She better tell her brother ASAP because when he DOES find out, their relationship may not withstand it.

I think her brother deserves to know. I mean it is ok for her to decide to stay with her husband if she wants, but her brother should be able to have the information so he can make an informed decision about his relationship with his wife. Her silence is robbing him of that decision.

If her brother ever finds out that she knew he will be extremely pissed.

Also something they didn’t mention…is where is they loyalty to your brother???? The brother will find out and then Her brother os not only going to be so upset with the situation but feel stabbed in the back by his own blood sister for keeping this from him and making him look a fool. Looks like the loyalty is going to the cheater instead of your own brother. Wrong on so many levels. That brother is going to literally feel betrayed by everyone around him! Family till the end #1

There is no amount of counseling that would ever make me trust him again.

My ex husband of nearly a 10 year relationship did the same. Only more so. It also turns out that the entire time of our marriage he was messing around. He got so cocky because I was so blind to it all. My brothers wife seemed like the ultimate challenge only it failed as my brother caught them. After giving him the opportunity to confess to me. He didn't. I will never forget the look on my brothers face when he told me. It did ruin our family. I lost my husband, my brother, his wife (who was a life long friend double betrayal there) my poor mother was heart broken. In the end I'd lost everything because of these actions. That was 20 years ago and even though it took a long time to get over it all and rebuild my life to move forward, once in a blue moon I will hear some thing of a similar and my heart goes out to them and a reminder of the pain pops up. I hope they mean what they both say and that they all salvage and grow good relationships. X

The brother eventually will find out through some means. And then it will be worse

Everyone knows but her brother. Ouch. If her brother finds out now he would probably be devastated to find everyone in this close group is lying to him. I hope he never finds out now in some ways because she can't trust her husband or her brothers wife and is now by her decision to keep this information from her brother possibly destroying his ability to trust her. Or so he might feel if he finds out... He's the one who probably would still love her if their struggling cheating partners end out leaving. Messy

Family first

Tell the brother you need too

I think you are doing the right thing! This way both marriages can be saved! ❤️

Can you please do follow up Thursday on construction swinger .. where couple they were swinging with are siblings

3 out of the 4 people know if the brother founded out later it will be bad

Knowing dam well this will create resentment and feelings of separation for the non-bio kids. "Blended" family, yeah right! These are 2 seperate and distinct families the POS dad created. The dad is willing to do this because the current family is more important to him. The "outside" kids will know it soon too.