I think it's disgusting that you show this innocent man's face, considering his mortality status.

That babe crap is disgusting

Well she's the forbidden fruit 🍑

I look at the differences between those around my age and the younger ones at work where the younger ones are clueless at certain references/jokes us older ones get and vice versa and wonder how do these older women think it's going to work out with these younger guys. After a certain point both sides are going to get tired of explaining references and have different energy levels.

That’s what happens when your head is in the clouds

I wish I had this woman's confidence

😂 exactly

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

She was under the impression he was Dutch lol. As a Dutch person, that amused me lol.

Exactly, they always are like “he seems to have a European accent, I’m very good with discerning accents usually “ when it’s always a strong African voice 😹

🤣🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂

She's so full of herself

She can pull any young guy lol. This woman is crazy.

Lol same here! Poor deluded woman

Exactly!!

For sure! That crap where they kind of give them the ol’ “this could happen to anybody, these people are very good at what they do”?? Leaving out the part where the thing that these scammers are *actually* good at is zeroing in on the “correct people” to pull this on.

@larrylarry6362 Many of the "victims" are detestable, lecherous, cheaters, that have no respect for their mates.

shows just how profational they are, at the end of the day they are their clients

@@bkghjiright! Most of these people are at a place where they’re very fragile. I mean, if you watch these videos often you’d see that’s the case. They’ve lost a ton of money and were duped. How is laying that on them on video for everyone to see helping anyone? They’re very professional in what they do for sure.

If they are asking for money, that's all the red flag u need. They all scammers.

The real question I am trying to wrap about my head around is, “How you can be *engaged* with someone you don’t see in person?

even if you told every one of the ~8billion people, there'd still be a bunch that think, 'well this one seems like the real one because they like me'

Their generation didn't grow up with phones and internet.

Uneducated

I’m trying to wrap my head around that too..😂😂 like how would anybody even have access to be able to purchase gold bars?😂😂😂

She actually called herself the "unforbidden fruit" which makes it even funnier 😹

@@dovegoddess1100😂😂😂

So why is she here?

Dried and dead fruit

@@dovegoddess1100I was wondering if someone was going to point out that small fact!!!! 😂

Ego. Hubris. Delusional...😮

And audacity.

Conceit and greed.

And...NO MIRROR IN THE HOUSE 😂😂😂😂😂🎉

They must have magic mirrors that show them something different that what we all can see too.

Rite😂😂😂

That's some next level denial 😂😂😂

There’s a mental disconnect 😂

smdh

🤷

Right!

What floors me is that she watches these Catfish videos all the time, and still can't recognize an obvious, blatant scammer? Dozens of them when you count all of scammer friend requests she's getting!

@@dancingfirefly7761 That got me too. Yet, after admitting that she has watched several ScamFish episodes she still plays along with the scammer. And after "he" goes to the 2nd level (I'm really Nigerian, boo-hoo, but I love you anyway) she still continues with "him." Laughing about it the whole time, and asking the egotistical question, "Why me?" It's nothing personal--you are just another name on social media.

“Precious heart”😂😂 Good God, these people.

@@dancingfirefly7761 They are probably from the same scammer.

100%

​@@SueRosaliethat's what I thought too

Correct!​@@SueRosalie

Don't feel bad. She doesn't 😊

@@kifacorea that’s true. The mean part of me finds it hilarious

😂😂😂

😂😂😂😂He's not that imaginative!😅😅😅

Yeah, it's SO hilarious when they ask if they ate today, LOLOL!!

I know, but he more than made up for it with his sensitivity (using cry emojis a lot).

He works with gems or not coin.

😂😂😂

😂😂

She's tripping. I wonder if she has something like body dysmorphia, where she sees the younger version of herself.

😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅

This lady is delulu!

lol !

😂😂😂

💀

Exactly

Yep 🙄

TBF he was probably using data.

😂😂😂😂

ikr

and at least what you see is what you get

😂😂😂

😅

wsrtwetr, your comment is brilliant and you are totally right.

😂 fr

Yep

Lol. When I went on line in my 50s, I was being targeted by men in their 70s. I've dated younger since I was 25 because they ask me out in real life. But it's because I look younger. I've always felt uncomfortable around men who look like he's my father next to me because people glare at me - presumably they think I'm a gold digger, which I'm not. I've had friends assume female friends my own age were my mother. Having said that, if i met a man suited to my temperament & I my interests, I don't care what age- except I doubt I'd date anyone over 20 years or so younger- because it just seems too ridiculous.

Mam, you cannot be serious! I promise you, you do not look younger than your age no matter how much you believe it. You are just used to your own reflection in the mirror and you have not noticed yourself aging because you see yourself every single day. People you hang out with every day also do not notice you aging gradually. But folks you went go high-school with or worked with at some point in the past can see that you’ve aged. Strangers also can see that you’re no young spring chicken. It’s obvious. See, this way of deluding yourself that as a granny you’re still a youthful-looking girl, is what gets most of these catfished victims into scams. Also, I’m much younger than you and I consider men in their 70s the only appropriate age for me to date. Men who are my age are out there chasing 17-year olds. When I hit 50, if I still haven’t connected with anyone by then, it is 100% over for me at that point in terms of dating. Not a lot of 80 year old men running around looking for a girlfriend. The majority of them are dead and the alive ones are in senior living facilities wearing a diaper, being fed meds for prostate issues, and dementia.

She looks a lot older than 61.

Lol, exactly! At that age, there are no men left in the dating pool that look like your daddy. Unless you're the rare exception of being a woman who actually looks 50 or younger.- and these women are not o nline getting excited about flattery from fake younger men.

😂😂😂😂😂

They’re real!😂

😂😂😂😂😂😂

WHERE AT THE TRUCKSTOP???👀👀👀👀

Or Burger King? 😮​@@ybshadyii4375

She’s on the “ The Sucker List”

If this was true, youd be with local men to date.

😂😂😂 if nobody else thinks it self positivity lol

That's the part that's got me dead.💀🤣

She actually said UNforbidden fruit which makes no sense. Lol

"unforbidden" That was hilarious.

Scammer logic. One million dollars cash in the briefcase and it never occurred to them to take 5000 dollars out to buy that plane ticket.

Maybe WIFI is really expensive in the Netherlands?😅

😂ryte

​@@Arctic_DudeI spent a month in Holland and I can confirm, WiFi is expensive. And women are just big beautiful, tall mommies.

Desperation

@Joetherose9062

Thanks for having my back without realizing it! I tracked this type of people for 40 years in my job. I’m retired but was just reinstated and I have Located and turned over 54 assailants, with your support, I’ll make that number Soar!

The person that is asking for your support is a scammer. Ria Wright. I tried to send a notification.

whats even sadder is why do I watch these ? Its just unreal people are like this and they vote

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Confidence? More like delusional and narcissistic

You have a nice picture.

I’ll be 61 in a few months and I have no interest in a younger man. Especially not one young enough to be my son.

It aint confidence, it's delusion.

I'm actually 61 I consider myself pretty attractive for my age. Ya know, slim, nicely turned out BUT I know that some young buff guy is absolutely NOT going to be interested in me. I'm certain that all these guys that she claims are after her, are just scammers (maybe the same one she's talking to 😅) Yeah, nah. Young hot buff guys are not interested in us old ladies 😂

Hahahahaha 😂what a trip

She craves attention. Sad.

Probably unresolved trauma, when drama tastes so sweet.

More like a minus 5

She looks like she smells like depression and stale cigarettes and bad breath

Bored and overweight...

And make sure they're emotionally stunted. The fact that she thinks it's normal to hang up on someone and give the silent treatment....wow.

There is always an excuse as to why they can’t sell their gold bars. Let me think oh yeah, all their accounts are frozen.😅

The “gold bar scam” is always hilarious! How many people actually have gold bars just sitting at home? I can see gold coins. I actually know people who have quite a collection of gold coins…but BARS? Plus, it’s not just 1 bar, it’s between 8-10! 🙄

@@emirom2. The gold bar scam is one of the better ones but my fave was one I watched recently. This old dude fell for the photo of a young, hot chick that lives in some other country😱. She says she’s due to come into a multimillion dollar inheritance from her deceased father BUT…. she has to be married first to get the $$$$$. He fell for it and kept sending $$$ to get his dream woman home so they could marry but…strangely enough, there was always some issue getting her on a flight! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Get out of here with that logic and critical thinking!

cause people are stupid... im seriously thinking about starting this as a job, sounds like a good pay...

So she wants them around 28 years old which is young enough to be her son.

I know 28 is a adult Man but still...it comes off as predatory. At the very least creepy!

@@SonjaElizabethTeal i dunno. When i was 26 i “dated” my grandma’s younger sister - who was 63 at the time - for about two years. It didnt seem creepy or predatory or wrong. I guess it was my great aunt, so maybe someone would have an issue with that. It wasnt really much of a relationship actually, it was mostly just a physical thing whenever i was visiting my grandma. Anyway, some good memories …

So they're probably busy trying to find some buff 28 year old dude amongst the scam team or their friends who is willing to be the face of her boyfriend and even go to the US!

Very creepy and questionable .. a 61 year old woman liking men young enough to be her grandson !!

I just spit out my tea!!😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

Barry Gibb and General James Dickerson needed dates so Johnny couldn't compete with the competition.

He is in the Carrabian scamfishing a young hot blond.

He needs 10,000 dollars because he hasn't eaten. 🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂😂😂

I could tell that in a heartbeat that he was Nigerian, lol

Three?😅😅😅

You're far too generous 😂😂😂😂. 1 & done

I heard it before I heard it. 😂 We already knew.

Maybe even less... 😂

... Well no shit

That's one of the reasons I mainly just laugh at these now- they are so entirely illogical and devoid of any common sense. When I went online dating it was actually HARDER to make connections because you are valued LESS because there are dozens of other desperate women waiting to be picked. Men treat it like a smorgasbord. When I first started, I got one buff 27 year old interested but I just figured it was a mistake & pointless - as I was 50s - I mean come on, you don't even need to have heard of romance scams, to work out that's a time waster & something is not right with it.

@@elipotter369 I feel so gaslit when watching these people go through how they got scammed and I'm like "am I a frkn genius?!" I know I'm not and I know the majority of people would not fall for it, but then these people look like normal members of society, some are even moderately wealthy, and yet they fall for the most obvious and transparent of lies...

They all know . Their friends and family tell them that it’s a scam. They don’t want to listen .

These people want to pay for attention and flattery, do not prove anything to them! An ex friend of mine being a fat and rather unattractive elderly woman was approached on Skype by a picture /of an American general who was besotted with her picture/when I tried to put some sense into her ,the answer was- I want to believe him!

Exactly

Well said

In that case let her spend the little money she has

Loneliness is a real epidemic in this connected yet disconnected society.

Right! I’m like sis travel if you so bored….or read a book but don’t fall for this nonsense

@@La_Ru-yg8es It is and there are so many who complain about it yet won't do anything to fix the issue. I know an elderly widower who complains about this and how badly he wants irl interactions when people respond to his posts about being lonely. I suggested setting up brunch and inviting everyone from the thread who is in our area. He eventually replied that he wasn't ready for face-to-face interactions like that🤦‍♀️

Says she is forbidden fruit. 😂😂😂 her fruit was ripe decades ago.

I know right. I spit out my coffee. 😂

She's wild for that

Yes- she's forbidden fruit. 😂😂😂

The delusion is strong in this one.

A lots of the scam targets watch Catfished yet they still fall for a scam. So warning people of the possibility of a romance scam doesn’t seem to work for some people even before they ever encounter a scammer. These are people who believe in fairytales at their old age.

Watching Catfished is her “unforbidden fruit”😂 How one can watch these videos and still fall for this shows just how “smart” they truly are🤦🏻‍♂️

😂😂😭💀

WHAT ??? Unbelievable.. No comment...

Maybe she thinks it’s a dating service showing her hot eligible bachelors

❤

😂😂😂

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😅😂🤣🤪

😂😂😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂

She still didn't completely miss the mark: She said she wasn't one to send money but yet has sent thousands in gift cards

And that she has no problems with getting younger men when all she seems to be communicating with are scammers.

Yet being self-aware still does not help her at all. While admitting your problem is the first step, it should not stop there...but she has applied the brakes on full.

I think her saying she was crazy was like other women saying 'I'm not like other girls'. It's like she's flexing

She's paying to yell at him and feel superior. He's doing a service for everyone around her.

Lol yea literally.

EXACTLY, I want to see those guys high five themselves and laugh at all these people sending them money

No cure for stupid

Yeah it's weird as hell that she was making fun of him and calling him a baby. She was being cruel for no reason.

He is happy in heaven

@user Yes, that is so sad. But it seemed to me that Carmen didn’t pay much attention to that fact. Sad!

That was the saddest part of this story😢

Yeah totally sick

Maybe he can send a photo of himself with his wife & kids.

And they usually target gay men when they steal photos

You're assuming scammers have *ANY* morals.

​@@CarnivoreStork😂😂😂😂

How is it refreshing?

lol

I speak English and am having a hard time understanding her!

I can't understand a thing he said

What is there to understand? 😮

She said she doesn’t know many foreign languages- 😮

You’re cute

Their nostrils are irresistible to handsome young men! How could you possibly not know that??😂

@Kimthulu BEST COMMENT ON HERE!! LOL LOL LOL

Lol! That annoys me too! Look, I'm an old lady, but before I set up my camera to talk to people online, I watched a 30 minute KZfaq video on how to present for the camera- so therefore thankfully I don't look like a fool! What is wrong with these people? I mean it's not as if you even need a how to video to work out the camera should be at face level pointing at you horizontally. There were quite a lot of people who had a ceiling fan whirling above them, looking like they were wearing it - highly appropriate for the lalaland headspace they are in!

they suck at technology which is part of the problem

Many people have gone to the cemetery and stolen dead peoples identity .

Omg hilarious!! 😂

😂😂😂

Possibly a fruit cake!

Her application to Mensa is still under review.

@@xenophobiac4570 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@xenophobiac4570 Funniest comment of the day 🤣😅😂

Loneliness is a helluva drug😂

That's what actual racists do.

That is such a good observation! Wow. 😅 💃🏽- me literally sweating profusely from dancing at this very moment

Totally. She seems completely away in fantasy land - her whole world of emojis=real and scammers with photos of young men = young men coming on to her in hordes.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

😂 - me literally laughing so much I am crying. 🩻 - me getting my X-ray. That's the actual X-ray too. They took a tiny little photo.

@@koobie83 haha

The hardest thing you will ever do in this life is make a stupid person realize how stupid they actually are.

@@Lucky138able that’s why I don’t do stupid🙄

​@@RiaWright-oe5fq for now

That part was super weird.

Exactly that is why it does not work as a warning to others. They all think that they are the exception to the rule. They think others are stupid but not themselves.

You can't reason with people like that, they think they're so smart, when they're only delusional.

Letting us know about her booty calls while giggling is really grotesque. She just lost money and years to this team of scammers and laughs like a middle school girls being asked to her first party.

I doubt I was this immature even as a teenager.

even worse they get angry at the banks who refuse to refund their money. It's not the same thing as having your credit card stolen or your account hacked.

No men even want pretty women most are corn addicts lol they ignore pretty women nowadays

They are easily swayed and will fall for anything that fulfills their fantasy, including a political candidate or platform.

😂😂😂😂😂

I’m not sending you money I’m sending something better …,prayers.

There aren't any jobs in Nigeria Einstein. Otherwise people wouldn't do this crap.

@@breathnstop Irony of insulting someone's intelligence while saying other jobs don't exist in a country lol

​@@breathnstopPerhaps the energy that they use to scam people should instead be used to build a local business, like law-abiding Nigerians do.

Still never sent a pic or facetime.

Lol

And still asked for money!!@@FreeRadicals305

Her life must feel very boring to her.

You’re cute

Some people really do only need a second of judgement before you can confirm stupid.

@@RedPilledFit I hope you are speaking of Chantal. LOL

@@paulahunt3508 I am, she’s cute.

@@RedPilledFitnot today Rajeev

Good point! It IS scary🙈

definitely a trump supporter

That’s why we got trump

Yep, voting for the 🍊 man

Now I understand how Trump got in.

By scammers, no doubt. Probably the same one--he kept trying until he found a profile she'd respond to. I could probably get asked out by scammers several times a week if I wanted. Real people--not so much.

Maybe no mirror in her house!

She's a ridiculous liar and a fool

She is very delusional

I think so.

Omg 🏆 rings true

Great point

ohhhh YEAP, some people are dysfunctional and seem to enjoy the dysfunction

@@Bailemos888 Agree. Really stood out to me when she was repeating the things he was saying to her using a mocking voice. He should be the one running, lol.

She's totally away with the pixies and doesn't realise her behaviour is way off. When she talks about him crying, she's talking about they crying emoji it seems.

Run faster tho if it’s gold bars 😂

At that point for many women is already too late, they are deep in the fantasy

​..exactly

@@AllThingsUnderTheSun Even faster when the billionaire lover is stranded abroad with no money to buy food😩

Run fast. Now. 😅

I was shocked! Actually shocked

Same here. Hahahaha

He’s an angel! They all are ❤

Abnormal psychology 😅

There are alot of stange people out there....

Yeah it’s proof that people will reject real life for drama and fantasy

It is fun

Yes! 😂

That’s horrible. I’m sorry you have to go through that. That is heartbreaking.

I'm so sorry. Hope you contact Catfished, it would be interesting to hear your story, and hopefully get him to realize that it's some Nigerian guys he's been talking and sending giftcards to, not some 29 year old model.

I’m sorry ❤️

Probably a 30 year old guy!