I was actually let go from UPS as a package shorter for being too "Gentle" with stuff and slowing down the line. lol sorry I was trying to make sure stuff marked fragile didn't get broke.

On the pregnancy one, he needs to get his ass kicked. When my ex wife was pregnant, I worked full time, made sure she was cooked for and ate properly, I even helped with shaving. Like Bro. It's your kid too.

Story #1: I love that he said “I want drama”. Fuck yeah dude, get after them. I hate when big business can flash around their money and do whatever they want. Fuck that, take them down

Story 2 I think the Person is right to say: Girl Run! There is nothing to talk at that point.... OP just asked him to put out the lights and someone who's 'just a little lazy' (like me) would've done that when OP's not feeling well... And his reaction, telling OP that she has to do everything except going to work was just out of place... She just asked him to put out the lights himself. He showed his true face in that moment and then walking off to his Mommy like a Baby, get an abortion because if OP get's the Baby with this Man she has two Children to raise! This Man is definitely not ready to be a Father!

Story 2: I'd have told the SIL and MIL "Well then, tell him to stay there and expect the divorce papers very, very soon.. and that I'll be making sure to have the baby DNA tested, and will compel one on him if need be to ensure he's paying the maximum in child support and alimony I can get from him." and then just hung up.. Her husband's a total jerk.

Story 1 not the jerk Story 2 not the jerk Story 3 not the jerk. He is just a good friend Story 4 not the jerk

4: the moment the aunt decide to voice her opinion on the matter was an invitation to do what OP did.

Story 1: Who was he dealing with? Was it the local office or the head office in the UK? He should have tried the main corporate office for the entire UPS world wide and lay it all out. When the guys at the very top are receiving complaints that should have been handled at the local level they know there is something very wrong and would look into it. If that doesn't work social media is a pretty good way to get them to look into it and resolve it. Large corporation won't take chances of their reputation taking a hit, something like this would bring others with similar complaints out into the light. Story 2: She should have recorded the husbands rants and played it out for his mother to listen too. If she still takes his side then I say break up with the guy. If she stays with him then when he gets sick she should leave him to his own devices and say she is too busy with the house work and the child and that he's a man, he should just take it and "push through". Story 3: Uh no this is someone else wedding and it's their day not hers, she can wear something like that on her wedding but not to someone else wedding. Story 4: it's easy to judge someone for something when you're not the one experiencing it. The aunt is the jerk, not the OP. I would so do the same since the aunt does have extra room.

1) I work in credit card chargebacks and I’ve heard disaster stories involving transportation services every day for the past decade. Whether it’s courier services or moving companies, every call I get is regarding damaged goods. It sucks because I always have to say that there’s no chargeback recourse as these services are about transporting the goods, not the state that the goods arrive in. Damages to goods have to be settled with the merchant, insurance, or in the case of this story, the courts. One thing all of these stories have in common: the merchant doesn’t resolve the issue. So, in short, OP is not a jerk. This is essentially the only thing he could do; without even getting into the family tragedy. 2) It’s a bit hypocritical to pursue childbirth and at the same time state that nothing will change. What does the husband think childbirth is if not a change? As stated in the commentary, they needed to have a serious conversation about their responsibilities as soon as they decided to pursue childbirth. Their living arrangement may have been reasonable leading up to that point but it can’t be sustained once that pregnancy test comes back positive. Pregnancy, childbirth, and the subsequent raising of kids doesn’t adhere to any singular plan/understanding. Parents have to adapt to ever-changing situations and one may have to do more than the other at any given moment. It’s random, frustrating, hard, unfair, and long-lasting. The question is, do you love your partner and your child(ren) enough to put up with that? 3) Ahh… the classic ‘I have a right to self-express’ argument that leaves out the ‘you do not have the right to self express’ part. I believe George Carlin said it best: I have the right to do anything I please. But, if I do something you don’t like, I think you have the right to kill me. Girlfriend can express herself how she likes as long as everyone around her can do the same. In this case, it just so happens that the OP realizes she’s not the one for him and she’s no longer welcome to the wedding. 4) Yeah, why wasn’t the aunt the first choice to house the brother after the parents? OP is not the jerk. She essentially became a family member in need and by the aunt’s own stated morals, she should take the brother in. Cheekiness aside, the aunt isn’t the problem, the brother is. He’s clearly comfortable with freeloading and doesn’t like being confronted about it. He’ll either change his attitude or he’ll run out of people to leech off of. It just happened with his sister. It’ll eventually happen with the aunt.

Last story. I've always wondered why this doesn't happen more often. Other family members complain that you don't want to help? Okay, you help them then 😂

Imagine being a baby about a small fee when you’re a multi-billion dollar company Imagine harassing a woman so much she died.

Story 3: that always gets me. You can't call it karma if you're the one dishing it out. Life dishes out karma, not you, that's just revenge, plain and simple.

Story #2 time for fetus delutus and leave he seems to view her as a oldschool housewife

I'm from your tiktok, I love your content

I used to work at ups we broke majority of the packages we don’t get paid enough to care about your packages

It funny hearing the comments you can tell who is single and who isn't or in a more stable relationship versus who isn't

Keep up the work

Lmao imagine giving someone SIX MONTHS of mooching after he’s done it his whole life

I'm here from your ohnickel channel and wondered what happened and now I found you,and you narrate the stories so well.

his mother would be so proud :)

Go to UPS and pull them into a room and tell them you will have them get gobbles up by the vampire bat demon dragon monster

I would very much like advice from the first OP, since USPS illegally sold my address and PHONE NUMBER to local businesses who then illegally contacted me. I am STILL getting unsolicited calls, despite being on the national DO NOT CALL registry and never having done business with me before. Forbes and other publications have reported on this, but it has not been stopped.

😂 I watch Arthur and I’ve watched that episode but I didn’t know someone made a meme about it 😂

10:54 "I mean you can still dress zany" When I heard zany I thought they were talking to me, my nicknames zany and I go by zany😂

Ngl the baby one her being 2 weeks pregnant without even needing to work should mean the husband should start helping around

Amazing video

With the first story, the OP can't in any way be a jerk for simply using his rights! This goes for any of you looking to rightfully return money. Customers are very protected by laws, I can tell you that much but the thing is, services will go out of their way not to educate you about your rights. You had every right, OP! Please consult your national gazette or official websites if you want to find out whether you're liable for legal protection!

Story1..I have also had a misfortune of having to deal with ups…I learned to put insurance higher than what worth.last they lost my packed and don’t care after they lost my .laptop. I don’t get the worth of the laptop the reasoning is that,I don’t put enough insurance. This time I send worthless stuff and put the top limit of their ups insurance…sure enough they lost again and this time they pay full. I don’t really to this cuz I feel sorry for the staff that work there but at the seem time I feel it serve the company right .

Bro, sounds like angry Cleveland Brown

Why is it the postal service always try to say that nothing went wrong. I had to call Newegg for the laptop I use today back when I first bought it because there was a military base near my house and the computer was sent there. I was so annoyed. Luckily I didn't have to go as far as the owner of their computer but I managed to get my computer no problem after calling. Story 2: she's not a jerk and she doesn't need the abortion. Just get the hell out of the relationship and if need be restrict access to the dad. She's fine and not a jerk. Story 3 she is the jerk. Because the RATS is a bad representation in this case.

Well, with the second story, I do get where he is coming from. I too think that if one partner works, no matter which one, and the other partner does not work, it becomes their responsibility to take care of the household. If my wife worked full time while I sat around at home all day, I could be expected to not just watch movies and play games all day, but to at least contribute by doing the chores. The problem with this story however is that he feels she also has to do all that even when she's sick or late in her pregnancy. Oh? Does HE go into work when he's sick too? Division of chores aside, you always have a duty to take care of your significant other. Even if it's her job to cook, clean and stuff, when she's feeling unwell she needs assistance and she should get it.

How do I get one of my stories on here, I have a few.

Story 1: The system was designed to be as painful as possible for the peasant. It's so when the other peasants see what happens, they will give up before trying. The finance guy was probably responsible for the policy.

It takes two to make a baby and raise a family. Time for the caveman is over

UPS sucks! i watched a driver walk up to my door leave a sorry you weren't home note and bounce.... this isn't the first of this experience, and have many others with customer service

bro shopee that online shop from the phil tho can be damaged but ups is worst 😂

I literally didn't get the gay rat joke in the 3rd story until he said it was arthur. I knew they made a gay episode but didn't think it got a meme. I also didn't watch arthur that much anymore since I'm older now.

tbh i don’t think the it was that one bride meant to be homophobic but it was pretty inconsistent and the girl in the last story did nothing wrong and i don’t remember the first story

i love seeing ups get screwed over like this i worked their for five years the union treated me like garbage and the supervisors treated me like garbage hence why packages get damage no one care about packages and why they get damaged cause how the employees get treated this op was not the jerk

#2: lazy husband

For Story #2: I live with my Brother and he works but he has chores to do on the weekend but he never does them and I get chewed out if I don’t do my chores. He actually made a comment to me a few weeks ago saying The Only reason You’re living with me is to maintain the house. My mom and I were furious. We told him that’s not the reason I was living with him. (For context before I moved in with my brother full time our house was broken into and our original PS4 was broken. So I moved in full time to serve as an extra security measure.)

It’s UPS, tf what was gonna happen to your package

You've grown a lot

I listen to this while playing riders republic lol

1st one, fight the power that be!

One thing changes when you're pregnant: EVERYthing

For the second story don’t get the abortion but leave them and try and raise the baby with siblings help or your parents help

broke bandokay’s Macbook

Story 2: minus the abortion, I completely agree with the commenter.

14:30. I love the karma in this story.

I’m waiting for a call from Canada post because they lost a big box a whole radiator now I’m waiting for a call from the supervisor 🙄

I think for the second story i understand how the husband felt but being a mother is alot and its the husbands kid to he doesn't have to do everything but he can still help

2:00 if you’re from tiktok

What vid is part 2?

Yeah maybe not a good idea to try and outshine the wedding party. It's not about you

"THEY'RE PENATRATING THE BRUROCRACY!"

She's right, should have dug a little deeper❤

L for not posting part two on tiktok

No abortion, just divorce jake. (Second story)

What game is this 😂

What game you play?

For 2 dump him but keep the baby if u want and find a guy who’ll treat u right

I understand completely , I am going through the same thing but more involved. Some friends, now passed, Son has stolen me blind after my husband passed away and I have no living relatives To help me and the police have done nothing. He stole my truck , everything from my rent house and house we lived in because I had a stroke after my husbands death , it is so complicated I wish you luck and you are right in everything you did. You are not a jerk. I wish I Had you to guide me.

Ups insurance is shady as hell just stick with fedex or DHL they rarely contest claims

You would not believe how many books have been bent in the mail and USPS is worse they shove big books into my mailbox and ruin them! It drives me nuts! And they are brand new books ruined it is very annoying def not the jerk

run.

Run

clearly jake is a top part of the phallus!

Saving money? Never heard of it since I make $15 an hour and support a household basically by myself.

Story 2 - she have mostly the chances of getting harassed by that so called hard working father jake after the birth of the baby cause having a child in a house is the responsibility of both the parents EQUALLY as the decision was made and approved by both the parents. If he thinks that woking and earning for family is the only thing he has to do for a family then he is a total JERK and wrong with thus mentality. The reply which said that the OP should have an abortion and divorce asap is totally right i will be with this decision if i was in her place. A family is called a family if every member is doing their part and have a child means the father have more responsibility towards the mother and child. In pregnancy the woman should not do heavy work everyday and that's what that jerk jake wants. I want to throw a dirty shoe straight on his face

Hi I would have maybe did the Same as the OP in the last story

4:47 so her husband is the guy from family guy?

What game are you playing

The op in the lazy husband. I am not saying this to put op down in am trying to wake her up to look at her life and save herself Op you aren't a dog so stop letting people treat you like one. Your husband has a well trained

What did you expect from ups

No

8:40 first of all run second not a jerk cause its jus common sense

I get that every relationship is diferent and if the whole one spouse stays home and cooks clean wither thats the husband or wife doesnt matter but when your wife is pregnant she is going to need help atleast while she is pregnant and for a bit after baby is born while she recovers

Can someone tell me what UPS is? I'm not a native speaker and I don't believe in Google (it said Uninterruptible Power Supply)

What game is this!!!

What's that game?

Story #1: Perfect. No fault. Story #2: Run. Lady, just... Run. Keep the baby if you want a baby, don't keep the baby if you do not, but get the fuck out of that man-child stuck in the 30s. Story #3: Too many wrong things about this. Not engaging. You did good, buddy. Story #4: Yeah. Bad idea to take anyone for granted. I never stayed anywhere without a job or working my ass off to get a new one.

What’s that game called

Durring the lock down ups stole my brand new phone that was sposen to arrive and I never got it lucky my data provided xfinity mobile gave me a full refund

The meme dress, I respect 🏳️‍🌈 because a relative of mine and two of my friends are 🏳️‍🌈 and I take this as an offence. And it is possible she wants attention like the mother taking a number two in the wedding which is a story in this channel

The one about the gay rat dress. Yes, I would let her wear it, but there would be 0 photos of her (not with other family, not with me, not even her alone) from the photos I would make it look that she didn't come

I'm Gay and Proud LGBTQIA+ for life I'm happy and Proud 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

Personally I pretty much did what she did to my nephew try to help that kid more than I could ever think and he just cut crapping on me left and right so needless to say I threw his ass out of my house or should I say my apartment I got tired of being used that's the thing you can only use the person for so long and then they start hating your guts in the longer it goes on the more the hate grows but don't worry your aunt's going to get a full taste of your brother and then call her up and say how do you like him now feel like helping him anymore and I don't care if your brothers are rocket scientist he's a lazy prick

Story 3. Wtf ia wrong with her??

Nope not at all

What is the "c word"?

I worked at UPS in smalls and honestly it may not have been the employees, don't get me wrong, things are thrown, tossed, kicked... etc. BUT there are HEAVIER and bigger boxes that get dropped on top of smaller ones. People send shoe box sized items weighing 50lbs. And if that comes down the belt or slide with your laptop or cards, trust me, it's likely to be fucked 😂😂😂 🤷🏾‍♀️ not saying it's right but just something to consider.

hello so my opinion is let your girlfriend wear whatever she wants to the wedding and honestly, people are way too sensitive these days and honestly, if gays can't have fun then screw them and in all honesty, never mess with your girlfriend after all she'll be fun for your best friend for the next few years if you understand me and in all honesty the gay communitys lately more of a sect than really a community I mean how many youtube videos are there of gays and lesbians et cetera saying straights are monsters gay men are monsters bisexuals are freaks and shouldn't belong to our community etc and just to let you know i have nothing against the gay community if it really is a community and not just a bunch of freaks telling other people what to do want to do how to interact with them

Sorry but dont you hear yourself talking or understand what you read? He said he sent the fb posts and the video his gf recorded to his lawyer, and still at the end you say you dont think his gf actually recorded anything?

S3: OP is NTA. Girlfriend is a bitch for wanting attention on herself rather than on the wedding. So glad OP broke up with her.

Second story, the man had a good point but it was executed poorly. If he works full time at work I feel it’s her responsibility as a unemployed parter not having maternity leave to at least take care of the home as seen in most traditional style relationships. The lights part however was extremely petty on his part.

The girl sounds more like a v********* genius to me and besides I would have done the exact same thing I mean, the aunt said herself that the family takes care of each other and then she should do it

This is not really a important story its just i feel so targeted in this situation my story ;-; : it was when it was Christmas 2022 and i have a cousin that is very annoying especially at the age of 15 my little sister and my cousin was targeted so much in the situation my uncle gave all the grand kids and niece some money and most of the grand kids got 100 grand but my cousin which was the sibling of the mother of the niece also got 100 and thought the niece had 100 too my sister was always close to the niece so she would take care of her and my little sister is also close to the cousin so they 3 after they got there presents went to the room to open the gifts and the money packets sooner or later my niece money got missing and everyone were trying to find the packet they found it at the end of the party but when they opened it they found nothing so as soon as that happened in the cousin group chat they were saying my sister and cousin stole the money and tried to steal a lot more things as well the niece was crying they said and me and my sister never really liked that cousin but soon after that was the last straw for us not even our mom likes her moral of this story :D : Don't accused so sudden ;-; if any family members see this hehe

[Story 1] I say he needs to help out more but if she gits a devoirs still let the baby have at chance life.

whats the c word