұрын
Fu.
@patriottroll1764
@patriottroll1764 3 жыл бұрын
@@dianecrossfield8276 OH yeah, where are your stats to prove it?
@barnowlces3883
@barnowlces3883 3 жыл бұрын
@@dianecrossfield8276 sorry if you had a bad experience (you sound bitter) but I am an adopted person and have had a much better life, more available parents and more opportunities than I ever would have had with my biological mother who drank and starved herself while pregnant with me
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