Victim mentality is holding you back

Victim mentality is holding you back | Cafe Qahwa

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Salam alaikum my lovies :) A lot of you asked me to just sit down in front of the camera and do a chit chat style video like I do on Tiktok so I obliged! This is a topic that has been on my mind lately as I am currently on my Islamic self-improvement journey and assessing what is holding me back. Hope you like it, please leave a comment on what I should talk about in the future on this channel :)
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Victim mindset
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@mibbyk1636 22 күн бұрын

Salam, Khanom. I listened to your video while I was painting. Masha’Allah you got your message across beautifully and it really resonated with me in regards to what I’m going through at the moment. Jazak’Allah. Your words were from Allah for me to hear. I pray Allah fills your life with Imman and happiness. I wish I had Muslimah friends like you in my life, so that we could encourage each other and grow together in our deen. ❤️

@fries1609 3 күн бұрын

Something else I thought about when you said human beings don't realize that they're in control of their own actions is how when we commit a sin, some of us will justify it by saying that "I just have low iman right now" or "it's so hard not to do this because it's so normalized". Yes, you are valid for feeling that way and yes, you're iman will be low sometimes but don't take that as an excuse to sin. This is something that I need to work on insha'Allah.

@hana.xplorz_GB 22 күн бұрын

I really needed this. I don't know why I went through what u did. Everyday I ask Allah to be able to relive my youth again b4 marriage.

@hana.xplorz_GB 22 күн бұрын

Im the scapegoat. The narcissits in my family have made me a scapegoat.

@rani1835 21 күн бұрын

Sorry you’re going through this. Please feel your feelings, process them, and begin to set goals and make a plan to improve your life so you’re no longer stuck with these people. Boundary work is essential.

@purr3568 8 күн бұрын

Please keep making more vids!!

@iqralala6244 11 күн бұрын

Sister, thank you for posting here. I benefit from your wisdom. Ever since i deleted tiktok, i missed all your beneficial knowledge. Love thissss, please dont stop posting ❤❤🎉

@rani1835 21 күн бұрын

I love to hear your Islamic reflections. You share some excellent advice here. May Allah SWT increase you in every good in the duniya and akhira 🤲🏽🌹

@SS-qi3ck 21 күн бұрын

Truly appreciate your videos

@SS-qi3ck 21 күн бұрын

May Allah swt grant you the best in this world and the hereafter

@Rs-cz6pj 12 күн бұрын

Allahumma barik you are really gorgeous sis inside and out ❤️ Whenever I watch your videos I feel like you are directly speaking to me. You are really good at explaining difficult concepts in simple words. I would love to see more videos on negativity/shaytan and our nafs.

@KhanomQahwa 9 күн бұрын

Jazak allahu khairan my dear sis, I am so happy Allah SWT has allowed our paths to cross 🥹🩷

@ariesvaries7903 10 күн бұрын

You are doing great, keep going 👍👍

@muhammadabid7327 10 күн бұрын

Very nice video

@jojomeeescreen8704 21 күн бұрын

❤❤❤

@Muslimahvlogss. 21 күн бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤

@hoopukhti 10 күн бұрын

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبر كاته

@hoopukhti 10 күн бұрын

Hope ur aware that posting yourself is not permissible and beautifying yourself for the public, you can still give dawah and help other Muslims out without having the need to post yourself. May الله bless you and your family امين