Native and queer here!!!! 🏳️‍🌈

Sometimes they do though... I've heard a lot of stories online. Turns out such people are bisexual and think everyone just chooses to be straight. Makes me wonder sometimes how many of the people who say that are actually bisexual but most won't admit to it. "I mean everyone is attracted to both men and women, most people just choose to be straight. I chose to be straight and married your mother, why can't you just choose to be straight like the rest of us?"

Did you also learn this the other day from Nicole, Abby, and Morgan? Because I did xD

@@AndersWatches ......maybe....

Yeah and I think the Queen Victoria rumor has been debunked as well. Jessica sounded like she believed it... I know this is infotainment but still, people watch it thinking they're learning.

I was looking for this in the comments! I'd have hated those short dresses in the 1830s, what an unappealing breeze around the ankles

@@stellangios Wait really? Do you have somewhere I could read about that, I'd be curious to learn more!

Appreciate you, and they're already up, too,boo.💜🌈💜 Extra love for Claudia & Lil Rupert Roo.🤘😘🔥

If we don't stop those fascists in power then we will end up in prison like that again.

Hey Jessica, thank you for your videos! I’m a new subscriber and am loving learning new things. I was wondering if there is somewhere I can find your sources (for my own research 😄)

Having singing in the background is really really distracting. I spent a lot of the video feeling like someone had left a radio on in the next room, my brain trying to understand what the singer was saying even as it also tried to parse Jessica's voice. Really made it hard to focus

I always love it! You are one of my few sources of factual information on the interwebs. Thank you! ❤️🙏🏳️‍🌈

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Yes, scary times in the USA indeed! Justice Thomas flat out said that taking away same-sex marriage is on their agenda!

@@PhoebeFayRuthLouise it is so upsetting!

It is sad to see America going backwards due to stereotypical old male thinking. They really need to rethink the set up of the Supreme Court.

I feel sorry for you. Your situation really sucks, but I hope you can turn it around.

I am watching it. I started recently and am still trying to firm up her personality. It seems to me that she is more fragile than she wants to admit.

Being upper class and owning a lot of land probable also helps quite much. Looking forward to watch season 2 ;)

@@cindyfrye3026 i think thats because he Show is trying to shy away from making her unlikabke. Which gets really hard If you read her diaries and biographies based upon it. Anne Lister was a badass, fascinating and a Stork of a person. She was also incredibly sexist, constantly cheating on her Partner (and im not even talking about the Timeline of the Show). When women were smart or interested in science, she was turned Off by them being unnatural (which... Interesting) and when they called her Out on her serial cheating, she would Gaslight the Heck Out of them. The Show has the events, because theyre described in her diaries, but they need to try to make her nice about it. So even when shes horrible, they need to Go Out of their way to Show her agonizing over it. I think a Lot of why her character in the Show feels weird comes down to that. Personally, i would Like to them Go "Well, she was Kind of terrible to everyone around her, lets lean into that". But i dont need my characters to be likable to find them fascinating and i understand why they didnt dare do that in a BBC show with a queer Main character.

@@annabeinglazy5580 That makes a lot of sense. She is like hot and cold faucets. I think how she treats her sister is the worst. Mine would knock me into next week if I tried that with her. LOL

@@annabeinglazy5580 can’t possibly have read more than one book

Are you Ukrainian?

I'm sending good wishes for safety and peace!

Same! I'm an agender lesbian, but I also kinda feel like lesbian *is* my gender

Glad I wasn't the only one. 😅 had to keep rewinding to try and concentrate on what was being said. 😬

Yes. Because the music included lyrics, I found myself hearing both the underlying words of the background music AND what Jessica was saying, simultaneously. Music WITHOUT words, purely instrumental, wouldn't have given me any trouble.

Same here. I don't like background noise or music but I can usually tune it out, but not on this video. It was most distracting.

Personally it didn't bother me (a fellow autistic and I guess also ADHD person (though my ADHD and ODD were just grouped into *autism* during the diagnosis)) But it could be because I had some uh auditory tests thing when I was younger (I have auditory processing disorder*) There are also captions in the video or at least now there are The edit is just because I remembered the name of the disorder ha

Really you don’t have to, sort of apologetically, name a reason: it’s distracting, period. Same as in most movies nowadays.

Audrey, are you familiar with Peter Monn and Alex Paredes? They live in Carmel; Peter has 5 or 6 YT channels. Awesome humans!!

@@sandiegopc1904 I'll have to look them up. I have a friend who lives near Carmel! I go through there all the time. Be cool to see local people. Local.... LOL it's indiana, if you're in the state, you're local.

the Marquis was a thug & bully - generally not liked. He was Bosie's father and frankly meeting the very selfish Bosie was one of the great misfortunes of Wilde's life. Bosie was the epitome of a useless aristocrat who despised his father & pulled Wilde into the very public spat with Queensbury that eventuated in Wilde's unsuccessful defamation case, outing & imprisonment with hard labour.

Yes I kept pausing the video trying to figure out where it was coming from 😅🤣

Same here. I thought it was just me

Same. So hard to focus! My brain always shorts out when two dialogs are going at once, trying to understand both at the same time. I almost quit watching and I'm sure I missed a few words...

Just be prepared that it will be tough history to learn.

WELL THEN WHAT'S THE POINT??

@@lois7956 Indeed! Separate Patreon to enable Jessica to build a collection of smart, chic, cute top hats! Who's in?

The evidence of mass graves surely broadcasts that truth.

My late husband was Native Shawnee and called it Boarding School, and called himself the last of the boarding school generation in his family.

@@leslieholland7843 I have heard the children who went to those schools call themselves survivors which really is a statement in and of itself!

@@leslieholland7843 perhaps it is more so in Canada, they are never called boarding schools here.

Two-Spirit is specifically from Native American Cultures. These are not Indigenous People. Other cultures have their own traditions and words for LGBT people.

@@BaraJFDA but I was actually talking about the native pictures, that two names mentioned :) Native culture was the one that caught my attention during the video, that's why I gave specifically this compliment

@@annaclarabueno 6:35 you're right, my mistake. This needs a time stamp. I didn't expect that she actually include Indigenous Two-Spirit History in this discussion. I've gotten tired of Non-Native people appropriating words and traditions that are not their own. We already have LGBTIQA words which have only been used for around 200 years now in the West and they're meant to be used for everyone. Two-Spirit however is for Indigenous People alone because their history is far older. But their cultures were forcibly stolen, erased, and banned under threat of death by the colonial states and the church. I'm glad she talk about that most importantly. Over 150 unique First Nations historically were more welcoming to their Two-Spirit kin. In the Apache Nation, their third gender role is Ndeʻisdzan. And among the Zuni Nation, they have third and fourth gender roles: Lhamana and Katotse. Weʻwha herself was Lhamana.

@@BaraJFDA Thank you for all these extra informations! I'll for sure search more about the Ndeʻisdzans, Lhamanas and Katotses. And honestly, I really understand the reason why you feel uncomfortable, cause use this two-spirit" concept word when you're non-native american is completely out of mind, that's real appropriation and you did a great job talking to me and just making sure that people were using this name to mention something historically correct. Enough of erasing our global native cultures, right? Nowadays this is a topic that is more than necessary in my country (Brazil). but politicians and activists that defend the native-brazilian cause are being killed lately, so even these people's stories are hard to get on public. For everyone that's reading it, PLEASE, SPREAD THE INFO, BRAZIL KILLS NATIVES AND WHO PROTECT THEM DAILY, THAT'S NOT OKAY. #protectyanomamipeople

@@annaclarabueno Brazil killed Indigenous Two-Spirit people too. The first Two-Spirit Native person to be executed by the Brazilian colonial state was named Tibira do Maranhão. Tibira itself is a word for the third gender of the Tupinambá Tribe. The true name of the person is not known. Brazil just executed them in 1614.

Congratulations on graduation, and thank you so much for the lovely comment ❤️

just start taking the delta 8 gummies

@@jessicaoutofthecloset are you trying to convince the boys that they are girls; & the girls that they are boys ??

Congratulations

Thank you. I thought I was losing my mind. Instrumental only background music plzzz 🫣😵‍💫

Yeah, im really interested in that too.. I understand that there were libraries and research projects with several hundred years of studies that were completely destroyed by nazi powers seeking to breed the perfect humam

@@elspethfougere9683 Oh yeah. I dunno about “breeding the perfect human,” but the famous pics of Nazi book burnings are almost all photos of the burning of the library of the Institute of Sexuality (bad translation), a trove of studies on gay, lesbian, bisexual and trans people. Set gay studies back about 50-60 years and almost killed trans studies in its cradle.

Yes, in the Weimar Republic and the bohemian/Harlem New York renaissance and of course as always in Paris

I was wondering if anyone else heard this!

Yes, I also wondered, but I also thought it might be a bit insensitive to ask. Yet here I am commenting. 😩 She has a slightly lower tone. Still lovely!

@@marabanara “yet here I am commenting”, that totally made me laugh. 😁 We have all been there and can relate to you!

I didn‘t understand Jessica in a way of „oh, they were bad people“, but just describing the effects. To me it‘s clear that these sexologists were both part of a culture that already pathologized queer people and contributing to that themselves as well.

Was looking for someone else that noticed!

Quality knows quality.

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Yes! I searched for a copy of “The Well of Loneliness” forever when I was teenager. It was so hard to find! But it was literally the first book I heard of that wrote about lesbians.